Never Get Frustrated Again: Jocko Underground 023

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    Frustration
    Military and it's bureaucratic bullsh*t.
    How to fill a leadership void without jamming it up.
    Dealing with lack of confidence as a blue belt.
    Money vs passion.
    Bragging and showboating culture in a group.

КОМЕНТАРІ • 265

  • @Rawdiswar
    @Rawdiswar Рік тому +75

    Jocko getting angry with a printer is his most relatable self.

  • @tylerpacker6047
    @tylerpacker6047 Рік тому +200

    When Jocko said, "...my wife is going to be...saying hi" after talking about how he was ready to work out, I almost fell out of my chair laughing.

    • @butteryflakycrust4864
      @butteryflakycrust4864 Рік тому +32

      ..”going through the morning procedures of ‘hello’..”

    • @louiswillemsen780
      @louiswillemsen780 Рік тому

      @@butteryflakycrust4864 😂😂😂

    • @everynameistaken567
      @everynameistaken567 Рік тому

      The fact that you think this is funny instead of relatable tells me you aren't married lol

    • @Zaysayer
      @Zaysayer 11 місяців тому +1

      ​@@everynameistaken567 And why do you assume it isn't funny BECAUSE it is relatable?

  • @ribeyemanster
    @ribeyemanster Рік тому +54

    The thing I appreciate about Jocko is I hardly ever hear profanity from his lips. So good to hear sound advice and knowledge that my 12 year old grandson can listen to. Kudos Jocko!

    • @lopezmotorsports
      @lopezmotorsports Рік тому +2

      He's a sailor, he'll drop F-bombs when needed. Droppin' warheads on foreheads! GO NAVY! BEAT ARMY!!!

    • @joshuajones1319
      @joshuajones1319 Рік тому +5

      I was told in a leadership class, profanity is used by simple minded people that can't think of a different word to use..

    • @707josh
      @707josh Рік тому +2

      @@joshuajones1319 I was told the same by my uncle who’s a marine

  • @shadowmask3350
    @shadowmask3350 Рік тому +82

    Jocko looks well rested he must of increased his power nap from 30 seconds to 33 seconds

  • @jproper
    @jproper Рік тому +186

    Jocko is that badass uncle we all wish we had. Dropping gems 💎 .

    • @dave1205
      @dave1205 Рік тому +5

      He’s the badass uncle I thought I had then realised he wasn’t that badass once I became an adult

    • @jacobdavis9654
      @jacobdavis9654 Рік тому +5

      Father figure in some cases ,

    • @mikeadcock1985
      @mikeadcock1985 Рік тому +1

      Uncle Jake

    • @kennethcurtis1856
      @kennethcurtis1856 10 місяців тому

      For some of us, he can be our child.

  • @user-vc5rp7nf8f
    @user-vc5rp7nf8f Рік тому +133

    jocko: "the other day i was frustrated"
    Echo: "what happened"
    jocko: "my wife said hi to me at 6am"

  • @jesseglenturner
    @jesseglenturner Рік тому +147

    After being paralyzed at 17, I fought frustration quite a lot. Still do, on occasion.
    It's definitely one of the toughest emotional challenges to conquer.

    • @npalmi88
      @npalmi88 Рік тому +14

      Damn, sorry to hear that, at least you’ve got the internet. Probably the best time in the history of mankind to be paralyzed

    • @jesseglenturner
      @jesseglenturner Рік тому +27

      @@npalmi88 Yes'sir. Just another day! Limitations are often frustrating, but they can also push you to think outside of the box and find new solutions to age-old problems... Just gotta step back (proverbially speaking, in my case 🤣), take a few deep breaths, and tackle the issues without the anger.
      No doubt there's never been a better time to face such physical challenges! Things have noticably improved even in the 30 years or so that I've been in a wheelchair.

    • @jessee7334
      @jessee7334 Рік тому +7

      I can only imagine. Something wrong with my foot last few weeks and being on bedrest is pushing my anxiety into overdrive. The key, of course, is acceptance. You are one resilient SOB! Respect 🤝

    • @jesseglenturner
      @jesseglenturner Рік тому +6

      @@jessee7334 Thanks! My family would probably call it "hard-headed" 🤣

    • @jessee7334
      @jessee7334 Рік тому +1

      Don't listen to that miserable troll. We hurt others when we hurt ourselves. Trust me

  • @radical_drift572
    @radical_drift572 Рік тому +24

    "going through the morning procedures of hello" That is gold oh my goodness XD never change Jocko, never change

  • @MarkSmith-hq4rr
    @MarkSmith-hq4rr Рік тому +497

    The last time Jocko got frustrated, Chuck Norris apologized.

  • @cloudconnected1476
    @cloudconnected1476 Рік тому +61

    Thing that helped me a lot is perspective that I gained from sentence I found on internet while randomly browsing:
    "Anger is punishment that you lay upon yourself for stupidity of others."

  • @hunterholistichealth
    @hunterholistichealth Рік тому +14

    I love how is most frustrating day is most people’s most productive & disciplined day 😂

  • @DANGARANGS
    @DANGARANGS Рік тому +20

    Can't wait to be never frustrated again.

  • @dwbvdvis
    @dwbvdvis Рік тому +12

    "Going through the morning procedures of.. 'Hello'" 😂

  • @762459
    @762459 Рік тому +17

    When Jocko left home for basic training. He told his dad.."you're the man of the house now"

  • @mercedesw211classic
    @mercedesw211classic Рік тому +64

    Jocko gets frustrated with printers 😄 I can definitely imagine that.

    • @KagedTyrant
      @KagedTyrant Рік тому +2

      I hate printers 🖨️ s

    • @victorvivenzio6503
      @victorvivenzio6503 Рік тому +2

      Jocko vs Printer- I'd hate to be the printer

    • @portaadonai
      @portaadonai 11 місяців тому

      The mighty Jocko, brought down by a annoying HP printer

  • @ChristopherSalisburySalz
    @ChristopherSalisburySalz Рік тому +9

    Jocko's frustrating morning sounds like everyday life. I don't think I have a single day that everything goes according to plan. When you have kids chaos is the only constant.

  • @cozyfurns5036
    @cozyfurns5036 Рік тому +49

    Jocko looked like he finna slap me if I ever get frustrated again. And now I am scared to dare.

    • @stomper5432
      @stomper5432 Рік тому

      jocko doesnt associate with people who use the word "finna"

    • @dinketti
      @dinketti Рік тому

      Exactly 💯😁😉

  • @jjmaguire8281
    @jjmaguire8281 Рік тому +6

    Missing a workout will definitely make you frustrated. Especially when it's your routine and kinda sets the tone for the day.

  • @TraumaChaplain
    @TraumaChaplain Рік тому +4

    So in summary, frustration is a distraction from solving the problem.

  • @paulhaulbrook1681
    @paulhaulbrook1681 Рік тому +13

    Frustration is born from being surprised when things don't go our way....and printers ARE evil.

  • @gennnyko6340
    @gennnyko6340 Рік тому +15

    Jocko and Echo are awesome. I love how Jocko can be relatable in re frustration, while remaining 100% aspirational , inspirational and a role model.

  • @B-leafer
    @B-leafer Рік тому +4

    "A certain protocol in the world which shouldn't be violated.."
    Roger that.
    Gotta love ya Rocko

  • @julianb1550
    @julianb1550 Рік тому +17

    Frustration is anxiety. Being anxious is like juggling, you have to intentionally give energy to and focus on the feelings and thoughts and it takes a lot of attention to do that. If you can step into the moment and realize you're juggling, drop it and let it go. All those feelings and thoughts fall to the floor just like the juggling balls would and you can continue your day without the juggling. Imagine how much more effective you would be if you didn't need to constantly be juggling? That's why we tell people to Drop it, Let it go, Knock it off. The IT being the "stuff" we're attaching to and giving our energy to and what's behind our suffering. Who knew Jocko would be such a Buddhist?

    • @rmmm6725
      @rmmm6725 Рік тому +5

      Frustration is not anxiety. Now a days people love to say they have anxiety like it’s a necessary step to be in the cool club. Not having the resiliency to deal with life isn’t anxiety. As a combat vet I know exactly what anxiety is, many people experience it but I hear people way to often live anxiety like it’s a badge of courage. What you described is having resiliency to stop allowing outside factors invade your mind and cause you to lose focus. Have a good day

  • @AlvinHazelton
    @AlvinHazelton Рік тому +10

    @3:40 "The morning procedures of saying hello." 🤣 (that cracked me up - he's ready to "GET AFTER IT" - I can see a new rule in Jocko's home... "No hellos until workouts are done" 😜)

    • @grizzy32
      @grizzy32 Рік тому

      Thanks for watching😊, feel free to send me a message to acknowledge your prize📥

  • @Ezerathicus
    @Ezerathicus 10 місяців тому

    I really like at the end there is a brief description about what that episode entails, very cool addition!

  • @MM-ho1rw
    @MM-ho1rw Рік тому +1

    That part about his wife saying hi is just so relatable.

  • @leeashbycoach6605
    @leeashbycoach6605 Рік тому +1

    Self care and self compassion is where its at. reduce stress and feelings of frustration - especially for things outside of your control.

  • @MatthewSmith-cp3hu
    @MatthewSmith-cp3hu Рік тому +11

    when i get maxed out i have trouble determining what value a task will have and everything becomes top priority in my mind ... immediately i am frustrated because i can't accomplish them all

    • @wildernessrick9278
      @wildernessrick9278 Рік тому +2

      I feel like I can definitely relate to this.
      I'll just parrot exactly what Jocko said and say, "Get to work."
      I've found that if I just start doing SOMETHING, very often to hierarchy of priorities becomes self-apparent, or happens naturally. Often in the form of starting a task, and realizing "Oh, well, I can't finish this task until I do *that* task", or something along those lines.
      Just "get to work". Start doing something. It's easy to fall into a "paralysis by analysis" situation. ✊🏻🙏🏻✊🏻

  • @insanitygaming20
    @insanitygaming20 Рік тому +5

    Your vids help a lot of people , thank you .

  • @camdenritter7652
    @camdenritter7652 Рік тому +1

    "The morning procedures of 'hello'" 😂 that is followed by the special operation to the garage gym

  • @Gettysburg2013
    @Gettysburg2013 7 місяців тому

    This is so relatable and shows Jocko is a real person just like everyone else. It makes extreme discipline feel that much more attainable.

  • @jaywoo5545
    @jaywoo5545 Рік тому +2

    Frustration is a sign that your life is too comfortable

  • @river102977
    @river102977 Рік тому

    Love your honesty Jocko

  • @Commonchaffinch2
    @Commonchaffinch2 Рік тому +4

    JOCKO frustrated, JOCKO lost discipline the night before causing a downward spiral the next day. This man’s accountability is extraordinary! If only our whole nation took as much ownership as he!

  • @dcrog69
    @dcrog69 Рік тому +3

    Jockos never gonna sleep in again.

  • @mamandapanda185
    @mamandapanda185 Рік тому

    Funny that's exactly what I was feeling, first thing in the morning, when I read the title in my feed. SO, just like worry/anxiety, it really doesn't change the out come of the situation for the better.

  • @Johnny_Dregs
    @Johnny_Dregs Рік тому

    I needed to hear this.

  • @thedudeabides3930
    @thedudeabides3930 Рік тому

    "The morning procedures of saying 'hello'..."

  • @larryapl
    @larryapl Рік тому

    Good morning all!

  • @Tacit_Tern
    @Tacit_Tern Рік тому +3

    *Jocko Willink is the Reluctant Leader we need.*
    .....We know you've done enough, but your Nation needs you.
    🇺🇸 *2024* 🦅

  • @JCImageInc.
    @JCImageInc. 11 місяців тому

    That thumbnail..... monster. You're the legit shit dude, thanks for the message!

  • @diegonayalazo
    @diegonayalazo Рік тому

    Thanks J/E

  • @spsxssd86
    @spsxssd86 Рік тому

    Haha I love this. Relationships are a part of the path. I hate small conversations with family when I want to get my to do checked off but then remind myself I'm so lucky to have loved ones.
    Last night I wanted to finish my pages and get to sleep as I was meant to be asleep 1.5 hours prior, but she kept speaking to me and I had to put the book down for 20mins but couldn't complain because normally I'm moaning that she's quite and reads at night 🤦‍♂️😂 all appreciated and a part of the path

  • @kebertxela941
    @kebertxela941 Рік тому +1

    This video started in my huge playlist right as I was getting frustrated backing in the truck,lol.

  • @redsix5165
    @redsix5165 Рік тому +4

    Jocko- I dont get frustrated easily. Also Jocko- getting frustrated after being late for one workout.

  • @levikainalu5825
    @levikainalu5825 Рік тому

    "My wife is kinda stoked I'm talking to her" LMAO

  • @gnarlycharlie69
    @gnarlycharlie69 Рік тому +1

    “I didn’t sign up for this today” 😂😂😂😂

  • @ericreardon486
    @ericreardon486 Рік тому

    He can’t take one day of rest!! What a savage. Get to work when you’re pissed about anything. Nice lesson Jocko man!!

  • @kaltonian
    @kaltonian Рік тому

    I have learnt that the feeling of frustration is a positive......
    because you want....you need you have to change...that's what frustration is to me, embrace it because it means you don't want to put up with it any more .

  • @arleneliftschrist6240
    @arleneliftschrist6240 Рік тому

    I’m so glad I’m not the only one who gets thrown off by someone wanting to talk in the morning like I need wake up/ workout first.

  • @heretic5579
    @heretic5579 Рік тому +1

    Printers. Jocko and I share a frustration.

  • @specwarat
    @specwarat Рік тому +1

    Sounds similar many of my work days, or nights. I'm an ex boat guy (SBU-22)/Army Nurse Corps 1LT(Ret) with a combined service time of 25 years. Presently an RN working 12 hour nights Fri-Sat-Sun. I work from my own SOP's. There is regularly frustration that arises in this job; there's almost always something that attempts to pull me off track. The challenge is to take the frustration & anger when it arises and channel it into getting things done... as paraphrased from the podcast, using default aggression to make things happen in order to complete the mission.

  • @derekcoaker6579
    @derekcoaker6579 Рік тому

    Jocko 2024!

  • @CodeRed1991
    @CodeRed1991 Рік тому

    Thanks Jocko

  • @jonathanperry8331
    @jonathanperry8331 Рік тому +7

    I remember seeing Lone survivor and I had no idea who Marcus luttrell was. Then I finally saw him talk about redeploying to Iraq after he healed up and the first thing he mentioned was Jocko willink. He admitted to being kind of afraid of you.

  • @tylercoombs1
    @tylercoombs1 9 місяців тому

    Jocko don't worry about it, every IT person's worst nightmare is a printer. lol

  • @SpectreFleet
    @SpectreFleet Рік тому +6

    Words out; Jocko skipped pullup day🤫

  • @jayshotta2818
    @jayshotta2818 Рік тому +3

    Jocko pls make more podcast on anger management and self control if you haven't already!

  • @Bones-cr3nd
    @Bones-cr3nd Рік тому +2

    0700 Your son requests the squat rack, GOOD. I wish my son hit me up with this and I had this problem. Pretty cool your children are already this disciplined.

  • @noneofyourbiz6885
    @noneofyourbiz6885 Рік тому +2

    I’m like yeah yeah help me deal with frustration then you realize dude rolls on a hair pin trigger 😂

  • @Blue-Robin
    @Blue-Robin Рік тому

    This came at the most perfect time...

  • @tfranc347
    @tfranc347 Рік тому +2

    Yeah that’s the thing about your day getting messed up. There’s nothing you can do about it now. Just do your best work going forward. If an opportunity comes up, take it, make adjustments, do a quick HIIT workout instead of your scheduled stuff. And just do better tomorrow

  • @pyrohead3166
    @pyrohead3166 Рік тому +1

    1:30 to 6 is only 4 1/2 hours jocko, that’s still a definite

  • @Ragnarok691
    @Ragnarok691 Рік тому +8

    The moment you get frustrated and show it, you have just failed. The situation is not going well and it takes perspective to step back and correct course. Getting frustrated does noone any good, it only hurts you and everyone else around you.

    • @Rama_Rama_Rama
      @Rama_Rama_Rama Рік тому +1

      And how to overcome it?

    • @ricardoestrada5878
      @ricardoestrada5878 Рік тому +1

      @@Rama_Rama_Rama worry about the things you can control , not what you can’t. You can’t control the stuff that comes at you but you can control how to react to it

  • @AquitaineIronOak
    @AquitaineIronOak Рік тому

    Gotta process that frustration in the most efficient order to evolve… only when no other option is available is it acceptable to throw down

  • @dcrog69
    @dcrog69 Рік тому +3

    This friggin cliffhanger has me extremely frustrated lol.

    • @nachhilfehvm
      @nachhilfehvm Рік тому

      lmfao true

    • @nachhilfehvm
      @nachhilfehvm Рік тому

      I guess he already said the solution earlier though: Frustration is a distraction and you have to supress this feeling and focus on making the solution work

  • @BeeOutside85
    @BeeOutside85 Рік тому

    "....ya know, say hi...."😂

  • @kasrashoughi5163
    @kasrashoughi5163 Рік тому +1

    the fact that u even left the workout room after already starting to warm up is one damnnnn sir u got so much discipline to control ur emotion and know that hey even if its out of ur normal routine youll still get it done no question.
    thats leadership right there. Thats so hard man.

  • @northern_moss
    @northern_moss Місяць тому

    Man I'm frustrated by the relentless drop in standards in every facet of life. Doesn't matter what it is. Driving, customer service, messy floors and trash in a business, stupid questions, every thing there is man. Wtf is tearing at my brain.

  • @marioaguilar607
    @marioaguilar607 Рік тому

    Legend says printers were designed as psychological torture devices.

  • @mandymay653
    @mandymay653 Рік тому +1

    Jocko, first, You are the man and thank you for sharing such amazing knowledge with us. However, with this one, I feel you missed something. What an amazing opportunity you had to workout with your Son and His Friends! For me, a forever whitebelt who studies Martial Arts, it would have been so mutually beneficial. Your son is probably waiting for the day that you say, "sure kiddo, let's do this workout Your Way today." To get that from Jocko, as his Dad, would be like watching Sylvester Stallone in Over the Top all over again. You really have all the time in the world for work, but the time spent with your kiddos is absolutely Priceless. You are an inspiration to me daily and a forever frustrating super annoyingly motivating "GOOD" in the back of my mind when I have to push thru sometimes. (Typically that's with the kids, so to you Sir I say..... GOOD!) Much Love and Respect my Friend!

  • @johnmadany9829
    @johnmadany9829 Рік тому

    When I started listening to this, I thought I might have some advice for Jocko.
    Of course I was wrong.

  • @SN00PICUS
    @SN00PICUS Рік тому +3

    How awesome would it be to see John from Warrior Poet Society and these fellas have a talk? SEALS v RANGERS GO!

  • @georgecrisci5440
    @georgecrisci5440 Рік тому

    I was frustrated today and the algorithm said here the fuck ya go

  • @mattwong756
    @mattwong756 Рік тому

    Hey, we’re in good company. 🙏🏼

  • @AZ12345678900000000
    @AZ12345678900000000 Рік тому

    Story of staying up until 1:30 AM and being tired in the morning makes him very relatable!! finally a human trait!! Lol

  • @bakionigeri6414
    @bakionigeri6414 Рік тому

    Jocko has a son?? Now there are TWO of them! 💪🏻💪🏻

  • @curtismckiernan6640
    @curtismckiernan6640 Рік тому +2

    Sounds like that moment was forgotten to be grateful to even have a garage, let alone an exercise set to put in it.

  • @danvancool
    @danvancool Рік тому +1

    I laughed pretty good when Jocko said printers. My patience is legendary but printers sets me off pretty bad, something about the why I'm wired. Its also not a personal interaction so I don't work on that "trigger."

  • @axs-xq7cq
    @axs-xq7cq Рік тому +1

    Thank you Jocko for everything that you do, I will try not to say anymore stupid shit anymore too..

    • @axs-xq7cq
      @axs-xq7cq Рік тому

      Unless you all want to join my goddamn little commie terrorist group that I might be making, where the last two words in the name stand for fucken Liberation Front, ha..I never asked for this, but it's what might just have to be..

  • @jamajnasoares5702
    @jamajnasoares5702 Рік тому

    Me alone aloney first at Work.
    GOOD morning.

  • @matthewplank4886
    @matthewplank4886 Рік тому

    Thank you. I'm worse than broke, but will support when operational. I plan to stick with your recommendations. I'm hell when I'm well, but may be too far gone. FOR REAL. ITS BAD MAN. I won't speak of it again.
    Will understand if you want no part of it.
    I liked your laundromat novel

  • @liftedburblife
    @liftedburblife Рік тому

    Something awesome when youtube glitches out and I'm reviewing a short.And a podcast sound was bleeding through my short then crashed .then went back to my sound after I got it back up and running .

  • @toddjenest3212
    @toddjenest3212 Рік тому

    🇺🇸 JOCKO 2024!!! 🇺🇸

    • @MasteryOrder
      @MasteryOrder Рік тому

      If you enjoy topics about masculinity and mastery, I invite you to explore the videos on the Mastery Order Channel.
      Challenge yourself with some ideas about manhood, explore your masculine potential to the maximum and become the kind of man you would look up to and respect.
      We can only better ourselves together, as men among men, so I invite you to use what I share and, of course, share your own thoughts so that others can benefit from them as well.
      All the best to you!

  • @andrewromeril7978
    @andrewromeril7978 Рік тому +19

    I'm gonna say it. Jocko needs a pop filter and you GOTTA push Echo's mic up.
    It subliminally gives less weight to the things he says over Jacko's

    • @mamandapanda185
      @mamandapanda185 Рік тому

      Just putting the mic off axis will limit or stop plosives.

  • @badsiknius4862
    @badsiknius4862 Рік тому

    I love how the YT captions said "Ninjago" instead of "Jocko" at the end.

  • @kdrop4890
    @kdrop4890 Рік тому

    Diet has a lot to do with anger issues also. Changing/limiting or even removing altogether sodium, caffeine & sugar intake will work wonders.

  • @krisitak
    @krisitak Рік тому

    GOOD.

  • @drakegagne
    @drakegagne 11 місяців тому

    Jocko wakes his Dad up at 6am and tells him to go to work

  • @JoshG8408
    @JoshG8408 Рік тому +1

    Jocko once killed two stones with one bird.

  • @samuelgreen8449
    @samuelgreen8449 Рік тому

    This is hilarious lol 😂

  • @jessejones6409
    @jessejones6409 Рік тому +1

    “PC load letter… What tha fuck does that mean?”

  • @j_arrows5898
    @j_arrows5898 Рік тому

    8.5min build up to, “let it go”- Elsa from Frozen

  • @Dev-ou1nj
    @Dev-ou1nj Рік тому +2

    Jocko got frustrated at chuck Norris once the energy has powered the sun ever since lol

  • @ishadowxhunter-0135
    @ishadowxhunter-0135 Рік тому +2

    Frustrated Jocko is scary Jocko

  • @bobojenkins5805
    @bobojenkins5805 Рік тому +1

    this is my head there are many like but this one is mine and square.

  • @comfortablynumb9342
    @comfortablynumb9342 Рік тому

    There's some shit you can't change, control or influence. There's not much use in getting frustrated about it. At the end of the day missing a day's workout ain't that big of a deal.

  • @christophdollis1955
    @christophdollis1955 Рік тому

    It frustrates me that I haven't heard this before.

  • @MC-24
    @MC-24 Рік тому

    1:52 I don’t know, I’ve done some of my best work after hip-tossing an office chair followed by a full on air-karate spazz attack.

  • @stevengillespie6535
    @stevengillespie6535 Рік тому

    I was trying to put a polesaw away in the garage in the rafters. It kept falling down. On the 3 time I was so pissed I took it outside and threw it like a javelin and shouted fuck you saw! My wife called me a moron. But idk it kinda felt good launching it. I had to pick it up the next day because I refused to do it on the same day I threw it.