Well what do you do if your the producers? Fire Ariana to stick it to her risk the show getting cancelled with many other people out of work?? Or ride it out, maybe hope she comes back which was probably slim.. Jennette should have taken a page from Arianna and did the movies she turned down to be a team player..
@@rhey81 Like I said before, you have no idea what you’re talking about. Shows will almost always forbid any outside work and breaking the rules will result in being fired. Sam and Cat had two costars and the producers gave preferential treatment to only one of them. If Jeanette had decided to do the movies then she would have lost the show. And would have faced a lawsuit. Also, many movies fall through so she could have ended up with nothing. It’s a huge risk. The producers should have either applied the same rules to Ariana or let both of them do outside work as long as it didn’t interfere too much with the show.
Well to be fair and put it in perspective I’m sure before filming she had that in her contract so I would think it wasn’t out of random preference but well communicated/ negotiated between Ariana, the producers and her lawyers which gave her the flexibility. If janette was perusing other things as a nick alumni herself and a good lawyer and went to the producers first I’m sure she would’ve gotten the same. If anything the premise of the show would’ve then involved more than just those two memorable nick characters so everyone could dip on an episode and it would still feel full but without a heads up how’s that as possible.
@@BbGun-lw5vi both nick and Disney love making celebs into double threats though. It gives their stars more celebrity that is great publicity. The show was about Sam and cat the producers probably came to her after the popular show that’s a lot of leverage. During negotiations. They wouldn’t just do it out of the kindness of their heart lawyers probably fought hard for her from the very beginning to be allowed that flexibility . It’s always about applying for it it’s not just given. Remember for her role she was contractually expected to dye her hair more than monthly or weekly until they agreed on the red wig n she had damage for years. It’s all about what’s in the contract and pulling on your leverage at the end of the day.
@@happywings15 Oh, I know that. It’s all under contract. I agree with you that they didn’t give preferential treatment to Ariana because they liked her. It’s always business for them. And Ariana showed incredible promise with her voice. It’s no surprise at all that she got better negotiation terms than Jeanette. But this feels incredibly unfair at 20 years old. And my point to Rhey was that it’s a complicated issue and you can face serious repercussions for not upholding contract terms.
@@dabiggbunn yes she did but also it is kinda minimizing it because she was going through a lot and it is a totally normal human emotion, especially given the circumstances. it wasn't anything personal but I think it's kinda fair to say it was just jealousy is also minimizing the situation a bit.
@@moseshunter4585 again, she’s the one who said she was jealous, more than once. We’re also not aware of what Ariana was going through - did you know a producer on that show got reassigned because he was inappropriate with her?
I don’t even think its a comparison of careers. I think its a comparison of treatment. She booked two movies during the show and was not allowed to take time off but Ariana was for her career. It sucks but its not ariana’s fault its whoever treated them differently.
I really don't think she was comparing herself to Ariana's career but more so that Ariana got special treatment, which happened to also help her career
@@sharon21924 that's fair. I think there was comparison though I have watched all her interviews and read her book, & it was both comparison and treatment on set. But Dan did this to pit his actors against eachother too.
@@rhey81 it's not so easy. You can't be labelled difficult in Hollywood, she was at their mercy but getting fed up with the treatment also. Edit: when she had the movies was during Icarly and maybe she feared she'd lose her spin off.
It's not jealousy when your co-star is getting favorable treatment and what amounts to favoritism. It wasn't jealousy, Jeanette. It was injustice to you and I hope you get that.
It's not injustice..ariana obviously had her priorities as a singer and which is what made her the artist she is today. She auditioned for record labels while doing her acting gigs and obviously her talent won't go unnoticed which is why she was immediately snatched by republic records. It's all hardwork. She was just jealous of ariana.
@@gsmagb8257 only celebs like ariana could get away with missing work with no repercussions. that's not hard work. that's choosing what pays better because you have the privilege to do so and neglecting your prior obligations. unprofessional regardless of who you are.
@@gsmagb8257 then why join the show if she didnt really have time to do it? She wasnt able to film a lot, maybe she shouldve not taken on the role. It was supposed to be Jeanette's show anyway, yet they ended up adding and paying Ariana more which isn't fair. I dont get your reasoning.
I acknowledge the bad things Janette has gone through but she is just plain jealous of Ariana. It’s not Ariana’s fault she was invited to Tom hanks house and became a massive pop star. And let’s be honest I don’t think many people would watch Sam and Cat without Ariana, she probably did everyone a big favour by continuing to work with Nickelodeon despite her busy schedule . If Janette was in the same position as Ariana I’m pretty sure that she’ll do the exact same thing. I just don’t understand why people just can’t be happy for someone else’s success.
I hope she doesn’t get any hate from telling her truth. If she was hating then she was hating, oh well. She has a combination of reasons to get the the point that she would be bothered by working with something like that. She’s real af.
Unfortunately some Ari stans are gonna make it a big thing and use it to pit them against each other. I personally respect Jeanette for being open and honest and I look forward to reading her book and I say that as an Ari stan
From the looks of these comments Ari seems to be getting hate and Jeannette Praised. I honestly don't think Ariana will address this but she barely addresses things about her personal life.
@@lorenasanchez4050 I think if some stans do start some hate I don’t think it would be on here in the comments but like on twitter since that seems to be the place to start drama. I don’t think she will either. If she addresses it it will most likely be done privately just between her and Jeanette
@@lorenasanchez4050 ariana shouldn’t have to in my opinion. Jeanette is just addressing something from her past. Ariana has moved on. I think both girls have.
@@masonrbrown9422 nah I’ve been looking on twitter and some ppl are trying to make ariana out to be the bad guy bc of their hatred for her. it’s like they’re ignoring jennette’s part and making it about ariana in a negative way when in reality it has nothing to do with ari.
I applaud her for speaking up about her painful experiences. She has been through so much, and it a beautiful thing that she survived all that horrible stuff to tell the tale about what happened. So many people are suffering in silence, and you just never know. Whenever someone opens up and discuss what they have endured, I tend not to take it lightly. No matter who it is.
She's amazing. I was at her one woman show in LA titled "I'm Glad My Mom Died", the same as her book, in 2020 before the pandemic and she covered a lot of what she talked about here. The way she found humor and satire out of her situations in life I think is what makes her a brilliant artist. That despite all that shes been through she could make something entertaining and useful out of it.
It is so rare to find real honesty in a person, she is a very strong woman. We should be more like her. I wish her all the happiness that her heart desires:)
Amazing how Jennette is really honest about how she felt about Ariana Grande at the time and not scared to voice ber opinion. Obviously she isn't mad at Ariana Grande now since she hopes that Ariana will read her book. I can't blame Jennette for being jealous, if Ariana Grande missed work most of the time and Jennette was just stuck acting, who would blame her for getting jealous of Ari's success? Also, at some points, it isn't jealousy since Ariana Grande was just treated more better than Jennette because Ariana had a whole music career and Jennette hated acting. But she was stuck on the set and couldn't do much about it.
She turned down movies to be a team player right??? She should have taken a page from Ariana and did her own thing.. She might have been jealous of her but probably just as angry at herself for not having the stones to do her own thing like she did..
@@rhey81 it’s slightly different, there. Jennette was tied to the show by the TV execs. Additionally, Ariana was brought on as a last minute choice bc they were afraid Sam as a character couldn’t pull it off alone. Ariana had more potential in singing than acting in reality - not necessarily a bad actress but very clearly a better singer - and her success could bring the show more attention. The preferential treatment is in the idea that using Ariana’s success off the show could help the show’s success. It’s not right, but that was the difference for the two and why Nickelodeon would want to push Ariana in different areas.
@Deeps_ Yeah! And I don’t think there was an actual feud between them. But they definitely weren’t close or the best of friends. Ariana is like that one coworker you tolerate just enough to work together professionally, and once work of over, you go home. Miranda is probably the closest thing Jeanette had to an actual co star friend.
It can be painful if you're the person who gets better treatment too, actually. It sounds weird, but in reality it can be very disheartening to realise you are getting better treatment while other people are treated poorly around you if you have empathy. And it's even worse if said better treatment is convenient for you to achieve something you really want. That kind of situation can suck for everyone involved, sadly.
Maybe one day she'll make something that looks more like what Phoebe Waller-Bridge does! Phoebe writes stuff and acts her characters in some of the stuff she creates(like in Fleabag and Crashing).
I feel so bad for her. She was such a joy to watch and to know what she went through is very heartbreaking. With everything going on in her life she will always be our Sam.
Exactly- she was a joy to watch. I loved her as Sam. She was hilarious. I watched iCarly and Sam and Cat with my kids and it was just fun TV. I wish she could understand how many people loved her work on the shows.
in my honest opinion one of the strongest things she’s done is simply admit her jealousy. that is so rare. not many people can do that especially so publicly
Good for her for speaking out! But I have to admit her jealousy was reasonable, two young actors, working on the same show and yet one is favoured than the other. It’s human nature to feel this way especially when one is getting special treatment!
OMG I LOVE THIS WOMAN!!! Even though her life was tough, she was able to express her feelings. I don't think I have ever seen any other celebrity do that sort of thing. I'm so proud of her! 💗💗👍👍😘😘😘✨✨👏👏👏 I never read the 📖 but now I really want to
I think it was misdirected anger (at the time). It wasn’t Ariana’s fault that she wasn’t allowed to take off but Ari was. She was really mad at the producers/situation but seeing what Ariana had and what she didn’t made her feel like she was “jealous”
I mean it’s definitely not hard to comprehend lol it can be anger towards both of them the directors and Ariana. To better understand it’s like parents and two kids. The parents favor one and then when the other sibling tries to explain to the favorite sibling they’re oblivious and the lack of empathy makes you feel alone and hatred begins to form towards your brother/sister.
I mean it’s definitely not hard to comprehend lol it can be anger towards both of them the directors and Ariana. To better understand it’s like parents and two kids. The parents favor one and then when the other sibling tries to explain to the favorite sibling they’re oblivious and the lack of empathy makes you feel alone and hatred begins to form towards your brother/sister.
@@alyssiadeere4416 well Ariana never defending them lmao, what’s there to be mad about at Ariana? She didn’t defend anyone, she just did what she had to do, she never explained to her why it’s fair that she’s getting better treatment.
There’s a reason her book is sold out. It’s seriously so good. I read it as soon as I got it. If you haven’t read it, do it! Jennette is one of the most honest people in Hollywood.
I don’t understand why they call it jealousy. She has to act and that with a damn box while the person who should have been there acting (she’s getting money for it) can just have that money without acting in the excuse of “pop star stuff”. And that not once but multiple times. I’d be mad too if I was Jenette. Like wtf if you’re unable to juggle both at the same time just don’t do both jobs
@@astrohitter1791 you see it as more screen time, but I see it as more work that she has to do while still not getting paid as much as ariana who's not even there
Shes so classy ,poised ,and outspoken. I'm so happy she is able to tell her truth ,and advocate for herself. Even as the interviewer pushed her, she responded with grace ,and wisdom🤍
Jennette is such a relatable former actress. We shouldn’t do stuff just because someone else tells us to do stuff, we should just do stuff that we want to do and follow our hearts. I honestly don’t blame her for having a hard time healing from the trauma.
@nicolefnjane I was fortunate to have loving parents. But when I was training for my current career, my supervisor and a few colleagues weren’t that great. They were quite unprofessional and toxic to say the least. Thankfully it only lasted for a few months but it did take a toll on my mental health during that time…to the point where I almost quit.
If my coworker was getting paid as much or more than me but not doing the work and I had to pick up their slack I would be pissed too. I wouldn't necessarily call that jealousy
thank you, all these Ariana fans are out of line. Like... Janette had been in the game way longer and Ariana was just starting up, she literally got screwed over because they wouldn't let her any freedom, while watching another get everything. like missing work because of charades is unprofessional.
yeah it's one thing for ari to get special treatment, but fully missing work? that's on ari. super unprofessional in any setting. surprise, celebs are human and not perfect lol
@@ohemaa_ang as an Ari fan I wanna say that they don’t speak for all of us. I respect Jeanette for speaking her truth and being open and honest and I’m excited to read the book.
I could understand her being jealous because if I remember correctly, jeanette has made music too. maybe she hoped for the same kind of attention and privileges as her costar. the issue is that some of Ariana's fans seem to think jealousy makes someone a horrible person, when in reality its a normal emotion that everyone feels at some point or another. the same thing happened when Victoria justice was accused of being jealous of her. It didn't seem to me like she was, but even if its true, it shouldn't be a big deal.
just looking at her i can tell she looks so exhausted from everything even when she mentioned her love and admiration for miranda her expression just looked so lifeless. Really hope shes doing better now. I've always loved sam & cat and icarly both were my childhood that i wish i could have back. Coming back from school just to watch them❤
I love Jeannette! and I’m so happy she’s considering to go back to a acting I miss seeing her on my screen, I want her to heal first from everything before she comes back.
Bro MAJOR PROPS TO HER! imagine being that young and exploited by adults including YOUR OWN MOTHER, and watching your peers rise through fame. Self hatred, depression, frustration, envy, etc will be the norm. I can’t imagine the amount of work it took for her to get to this point.
i dont blame Jennette MCurdy for being jealous of Ariana Grande at all because its not fair that Ariana grande got special treatment while Jennette Mcurdy didnt. Tbh it isn't even ariana's fault its the directors because they could've not given ariana's character a spot on the show when ariana grande was clearly more focus on her music carrier then acting on a kids show.
Literally this! That’s why she was upset and angry because Ariana was never going to put her all into the show. The show was just another thing for her but Jeanette really wanted to move her career forward
I feel bad for all of those child actors. ua-cam.com/video/Bha3uh0-ris/v-deo.html and this ua-cam.com/video/8kNE2J8Fn34/v-deo.html he’s so creepy in these.
Actually, Dan came up with the idea of Sam and Cat in the middle of 2012 and then somewhere around September/November he asked Ariana if she would be interested in a spin off and she agreed to it. This was before she really was so focused on her music career altough she had already been working on an album since 2011. So i think if Dan asked her at the time where her main priority and job would be music (March 2013) then she would most likely have said no.
When you think about it, ariana was just starting out her music career and Jennette was trying to start her own show. I don't really think anyone's to blame for it, but it was obvious Arianas priority wasn't the show. WHILE Jennettes was. I don't think Jennette was jealous or bitter about it.
Jennette and Ariana were both on the show. Jennette didn't drag Ariana to be on it. She originally didn't even know that they would have her working with Ariana. It is absolutely Ariana's fault for missing commitments. Jennette also explained that Ariana got passes for missing shows, while she didn't. What does that mean? It means that Jennette and the crew members got ready, spent time and money to come to set, only to not have Ariana show up. Not only is that annoying but those very episodes then need to be recorded later on, which means they have to spend more money and time to come to set to record them. The story about Ariana playing charades at Tom Hanks' house also shows that she missed shows for her personal vanity and selfishness. That wasn't a business commitment (I hope not, yikes), Ariana did that because she had little concern for her castmates and staff and knew that she could get away with it without any recourse. That's narcissistic behavior.
@T. H. I think maybe also it must have been hard starting from nothing and having to support her family while ariana (while talented) had her loving italian family. Ariana did acting as something she loved and just that. Jenettes mother exploited her. It must feel sad to put in so much effort and see someone who already has everything to get the opportunities and meet your idols even though in your eyes you don’t see them putting in the same effort as you.
@T. H. I'm sure at first Jennette tried to be friends with ariana like how she was friends with Miranda. But wouldn't it piss you off (or feel a little envious) if you put 100% in your job but someone putting in like 60% effort gets paid the same, if not more? After a while, I would compare my career to my co stars too if she got special treatment. At first I don't think Jennette was jealous or bitter but it happened with time.
When you're young and been in the game and see a colleague in the industry you worked shine brighter when before you were shinning would make anyone feel those human emotions. It's hard to always be happy for others growing careers and not feel a bit jealous when you want the same growth.
I really recommend supporting her book monetarily in any way that you can, or at least going to a library to get it. I have already seen pirated copies floating around and it makes me sad. Her writing is great and reading her book was healing for me in ways that I didn't even expect. She gets really honest about her emotions and makes complicated feelings (like loving someone so much who is also deeply abusive to you) feel completely uncomplicated and easy to understand. I'm so proud of her as a fan. And I can't wait to see/read whatever she comes out with next.
Jeannette is finally being honest about the Jealousy she felt towards her. She denied it for years. Ari is very private so she might not say anything about it. They still follow eachother on social media.
Yeah. The Nickelodeon producers literally effed her over and boosted Ariana's career... anyone would feel some type of way if placed in the same situation. They were pitted against each other (by predators nonetheless) she had every right to feel the way she felt, IMO. I'm glad that she has made some peace with how everything turned out, though.
I think even Victoria Justice felt a little jealous and that’s why she said “we can all sing”… maybe during those times it felt like everything is more about Ariana, she’s the main star of this show even though Victoria is the actual main lead …. I could be wrong but if that is the case I can understand why Victoria would say something like that there was a sense of jealousy, pure frustration
@@finnrogue9435 ariana received preferential treatment because everyone saw her with money in their eyes. but i don't think it would have resulted in any resentment of ari had ari not fully leaned into the preferential treatment and done things like miss work. i would be pissed too if my costar was still getting paid and not doing any work. and that's fully on ari. i love her but sorry that's super unprofessional regardless of who you are.
So proud of her coming so far from the dark place she was in. She looks genuinely happy and comfortable in front of the camera talking about her painful past. Truly an inspiration.
Jennette McCurdy IS Sam Puckett! There's no one else who could've played and embodied that role the way she did. It was specifically made just for her.
There must not have been a decent team around her to expand her career. I love her as Sam but I don't know her as anyone else. It's about rebranding which Ariana & other successful child actors have done to further their careers. It's unfortunate that she waited so long to tell her side of the story
@@slwilliams0717 It seems like she needed that break for her own sanity though, so it's probably the best thing for her in the end that she didn't really have that in the end?
I applaud her for being so brave and come forward with everything she went through. I'm glad she didn't went down the destructive path as the other child stars we know. I wish her all the best and would love to see her on my screen again. And I would definitely read her book :)
Who wouldnt be pissed though if a co worker, who has much less work, constantly skipping their shift, probably making you work harder would even get paied more. Especially, how can the alledged friend/co worker be okay with it...
There’s something in my gut that really turns off with the Jeanette and Ariana Grande comparisons. I think it could be how Dan was abusive to both girls in different ways.
Love how open and honest she is, I think she is truly inspirational for sharing her experience like this. The way she talks in these interviews, you can see and tell she’s healing and finally finding peace after everything she’s been through and that makes me so happy. And if anyone gives her hate for being jealous of Ariana then they are delusional, jealousy is a normal human emotion, we’ve all felt it at multiple points in our lives and Jennette was only young, in her early 20s, at the time.
that was exactly it. in her book she says she had to turn down jobs even during icarly while ariana grande was given freedom to pursue a music career. jennette felt unfulfilled bc she thought sam and cat was a shitty show
This makes me think of Victoria Justice… idk as much as I love Ariana I felt like she is the main star in both shows and the others felt like supporting characters and maybe that’s why Victoria said that infamous line of “we can all sing” because maybe it felt like all about Ariana…. She probably didn’t mean it in a mean way but like Jeanette said about the jealously thing maybe there’s a bit of jealously behind what Victoria said… idk it’s just a theory
@@arimalfoy8807 yeah but she obviously had a better everything that Jennette So I can see how the show giving ari special privileges upset her I mean wouldn't you be upset if anything close to that happend to you all We gotta see it from both sides here And not just let someone off the hook just because She was overbooked and it was beyond her control
I'm glad some of the comments here demonstrate an understanding between jealousy and anger over unfair (or preferential) treatment. I don't think jealous is the right word to describe what Jeannette felt towards Arianna. Maybe she was a little green with envy over Ari's success but it sounds like Ari was given preferential treatment, whereas Jeannette was not afforded the same opportunities. If someone or something blocks your chances to succeed, I'd be angry too and I'd probably look at my colleague and wonder why they get to succeed. Sometimes we forget that not everyone in the same role or industry gets the same treatment or opportunities. Hollywood is full of favoritism. It's not an equal opportunity employer. It's all about connections and who they like.
It’s about contracts actually. This was as much about their individual business managers and what they negotiated as it was the network. She said she was jealous and you calling it “green with envy” is literally the same thing…
I love to imagine charades at Tom Hank's place. "Two words, open, close... It's a GATE! Okay second word is gate! First word, circle, pie, cheese.. PIZZA!"
People r making it seem like Ariana was never there at work when she’s there for all of the episodes except that 1 episode were she recorded her lines & her 1 scene. The rest of the time she was there. At the most I’m thinking she missed rehearsals & maybe a few table reads. It takes a week to do 1 episode Monday table read,Tuesday & Wednesday rehearsal. Thursday & Friday tape the episode. So when Jeannette is saying that she frequently missed work I hope that she’s very specific about how much Ariana missed work & what exactly she missed in her book so people don’t just take that statement & run with it.
Have you ever heard of the straw that broke the camel's back? Well, I think that may have been this instance for Jeanette. I love Ariana grande but her stans really make the most grandiose assumptions and accusations to defend her.
I'm so glad she's developed some closure to possibly get back into acting. The seflsih part of me is really hoping she can possibly make an episode return or small cam in the iCarly reboot, now that Miranda is an executive producer and Creepy Dan Scheider is out of the picture hopefully she would feel comfortable enough to make a small appearance to appease the fans. I would love to see a project she would direct. I actually hope she gets a biopic about her experiences in her child and adolescence. Her book already has a lot of buzz.
I love how she is so open about jealousy and envy, I was such an envious person in my teenage years and everytime I opened up about it everyone judge me, at least for me I didn't want them to be miserable or something i was just jealous that they had so many friends and they were so happy unlike me
I would love to see Jeannette in a Fleabag style show. I think she would nail a role like that, and perhaps the character could possess some similarities to her in real life (in regards to going to therapy and recovering from a traumatic and abusive childhood). I think that could be very healing for her
I see great things coming for this woman and I'm here for it. She deserves much better. Being proud of someone you don't and will never know is a weird feeling.
As an Arianator, I don't have any hard feelings towards Jennette. Her feelings make so much sense and are valid. I really appreciate her honesty. I can definitely relate to comparing yourself to other people, it's not a nice feeling. I think some people don't get that it's not Ariana's fault but Nick's. Jennette seems much happier and overall in a better place. As much as I miss Ariana and Jennette hanging out and doing funny Livestreams together, sometimes leaving some friendships behind are for the best. 💖
I am happy to see how people are receiving Jennette's claims of being jealous of Ariana. I think a reason so is because this "preferential" treatment is unfortunately even in the most basic non-Hollywood jobs! It's almost expected in the entertainment industry, but the fact that it is literally everywhere among employment speaks volumes of how people act and behave, you would think that these things on a non-Hollywood scale would be dealt with more fairness and they are usually not.
i respect her so much 🤍 , she’s healed as a person and the fact she had to go through all of that during set she is such a strong person . lots of love for you Jennette 🤍
It’s so interesting seeing her come out with everything that she saying because honestly when I watched that show, just the human in me was like I wonder how jennette the person really feels about acting alongside someone who is clearly on a fast trajectory to superstardom. and i myself am a huge fan of ari so as excited as i was about seeing her take off , the other part of me that was also a fan of jennettes from iCarly…. i just wondered. i’m proud of her for being so transparent. its one thing to be forthcoming about your abuse but to admit to how she felt while working with ari… i also feel takes courage. most people can’t admit when they’re jealous. what’s sad is her jealousy really was because she was suffering… glad jennette seems to be doing much better❤️
Guess they all took the hush money, because everyone has been silent and they or he is still free to abuse. It's not their job to bring him to justice, it's just sad that they had to go through that and so many others
It’s fine that she was jealous but let’s not normalize being toxic out of jealousy. I remember back in the day she made a parody video rudely making fun of Ariana. She went out of her way to draw attention that she didn’t like her. I totally get that she feels robbed but Ariana wasn’t to blame it was her people and Nickelodeon. And her wording makes it seem as though she’s at the same level talent wise and kind of takes away from all the hard work Ari has done to build and continue a long successful career. I feel terrible for what she went through I just don’t like that she keeps comparing their careers because they had one season of a show together.
So glad she brought this up. So important to note ❤️weve all gone through that jealously with someone as a kid growing up. So many nasty rumors out there about the girls when really the explanation is simple
well yea she’s admitting.. but dang how could she be jealous, why? weren’t they kinda close… it’s not like Ariana was sabotaging her… she was just very lucky to pursue her dream… damn why do people feel envy???
I hope she lives a long and fulfilling life. Always thought she was a very good young actress. Very versatile. Very attractive....go girl! You can do it! Good job!
I’m not trying to be judgemental but just worried I hope Jeanette is okay the vibe I got is that she isn’t okay mentally, emotionally and physically…. I hope she doesn’t fall to drugs or consumes a lot of alcohol… To me her appearance has changed and so I just hope she’s okay!!!
Wow…. She musta seems so authentic and mature, like the way she speaks sounds like she has grown from all her obstacles. Love this for her 💕 and wish that for me in the future as well
I hope people start to help Jeanette see that it was not really jealousy what she felt. She was being forced to work while seeing a co worker given a lot of slack. I would be furious too. I would be so hurt and confused. Jeanette deserved and deserves so much more. I love her and respect her more and more.
It's only understandable that she felt the way she did. She was suffering, and she saw her co-star basically get better treatment and success than her. She must have felt really isolated and left behind, and didn't want to keep exposing herself to the person who was unintentionally triggering that pain.
Her feelings are 10000% valid, as an Ariana fan it was totally not fair for Ariana to get better treatment
Well what do you do if your the producers? Fire Ariana to stick it to her risk the show getting cancelled with many other people out of work?? Or ride it out, maybe hope she comes back which was probably slim.. Jennette should have taken a page from Arianna and did the movies she turned down to be a team player..
@@rhey81 Like I said before, you have no idea what you’re talking about. Shows will almost always forbid any outside work and breaking the rules will result in being fired. Sam and Cat had two costars and the producers gave preferential treatment to only one of them.
If Jeanette had decided to do the movies then she would have lost the show. And would have faced a lawsuit. Also, many movies fall through so she could have ended up with nothing. It’s a huge risk.
The producers should have either applied the same rules to Ariana or let both of them do outside work as long as it didn’t interfere too much with the show.
Well to be fair and put it in perspective I’m sure before filming she had that in her contract so I would think it wasn’t out of random preference but well communicated/ negotiated between Ariana, the producers and her lawyers which gave her the flexibility. If janette was perusing other things as a nick alumni herself and a good lawyer and went to the producers first I’m sure she would’ve gotten the same. If anything the premise of the show would’ve then involved more than just those two memorable nick characters so everyone could dip on an episode and it would still feel full but without a heads up how’s that as possible.
@@BbGun-lw5vi both nick and Disney love making celebs into double threats though. It gives their stars more celebrity that is great publicity. The show was about Sam and cat the producers probably came to her after the popular show that’s a lot of leverage. During negotiations. They wouldn’t just do it out of the kindness of their heart lawyers probably fought hard for her from the very beginning to be allowed that flexibility . It’s always about applying for it it’s not just given. Remember for her role she was contractually expected to dye her hair more than monthly or weekly until they agreed on the red wig n she had damage for years. It’s all about what’s in the contract and pulling on your leverage at the end of the day.
@@happywings15 Oh, I know that. It’s all under contract. I agree with you that they didn’t give preferential treatment to Ariana because they liked her. It’s always business for them. And Ariana showed incredible promise with her voice. It’s no surprise at all that she got better negotiation terms than Jeanette.
But this feels incredibly unfair at 20 years old. And my point to Rhey was that it’s a complicated issue and you can face serious repercussions for not upholding contract terms.
I like her. I'm glad she finally admitted she was jealous. It's a totally normal human emotion. Also, she was going through a lot.
Saying it was just jealousy is minimizing it
@@nowey2251 she said she was jealous
@@dabiggbunn yes she did but also it is kinda minimizing it because she was going through a lot and it is a totally normal human emotion, especially given the circumstances. it wasn't anything personal but I think it's kinda fair to say it was just jealousy is also minimizing the situation a bit.
but Janette was jealous because of Ariana's privileges on set, not because of anything else 🤷🏻♂️
@@moseshunter4585 again, she’s the one who said she was jealous, more than once. We’re also not aware of what Ariana was going through - did you know a producer on that show got reassigned because he was inappropriate with her?
Why are people judging her for comparing her career to Ariana's, like even retail employees compare. It's human.
I don’t even think its a comparison of careers. I think its a comparison of treatment. She booked two movies during the show and was not allowed to take time off but Ariana was for her career. It sucks but its not ariana’s fault its whoever treated them differently.
I really don't think she was comparing herself to Ariana's career but more so that Ariana got special treatment, which happened to also help her career
@@sharon21924 that's fair. I think there was comparison though I have watched all her interviews and read her book, & it was both comparison and treatment on set. But Dan did this to pit his actors against eachother too.
She should have taken a page from Ariana and did the movies she turned down to hold down the fort on Sam and Cat
@@rhey81 it's not so easy. You can't be labelled difficult in Hollywood, she was at their mercy but getting fed up with the treatment also. Edit: when she had the movies was during Icarly and maybe she feared she'd lose her spin off.
I have nothing but respect for her.
Me too
True, I respect her too
she’s so strong
Definitely respect for not smacking the shit of that patronizing reporter... the way she tolerates with the dumbassery of media Comment. 👏 👏 👏
Same here!
It's not jealousy when your co-star is getting favorable treatment and what amounts to favoritism. It wasn't jealousy, Jeanette. It was injustice to you and I hope you get that.
It's not injustice..ariana obviously had her priorities as a singer and which is what made her the artist she is today. She auditioned for record labels while doing her acting gigs and obviously her talent won't go unnoticed which is why she was immediately snatched by republic records. It's all hardwork. She was just jealous of ariana.
@@gsmagb8257 only celebs like ariana could get away with missing work with no repercussions. that's not hard work. that's choosing what pays better because you have the privilege to do so and neglecting your prior obligations. unprofessional regardless of who you are.
@@skrittle555 nope..I just think ariana definitely prioritized being a singer over an actress at that point of time. And she has every right to do so.
@@gsmagb8257 then why join the show if she didnt really have time to do it? She wasnt able to film a lot, maybe she shouldve not taken on the role. It was supposed to be Jeanette's show anyway, yet they ended up adding and paying Ariana more which isn't fair. I dont get your reasoning.
I acknowledge the bad things Janette has gone through but she is just plain jealous of Ariana. It’s not Ariana’s fault she was invited to Tom hanks house and became a massive pop star. And let’s be honest I don’t think many people would watch Sam and Cat without Ariana, she probably did everyone a big favour by continuing to work with Nickelodeon despite her busy schedule . If Janette was in the same position as Ariana I’m pretty sure that she’ll do the exact same thing. I just don’t understand why people just can’t be happy for someone else’s success.
I hope she doesn’t get any hate from telling her truth. If she was hating then she was hating, oh well. She has a combination of reasons to get the the point that she would be bothered by working with something like that. She’s real af.
Unfortunately some Ari stans are gonna make it a big thing and use it to pit them against each other. I personally respect Jeanette for being open and honest and I look forward to reading her book and I say that as an Ari stan
From the looks of these comments Ari seems to be getting hate and Jeannette Praised. I honestly don't think Ariana will address this but she barely addresses things about her personal life.
@@lorenasanchez4050 I think if some stans do start some hate I don’t think it would be on here in the comments but like on twitter since that seems to be the place to start drama. I don’t think she will either. If she addresses it it will most likely be done privately just between her and Jeanette
@@lorenasanchez4050 ariana shouldn’t have to in my opinion. Jeanette is just addressing something from her past. Ariana has moved on. I think both girls have.
@@masonrbrown9422 nah I’ve been looking on twitter and some ppl are trying to make ariana out to be the bad guy bc of their hatred for her. it’s like they’re ignoring jennette’s part and making it about ariana in a negative way when in reality it has nothing to do with ari.
I applaud her for speaking up about her painful experiences. She has been through so much, and it a beautiful thing that she survived all that horrible stuff to tell the tale about what happened.
So many people are suffering in silence, and you just never know. Whenever someone opens up and discuss what they have endured, I tend not to take it lightly. No matter who it is.
She's amazing. I was at her one woman show in LA titled "I'm Glad My Mom Died", the same as her book, in 2020 before the pandemic and she covered a lot of what she talked about here. The way she found humor and satire out of her situations in life I think is what makes her a brilliant artist. That despite all that shes been through she could make something entertaining and useful out of it.
@aser m y would u lie like that
It is so rare to find real honesty in a person, she is a very strong woman. We should be more like her.
I wish her all the happiness that her heart desires:)
Exactly. I never seen such a genuine actress. Shes the person we should look up to. Very inspiring.
Amazing how Jennette is really honest about how she felt about Ariana Grande at the time and not scared to voice ber opinion. Obviously she isn't mad at Ariana Grande now since she hopes that Ariana will read her book.
I can't blame Jennette for being jealous, if Ariana Grande missed work most of the time and Jennette was just stuck acting, who would blame her for getting jealous of Ari's success? Also, at some points, it isn't jealousy since Ariana Grande was just treated more better than Jennette because Ariana had a whole music career and Jennette hated acting. But she was stuck on the set and couldn't do much about it.
She turned down movies to be a team player right??? She should have taken a page from Ariana and did her own thing.. She might have been jealous of her but probably just as angry at herself for not having the stones to do her own thing like she did..
@@rhey81 you most likely wouldn’t either have you suffered the way that she did
@@rhey81 she tried but got turned down by execs
@@rhey81 it’s slightly different, there. Jennette was tied to the show by the TV execs. Additionally, Ariana was brought on as a last minute choice bc they were afraid Sam as a character couldn’t pull it off alone. Ariana had more potential in singing than acting in reality - not necessarily a bad actress but very clearly a better singer - and her success could bring the show more attention. The preferential treatment is in the idea that using Ariana’s success off the show could help the show’s success. It’s not right, but that was the difference for the two and why Nickelodeon would want to push Ariana in different areas.
@Deeps_
Yeah! And I don’t think there was an actual feud between them. But they definitely weren’t close or the best of friends. Ariana is like that one coworker you tolerate just enough to work together professionally, and once work of over, you go home. Miranda is probably the closest thing Jeanette had to an actual co star friend.
Preferential treatment. It’s great when it’s on your side and is the worst to experience when you’re on the other side . Totally relateable
It can be painful if you're the person who gets better treatment too, actually. It sounds weird, but in reality it can be very disheartening to realise you are getting better treatment while other people are treated poorly around you if you have empathy. And it's even worse if said better treatment is convenient for you to achieve something you really want. That kind of situation can suck for everyone involved, sadly.
No, it’s definitely worse on the other side, BFFR
Poor Jennette, I hope she's doing well now.
Did you not watch the fuckin video?
@@tiffanylove4445 Yes, and what I meant was I hope that she has better success at writing and selling her books as an author than being an actress.
i’m sure she is. she looks a lot happier and healthier now, and i’m glad for her
@@tiffanylove4445 calm down shaniqua
@@tyshawncorsey5561 she did her book sold out😌
I would love to see her on my screen again as an actress. Directing and writing…wow can’t wait to see what she will create.
Maybe one day she'll make something that looks more like what Phoebe Waller-Bridge does! Phoebe writes stuff and acts her characters in some of the stuff she creates(like in Fleabag and Crashing).
I feel so bad for her. She was such a joy to watch and to know what she went through is very heartbreaking. With everything going on in her life she will always be our Sam.
Exactly- she was a joy to watch. I loved her as Sam. She was hilarious. I watched iCarly and Sam and Cat with my kids and it was just fun TV. I wish she could understand how many people loved her work on the shows.
if you read her book you would know that she definitely doesn't wanna be remembered/referred to as Sam lmao
@@indiesunflowers yeah ik im just saying
Ever since this book released, everyone knows her now as Jennette
in my honest opinion one of the strongest things she’s done is simply admit her jealousy. that is so rare. not many people can do that especially so publicly
Good for her for speaking out! But I have to admit her jealousy was reasonable, two young actors, working on the same show and yet one is favoured than the other. It’s human nature to feel this way especially when one is getting special treatment!
OMG I LOVE THIS WOMAN!!! Even though her life was tough, she was able to express her feelings. I don't think I have ever seen any other celebrity do that sort of thing. I'm so proud of her! 💗💗👍👍😘😘😘✨✨👏👏👏
I never read the 📖 but now I really want to
@aser m Sorry gotta ask: huh? 🤔🤔
I think it was misdirected anger (at the time). It wasn’t Ariana’s fault that she wasn’t allowed to take off but Ari was. She was really mad at the producers/situation but seeing what Ariana had and what she didn’t made her feel like she was “jealous”
I mean it’s definitely not hard to comprehend lol it can be anger towards both of them the directors and Ariana. To better understand it’s like parents and two kids. The parents favor one and then when the other sibling tries to explain to the favorite sibling they’re oblivious and the lack of empathy makes you feel alone and hatred begins to form towards your brother/sister.
I mean it’s definitely not hard to comprehend lol it can be anger towards both of them the directors and Ariana. To better understand it’s like parents and two kids. The parents favor one and then when the other sibling tries to explain to the favorite sibling they’re oblivious and the lack of empathy makes you feel alone and hatred begins to form towards your brother/sister.
@@alyssiadeere4416 u commented twice
@@gabrielcastaneda704 ok lol I cannot control the glitches 😂
@@alyssiadeere4416 well Ariana never defending them lmao, what’s there to be mad about at Ariana? She didn’t defend anyone, she just did what she had to do, she never explained to her why it’s fair that she’s getting better treatment.
There’s a reason her book is sold out. It’s seriously so good. I read it as soon as I got it. If you haven’t read it, do it! Jennette is one of the most honest people in Hollywood.
I don’t understand why they call it jealousy. She has to act and that with a damn box while the person who should have been there acting (she’s getting money for it) can just have that money without acting in the excuse of “pop star stuff”. And that not once but multiple times. I’d be mad too if I was Jenette. Like wtf if you’re unable to juggle both at the same time just don’t do both jobs
Well didn't Arianas pop star status bring in more attention and viewership to the show?
I thought the same and I agree, calling it "jealousy" gives the implication that Jennette's anger was unfounded.
So she got more screen time than Arianna and is still mad?
@@astrohitter1791 you see it as more screen time, but I see it as more work that she has to do while still not getting paid as much as ariana who's not even there
@@astrohitter1791 not really satisfying to be getting more screen time when it’s only because the other person isn’t there
Shes so classy ,poised ,and outspoken. I'm so happy she is able to tell her truth ,and advocate for herself. Even as the interviewer pushed her, she responded with grace ,and wisdom🤍
She's a joy to listen to, as sad as her story is. She's a dynamic speaker and tour de force.
Jennette is such a relatable former actress. We shouldn’t do stuff just because someone else tells us to do stuff, we should just do stuff that we want to do and follow our hearts. I honestly don’t blame her for having a hard time healing from the trauma.
I’ve struggled with an abusive mom for 37 years. I’ve been waiting for this book to come out for months. The day after it was released… my mom died.
@nicolefnjane
I was fortunate to have loving parents. But when I was training for my current career, my supervisor and a few colleagues weren’t that great. They were quite unprofessional and toxic to say the least. Thankfully it only lasted for a few months but it did take a toll on my mental health during that time…to the point where I almost quit.
If my coworker was getting paid as much or more than me but not doing the work and I had to pick up their slack I would be pissed too. I wouldn't necessarily call that jealousy
thank you, all these Ariana fans are out of line. Like... Janette had been in the game way longer and Ariana was just starting up, she literally got screwed over because they wouldn't let her any freedom, while watching another get everything. like missing work because of charades is unprofessional.
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yeah it's one thing for ari to get special treatment, but fully missing work? that's on ari. super unprofessional in any setting. surprise, celebs are human and not perfect lol
@@ohemaa_ang as an Ari fan I wanna say that they don’t speak for all of us. I respect Jeanette for speaking her truth and being open and honest and I’m excited to read the book.
I could understand her being jealous because if I remember correctly, jeanette has made music too. maybe she hoped for the same kind of attention and privileges as her costar. the issue is that some of Ariana's fans seem to think jealousy makes someone a horrible person, when in reality its a normal emotion that everyone feels at some point or another. the same thing happened when Victoria justice was accused of being jealous of her. It didn't seem to me like she was, but even if its true, it shouldn't be a big deal.
U can just really tell how much all that pain weighed on her body I'm so happy for her and her new found purpose, nothing but prayers for her
just looking at her i can tell she looks so exhausted from everything even when she mentioned her love and admiration for miranda her expression just looked so lifeless. Really hope shes doing better now. I've always loved sam & cat and icarly both were my childhood that i wish i could have back. Coming back from school just to watch them❤
I’m jealous of Ariana too and she’s not daily rubbing her success in my face, Jeanette is so humble being open and honest about her emotions
I love Jeannette! and I’m so happy she’s considering to go back to a acting I miss seeing her on my screen, I want her to heal first from everything before she comes back.
Her mom did MUCH MORE than what they said. I fully support this book and her healing that comes from it!!!
I'm glad she's healing but she is helping others heal as well, including me.
I have major respect for child stars who leave the business when they become adults & expose the industry
Bro MAJOR PROPS TO HER!
imagine being that young and exploited by adults including YOUR OWN MOTHER, and watching your peers rise through fame. Self hatred, depression, frustration, envy, etc will be the norm.
I can’t imagine the amount of work it took for her to get to this point.
I preordered the book and it arrived today I’m excited
Could you make a video review when you finish reading it? It would be awesome 🥺
@@popcorn720 will do
@@pinkcamelpodcast8380 Thank you!
i dont blame Jennette MCurdy for being jealous of Ariana Grande at all because its not fair that Ariana grande got special treatment while Jennette Mcurdy didnt. Tbh it isn't even ariana's fault its the directors because they could've not given ariana's character a spot on the show when ariana grande was clearly more focus on her music carrier then acting on a kids show.
Literally this! That’s why she was upset and angry because Ariana was never going to put her all into the show. The show was just another thing for her but Jeanette really wanted to move her career forward
Right.. glad they both got away.
but I saw a vid when Dan came by liz (jade off victorious) she had to pull Ariana’s skirt down and Dan asked liz “did you just bark?”
I feel bad for all of those child actors.
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and this
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he’s so creepy in these.
Actually, Dan came up with the idea of Sam and Cat in the middle of 2012 and then somewhere around September/November he asked Ariana if she would be interested in a spin off and she agreed to it. This was before she really was so focused on her music career altough she had already been working on an album since 2011. So i think if Dan asked her at the time where her main priority and job would be music (March 2013) then she would most likely have said no.
Jennette is such a great and brave person. I hope that I get to read her book soon. 💜
Thank you for sharing your story. I’m beyond sorry you had to go thru this, your mom needed help and she didn’t get it, you deserved so much better
When you think about it, ariana was just starting out her music career and Jennette was trying to start her own show. I don't really think anyone's to blame for it, but it was obvious Arianas priority wasn't the show. WHILE Jennettes was. I don't think Jennette was jealous or bitter about it.
Jennette and Ariana were both on the show. Jennette didn't drag Ariana to be on it. She originally didn't even know that they would have her working with Ariana. It is absolutely Ariana's fault for missing commitments. Jennette also explained that Ariana got passes for missing shows, while she didn't. What does that mean? It means that Jennette and the crew members got ready, spent time and money to come to set, only to not have Ariana show up. Not only is that annoying but those very episodes then need to be recorded later on, which means they have to spend more money and time to come to set to record them.
The story about Ariana playing charades at Tom Hanks' house also shows that she missed shows for her personal vanity and selfishness. That wasn't a business commitment (I hope not, yikes), Ariana did that because she had little concern for her castmates and staff and knew that she could get away with it without any recourse. That's narcissistic behavior.
@T. H. I think maybe also it must have been hard starting from nothing and having to support her family while ariana (while talented) had her loving italian family. Ariana did acting as something she loved and just that. Jenettes mother exploited her. It must feel sad to put in so much effort and see someone who already has everything to get the opportunities and meet your idols even though in your eyes you don’t see them putting in the same effort as you.
@@lorenasanchez4050 right just because u get older doesn’t mean that the trauma from that doesn’t effect u
@@lorenasanchez4050 You really are comparing a divorce to years of abuse and exploitation
@T. H. I'm sure at first Jennette tried to be friends with ariana like how she was friends with Miranda. But wouldn't it piss you off (or feel a little envious) if you put 100% in your job but someone putting in like 60% effort gets paid the same, if not more? After a while, I would compare my career to my co stars too if she got special treatment. At first I don't think Jennette was jealous or bitter but it happened with time.
When you're young and been in the game and see a colleague in the industry you worked shine brighter when before you were shinning would make anyone feel those human emotions. It's hard to always be happy for others growing careers and not feel a bit jealous when you want the same growth.
I love how real she is
I really recommend supporting her book monetarily in any way that you can, or at least going to a library to get it. I have already seen pirated copies floating around and it makes me sad. Her writing is great and reading her book was healing for me in ways that I didn't even expect. She gets really honest about her emotions and makes complicated feelings (like loving someone so much who is also deeply abusive to you) feel completely uncomplicated and easy to understand. I'm so proud of her as a fan. And I can't wait to see/read whatever she comes out with next.
Jeannette is finally being honest about the Jealousy she felt towards her. She denied it for years. Ari is very private so she might not say anything about it. They still follow eachother on social media.
Yeah. The Nickelodeon producers literally effed her over and boosted Ariana's career... anyone would feel some type of way if placed in the same situation. They were pitted against each other (by predators nonetheless) she had every right to feel the way she felt, IMO. I'm glad that she has made some peace with how everything turned out, though.
@@TheVideoChatter yeah, it was not even Ariana's or Jeannette's fault, it was the production doing that shady stuff behind the scenes
@@finnrogue9435 I 100% blame them (producers)
I think even Victoria Justice felt a little jealous and that’s why she said “we can all sing”… maybe during those times it felt like everything is more about Ariana, she’s the main star of this show even though Victoria is the actual main lead ….
I could be wrong but if that is the case I can understand why Victoria would say something like that there was a sense of jealousy, pure frustration
@@finnrogue9435 ariana received preferential treatment because everyone saw her with money in their eyes. but i don't think it would have resulted in any resentment of ari had ari not fully leaned into the preferential treatment and done things like miss work. i would be pissed too if my costar was still getting paid and not doing any work. and that's fully on ari. i love her but sorry that's super unprofessional regardless of who you are.
Too bad she was embarrassed about her role, I loved her character on iCarly and Sam and Cat!
So proud of her coming so far from the dark place she was in. She looks genuinely happy and comfortable in front of the camera talking about her painful past. Truly an inspiration.
Jennette deserves all the support and love she receives 🔥🔥🎆🎆❤❤
I love you Janette ❤ you always had me cracking up whenever I watched your shows. Miss you & wish you so many blessings
Jennette McCurdy IS Sam Puckett! There's no one else who could've played and embodied that role the way she did. It was specifically made just for her.
This is the exact thing she didn't want to be, though. She didn't want to be Sam Puckett, she wanted to be herself.
She isn't
There must not have been a decent team around her to expand her career. I love her as Sam but I don't know her as anyone else. It's about rebranding which Ariana & other successful child actors have done to further their careers. It's unfortunate that she waited so long to tell her side of the story
@@slwilliams0717 It seems like she needed that break for her own sanity though, so it's probably the best thing for her in the end that she didn't really have that in the end?
She was so funny as Sam lmfao
It is okay to admit you had jealousy.
Kelly Rowland (in her brave song “Dirty Laundry”) admitted having had jealousy about Beyoncé’s solo career.
I applaud her for being so brave and come forward with everything she went through. I'm glad she didn't went down the destructive path as the other child stars we know. I wish her all the best and would love to see her on my screen again. And I would definitely read her book :)
She so beautiful definitely with her hair pulled back just so gorgeous and looks like a genuine woman
I think she is awesome. Hopefully she is happy now. Also she is a true beauty.
Who wouldnt be pissed though if a co worker, who has much less work, constantly skipping their shift, probably making you work harder would even get paied more.
Especially, how can the alledged friend/co worker be okay with it...
There’s something in my gut that really turns off with the Jeanette and Ariana Grande comparisons. I think it could be how Dan was abusive to both girls in different ways.
Love how open and honest she is, I think she is truly inspirational for sharing her experience like this. The way she talks in these interviews, you can see and tell she’s healing and finally finding peace after everything she’s been through and that makes me so happy. And if anyone gives her hate for being jealous of Ariana then they are delusional, jealousy is a normal human emotion, we’ve all felt it at multiple points in our lives and Jennette was only young, in her early 20s, at the time.
It's seems more like Jeanette was jealous of Arianas' freedom.
Ariana was busy and overbooked so it’s beyond her control
that was exactly it. in her book she says she had to turn down jobs even during icarly while ariana grande was given freedom to pursue a music career. jennette felt unfulfilled bc she thought sam and cat was a shitty show
Yes I can agree with this take.
This makes me think of Victoria Justice… idk as much as I love Ariana I felt like she is the main star in both shows and the others felt like supporting characters and maybe that’s why Victoria said that infamous line of “we can all sing” because maybe it felt like all about Ariana….
She probably didn’t mean it in a mean way but like Jeanette said about the jealously thing maybe there’s a bit of jealously behind what Victoria said… idk it’s just a theory
@@arimalfoy8807 yeah but she obviously had a better everything that Jennette
So I can see how the show giving ari special privileges upset her
I mean wouldn't you be upset if anything close to that happend to you all
We gotta see it from both sides here
And not just let someone off the hook just because
She was overbooked and it was beyond her control
I'm glad some of the comments here demonstrate an understanding between jealousy and anger over unfair (or preferential) treatment. I don't think jealous is the right word to describe what Jeannette felt towards Arianna. Maybe she was a little green with envy over Ari's success but it sounds like Ari was given preferential treatment, whereas Jeannette was not afforded the same opportunities. If someone or something blocks your chances to succeed, I'd be angry too and I'd probably look at my colleague and wonder why they get to succeed. Sometimes we forget that not everyone in the same role or industry gets the same treatment or opportunities. Hollywood is full of favoritism. It's not an equal opportunity employer. It's all about connections and who they like.
It’s about contracts actually. This was as much about their individual business managers and what they negotiated as it was the network. She said she was jealous and you calling it “green with envy” is literally the same thing…
I'm happy and I'm glad for her and I hope that this book does everything that she wanted.
Would love to see her act again! Always loved her acting!
I love to imagine charades at Tom Hank's place. "Two words, open, close... It's a GATE! Okay second word is gate! First word, circle, pie, cheese.. PIZZA!"
What courage and strength! Truly wish her all the success❤️❤️
People r making it seem like Ariana was never there at work when she’s there for all of the episodes except that 1 episode were she recorded her lines & her 1 scene. The rest of the time she was there. At the most I’m thinking she missed rehearsals & maybe a few table reads. It takes a week to do 1 episode Monday table read,Tuesday & Wednesday rehearsal. Thursday & Friday tape the episode. So when Jeannette is saying that she frequently missed work I hope that she’s very specific about how much Ariana missed work & what exactly she missed in her book so people don’t just take that statement & run with it.
Have you ever heard of the straw that broke the camel's back? Well, I think that may have been this instance for Jeanette. I love Ariana grande but her stans really make the most grandiose assumptions and accusations to defend her.
Got it yesterday and am halfway through it! It's amazing
I have respect for those that are honest with self awareness. Sharing such human and sensitive moments are what connects people.
I get how that can be anger inducing 100%. I’d be pissed if I was forced to act with a box too. That’s just .-.
I'm so glad she's developed some closure to possibly get back into acting. The seflsih part of me is really hoping she can possibly make an episode return or small cam in the iCarly reboot, now that Miranda is an executive producer and Creepy Dan Scheider is out of the picture hopefully she would feel comfortable enough to make a small appearance to appease the fans. I would love to see a project she would direct. I actually hope she gets a biopic about her experiences in her child and adolescence. Her book already has a lot of buzz.
I’m so glad she could finally open up!! I didn’t know about this!
I love how she is so open about jealousy and envy, I was such an envious person in my teenage years and everytime I opened up about it everyone judge me, at least for me I didn't want them to be miserable or something i was just jealous that they had so many friends and they were so happy unlike me
True honesty is hard to find with celebs these days.
Cant wait to read this
wow she is incredibly strong. i love and adore her and just honestly want nothing but the best for her ❤️❤️❤️
Wow. She gives me chills. Just absolutely amazing her story.
I would love to see Jeannette in a Fleabag style show. I think she would nail a role like that, and perhaps the character could possess some similarities to her in real life (in regards to going to therapy and recovering from a traumatic and abusive childhood). I think that could be very healing for her
I see great things coming for this woman and I'm here for it. She deserves much better. Being proud of someone you don't and will never know is a weird feeling.
Can never have anything but total respect for honesty. ALL the very best to her- she's been through so much ♡
Can’t wait to get the book!
As an Arianator, I don't have any hard feelings towards Jennette. Her feelings make so much sense and are valid. I really appreciate her honesty. I can definitely relate to comparing yourself to other people, it's not a nice feeling. I think some people don't get that it's not Ariana's fault but Nick's. Jennette seems much happier and overall in a better place. As much as I miss Ariana and Jennette hanging out and doing funny Livestreams together, sometimes leaving some friendships behind are for the best. 💖
I am happy to see how people are receiving Jennette's claims of being jealous of Ariana. I think a reason so is because this "preferential" treatment is unfortunately even in the most basic non-Hollywood jobs! It's almost expected in the entertainment industry, but the fact that it is literally everywhere among employment speaks volumes of how people act and behave, you would think that these things on a non-Hollywood scale would be dealt with more fairness and they are usually not.
i respect her so much 🤍 , she’s healed as a person and the fact she had to go through all of that during set she is such a strong person . lots of love for you Jennette 🤍
It’s so interesting seeing her come out with everything that she saying because honestly when I watched that show, just the human in me was like I wonder how jennette the person really feels about acting alongside someone who is clearly on a fast trajectory to superstardom. and i myself am a huge fan of ari so as excited as i was about seeing her take off , the other part of me that was also a fan of jennettes from iCarly…. i just wondered. i’m proud of her for being so transparent. its one thing to be forthcoming about your abuse but to admit to how she felt while working with ari… i also feel takes courage. most people can’t admit when they’re jealous. what’s sad is her jealousy really was because she was suffering… glad jennette seems to be doing much better❤️
It’s really brave to be able to admit in public that you were jealous of someone. Kudos to her
I miss her acting and smartassy-ness! I hope she goes back to it again. 🤞🏼
The honesty of this book is everything and I’m glad she touch those topics and how she felt about it
awwww i love her so much and i hope she maes all her dreams come true and hey maybe if acting is open we will get a sam and carly episode
Guess they all took the hush money, because everyone has been silent and they or he is still free to abuse. It's not their job to bring him to justice, it's just sad that they had to go through that and so many others
It’s fine that she was jealous but let’s not normalize being toxic out of jealousy. I remember back in the day she made a parody video rudely making fun of Ariana. She went out of her way to draw attention that she didn’t like her. I totally get that she feels robbed but Ariana wasn’t to blame it was her people and Nickelodeon. And her wording makes it seem as though she’s at the same level talent wise and kind of takes away from all the hard work Ari has done to build and continue a long successful career. I feel terrible for what she went through I just don’t like that she keeps comparing their careers because they had one season of a show together.
So glad she brought this up. So important to note ❤️weve all gone through that jealously with someone as a kid growing up. So many nasty rumors out there about the girls when really the explanation is simple
She is so honest and seems so aware and real, I'm so happy for her and I hope she keeps feeling good and happy, she deserves it!
But still, imagine talking to a box lmaoooo they did her dirty
well yea she’s admitting.. but dang how could she be jealous, why? weren’t they kinda close… it’s not like Ariana was sabotaging her… she was just very lucky to pursue her dream… damn why do people feel envy???
@천사 except she was getting paid millions on the show.
I'm so glad she came forward to tell her story..... it was so inspiring❤ I'm finally no-contact with my Narcissistic mother as well🥰
I hope she lives a long and fulfilling life. Always thought she was a very good young actress. Very versatile. Very attractive....go girl! You can do it! Good job!
I’m not trying to be judgemental but just worried I hope Jeanette is okay the vibe I got is that she isn’t okay mentally, emotionally and physically…. I hope she doesn’t fall to drugs or consumes a lot of alcohol…
To me her appearance has changed and so I just hope she’s okay!!!
She’s definitely mentally unstable
@@springsbliss4094 Yeah maybe you are right but I really hope she is okay
Jennette, I hope you get to play charades with Tom Hanks someday
Nothing but pure respect and admiration for this queen
Went through the same thing with my mom, it’s a relief to hear I wasn’t alone
i'm sure ariana will understand. i'd be jealous too
Pretty weird that Tom Hanks was playing charades with a kid but whatever
It only adds fuel to those conspiracies about him
How do you know his wife and kids weren’t there? 🙄🙄🙄
Ariana was 20 or 21 when that happened she wasn't a kid
@@briv2403 except ariana wasn't a kid when she went to his house she was 20
Maybe they were neighbours back then or something or worked on a project together who knows
Wow…. She musta seems so authentic and mature, like the way she speaks sounds like she has grown from all her obstacles. Love this for her 💕 and wish that for me in the future as well
I could just tell as the show went on The tone of her voice she was tired of a lot of things and fed up but she definitely made the show better❤️
I hope people start to help Jeanette see that it was not really jealousy what she felt. She was being forced to work while seeing a co worker given a lot of slack. I would be furious too. I would be so hurt and confused. Jeanette deserved and deserves so much more. I love her and respect her more and more.
It's only understandable that she felt the way she did. She was suffering, and she saw her co-star basically get better treatment and success than her. She must have felt really isolated and left behind, and didn't want to keep exposing herself to the person who was unintentionally triggering that pain.
she’s so precious 🥺💗
Jennette was great on screen and still a role model off screen. Bless her ❤️❤️