About Lidia; I Keep Getting Bashed So I’m Finally Defending Myself

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  • About Lidia; I Keep Getting Bashed So I’m Finally Defending Myself
    Here’s a link to Lidia’s latest video on her second channel saying untruthful things about me:
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 669

  • @brotherchristopher2149
    @brotherchristopher2149 3 роки тому +97

    Luis your a good man. You owe no one an explanation. Enjoy your life and kids and and keep drawing near to the Lord. Be encouraged love you brother.

  • @SBsHappyLittleCloud
    @SBsHappyLittleCloud 3 роки тому +61

    You do not owe anyone an explanation. Your private life is yours, no ones business.
    Just focus on yourself, your children and your fabulous cornbread. Love your vibe. Love your videos. Love your channel. Nothing but love for you.

  • @lawcc1213
    @lawcc1213 3 роки тому +47

    Run don’t walk! There are seasons and this one should be over.

  • @mcooper5929
    @mcooper5929 3 роки тому +67

    I dated a Lidia. She was a controller. Her way or no way. Can remember all the work you done on her truck house,yard,airstream etc. Very ungrateful for her to not let this go and move on with her life. All you can do is pray for her to find true happiness.

    • @marilyngrube2417
      @marilyngrube2417 3 роки тому +4

      Remorse is a bad feeling, it mask itself in the sound of bitterness.

    • @kaeirenaslp9154
      @kaeirenaslp9154 3 роки тому +13

      He was excited visually by her cute face and petite body. In actuality, she was a self-centered, dumpy, out of shape and extremely unintelligent/unsophisticated woman. People show their insecurities when they try to control others and can’t move forward with a new relationship.
      Btw, lots of Christian women own real estate, run businesses, raise children, have million dollar stock portfolios, can cook like a chef, rock a pair of sexy denim shorts and are absolutely kind, compassionate and healthy.
      Read Lidia’s website- she writes like a second-grader, filled with grammatical, spelling, morphological and content errors. The cliches are hilarious. She is a true “pseudo- intellectual” the way she communicates and spouts her criticisms. It’s sad this man feels like he has to defend himself from this covert narcissist.
      Run.

    • @vickilynnetravelin6586
      @vickilynnetravelin6586 3 роки тому +4

      Thats it. Nailed it!

    • @candiseadkins8671
      @candiseadkins8671 3 роки тому +3

      @@kaeirenaslp9154
      How Godly of you, and your faults are?

    • @kaeirenaslp9154
      @kaeirenaslp9154 3 роки тому +10

      @@candiseadkins8671 faults? I’m a really terrible and inexperienced mud wrestler.
      But I would never bash an ex online. What an idiot.

  • @Nannygoat
    @Nannygoat 3 роки тому +40

    I am so sorry Luis. I pray you find that special woman in your life.
    Lidia se la ve girl. Luis is a handsome, hard working, loyal and smart man.

  • @lindawoods6841
    @lindawoods6841 3 роки тому +28

    I quit watching Lidia because she got really boring!! Christians are suppose to have mercy and love one another,, not bash one another. She should take another look at herself before talking about you or anyone else.. she is back on the me me me thing~all about her.. I watched her videos for awhile..then it turned into all her,, and did not like how she treated people.. you were so blessed to get out of that relationship...God bless you

    • @texasthorntons
      @texasthorntons 3 роки тому +1

      She's no Christian, that's for sure.

  • @annjustann413
    @annjustann413 3 роки тому +113

    You shouldn’t have to defend yourself. She’s a Wack job! Lost all respect for her when she was traveling with Mikey. Her son has moved on and she has nobody to control. Your a good man with a huge heart. Trust me when I say, NOBODY THINKS ANY LESS OF YOU!
    God Bless...

    • @laynegoldsmith3873
      @laynegoldsmith3873 3 роки тому +14

      I agree with Ann: I don't understand HOW or WHY U wud even be fond of this woman! I think U did a video with the 2 of U, that I saw, & @ thaat time, I wondered about her, & WHY U wud spend any time around this woman; bcuz that alone, made U look weird. I was glad to not see her again. U need to quit trying to justify Urself with her, bcuz she is then dragging U down to her level. Also, considering she was having issues with her Son, & U are seeing the type of person she has been/is being with U, shud explain her problems with her Son. Ur audience likes U - or they wudn't be watching, & nobody cares about her, or her criticizing remarks about U. Give it up! We all like U, so just resume on, & don't think about her, or whatever nasty things she says about U! She is showing everyone that can be bothered to listen & read her criticizms, what type of person she actually is - thaat's what people do, they SHOW US what they really are like..luckily. So 'dump this chump'...& find a real woman to give Ur affections to, when neccessary. Ur a good person. Don't let her make U feel any other way. God Bless...& keep motoring on, in positivity!

    • @1wolfpup
      @1wolfpup 3 роки тому +4

      True.

    • @lisaandmandiontheroad8504
      @lisaandmandiontheroad8504 3 роки тому +11

      OMG she posted another video against Luis. This is ridiculous. she is causing so much drama and making us van life people look bad. He did nothing wrong. This woman is sick!!

    • @laynegoldsmith3873
      @laynegoldsmith3873 3 роки тому +2

      @@lisaandmandiontheroad8504 Whaaat is the name of her site? I'd like to say a few curt, abrupt, words to her...

    • @lisaandmandiontheroad8504
      @lisaandmandiontheroad8504 3 роки тому +5

      @@laynegoldsmith3873 simply living the word is one of her sites. She is absolutely crazy

  • @Joe-sh2tf
    @Joe-sh2tf 3 роки тому +59

    If you showed her, your divorce papers, then that should be it.
    Sounds like she was a problem and didn't like you visiting your kids. Forget her! You'll find someone else. Good luck!

    • @celticwarrior777
      @celticwarrior777 3 роки тому +6

      she was jealous of him being near his x

    • @patsykluting-lucas3804
      @patsykluting-lucas3804 3 роки тому +12

      Lidia thinks she is God's gift to teach other women rving. What she really is turns out to be overbearing, rude and obnoxious to others.

    • @daved3948
      @daved3948 3 роки тому +2

      She's a classic narcissist

    • @patsykluting-lucas3804
      @patsykluting-lucas3804 3 роки тому +2

      @@daved3948 I don't understand why she's dragging this on. It's old news as they split ages ago. She has to be "correct " boo hoo get over it lady!

  • @funkyalmond
    @funkyalmond 3 роки тому +52

    I got you buddy. I've noticed when couples break up, and one person goes on with their lives, and the other is trashing the other. I've found that the person doing the bashing is usually the problem.

    • @celticwarrior777
      @celticwarrior777 3 роки тому +4

      yeah always the one dumped usually trash the other

  • @donpost1801
    @donpost1801 3 роки тому +47

    Count your blessings Luis
    Not everyone who comes into your life is meant to stay for ever
    Watching only a few of her vids one can clearly see she has major issues who often paints herself as a victim
    No need to beat yourself up over this
    Your heart appears to be in the right place.... What's that saying? "Me thinks the lady protest too much "

    • @stephenmills6615
      @stephenmills6615 3 роки тому +7

      Don, how right you are, she has issues a very complex women indeed, i've watched some of her vids and she has a paranoia that is a huge worry, earth ship you my friend are streets ahead by cutting her adrift from your life, don't apologies for someone like her...

    • @janr1038
      @janr1038 3 роки тому +4

      Yes don....you are totally right.lidia is a petty, childish,drama queen

  • @cosmickate4947
    @cosmickate4947 3 роки тому +139

    I find it weird that she thinks God is showing her the 'evil people' because she's a chosen one, how awful for those women that she is talking about. Sounds to me that your split up was a blessing in disguise.

    • @susanronan725
      @susanronan725 3 роки тому +24

      I know Lidia and have traveled with her. She has problems and I chose to leave and travel on my own. All of a sudden I'm a thief and stole her gas cap..I strongly disagree with the videos she's putting out on Bible study. She is speaking false doctrine...

    • @susanronan725
      @susanronan725 3 роки тому +4

      Yes and they are the original women she started out with.

    • @lisaandmandiontheroad8504
      @lisaandmandiontheroad8504 3 роки тому +3

      @@susanronan725 I am so sorry you went through this. Seems like she has created many enemies

    • @brettsome1608
      @brettsome1608 3 роки тому +8

      Sounds like a classic trait of borderline personality disorder.

    • @tammysiltanen884
      @tammysiltanen884 3 роки тому +1

      @Lisa Swetz I was thinking the same thing.

  • @nana73carol46
    @nana73carol46 3 роки тому +31

    I am sorry you had to endure another woman who obviously may be unstable emotionally. I have not watched your channel long enough to see all that happened, and I am not interested in going back and seeing all that. I have been enjoying your videos with your son. Always warms my heart while watching you two enjoying being with each other on so many wonderful adventures! God bless you!

  • @virginiawestcot2448
    @virginiawestcot2448 3 роки тому +87

    So sorry after ALL THIS TIME you feel you need to defend yourself we All saw how selfish she was having you do so much work for her over the years. We saw the birthday video how upset she got over simple things. I remember how hysterical she was over the fence screaming at the man. She professes to be a Christian yet all these years later she is still going on about the breakup and putting you down?? Well people breakup every day life goes on why does she feel compelled to keep dragging this up? So so sorry you have to go through this and everyone has an opinion into your personal life......Not.
    I have watched your videos many years and enjoyed them and I have no reason to drop you. Don't make your next relationship public after all it is your private business. Hang in there!!!

    • @marilyngrube2417
      @marilyngrube2417 3 роки тому +10

      When Louis began to go through his “mush mush.” I began to seldom watch bcuz I could almost see the ending. He is such a giving man but I must say, you want to kill someone’s heart, birthday is the day. 👍🏼

  • @theramblingeorgian1774
    @theramblingeorgian1774 3 роки тому +92

    Simply said, she finds fault in everyone and everything in her life.

  • @jonisjourneys3684
    @jonisjourneys3684 3 роки тому +83

    Luis, I watched Lidia for a short time and it is very obvious that she is a drama queen! She perceives herself as right and everyone else is wrong and she will broadcast it to the world!! You seem very honest and straightforward; with a wacky sense of humor 😊 Please don’t give her attention, it’s what she wants and people will go to her channel-which is what she wants, more views and subscribers. Live your life as you have and let karma take care of Lidia. Oh and please get that sticker off your door! Take care🌻

  • @youraussienomadfriends
    @youraussienomadfriends 3 роки тому +27

    Oh and I would like to add I was subscribed to this woman, unsubscribed ages ago as she is a nut case in my opinion. Love from your Aussie nomad e❤️🤗❤️🤗

    • @virginiaschott4482
      @virginiaschott4482 3 роки тому +5

      I had invited her to stay at my house , I didn't take the invite back or unsubscribe until last year, she totally went crazy.

    • @roberte.6892
      @roberte.6892 3 роки тому +2

      This original comment x100. I had to subscribe too. She's literally just in crazy land now.

    • @texasthorntons
      @texasthorntons 3 роки тому

      She's scamming her subs for money now. She has gone round the twist, for sure. Shameful!!!

    • @susanperales4484
      @susanperales4484 3 роки тому

      Me too.

  • @daytonadreamin6736
    @daytonadreamin6736 3 роки тому +21

    Luis ~ Let her Go, Close that door, lock it, throw away the key. Stop saying You love her. She treats you like garbage, NO ~ Not any more!! Pray this God, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference. AMEN Tomorrow is a brand new day ~ So Celebrate LIFE! Enjoy your Kids,Your motorcycle, the wind in your hair ~ waves crashing on the beach, diving in to feel the cool refreshing water! Make some New Friends. Spend some time in the Word. I pray that the Lord will set your Free Luis. The Lord's Blessings Be Upon You. Amen & Amen "Y"

  • @PugMama64
    @PugMama64 3 роки тому +18

    OMG, is she still talking about you? I have to stay I stopped watching her channel a long time ago. I watched her before I even knew about your channel. IMO she's a control freak. I used to like watching her channel but she always acts like she's right and everyone else is wrong.

  • @veronicavolkova5239
    @veronicavolkova5239 3 роки тому +40

    Luis, you owe no one any explanations. I could see she was always kind of rude to you. Her son too. You were always kind. She's bitter. She needs to get over it.

  • @chasethewind1222
    @chasethewind1222 3 роки тому +110

    I don’t think You need to defend yourself.. I think you handled everything just fine...

    • @karinheart
      @karinheart 3 роки тому +4

      Same. You did not do anything wrong.

    • @lisaandmandiontheroad8504
      @lisaandmandiontheroad8504 3 роки тому +8

      It was awful and heartbreaking video she made bashing him. I’m very protective of can life folk and our lives on the road. She is disrupting our peaceful community.

  • @SuperMsKakashi
    @SuperMsKakashi 3 роки тому +9

    I watched the video from both of you. I watched her video after seeing your video about your breakup. Your explanation now pretty much explained what I saw in both of your videos. Plus after your about your Ex it is even more clear on what happened with Lydia. This is all just a her trying to gain more subscribers since your channel is growing. You and your children look genuinely happy to be away from those toxic relationships. Use this as an example for future toxic people. At the first signs run away from them. I am not just going on your explanation of this situation, I am also comparing her videos and comments she as said about other UA-camrs and people in her caravans. Thanks for all the great content keep up the great work. Your latest series with your son is awesome.

  • @rclong2449
    @rclong2449 3 роки тому +44

    It’s very sad that she just can’t let things go and move on with her life, I had to stop watching her videos along time ago, she seemed to be a very negative and unhappy person. I’ve watched your videos and enjoy them very much and will continue to watch your videos. Iam sorry that you’ve been put in a position to have to explain yourself. Looking forward to your next video

  • @michaelcampanale6649
    @michaelcampanale6649 3 роки тому +8

    You ALWAYS seemed like a decent & honest guy to me ...!!!!

  • @kevinhildum9186
    @kevinhildum9186 3 роки тому +28

    I think you did the correct thing ending it with her. I watched many of her videos and well I don't want to say anything bad but she was not a happy person. And shortly after your breakup I unsubscribed from her channel. I really just didn't want to watch anymore of her complaining it was not enjoyable to watch her anymore.

    • @keithgraham3295
      @keithgraham3295 3 роки тому +5

      Same here

    • @michelelynn6914
      @michelelynn6914 3 роки тому +7

      Same here! I unsubscribed from her for the same reason.

    • @Redeemed7777
      @Redeemed7777 3 роки тому +6

      I also unsubscribed from her channel after he broke up with her.. she 🤐

    • @cinsforgiven7
      @cinsforgiven7 3 роки тому +3

      I never subbed her but watched a couple of her videos and realized that hers wasn’t the kind of channel I enjoyed. ☮️💟✝️

    • @ggpitt1
      @ggpitt1 3 роки тому +4

      I quit watching her too.

  • @tyson1fan487
    @tyson1fan487 3 роки тому +113

    After this don't ever acknowledge her again because she doesn't deserve any recognition and you don't owe anyone a explanation and you just keep doing what makes you happy and people like her will not live a happy life as they need to talk down about people to make themselves feel better. Take Care and Stay Safe.

    • @leyanisredondo3471
      @leyanisredondo3471 3 роки тому +12

      I didn't even know what was going until he made this video because I don't watch her.

    • @LucysVanAndale
      @LucysVanAndale 3 роки тому +1

      👍🏽Agree!

  • @lillianzybarra6405
    @lillianzybarra6405 3 роки тому +22

    When God closes a door , he always opens another

    • @philmickey7247
      @philmickey7247 3 роки тому

      True. Later we realize the new 'door' wasn't locked or required us to open. Some would say 'just being Lucky', but was HIS plan all along.

  • @endora2.046
    @endora2.046 3 роки тому +39

    When Lydia didn't understand why you stayed at your ex's driveway,that right there was a big red flag.Of course your kids come before anything or anybody.Sorry you felt compelled to explain to strangers about your love life.The video break up was the smartest move you made.The "woman"has many problems,thank your lucky stars you aren't one of 'um.

  • @edaker4684
    @edaker4684 3 роки тому +46

    I've observed certain traits about Lidia that I've seen before in other people I know. She seems to emote quite often as well as being quite defensive. One of the times I always remember is when a contractor she hired at her house made a mistake and she lost any type of control of her behavior and screamed at him like he was some peasant below her. And of course she was filming it. I saw your frustration when that happened and since then I've had a low opinion of her character. Needless to say I've unsubscribed from her channel.

  • @KoiLakes
    @KoiLakes 3 роки тому +5

    I've followed you way before Lidia and I'll continue to follow you.. You're awesome!!

  • @robsteve7043
    @robsteve7043 3 роки тому +32

    I used to be married to a controller, so I can spot them right away. The first time we saw Lidia I said to my wife she's a controller. If you don't give them their way they make your life miserable. She's also a know it all. The fact that she keeps bashing you when you never said anything bad about her shows her lack of character. You're better off without her. I would rather be alone than be with a controller. I'm glad you spoke up for yourself.

    • @anybodyoutthere3208
      @anybodyoutthere3208 3 роки тому +4

      EXACTLY! She really did have issues

    • @VoklstWestie
      @VoklstWestie Рік тому +1

      Your term controller is correct, in the general public known as narcissist or in Lydias case...
      Chronic Narcissist.

  • @michelelynn6914
    @michelelynn6914 3 роки тому +75

    Anyone can tell she is being petty and needs to move on with her life just like you have. You two broke up a long time ago and it's sad she is bashing you. Take care

  • @carollyngillespie3860
    @carollyngillespie3860 3 роки тому +38

    Anytime a relationship is that difficult, it's not worth it. She obviously has control issues. Best thing is breaking off. You have already had a bad relationship.

  • @esmemcgill4570
    @esmemcgill4570 3 роки тому +25

    How very sad is this. To see this lovely man talking and explaining stuff to us, because other people are trashing him on You Tube. You do not have to justify anything to us Luis. We love you lots. Enjoy your stress free life now. We will be here.

    • @daved3948
      @daved3948 3 роки тому +4

      Yes indeed, he avoided a train wreck. He's a good guy and deserves to be happy.

  • @lisabailon1010
    @lisabailon1010 3 роки тому +8

    You are a good man. Life is short. Don't need stress and drama in your life. Absolutely she has issues and you did the best thing let it be. God bless. Enjoy your time with your son making memories.😃

  • @colyhope6467
    @colyhope6467 3 роки тому +17

    Luis, you have one of the most respectable nomad channels on UA-cam.

  • @lilya.7959
    @lilya.7959 3 роки тому +9

    I dropped her channel. You dont need to defend yourself you are a good man. She is a mean lady

  • @kathyfann
    @kathyfann 2 роки тому +2

    That’s real kind of you to not feed the the gossip. Your a stand up guy. Don’t worry about us. We appreciate you

  • @youtubetrailerpark
    @youtubetrailerpark 3 роки тому +21

    I remember watching your videos during that time. When you did a video about your breakup, I respected that and never gave it another thought. Not sure why other people can't do the same.

  • @LullyIsaias
    @LullyIsaias 3 роки тому +4

    It was the most beautiful breakup video I have seen in life, not even in the movies have I seen something so beaitiful. I am sorry for your having to go through these bashings!

  • @Mary-yu3sn
    @Mary-yu3sn 3 роки тому +6

    WOW it was her after all the WORK YOU DID FOR HER...

  • @jowhatdoyouknow8383
    @jowhatdoyouknow8383 3 роки тому +8

    It is pretty clear how much you had done for her throughout the relationship. I always felt like she wasn’t very grateful. You sir are a gentleman and wish you nothing but the very best. Keep being your happy self. People don’t always comment but the support for you is huge!

  • @darlenearmstrong3582
    @darlenearmstrong3582 3 роки тому +20

    Wow, dude. Sounds like it's a good thing that you broke free. She seems to have made some unrealistic expectations on you. She should've been supportive of you seeing your kids. And her making a "bashing" video is pretty low.

  • @AlexRodriguez-gw8xt
    @AlexRodriguez-gw8xt 3 роки тому +11

    I bet she’s read all these comments in this feed and is pulling her hair out with all the people speaking the truth about her..

    • @lettketch
      @lettketch 3 роки тому +1

      She uploaded a response video to this video. She's not the only one pulling her hair out. I'm torn now. Looks like Luis will have have to respond to another one of her videos.

    • @tammysiltanen884
      @tammysiltanen884 3 роки тому

      @@lettketch If I were him I'd leave it at this. She just wants that back and forth and arguing. Honestly, he could say nice things he could say critical things and she'd only light up more against him. She sounds like she's got some disorders hidden in her background.

  • @audreysmith6579
    @audreysmith6579 2 роки тому +2

    I lost my tablet that I had subscribed to your channel on. It's taken me years to find you again. Sad that you and your friend have split ways but no harm no foul. Go live your best life man and take us all along with you. Happy trails.

  • @satinlace12003
    @satinlace12003 3 роки тому +15

    Louis so sorry after all this time she feels the need to disgrace your name. She wants people to think she's a Christian when actually she's not a true Christian, she's a hypocrite. I use to follow you two when you were a couple and could tell she was very controlling, selfish, and immature. I use to think what in the world did you ever see in her it was so clear to others what kind of a person she was/is and it's not a good hearted kind person like you are Louis. I guess that old expression is true that "Love is Blind". Believe me your better off without her and I pray someday you will meet someone that will treat you with love and respect that you deserve.

  • @pauloduarte3095
    @pauloduarte3095 3 роки тому +2

    Brother, in the end you did everything that you can do to avoid the trouble, i respect you for that.
    You do not need to explain yourself to no one.
    To me, she just wants some cloud, and nothing more.
    Keep up the amazing work brother and God bless you and protect you

  • @rhondagarrison8190
    @rhondagarrison8190 3 роки тому +7

    I don't comment much on videos; but, I just wanted to say I believe you. I no longer watch her videos because I started noticing the way she viewed things and it just always seemed to be about her and the heck with other's feelings....heck I'm trying to be nice but honestly she just comes across as a border line narcissist. Blessings to you.

  • @leeroyjenkins436
    @leeroyjenkins436 3 роки тому +8

    No need to defend yourself. Some people live off drama and conflict.

  • @kimbrandom2789
    @kimbrandom2789 3 роки тому +14

    I understand your need to defend yourself, but as a general rule in my world, when people act dramatically and when they unnecessarily air their relationship drama, they lose points at that juncture. Also, in my opinion,when people share such drama they are doing so to harness sympathy and use it to sensationalize their channel, blog, etc. Anything less than discretion in such matters is just immature.

  • @mr.c6383
    @mr.c6383 3 роки тому +10

    back when you 2 were still together.... I did not have a good feeling about her.. I thought that she was "using" you..... like many other females on YT that I have seen...
    move forward and strive to continue to be blessed in your life

  • @jsaphire
    @jsaphire 3 роки тому +5

    It is sad that you feel you have to explain yourself. I enjoy your videos and look forward to seeing more. She is showing her true colors and don't let the dumb stuff get to you, you are better than this.

  • @shirleydittman6376
    @shirleydittman6376 3 роки тому +13

    I remember the videos at the time. I could not believe that she got that mad that she drove away. I kept thinking that, I could not believe that she threw away a relationship over one or two bad days. Keep you head high! I also still watch Lydia. you are both good people trying to make you ways through life.

  • @woodsfanatic8569
    @woodsfanatic8569 3 роки тому +7

    Initially I sided with Lydia by theway she portrayed it on her video. Quickly I started to see her issues. Nobodys perfect but...since her trip out west. She is obviously envious of Cheaprv living Bob and wants to create her own cult following, with her as the judgemental leader. She is using her politics, Qanon, fear paranoia and Religion as the way to suck vulnerable people in. Her behavior to some of those cult members who questioned her and the public is appauling. Very defensive, critical, chronic complainer and controlling. I hope some of the vulnerable victims she is trying to "help" Don't get sucked in to her cult. She wants to be recognized as a martyer and then a victim. She keeps using her religion and defends her truth as being a prophet and god calling her and giving her signs. Pay attention to how those treat people in service as eventually it will be how they treat those close to you. I feel bad for Christian he was such a nice kid. I hope he is doing well after getting away from her toxicity.

  • @micealmacadaim6550
    @micealmacadaim6550 3 роки тому +7

    The reason why a woman like Lidia won't let go is because of deep rooted bitterness. You were smart moving on from that control freak. Don't give her the time of day, she's a looser.

  • @kindnessworks71
    @kindnessworks71 3 роки тому +2

    I'm glad you're able to get this off your chest.Breakups are always hard. I'm sending you a couple 🤗. Happy Father's Day 💖 God bless and stay safe my friend

  • @chancefitzgerald7740
    @chancefitzgerald7740 3 роки тому +4

    We are on your side, you have been straight with us. Just move on, she is all about drama. Smart move. Thank you.

  • @FairyChild_For_Freedom-Justice
    @FairyChild_For_Freedom-Justice 3 роки тому +4

    You can't control other people in their actions don't let it control your feelings you close the door don't listen to the videos your videos speaks volumes very respectful

  • @marilyngrube2417
    @marilyngrube2417 3 роки тому +24

    I knew she was trouble when you 1st gotten together bcuz of her past taste of men. And she can’t have a decent man because of her personal issues the way she views men. She was never religious before now she suddenly “is” she should not even visit the past if she is consider herself a “Christian” keep doing what you’re doing in moving forward. 👍🏽🙏🏽

    • @celticwarrior777
      @celticwarrior777 3 роки тому +2

      doesnt matter anyway no matter what we do as humans we all return to god. we didnt come here to be perfect we came here for our soul to rxperience.

    • @277kne
      @277kne 3 роки тому +2

      Are you thinking about the other guy? The previous one who has a UA-cam channel?
      He makes me feel depressed watching him.
      I know Camo Dave used to talk about him.

    • @marilyngrube2417
      @marilyngrube2417 3 роки тому +1

      @@277kne LOL 😂

  • @kathysmith4637
    @kathysmith4637 3 роки тому +1

    I love watching you any time of the day ! You are a very intelligent man ,sweet at heart, very nice looking , and you love , and take care of your children and you love the lord ! I could go on and on but I will leave it like that for now ! You take care and not worry about what she says because I believe in you and I’m sure all of your subscribers believe in you too! You have a wonderful day and safe travels ❤️🙏🏻

  • @pgaylenh
    @pgaylenh 3 роки тому +11

    Luis, I feel awful that you are getting bashed over your break up with Lydia. Do not let the trolls get to you.
    Having known you for several years Bill and I know you are an honorable and Godly man. You took the high road in this break up. We like Lydia also but stopped watching her videos when she started bashing you. To us it didn't matter what caused the break up but airing personal grievances against a person you were involved with is not attractive. You are one of the most honest men we know. Keep safe on the road.

  • @DocDave77
    @DocDave77 3 роки тому +4

    Oh, that Lidia. I don't know her personally but I've watch a couple of her videos in the past and could have told you it wouldn't end pretty. Maintain the high road and the court of public opinion (which you were drug into) will side with you. Peace brother.

  • @1turf32
    @1turf32 3 роки тому +3

    Well done video. You have done what most UA-camrs can't . I don't understand why people like to bash others but claim there for christ. Be safe

  • @sallymills7141
    @sallymills7141 3 роки тому +22

    Lidia is Toxic hon, you're better off without her. I had unsubscribed from her channel because of her attitude toward everything. Don't give another thought to her and her spiteful ways. You deserve better.

  • @robertreed4299
    @robertreed4299 3 роки тому +8

    Willie Nelson once said “do you know why divorce is SOOO expensive?
    Because it’s worth it!!!

  • @steelfist65
    @steelfist65 3 роки тому +2

    I won't comment on Lidia other than to say this. I've been a subscriber of yours since the beginning. I remember you building the van in the driveway of your old house. You were in survival mode, and you made extreme sacrifices to take care of yourself and do the best for your children. I always admired your perseverance. It wasn't easy on you or your children. How someone can find it in their heart to call you evil, is not only astounding, but sad and appalling. I think you were always abundantly clear that any relationship that you had with your wife in the past was long gone, and not ever returning. I reached out to you before. I live 30 miles north of Port Jervis. I'm in NY, but minutes from the PA border. I've seen you before by Lowe's and Planet Fitness years ago. I think some people just can't stand prosperity. It is a self fulfilling prophecy to always find fault in your partner. I assume that she expected you to come running after her, and when you didn't, she got offended. Some of us allow our emotions get the best of us. However, I understand your position. I'm sorry that you are going through this. I know the struggle. Be well.

  • @northwoodscamperman735
    @northwoodscamperman735 3 роки тому +1

    I believe you I love your videos! Keep your head up and don't let her get to you

  • @johngoncalves4504
    @johngoncalves4504 3 роки тому +25

    Myself and alot of other vans could see how she treated you for awhile! She was always bossing you around

  • @suzy9342
    @suzy9342 3 роки тому +3

    Ann..
    My heart feels sad ..that you a grown man should feel he has to defend himself ... Blessings of healing 🙏💋🌹😇

  • @amechealle5918
    @amechealle5918 3 роки тому +5

    When you were dating I remember her making negative comments about just about everything from loud people, other customers , cars etc. I found it uncomfortable and actually stopped watching. I hope she finds a way to release her toxic nature and lives with peace. I hope you are able to not feel pressured to talk about it again. Enjoy your adventures I look forward to more fun. 🚐⛰🏕🏜🏝🏘🗺

  • @voodoopete6206
    @voodoopete6206 3 роки тому +1

    Well that sucks, don't sweat it. You are a good man from what we can see. Her loss and she can't let go.

  • @bigdave5946
    @bigdave5946 3 роки тому +3

    Your blessed that you ended the relationship. Some people just look for drama . She’s just trying to draw you back into her chaos . I’ve know people this and moving on and not looking back is the best thing for you. She will never look at her action and self evaluate like you did .

  • @alwaysbetruetoyou
    @alwaysbetruetoyou 3 роки тому +4

    She obviously has issues that are not for you to fix. I am sorry you have experienced this. I hope she finds the mental health help that she needs. No, I am not in that relationship with you but, I am a mental health professional & I am only speaking on what I have heard from both of you. You don't owe anyone an explanation. You did what you felt was the best thing to do. Smile, life is wonderful & you deserve to be happy. :-)

  • @Indianinthemachine
    @Indianinthemachine 3 роки тому +2

    Luis~ When I saw her being rude and mean to you, I knew something was off, when I saw her boy showing similar tendencies, I thought... whoa, major red flag... but for her to be publicly bashing you is inexcusable. The worst feeling is to feel more alone in a relationship, than being single. Wishing you the best, and during your solo time, you're becoming even stronger, more loving and patient... you are dearly loved and cherished by many, including me, and glad to hear you're taking the high road, where the view is great.

  • @pauline4848
    @pauline4848 3 роки тому +2

    This Is What I Know Luis👀 Your A Great Father👍 Happy Father's Day On Sunday 👏

  • @LuckyBulldog
    @LuckyBulldog 3 роки тому +2

    She is in her feelings because she saw you with your new friend on a boat ..
    Safe travels 😎💥

    • @TB-zx9wb
      @TB-zx9wb 3 роки тому +2

      Monet is so nice!

  • @hildaperezcolon
    @hildaperezcolon 3 роки тому +2

    I unsubscribe her so no worries I can’t see her bashing of you. Keep doing what you’re doing and I’ll keep watching. GBU

  • @waynekarnold
    @waynekarnold 3 роки тому +4

    God bless you my friend carry on

  • @LyraKeltica61
    @LyraKeltica61 3 роки тому +1

    Oh Louis, I have been watching your videos for only a few months. I don't know anything about your exes except that I feel sorry for them. You are such a handsome, hard working, loving father; I've been watching your videos with you and Josh and they warm my heart. You are always helping someone else with their vans or harvesting their trees, even warning people of danger they might be in.
    You are creative and funny and your videos are fun to watch. I look forward to the new ones every week. I love your scripture readings at the end of your videos. I'm sorry that you still love this woman, and I hope your heart isn't broken. I know time doesn't heal all wounds, and I don't believe nor will I spew most clichés a lot of people like to say.
    I myself am a 60 year old woman a mom and grandma. My heart has been broken so many times that it is just broke. I pray to GOD that you never get that broke. Because you are truly a loving worthy man, and there are not many like you in this world. GOD BLESS you and your children and may the rest of your life be full of the love, peace, and happiness that your videos bring to us who watch you. And Happy Father's Day to you.

  • @Yesharu1957
    @Yesharu1957 3 роки тому +8

    Sorry you felt the need to make this video. She just needs to move on. Blessings to all involved.

  • @escapeartist8581
    @escapeartist8581 3 роки тому +1

    So sorry that you felt you needed to make this painful video. I too, stopped watching Lidia's videos as it was all holiness one day and bashing folks the next. Maybe she needs professional help. We all have our problems but adults handle them like adults. I know you as a kind and caring person- whatever anyone else thinks from watching her videos is water under the bridge. I hope making this video helps you "clear the air". We as viewers are ready for the next chapter of Father and Son travels!!! High Production!! Onward!! 😁🖖🚐

  • @southerngal7899
    @southerngal7899 3 роки тому +6

    Luis, you have handled this like the gentleman that you are. Don't take this wrong, but I "tried" watching her videos when she had her little caravan but, honestly, she wasn't very nice to those ladies and didn't seem to mind showing it on her vids so I just had to quit watching. She was very controlling to them. If anyone watches her videos, they can see for themselves unless she's changed because I just have others I'd rather watch. I know the feeling of being in a similar situation, but I was married to him. I did nothing wrong and he admitted it after he ran,around on me. We even dated again 2 yrs later after we divorced but he had really changed and it just wasn't the same. I loved him so much and to just be stepped on really hurt so I know that feeling. All I can say is that I'm better off without going through all that again.
    I'm sorry things didn't work out for y'all but seems God has another plan. God bless you 🙏 and you'll find happiness with someone else when He says it's right. So glad you still have a close relationship with your children. Y'all have fun and they love you so much. Stand proud because you haven't bashed her. Tc my friend and safe travels. 🙏
    (Southern gal in La)

    • @TB-zx9wb
      @TB-zx9wb 3 роки тому

      speaking of the caravan, what is the membership fee for?? what does she do with that??

    • @southerngal7899
      @southerngal7899 3 роки тому

      @@TB-zx9wb Sorry, no idea. I don't know if she's still Caravanning because I haven't watched her in months. Sorry. Tc 🙏

  • @pinkpanda5696
    @pinkpanda5696 3 роки тому +4

    I just recently found your channel so I don't know you at all via UA-cam nor do I know her. There are two sides to every story and then there's the truth. We all perceive what happened in a past romance differently because we are all unique human beings. I watched a past video of yours with Lidia in it and you two seemed very happy together at some point. Just hold onto those memories. I wish both of you well in the future.

  • @bdubz5150
    @bdubz5150 3 роки тому +30

    Move on from Lidia. She is the one with issues, not you.

  • @confabulouscruisers
    @confabulouscruisers 3 роки тому +1

    Exiting a relationship is never easy. I pray for the best for both of you. (Hugs and Peace)

  • @kristinburton4953
    @kristinburton4953 3 роки тому +4

    Lidia driving off was the break-up, you just confirmed it from your side of things. You have awful luck with women, you have to have some luck come up in the future. Not all women are awful, just like not all men are awful. It's just incredibly hard finding the right person at the right time.

  • @larrymunden1753
    @larrymunden1753 3 роки тому +7

    Seems the main problem is that you broke up with her in a video. Would have been more respectful to contact her personally.

    • @celticwarrior777
      @celticwarrior777 3 роки тому +3

      no she ran off and stopped talking i him that was the problem. she wouldnt answer him. huffing like a two year old and wrecking his birthday. shes a nightmare of a woman from what ive seen.

    • @apage1717
      @apage1717 3 роки тому

      How ? She didn't answer the phone. Should he leave a voice breaking up message?

  • @daved3948
    @daved3948 3 роки тому +3

    Some women will bash you after a breakup, it's in their nature to come out smelling like a rose in the end. It's a narcissistic personality disorder that some women have, not all but (some) you're a good guy and you deserve to be happy bro.

  • @MsCar2008
    @MsCar2008 3 роки тому +25

    This is so screwed up that you have to say anything about your personal life. Saying nothing and just moving forward is a pretty good indication on who is telling the truth about what happened. I really wasn’t watching the videos at the time you guys broke up would catch one occasional but no one is going to please her. I’m sure she is a jealous person and it’s pretty obvious that she has issues. Your followers watch you because you don’t bash people and try to live your life with grace, don’t let someone that unhappy take up space in your mind. Moving forward with my friend.

  • @knowhim3624
    @knowhim3624 3 роки тому +3

    as so many have stated, you should have just kept silent - remember the good times you shared together, this is what is required of us and will be pleasing to The Lord. hugs.

  • @youraussienomadfriends
    @youraussienomadfriends 3 роки тому +15

    Hello, hey the past is the past. Some of us are mature enough to move on.Hey we are your friends!!!!!!! Love from your Aussie nomad friends ❤️🤗❤️🤗😘

  • @catemitten5857
    @catemitten5857 3 роки тому +3

    Have to agree with YOU
    She's hard to TAKE!

  • @billmcroberts6566
    @billmcroberts6566 3 роки тому +13

    Luis, the problem with answering her accusations is the possibility of this whole situation becoming a never ending “back and forth” between the two of you. You are both adults and what happens between you two should only be between you two. As viewers, we can’t settle anything. Each of us will have our perception of you two and there’s not much that either of you can do to change it. One of the aspects of YOUR channel that I really appreciate is your dedication to your Lord and the almost total lack of drama. Just my $.02 worth. May God continue to bless you and your efforts.

    • @jeanw9977
      @jeanw9977 3 роки тому

      I agree with you Bill McRoberts!

  • @charp2977
    @charp2977 3 роки тому +2

    Hey Luis been an avid watcher of you for a long time you are a great guy, no need to explain you did the best you can she just needs to get over herself .Keep on making great videos will still be watching you stay safe,and careful out there my friend have a great life I'll be watching.😘

  • @IAmNotA.12345
    @IAmNotA.12345 2 роки тому +1

    Hey Luis, I'm a recent sub to your channel. I'm sorry to hear of the issues you're dealing with. I've been in a similar shituation. Unfortunately, there are no easy solutions. It is important that you have a relationship with your former partner - the mother of your children - at the very least, for the sake of your children. You can model how adults should behave, even though you have both moved on emotionally. Your children need to see that adults behave reasonably, and in the best interests of their kiddos. I feel sorry for Lidia, because she obviously did not understand your relationship with your former partner. Nor did she understand your relationship with your kids. And that, sir, is unforgivable.

  • @glamperjan
    @glamperjan 3 роки тому +3

    I just watched her video. She has gone off the deep end under the guise of a Bible study. Do not defend yourself anymore about this situation. It's over. You have moved on with dignity. Let it go. You are living in the now and that is all we have. You are a good person and we all know that. Enjoy your travels with Joshua. Take care ❤

  • @Fayette123
    @Fayette123 3 роки тому +1

    You don't need to explain anything to us. You're a nice guy. Keep doing what you do best "High Product". Have a great day

  • @bettybrigance6784
    @bettybrigance6784 3 роки тому +5

    Some people can't deal with rejection....lay it down and walk away......be happy, please continue sharing your videos...you bring smiles/giggles to us, I love seeing you and your son out there....just be happy.....

  • @jonandmiakrocker5937
    @jonandmiakrocker5937 3 роки тому +1

    Sorry to hear you're going through this. The truth always comes out. God knows. Pray for her peace brother.

  • @alfredwescott9725
    @alfredwescott9725 3 роки тому +1

    Thank you for defending yourself, just this once. Thank you for making it just once. We love you…let’s move on and have a beautiful life.

  • @susanronan725
    @susanronan725 3 роки тому +8

    For those who know you and know Lidia knows exactly where the problem was... sorry to say but Lidia is a very controlling negative woman and it must be all her way. She does lie and is very judgemental of other people she doesn't know amd gossips about them. Listen people I have traveled with her for several months and I have seen the true Lidia. There is something very wrong with her and she isn't what she portrays to ne.

    • @brendasullivan901
      @brendasullivan901 3 роки тому +2

      I watched a few of those videos, and that's when I stopped...they way she was with her traveling companions was disturbing..