You’re not a tranny and this can be proven by a google image search. The word is not for you to reclaim. If you have to label yourself publicly as a tranny… you’re probably not one. Hell even a porn search will not directly lead you to trans masculine sex workers. I can acknowledge that you might’ve been called this word but the social connotations are not nearly the same or as impactful. The language used to invalidate trans masculine vs. trans feminine identities is different. You are not dehumanized by cis people in the same way with the word Tranny. Straight up. You don’t get to gatekeep transsexuals and what it means to be one unfortunately. The narratives are tired.
I am so glad I discovered your channel! I have spent far too much time supporting what I thought was the right thing when in reality, I didn’t even realize that there were extremists on the side as well. I’m definitely subscribing to you because I have a lot to learn about these types of topics, and I want to make sure I can be a good person to others and teach others to do the same
@@tabithawilks4434 Because Marcus “mutilated HER” body. He’s a big time transphobe who thinks passing transpeople like Marcus and Blair should be legally forced to use a woman’s and man’s bathroom, respectively, and arrested if they don’t. Isaac devoted a whole video upload last week to sh*tting on Marcus and Blair, especially Marcus. Supposedly Isaac is a detransitioner.
There really is a double standard though! They don’t want to go into the men’s bathroom for fear of being assaulted but happily open the flood gates for women to be vulnerable. This is legit the problem.
@@mrpeachees2388 So you can read the thoughts and intentions of every single transwoman then? Nah, didn’t think so. Regardless of that stupid generalisation, the problem lies with the fact that actual women’s privacy and safety is being put at risk and our rights being changed and twisted because of the feelings of a tiny minority. But we’re expected to sit down and shut up. No, sir. Not me.
Why always blame men for everything ? You need to understand that women are mostly the weak one and need to be protected because leave men now your trans men and tran women can also hurt you bruh
I'm a gay man and i remember how i once accidentally got into a womens bathroom in a club, which was one of the most embarrassing moments of my life. When i got in nobody was there and i thought i was in the mens bathroom. So i got inside one of the cabins because there were no urinals (which was a dead giveaway that I'm in the wrong bathroom, but i still managed not to grasp that fact). Pretty much right after i got into the cabin and looked the door i realised my mistake because in the same moment i heard a group of girls walking into the bathroom and chatting. I fell into panic and decided to wait in the cabin for them to leave and quickly get out of there. However they be going on chatting for ever. Than i texted my sister and described my situation and asked her to come to rescue me from there so i don't have to do the walk of shame alone, but my sister simply didn't looked at her phone. So after 15 minutes being trapped in the cabin, i decided to just walk out of there and take the humiliation. I walked out of the cabin, with a face that was probably as red as a rose, looked down und just said repeatedly "sorry, wrong toilet"... i didn't make eye contact with the girls but i can remember that they stopped chatting after they saw me. Don't know if there were just stunned seeing a dude walk out of a cabin or if they were so uncomfortable with my present that they stopped talking, but i got out of there without getting any shaming from the girls. Why am i telling this long story? Because i felt sooo shameful and embarrassed about ACCIDENTALLY walking into a womens bathroom, even as a gay man that can't ever have any predatory sexualy urges towards women, that i can't ever imagine myself walking into a womens bathroom ON PURPOSE. How this dressed up men even have the arrogance to do this is beyond me.
Don't feel so bad! I did the same mistake before, hopefully with no need to walk past guys, hah, but really girls probably were jus surprised, I personally would laugh from "wtf" moment if that happened with me.
@@melodi996 I know that they most probably weren't thinking that i was some creep lurking in womens spaces and that they just weren't expecting seeing a guy coming out of the cabin, but even with that in mind it was still a very uncomfortable situation for me and that's my ponit of the story. How did we end up here were men like me respekt womens spaces so much, that they feel uncomfortable even accidentally infiltrating those spaces, while we also have full grown ass men with lipstick and a wig that feel absolutely comfortable sharing such spaces with women and even fully undress in womens locker rooms? That's insane to me.
@@Draco19970125 That's so easy to answer that it's embarrassing that you don't know the answer yourself. Because a bathroom for us men is just a place for us to piss and shit and nothing else. We use it only for that purpose. For us it's usually a stinky and not so pleasant place to be that we want to leave as quickly as possible and we absolutely do not care who's in it and what they are doing there. We don't even look into each others eyes. Also it's very, very unlikely that we get sexualy harassed from a trans-men that is hiding behind that image just to get to men. For women on the other hand it's more than just that. It's a save place were they can retrieve from predatory men that bother them. It's a place were they socialise with other women. It's a place were they fix their makeup and outfits. It's a place were women take care of their intimate hygiene because periods you know. It's a very intimate place for them were they are very vulnerable and that's why men have absolutely no place in there. No women wants to be in the presence of a male stranger while adjusting her bra or asking another women for a tampon. Also perverted and predatory men can absolutely abuse the whole trans thing to get access into womens intimate places like bathrooms. There's a good reason why bathrooms and lockerrooms are divided by gender. To put it simple: Because men are predatory by nature. There are just decent and good men who don't act on their primitive instincts, but unfortunately many do. Hope this makes everything perfectly clear for you.
@@eerielamp yup women are told they are transphobic if they try and say something about an obvious male in our spaces. Self id is wrong and this is a loophole for predatory men.
Back in the day everyone was essentially a law enforcement agent. Sadly modern times has lost that knowledge and now only certain individuals are seen as having policing power.
That's what bothers me about people who are pro-selfID. I've had a man follow me into the women's locker room but I was able to go to the security and tell them a man had done something suspicious. But I'm genuinely worried about gyms and public restrooms now with this gender ID obsession 🙄
I would stop and wonder if I went to the wrong bathroom if a man was washing his hands in the women's room. If he is uncomfortable in the men's room because men can be assholes, he should understand why his presence in the women's room makes women uncomfortable.
I have long hair and if you saw me at a distance or in certain clothes you could probably mistake me for a girl (I'm in highschool) also I feel a lot of dysphoria about being a "man" however I can verify that going to the boys restroom (although usually disgusting) hasn't caused me any danger. In kindergarten someone watched me use the restroom in a stall but it was another kindergartner, at least, although it caused me severe anxiety in bathrooms for a very long time and I don't want to devalidate that experience. It is absurd to grow a beard and expect allowance into the woman's restroom. I am more feminine than anyone who purposely grows a beard, yet as a BIOLOGICAL male, even one who has has negative bathroom privacy experiences, feel it is right to use the boys restroom and I would simply feel uncomfortable in the girls restroom because I would be invading people's space. Those fools have no concern for women, they say they are women when in fact they don't respect the thing they say they are.
That last one gives me serial killer vibes and I’m not joking . Highly disturbing individual who was clearly in the wrong, he even said his own friends shouted at him . His own friends are saying dude stop and his response is to scream them down and impose his will on all the women in the building . Huge ego . Very into control, and no regard for how this will affect actual trans womens lives too
My partner and I went to a Korean Bath house we always go to. When we entered many women were telling us there was a man in the NAKED women’s bath house side. We entered and a non passing “trans woman” with their dick hanging out is just in there making all these women ranging from age, and mothers with their extremely young daughters on edge, I felt like crying and so many other women were looking stressed. Enough women complained to have them asked to leave, but it was crazy to me that this person doesn’t care how women who are naked around other women, trying to feel safe with that already, feel. They were gracious, but it was mind blowing how the women just relaxed and looked more jovial with eachother when this person left. So many women went up to the staff to say it’s unacceptable.
They thretened to k**l her! Yeah, the movement for rights and freedom treatened someone for stating a FACT! How inclusive! They want to take women rights away, they are nothing than psychothic narcisists who believes they have more value and rights than women. It's nothing more than misoginy
I ❤️ JK Rowling and Kellie Jay Keen and anyone else who speaks for women's spaces and rights. I'm not always good at speaking to people. I've suffered abuse from men. It doesn't mean I should have no peace or privacy or feel safe in public. I cut short shopping trips so I won't need to visit the loo. I know I can go about one and a half hours comfortably. Then I drive home with my jeans unbuttoned
I'm a transgender woman and legally female, but I still use the men's restroom because I feel I'm not passable enough to yet to not cause any issues. It's MY choice and I choose to take not just my feelings but the feelings of others into account when I walk into women's spaces. As I progress in my transition I'm sure I'll get to a point where it will be unnatural to be in men's spaces, and I'll move to women's spaces. I think the biggest thing to remember as a trans person is respect is earned, not just owed.
I´s really nice from you. However watch outtake care for yourself. In some situations you should better choose your safety. If you see some sketchy guys in there, better go in the womens room.
😂😂 this is what i mean hunny legally.. do u hear urself if u werent born a woman at birth then ur not a woman u will continue to be called a tranny because thats what u are ..🤦♀️
My younger cousin is in high school now... And apparently students who identify as non-binary are allowed to use whichever bathroom they choose... and she told me she had to deal with a dude looking through the crack of her stall well she was going to the bathroom, and when she complained about it, his excuse was that he was in the girls bathroom because he's non-binary, and he was just checking to see if somebody was in there.... The principal apparently gave him a slap on the wrist, and said next time look under the door to check for feet instead....
Tell her to call them out in a very stern "HEY! I see you looking at me through the cracks, get your business done and get out! If you continue to be a pervert I'm going to throw my shit at you and try to rub it in your face!" The more we learn to be stern and no nonsense the more it might make people think twice about fucking with people. Oh and tell her to follow through with it, so they know it's serious. My gma taught me to hit back harder, if someone comes at you with some bs; Throw it back in their face with 2× more of the same energy so they'll never try it again. Edit: With the shit I know it's nasty maybe don't do that in particular but I hope you get my point
Tell her to keep a travel size arisol container of hairspray with her in the bathroom and spray anybody who looks in the cracks. You can get them at the dollar store 😉
I totally agree with you, I’m a straight woman, born a woman. I always said that I’ve probably used the public washroom and at least once probably had a “real” trans woman next to me, no issue, it’s the ones with full beards, and a little excited 🪵 that I have a problem with. Real trans woman, I believe, are not the threat, they don’t draw attention to themselves, they just want to be, work, pay bills and go home, blend in.
What pisses me off is that most of those kinds of people don't even accept the fact that some girls and women HAVE been sexually assaulted, or faced with a man who is using this loophole to be predatory to women. They act like we are the crazy ones for wanting to protect the most vulnerable amongst us. I love your work Marcus and I really appreciate watching your videos. You are incredibly intelligent, very sweet and extremely handsome!!
I was one and it does bother me. I will not use a public bathroom because I don't want to be put into a situation that will Trigger flashbacks. Once again I have men telling me it's my fault and I'm bad because they decided that and then mansplain it to me . Its insulting
It's of little surprise as trans is inherently a lie. It was accepted as a white lie due to people who have a poorly understood medical condition but it has been made political and coopted by perverts who are destroying what little good faith was granted.
In the US, 1 in 4 females have been sexually molested. What the stats don't show it that it is not a one time deal for most. A relative said that as a little girl, before she could understand her feelings, she felt uncomfortable/unsafe around some older boys/men and did not want to be left alone with them and would run away or change direction when they called after her from their car or from across the street. She had a lot of such experiences, but took it as part of life because the experiences started early in life for her and she did not question it until she was an adult. It was heartbreaking to hear about her experiences and what brought it to the surface for her was the acceptance of men invading "women only" spaces. Without the details, she became one of the four, eventually. Allowing men into "female only" areas takes away a buffer zone. Creeps can now be that much closer to women physically before they can react to protect themselves. More than cis-men, these radical trans women are misogynistic as H*ll. They are creepy, but worse, they have opened the door for predators to enter as can be confirmed by recent stories in the news.
the gaslighting will never stop. no matter what situation its ALWAYS womens fault. all over the world too. still blaming women for existing in the middle east, forcing them to cover their entire bodies bc men cant control themselves. im sick to death of it. the misogyny in the gay and trans community is out of control
A trans women once told me “if you don’t look the part, you won’t get treated as such”. people will treat you how you appear to them, whether it’s race or gender. An honestly I’d probably just assume these individuals where just gay 😅; especially with a visible beard
I'm pretty sure he and the rest of the fake trans are just Drama queen gay boys trying for attention other wise they would of all ready snip the little bits down below.
My bed friend growing up was a guy, but he was always lean and tall, not super muscular and for a while he had this gorgeous shoulder length blonde hair. Soo many random strangers mistook him for a girl until he spoke we just expected it at that point. He even always had sharp facial features and even with that people would misgender him randomly. He was basically just clean shaven, had longer hair and was thin/not very muscular. My point being it's not even that difficult to look like you pass as a woman for men. It just takes a bit of effort.
I have some bearded gay friends & I would absolutely tell them to get out of the women's bathroom if they tried to enter one. Not that they would because they are decent human beings.
5:38 Bruh, this escalated so damn fast. He uses the ladies restroom and a woman says he is a man and he loses it and starts yelling at her and she even had her kids in the same bathroom and the kids had to see an angry man yelling at their mother in the women's bathroom.
You have said exactly what I think, if someone looks like a woman no one will take any notice of them in the bathroom. However if they have a beard, balding head and other masculine features it won’t fool anyone. These people are making life difficult for true trans people and also LGB
As someone who has been sexually assaulted many times… having these types of individuals claiming being ‘transgender’ and entering women’s bathrooms would send me into an anxiety attack.. but we have to keep them comfortable right?🙄
They are not really trans and the problem is the trans activists who are pushing this ideology which is allowing predators like these who are not even trans with no history of dysphoria to enter womens spaces and invade them. Me i am still early in my transition and i am respectful and i think about the safety of others and i still have a ling way to go in my transition but in the mean time im still using mens bathrooms.
I’ve been SAed by a man who identifies as trans now it’s complicated cuz we stayed friends for a bit after but ya I wouldn’t feel comfortable with a man in my bathroom
Sister, the moment he enters the bathroom, you should kick him in the balls.. and when he starts yelling and crying, he will forget that he is "she" immediately... and will have a panic attack.
I hope you take courage to be outspoken about your discomfort. It’s not right nor fair what’s happening to born women. We’re actually being made to feel like “we’re” what’s wrong. Wow.
@@tailwatcher2500 no ig what the above person meant was that sometimes people love blaming others instead of taking self Responsibility. Just because they are too overly sensitive doesn't mean they are never wrong. Friends are meant to correct your mistake and call you out on that not to support your self entitled toxic behaviour and if they do the later one then they aren't even your actual friends.
@@amandak.4246 Right?! My thinking is literally the opposite. Much smaller example but if you're my friend and let me walk around with you all day in public with a giant booger hanging at my nose..when I look in the mirror I will immediately turn to you and ask "OMG WTF Why didn't you tell me?". Or worse if a stranger winds up telling me, I will be now a very mortified me asking the same dang question! It's part of what friends are for.💓👋🏼
I'm a SA survivor, if someone who looks looks like a straight up man with a full beard walks in the girls bathroom while I am in there I will probably start screaming. Am I suppose to feel literally unsafe in a place I'm suppose to just because someone who watches too much tic tok and doesn't think gender is real thinks they have the right to invade it at their whim. Actual trans people don't even need to pass to use restrooms, all you have to do is at least look like you're making an effort and women are likely not going to mind. Its really not asking much
I go to an LGBT venue regular. There is mixed gender toilets AND a urinal next door. The men urinate on the seats and not in the bowl and I have complained and they say that “this is the gay man’s world” and they say that it is acceptable and normal.
I just wanna tell you that you are one of my favorite people right now. What you are doing is so important. Thank you for using your voice to stand up for our kids!!!
So he's afraid to go to the bathroom by himself so he comes to our bathroom...but if'we're concerned with safety then we have to enact a buddy system. The onus is on us....in our own space. gtfoh
@@Tom-iv3nd OP didn’t say that Kaelie made a female space feel unsafe…just that they made THE space feel unsafe due to their behaviour ANY space a woman is occupying with her young children present will become a space that feels unsafe if a man starts behaving aggressively and yelling threateningly towards them! It’s incredibly self-centred and short sighted for Kaelie to be complaining about not having a safe space for themselves while making spaces feel unsafe for others!
That's one of my big arguments. If some male truly thinks he's a woman, he truly should understand how a woman would feel having their space invaded. Someone truly understanding women, would realize how upsetting their presence would be and totally understand and take the actions Marcus took. They would not barge in and force themselves in spaces and places that would make women feel uncomfortable and threatened. This isn't being about one of the girls, but in having power over them and taking what they have.
I don't hate trans people, and I think we can give them reasonable accommodations but without hurting women. I have been assaulted before so the male physique can be often triggering. When I was younger, I played soccer and my male coach came into the woman's locker room when I was alone. So with this stuff... I don't hate trans people but I quit going to the gym after seeing a trans identifying male in the locker room...Thank you for this video.. I'm happy to see not all trans people are like this..
@@penultimania4295 It can when you are using a public toilet (f.eg: gas statiom)and a grown arse well built man walks into the toilet and you are alone with him. Its extra scary if he is wearing lipstic amd a dress. Public toilests are the last place i wanna be alone with a well built, mentally unstable man ,who most prolly is jelaouse of women and can get away with crime by crying victim. Its scary.You wont understamd it.I dont knw about ameriacn women but all non woke asian women would panic.I would run away even before i finish my business. There is nothing to "grow up" here.Its pure instinct.
When I was 17, after a late night out (maybe 10), in the city - I went and used the bathroom at the train station. Inside was a big large man, in a dress and boots. I was torn between offending him and using the bathroom so I just walked into the bathroom. I am an open minded person but that really really scared me that night.
You really risked your life doing that. This is what is really scary - women not wanting to offend so they put themselves at risk. Please don’t do this again. Especially in the city, that man could’ve been a psycho. 😬
That happened to me as well at East 42nd Street in New York. There were 3 of them at the sink, talking very loudly. I backed out the bathroom, as did the 5 or 6 women behind me. The answer is female only bathrooms, chromosome XX. Let them have the woMEN, restrooms.
Exactly Marcus. If you are a provocateur, use the bathroom of your sex. Real trans people blend and negotiate their needs in a sensitive manner. It’s called having decorum in society. The activists can create their own colony. They are the lunatic fringe.
And if a transsexual still has the genitalia they were born with, consider simply skipping the locker room. Men and women will appreciate you more. This stubborn refusal of the trans community to utilize single occupancy lockers/bathrooms as a compromise is not helping their cause.
The audacity of these men is insane…I’m so sick of seeing all these men with beards who don’t make any attempt to pass by a long shot, they just slap on a female name and an attitude and voila, they think they’re a woman and the entitlement runs rampant🤦🏼♀️
Woman shouldn’t go into men’s bathroom and men shouldn’t go into woman’s bathroom I don’t care if you are a trans or not please stick in your own gender and use that bathroom. Or the police will be called
I hung out in Hollywood back in the 80's (a million years ago lol) and the trans people I was friends with were of the same mindset as you! The people who honestly feel they are the opposite sex want to look as passing as possible. That means not having the physical attributes of the sex they are trying to disassociate with, like a beard!
My 13 year old had experienced this at her middle school last week. A boy who keeps changing his gender back and forth just budges in line in the girls bathroom and my daughter felt very uncomfortable using the bathroom knowing that kid was in there with her. Not sure what I should do as a parent. I feel like complaining about it will do absolutely nothing.
I'm sorry she is going through this. It's horrible at a time when girls are developing and going through so much physically. Last thing you want is a boy around violating your privacy. I hope we can start building new chromosome XX restrooms with privacy and leave these people with an empty victory in the woMEN restrooms.
There is this weird dude at the has station dressed as a girl and he follows hot girls into the bathroom. I saw him do it once and found it odd so I steaked out the gas station one day and he always went to the bathroom anytime a attractive girl would go. One day when their wasn't any girls in the restroom I went in and wrote "I know what you are doing leave these women alone" on the bathroom stall. Ever since I haven't seen him do it. Sad that I tried to report him and they did nothing afraid the mob would get involved. Every time I see him I made sure to give him a look. He never meets my eyes always looks off.
it's funny how transtrenders can acknowledge they feel unsafe in the men's bathroom but disregard that women might feel unsafe with a man in the woman's bathroom
For the last video it was nice to hear that even his friends like Annette called him out for his behavior. Real friends are not ones that agree with you on everything but will help you become a better person, even if they disagree with you.
"If a predator wants to go into the womens bathroom they just can, so let we use it" We could very well say "if someone is going to beat you up while using the men's bathroom they just can do it somewhere else, so you can use it"
wow the reaction of the woman walking into the bathroom and seeing someone who looks like a man in there was a very natural and normal reaction. Ive accidentally walked into the wrong bathroom before and did the same exact thing. I gasped and said "oh my god is this the men's room?" because i felt embarrassed that i had made such a silly mistake. i automatically assumed i was the one that made the mistake. based on this woman's reaction she probably felt the same shock that she had done something so silly when in fact she was in the right place. Ive seen men do this too. ive had a man walk into the women's bathroom a couple times and do the same exact thing "oh shit. is this the womans??" "yeah." "oh shit im so sorry." *leaves* "its fine man." its a very normal reaction to see someone of the opposite sex in the bathroom and question if youve made a terrible mistake. so disgutsting that he felt the need to shame someone for reacting in a very normal human way
❤️ totally agree with everything you’ve said. Sadly I think the extreme woke culture is going to badly hurt the achievements of the LGB and the real T people. I’m worried for the future. I’m scared that by pushing the agenda so hard it’s going to backfire and the people on the opposite side are going to push back even harder and we’ll end up going backwards in our society. It’s so sad. We’ve come so far, there’s so much to lose 😔
i’m honestly just curious as to why trans women feel the need to walk into a woman’s restroom, where we women actually feel safe, i’m a muslim and i go to the bathroom to fix my headscarf and i shouldn’t have to worry about a man walking into the restroom at anytime, i should feel safe.
Question: Would you/muslim women be comfortable being without a headscarf among trans women who actually look like women e.g. Blaire White? and then that they are revealed to be biologically male (either through physical biology or her admitting she's trans)
It's just common sense. Some people have no self awareness. If you look the sex you've transitioned to & can pull it off in public with little questions then go to that bathroom. If you have a five o clock shadow, either find a gender neutral or private bathroom. If not go to the mens restroom or wait until you get home because if not you're going to cause a huge commotion, regardless if you're wearing lipstick with that beard. You're a biological man and that can cause fear to women & girls. Rightfully so. Have some damn respect & stop thinking the world revolves around your narcissism.
No..passing doesn't mean his penis is removed which makes the threat even higher and most trans identify men don't get full bottom surgery. Most men don't have the care to make sure their piss goes in the toilet. Women shouldn't be sitting in anyone's piss for vagina health reasons especially not men's.
No matter how well they pass, they should only go into either a gender neutral restroom, or go into the one which matches the genitals they were born with. If they were born with a penis, they are still men...and will never, ever be women...no matter how they look or how well they pass. That is an ABSOLUTE objective fact.
@@GrapheneTransistors There was a really funny video where a trans woman who had passed for years did exactly that - went into the bathroom of her birth sex for the first time in almost a decade and got thrown out of the business. I think it goes down to passing, and really if people don't make a fuss then really it should not matter much.
I never understood the bathroom issue it's so stupid. If you don't present yourself with the gender you identify, why would you put yourself in that embarrassing situation? I'm trans, I already done hair laser removal,but I haven't start hormones yet(been on a waiting list for 2 years, I start next February). Even though with make up and my hair done I'm quite feminine looking.. I would feel so embarrassed and uncomfortable walking to the women's bathroom lmao. I will only start using the women's bathroom once I pass as one.. my goal going to the bathroom isn't making people uncomfortable because I'm a narcissistic freak. If you pass(and you don't have to be super beautiful or anything but if you put a effort in) people won't say anything to you. This discussion only exists because of people that look like the opposite gender want to force themselves in this spaces and make everyone uncomfortable!
@kushina im trans as well. Ive been passing even before i came out. I mainly stuck to single person bathrooms. Last time i used the mens shortly after coming out. It was such an awkward experience. The womens had a long line and i assume the men thought i just really needed to go and couldn't wait on the womens... i wish a single person bathroom was available at that time
I love how you are real and my husband and I had no idea you were trans till we heard you say it .. our niece is currently going through gender dysforia and the “trans trolls” have been making it hard for us to fully understand what she is going through cuz it’s just a bunch of attention seekers .. just love watching you realness glad your out here telling the truth and helping us that don’t understand what an actual trans person is or feeling or going through .. high fives from us :) We also would love to hear your thoughts on the 58 year old man who says he identifies as a 13 year old girl who is swimming and changing with 13 year old girls in Canada ,.
..."the 58 year old man who says he identifies as a 13 year old girl who is swimming and changing with 13 year old girls in Canada"....He's either a pedo, or needs to be checked for dementia/brain damage.
I have often wondered if some of these people have a sort of frotteurism-esque paraphilia. It really seems like they get excited with making others uncomfortable, especially in these bathroom situations.
Exactly. An actual trans woman that hasn’t had bottom surgery yet would be more likely to change behind a curtain out of embarrassment and not wanting anyone to see that due to gender dysphoria. But just walking around naked and proud of that??? That’s the exact opposite of dysphoria to be drawing attention to that area.
Notice how the guy that looks like Steve Erwin’s brother can only make a point by having obnoxious hand gestures 💅🏻 to distract away from how insane his rhetoric is
It reminds me of the guy in another one of Marcus' videos that went "Look at these hands!" 👁🫦👁💅 "Do these hands LOOK like a MAN'S hands??" But both his paint job and his face were about as masculine and creepy as you can get
The hand gesture and clicking of the fingernails is truly a sign of a trash person. It's tacky it's demeaning embarrassing to both parties the witness and the person doing it
It makes me wonder how many people are politely being like "hey this is the women's bathroom" because they assume it was accidental, then they twist it into an anti-trans thing or cause a scene for no reason.
It’s not ‘anti trans’.Am guessing you are either male or quite a young woman. Women usually bend over backwards not to cause offence and also will avoid confrontation because we are physically weaker . Asking the question like this offers the man the chance to save face and respond by saying oh yeah, sorry I made a mistake. Predatory men know this and take advantage of it.
Or how many people genuinely questions if they accidentally went to the wrong bathroom, if I saw a grown man coming into the bathroom I'd probably apologize and walk out again
I would be disturbed if i seen him in the bathroom. Kaelie isnt a true transwoman. I am. I look female, i have boobs, i dont have facial hair. I have an somewhat feminine voice. The vast majority of people look at me and call me she/her because thats what they perceive that i am. Im 5'4, I'm average height for a woman. I have a feminine body, granted alittle chunky. But i dont look like a man. Shortly after i came out i used the mens restroom and the dudes where awkward about it. Im sure they thought i was a biological women needing the bathroom since the womens had a long line. In the beginning of my transition i mainly used unisex bathrooms. It was most comfortable for me. Now i use the women's restroom since thats how others see me.
And how do you know that women and girls aren't just going along with the pretend play out of social pressure pressure? Fear that they'll be gaslit and made to feel like they're in the wrong for being uncomfortable around you? But all you care about are your own feelings.
There's non passing and then there's not even trying like the homies rocking beards. Or just going by a feminine name. Put that truth infront of some of them and WOW watch that male aggression come out. Your content is so important sir. Please keep up the hard work 💕
Exactly. Just cause someone says they're transgender doesn't mean they're given the right to use the restroom willy nilly like that. If you have a beard like that, you use men's restroom till you can pass...
I would be disturbed if i seen him in the bathroom. Kaelie isnt a true transwoman. I am. I look female, i have boobs, i dont have facial hair. I have an somewhat feminine voice. The vast majority of people look at me and call me she/her because thats what they perceive that i am. Im 5'4, I'm average height for a woman. I have a feminine body, granted alittle chunky. But i dont look like a man. Shortly after i came out i used the mens restroom and the dudes where awkward about it. Im sure they thought i was a biological women needing the bathroom since the womens had a long line. In the beginning of my transition i mainly used unisex bathrooms. It was most comfortable for me. Now i use the women's restroom since thats how others see me.
Exactly. I’m so sick of seeing all these men with beards who don’t make any attempt to pass by a long shot, they just slap on a female name and an attitude and voila, they think they’re a woman and the entitlement runs rampant🤦🏼♀️
Right. They want to be accepted as women but call women bitches and act like men. Sorry but that doesn't really motivate us to accept you as fellow women. At least fucking try.
That actual guy with a full on stubble who has made less than zero effort to look remotely feminine plus I bet he knew that lady had kids it just makes me sick and is so insulting to actual trans people who want to look and be accepted as the opposite sex (like you've said it's the entire point of transitioning) As always you have my respect and your sense of humour is brilliant man keep being an important voice
Let a man walk into a bathroom my granddaughter or myself are in... im going to jail, and they are going into traction. This is becoming more than sick... more than insane.
So their sense of feeling safe is more important that my own when I use the bathroom I’ve been using since birth…. Ok when are they going to draw the line?
I only started using the women's bathroom after my bottom surgery, which created some very awkward experiences for me. I passed very early into my transition even when I was boymoding/androgynous-moding. But still felt like it wasn't my place to go into. Countless times, I would walk into the men's bathroom and have men give me a "WTF" face or full on tell me I'm in the wrong bathroom. And again, I looked, sounded and acted 100% female but still felt uncomfortable because I didn't want to make women feel uncomfortable, even though they thought I was not trans. The audacity to have a full on beard and think you can freely use the women's washroom without repercussion or consequence. This is yet another example of encouraged, rabid Western individualism gone wrong, very wrong.
Girl you're so nice💖 I'm a biological male and I wish I transition a lot of the time (but can't, I'm 17. Also my mom doesn't support me) Anyway, I think if you pass completely and you just want to use the restroom like most people I think you should use the girls restroom because I would hate if this situation happened: Some guy says you're in the wrong restroom, you say you're trans, then the guy (if he's transphobic) could become violent. Do you think that would be a worry? Anyway just do what you think is right but please stay safe! I'm sure most women understand your safety matters too if you actually look and pass as a woman. Oh, btw, when that situation happens do you reveal your trans to clear out why you're there or avoid saying that to avoid being hate crimed? I'm genuinely curious what is right to do in a moment like that
@@EmberFlames_Jag I don't know if even I was ready to use the women's washroom then. I simply didn't want to intrude and I think most guys thought I was a very, very young, femme gay boy. There were times when I did use the ladies though. My country has a big problem with street harassment so sometimes if I saw certain men in the mens I would use the ladies because I didn't want to get attacked. And bless you my dear, I hope you can achieve your goal. I'll keep you in my prayers.💕
Marcus' explanation is good: If Marcus walked into the women's restroom, I'd feel uncomfortable and leave. If Marcus uses the men's restroom, no one would see anything amiss. If the object is just to use the toilet facilities, then do what does not draw attention. Use the toilet and leave.
I remember using the woman’s bathroom in high school (I’m a pre-t trans guy) and this trans girl (who still looked like a boy) came in and when I tell you the girls there looked deadass uncomfy it was bad. The trans girl didn’t care and proceeded to do her business anyway and I felt awful for those girls. Respect women !!!
@@geisteskrank8862 that absolutely does mean she can’t use the women’s bathroom. If you don’t make the effort to pass than you don’t get the privilege of using the women’s bathroom.
@Geisteskrank What's your point? In the end, they are biological women. Transwomen are not biological women but born male. Thus, why they transition to appear like a female. If they want to pass as women, they need to appear as one. What you also mentioned is a medical condition, hirsutism, or PCOS - plague that are on OVARIES. In the end, these are problems ONLY biological women could face. Just like menstruation and cramps. Understood?
I will not stay or go in a women's bathroom when a man us there!! I will not accept this ever! It is a reason why this bathrooms are separate dor the safety. Madness !!
I am a 64 yr old heterosexual woman. I have had LGBT friends since I was in junior high and never had issues with any of them. My Trans friends dressed and groomed completely as the sex they identified with and that was how they were treated by others. Now, I see "trans" woman go into the ladies bathroom and the only thing feminine about them was their fake nails - full beards, no makeup, dressed very masculine. And they get pissed if any of the ladies look at them questioningly. I just don't get it. To me, these people are ruining the lives of true transgender people. And because of their belligerent attitudes, they are putting true transgender people in danger.
I need to clarify. I do not mean that being a transgender person was easy early on and that no one gave my friends problems. I simply meant that in normal situations, people did not always question their identity, and most took them at face value.
think its complex. Biological woman can face abuse, so can trans persons. If a trans woman looks female, and i cant tell they are male and they have transitioned their gender identity fully, and i mean body wise as well. Then i dont care if they are in a womans locker room as i woudnt be able to tell that they are male, and i would never know!There are trans woman who are so gorgeous and everything about them looks socially female including the effort to have their bodies mimick a biological womans body. However, If its simply a person walking in to womans locker room with a thick beard, and a penis, and they look male and decide to shower then yes i would feel unsafe and embarrassed, undressing and showering in an open shower area in that locker room. some men can and may say they are a trans woman just to access a womans locker room. You simply dont know! Some woman have been in situations where they have been abused by males. i feel the core issue is about Biological woman wanting to feel safe and have dignity, and so do trans woman. I think you should be able to look and pass as the sex you claim to be in order to use that bathroom and locker room. A man who clearly looks like man does not!
@@Phoenix1981MAmen to that! Women who have had S.A. in their past, seeing a man in their protected/private space could make them feel further traumatized.
True...a actual trans person will be 100% committed to becoming the new gender...so much so that nobody would even notice and those are the one's that will be accepted. A man who makes no effort to be trans, he dresses as a man, has a beard, sounds like a man, never had surgery or took hormones, and the only thing they do is wear makeup, is NOT a true trans person and so they should not be using the women's bathroom and actually they should be disowned by the trans community because it's those guys that make no effort that give all trans people a bad reputation.
Soooo right. Real trans don't behave like these predatory narcissists. I always thought this too, when you pass for a woman, then you can use the women's bathrooms, as real trans ppl have been doing for decades.
Yes, if you have a beard you are not even trying to pass as a woman. A lot of real woman have facial hair and I would guess most if not all will remove it and are not happy with it.
@@Charlotte00125 You are right. On the contrary, you never see a trans man showing boobs or cleavage, for example. It's only certain trans women being extra and loud.
@@hoema yes indeed, it’s also a slap in the face for people with real gender dismorphia. Do whatever you want with your body, I don’t care. But don’t claim you are a trans woman when you are clearly not and just want to stir up trouble and feel like a victim.
As someone who has used the bathroom with transwomen, I can say they did not make me uncomfortable. What has made me uncomfortable is when AGP men use the bathroom and when predators do it. It has happened. I come out of the stall and see a man (who isnt even trying to look like a woman) has an ear to ear grin on his face after hearing me pee. That is what is disturbing. Why are my fears not valid but theirs are?
@@GrapheneTransistors The problem there is you can have transmen who absolutely do not look female, if they go into the female bathroom that will also kick up a stink, same goes for transwomen who are liable to be sexually harassed or assaulted in the male bathroom. But the thing is these are the type of people who will be able to 'Pass' and no doubt use the bathroom of the opposite sex and no one is any the wiser. But what of the people who don't quite pass? My issue is with the fact that allowing trans women to access women's toilets and changing rooms is that it gives transvestites who fetishize the female body for a sexual thrill and who are heterosexual, access to vulnerable females. There has to be rules, if you have a penis then no one sees it but you in a female space. That creep 'Transwoman' in the Wi Spa in California, the one that all those people protested outside in support of, was an actual sex offender. The vulnerable women inside that spa were subjected to a criminal act of indecent exposure, thanks to complete lunacy.
That guy accusing his friends of being "fairweather friends" doesn't know what that means. Real friends should call you out when you're in the wrong, and help hold you accountable.
This generation made me question if I was trans because I wish sometimes that I was a man. But watching you made me realize that trans means a LOT more than this generation knows.... thank you for that. I love being a woman and will never stop being a woman.
The fact of reality is that you really can't stop being a woman, even if you want to. Even if you got surgery, you'd still be a woman. Just a mutilated and deformed woman. Being a woman is about far more than just your appearance, and all the surgery does is modify your appearance. It's all materialistic and shallow, just like the ideology which simply boils gender down into stereotypes.
Indeed. As a woman myself, it's been horrendous as I am reaching perimenopause (going 46) and just had a short haircut and put on some weight. I hear all kinds of things, from "being secretly pregnant" to being a trans man. Clearly, I no longer pass as a woman, which I am, and I must say it hurts, but apart from the comments section here, I will keep suffering in silence. Just because everybody else sees it as cool to question sex and gender, I for one just wanted to be left alone and not have people thinking I am a lesbian, pregnant or transitioning. The world is beyond sick.
The community manager at ‘limited run games’ lost her job literally because she spoke up on women’s safety in tweets. Because some trans who wasn’t happy about her being excited about the new hogwarts game brought up her absolutely reasonable tweets from 6 years ago. Its madness.
Marcus, I am dismayed at our community at large. I am a post-op Male to Female Transsexual. I began my transition at the mature age of 48. I was very aware how I looked when I started, as a consequence, I NEVER used the ladies room. I did so out of respect for women. Only when I was confident in my appearance, did I start using the 'restroom/locker room. I had no 5 o'clock shadow, I used makeup, and I had worked on my voice! Why is it today, you don't have to do those things in order to use women only spaces?
After people started saying that gender is a social construct. That's why people who look like a man can now go to women's bathrooms, because they can just say "I'm a woman" and you can't say anything against it or you're a transphobe. It's because of this gender ideology that the situation is like this.
Good question. All I can say is that it's easy to get sucked into supporting things that seem progressive but it's harder to climb out of once you realize it's not progressive at all.
Because people want to take advantage of a system, saw the opportunity, and are exploiting it. They're using the movement of acceptance to do what they want while damaging the trans image. And they don't care, because once the damage is done and they can't exploit it anymore, they'll move on to another thing they can take advantage of. It will never harm them in the end, because they aren't trans, and have no intention on being trans.
@@4651adri to be fair, there are certain males that don't look at all like men anymore. It would be weird for a convincing one like Blaire white or Marcus to go into the room of their birth sex
You got my subscribe after 2 videos. Thank you for speaking out the truth and standing by it. It hurts to watch how these newcomers are destroying what took years to grow, so disrespectful 😩. I truly hope everything changes forh?Blessings from Puerto Rico❤
You can tell between trans trender women and actual transexual women. One of the two doesn't do any sort of effort to not look like a man. They other you don't even notice when they go to the women's bathroom because they don't look like a man.
I just watched a couple of videos as they were recommended and this guy's one of the most sane individuals I've come across on YT so far. Intelligence and dignity know no gender.
Omg !!!! This is exactly why I left my community 🙄 The backlash years from now is going to kill all the progress we have made back ten years. Social media is the real disease as far as I'm concerned 😟
The whole bathroom thing in my opinion started when society started accepting "social transitioning" as being the same as being a Transsexual. People are calling themselves trans without trying to pass as the gender they want to identify with.
It's because it would take commitment with actual hormones. And people who aren't really Trans don't want to commit to hormones because once you do there really is no going back from the changes they will make to your body. And its like deep down these narcissist just KNOW that being homosexual, ace, or anything else (Im not hating on the LGBT community just the entitled people in it) isn't getting them the same kind of attention and victim points they once had. And every one NEEDS to 1. be a victim 2. have all eyes on them. And it's sad, because trans people who clearly genuinely do struggle with their identity now also get the hate for being trans from the radical republicans because they think every trans person is a radical liberal.
Imagine *screaming* and cussing in front of *children* and blaming *fight or flight* for you demanding others pretend they believe in your delusions; as if you were *actually* triggered with *FIGHT OR FLIGHT* because someone simply _DISAGREED_ WITH YOU 🤦🏻♀️
Not supporting the weird guys but as a biological male I will say no boys go to the restroom together 😅 If someone asked to do that you would be called gay, weird, etc. And I as a gay boy understand why boys wouldn't want to do that. Of course boys don't have to worry about other boys most the time as much as girls.
They aren’t even trying! They’re not real trans people these men clearly aren’t using hormones or getting surgery or anything. They are an insult to actual trans people
It's more complicated than that. They want to feel validated. Sometimes they like peeking and being around vulnerable women, it's a turn on. Sometimes they like filming themselves in there for fun, making mast'rb't'on p*rn. Sometimes they like to harass women. There are lots of reasons they like to be in there. Sometimes just getting away with it is a win. Being in female spaces can be a turn on in general
RIGHT. And it’s not even about passing per se, but at least put in effort to look like the gender you identify with. You can’t expect someone to treat you like Caitlyn when you look like Bruce. 🤷🏼♀️
As a pakistani i was so disappointed when i realised that the first guy was from the same country as me there are actual trans people here that are being treated ABSOLUTELY HORRIBLE and then there is him sitting there and complaining about dumb stuff he dosen't realise how delusional he really is i've seen actual trans people being abused and i hate it sm
He’s not even Pakistani. He uses us for clout. He’s also extremely misogynistic, and says things like “all Pakistani women have beards” (as if we already don’t deal enough of that stereotype) and purposely pronounces ethnic names wrong so he can get a laugh from all his non south Asian friends. Don’t even call him Pakistani, he’s not.
@3:31 I really hate that he jumps to calling her a bitch. I accidentally used the wrong public restroom, had no clue because the place was so empty. On walking out and seeing the sign I was like OMG 😮 and the one time I did it and a guy was in there I was confused bc is he in the wrong place or am I lol and we laughed it off while I ran out apologizing profusely 😅 She might not have been being a bitch at all maybe it was more like oh no I messed up, but ofc now he's got somebody to enjoy being mean to and a stupid story for clout 🙄
These fakes must make life so hard for you. You hit the nail on the head. If you are really trans you will be respected and have respect from all. These guys think being a drag queen is what a woman is. It's very offensive to women. Love your UA-cam. I think the points regarding ignorance of biology health are really important too. 💓
Your comment is the best one. Transwomen don't want to go to the male bathroom because they're afraid of violence yet they don't understand that if we see a male in our space we feel afraid.
I'm sorry but if a 6 foot person with a big ass beard and a mustache comes inside the public bathroom I'm using I will scream and call security. Women NEED safe spaces. Stop trying to eradicate women from existence.
I feel the same way. I am not a person that likes confrontation but even I would scream and make a scene if I saw someone that is obviously a man in the women's restroom. This shit honestly terrifies and enrages me. We all need to make a scene and kick these freaks out of our spaces.
If nothing is done, I will carry a large kitchen knife in my backpack when I enter women's public restrooms, to protect myself. Especially here where I live, a third world country, where criminality is very high and now you want this left ideology here to make it even worse? Fuck that, I'll use a knife to feel safe if the women's bathroom is not safe for me or for other women from their presence. I'm tired of this shit, it's time to arm ourselves, for real.
@@analeticiacastromatos9509 I live in a third world country as well. I've never experienced something like this, and I truly support trans people, but letting a guy with a beard and mustache and covered in body hair inside the same bathroom absolutely terrifies me, specially with the way violence towards women is escalating in Latin America.
@@danielaaiz6407. Sorry if I was a little exaggerated, it's just that my country just lost to the criminal left (Communists) two months ago. And that made me negatively emotional for a long time, it made me stressed. And it's going to make matters much worse here, all of this is not caused by trans at all. I'm kind of projecting that onto them a little bit, it's absolutely unfair of me, sorry about that. But it is a fact that soon, with everything getting worse because of the socialist/communist left here, I will have to look for a way to defend myself and arm myself. Or just get out of here. I am deaf, and leftist socialists withdrew a law benefiting the deaf (which is proposed by the previous government before them) here a few days ago. And they ended up with many laws that benefit the poor, the worker, the businessmen and the people in general. I am very afraid of what is to come, the prisoners are all being released little by little from prison since the rise of these communists, civil disarmament has already been put in place, the current government has a strong alliance with leftist dictators and also with the criminal factions here. Anyway, I meant that I will use the knife only when necessary, I will not use it to scare or hurt any trans in the bathrooms. I'll just be prepared in case the trans is a predator, since it is very difficult to distinguish whether a trans is a predator or an innocent. Just that.
@@analeticiacastromatos9509 oh no worries at all, I actually agree with what you're saying, and I'm sorry to hear your country is going through this. I hope it gets better soon.
Thank you , Marcus. You're right. It seems more important for men to be comfortable. I don't see male trans people receiving privileges. I've noticed this for the past 20 years.
Maybe this guy that his “friends” tried to correct him. Friends don’t just stand up for you when you are wrong. A real friend will tell you that you are wrong if they truly love you & value your friendship!
I never understood the bathroom issue it's so stupid. If you don't present yourself with the gender you identify, why would your put yourself in that embarrassing situation? I'm trans, I already done hair laser removal,but I haven't start hormones yet(been on a waiting list for 2 years, I start next February). Even though with make up and my hair done I'm quite feminine looking.. I would feel so embarrassed and uncomfortable walking to the women bathroom lmao. I will only start using the women bathroom once I pass as one.. my goal going to the bathroom isn't making people uncomfortable because I'm a narcissistic freak. If you pass(and you don't have to be super beautiful or anything but if your put a effort in) people won't say anything to you. This discussion only exists because of people that look like the opposite gender want to force themselves in this spaces and make everyone uncomfortable!
thank you for using your brain and empathy. I have been creeped on by men in public bathrooms before (mostly it was just them peaking under the doors or jerk!ng 0ff while looking through the cracks between stalls) so I really appreciate you not wanting to make other women feel unsafe. Apart from that, based on your profile pic I´d say you pass quite decently and I wouldn´t feel uncomfortable if you entered the womans bathroom.
@@wolfsmaid6815thanks 😅, but obviously I'm not going outside like that with a wig yet. Even though I have very feminine features I don't pass yet(specially my body). I will only start using the women bathroom probably 1 or 2 years after starting hormones :)
@@kikaGama98 oh, I didn´t realize it was a wig since I used to dye my hair like that in my teens (but mine looked way worse) ^^ Anyway, good luck on your journey and thank you for being so considerate. :)
People like you or Buck Angel are the ones who should represent the movement and not those nonsensical weirdos! As a woman I completely agree with what you say: I think no women would have a problem if you look like one. But these men are only going for provocation and as you perfectly expressed "making others feel uncomfortable".
One thing I can say about these tiktokers, if they wanna make it easier for their bathroom issues, humans are visual beings. Big indicator for the average male is that men have facial hair. Lose the beard and maybe it will help the way other people see you. The entire purpose of transition is to have the world see you as the gender you say you are, not to blindly accept everything you tell them. If I tell the everyone I'm a bird, does that mean they have to expect that I'm capable of doing everything a bird can do? No. Because most people can see I'm not a bird. You cannot force the world to see you the way you see yourself.
What exactly does that mean? Once you passed? Passed what? You are still a biological male and always will be so i don't really understand what you mean.
@@kayla-Rey22 It means I do not resemble a Biological Male at all thus I pass well, and it makes no sense to treat me like one in real life, and yes, I am a Biological Male and I understand and accept it, I am just not required to behave like a Biological Male at all and I behave like a Woman.
@@janetmerai : Okay, thank-you for expaining that. But you are not the kind of Trans who are a problem. It's the Trans Activists who threaten and try to cancel women. The problem is they are impacting on your kind as well, because many people think they are what all Trans people are like and tar decent Trans people with the same brush. One thing I would like to ask you. Men have a gene in their Y chsomosome called the MAOA gene. It causes aggression in males including those in the animal kingdom. That's why male animals hunt and defend their territory. This gene can also trigger violence. It's the reason why most murders are commited by men, why those running around our cities in violent gangs are male, and why men are usually the violent ones in domestic relationships. To be fair, it's also why most men do the fighting in wars. But you see what I'm getting at? Not all men are aggressive but the potential is still there. And you cannot suppress this gene with drugs. It's always there. You can see it in the Trans Activists who abuse and attack poeple who accidentally misgender them and in those who violently attacked swimmer Riley Gaines. You see, it's always men identifying as women who are aggressive and violent. Not women identifying as men. That aggressive gene is always there to ensure they act exactly true to type. So, as a biological male who has this gene, how do you align this with acting like a woman because you cannot ignore the presence of this gene in your system simply by acting like a woman. There are Trans Acivists who look more like women than many women. And they post videos on UA-cam labelling biological women as cis bitches and other abusive names. They are very aggressive in these videos and the reason for that is because they are actually men and that gene is controlling their behaviour.
Thank you all for your Super Thanks!
You have no idea how much I appreciate it
You’re not a tranny and this can be proven by a google image search. The word is not for you to reclaim. If you have to label yourself publicly as a tranny… you’re probably not one. Hell even a porn search will not directly lead you to trans masculine sex workers. I can acknowledge that you might’ve been called this word but the social connotations are not nearly the same or as impactful. The language used to invalidate trans masculine vs. trans feminine identities is different. You are not dehumanized by cis people in the same way with the word Tranny. Straight up. You don’t get to gatekeep transsexuals and what it means to be one unfortunately. The narratives are tired.
I am so glad I discovered your channel! I have spent far too much time supporting what I thought was the right thing when in reality, I didn’t even realize that there were extremists on the side as well. I’m definitely subscribing to you because I have a lot to learn about these types of topics, and I want to make sure I can be a good person to others and teach others to do the same
You should debate Isaac Uncooked.
He thinks you’re disgusting.
@@eholden6510 does he explain why?
@@tabithawilks4434 Because Marcus “mutilated HER” body.
He’s a big time transphobe who thinks passing transpeople like Marcus and Blair should be legally forced to use a woman’s and man’s bathroom, respectively, and arrested if they don’t. Isaac devoted a whole video upload last week to sh*tting on Marcus and Blair, especially Marcus.
Supposedly Isaac is a detransitioner.
There really is a double standard though! They don’t want to go into the men’s bathroom for fear of being assaulted but happily open the flood gates for women to be vulnerable. This is legit the problem.
Exactly!
PERIODT.
THIS
Trans women do NOT attack women. I rather have the womens bathroom filled with trans women, then have some creepy straight white male come in.
@@mrpeachees2388 So you can read the thoughts and intentions of every single transwoman then? Nah, didn’t think so.
Regardless of that stupid generalisation, the problem lies with the fact that actual women’s privacy and safety is being put at risk and our rights being changed and twisted because of the feelings of a tiny minority. But we’re expected to sit down and shut up. No, sir. Not me.
It’s the misogyny for me🙄…it’s the same old thing men bullying women….thank you so much for speaking out your a 💎
Its not just men who do it though.
It's men bullying men.
Why always blame men for everything ? You need to understand that women are mostly the weak one and need to be protected because leave men now your trans men and tran women can also hurt you bruh
@Auranalel what's misogyny ?💀
making fun of women’s facial hair
If someone with a BEARD walks into the woman’s bathroom, I’m calling the police.
Exactly! Same here, Girl. Lmao
The only exception is the individual has a rare hormonal imbalance, but is otherwise female.
And the ridiculous "women can have beards" argument.... Women know if you are a woman with facial hair or a dude
@@liisk100 and its such a small minority that its literally nothing more than a strawmans argument.
Or scream and make a big deal out of it
I'm a gay man and i remember how i once accidentally got into a womens bathroom in a club, which was one of the most embarrassing moments of my life. When i got in nobody was there and i thought i was in the mens bathroom. So i got inside one of the cabins because there were no urinals (which was a dead giveaway that I'm in the wrong bathroom, but i still managed not to grasp that fact). Pretty much right after i got into the cabin and looked the door i realised my mistake because in the same moment i heard a group of girls walking into the bathroom and chatting. I fell into panic and decided to wait in the cabin for them to leave and quickly get out of there. However they be going on chatting for ever. Than i texted my sister and described my situation and asked her to come to rescue me from there so i don't have to do the walk of shame alone, but my sister simply didn't looked at her phone. So after 15 minutes being trapped in the cabin, i decided to just walk out of there and take the humiliation. I walked out of the cabin, with a face that was probably as red as a rose, looked down und just said repeatedly "sorry, wrong toilet"... i didn't make eye contact with the girls but i can remember that they stopped chatting after they saw me. Don't know if there were just stunned seeing a dude walk out of a cabin or if they were so uncomfortable with my present that they stopped talking, but i got out of there without getting any shaming from the girls.
Why am i telling this long story? Because i felt sooo shameful and embarrassed about ACCIDENTALLY walking into a womens bathroom, even as a gay man that can't ever have any predatory sexualy urges towards women, that i can't ever imagine myself walking into a womens bathroom ON PURPOSE. How this dressed up men even have the arrogance to do this is beyond me.
Don't feel so bad! I did the same mistake before, hopefully with no need to walk past guys, hah, but really girls probably were jus surprised, I personally would laugh from "wtf" moment if that happened with me.
@@melodi996 I know that they most probably weren't thinking that i was some creep lurking in womens spaces and that they just weren't expecting seeing a guy coming out of the cabin, but even with that in mind it was still a very uncomfortable situation for me and that's my ponit of the story. How did we end up here were men like me respekt womens spaces so much, that they feel uncomfortable even accidentally infiltrating those spaces, while we also have full grown ass men with lipstick and a wig that feel absolutely comfortable sharing such spaces with women and even fully undress in womens locker rooms? That's insane to me.
Its okay... I'm just glad it wasn't a karen
So why does Marcus invade male bathrooms? How is that acceptable just because she imitate a male?
@@Draco19970125 That's so easy to answer that it's embarrassing that you don't know the answer yourself. Because a bathroom for us men is just a place for us to piss and shit and nothing else. We use it only for that purpose. For us it's usually a stinky and not so pleasant place to be that we want to leave as quickly as possible and we absolutely do not care who's in it and what they are doing there. We don't even look into each others eyes. Also it's very, very unlikely that we get sexualy harassed from a trans-men that is hiding behind that image just to get to men. For women on the other hand it's more than just that. It's a save place were they can retrieve from predatory men that bother them. It's a place were they socialise with other women. It's a place were they fix their makeup and outfits. It's a place were women take care of their intimate hygiene because periods you know. It's a very intimate place for them were they are very vulnerable and that's why men have absolutely no place in there. No women wants to be in the presence of a male stranger while adjusting her bra or asking another women for a tampon. Also perverted and predatory men can absolutely abuse the whole trans thing to get access into womens intimate places like bathrooms.
There's a good reason why bathrooms and lockerrooms are divided by gender. To put it simple: Because men are predatory by nature. There are just decent and good men who don't act on their primitive instincts, but unfortunately many do. Hope this makes everything perfectly clear for you.
If a man goes into women's private spaces, security IS supposed to be alerted.
Oh, they're definitely trying to get rid of that
@@eerielamp yup women are told they are transphobic if they try and say something about an obvious male in our spaces. Self id is wrong and this is a loophole for predatory men.
Back in the day everyone was essentially a law enforcement agent. Sadly modern times has lost that knowledge and now only certain individuals are seen as having policing power.
That's what bothers me about people who are pro-selfID. I've had a man follow me into the women's locker room but I was able to go to the security and tell them a man had done something suspicious. But I'm genuinely worried about gyms and public restrooms now with this gender ID obsession 🙄
Pretty soon it will become acceptable for these folks to assault people because authorities won’t want to go near them.
I would stop and wonder if I went to the wrong bathroom if a man was washing his hands in the women's room. If he is uncomfortable in the men's room because men can be assholes, he should understand why his presence in the women's room makes women uncomfortable.
Whoa thank you. I've been trying to express that feeling for ages but you actually put it into words.
Exactly!!
I have long hair and if you saw me at a distance or in certain clothes you could probably mistake me for a girl (I'm in highschool) also I feel a lot of dysphoria about being a "man" however I can verify that going to the boys restroom (although usually disgusting) hasn't caused me any danger. In kindergarten someone watched me use the restroom in a stall but it was another kindergartner, at least, although it caused me severe anxiety in bathrooms for a very long time and I don't want to devalidate that experience. It is absurd to grow a beard and expect allowance into the woman's restroom. I am more feminine than anyone who purposely grows a beard, yet as a BIOLOGICAL male, even one who has has negative bathroom privacy experiences, feel it is right to use the boys restroom and I would simply feel uncomfortable in the girls restroom because I would be invading people's space. Those fools have no concern for women, they say they are women when in fact they don't respect the thing they say they are.
How dare you use logic 😂
YES this is so true yes😭
But that last guy doesn't look like a woman at all. If I met him in the bathroom, I'd be scared.
Some of them get off on frightening women.
@@kai-jm7bb In that case, saying you're trans is a great excuse. And no one can tell you anything because then you're transphobic
That last one gives me serial killer vibes and I’m not joking . Highly disturbing individual who was clearly in the wrong, he even said his own friends shouted at him . His own friends are saying dude stop and his response is to scream them down and impose his will on all the women in the building . Huge ego . Very into control, and no regard for how this will affect actual trans womens lives too
Pretty sure that’s his aim.
agreed. Would scare me too, but I have seen cis women lookin similar, and others get scared of them just as much
My partner and I went to a Korean Bath house we always go to. When we entered many women were telling us there was a man in the NAKED women’s bath house side. We entered and a non passing “trans woman” with their dick hanging out is just in there making all these women ranging from age, and mothers with their extremely young daughters on edge, I felt like crying and so many other women were looking stressed. Enough women complained to have them asked to leave, but it was crazy to me that this person doesn’t care how women who are naked around other women, trying to feel safe with that already, feel. They were gracious, but it was mind blowing how the women just relaxed and looked more jovial with eachother when this person left. So many women went up to the staff to say it’s unacceptable.
Oh my god this is so sad to hear .
Spa culture is such a sacred space. For non judgment and deep female relaxation. This is so sad..
"I felt like crying"
Then man up.
@@MK_ULTRA420You are not the alpha male
@@haley3235 You are a child predator
This is what JK Rowling was defending women from right?
Edit: Was not expecting this to get so much attention, thanks for the likes
Yes.
They thretened to k**l her! Yeah, the movement for rights and freedom treatened someone for stating a FACT! How inclusive! They want to take women rights away, they are nothing than psychothic narcisists who believes they have more value and rights than women. It's nothing more than misoginy
We support JK Rowling for speaking truth in these parts, cowboy. 🤠
Correct. Let’s go JK Rowling!!
I ❤️ JK Rowling and Kellie Jay Keen and anyone else who speaks for women's spaces and rights. I'm not always good at speaking to people. I've suffered abuse from men. It doesn't mean I should have no peace or privacy or feel safe in public. I cut short shopping trips so I won't need to visit the loo. I know I can go about one and a half hours comfortably. Then I drive home with my jeans unbuttoned
I'm a transgender woman and legally female, but I still use the men's restroom because I feel I'm not passable enough to yet to not cause any issues. It's MY choice and I choose to take not just my feelings but the feelings of others into account when I walk into women's spaces. As I progress in my transition I'm sure I'll get to a point where it will be unnatural to be in men's spaces, and I'll move to women's spaces. I think the biggest thing to remember as a trans person is respect is earned, not just owed.
I´s really nice from you. However watch outtake care for yourself. In some situations you should better choose your safety. If you see some sketchy guys in there, better go in the womens room.
@@anerm285 noo
This is so considerate of you, you’re awesome. I hope your transition goes well ❤
😂😂 this is what i mean hunny legally.. do u hear urself if u werent born a woman at birth then ur not a woman u will continue to be called a tranny because thats what u are ..🤦♀️
You are a man and forever be a man.
My younger cousin is in high school now... And apparently students who identify as non-binary are allowed to use whichever bathroom they choose... and she told me she had to deal with a dude looking through the crack of her stall well she was going to the bathroom, and when she complained about it, his excuse was that he was in the girls bathroom because he's non-binary, and he was just checking to see if somebody was in there.... The principal apparently gave him a slap on the wrist, and said next time look under the door to check for feet instead....
That’s fucked up. The next time it happens that guy should be beaten to a pulp
Tell her to call them out in a very stern "HEY! I see you looking at me through the cracks, get your business done and get out! If you continue to be a pervert I'm going to throw my shit at you and try to rub it in your face!"
The more we learn to be stern and no nonsense the more it might make people think twice about fucking with people.
Oh and tell her to follow through with it, so they know it's serious.
My gma taught me to hit back harder, if someone comes at you with some bs; Throw it back in their face with 2× more of the same energy so they'll never try it again.
Edit: With the shit I know it's nasty maybe don't do that in particular but I hope you get my point
Sounds like a sex offender in the making. Maybe she should have called the police instead of going to school administrators.
This is freaking awful. I’ll be praying for your cousin and now I highly recommend home schooling
Tell her to keep a travel size arisol container of hairspray with her in the bathroom and spray anybody who looks in the cracks. You can get them at the dollar store 😉
I totally agree with you, I’m a straight woman, born a woman. I always said that I’ve probably used the public washroom and at least once probably had a “real” trans woman next to me, no issue, it’s the ones with full beards, and a little excited 🪵 that I have a problem with. Real trans woman, I believe, are not the threat, they don’t draw attention to themselves, they just want to be, work, pay bills and go home, blend in.
What pisses me off is that most of those kinds of people don't even accept the fact that some girls and women HAVE been sexually assaulted, or faced with a man who is using this loophole to be predatory to women. They act like we are the crazy ones for wanting to protect the most vulnerable amongst us.
I love your work Marcus and I really appreciate watching your videos. You are incredibly intelligent, very sweet and extremely handsome!!
I was one and it does bother me. I will not use a public bathroom because I don't want to be put into a situation that will Trigger flashbacks. Once again I have men telling me it's my fault and I'm bad because they decided that and then mansplain it to me . Its insulting
It's of little surprise as trans is inherently a lie. It was accepted as a white lie due to people who have a poorly understood medical condition but it has been made political and coopted by perverts who are destroying what little good faith was granted.
In the US, 1 in 4 females have been sexually molested. What the stats don't show it that it is not a one time deal for most. A relative said that as a little girl, before she could understand her feelings, she felt uncomfortable/unsafe around some older boys/men and did not want to be left alone with them and would run away or change direction when they called after her from their car or from across the street. She had a lot of such experiences, but took it as part of life because the experiences started early in life for her and she did not question it until she was an adult. It was heartbreaking to hear about her experiences and what brought it to the surface for her was the acceptance of men invading "women only" spaces. Without the details, she became one of the four, eventually. Allowing men into "female only" areas takes away a buffer zone. Creeps can now be that much closer to women physically before they can react to protect themselves. More than cis-men, these radical trans women are misogynistic as H*ll. They are creepy, but worse, they have opened the door for predators to enter as can be confirmed by recent stories in the news.
wokeism = gaslighting
the gaslighting will never stop. no matter what situation its ALWAYS womens fault. all over the world too. still blaming women for existing in the middle east, forcing them to cover their entire bodies bc men cant control themselves. im sick to death of it. the misogyny in the gay and trans community is out of control
A trans women once told me “if you don’t look the part, you won’t get treated as such”. people will treat you how you appear to them, whether it’s race or gender. An honestly I’d probably just assume these individuals where just gay 😅; especially with a visible beard
Smart lady.
I'm pretty sure he and the rest of the fake trans are just Drama queen gay boys trying for attention other wise they would of all ready snip the little bits down below.
My bed friend growing up was a guy, but he was always lean and tall, not super muscular and for a while he had this gorgeous shoulder length blonde hair. Soo many random strangers mistook him for a girl until he spoke we just expected it at that point. He even always had sharp facial features and even with that people would misgender him randomly. He was basically just clean shaven, had longer hair and was thin/not very muscular.
My point being it's not even that difficult to look like you pass as a woman for men. It just takes a bit of effort.
Stand up for your daughter
I have some bearded gay friends & I would absolutely tell them to get out of the women's bathroom if they tried to enter one. Not that they would because they are decent human beings.
5:38
Bruh, this escalated so damn fast. He uses the ladies restroom and a woman says he is a man and he loses it and starts yelling at her and she even had her kids in the same bathroom and the kids had to see an angry man yelling at their mother in the women's bathroom.
The fact that they went into yell and scream and swear at someone? Tell me again how we ‘shouldn’t feel intimidated or unsafe’
@@Kaylz29 lmfaoooooooo exactly 😭
That's some very masculine aggression on his part.
@@sunnie734 this
Just shows how mentally unstable he actually is.
You have said exactly what I think, if someone looks like a woman no one will take any notice of them in the bathroom. However if they have a beard, balding head and other masculine features it won’t fool anyone. These people are making life difficult for true trans people and also LGB
My mother is cis female, she is balding.... Is she now a man....?
@@mellie4174 does she have a beard and other masculine features? If so get her hormones checked she may have too much testosterone, it can be treated
@@mellie4174🤦♂️🤯🤡
@@mellie4174 Why do you label your mother as "cis"? Shame on you.
As someone who has been sexually assaulted many times… having these types of individuals claiming being ‘transgender’ and entering women’s bathrooms would send me into an anxiety attack.. but we have to keep them comfortable right?🙄
They are not really trans and the problem is the trans activists who are pushing this ideology which is allowing predators like these who are not even trans with no history of dysphoria to enter womens spaces and invade them. Me i am still early in my transition and i am respectful and i think about the safety of others and i still have a ling way to go in my transition but in the mean time im still using mens bathrooms.
Same
I’ve been SAed by a man who identifies as trans now it’s complicated cuz we stayed friends for a bit after but ya I wouldn’t feel comfortable with a man in my bathroom
Sister, the moment he enters the bathroom, you should kick him in the balls.. and when he starts yelling and crying, he will forget that he is "she" immediately... and will have a panic attack.
I hope you take courage to be outspoken about your discomfort. It’s not right nor fair what’s happening to born women. We’re actually being made to feel like “we’re” what’s wrong. Wow.
Truly hilarious. That man literally saying all his friends didn’t agree with him, and instead of thinking that maybe he was wrong, he blames them 😂
Is it weird how he thinks he deserves better friends than the only ones he has?
He should be in a straitjacket recieving his daily doses of experimental medicine so he can contribute to the development of society.
I was surprised he has friends, tbh. It was funny how pissed he was
I just don’t want a woman to go to men’s bathroom and a man to go into the woman’s bathroom. End of story or else the police will be called
@@tailwatcher2500 no ig what the above person meant was that sometimes people love blaming others instead of taking self Responsibility. Just because they are too overly sensitive doesn't mean they are never wrong. Friends are meant to correct your mistake and call you out on that not to support your self entitled toxic behaviour and if they do the later one then they aren't even your actual friends.
News flash..if ALL your friends are telling you that you did something in the wrong, you are not a lonely genius, they are onto something buddy.
Hahahahaha a lonely genius. I’ve never heard that but great perspective.
@@nickieknows thanks!!🤭 Now that you've heard my little term I bet you willing find there's quiet a few folks out there who it applies to!💓✌🏼
@@amandak.4246 Right?! My thinking is literally the opposite. Much smaller example but if you're my friend and let me walk around with you all day in public with a giant booger hanging at my nose..when I look in the mirror I will immediately turn to you and ask "OMG WTF Why didn't you tell me?". Or worse if a stranger winds up telling me, I will be now a very mortified me asking the same dang question! It's part of what friends are for.💓👋🏼
Happened to me. An obvious man in a skirt was walking in front of me, then went into the women’s bathroom where I was also going. I turned around tbh.
I'm straight and i love seeing down to earth normal trans people.
Too many crazies out there.
Exactly… it’s the self absorbed dysfunctional Trans crazies that are really hurting the Community.
You're a hamster
@@a.nonimus6705 can’t argue with that
Ok backhanded compliment 🤣
Same
I'm a SA survivor, if someone who looks looks like a straight up man with a full beard walks in the girls bathroom while I am in there I will probably start screaming. Am I suppose to feel literally unsafe in a place I'm suppose to just because someone who watches too much tic tok and doesn't think gender is real thinks they have the right to invade it at their whim. Actual trans people don't even need to pass to use restrooms, all you have to do is at least look like you're making an effort and women are likely not going to mind. Its really not asking much
Hope you are at a better place mentally and physically now.
I go to an LGBT venue regular. There is mixed gender toilets AND a urinal next door. The men urinate on the seats and not in the bowl and I have complained and they say that “this is the gay man’s world” and they say that it is acceptable and normal.
I take my husband in the restroom now. Since men can be in there.
“If this is anatomy class you would definitely fail”
I died 😂
This guy kills it 😂 he says what all us "cis" people are actually thinking. Love him
Same 😂
I just wanna tell you that you are one of my favorite people right now. What you are doing is so important. Thank you for using your voice to stand up for our kids!!!
So he's afraid to go to the bathroom by himself so he comes to our bathroom...but if'we're concerned with safety then we have to enact a buddy system. The onus is on us....in our own space. gtfoh
Exactly!!
Infringing on women’s spaces to make themselves feel safe but not caring about women’s fears
I think these people should use the disabled people's "privy" or how y'all say it in the US bathrooms
👏👏👏 Exactly.
Bro should just go in the personal restrooms or go home, you can hold it for more than a day, you can hold it for more than a hour.
Kaelie saying he deserves a safe space, yet admitting that he lost it and made it an unsafe space for a mother and her children.
The fact that he becomes aggressive over something so miniscule is scary af as a woman.
Proving the risk he poses @@Tom-iv3nd
@@Tom-iv3nd OP didn’t say that Kaelie made a female space feel unsafe…just that they made THE space feel unsafe due to their behaviour
ANY space a woman is occupying with her young children present will become a space that feels unsafe if a man starts behaving aggressively and yelling threateningly towards them!
It’s incredibly self-centred and short sighted for Kaelie to be complaining about not having a safe space for themselves while making spaces feel unsafe for others!
That's one of my big arguments. If some male truly thinks he's a woman, he truly should understand how a woman would feel having their space invaded. Someone truly understanding women, would realize how upsetting their presence would be and totally understand and take the actions Marcus took. They would not barge in and force themselves in spaces and places that would make women feel uncomfortable and threatened. This isn't being about one of the girls, but in having power over them and taking what they have.
I'm calling him Bailey.
I don't hate trans people, and I think we can give them reasonable accommodations but without hurting women. I have been assaulted before so the male physique can be often triggering. When I was younger, I played soccer and my male coach came into the woman's locker room when I was alone. So with this stuff... I don't hate trans people but I quit going to the gym after seeing a trans identifying male in the locker room...Thank you for this video.. I'm happy to see not all trans people are like this..
I'm so sorry you had to go through this
I'm sorry you went through this..not all of us transgender people feel the way these trans activists do..
sorry this happened to you but 'man physique can be triggering'.....grow up.
@@penultimania4295 are you retarded?
@@penultimania4295 It can when you are using a public toilet (f.eg: gas statiom)and a grown arse well built man walks into the toilet and you are alone with him.
Its extra scary if he is wearing lipstic amd a dress. Public toilests are the last place i wanna be alone with a well built, mentally unstable man ,who most prolly is jelaouse of women and can get away with crime by crying victim.
Its scary.You wont understamd it.I dont knw about ameriacn women but all non woke asian women would panic.I would run away even before i finish my business.
There is nothing to "grow up" here.Its pure instinct.
I'm glad my trans views are still supported. Thanks for continuing to be a breath of normalcy and common sense.
When I was 17, after a late night out (maybe 10), in the city - I went and used the bathroom at the train station. Inside was a big large man, in a dress and boots. I was torn between offending him and using the bathroom so I just walked into the bathroom. I am an open minded person but that really really scared me that night.
F his feelings. My safety is first. He wasn't playing with a full deck to begin with.
You think I would drop my clothing? NOPE.
You really risked your life doing that. This is what is really scary - women not wanting to offend so they put themselves at risk. Please don’t do this again. Especially in the city, that man could’ve been a psycho. 😬
That happened to me as well at East 42nd Street in New York.
There were 3 of them at the sink, talking very loudly.
I backed out the bathroom, as did the 5 or 6 women behind me.
The answer is female only bathrooms, chromosome XX. Let them have the woMEN, restrooms.
The dude needs to bitch slapped .
Sounds like a scary movie
Exactly Marcus. If you are a provocateur, use the bathroom of your sex. Real trans people blend and negotiate their needs in a sensitive manner. It’s called having decorum in society. The activists can create their own colony. They are the lunatic fringe.
They demand use of the women’s toilets, but they still urinate on the seats and these is a urinal toilet 5ft away.
Amen 🙌🏼
Well said! I'd tip my hat but I'm a lady lol. Very well said. Kudos
iirc, even blaire white said she would understand if a woman saw blaire's anatomy so blaire doesn't use women's changing rooms
And if a transsexual still has the genitalia they were born with, consider simply skipping the locker room. Men and women will appreciate you more. This stubborn refusal of the trans community to utilize single occupancy lockers/bathrooms as a compromise is not helping their cause.
The audacity of these men is insane…I’m so sick of seeing all these men with beards who don’t make any attempt to pass by a long shot, they just slap on a female name and an attitude and voila, they think they’re a woman and the entitlement runs rampant🤦🏼♀️
Woman shouldn’t go into men’s bathroom and men shouldn’t go into woman’s bathroom I don’t care if you are a trans or not please stick in your own gender and use that bathroom. Or the police will be called
I hung out in Hollywood back in the 80's (a million years ago lol) and the trans people I was friends with were of the same mindset as you!
The people who honestly feel they are the opposite sex want to look as passing as possible.
That means not having the physical attributes of the sex they are trying to disassociate with, like a beard!
My 13 year old had experienced this at her middle school last week. A boy who keeps changing his gender back and forth just budges in line in the girls bathroom and my daughter felt very uncomfortable using the bathroom knowing that kid was in there with her. Not sure what I should do as a parent. I feel like complaining about it will do absolutely nothing.
IMO speak up and let her know that you stood up for her rights.
Thats sad. I think you should see how other parents feel. You probably arent Alone
@@lizs8853 The fact that there is a LINE UP for the girl's washroom says something about the quality of school she's going to lol
Oh my in what world we live???
I'm sorry she is going through this.
It's horrible at a time when girls are developing and going through so much physically. Last thing you want is a boy around violating your privacy.
I hope we can start building new chromosome XX restrooms with privacy and leave these people with an empty victory in the woMEN restrooms.
If you ever been at a concert or a sporting event, the line for the ladies room is unreal, and now it’s just going to get worse. 😩
The men will disregard urinals and will urinate on the seats in the womens toilets.
Right 😂
Right? Wtf, I’d gladly use the shorter line if I could 🤷🏻♀️
I’m a female myself but why do we pee so much?! 😂❤❤😂
I promise you it's going to smell alot worse as well.
There is this weird dude at the has station dressed as a girl and he follows hot girls into the bathroom. I saw him do it once and found it odd so I steaked out the gas station one day and he always went to the bathroom anytime a attractive girl would go. One day when their wasn't any girls in the restroom I went in and wrote "I know what you are doing leave these women alone" on the bathroom stall. Ever since I haven't seen him do it. Sad that I tried to report him and they did nothing afraid the mob would get involved. Every time I see him I made sure to give him a look. He never meets my eyes always looks off.
Now that is role model material right there. Thank you so much for looking of for those women.
Omg you are awesome😂😂
Hero!!
This is the stuff we gotta do, we got to turn street activists. You're badass love it
@@courtneymeyers82 thanks my friend!
it's funny how transtrenders can acknowledge they feel unsafe in the men's bathroom but disregard that women might feel unsafe with a man in the woman's bathroom
For the last video it was nice to hear that even his friends like Annette called him out for his behavior. Real friends are not ones that agree with you on everything but will help you become a better person, even if they disagree with you.
that person seems to be totally lost, incapable of becoming a better person because he lacks self-awareness and ability to self-reflect
absolutely cool christian girl- as I'm sure you well know Proverbs 27:6
I'm totally agree!
"If a predator wants to go into the womens bathroom they just can, so let we use it"
We could very well say
"if someone is going to beat you up while using the men's bathroom they just can do it somewhere else, so you can use it"
Love this! Excellent point
wow the reaction of the woman walking into the bathroom and seeing someone who looks like a man in there was a very natural and normal reaction. Ive accidentally walked into the wrong bathroom before and did the same exact thing. I gasped and said "oh my god is this the men's room?" because i felt embarrassed that i had made such a silly mistake. i automatically assumed i was the one that made the mistake. based on this woman's reaction she probably felt the same shock that she had done something so silly when in fact she was in the right place. Ive seen men do this too. ive had a man walk into the women's bathroom a couple times and do the same exact thing "oh shit. is this the womans??" "yeah." "oh shit im so sorry." *leaves* "its fine man." its a very normal reaction to see someone of the opposite sex in the bathroom and question if youve made a terrible mistake. so disgutsting that he felt the need to shame someone for reacting in a very normal human way
❤️ totally agree with everything you’ve said. Sadly I think the extreme woke culture is going to badly hurt the achievements of the LGB and the real T people. I’m worried for the future. I’m scared that by pushing the agenda so hard it’s going to backfire and the people on the opposite side are going to push back even harder and we’ll end up going backwards in our society. It’s so sad. We’ve come so far, there’s so much to lose 😔
i’m honestly just curious as to why trans women feel the need to walk into a woman’s restroom, where we women actually feel safe, i’m a muslim and i go to the bathroom to fix my headscarf and i shouldn’t have to worry about a man walking into the restroom at anytime, i should feel safe.
Same
OMG! I never thought of that! Thank you for voicing your concerns!
@@jewel65 wait are you being sarcastic? if not then your welcome 😊
Question: Would you/muslim women be comfortable being without a headscarf among trans women who actually look like women e.g. Blaire White? and then that they are revealed to be biologically male (either through physical biology or her admitting she's trans)
It's just common sense. Some people have no self awareness. If you look the sex you've transitioned to & can pull it off in public with little questions then go to that bathroom. If you have a five o clock shadow, either find a gender neutral or private bathroom. If not go to the mens restroom or wait until you get home because if not you're going to cause a huge commotion, regardless if you're wearing lipstick with that beard. You're a biological man and that can cause fear to women & girls. Rightfully so. Have some damn respect & stop thinking the world revolves around your narcissism.
No..passing doesn't mean his penis is removed which makes the threat even higher and most trans identify men don't get full bottom surgery. Most men don't have the care to make sure their piss goes in the toilet. Women shouldn't be sitting in anyone's piss for vagina health reasons especially not men's.
No matter how well they pass, they should only go into either a gender neutral restroom, or go into the one which matches the genitals they were born with. If they were born with a penis, they are still men...and will never, ever be women...no matter how they look or how well they pass. That is an ABSOLUTE objective fact.
Like a lot of places have a third bathroom for handicapped people and mothers. They could literally use it.
@@GrapheneTransistors There was a really funny video where a trans woman who had passed for years did exactly that - went into the bathroom of her birth sex for the first time in almost a decade and got thrown out of the business. I think it goes down to passing, and really if people don't make a fuss then really it should not matter much.
@@GrapheneTransistors then you get people who look like Buck Angel going into the women's room.
We all know that wanting to use the women’s restroom is for validation. I wish they’d just admit it so we can go about this HONESTLY.
Nah, it’s not for validation. It’s for dominance and for spreading fear.
I never understood the bathroom issue it's so stupid.
If you don't present yourself with the gender you identify, why would you put yourself in that embarrassing situation?
I'm trans, I already done hair laser removal,but I haven't start hormones yet(been on a waiting list for 2 years, I start next February). Even though with make up and my hair done I'm quite feminine looking.. I would feel so embarrassed and uncomfortable walking to the women's bathroom lmao. I will only start using the women's bathroom once I pass as one.. my goal going to the bathroom isn't making people uncomfortable because I'm a narcissistic freak.
If you pass(and you don't have to be super beautiful or anything but if you put a effort in) people won't say anything to you. This discussion only exists because of people that look like the opposite gender want to force themselves in this spaces and make everyone uncomfortable!
It's also to satisfy their various paraphilias (e.g. urophilia, coprophilia, and menophilia, voyeurism) and for out and out predation.
they just wanna be pedophiles and predators
@kushina im trans as well. Ive been passing even before i came out. I mainly stuck to single person bathrooms. Last time i used the mens shortly after coming out. It was such an awkward experience. The womens had a long line and i assume the men thought i just really needed to go and couldn't wait on the womens... i wish a single person bathroom was available at that time
I love how you are real and my husband and I had no idea you were trans till we heard you say it .. our niece is currently going through gender dysforia and the “trans trolls” have been making it hard for us to fully understand what she is going through cuz it’s just a bunch of attention seekers .. just love watching you realness glad your out here telling the truth and helping us that don’t understand what an actual trans person is or feeling or going through .. high fives from us :)
We also would love to hear your thoughts on the 58 year old man who says he identifies as a 13 year old girl who is swimming and changing with 13 year old girls in Canada ,.
..."the 58 year old man who says he identifies as a 13 year old girl who is swimming and changing with 13 year old girls in Canada"....He's either a pedo, or needs to be checked for dementia/brain damage.
I have often wondered if some of these people have a sort of frotteurism-esque paraphilia. It really seems like they get excited with making others uncomfortable, especially in these bathroom situations.
100%
Exactly. An actual trans woman that hasn’t had bottom surgery yet would be more likely to change behind a curtain out of embarrassment and not wanting anyone to see that due to gender dysphoria. But just walking around naked and proud of that??? That’s the exact opposite of dysphoria to be drawing attention to that area.
@@InTheNameOfLife1 reminds me of jessica yaniv
@@r.achel044 oh god I forgot about that person 🤢
That's part of the AGP fetish.
Notice how the guy that looks like Steve Erwin’s brother can only make a point by having obnoxious hand gestures 💅🏻 to distract away from how insane his rhetoric is
It reminds me of the guy in another one of Marcus' videos that went
"Look at these hands!" 👁🫦👁💅
"Do these hands LOOK like a MAN'S hands??"
But both his paint job and his face were about as masculine and creepy as you can get
a lot of these people are like this - it's compelling and charismatic to the undisciplined person.
The hand gesture and clicking of the fingernails is truly a sign of a trash person. It's tacky it's demeaning embarrassing to both parties the witness and the person doing it
@@ddz1375 fully agree
It makes me wonder how many people are politely being like "hey this is the women's bathroom" because they assume it was accidental, then they twist it into an anti-trans thing or cause a scene for no reason.
It’s not ‘anti trans’.Am guessing you are either male or quite a young woman. Women usually bend over backwards not to cause offence and also will avoid confrontation because we are physically weaker . Asking the question like this offers the man the chance to save face and respond by saying oh yeah, sorry I made a mistake. Predatory men know this and take advantage of it.
Or how many people genuinely questions if they accidentally went to the wrong bathroom, if I saw a grown man coming into the bathroom I'd probably apologize and walk out again
I would be disturbed if i seen him in the bathroom. Kaelie isnt a true transwoman. I am. I look female, i have boobs, i dont have facial hair. I have an somewhat feminine voice. The vast majority of people look at me and call me she/her because thats what they perceive that i am. Im 5'4, I'm average height for a woman. I have a feminine body, granted alittle chunky. But i dont look like a man. Shortly after i came out i used the mens restroom and the dudes where awkward about it. Im sure they thought i was a biological women needing the bathroom since the womens had a long line. In the beginning of my transition i mainly used unisex bathrooms. It was most comfortable for me. Now i use the women's restroom since thats how others see me.
And how do you know that women and girls aren't just going along with the pretend play out of social pressure pressure? Fear that they'll be gaslit and made to feel like they're in the wrong for being uncomfortable around you?
But all you care about are your own feelings.
@Medic 755 this is just as it should be. People should go where they dont stand out and/or make others uncomfortable.
So refreshing to hear a voice of reason. Everything you say makes sense to me. Keep doing what you are doing, it is so needed.
There's non passing and then there's not even trying like the homies rocking beards. Or just going by a feminine name. Put that truth infront of some of them and WOW watch that male aggression come out.
Your content is so important sir. Please keep up the hard work 💕
Exactly. Just cause someone says they're transgender doesn't mean they're given the right to use the restroom willy nilly like that. If you have a beard like that, you use men's restroom till you can pass...
I would be disturbed if i seen him in the bathroom. Kaelie isnt a true transwoman. I am. I look female, i have boobs, i dont have facial hair. I have an somewhat feminine voice. The vast majority of people look at me and call me she/her because thats what they perceive that i am. Im 5'4, I'm average height for a woman. I have a feminine body, granted alittle chunky. But i dont look like a man. Shortly after i came out i used the mens restroom and the dudes where awkward about it. Im sure they thought i was a biological women needing the bathroom since the womens had a long line. In the beginning of my transition i mainly used unisex bathrooms. It was most comfortable for me. Now i use the women's restroom since thats how others see me.
Exactly. I’m so sick of seeing all these men with beards who don’t make any attempt to pass by a long shot, they just slap on a female name and an attitude and voila, they think they’re a woman and the entitlement runs rampant🤦🏼♀️
Right. They want to be accepted as women but call women bitches and act like men. Sorry but that doesn't really motivate us to accept you as fellow women. At least fucking try.
@@medic37931 and yet you are still a dude
Your arguments are so rational and logical. Thank you for your voice!
That actual guy with a full on stubble who has made less than zero effort to look remotely feminine plus I bet he knew that lady had kids it just makes me sick and is so insulting to actual trans people who want to look and be accepted as the opposite sex (like you've said it's the entire point of transitioning) As always you have my respect and your sense of humour is brilliant man keep being an important voice
Let a man walk into a bathroom my granddaughter or myself are in... im going to jail, and they are going into traction. This is becoming more than sick... more than insane.
If everyone, including your friends, is telling you that you’re in the wrong…then maybe you’re in the wrong🤔
They are a misogynist !
So their sense of feeling safe is more important that my own when I use the bathroom I’ve been using since birth…. Ok when are they going to draw the line?
I only started using the women's bathroom after my bottom surgery, which created some very awkward experiences for me. I passed very early into my transition even when I was boymoding/androgynous-moding. But still felt like it wasn't my place to go into. Countless times, I would walk into the men's bathroom and have men give me a "WTF" face or full on tell me I'm in the wrong bathroom. And again, I looked, sounded and acted 100% female but still felt uncomfortable because I didn't want to make women feel uncomfortable, even though they thought I was not trans. The audacity to have a full on beard and think you can freely use the women's washroom without repercussion or consequence. This is yet another example of encouraged, rabid Western individualism gone wrong, very wrong.
I appreciate that you didn't want to make any of us uncomfortable 💜
@@SummersPsycheDelicates 🤍 right back at you my love!
Girl you're so nice💖 I'm a biological male and I wish I transition a lot of the time (but can't, I'm 17. Also my mom doesn't support me) Anyway, I think if you pass completely and you just want to use the restroom like most people I think you should use the girls restroom because I would hate if this situation happened: Some guy says you're in the wrong restroom, you say you're trans, then the guy (if he's transphobic) could become violent. Do you think that would be a worry? Anyway just do what you think is right but please stay safe! I'm sure most women understand your safety matters too if you actually look and pass as a woman. Oh, btw, when that situation happens do you reveal your trans to clear out why you're there or avoid saying that to avoid being hate crimed? I'm genuinely curious what is right to do in a moment like that
@@EmberFlames_Jag I don't know if even I was ready to use the women's washroom then. I simply didn't want to intrude and I think most guys thought I was a very, very young, femme gay boy. There were times when I did use the ladies though. My country has a big problem with street harassment so sometimes if I saw certain men in the mens I would use the ladies because I didn't want to get attacked. And bless you my dear, I hope you can achieve your goal. I'll keep you in my prayers.💕
@@elisetenup oh that makes sense. Thank you 😊💖
This man right here. This is the solution to all our problems. Thank you Mark. We need more men like you with this common sense!
Agree
Marcus' explanation is good: If Marcus walked into the women's restroom, I'd feel uncomfortable and leave. If Marcus uses the men's restroom, no one would see anything amiss. If the object is just to use the toilet facilities, then do what does not draw attention. Use the toilet and leave.
I remember using the woman’s bathroom in high school (I’m a pre-t trans guy) and this trans girl (who still looked like a boy) came in and when I tell you the girls there looked deadass uncomfy it was bad. The trans girl didn’t care and proceeded to do her business anyway and I felt awful for those girls. Respect women !!!
@@geisteskrank8862 that absolutely does mean she can’t use the women’s bathroom. If you don’t make the effort to pass than you don’t get the privilege of using the women’s bathroom.
@@geisteskrank8862 and you can still tell they’re women. It’s sad that you think trans women are more important than cis women and girls.
Ive never seen a woman with hairs on the face? Except some old ladies...in my opinion trans shouldnt use desired toilet until they are passable
@@geisteskrank8862 Not like a dude, man. Lol, come on.
@Geisteskrank What's your point? In the end, they are biological women. Transwomen are not biological women but born male. Thus, why they transition to appear like a female. If they want to pass as women, they need to appear as one. What you also mentioned is a medical condition, hirsutism, or PCOS - plague that are on OVARIES. In the end, these are problems ONLY biological women could face. Just like menstruation and cramps. Understood?
if i was a mother bringing my kids to the bathroom and there was someone who clearly looks like a man i would be very worried
I will not stay or go in a women's bathroom when a man us there!! I will not accept this ever! It is a reason why this bathrooms are separate dor the safety. Madness !!
I am a 64 yr old heterosexual woman. I have had LGBT friends since I was in junior high and never had issues with any of them. My Trans friends dressed and groomed completely as the sex they identified with and that was how they were treated by others. Now, I see "trans" woman go into the ladies bathroom and the only thing feminine about them was their fake nails - full beards, no makeup, dressed very masculine. And they get pissed if any of the ladies look at them questioningly. I just don't get it. To me, these people are ruining the lives of true transgender people. And because of their belligerent attitudes, they are putting true transgender people in danger.
I need to clarify. I do not mean that being a transgender person was easy early on and that no one gave my friends problems. I simply meant that in normal situations, people did not always question their identity, and most took them at face value.
think its complex. Biological woman can face abuse, so can trans persons. If a trans woman looks female, and i cant tell they are male and they have transitioned their gender identity fully, and i mean body wise as well. Then i dont care if they are in a womans locker room as i woudnt be able to tell that they are male, and i would never know!There are trans woman who are so gorgeous and everything about them looks socially female including the effort to have their bodies mimick a biological womans body. However, If its simply a person walking in to womans locker room with a thick beard, and a penis, and they look male and decide to shower then yes i would feel unsafe and embarrassed, undressing and showering in an open shower area in that locker room. some men can and may say they are a trans woman just to access a womans locker room. You simply dont know! Some woman have been in situations where they have been abused by males. i feel the core issue is about Biological woman wanting to feel safe and have dignity, and so do trans woman. I think you should be able to look and pass as the sex you claim to be in order to use that bathroom and locker room. A man who clearly looks like man does not!
Also putting genuine gay guys at risk that don’t need to draw attention to themselves in public.
@@Phoenix1981MAmen to that! Women who have had S.A. in their past, seeing a man in their protected/private space could make them feel further traumatized.
True...a actual trans person will be 100% committed to becoming the new gender...so much so that nobody would even notice and those are the one's that will be accepted. A man who makes no effort to be trans, he dresses as a man, has a beard, sounds like a man, never had surgery or took hormones, and the only thing they do is wear makeup, is NOT a true trans person and so they should not be using the women's bathroom and actually they should be disowned by the trans community because it's those guys that make no effort that give all trans people a bad reputation.
ATTENTION!!!
Dont use desired bathroom until you are passable...
Problem solved...
thank you for attention❤️❤️❤️
passable doesnt erase the misogyny and possibility of male rage/entitlement.
Soooo right. Real trans don't behave like these predatory narcissists. I always thought this too, when you pass for a woman, then you can use the women's bathrooms, as real trans ppl have been doing for decades.
Right? I find it upsetting when trans want to be seen as women but then don't put in the effort to appear like a woman.
Yes, if you have a beard you are not even trying to pass as a woman. A lot of real woman have facial hair and I would guess most if not all will remove it and are not happy with it.
@@Charlotte00125 You are right. On the contrary, you never see a trans man showing boobs or cleavage, for example. It's only certain trans women being extra and loud.
@@hoema yes indeed, it’s also a slap in the face for people with real gender dismorphia. Do whatever you want with your body, I don’t care. But don’t claim you are a trans woman when you are clearly not and just want to stir up trouble and feel like a victim.
statistics say otherwise
Thank you for this truth. I hope more people stand up for women’s right to privacy in public toilers, changing rooms and sports.
As someone who has used the bathroom with transwomen, I can say they did not make me uncomfortable. What has made me uncomfortable is when AGP men use the bathroom and when predators do it. It has happened. I come out of the stall and see a man (who isnt even trying to look like a woman) has an ear to ear grin on his face after hearing me pee. That is what is disturbing. Why are my fears not valid but theirs are?
@@GrapheneTransistors Therein lies the problem..... duh....
@@GrapheneTransistors The problem there is you can have transmen who absolutely do not look female, if they go into the female bathroom that will also kick up a stink, same goes for transwomen who are liable to be sexually harassed or assaulted in the male bathroom. But the thing is these are the type of people who will be able to 'Pass' and no doubt use the bathroom of the opposite sex and no one is any the wiser. But what of the people who don't quite pass? My issue is with the fact that allowing trans women to access women's toilets and changing rooms is that it gives transvestites who fetishize the female body for a sexual thrill and who are heterosexual, access to vulnerable females. There has to be rules, if you have a penis then no one sees it but you in a female space. That creep 'Transwoman' in the Wi Spa in California, the one that all those people protested outside in support of, was an actual sex offender. The vulnerable women inside that spa were subjected to a criminal act of indecent exposure, thanks to complete lunacy.
What about predators who pass that do it?
so because of the way they dress, you feel safe?
@@kymeana You're being obtuse & you know it.
That guy accusing his friends of being "fairweather friends" doesn't know what that means. Real friends should call you out when you're in the wrong, and help hold you accountable.
This generation made me question if I was trans because I wish sometimes that I was a man. But watching you made me realize that trans means a LOT more than this generation knows.... thank you for that. I love being a woman and will never stop being a woman.
The fact of reality is that you really can't stop being a woman, even if you want to. Even if you got surgery, you'd still be a woman. Just a mutilated and deformed woman. Being a woman is about far more than just your appearance, and all the surgery does is modify your appearance. It's all materialistic and shallow, just like the ideology which simply boils gender down into stereotypes.
Indeed. As a woman myself, it's been horrendous as I am reaching perimenopause (going 46) and just had a short haircut and put on some weight. I hear all kinds of things, from "being secretly pregnant" to being a trans man. Clearly, I no longer pass as a woman, which I am, and I must say it hurts, but apart from the comments section here, I will keep suffering in silence. Just because everybody else sees it as cool to question sex and gender, I for one just wanted to be left alone and not have people thinking I am a lesbian, pregnant or transitioning. The world is beyond sick.
And don't ever stop. Being a woman is strong, loving and powerful. It's why men are always after us.
You're one of the only few youtubers I actually want to donate to, and I will when I am able to
When people get high on their own ego's.
Ego is a powerful drug. If they could make a prescription for it, they would.
The community manager at ‘limited run games’ lost her job literally because she spoke up on women’s safety in tweets. Because some trans who wasn’t happy about her being excited about the new hogwarts game brought up her absolutely reasonable tweets from 6 years ago. Its madness.
That is the very definition of petty af
That is bullying
Marcus, I am dismayed at our community at large. I am a post-op Male to Female Transsexual. I began my transition at the mature age of 48. I was very aware how I looked when I started, as a consequence, I NEVER used the ladies room. I did so out of respect for women. Only when I was confident in my appearance, did I start using the 'restroom/locker room. I had no 5 o'clock shadow, I used makeup, and I had worked on my voice! Why is it today, you don't have to do those things in order to use women only spaces?
After people started saying that gender is a social construct. That's why people who look like a man can now go to women's bathrooms, because they can just say "I'm a woman" and you can't say anything against it or you're a transphobe. It's because of this gender ideology that the situation is like this.
Good question. All I can say is that it's easy to get sucked into supporting things that seem progressive but it's harder to climb out of once you realize it's not progressive at all.
Men are never supposed to use women's spaces, no matter what they feel like or how confident they are with their appearance.
Because people want to take advantage of a system, saw the opportunity, and are exploiting it. They're using the movement of acceptance to do what they want while damaging the trans image. And they don't care, because once the damage is done and they can't exploit it anymore, they'll move on to another thing they can take advantage of. It will never harm them in the end, because they aren't trans, and have no intention on being trans.
@@4651adri to be fair, there are certain males that don't look at all like men anymore. It would be weird for a convincing one like Blaire white or Marcus to go into the room of their birth sex
You got my subscribe after 2 videos. Thank you for speaking out the truth and standing by it.
It hurts to watch how these newcomers are destroying what took years to grow, so disrespectful 😩. I truly hope everything changes forh?Blessings from Puerto Rico❤
Thank you for being the voice of sanity in these strange times.
Yes! More sanity. Deep breaths. Marcus is here. 😊
You can tell between trans trender women and actual transexual women. One of the two doesn't do any sort of effort to not look like a man. They other you don't even notice when they go to the women's bathroom because they don't look like a man.
transtrender! taking that. thanks
I just watched a couple of videos as they were recommended and this guy's one of the most sane individuals I've come across on YT so far.
Intelligence and dignity know no gender.
Omg !!!! This is exactly why I left my community 🙄 The backlash years from now is going to kill all the progress we have made back ten years. Social media is the real disease as far as I'm concerned 😟
The whole bathroom thing in my opinion started when society started accepting "social transitioning" as being the same as being a Transsexual. People are calling themselves trans without trying to pass as the gender they want to identify with.
It's because it would take commitment with actual hormones. And people who aren't really Trans don't want to commit to hormones because once you do there really is no going back from the changes they will make to your body. And its like deep down these narcissist just KNOW that being homosexual, ace, or anything else (Im not hating on the LGBT community just the entitled people in it) isn't getting them the same kind of attention and victim points they once had. And every one NEEDS to 1. be a victim 2. have all eyes on them. And it's sad, because trans people who clearly genuinely do struggle with their identity now also get the hate for being trans from the radical republicans because they think every trans person is a radical liberal.
Imagine *screaming* and cussing in front of *children* and blaming *fight or flight* for you demanding others pretend they believe in your delusions; as if you were *actually* triggered with *FIGHT OR FLIGHT* because someone simply _DISAGREED_ WITH YOU 🤦🏻♀️
You are such a sweet person! Young people like you have an old soul and a rare intellect. I appreciate your work on here!
Why doesnt the first guy take his own advice and get a bathroom buddy to go with him to the mens??
Not supporting the weird guys but as a biological male I will say no boys go to the restroom together 😅 If someone asked to do that you would be called gay, weird, etc. And I as a gay boy understand why boys wouldn't want to do that. Of course boys don't have to worry about other boys most the time as much as girls.
Yup
Some people need to accept that they will never pass and that's just life.
So many don’t even try to pass
They aren’t even trying! They’re not real trans people these men clearly aren’t using hormones or getting surgery or anything. They are an insult to actual trans people
'Passing' is still not an excuse.
It's more complicated than that. They want to feel validated. Sometimes they like peeking and being around vulnerable women, it's a turn on. Sometimes they like filming themselves in there for fun, making mast'rb't'on p*rn. Sometimes they like to harass women. There are lots of reasons they like to be in there. Sometimes just getting away with it is a win. Being in female spaces can be a turn on in general
RIGHT. And it’s not even about passing per se, but at least put in effort to look like the gender you identify with. You can’t expect someone to treat you like Caitlyn when you look like Bruce. 🤷🏼♀️
New subscriber here! You hit the nail on the head with every video! Thank you for using your voice!! 🥰
As a pakistani i was so disappointed when i realised that the first guy was from the same country as me there are actual trans people here that are being treated ABSOLUTELY HORRIBLE and then there is him sitting there and complaining about dumb stuff he dosen't realise how delusional he really is i've seen actual trans people being abused and i hate it sm
He’s not even Pakistani. He uses us for clout. He’s also extremely misogynistic, and says things like “all Pakistani women have beards” (as if we already don’t deal enough of that stereotype) and purposely pronounces ethnic names wrong so he can get a laugh from all his non south Asian friends. Don’t even call him Pakistani, he’s not.
@@rotisserie8444 oh ty for correcting me i'm so relieved that this clown is not from our country 😭
Now I'm scared that he might be Indian 💀
@@KN-hg2nv hum south asians ka iss makhluq sa koi lena dena nai 😭
I swear i was visibly confused when i saw the flag like bro must be lacking phophos in his life😭😭 how's he allowed to act like that
@3:31 I really hate that he jumps to calling her a bitch. I accidentally used the wrong public restroom, had no clue because the place was so empty. On walking out and seeing the sign I was like OMG 😮 and the one time I did it and a guy was in there I was confused bc is he in the wrong place or am I lol and we laughed it off while I ran out apologizing profusely 😅 She might not have been being a bitch at all maybe it was more like oh no I messed up, but ofc now he's got somebody to enjoy being mean to and a stupid story for clout 🙄
These fakes must make life so hard for you. You hit the nail on the head. If you are really trans you will be respected and have respect from all. These guys think being a drag queen is what a woman is. It's very offensive to women. Love your UA-cam. I think the points regarding ignorance of biology health are really important too. 💓
I see you being concerned and empathetic about children. You are so mature and grounded, you would make an awesome parental figure.
Your comment is the best one. Transwomen don't want to go to the male bathroom because they're afraid of violence yet they don't understand that if we see a male in our space we feel afraid.
Honestly, they’re so fucking delusional!
I'm sorry but if a 6 foot person with a big ass beard and a mustache comes inside the public bathroom I'm using I will scream and call security. Women NEED safe spaces. Stop trying to eradicate women from existence.
I feel the same way. I am not a person that likes confrontation but even I would scream and make a scene if I saw someone that is obviously a man in the women's restroom. This shit honestly terrifies and enrages me. We all need to make a scene and kick these freaks out of our spaces.
If nothing is done, I will carry a large kitchen knife in my backpack when I enter women's public restrooms, to protect myself.
Especially here where I live, a third world country, where criminality is very high and now you want this left ideology here to make it even worse?
Fuck that, I'll use a knife to feel safe if the women's bathroom is not safe for me or for other women from their presence. I'm tired of this shit, it's time to arm ourselves, for real.
@@analeticiacastromatos9509 I live in a third world country as well. I've never experienced something like this, and I truly support trans people, but letting a guy with a beard and mustache and covered in body hair inside the same bathroom absolutely terrifies me, specially with the way violence towards women is escalating in Latin America.
@@danielaaiz6407.
Sorry if I was a little exaggerated, it's just that my country just lost to the criminal left (Communists) two months ago. And that made me negatively emotional for a long time, it made me stressed.
And it's going to make matters much worse here, all of this is not caused by trans at all.
I'm kind of projecting that onto them a little bit, it's absolutely unfair of me, sorry about that.
But it is a fact that soon, with everything getting worse because of the socialist/communist left here, I will have to look for a way to defend myself and arm myself.
Or just get out of here.
I am deaf, and leftist socialists withdrew a law benefiting the deaf (which is proposed by the previous government before them) here a few days ago. And they ended up with many laws that benefit the poor, the worker, the businessmen and the people in general.
I am very afraid of what is to come, the prisoners are all being released little by little from prison since the rise of these communists, civil disarmament has already been put in place, the current government has a strong alliance with leftist dictators and also with the criminal factions here.
Anyway, I meant that I will use the knife only when necessary, I will not use it to scare or hurt any trans in the bathrooms.
I'll just be prepared in case the trans is a predator, since it is very difficult to distinguish whether a trans is a predator or an innocent. Just that.
@@analeticiacastromatos9509 oh no worries at all, I actually agree with what you're saying, and I'm sorry to hear your country is going through this. I hope it gets better soon.
I love your perspective. You are a beautiful person with a level mind, we need more folks like you.
Thank you , Marcus. You're right. It seems more important for men to be comfortable. I don't see male trans people receiving privileges.
I've noticed this for the past 20 years.
Maybe this guy that his “friends” tried to correct him. Friends don’t just stand up for you when you are wrong. A real friend will tell you that you are wrong if they truly love you & value your friendship!
Yes that dude refuses to see that maybe he's the problem...
I never understood the bathroom issue it's so stupid.
If you don't present yourself with the gender you identify, why would your put yourself in that embarrassing situation?
I'm trans, I already done hair laser removal,but I haven't start hormones yet(been on a waiting list for 2 years, I start next February). Even though with make up and my hair done I'm quite feminine looking.. I would feel so embarrassed and uncomfortable walking to the women bathroom lmao. I will only start using the women bathroom once I pass as one.. my goal going to the bathroom isn't making people uncomfortable because I'm a narcissistic freak.
If you pass(and you don't have to be super beautiful or anything but if your put a effort in) people won't say anything to you. This discussion only exists because of people that look like the opposite gender want to force themselves in this spaces and make everyone uncomfortable!
thank you for using your brain and empathy. I have been creeped on by men in public bathrooms before (mostly it was just them peaking under the doors or jerk!ng 0ff while looking through the cracks between stalls) so I really appreciate you not wanting to make other women feel unsafe.
Apart from that, based on your profile pic I´d say you pass quite decently and I wouldn´t feel uncomfortable if you entered the womans bathroom.
@@wolfsmaid6815thanks 😅, but obviously I'm not going outside like that with a wig yet. Even though I have very feminine features I don't pass yet(specially my body).
I will only start using the women bathroom probably 1 or 2 years after starting hormones :)
@@kikaGama98 oh, I didn´t realize it was a wig since I used to dye my hair like that in my teens (but mine looked way worse) ^^
Anyway, good luck on your journey and thank you for being so considerate. :)
@@wolfsmaid6815 ahaha im growing my natural hair atm 😊.
Thanks the same to you 🙂
It is good to see young generation like yourself having good understanding of what exactly is the balance of life.
People like you or Buck Angel are the ones who should represent the movement and not those nonsensical weirdos! As a woman I completely agree with what you say: I think no women would have a problem if you look like one. But these men are only going for provocation and as you perfectly expressed "making others feel uncomfortable".
One thing I can say about these tiktokers, if they wanna make it easier for their bathroom issues, humans are visual beings. Big indicator for the average male is that men have facial hair. Lose the beard and maybe it will help the way other people see you. The entire purpose of transition is to have the world see you as the gender you say you are, not to blindly accept everything you tell them. If I tell the everyone I'm a bird, does that mean they have to expect that I'm capable of doing everything a bird can do? No. Because most people can see I'm not a bird. You cannot force the world to see you the way you see yourself.
I hear from those tik toks "me me me, I I I, my feelings, my safe space, me me me"
Early in my transition, I didn't use the Women's bathroom, but once I passed, I began using it.
I've never had a single problem ever since.
What exactly does that mean? Once you passed? Passed what? You are still a biological male and always will be so i don't really understand what you mean.
@@kayla-Rey22 It means I do not resemble a Biological Male at all thus I pass well, and it makes no sense to treat me like one in real life, and yes, I am a Biological Male and I understand and accept it, I am just not required to behave like a Biological Male at all and I behave like a Woman.
@@janetmerai : Okay, thank-you for expaining that. But you are not the kind of Trans who are a problem. It's the Trans Activists who threaten and try to cancel women. The problem is they are impacting on your kind as well, because many people think they are what all Trans people are like and tar decent Trans people with the same brush.
One thing I would like to ask you. Men have a gene in their Y chsomosome called the MAOA gene. It causes aggression in males including those in the animal kingdom. That's why male animals hunt and defend their territory. This gene can also trigger violence. It's the reason why most murders are commited by men, why those running around our cities in violent gangs are male, and why men are usually the violent ones in domestic relationships. To be fair, it's also why most men do the fighting in wars. But you see what I'm getting at? Not all men are aggressive but the potential is still there. And you cannot suppress this gene with drugs. It's always there. You can see it in the Trans Activists who abuse and attack poeple who accidentally misgender them and in those who violently attacked swimmer Riley Gaines. You see, it's always men identifying as women who are aggressive and violent. Not women identifying as men. That aggressive gene is always there to ensure they act exactly true to type. So, as a biological male who has this gene, how do you align this with acting like a woman because you cannot ignore the presence of this gene in your system simply by acting like a woman. There are Trans Acivists who look more like women than many women. And they post videos on UA-cam labelling biological women as cis bitches and other abusive names. They are very aggressive in these videos and the reason for that is because they are actually men and that gene is controlling their behaviour.
"Disgusting ideology." EXACTLY!
The look on your face when the person was cracking off about their yellow scarf is everything 😂
To be fair, yellow does look like a nice colour on them, but it was just so random and kinda pointless in the video it threw me off xD