I go to Al-Anon and read The Language of Letting Go regularly because i have a controlling, fixing and thinking problem! It’s been a lifesaver! ❤🙏🏼 Let go and Let God!
My family was saved by AA/Al-Anon/Al-A-Teen. Later on in the 80s I think, my mom sent me a brochure about ACOA...and at age 64, I still go from time to time. Plus reading Melody Beattie's books... Yes, Let Go and Let God!
I love how she ended the conversation. We are all a droplet of the ocean. And hopeful of building this new world. Beautiful and insightful conversation. 🙏🏻
I believe that extreme anxiety is at the root of codependency, addiction and is likely most Cluster B personality disorders too. Great conversation and have just ordered the book. ❤ and I completely agree with Melody’s perspective on us being here at this time of enormous transition for some greater purpose. What a generous soul she is with her kindness and compliments to Jen.
I became a master at codependency while constantly "fixing, rescuing, and making nice-nice" for my kids to help deal with their father who was very controlling and down right mean. Everything and everyone else except me. If only I had taken some of that fixing energy and applied it to myself, my 30's and 40's could have been so different.
The avoidance of failure and suffering is the crux for me….because I had so much of it in my own life, I didn’t want it for my partner or children, my nieces and nephews, my friends. Even my mom. I get triggered when I hear “I don’t know”, ugh. Isn’t the flourishing in success? Mistakes aren’t flourishing, they are setbacks then you need others to help.
Love Melody♥️✨✨✨ty!
I go to Al-Anon and read The Language of Letting Go regularly because i have a controlling, fixing and thinking problem! It’s been a lifesaver! ❤🙏🏼 Let go and Let God!
My family was saved by AA/Al-Anon/Al-A-Teen. Later on in the 80s I think, my mom sent me a brochure about ACOA...and at age 64, I still go from time to time. Plus reading Melody Beattie's books... Yes, Let Go and Let God!
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I love how she ended the conversation. We are all a droplet of the ocean. And hopeful of building this new world. Beautiful and insightful conversation. 🙏🏻
Listened to this for the 2nd time. Pure gold! I am a recovering Codependent! ❤
I enjoyed this video. I am reading all of Melody’s books. And learning so much. My wish is that the interview had had more of Melody than Jen.
" i just ignore it " 😍😍😍😍 i lovvvveeee her..❤
I believe that extreme anxiety is at the root of codependency, addiction and is likely most Cluster B personality disorders too. Great conversation and have just ordered the book. ❤ and I completely agree with Melody’s perspective on us being here at this time of enormous transition for some greater purpose. What a generous soul she is with her kindness and compliments to Jen.
This was SO GOOD, Jen! I've heard of her book, but now I need to read it! Lots of good gems to reflect on in this.
I became a master at codependency while constantly "fixing, rescuing, and making nice-nice" for my kids to help deal with their father who was very controlling and down right mean. Everything and everyone else except me. If only I had taken some of that fixing energy and applied it to myself, my 30's and 40's could have been so different.
The avoidance of failure and suffering is the crux for me….because I had so much of it in my own life, I didn’t want it for my partner or children, my nieces and nephews, my friends. Even my mom. I get triggered when I hear “I don’t know”, ugh. Isn’t the flourishing in success? Mistakes aren’t flourishing, they are setbacks then you need others to help.
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exactly
Big doubts about great beautiful world ahead...