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  • @tompinkerton8099
    @tompinkerton8099 Рік тому +737

    This woman is living on around $45,000 a year, has a paid for house, put her kids through college, and has 15-20 years to save for retirement with no monthly payments save for regular bills. She was embarrassed to ask the question, but she is actually doing amazing, particularly in her circumstances. Many people with far higher incomes and less life obstacles are in far worse situations. She should be proud of what she has accomplished.

    • @camus83489
      @camus83489 Рік тому +65

      she's probably doing better than 80% of america

    • @goldenlifelove7251
      @goldenlifelove7251 Рік тому +5

      I agree!

    • @gdc1231
      @gdc1231 Рік тому +11

      Couldn’t agree more!
      She has accomplished so much for her family after a lot of hardship AND as a social worker is making her part of the world a MUCH better place. She should be proud.
      She’ll be fine for her retirement following Dave’s advice especially since she has budgeted well while at the same time not making a lot in her lifetime - managing to live on a relatively modest income.
      She may also have the option of switching jobs and bumping up the salary even a bit and/or finding a place with a match. An extra $5-$10K will help a great deal.
      Nothing to be embarrassed about!

    • @delsmith8140
      @delsmith8140 Рік тому +3

      True, though she did mention her husband's life insurance, but not the amount. Also said something about getting his pension, not sure if now or later. Good job nonetheless.

    • @dialac1
      @dialac1 Рік тому +1

      I was thinking the same thing

  • @Sentimentalist0923
    @Sentimentalist0923 Рік тому +314

    I’m 56 and earn about 31K with a paid for home + about 3 months of savings. This advice gives me HOPE! Thank you!!

    • @Djd271
      @Djd271 Рік тому +5

      I’ll have a decent ira but no paid off hime

    • @kirushraveen8564
      @kirushraveen8564 Рік тому +8

      You will do amazing! Wishing you all the best!

    • @Sentimentalist0923
      @Sentimentalist0923 Рік тому

      @@kirushraveen8564 thank you❣️

    • @kvgolfa
      @kvgolfa 4 місяці тому +1

      It shouldn't. His strategy is totally insane and wrong.

    • @hufflepuff0953
      @hufflepuff0953 4 місяці тому +2

      @@kvgolfa why is that? im genuinely interested, thx

  • @cashcow4383
    @cashcow4383 Рік тому +91

    She has her home paid off and is a genuine mom, one that loves and cares. God bless her.

  • @joyt458
    @joyt458 Рік тому +150

    What an amazing mother. She lost her husband, put her kids first and paid for their home and their college, and was probably crying to herself worried about what she would do and wouldn’t dare put that on her kids. God bless her.

  • @fonebook
    @fonebook Рік тому +309

    A lot of parents expect their kids to take care of them financially later on. She puts her kids through college by herself, has no retirement and doesn't even consider her kids helping her out. Respect.

    • @fotochikyo
      @fotochikyo Рік тому +2

      Yes!

    • @devpav9880
      @devpav9880 Рік тому +34

      If her kids are successful professionals as a result of her sacrifices then it'd be absolutely heartless of them not to help her when she needs it.

    • @fonebook
      @fonebook Рік тому +27

      @@devpav9880 sure, the point is that she doesn't expect it.

    • @costco_pizza
      @costco_pizza Рік тому +2

      Its really hard for a lot of people. A lot of people are struggling out there. We are suffering and don't know where our next meal is coming from. Student loan relief and a proper UBI would go a long way to helping us all out. We could pay our bills and put food on the table.

    • @fotochikyo
      @fotochikyo Рік тому +10

      @@costco_pizza you serious right now? Where exactly is this universal basic income supposed to come from?! Do you realize our country is 33 TRILLION dollars in debt? You're going to have to get creative on ways to earn more income. If you indeed have a Costco card you better get rid of it, Costco is not affordable for low income folks.

  • @keithclark8030
    @keithclark8030 Рік тому +46

    I am proud of her. She has done better than she thought.

  • @bigh8121
    @bigh8121 Рік тому +273

    This lady has had many challenges but managed to put her kids through college. I have seen people at work lose it because they can't go to lunch on time.
    Let's show her some grace.

    • @dcg590
      @dcg590 Рік тому +9

      Prob was insurance and help from her husbands death. No way she’s paying for college at 40k a year.

    • @Fishouta
      @Fishouta Рік тому +7

      She and her husband put the kids thru college.

    • @1riggs
      @1riggs Рік тому

      What is so great about sending your kids to lefty indoctrination camps?

    • @bigh8121
      @bigh8121 Рік тому +16

      @@Fishouta She coul have squandered the money. She paid homage to her husband and marriage by doing what is right.

    • @bigh8121
      @bigh8121 Рік тому +9

      @@dcg590 That is understood, but she was a good steward of what he left behind.

  • @jacoblynch9862
    @jacoblynch9862 Рік тому +99

    I doubt she will ever read this comment, but given your circumstances, ma’am, you were actually rocking it and doing better than most people you have done well I understand you have nothing for retirement but to have a paid off house and do a put two kids through college you’re rocking it, ma’am you go

  • @pablogomez631
    @pablogomez631 Рік тому +95

    What a lovely conversation. From the humility and vulnerability of the caller to the warmth of DR and George’s responses…

    • @Dividendflywheel
      @Dividendflywheel Рік тому +4

      Yes. Compassionate with her while Educating her. I hope she finds a financial advisor with a similar approach

  • @christinehopping
    @christinehopping Рік тому +94

    This is the BEST financial advise I heard in a long long time. I am single income making a clerk salary just like this lady with no debt and paid for house. Daves' advise really puts me at ease. Thank you, Dave! I will invest into my retirement accounts.

    • @NoRegertsHere
      @NoRegertsHere Рік тому +4

      The mindset of her current financial position is true. But his investment advice is really bad. 10% a year is too much to withdraw. Closer to 4-5% is something that will last 20 years

    • @AmandaHugenkiss2915
      @AmandaHugenkiss2915 Рік тому

      Agree, take as little as possible. Mostly SS and maybe a part time McJob in the early years. So she can still work a little and have freedom to have some fun.

    • @devpav9880
      @devpav9880 Рік тому +7

      Whatever you do, don't listen to Dave and assume a constant 10% annual return from an S&P 500 index fund during your retirement.

    • @user-bt7qw8io4s
      @user-bt7qw8io4s Рік тому +2

      @devpav9880 who should she listen to lol? You? lol

    • @kennyfit9877
      @kennyfit9877 Рік тому +2

      I wonder how markets will perform while going through world war 3.

  • @titolovely8237
    @titolovely8237 Рік тому +22

    she's a trooper and in much better financial shape than she thinks. 50 years old with a paid off house, no more kids to put through college and a pension from a deceased husband means that by 65 she should be able to retire pretty stress free. now is just the chapter in her life where she puts away $15k/year.

  • @ChadZeluff
    @ChadZeluff Рік тому +406

    Commenters are pretty rude this morning, yeesh. I didn’t hear excuses, I heard a 50yr old that doesn’t know where to start, feels embarrassed about asking questions at this age, but doesn’t have a mortgage, and just needs some direction and rough numbers about how much to put away.

    • @dylanfogarty2771
      @dylanfogarty2771 Рік тому +34

      Yeah, I agree. Sometimes commentators on these shorts and just so brutal. These callers are the average American - very low retirement, usually in debt, etc. we should be more supportive and action-oriented

    • @johnsyler8580
      @johnsyler8580 Рік тому +60

      I would rather hear a call like this than someone calling making 250K and can't make ends meet.

    • @JustinCase780
      @JustinCase780 Рік тому +36

      No kidding. She's a young widow, payed off her house, her kids are through school, zero debt of anykind and has a steady gov't social services job and is well aware of her net take home. She is in much better shape than most people at 50. She could work some part time to live off of and put more of her steady pay into retirement.

    • @TopVillain
      @TopVillain Рік тому +7

      Don’t read the comments

    • @fsmoura
      @fsmoura Рік тому +7

      what do you mean "this morning"?!?? ( o.o)

  • @twilde3754
    @twilde3754 Рік тому +11

    You've got plenty of time!!! Start now. I didn't have a dime in retirement at 47. I'm 65, still working and investing in retirement, and all is well. Start today and do not think twice that you don't have time. You do!!!

  • @MissUnderstood_Mom
    @MissUnderstood_Mom Рік тому +25

    Thanks for being so nice to her!! With that paid off house, she's way ahead of most of us.

  • @MrTofu13
    @MrTofu13 Рік тому +6

    She was way better than me when I started the Dave Ramsey plan. I was 46 yo with $74,000 in credit card debt and a car loan. I worked almost everyday for 14 months and paid the $74,000. We paid off our house in 2023. Thank you so much Dave Ramsey!

  • @Heiskns
    @Heiskns Рік тому +5

    With her attitude you know she’ll do well. She’s panicking because she has no goals. She’s achieved so much because it was her goal. Listen to her excitement at the end of the call: “I’m gonna do that now!” A new goal for her to accomplish. Good for her, what an inspirational lady. Love to hear her follow up call.

  • @vickieclark5931
    @vickieclark5931 Рік тому +84

    At least she is 100% debt free. Even not having any retirement at this time puts her ahead of most people at her age not being chained to debt. So she can start investing aggressively. Plus, her not having any debt, when she retires, she doesn't need as much money to live every month.

    • @Ria24Ria
      @Ria24Ria Рік тому +1

      Exactly when you have no debt whatsoever you do not need that much money to live off of, depending on where you live. She might be able to live on just 2k a month which a lot of people can live on if the place is affordable and you are debt free.

  • @Tehui1974
    @Tehui1974 8 місяців тому +5

    I LOVE the fact that this lady has no debt. She's doing a lot better than she thought she was. Go lady!

  • @thisguy7201
    @thisguy7201 Рік тому +589

    She has a paid for house and 3 months for emergency. That's way more than all of these complainers have for themselves 😂😂

    • @adamlynch9153
      @adamlynch9153 Рік тому +7

      she lives alone? might as well find a roomate to kickstart some income

    • @puthyx
      @puthyx Рік тому +5

      Yeah but she didn't EARN it. That's the problem. She knows it kinda just fell in her lap.

    • @animegeek3109
      @animegeek3109 Рік тому +4

      Way more than me lol at 33 I have 40k retirement out of debt with a paid off car and phone but no house💀

    • @r8alvar
      @r8alvar Рік тому +8

      ​@@animegeek3109"paid off phone?" Come on man! Don't do that again.

    • @clarifyingquestions
      @clarifyingquestions Рік тому +17

      @@puthyx Didn't earn it? How so? She was both mom and DAD. Dad contributed some financially but anyone who has raised kids understand they also need physical and emotional support too.

  • @Notimp0rtant523
    @Notimp0rtant523 Рік тому +10

    Say what you want about whoever you want. I love Dave Ramsey for his ability to slow down, think, and properly assess someone’s situation; and to find the best way through. Thank you sir n

  • @marton349
    @marton349 11 місяців тому +2

    What a lovely positive lady. There should be more people like her in the world.

  • @anaa03899
    @anaa03899 Рік тому +65

    At least she has her house paid off
    Emergency fund steps 1 and 2 done. She will be okay

    • @christinehopping
      @christinehopping Рік тому

      I understand her concerns because I was in her position debt free with a house paid off but no retirement at age 48. I was scared making a clerk salary living in California everything was so expensive. Dave's advice gave me so much comfort. I focused every penny into retirement and now I am a net worth millionaire before age 50. Just stay focused and keep saving.

  • @momof2momof2
    @momof2momof2 Рік тому +14

    I'm widowed for the same number of years and have 2 children, and debt free. . Thankfully my husband and I were amazing at saving , and he had 2 retirement funds, and 2 life insurance policies. . I'm in my 60s now, and will have a very good SS I can tap into any time. She does need to find a good financial adviser. I hired one within a year after my husband passed. Best decision.

  • @uwone7778
    @uwone7778 Рік тому +97

    She's in a better spot than most of America.

    • @sarahw.mcelyea5655
      @sarahw.mcelyea5655 Рік тому +6

      Most of AMERICA is clueless and doesn't even know it.

    • @uwone7778
      @uwone7778 Рік тому +7

      Like the 81M that voted Joe

  • @goofygirl1311
    @goofygirl1311 Рік тому +87

    Dave is so right, something coming in each month in retirement is a whole lot better than having nothing but social security coming in each month. This lady is debt free, has a paid off house and lives within her means. She's going to be o.k., she just needs to start putting some money away for herself. I hope she does check back in a year to say how things are going.

    • @ToOpen6seven
      @ToOpen6seven Рік тому +4

      She absolutely will and thank goodness she is not me at 56 with not a lot saved for retirement and I still have a mortgage. I will sell my home in a heartbeat to get a way lesser home that is paid for or almost paid for. This lady will definitely be OK.

    • @goofygirl1311
      @goofygirl1311 Рік тому +1

      @@ToOpen6seven I'm 57 and we still have a small mortgage on our house, too. We plan to downsize in the not too distant future into a smaller, paid off home. As long as you have a plan, you're o.k.

    • @ToOpen6seven
      @ToOpen6seven Рік тому

      @@goofygirl1311 Thank you dear, I needed to hear that. Dave Ramsey has helped me a lot.

  • @robedmund9948
    @robedmund9948 Рік тому +44

    At 50 she still has 15 years to crank it out. Without a mortgage, she should be able to invest a fair amount. With a part-time job in addition to her social work, she should be able to do quite well.

    • @brucefredrickson9677
      @brucefredrickson9677 Рік тому +6

      Or a better paying social worker job.

    • @Dis_is_fine
      @Dis_is_fine Рік тому

      @@brucefredrickson9677for sure, with her amount of experience she should be able to get something better

    • @jamesodell-ky1vu
      @jamesodell-ky1vu Рік тому +4

      Do you guy know there’s a thing called “Death”

    • @tjames525
      @tjames525 Рік тому

      So because she is going to die someday she shouldn't invest or what is the point you are trying to make?

  • @philochristos
    @philochristos Рік тому +14

    She's doing better than me. I'm going to be 50 in a little over a month, and I've never even bought a house, much less paid one off.

  • @digitalgypsy21
    @digitalgypsy21 Рік тому +3

    What a sweet lady! She's embarrassed yet she's further ahead than many people her age.

  • @ManyMannyMan
    @ManyMannyMan 8 місяців тому +21

    Quickly putting 1k into the compound Interest calculator with an annual return of 10% (S&P does on average of 9%) is $398k. Love Dave Ramsey but sometimes have to wonder where he gets these numbers from... 🤨

    • @theburnetts
      @theburnetts 6 місяців тому +8

      Exactly. Dave is wildly, wildly optimistic. He also forgets that although she doesn’t have a house payment she still has to pay taxes and insurance on the house every year which can be a chunk of change. And there is no way that she can withdraw 10% every year for ever and ever. The reality here is that she would probably have $400k after 15 years and she could safely withdraw about $20k every year - not the $50k he suggests.

    • @yoavmor9002
      @yoavmor9002 5 місяців тому +1

      Okay so it'll take 17 years instead of 15... Still manageable.
      18 years with 9%...
      I mean it's certainly not as nice but it's still doable as long as her health doesn't give

    • @jakethorson8002
      @jakethorson8002 4 місяці тому +6

      10.52% is the 30 yr return. Not hard to figure out dave used 12%. But that's not the point. His point is she's doing ok and if she puts her investing on automatic then when she wants to retire she'll have some money. Ya'll are just haters

    • @Josh-lp2ng
      @Josh-lp2ng 4 місяці тому

      @@jakethorson8002there are pretty much no mutual funds that will net 12% after fees over 15 years. Most will be closer to half of that.
      And a 10% withdrawal rate is more than double what financial advisors recommend.
      Not hating, just saying that his optimism is a bit over the top.

  • @4funner66
    @4funner66 Рік тому +16

    What a great heart she has, you can just hear it. She’s so well off and doesn’t even know it!

  • @Fgp4991
    @Fgp4991 2 місяці тому +1

    Nothing to be embarrassed. Hope her kids appreciate what she did and help her out. Took me some years to realize that for myself (as a kid that was given everything by his parents). Now I try to coach them and help them financially.

  • @untouchable360x
    @untouchable360x Рік тому +78

    How big is her home? She had kids so it’s at least two or three bedrooms. She should sell now and downsize. Invest the equity.

    • @MsQ275
      @MsQ275 Рік тому +5

      lol good luck selling

    • @jorgesalazar818
      @jorgesalazar818 Рік тому +1

      ​@@MsQ275why? If she prices it competitively enough it'll sell.

    • @untouchable360x
      @untouchable360x Рік тому

      Inventory is still at an all time low.@@MsQ275

    • @jordanlavalley
      @jordanlavalley Рік тому +4

      @@jorgesalazar818I think he means buying. Sometimes it doesn’t make sense to sell if you have to buy. She should sell when she actually retires and move up north somewhere.

    • @ashleygrandberry1186
      @ashleygrandberry1186 Рік тому +13

      Why? It is a paid for house. That is as much of an asset as anything. She shouldn't have huge expenses now, and with SS when she's older, she should be fine.

  • @gonnahavemesomefun
    @gonnahavemesomefun Рік тому +3

    This is a wonder Mom. What a lady. She is going to be in my thoughts. She's not alone 💓

  • @sharonw7580
    @sharonw7580 Рік тому +21

    When my in-laws died they were penny less, my husband had to support them, I will do everything to avoid situations like my in laws

    • @SeanKmath
      @SeanKmath Рік тому

      Why does he have to support them? They are dead.

  • @jennifert2953
    @jennifert2953 Рік тому +5

    What a great lady. So much respect to her.

  • @AnthonyMcNeil
    @AnthonyMcNeil Рік тому +4

    She has done an awesome job. Sorry for her loss. Her house is paid and no debt, shes in a good spot and can definitely improve.

  • @atombomb31458
    @atombomb31458 27 днів тому

    she is doing better than i was 15 yrs ago.. bravo for her

  • @kaitlyncranwick
    @kaitlyncranwick Рік тому +4

    This is not a financial advice and I never give financial advice: DONT LEAVE DURING THE BEAR. If you don’t want to invest…learn. If you don’t want to learn…build. If you don’t want to build observe. DO SOMETHING…other than leave. There is so much opportunity here. Take advantage!

    • @hunter-bourke21
      @hunter-bourke21 Рік тому +1

      Just because there are opportunities in the market doesn’t mean you should go in blindly. To understand the potential factors that contribute to your financial growth, I'll advise you to seek the help of a professional

    • @maryHenokNft
      @maryHenokNft Рік тому +1

      Very true, I started investing before the pandemic and that same year I pulled a profit of about $750k with no prior investing experience, basically all I was doing was seeking guidance from MARY ONITA WIER who's a guru in the game, you can be passively involved with the aid of a professional.

    • @maggysterling33254
      @maggysterling33254 Рік тому

      @@maryHenokNft It took me 3 years to stop trying to predict what's about to happen in the market based on charts studying because you never know. Please, i need the help of your Investment advisor.

    • @maryHenokNft
      @maryHenokNft Рік тому

      I'm guided by *Mary Onita Wier* An experienced coach with extensive financial market knowledge. While you can consider other options, her strategy has yielded positive results for me. She offers valuable insights, including entry and exit points for the securities I concentrate on.

    • @BiancaSherly-qt6sb
      @BiancaSherly-qt6sb Рік тому

      Thanks, I just Googled her name and her website came up right away. It looks interesting so far. I'm going to book a call with her and let you know how it goes.

  • @alexiscook607
    @alexiscook607 5 місяців тому +1

    She can do it! You go girl!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @anttoronto3202
    @anttoronto3202 Рік тому +15

    Don’t underestimate the government pensions. When you add your own savings it is a whole lot more than we end up thinking it would be. Over the life of your retirement, it is hundreds of thousands of dollars. Also, if she owns a large home, sell and downsize and get a head start on investing the equity plus Dave’s plan of a $1,000 a month for 15 years. This lady will be fine.

    • @suen5006
      @suen5006 Рік тому +2

      She doesn't have a government pension.

  • @XennialGuy
    @XennialGuy Рік тому +27

    Problem is, what Dave forgot, is that she can only put in up to $7,500 a year in her Roth IRA. She needs to put the remaining 5K in a Roth 401K or something else.

    • @vlharmon
      @vlharmon Рік тому +5

      The smart vestor pro will put her on the right track

    • @djpuplex
      @djpuplex Рік тому +12

      On track to paying fees.

  • @Bbfishman
    @Bbfishman 11 місяців тому +5

    it would be a cool idea to do some sort of follow-up with some of these callers, and post them on the youtube channel. Specifically the ones who took the advice and did well would be great testimonials for the program, and even a recap of the callers who may have found themselves in trouble could still be good insight into the pitfalls people face along the way following the advice given to callers on the show

  • @KayleeBee7
    @KayleeBee7 Рік тому +113

    This is my worst nightmare.

    • @fauxbro1983
      @fauxbro1983 Рік тому +13

      it's most women nightmare.

    • @tracym8952
      @tracym8952 Рік тому +14

      Losing a spouse is a nightmare. No retirement is a nightmare. I feel for her. Hopefully it comes together for her

    • @momoney855
      @momoney855 Рік тому +12

      @@fauxbro1983facts! America has the highest rate of single mothers or women that thinks they don’t need a man has to step up and start saving for retirement before it’s too late.

    • @YoutubeNeoconskeepcensoringme
      @YoutubeNeoconskeepcensoringme Рік тому +7

      Retirement is a fantasy!!! You be working hard as hell to keep what little you have

    • @georgewagner7787
      @georgewagner7787 Рік тому +1

      Save and remarry

  • @steviejd5803
    @steviejd5803 Рік тому +1

    Dave’s final ‘ding ding’ is utterly perfect, exquisitely time.

  • @anthonydooley3616
    @anthonydooley3616 Рік тому +7

    This is a great example of why baby step 4 comes before baby step 5. Paying for kids college is not as important as investing for your own retirement. The kids can work their way through college. Great advice from Papa Dave, as usual.

    • @amireallythatgrumpy6508
      @amireallythatgrumpy6508 Рік тому +3

      Actually steps 4, 5 and 6 are designed to be done concurrently.

    • @MichaelAnderson-wk1no
      @MichaelAnderson-wk1no Рік тому +2

      ​@amireallythatgrumpy6508 They are designed to be done concurrently but STARTED in that order. As in, if you can't afford to move on to step 5, then you should just focus on 4.

    • @amireallythatgrumpy6508
      @amireallythatgrumpy6508 Рік тому

      There's no way you can't afford to start all three simultaneously. That is simply an impossibility,@@MichaelAnderson-wk1no

    • @anthonydooley3616
      @anthonydooley3616 Рік тому

      @@amireallythatgrumpy6508 but they didn't do that, did they? They funded college only, and now they are broke and running out of time.

  • @Ben-bj1oz
    @Ben-bj1oz Рік тому +10

    This is why I’m in my 20s putting extra contribution every month. Nothing worse than being old, not able to work and broke

    • @chrispnw2547
      @chrispnw2547 Рік тому +3

      Live long enough and you will find life brings expenses you never realized. When I was in my 20s, I thought water was free.

  • @Americancowboy147
    @Americancowboy147 Рік тому +109

    Can't deny the fact that LVRCH CAPITAL is the strongest bet to bring power back to this industry after we suffered FTX, Celsius, Tera and so on. Sure if they fail it's done for good, but I don't see that the biggest tech company in the world would put everything at risk just for that.

  • @SmellTheRoses0
    @SmellTheRoses0 Рік тому +2

    Thanks Dave! Your numbers give millions of listeners HOPE! ❤

  • @grace-2127
    @grace-2127 Рік тому +42

    For anyone feeling hopeless because of not having anything for retirement......
    My mother in law became a widow early. My father in law was a grave digger, literally. He got out of the service and that's the only job he ever had. My mother in law was a drapery seamstress and she sewed for local decorators who didn't pay her anywhere near what she was worth. Fast forward.... she's now 81. She's been retired on SOCIAL SECURITY alone. Nothing else. No government assistance whatsoever and she didn't even try for any because she said in her generation that wasn't something they did. She has a mortgage on a small house, pays all her bills on time, no debt, TITHES 10% of her social security check and is the most frugal, resourceful person I've ever known. She told me years ago she has the bank automatically take out $100 and put it in her savings every month. 🤯
    I ran the numbers in my head, on paper, with a calculator, lol. IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE. By all means, she should be starving. She always said, "the Lord will take care of me." And it's true.
    I hope this encourages someone.

    • @Nicole-un5on
      @Nicole-un5on Рік тому +6

      It did

    • @deepthinking8633
      @deepthinking8633 Рік тому +8

      God is Good

    • @dcg590
      @dcg590 Рік тому +1

      No one should EVER think they can live on social security alone. It’s not supposed to be lived on, it’s supposed to be supplemental.

    • @grace-2127
      @grace-2127 Рік тому +6

      @@dcg590 true. However, my in laws were very poor. They were very hard workers but had no financial literacy education. So my comment was to encourage anyone in this situation because unfortunately people DO find themselves surviving on social security alone.

  • @ignitionSoldier
    @ignitionSoldier Рік тому +46

    10% is entirely too aggressive. 4% is more likely to last her 30 years.

    • @douglassmith9445
      @douglassmith9445 Рік тому +8

      10% would be her investment gains. 4% would be her withdrawal rate. These numbers are fine. She can’t afford to invest in bonds since she joined the party late. Shouldn’t impact much anyways.

    • @M22Research
      @M22Research Рік тому

      @@douglassmith9445but he also said it would “generate $50K per year without touching the principal, more income than you’re currently making.” Taking out 10% per year would be long term foolish if you need that $500K to last your entire lifetime. He did not say 4% withdrawal.

    • @danlopez9146
      @danlopez9146 Рік тому +2

      Where’s this 10% from?

    • @M22Research
      @M22Research Рік тому +2

      @@danlopez9146 watch the video prior to commenting.

    • @thedude5040
      @thedude5040 Рік тому

      ​@@danlopez9146many mutual funds earn around 10% a year over 10 year

  • @benvasilinda9729
    @benvasilinda9729 Рік тому +4

    She’s in a way better place than most people these days.

  • @NawlinstoVegas
    @NawlinstoVegas Рік тому +1

    You need to factor in 7% yearly for Fed Printing Presses.

  • @laneyluneva
    @laneyluneva Рік тому +6

    I've always thought this whole podcast/youtube/radio show couldn't survive without Dave. But after trying different personalities, I think he's got a great team now. George, Jade, Rachel, John are all great hosts and likely to appeal to a younger audience, as well. Ken's OK too.

  • @Hoped4
    @Hoped4 8 місяців тому

    As a widow. I paid off our debt and invested the life insurance and put a hefty amount in savings and worked part time and lived off survivor benefits.

  • @Dividendsmattertoo
    @Dividendsmattertoo Рік тому +13

    I’m only curious how Ramsey calculated 500000$? Because 12000 a year at 10% return is about 350k. 12000k a year for 17 years at 11% is 500k that’s kinda optimistic. But either way the lady still has time she deserves suppport and guidance

    • @Fishouta
      @Fishouta Рік тому +4

      Did you use a compounding calculator?

    • @Dividendsmattertoo
      @Dividendsmattertoo Рік тому

      @@Fishoutayea a advanced one with dividend growth and taxes too still didn’t get 500k and i assumed she started out with 0$

    • @foodmens
      @foodmens Рік тому

      ​@@Fishoutayep he's still off by $100k but Its the idea he has that matters so. Touche

    • @riceball777
      @riceball777 Рік тому +1

      he always uses 12% as a rate of stock market returns. 12% annual average return after 15 years with a consistent $1000 per month of investing is 500,000. The stock market has adveraged about 10-11% over he past 100 years and well over 12% over the past 20 years

    • @MrDonny27
      @MrDonny27 Рік тому

      ​@@riceball777my s&p 500 stock been flat since 2021😅😅😅😅😅. It almost same in put in

  • @marias8007
    @marias8007 Місяць тому

    This was so hopeful, she can do it!!!

  • @timg185
    @timg185 Рік тому +3

    Admittedly I’ve acquired to much debt. I’m over 50. The jobs I’ve had hasn’t allowed me to acquire a lot of skills. I can do a lot . But don’t have many credentials or experience . Getting laid off permanently from my job of 13 years. Was finally able to save a little in my 401k. Now I see no choice but to cash out and pay off debt. Kids , stay out of factory work unless you can get a skill like maintenance or supervision. Factories use you up. Then throw you away . when they are done with you. Leaving you to start over with less pay and no vacation.

  • @michaelsix9684
    @michaelsix9684 Рік тому +2

    lots of people are in this situation. wish now I'd saved more for retirement, had to leave job at 56 due to cancer, got a pension and have SS check, but it goes real fast

  • @erikaho1857
    @erikaho1857 Рік тому +26

    Very aggressive “safe” withdrawal rate in retirement. Saying you can pull 10% every year during retirement leaves fate in the hands of the market. 3% or 4% is more reliable to not run out of money.

    • @joefunk76
      @joefunk76 Рік тому +3

      No mention of the effect of 15 years of inflation, either. I’m all on this lady’s side, but Dave exaggerates his numbers whichever way supports whatever point he’s trying to make at the time.

    • @robertatkins272
      @robertatkins272 Рік тому +1

      Dave is going off historical market returns at 10%. If you had a million you could withdraw 100,000 a year without ever getting into the principal.

    • @erikaho1857
      @erikaho1857 Рік тому +3

      Correct, however if you were to retire on let’s say May 1st 2000, over the next 10 years, the overall return is about -20%. There are no gains to take 10% from every year. You have to dig into the principle. This lady would be out of money. A 3% safe withdrawal rate gives markets time to recover, because stocks can we unpredictable in the short to medium term.

    • @robertatkins272
      @robertatkins272 Рік тому

      @@erikaho1857 agreed, but you are pointing to a particularly underperforming decade in the S&P 500 that had not been seen since the 1930’s. That being said even if all her investments were moved to bonds or CD’s at 5% she would still be ok earning 25k a year plus social security and her husband’s pension. She was only making 40k in her working years.

    • @NoRegertsHere
      @NoRegertsHere Рік тому

      @@robertatkins272we understand where the 10% comes from. But 10% withdrawal every year off a capital base that *averages* 10% a year doesn’t work, as the market goes up and down, but withdrawal is constant. Safe withdrawal rate is significantly less.
      The reason is when the market drops 3%, and money is withdrawn, to replace that capital 87% needs to grow 15% just to return back to the original amount. It’s the withdrawing the average return rate when the market is down or even when market is growing less than 15% that’s the problem.

  • @tinlidtoo6615
    @tinlidtoo6615 2 місяці тому

    I hope this all works. The 10% seems very optimistic to me. And the taxes in her area are critical. Depending on where you live, taxes and insurance on a house can be more than a mortgage payment

  • @josephbanks9897
    @josephbanks9897 Рік тому +13

    How much is her husband pension?How much will her social security be. They fell to ask some important questions .

    • @Ria24Ria
      @Ria24Ria Рік тому

      Exactly, she might be able to live on ss and pension depending on what her living expenses are.

  • @veramae4098
    @veramae4098 6 місяців тому

    Honey,
    You're ahead of me and I'm 71, just getting started on Dave Ramsey. I had planned an IRA but it disappeared (complicated).

    • @damondiehl5637
      @damondiehl5637 6 місяців тому

      You must have taxable income to contribute to an RA Keep that in mind.

  • @thinkforyourself765
    @thinkforyourself765 Рік тому +20

    That would have been a completely different conversation if she still had debt and a house payment! Great that she was debt free. NICE! :)

  • @9liveslisa
    @9liveslisa Рік тому +2

    I listen to you guys every single day because you help so many people who really need help and direction and I always learn something. You are very special people.

  • @beaniemac
    @beaniemac Рік тому +6

    Luckily for her, Springfield, IL has a very low cost of living. Combined with no other debt, she should be able to save aggressively for the next 15 years

  • @sonnysingh2617
    @sonnysingh2617 17 днів тому

    Well done maam 🙏🙏 thanks for being so honest ❤

  • @mariorta5017
    @mariorta5017 Рік тому +4

    She is better than my in laws, they have not home, no retirement and only 50k in savings, a truck loan and they are in their lates 60s. But, they took two trips vacation this year because they deserve it and who knows what future brings, my father in law exact words. She will be ok, now just focus on savings and retirement. Good luck lady.

    • @xyz987123abc
      @xyz987123abc Рік тому +2

      We see. Your husband, his son, is his retirement plan. When he comes a knocking show him where the job applications are. After all who knows what the future holds.
      Your husband and you have bigger priorities than them: your own retirement.
      Gotta shake my head at these Yolo 's ( you only live once).

  • @kay22100
    @kay22100 Рік тому +6

    She’s ahead of the game with that paid off house. Wish her the best! She seems sweet

  • @azteca6695
    @azteca6695 Рік тому +6

    My husband and i paid off our house, about 2yrs ago. For that reason, in case something happens to him. Last year he had a heart attack. Fortunately he made it on time to the hospital. We are debt free. But we need to up on our savings and retirement more. The cost of living is going up.

  • @NoRegertsHere
    @NoRegertsHere Рік тому +4

    Do baby steps 1-3 with Ramsey. After that The Money Guy*
    *always get the 401k match

  • @justwait9822
    @justwait9822 Рік тому +4

    Bless dave ramsey, i dont always agree with him but he definitely put this lady at ease.

  • @cryptacide
    @cryptacide Рік тому

    In case anyone was wondering. For tax year 2023, the contribution limit for a Roth IRA is $6,500 for those under 50 and $7,500 for those 50 and older

  • @jg2611
    @jg2611 Рік тому

    While i am not a firm believer in relying on the government, Social Security monthly checks should be included in anyone's retirement totals.
    Over the years, we have all read or heard the articles where we are told "how much" we need to retire. This never seems to include gov annuity(soc sec income)
    Put that into your equation, and you likely wont worry.

  • @Yyhhtt99009
    @Yyhhtt99009 Рік тому +275

    I feel that the last bull run was bolstered by all the money being printed. Major returns next bull run but I think they will be tamer in my humble opinion. A 10x on LVRCH CAPITAL and a 15x on polygon are fair considering how much those two coins are interwov

  • @jeffreywhitaker5154
    @jeffreywhitaker5154 Рік тому +1

    This is a GREAT CALL. Quick and to the point. DR didn’t overtake her too much. She sounds like she’s going to get on it. Hope she calls in a yr to follow up.

  • @fsmoura
    @fsmoura Рік тому +17

    4:11 _"Let's pretend it produces 10% a year on the mutual funds."_
    Dang, times really are tough. It used to be 12%.

  • @shanew7361
    @shanew7361 Рік тому +10

    He's assuming a guaranteed/fixed return of 10% impossible nothing ks guaranteed.

    • @WilliamGoosen81
      @WilliamGoosen81 6 місяців тому

      Actually he is hoping for an average of 10% per year over a 15 year time frame. A bit optimistic, but not impossible. He is giving her an idea of where she might be, and he did say that he doesn't know exactly how it will compare to actual life. Ultimately, the sooner she starts putting money away, the better chance she will have at being at least okay in the long run.

  • @kyleskitco7235
    @kyleskitco7235 Рік тому +9

    Even if Dave's mutual funds, get 12% rate of return that would be extremely risky and unwise for someone that is entering their 60s. To achieve those types of returns, someone would have to be in 100% stocks and if you have a bad year you're screwed if you're 60.

  • @12hunter100
    @12hunter100 Рік тому

    I love you! Thank you for this advice because I'm in the same boat , I see a bright future.💕

  • @dish1990
    @dish1990 Рік тому +21

    Dave is wrong. She would need at least $1mil to safely withdraw $50k/yr.

    • @AveChristusRex8
      @AveChristusRex8 Рік тому +6

      Absolutely. This kind of advice giving of thinking you can withdraw 10 to 12% annually from an asset and not end up crashing the asset is downright dangerous advice. Has Dave ever heard of a Montecarlo analysis?

    • @AveChristusRex8
      @AveChristusRex8 Рік тому +1

      This is where annuities come in. She could grow the asset for the next 15 or so years, and then place the funds into an immediate annuity that guarantees her a lifetime income stream she can never outlive.

    • @brucefredrickson9677
      @brucefredrickson9677 Рік тому

      @@AveChristusRex8 problem is annuities don't adjust up with inflation...they flat-line.

    • @jamesodell-ky1vu
      @jamesodell-ky1vu Рік тому +3

      @@AveChristusRex8 it’s really not that big of deal 😂 her house is paid for and I’m sure she’ll get over 1,200 in social security smh ppl seriously do too much

  • @stevemyopinion423
    @stevemyopinion423 Рік тому +2

    dave never ask how much her house is worth, i mean it might be worth selling house and buy a condo if it just her.
    plus she said she has a retirement from her husband work. i would look into that.

  • @NoemiSoria
    @NoemiSoria Рік тому +12

    From age 24 to age 44, I worked 20 years for a non-profit organization working with low-income and homeless families, with zero benefits. I did not have a retirement account nor retirement match. What I had was a feel-good job that never paid me more than $40k. However, I cannot change what I didn't know about investing. I look at the good side. This job kept me grounded! When I saw a large portion of those families living beyond their means and causing homelessness unto themselves, I paid extra on my home and stayed out of debt. And much like her, I was in exact same situation. In my 20th year I upped by skills and have been in the construction industry since. Today, at age 50, I have managed to save $70k, albeit still too scared to invest, I have it saved in a high interest savings account. I would have $15k more, but my HVAC just went out (sigh). I'm learning what I was never taught. I rent out one room which brings me extra income. Overall I live below my means and I am never stressed about money. It can be scary at times, but I say she did great! She has time.

    • @georgewagner7787
      @georgewagner7787 Рік тому +3

      Maybe try investing just a little of it.

    • @NoemiSoria
      @NoemiSoria Рік тому

      @@georgewagner7787, thank you...I'm dabbling with index funds. I only have about 5k in Vanguard, but just seeing how the market behaves, and obviously it's down a bit. I'm aware it's a long-term commitment, but just seeing if I can handle the volatility without the stress! That's what's most important to me. In the meantime, I keep educating myself. And while I often wish I can beat it into others (including my adult daughter) my once-too-idealistic self has also grown up. It's an eye-opener for sure.

    • @oldscratch3535
      @oldscratch3535 Рік тому

      If you don't invest then you're just letting inflation eat away your savings.

  • @brittonkerr5462
    @brittonkerr5462 6 місяців тому

    Illinois has a state employee retirement. Most county and city governments do also. She needs to research this more.

  • @levik11
    @levik11 Рік тому +4

    ira calculator says its not 500k in 15 years but 279k in 15 years at 12% $1000 a month. how did he come to 500k?

    • @xsgtxbigboy1655
      @xsgtxbigboy1655 Рік тому +2

      They always are off what they say just like how they think she makes 40 and 36 after taxes I made 50kbthis year so far and brought home 31k he don’t know what it’s like

    • @riceball777
      @riceball777 Рік тому

      you need to use a compound interest calculator. $1000 per month for 15 years at a average 12% annual return is in fact over $500,000

  • @getinthespace7715
    @getinthespace7715 Рік тому +1

    Good for her.

  • @ae3209
    @ae3209 Рік тому +3

    She sounds like a lovely woman. Widowed at 35 with 2 young kids. Sometimes it's hard to get past the fog and she made it out 😊 Put her kiddos thru school and has a paid off home. If she starts saving like Dave told her too, I think she'll do ok 😊

    • @brucefredrickson9677
      @brucefredrickson9677 Рік тому +2

      Maybe she will find love again and be better off financially with two incomes...maybe.

  • @freedomworks3976
    @freedomworks3976 Рік тому

    Dave is exactly right about the numbers 👏 👌
    To many people don't like mathematics. Math is our friend when it comes to building wealth.
    I never felt wealthy until I had no payments to make. Deat free is the way to be.

  • @2012goodjoke
    @2012goodjoke Рік тому +24

    Dave is the only person in the personal finance space who claims you can withdraw 10% per year in retirement. Most financial advisors say 3 to 4 %. It is ill advised to withdrawn 10% and can hurt them down the road. Lets say the market goes down 30% and you withdrawn 10% in that year, your portfolio is going to be hurting.

    • @goofygirl1311
      @goofygirl1311 Рік тому +10

      I think he was saying that IF her investments earn 10% a year that she could live off that 10% without touching her principal. He was simply using that as an example. He wasn't saying that she could take 10% out of her investments each year.

    • @jeffreywhitaker5154
      @jeffreywhitaker5154 Рік тому +5

      @@goofygirl1311EXACTLY! WELL SAID. 👍🏾🙏🏾💪🏾

    • @brookslindblad2202
      @brookslindblad2202 Рік тому +4

      Yeah but he’s implying that. Apparently market volatility doesn’t exist when you’re retired

    • @jeffreywhitaker5154
      @jeffreywhitaker5154 Рік тому

      @@brookslindblad2202 I think 10% is too generous I’d say more like. 6 to 8%.

    • @Excalibur2
      @Excalibur2 Рік тому +2

      ​@@goofygirl1311why not suggest she take 20% per year then? Just as an example.

  • @iwrist313
    @iwrist313 Рік тому +1

    I love this and needed this information. Sounds like my situation

  • @brentbuckland5043
    @brentbuckland5043 Рік тому

    Dave said with $500,000 making 10% interest would give you $50,000 a year...what about taxes or withdrawal fees from withdrawing from the Roth IRA? Do those not apply when one is 65?

  • @alittlepieceofearth
    @alittlepieceofearth Рік тому +15

    I'm rooting for her.

  • @murphycooper3404
    @murphycooper3404 Рік тому

    10% sounds like it's sustained through high risk. The problem with high risk is you don't know when it will go backwards. And when it goes backwards you can lose the whole thing.

  • @markg999
    @markg999 Рік тому +23

    She is way behind but being debt free is good. With her husband's pension and SS and her saving up she could retire semi comfortably in 15 years.

    • @wufflerdance9481
      @wufflerdance9481 Рік тому

      what pension?
      also not all widows get spouses SS

    • @goofygirl1311
      @goofygirl1311 Рік тому +4

      @@wufflerdance9481 She mentioned that she will get a pension from her husband plus social security combined with whatever she is able to save while she continues to work. Even if she didn't get her husband's SS, she would qualify for SS based on her own work record. But it sounds as though they were married long enough for her to collect on his work record or her own, whichever is greatest.

    • @TonyCox1351
      @TonyCox1351 Рік тому

      @@wufflerdance9481according to the social security website pretty much all widows get SS as long as their husband qualified, unless I’m missing something

  • @allyn7400
    @allyn7400 Рік тому +1

    But isn’t there an annual cap on a Roth of 6500 or 7500 depending on age? How does she do 1000 per month then?

  • @imveryhungry112
    @imveryhungry112 Рік тому +5

    she got kind of screwed because in most states the social workers are state employees and get a defined pension plan but she got a 403b with no match why?

    • @Fishouta
      @Fishouta Рік тому

      My opinion is that there may be a match offered and she just doesn't know it.

    • @imveryhungry112
      @imveryhungry112 Рік тому

      @@Fishouta same

  • @Bigtimeinvestor414
    @Bigtimeinvestor414 Рік тому +2

    15 years, $1000 month, 10% rate
    Looking more like $380,000 not half a million bro..

  • @jaqueitch
    @jaqueitch Рік тому +4

    Been widowed since 35?? Wow. Not making much money. Needs a new job/career. Max out 401k and Roth IRA. That's roughly $28k/year with no company match. If she can get a much more reasonable job, she can add another $30k/year in mutual funds.

    • @dcg590
      @dcg590 Рік тому

      15 years no mortgage and no retirement. 🤡

  • @Undefined14
    @Undefined14 6 місяців тому +1

    It takes 13% compound return to hit $500k in 15 years investing $1k/mo. Realistically, it'll grow about half of that. Let's just all keep in mind that Dave didn't make his wealth in the stock market, so he truly does not know what he's talking about here.
    To address her situation properly, she's gonna be fine. Social Security will pick up about 60% of her current income, she's getting her husband's pension, and this conversation is based on her investing 33% of her income. Any amount she DOES invest is pure gravy. She's gonna have a comfortable retirement. Nothing fancy, but comfortable.

  • @ddellwo
    @ddellwo Рік тому +17

    I really wish Dave would stop using this insane 10% withdrawal rate - no financial advisor with your best interests in mind would EVER recommend anywhere close to a 10% withdrawal rate unless it was known you’d be dead within the decade…….😐

    • @kovu159
      @kovu159 11 місяців тому

      He's saying a 0% withdrawal rate. He's predicting a 10% annual ROI on your invested money market funds, and withdrawing that only.

    • @ddellwo
      @ddellwo 11 місяців тому

      @@kovu159 - Expecting a consistent 10% ROI is so “pie-in-the-sky” it’s not even funny! An astute investor MIGHT average that over the long term (20-30 years) but there will be MANY years in there where you might DROP 15%-20% as well! What do you do in those years - live on unicorn farts and popsicles…….????

  • @ThisisMissHope
    @ThisisMissHope Рік тому

    I lost my husband 2 years ago. I am 39. I have No house or retirement. I wonder which is more important. The house first like she did or try and do both at the same time?
    Baby steps says retirement should be my focus first.

    • @damondiehl5637
      @damondiehl5637 6 місяців тому

      You are starting a little late, but lots of Dave's callers do, too.
      Follow the Baby Steps. Get rid of any debt, get your emergency fund in place, then start investing 15% of your gross income. You don't have to buy a house, but a lot of people do. Dave would tell you to get a mortgage for no more than 15 years and the payment is no more than 25% of your income. If you don't get to that point, don't commit to a house. 15% for retirement and 25% for your mortgage is 40% of your income. You still have to pay for food and utilities and have transportation and everything else that happens in life.