that was awesome that you two decided to meet up to spend the last few days as friends…like I know it must of felt strange over the course of 24 hours with breaking up, but saying that I’m happy that you two didn’t spend the last few days there alone and that you spent it together. Keep your head up bro
every 28 years (and up) old guy watching this, is rooting for you. we know the feeling. we had it multiple times and boy oh boy i can guarantee you everything will become better from now on. it will take a long or even longer time but it will become legendary! staying friends is a dumb idea. every guy saying its good, is 100% very young and naive. but if its what feels right to you. do the mistake. kopf hoch junge zieh durch. wandern ist gut. bleib in sapporo so lange es die arbeit erlaubt. du wirst bald die freiheit ohne frau geniessen. ich empfehle ausserdem 3 - 5 videos pro woche. du kannst jetzt pushen, denn du hast den content und die zeit und erst recht die energie als junger mann. bis bald! - grüsse aus der schweiz
27 and it's true. The best part is it usually only hurts the worst in the first relationship. You'll be able to bounce back quicker in each subsequent new relationships
I lost my girlfriend too. Here's my story. Been traveling around asia for 3 years. We met online and kept chatting. We finally met in Bangkok for our first time after 4 months of chatting. Everything was perfect, i asked her to be my gf and we went to Japan together to meet her family, friends and travel a bit. Unfortunately she had to go back to Australia to finish her English school. Since Australia is so expensive and i didn't find a cheap place to stay, i went to the Philippines and planned to meet in Australia after 3 months to travel a bit and settle in Japan after. We also had constant fights, mostly about work and future. I couldn't be the strong and emotional cool guy. I'm western, we talk about things and show emotions. Japanese learn from childhood to not do that. I think that's the point which makes jt difficult to be in a relationship with Japanese. After that i met other Japanese girls, but it's always the same. They seem like emotionally cold robots. It really hurts, coz she was my dream woman and actually everything was perfect. After we broke up i went home to my family to heal and thinking about next steps in life. That really helped me. The show must go on. Now I'm back in Bangkok. Learning Thai. And just got a Thai gf. But i still miss the life in Japan... Let's see where the wind takes me. I wish you all the best bro 🙏
Hey man, i watch most of your vids, don't comment much, since we're both german i gonna write this one in german since i'm still struggling with english a fair bit. Ich kenne das gefühl gut, meine freundin hat mich vor zwei wochen blockiert, will mit mir nichtsmehr mit mir zu tun haben, viele streitereien gehabt, etc. aber hey.. ich denke das ganze gibt mir aktuell die möglichkeit mich mehr mit mir selbst zu befassen, und ich denke du hast nen guten gedankengang. Fokussier dich auf dich selbst, du hast nen super channel, ich feier deine vlogs einfach mega. Vielleicht n bisschen aus dem kontext gerissen, aber wenn's mir scheiße geht les ich mir immerwieder mal die Dokkōdō von Miyamoto Musashi durch, irgendwie lassen mich diese das leben aus nem simpleren blickwinkel betrachten, manchmal versteift man sich zu sehr in einer situation. Vielleicht hilft das etwas. Ich hoffe dass ich nächstes Jahr nach Japan kann, falls man sich mal sieht geb ich dir was aus haha.
Hi Eddy, I usually never leave comments but I just want to let you know that everything's going to be alright. I can feel how hurt you are but keep your head up, in the future looking back you'll see how this tough period was a growth point for you. Living in a foreign country is tough but you now have a supportive community that you've built from zero, never forget that! Love from Siberia ❤
He loved that girl. I can feel his pain. When my girlfriend dumped me last year, I couldn't eat and sleep for many months. I cry every night. He's lucky to experience love. That's why he's heart is broken.
I know it might not feel like it right now but trust me, things will get better again. The sadness and the loneliness will release it's hold on you, so will the feeling of missing her. Trust me, this is a topic I know all too well... Just hang in there, bro. That's all you gotta do to "get out on the other side" of this. And keep talking to the camera if it helps, you know that we are all listening to you. Take care of yourself /Robert, Sweden
Keep your head up brother, the content is quality and so if life when you lead it yourself. Time heals everything, its a cliche but its true and there is nothing better for you to be doing right now than travelling and experiencing the world. Do what I did a couple years ago, I told myself I would see some new places and say yes to everything I could (within reason) and it was totally worth it. Just say yes, and find yourself doing things you never normally would ^^ thanks for the videos brother.
I really appreciate you, bro. Please know that you've been great company these past few months while I’ve been dealing with anxiety and stress from adult responsibilities. I hope you find yourself on your Japan adventures and that you grow from everything you experience there. Hope one day I can meet you and offer you a nice curry meal. Much love
RiceMan You are an amazing young man we all love you a great deal never forget this. We are all huge fans and so very very proud of you as we root for your success. So please understand that these 16,000 people are your family!
It's just a cope women say anyway so they can still use the men for help in case they need it. It's rarely meant genuienly. I wouldn't advice men to stay friends with women after a breakup.
Well, there actually ARE people who can stay friends after a breakup. Not all break ups happen because someone cheated or did something bad to the other. And if they cared enough about each other they can remain friends. I am friends with one of my first boyfriends still - heck, I am even friends with his wife XD most of the people who broke up with me/I have broken up with are still in my life and we remained friends. Of course it takes time to heal, because break ups hurt. But there are people out there who are honest and can talk about their emotions and stuff like that. I care depely about the people who I was with and it’s mutual. Just because a relationship ends, doesn’t mean you have to hate each other or that you just want to use them. Of course it’s different for everybody, but I think more people should learn how to reflect on themselves and their actions and then talk about it.
Hey man, I recently discovered your content and I'm sorry to hear you're going through this. You always seem so happy in your videos and I hope things get better for you.
I will still watch your video with or without your girlfriend. Love the content and you seem like a chill guy to know. Thanks for the effort in your videos I know how bad breakups can be they are rough. Heart break hurts and takes time to heal but im glad you guys spent some time as friends to patch up your arguments and stuff. Good luck with the next few days and remember...Its better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.
Mt Moiwa was one of my top 3 views in all of Japan, I stayed up there for hours watched the full sunset and then the far stretching lights of Sapporo at night. Sorry about your girlfriend mate, keep pushing through, youre a nice real guy you'll find your one.
Man if I was around I would happily join on such a trip, sounds amazing, I hope you can enjoy it despite these recent events in your life. It is a beautiful place and definitely worth driving around since you still have this car : )
I saw vlogs of a guy from Europe who was also on a working holiday in Japan. He really wanted to find a girlfriend. He went on dates, but after a few, the girls were no longer interested. A temporary visa, low income, it’s hard to maintain a relationship when you have no cards in your hand.
100% this mate . I thought this too … not bringing enough for her . I had a Japanese girl i thought was the one in 96 but she upped and dumped me and at the time i was in the same boat as this guy .. ie strugglin a bit . Got my act together slowly and met another girl who im still married to.
what a weird mindset, besides ur first point which is true but just bc he seems like a good guy through youtube doesnt mean he applies it in real life. Not saying hes a bad guy but just bc you watch someone doesnnt mean u know them truly.
@@OkiesIsJekeu wow u know google exists, right lmao? "i'm sure" means to be confident, having no doubt, or very certain about something so yes it is implied he 100% believes in hes a good person like he knows him.
@@ratatouilletea Sure you don't know anyone entirely. No one does...not even in real life can you know someone entirely. You use your ability to make a judgement and assess people best we can. But of course you never have the full picture, you never will. I also like my first point, and my second point also😄. That's why I watch the channel, because I like his style. I like what he's doing, I like his vibe. Reminds me of what I was doing a few years ago. Traveling, working, living life in the moment. Not a lot of money but full of new experiences, out of my comfort zone in a new place. If I didn't think he was a good guy, I probably wouldn't watch the channel. You can read into my comment however you like. The overall point was to give him encouragement and reassurance, like a hand on the shoulder. I see someone hurting, and just as a human being, I want to support. That is an aspect of love! Not sure how much more I can explain my comment. It seemed pretty straight forward to me. Sure you can't know anyone completely but you take your best intuition about them, and then you interact. I tend to feel that every human being core drives are the same. All people want to love and be loved. All people are essentially good inside, despite all people having a limited frame of reference and making mistakes here and there. Like a breakup for example-I know what can really hurt in the moment, latter in can be seen as a gift. A bad break up can really hurt when it happens, then we look back and remember the loving parts, and take the good memories and leave what we don't need. So yes, my specific view is that all people are essentially good. It's a very Christian viewpoint. As in all people are children of God, innocent etc. Trying to spread some love, and sure I don't know people but I'm going to spread the love anyway, it's my belief in what life is. And that what I was trying to tell him. "It's all good, keep your head up, and your heart open". Keep your heart open bros and brolinas.
@@ratatouilletea Of coarse we don't know for certain he's a good guy. But there are many qualities he has that I see as good. He works hard, has nice things to say, respects the culture etc. I can only guess but I try and take your perspective. And I wonder why my comment might bother you. I think with my best guess that you make feel the girl is "underrepresented". You have a female picture so I guess you are a female. So I am thinking that you feel for the girl. Maybe you think , he might have been bad to her. By best guess is you felt for the girl and my comment irritated you because you don't want me assuming "guys are automatically good". Which I understand! However I was giving bro, the benefit of the doubt. I was thinking they were both good .... I'm for giving them the benefit of the doubt. We can even forgo doubt all together. Hope that they both get lambos, each gifted a million dollar house in central Tokyo, from a long lost uncle in the Yakuza who is now on his death bed. But each have a different long lost uncle in the Yakuza, not the same uncle. Because that would make them related, which would be a bad day to find out. And even though he is German, he somehow also has a Yakuza uncle, maybe the only German Yakuza guy. It's very coincidental, synchronistic, and manifesty. Then both of them in there lambos, and there million dollar Tokyo houses, one day are bored. Maybe mid week, on weds. They both have so much money, they both decide to go get boba. Taro boba be to be specific. They drive there lambos to get boba, and they bump into each other. It's evening time and all the lights of Tokyo are sparkling around them. "Wow you got a house and a Lambo too!!!" They both say. What a coincidence. They both get there bobas, and talk about there memories and laugh. Feeling all the love and just happy the other one is happy. There in such a good mood, that they take there boba to the arcade next door. And they both play dance dance revolution. With all the lights twinkling around them of the arcade. It's like a Japanese fever dream. They then go home together and have an incredible night. Better than any other night😉. In the morning full of energy, they drive there lambos past a field cherry blossoms. Lost in it all. This could happen, maybe...I mean it could potentially happen. If if 1 percent chance. Even if we change the Toyotas out for the lambos, and the house in Tokyo for a humble rooms. We can still keep the boba and cherry blossoms. I have to believe love is real, and watch more anime ok? OK???? 😁
We got you brother. Eat more vegetables. About traveling in the United States, I suggest Washington, Oregon, Vermont, and New York. But beware of crime. Visit good safe areas. We love you Erica.
I'm glad you two were able to meet up again and at least spend the last few moments enjoying Hokkaido together. You're a cool dude and there's still a lot ahead for you after this whole trip! Keep it up man and there are always greater moments ahead. You got this!
Hey man, support...Im going to go study in Japan in April 2025 (kobe)...stay off the alcohol...drink water and sleep when you can. hit the gym! Not easy, ive been there and im now 36yo. Its worse at my age, but there are new opportunities, its infinite
Ich hoffe das du schnell über Erica hinweg kommst habe deinen Kanal erst vor paar Tagen entdeckt und habe noch nicht alle Videos durch mach weiter so best great from GodOldGermany my friend
Sorry to hear that. I heard it on the tour bus. Japanese girls are looking for men to get married with stable income and within a certain time limit. They aren’t going to invest time if it’s not going anywhere.
I’m, not going to lie, I thought Erika, was not your average Japanese girl, willing accept a gaijin with tattoos and not worry about being seen in public together. I’m glad to see that you guys retain a level of friendship. I often hear, that Japanese women who have foreign partners, sometimes resent their partner not really fitting in with the rest of Japanese society. Japan definitely has a conformist culture. I’m glad you’re able to talk about things. When times are down, a positive outlet is helpful.
I see that you took all the videos with your ex girlfriend down from youtube. I am guessing that being on camera wasn't her thing. I know of UA-camrs that never show their face. and I know of vloggers that never show their girlfriend/boyfriend or husband or wife. Not everyone wants to be on camera all day. You don't see Pewdipies wife anymore, she has not been in a video for awhile. She actually edits his vlog videos and keeps herself out of them.
Unless u know the culture of relationships in Japan ur bound to fail miserably. Many rules and expectations to follow, just like the confusing culture. The worst one is having to “read the atmosphere” lol. I would never even attempt it knowing what I know😂
Fighting is normal in a relationship. The Japanese culture is different. Its hard for them to show emotion. There is shame involved. I hope you can both talk! My best friend is Japanese and her culture stopped us from communicating at times. Power on❤
Comments like these are probably the essence of the issue at hand here (judging from the videos I have seen). It always assumes the other person's culture and way of thinking is the "right" one and the Japanese one is the outlier. If there there is no moving towards each other and finding real compromises, it will never work out. You can also say it is respecting the other's upbringing and cultural background and accept there are even additional hurdles involved when engaging in a multi-cultural relationship. Source: married to a Japanese
This comment reveals your personality. You subconsciously believe that you’re always right and others are wrong, and that there’s something wrong with other cultures. The real obstacle might be your biased thinking and the fact that blaming others might be the real cause of the obstacle
@@ratatouilletea Eddy's life is none of our business, but he chooses to share parts of it with us. It's unfortunate if he chooses to not share the cause of the breakup, even at a superficial level.
Verily, there should be no place for a woman in the heart of a man; for without the presence of a woman, there shall be no sword pierceth the heart. Yea, as the heart remaineth steadfast and unyielding, so too shall it be free from the blade of sorrow.
Mt Moiwa / Moiwayama, it's very easy to get to from the city if you're visiting. I did the hike up when it was a bit colder and lightly snowy. The ropeway was broken down, so we had to walk down in the dark. Poor planning, but a fun memory.
Hi Eddy, ich weiß nicht genau was vorgefallen ist, da du nicht über private Probleme reden willst oder Drama erzeugen Erika schlecht darstellen möchtest.Hier einige Anmerkungen zu deiner Situation. Ich war ehrlich gesagt etwas neidisch nachdem ich die ersten Videos von Erika und dir in Japan gesehen habe aber es kam mir von Anfang an etwas komisch vor, dass die Chemie zwischen euch nicht wirklich rüber kam und damit meine ich dieses vermeintliche knistern in der Luft wenn Verliebte zusammen aind. Das einzige Video wo ich dieses Gefühl hatte, war wo ihr in diesem Onsen, Bad wart. Nun zu Gründen eurer Trennung können wir als Zuschauer nur spekulieren, aber eines ist klar, dasa die Sprachbarriere dort eine große rolle spielt und das Missverständnis Sachen anders aufzufassen, als sie gemeint sind. Du bist mega jung und dir stehen alle Türen offen, du solltest dich nicht so auf eine Frau fixieren ich schrieb dir mal zu Anfang du wirkst, als hättest du das OneItis Syndrom l😝 sich in eine Frau so zu vergucken, dass man alles für diese tun will und die negativen Seiten auszublenden. Dies birgt viele Gefahren. Zum einen brauchen eigentlich alle Frauen einen Mann der auch mal nein sagen kann. Mädel so geht das nicht, nicht mit mir. Wenn sie das Gefühl haben sie können alles mit dir machen dann steigt das Risiko um 90 Prozent das sie dir Fremdgehen weil sie einen richtigen Mann suchen. Du bist jetzt nicht der reiche Typ der mit Status die Frauen erobern kann oder mit alter wissen und Weisheit. Was ist deine Masche der Humor das Geschichten erzählen? Jeder Mann hat ein Ding was bei Frauen einschlägt und dazu führt das sie Interesse an einem haben. Dein Vorteil in Japan bist du der Exot. Auch sind Deutsche dort sehr beliebt. Versuch doch auf Veranstaltungen zu gehen, wo sich Japaner treffen hingehen die gut Englisch sprechen, internationale Treffen wo,l kultureller Austausch stattfindet, sobald du Kontakte knüpfst und mehr Optionen hast kommt Erika auch wieder angedackelt. Frauen lieben nichts mehr als sozialen Status. Der steht sogar über materiellem. Darum Eddie weniger Emo mehr Mann. Die ganzen Feministinnen wollen einem heutzutage erzählen wie cool es ist Gefühle zu zeigen bla und blubb aber in der Realität funktioniert dieser Quatsch nicht. Du wirkst needy und unnmännlich dadurch und erreichst genau das Gegenteil von dem was du erreichen willst. Good Luck.
Da hat wohl jemand zu vielen Dating-Coaches zugehört und sich die Scheiße angenommen ... Bro nicht alle Frauen sind gleich, sage ich dir als jemand der selbst in einer Beziehung ist
Du magst in einer Beziehung sein aber hast du dich jemand über Yin und Yang, männliche und weibliche Energien informiert? Selbst wenn du nicht an diese Symbiose glaubst ist sie da, siehe die 7 hermetischen Gesetze die schon seit der Antike bestehen. Du bist in einer Beziehung aber das war's auch schon. Gut jetzt analysiere ich mal deine Antwort du bist also der Meinung das alles gleichberechtigt funktioniert, dass es keine Rollen gibt willst jeden Quatsch ausdiskutieren und bist ein ziemlich anstrengender Mensch der es verlernt hat zu genießen. Siehst du so kommt mir deine Antwort rüber einfach nur gedankenlos irgendwelche indoktrinierte Sachen aus dem Feminismus rezidieren. Kann ich genauso sagen. Aber auch dir good luck. Du wirst es brauchen 😂.
Using "japanese girl" as a clickbait title won't take you far in a relationship here in Japan. You expose her to social media and fetishization all the time, just about time she starts questioning herself if you are just using her for content/advantages.
Hey bro ich mag deine videos und ich wollte dir mit diesen Kommentar viel liebe schicken halt den kopf immer schön oben und komm über das alles hinweg ❤❤❤ grüße aus germany
Move on. You are a free spirit.
I think being in nature was the best thing you could have done.
Thank you for your channel and testimony man.
that was awesome that you two decided to meet up to spend the last few days as friends…like I know it must of felt strange over the course of 24 hours with breaking up, but saying that I’m happy that you two didn’t spend the last few days there alone and that you spent it together. Keep your head up bro
It feels like she's trying to create some fake drama in a desperate attempt to boost his channel's views.
@@vand7750 that's reaching, my guy.
@@vand7750 does she have a chanel?
I was wondering the same with both of them.
@@JPORIGINALJP typo. His*
every 28 years (and up) old guy watching this, is rooting for you. we know the feeling. we had it multiple times and boy oh boy i can guarantee you everything will become better from now on. it will take a long or even longer time but it will become legendary! staying friends is a dumb idea. every guy saying its good, is 100% very young and naive. but if its what feels right to you. do the mistake.
kopf hoch junge zieh durch. wandern ist gut. bleib in sapporo so lange es die arbeit erlaubt. du wirst bald die freiheit ohne frau geniessen. ich empfehle ausserdem 3 - 5 videos pro woche. du kannst jetzt pushen, denn du hast den content und die zeit und erst recht die energie als junger mann. bis bald!
- grüsse aus der schweiz
27 and it's true. The best part is it usually only hurts the worst in the first relationship. You'll be able to bounce back quicker in each subsequent new relationships
Good luck to erica , good luck to you. On to 100k subs bro let's go!
You are a fucking champ homie, actually crazy amounts of courage.
Awesome vids, I've been chilling with you for a bit
I lost my girlfriend too. Here's my story.
Been traveling around asia for 3 years. We met online and kept chatting. We finally met in Bangkok for our first time after 4 months of chatting. Everything was perfect, i asked her to be my gf and we went to Japan together to meet her family, friends and travel a bit. Unfortunately she had to go back to Australia to finish her English school. Since Australia is so expensive and i didn't find a cheap place to stay, i went to the Philippines and planned to meet in Australia after 3 months to travel a bit and settle in Japan after. We also had constant fights, mostly about work and future. I couldn't be the strong and emotional cool guy. I'm western, we talk about things and show emotions. Japanese learn from childhood to not do that. I think that's the point which makes jt difficult to be in a relationship with Japanese. After that i met other Japanese girls, but it's always the same. They seem like emotionally cold robots.
It really hurts, coz she was my dream woman and actually everything was perfect. After we broke up i went home to my family to heal and thinking about next steps in life. That really helped me. The show must go on.
Now I'm back in Bangkok. Learning Thai. And just got a Thai gf. But i still miss the life in Japan... Let's see where the wind takes me.
I wish you all the best bro 🙏
Hey man, i watch most of your vids, don't comment much, since we're both german i gonna write this one in german since i'm still struggling with english a fair bit.
Ich kenne das gefühl gut, meine freundin hat mich vor zwei wochen blockiert, will mit mir nichtsmehr mit mir zu tun haben, viele streitereien gehabt, etc. aber hey.. ich denke das ganze gibt mir aktuell die möglichkeit mich mehr mit mir selbst zu befassen, und ich denke du hast nen guten gedankengang. Fokussier dich auf dich selbst, du hast nen super channel, ich feier deine vlogs einfach mega.
Vielleicht n bisschen aus dem kontext gerissen, aber wenn's mir scheiße geht les ich mir immerwieder mal die Dokkōdō von Miyamoto Musashi durch, irgendwie lassen mich diese das leben aus nem simpleren blickwinkel betrachten, manchmal versteift man sich zu sehr in einer situation. Vielleicht hilft das etwas.
Ich hoffe dass ich nächstes Jahr nach Japan kann, falls man sich mal sieht geb ich dir was aus haha.
Keep your head up brother ! It's life, take a deep breath & keep going, much love & support from France 🙏🏼
Hi Eddy, I usually never leave comments but I just want to let you know that everything's going to be alright. I can feel how hurt you are but keep your head up, in the future looking back you'll see how this tough period was a growth point for you. Living in a foreign country is tough but you now have a supportive community that you've built from zero, never forget that! Love from Siberia ❤
He loved that girl. I can feel his pain. When my girlfriend dumped me last year, I couldn't eat and sleep for many months. I cry every night. He's lucky to experience love. That's why he's heart is broken.
I know it might not feel like it right now but trust me, things will get better again. The sadness and the loneliness will release it's hold on you, so will the feeling of missing her. Trust me, this is a topic I know all too well... Just hang in there, bro. That's all you gotta do to "get out on the other side" of this. And keep talking to the camera if it helps, you know that we are all listening to you.
Take care of yourself
/Robert, Sweden
Keep your head up brother, the content is quality and so if life when you lead it yourself. Time heals everything, its a cliche but its true and there is nothing better for you to be doing right now than travelling and experiencing the world. Do what I did a couple years ago, I told myself I would see some new places and say yes to everything I could (within reason) and it was totally worth it. Just say yes, and find yourself doing things you never normally would ^^ thanks for the videos brother.
I really appreciate you, bro.
Please know that you've been great company these past few months while I’ve been dealing with anxiety and stress from adult responsibilities.
I hope you find yourself on your Japan adventures and that you grow from everything you experience there.
Hope one day I can meet you and offer you a nice curry meal.
Much love
Enjoying nature is good for your spirit. Stay positive!
Im glad you're ok sweetie 🥰
RiceMan You are an amazing young man we all love you a great deal never forget this. We are all huge fans and so very very proud of you as we root for your success. So please understand that these 16,000 people are your family!
One thing I've never understood is how a couple can break up then say, "let's be friends".
They don’t really mean it. They just parrot what they’ve heard.
Well some people split in a nice and calm manner. Not every relationship ends with an argument or a fight. ✌️
@@Kais4sight I never said in what manner the relationship ended, just that it ended.
It's just a cope women say anyway so they can still use the men for help in case they need it. It's rarely meant genuienly. I wouldn't advice men to stay friends with women after a breakup.
Well, there actually ARE people who can stay friends after a breakup. Not all break ups happen because someone cheated or did something bad to the other. And if they cared enough about each other they can remain friends. I am friends with one of my first boyfriends still - heck, I am even friends with his wife XD most of the people who broke up with me/I have broken up with are still in my life and we remained friends. Of course it takes time to heal, because break ups hurt. But there are people out there who are honest and can talk about their emotions and stuff like that.
I care depely about the people who I was with and it’s mutual. Just because a relationship ends, doesn’t mean you have to hate each other or that you just want to use them. Of course it’s different for everybody, but I think more people should learn how to reflect on themselves and their actions and then talk about it.
Hey man, I recently discovered your content and I'm sorry to hear you're going through this. You always seem so happy in your videos and I hope things get better for you.
I will still watch your video with or without your girlfriend.
Love the content and you seem like a chill guy to know.
Thanks for the effort in your videos
I know how bad breakups can be they are rough.
Heart break hurts and takes time to heal but im glad you guys spent some time as friends to patch up your arguments and stuff.
Good luck with the next few days and remember...Its better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.
Keep your head up and keep going, it only gets better if you dont dwell in the low feeling fro to long!.
Mt Moiwa was one of my top 3 views in all of Japan, I stayed up there for hours watched the full sunset and then the far stretching lights of Sapporo at night. Sorry about your girlfriend mate, keep pushing through, youre a nice real guy you'll find your one.
The foggy trail with the crows was amazing, it gave me demon slayer vibes
Man if I was around I would happily join on such a trip, sounds amazing, I hope you can enjoy it despite these recent events in your life. It is a beautiful place and definitely worth driving around since you still have this car : )
It’s her loss! Keep your head up high my Man!
Breakups suck. I'm sorry to hear about yours. I can't offer much help... so I've given you a view and a like instead 😅👍
Cool down a few days and get her back. She is a keeper.
Hello Eddy, nice video, I enjoyed your trip. Nature is amazing there. Keep making content like this 🖤
I saw vlogs of a guy from Europe who was also on a working holiday in Japan. He really wanted to find a girlfriend. He went on dates, but after a few, the girls were no longer interested. A temporary visa, low income, it’s hard to maintain a relationship when you have no cards in your hand.
100% this mate . I thought this too … not bringing enough for her . I had a Japanese girl i thought was the one in 96 but she upped and dumped me and at the time i was in the same boat as this guy .. ie strugglin a bit . Got my act together slowly and met another girl who im still married to.
You got this homie
I hope to one day visit the places you been to , Japan is on the bucket list
Also keep up the good work man you are stronger then you know💪
Strong n determined guy. Move on. Enjoy your holidays n keep posting your journey. ❤
I know that it hurts but you got to let her go. You have a bright future ahead of you.
Ypu never know what shes going through. Im sure you did no wrong, you seem like a good guy.
Keep that heart open brother.
what a weird mindset, besides ur first point which is true but just bc he seems like a good guy through youtube doesnt mean he applies it in real life. Not saying hes a bad guy but just bc you watch someone doesnnt mean u know them truly.
@@ratatouilletea What a stupid take on someone's loose opinion. They never stated he was 100% in fact a good person.
@@OkiesIsJekeu wow u know google exists, right lmao? "i'm sure" means to be confident, having no doubt, or very certain about something so yes it is implied he 100% believes in hes a good person like he knows him.
@@ratatouilletea Sure you don't know anyone entirely. No one does...not even in real life can you know someone entirely. You use your ability to make a judgement and assess people best we can.
But of course you never have the full picture, you never will.
I also like my first point, and my second point also😄.
That's why I watch the channel, because I like his style. I like what he's doing, I like his vibe.
Reminds me of what I was doing a few years ago. Traveling, working, living life in the moment. Not a lot of money but full of new experiences, out of my comfort zone in a new place.
If I didn't think he was a good guy, I probably wouldn't watch the channel.
You can read into my comment however you like. The overall point was to give him encouragement and reassurance, like a hand on the shoulder. I see someone hurting, and just as a human being, I want to support. That is an aspect of love!
Not sure how much more I can explain my comment. It seemed pretty straight forward to me.
Sure you can't know anyone completely but you take your best intuition about them, and then you interact.
I tend to feel that every human being core drives are the same.
All people want to love and be loved.
All people are essentially good inside, despite all people having a limited frame of reference and making mistakes here and there.
Like a breakup for example-I know what can really hurt in the moment, latter in can be seen as a gift. A bad break up can really hurt when it happens, then we look back and remember the loving parts, and take the good memories and leave what we don't need.
So yes, my specific view is that all people are essentially good. It's a very Christian viewpoint. As in all people are children of God, innocent etc.
Trying to spread some love, and sure I don't know people but I'm going to spread the love anyway, it's my belief in what life is.
And that what I was trying to tell him.
"It's all good, keep your head up, and your heart open".
Keep your heart open bros and brolinas.
@@ratatouilletea Of coarse we don't know for certain he's a good guy. But there are many qualities he has that I see as good. He works hard, has nice things to say, respects the culture etc.
I can only guess but I try and take your perspective. And I wonder why my comment might bother you.
I think with my best guess that you make feel the girl is "underrepresented". You have a female picture so I guess you are a female. So I am thinking that you feel for the girl. Maybe you think , he might have been bad to her.
By best guess is you felt for the girl and my comment irritated you because you don't want me assuming "guys are automatically good". Which I understand!
However I was giving bro, the benefit of the doubt. I was thinking they were both good ....
I'm for giving them the benefit of the doubt.
We can even forgo doubt all together. Hope that they both get lambos, each gifted a million dollar house in central Tokyo, from a long lost uncle in the Yakuza who is now on his death bed. But each have a different long lost uncle in the Yakuza, not the same uncle. Because that would make them related, which would be a bad day to find out.
And even though he is German, he somehow also has a Yakuza uncle, maybe the only German Yakuza guy.
It's very coincidental, synchronistic, and manifesty.
Then both of them in there lambos, and there million dollar Tokyo houses, one day are bored. Maybe mid week, on weds. They both have so much money, they both decide to go get boba. Taro boba be to be specific.
They drive there lambos to get boba, and they bump into each other.
It's evening time and all the lights of Tokyo are sparkling around them.
"Wow you got a house and a Lambo too!!!" They both say.
What a coincidence. They both get there bobas, and talk about there memories and laugh.
Feeling all the love and just happy the other one is happy.
There in such a good mood, that they take there boba to the arcade next door. And they both play dance dance revolution. With all the lights twinkling around them of the arcade.
It's like a Japanese fever dream.
They then go home together and have an incredible night. Better than any other night😉.
In the morning full of energy, they drive there lambos past a field cherry blossoms. Lost in it all.
This could happen, maybe...I mean it could potentially happen. If if 1 percent chance. Even if we change the Toyotas out for the lambos, and the house in Tokyo for a humble rooms. We can still keep the boba and cherry blossoms.
I have to believe love is real, and watch more anime ok? OK???? 😁
We got you brother. Eat more vegetables. About traveling in the United States, I suggest Washington, Oregon, Vermont, and New York. But beware of crime. Visit good safe areas.
We love you Erica.
I know that pain, bro. You'll get through it. It's hard, but you'll heal, and find a new love. Some day. Just keep looking up.
That's life. Move on. Continue doing what you love
😊😊😊 We're here for you!
Can’t wait to see what you do next! Love you bro, hope the breakup blues doesn’t last long.
Lieber eddy, wünsche dir alles gute. Du packst das!
You got this Eddy!
yo eddy ill be coming back to japan next month would love to take you out for a beer buddy, cheers from the USA
Watch for bears man. They seem to be active in Japan right now especially in Hokkaido. Carry a bell or some bear spray when hiking
I'm glad you two were able to meet up again and at least spend the last few moments enjoying Hokkaido together. You're a cool dude and there's still a lot ahead for you after this whole trip! Keep it up man and there are always greater moments ahead. You got this!
buddy stay strong
5:46 that shot is gorgeous.. Upside of a breakup is your motivation levels rise. Hope you're doing well brotha
You'll be right mate 😁👍
You’ll be right mate give it a bit of time then go and get another one. There’s plenty around over there you’re spoilt for choice.
Hey man, support...Im going to go study in Japan in April 2025 (kobe)...stay off the alcohol...drink water and sleep when you can. hit the gym! Not easy, ive been there and im now 36yo. Its worse at my age, but there are new opportunities, its infinite
Man im planning on moving to japan when im 36 as well. Hopefully you find a nice wife there:)
Keep ya head up ❤
Ich hoffe das du schnell über Erica hinweg kommst habe deinen Kanal erst vor paar Tagen entdeckt und habe noch nicht alle Videos durch mach weiter so best great from GodOldGermany my friend
im sorry dude, subscribed, share your stories
Sorry to hear that. I heard it on the tour bus. Japanese girls are looking for men to get married with stable income and within a certain time limit. They aren’t going to invest time if it’s not going anywhere.
I love you brother 🙏🏻
Don't get back together bro move on there are better girls out there you just can't see it right now.
always sun after rain, bud love the vids
all women are interested in material things, superficial things, i preffer to be alone and love myself
Couldn't do this in the old days when video games weren't around
Lies
@@crisdeugzman3711 Folks just used to drink instead of game
stay strong bro
Go for a run bro it will clear your mind 🤜🤛
I'm sad watching this... anyway are you going to continue the delivery video? :D
keep yourself safe bruder, leben geht weiter - viel liebe!
wtf even though it was hella foggy on the mountain, the view around those 4 portals was like a video game render. That looked so cool!
5:00 That footage doesnt even look real, holy shit thats the most beautiful thing ever, your camera is so amazing please do more pov asmr stuff
Great video man
I’m, not going to lie, I thought Erika, was not your average Japanese girl, willing accept a gaijin with tattoos and not worry about being seen in public together. I’m glad to see that you guys retain a level of friendship. I often hear, that Japanese women who have foreign partners, sometimes resent their partner not really fitting in with the rest of Japanese society. Japan definitely has a conformist culture. I’m glad you’re able to talk about things. When times are down, a positive outlet is helpful.
video must’ve been locked, says uploaded yesterday
I see that you took all the videos with your ex girlfriend down from youtube. I am guessing that being on camera wasn't her thing. I know of UA-camrs that never show their face. and I know of vloggers that never show their girlfriend/boyfriend or husband or wife. Not everyone wants to be on camera all day. You don't see Pewdipies wife anymore, she has not been in a video for awhile. She actually edits his vlog videos and keeps herself out of them.
love the 4:47 shot
As a viewer Im shocked sad and hurt at Erika's disappearance. I dont know what to say.
Next video: why we got back together
Wow! that was a very nice shot 4:58 - 5:10 😍😍
Are we in the hiking arc now?
Unless u know the culture of relationships in Japan ur bound to fail miserably. Many rules and expectations to follow, just like the confusing culture. The worst one is having to “read the atmosphere” lol. I would never even attempt it knowing what I know😂
Fighting is normal in a relationship. The Japanese culture is different. Its hard for them to show emotion. There is shame involved. I hope you can both talk! My best friend is Japanese and her culture stopped us from communicating at times. Power on❤
Comments like these are probably the essence of the issue at hand here (judging from the videos I have seen). It always assumes the other person's culture and way of thinking is the "right" one and the Japanese one is the outlier. If there there is no moving towards each other and finding real compromises, it will never work out. You can also say it is respecting the other's upbringing and cultural background and accept there are even additional hurdles involved when engaging in a multi-cultural relationship.
Source: married to a Japanese
This comment reveals your personality. You subconsciously believe that you’re always right and others are wrong, and that there’s something wrong with other cultures. The real obstacle might be your biased thinking and the fact that blaming others might be the real cause of the obstacle
Why did you break up?
Im in Gunma, i can go to hokkaido for the adventure
You got this! Ich denk an dich
Hello COURAGE Do Your Job
bro du findest schon eine neue, fokussiere dich erstmal auf die wichtigen Sachen im leben dass kommt schon automatisch
I ate a pancake this morning.
shakespearean wmaf tragedy
Will you explain a bit as to why you two broke up? You both seemed good together in the videos
thats none of ur business
I think its none of your business mate :) why you need that
@tommyg1993 Just curious as a viewer, and was only wondering if he would lol, I wasn't demanding it
@@ratatouilletea Eddy's life is none of our business, but he chooses to share parts of it with us. It's unfortunate if he chooses to not share the cause of the breakup, even at a superficial level.
The break up is for content only😂😂😂
Bought you some coffee hope it helps, you get a new bike, yet?
日本人女性と付き合うのは簡単ではない
what did you guys break it over?
seven eleven versus lawson
Hey.
At least; there's, breakfast.
will you leave japan?
Verily, there should be no place for a woman in the heart of a man; for without the presence of a woman, there shall be no sword pierceth the heart. Yea, as the heart remaineth steadfast and unyielding, so too shall it be free from the blade of sorrow.
what mountain was the hike at
Mt Moiwa / Moiwayama, it's very easy to get to from the city if you're visiting. I did the hike up when it was a bit colder and lightly snowy. The ropeway was broken down, so we had to walk down in the dark. Poor planning, but a fun memory.
@@benridesbikes6975 do you know where the waterfall/sunflower field is in the second half, trying to plan out a trip in 2026
are you learn they language?
Hi Eddy, ich weiß nicht genau was vorgefallen ist, da du nicht über private Probleme reden willst oder Drama erzeugen Erika schlecht darstellen möchtest.Hier einige Anmerkungen zu deiner Situation. Ich war ehrlich gesagt etwas neidisch nachdem ich die ersten Videos von Erika und dir in Japan gesehen habe aber es kam mir von Anfang an etwas komisch vor, dass die Chemie zwischen euch nicht wirklich rüber kam und damit meine ich dieses vermeintliche knistern in der Luft wenn Verliebte zusammen aind. Das einzige Video wo ich dieses Gefühl hatte, war wo ihr in diesem Onsen, Bad wart. Nun zu Gründen eurer Trennung können wir als Zuschauer nur spekulieren, aber eines ist klar, dasa die Sprachbarriere dort eine große rolle spielt und das Missverständnis Sachen anders aufzufassen, als sie gemeint sind. Du bist mega jung und dir stehen alle Türen offen, du solltest dich nicht so auf eine Frau fixieren ich schrieb dir mal zu Anfang du wirkst, als hättest du das OneItis Syndrom l😝 sich in eine Frau so zu vergucken, dass man alles für diese tun will und die negativen Seiten auszublenden. Dies birgt viele Gefahren. Zum einen brauchen eigentlich alle Frauen einen Mann der auch mal nein sagen kann. Mädel so geht das nicht, nicht mit mir. Wenn sie das Gefühl haben sie können alles mit dir machen dann steigt das Risiko um 90 Prozent das sie dir Fremdgehen weil sie einen richtigen Mann suchen. Du bist jetzt nicht der reiche Typ der mit Status die Frauen erobern kann oder mit alter wissen und Weisheit. Was ist deine Masche der Humor das Geschichten erzählen? Jeder Mann hat ein Ding was bei Frauen einschlägt und dazu führt das sie Interesse an einem haben. Dein Vorteil in Japan bist du der Exot. Auch sind Deutsche dort sehr beliebt. Versuch doch auf Veranstaltungen zu gehen, wo sich Japaner treffen hingehen die gut Englisch sprechen, internationale Treffen wo,l kultureller Austausch stattfindet, sobald du Kontakte knüpfst und mehr Optionen hast kommt Erika auch wieder angedackelt. Frauen lieben nichts mehr als sozialen Status. Der steht sogar über materiellem. Darum Eddie weniger Emo mehr Mann. Die ganzen Feministinnen wollen einem heutzutage erzählen wie cool es ist Gefühle zu zeigen bla und blubb aber in der Realität funktioniert dieser Quatsch nicht. Du wirkst needy und unnmännlich dadurch und erreichst genau das Gegenteil von dem was du erreichen willst. Good Luck.
What absolute garbage
Da hat wohl jemand zu vielen Dating-Coaches zugehört und sich die Scheiße angenommen ... Bro nicht alle Frauen sind gleich, sage ich dir als jemand der selbst in einer Beziehung ist
Du magst in einer Beziehung sein aber hast du dich jemand über Yin und Yang, männliche und weibliche Energien informiert? Selbst wenn du nicht an diese Symbiose glaubst ist sie da, siehe die 7 hermetischen Gesetze die schon seit der Antike bestehen. Du bist in einer Beziehung aber das war's auch schon. Gut jetzt analysiere ich mal deine Antwort du bist also der Meinung das alles gleichberechtigt funktioniert, dass es keine Rollen gibt willst jeden Quatsch ausdiskutieren und bist ein ziemlich anstrengender Mensch der es verlernt hat zu genießen. Siehst du so kommt mir deine Antwort rüber einfach nur gedankenlos irgendwelche indoktrinierte Sachen aus dem Feminismus rezidieren. Kann ich genauso sagen. Aber auch dir good luck. Du wirst es brauchen 😂.
keep your chin up champ.
ワーキングホリデービザだから在留資格はまだ残ってますよね？
せっかくだから(独学でいいので)日本語を少し勉強して、残りの時間を楽しむといいと思いますよ。
人生色々だから…
明日は明日の風が吹きます。
Using "japanese girl" as a clickbait title won't take you far in a relationship here in Japan.
You expose her to social media and fetishization all the time, just about time she starts questioning herself if you are just using her for content/advantages.
Right… him putting Japanese in the titles is weird. Could have just used girlfriend
wünshe dir alles gute bro
Let’s make Japan a better country!
Fk it bro don’t miss the chance to make some content tho
No.hay.cuaduro.para.pintár
Hey bro ich mag deine videos und ich wollte dir mit diesen Kommentar viel liebe schicken halt den kopf immer schön oben und komm über das alles hinweg ❤❤❤ grüße aus germany
Keep going we are here watching and we know your perseverance will pay off🫶🏼🍀🙏
Thank you for vid
🔥🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯😎👍