1st story - I am SOOOOO petty, I would've taken his phone to the reception, clicked my glass for a speech, and started reading the texts to all the guests! She is a much better person.
I know an elderly lady who, not long after getting married, caught her husband cheating. She left him, and moved back home with her parents. Her dad sat her down, as she was bawling her eyes out, and said “Go back home to your husband” She said “what did you say?” He proceeded to tell her that ALL men cheat. That her husband loved her, and spoils her, and she’d be a fool to leave him over something EVERY man does. Can you imagine?!?! I would’ve left the husband, and the dad! Load up mom and move far away! Let them be roommates or besties! Who cares!!!
EVERY MAN CHEATS????? Oh, hell no! Not in the least bit true. And frankly, don't ever believe this BS. Earn your own money, stand proud and demand better for yourself. My folks got married in the fifties and no, dad didn't cheat. Neither did his father. Demand better.
He is a spineless eunuch weasel. He didn't have the ballz to stand up to talk about it before the wedding? AND he was cheating? Yeah, annulment time. NTA.
an annulment or divorce may not be needed. if the marriage cert hasn't been recorded in the county clerk's office then it's not yet official. until the government has the paperwork, it hasn't happened yet.
My first husband cheated, and I was talking about it with my MIL. Her outrageous comment, “Honey, men cheat. But, at the end of the day, he comes home to you. He married you, My husband cheated. So what?” Uhhhhhhhhhhhhh. No. Divorce. See ya. I can see where his problem originated.
Yes, people do cheat, but it's less than 25% of men who do (and women). She is delusional and in denial on the reality of things. Although with such a casual response, I'd wonder if she also cheated on her husband.
I love that we can tell Charlotte’s moved from an apartment/condo to a standalone house (or at least a condo with thicker walls) cause she’s gone from trying to keep it down and getting calls from her neighbours mid-filming to screeching like a banshee and yelling “WE ALWAYS MOVE IN THE SHADOWS” 😂
@@pamelamarieherrera6548 yeah well people are not allowed to lead you on and betray you. And they are allowed to freaking leave. don't get into marriage if u don't want to be with someone. Grow the efff up
@@pamelamarieherrera6548yup they are, but then they shouldn’t propose, go ahead with the wedding or cheat. If you don’t want to be either someone, don’t have a wedding!!
Charlotte - I worked in the floristry business. You absolutely do *not* have to pay that much for flowers at a wedding. A key tip. Absolutely *do not* say the flowers are for a wedding event. As the florist will jack up the price around 400% upon hearing that (just like they do on roses around Valentines day) Instead, say they're for either a "practice event" or for some sort of "formal" or "reception for a birthday", etc. *Never* mentioned the words wedding or insinuate there is to be a wedding. You just need some flowers for a deb ball or formal dance, etc. Which will include some bouquets, boutineers (for the guys suits) and maybe some table arrangements, etc to decorate. You could even say it's a birthday or literally *any* other event. Hopefully this little tip will save you on $$. Also, ask for certain flowers and those flowers that are in season. As if not in season, they'll be even more $$ to obtain. Hope this tip works for you.
Someone close to me admitted about six weeks before the wedding that she didn't love the groom (she wasn't alone; nobody could stand him). But she had to go through with it because all the plans were made, the dress was bought, invitations were out, blah blah blah. The only thing she loved was being a bride and having A wedding day - ANY wedding day - because "that's what you're supposed to do." She looked miserable throughout the wedding and reception. And she has now been miserably married to a (literally) stupid, cheating, tantrum-throwing, Dunning Kruger-afflicted, overgrown toddler for over 30 years. She's constantly embarrassed by him. And their only child, who is autistic and as intellectually impaired as her father, has said out loud a few times that she's scared of him. But the miserable wife won't budge, because "She took vows" (usually stated with a superior sniff red face, and lip curl). Moral of the story: If you're not genuinely happy with the person you're about to marry, DON'T MARRY THAT PERSON!
No wonder there's so many miserable people in the world. There's so many stories like that. People often don't realize it's not just the couple that's gonna be miserable together, any children born from the union will be scarred forever somehow.
My sister was engaged when she found out she was pregnant…and found out he was cheating. Engagement off, of course. No “of course” from his mother though. She suggested going through the wedding for the baby, just the way she did! When my sister mentioned the cheating, his mother shrugged and said men will be men and “let him sow his wild oats”, then he’d settle down but they’d be married and their child wouldn’t be illegitimate. My sister still said it wasn’t going to happen, and it didn’t. It’s been 25 years and they’re great co-parents to their son but he continued to cheat during every subsequent relationship, resulting in two more children. A tidbit we found out about 10 years ago, is that his dad had a mistress _the whole marriage!_ Actually, the mistress had been with dad a year or so longer than his parents had been married but he’d cheated on her with dad’s now-wife and felt he “had” to marry her because he’d gotten her pregnant. Moral of the story is misery loves company, I guess. And don’t stay with a cheater, because they’ll always be a cheater.
“I’m not psychic, people are just predictable” Ohhhhhhh this really hit, so effing true. People like to think they’re all unique and sh*t but turns out we’re more predictable than we think haha
My friends always tell me I’m a psychic when it comes to men, but honestly I just pretend I’m incredibly selfish and stupid, and my “predictions” are always spot on 😂
So true! I would have spun from getting pushed and let my big behind do what it needs to do. 😂 No matter what, self defense or consequences of her actions 😂❤
7:36 *HELL NAH! I would have sent the whole damn text thread to my phone, found the preacher & grabbed the marriage license from him then stood front and center, in front of EVERYONE.. ripped up the license, then read out all of the messages!* *Bet that! Aint nobody gettin' married today!*
if she was the asshole, it was a "justified assholery" and she should be let go with time served. although I think if it was justified, you can't really be the asshole, right? 🤫 this really didn't seem controversial to me. sometimes if someone won't listen , a dip in the pool will cool them down!
Am I the only one that caught the mil pushed the moh first? In that case pushing her was fully self defense and oops that she just happened to fall in the fountain as a result
@creativek_custom6010 I certainly did. Bridesmaid was obviously provoked, and she was defending herself. Not her fault if mother in law had poor balance. 😅
2nd story-- she didn't push, she pushed BACK. That's not assault, that's self-defense. The fact there was a fountain for MIL to fall into was just icing on the cake.
I married my wife in 1995. We spent about $600 on our wedding. Thats flowers, photos, reception,food,2 kegs renting American legion hall. Immediate and extended family cooked the food and made the mints a decorations. Music at the reception was from a brother in law that had a amazing home stereo. This may we will have been married 30 years. We agreed about our life and relationship goals and strategies BEFORE we got engaged. I had many friends criticized everything about my wedding and reception (they have all since been divorced and sometimes multiple times).
Agreed. There are studies that show that the more you spend on your wedding the higher your chances are for divorce. Money issues are the biggest cause for divorce. Going into your marriage in debt doesn’t help. It’s just one day. We had a cheap wedding and were able to buy a house after to start our life in. We were more concerned about the rest of our life than one day. That was 30 years ago. Still married.
"Red wine can be deemed an accident." The push was also an accident. The MIL put her hands on her and her entire upper torso slipped and propelled the offending woman into the water fountain. Could happen to anybody.
I never think it's annoying when you predict the endings. My mom and I love watching your videos together and we're right there with you guessing, too! Also for the MOH who pushed MIL into the water fountain, she got pushed first. MOH pushed back in self-defense; there were even witnesses.
I love the last OP so much. The brilliance of arriving at your wedding with the "other" fiancee, still having a reception, and taking a cruise vacation together is just ...chef's kiss. I aspire to be that level of stealthy petty.
I'm like 99% sure it was made up 😂 if she was THAT in love with him her emotions would have been too difficult to hide for all that time until their wedding...AND she CERTAINLY wouldn't be a happy happy bride walking down that aisle THEN happily invite everyone to the reception 😕 Seriously, I'm shocked she didn't end the story with "and then everyone stood up and started to clap" 😂
I kind of ship OP and Mia. They should've married each other instead. If they were so alike that OP's fiance wanted to marry both of them, they'd probably get along well enough with each other to be the perfect couple.
@@batteryaciddrinker1697a honeymoon is just a trip, there is no wedding police at the airport checking if people are actually married or not. The two ladies simply went together on the trip that was planned as a honeymoon.
Don't ignore your pre-wedding jitters! My sister's fiance knew the marriage was a bad idea, but went through with it because he was too embarrassed to cancel the wedding. They had to tell everyone they were getting a divorce less than a year later, which was much, much more embarrassing! Please cut things off as fast as you can, don't make someone walk down the aisle if you can't really commit.
My sisters first wedding at 19: my dad and mom walked her down the aisle by literally lifting her up and carrying her as she froze. Hindsight, she knew it was the wrong choice to get married.
I got jitters....felt like instead of starting something wonderful I felt like it would mean an end to happiness, so i called it off mother nature gave me the perfect out, as an avalanche had kept us from being able to get to the venue anyways. So I used that as the reason not my jitters and we stayed together. He left me for his friend less than 2 years later. So glad I didn't get married because cutting ties would have been much more complicated than just moving possessions.
@@SoManyRandomRamblings Yeah, even though my sister's divorce has no property, no pets, no kids, and they agreed to the terms themselves without lawyers, it took a year to finalize. The separation was longer than the marriage.. Divorce is no joke.
@@rachelmaddowswife8713 Most definitely. All the paperwork slows everything down, even without all the other B.S. (and some states demand a separation period for 'reasons')
I chime in havent you people ever heard of...closing..the god damn door no...its much better to face these kinds of things, with a sense of poise and rationality
Charlotte, I recently found your channel, and as a first time mom with a toddler who repeats EVERYTHING, thank you for holding back the bad words so I can keep enjoying your channel in long car rides!
“How can I not be a bridezilla, I will watch Charlotte Dobre videos” Can confirm, I discovered this channel shortly after getting engaged in 2020 and watched the bridezilla videos as lessons of what not to do 😂😂😂 Love you Charlotte!! So excited for you and Mike 🥰
OP in the first one is NTA simply because her husband was cheating before they got married AND WAS STILL TALKING TO THE OTHER WOMAN. Its one thing to be uncomfortable with commitment, its another to get married to someone while still being in a completely separate relationship outside the marriage! I say annul that shit!
Yep if it was just the comments... I'd say stay and try to work it out. However, the cheating.... DONE!! No friggin way. Because he isn't sorry for that. He's sorry he got caught.
it's pretty hard to be the asshole after that level of provocation. you would have to have done something EPIC to take the mantle of asshole from the groom.
I was dating a guy for 4 years. Felt like the next step to get married. I was a nervous wreck the day of the wedding. I had doubts but thought I loved him. Thought things would change. After 11 years of marriage I felt like a maid. I raised my daughter on my own. Felt like my husband was another child I had to care for. Finally got courage to leave. Best decision of my life. Should have listened to my doubts. Don't ever think "What if this is my only chance to get married" or "this is enough." Never settle. You're only hurting yourself. Things will not change. They will not grow to love you more. In 2015 I met my best friend. First time talking to him I felt like I had known him my entire life. I fell so deeply in love. Realized I had never been in love before until him. We married in 2018. Its been 6 years. I still get butterflies. Get excited when on my way home to see him. On our wedding day I had *zero* doubts. It felt meant to be. I was a nervous wreck but only felt nervous. I didn't have doubts or wondering. If you have any doubts then they are not the right person. Your partner *SHOULD* be your best friend. I always heard people say that but didn't know what they meant. Your partner should know ALL your secrets. Everything about you. Should never fear telling them anything. Your partner should be the one you have the MOST fun with. Would never do a single thing to hurt you. Should trust them more than anyone in the world. Should always have your back. When you're with the right person they would move mountains to make you happy. You would do the same for them. They will never leave you hanging or wondering about anything. You'll never need or want to check their phone. Your partner will be your #1 fan. If your partner is not your best friend then they aren't the one for you. Don't ever settle thinking this is it. Wait for the right one. Its worth the wait. Everyday will be pure happiness. Everyday you will have someone truly there for you and actually loves you. Its so different being with the right person. I promise you will have zero doubts. Not one single one. Trust me. This is the most important decision of your life. Make everyday happy. Also if you're stuck then leave. You only live once. If I can do it with a 4 year old and a part time job and extremely poor then anyone can. Make the change. Can't imagine how miserable I would still be if I hadn't got the courage to change my life. How would you feel if your partner passed away tomorrow? Would your world be destroyed? Or would you even care?
This is why im not worried about the so called falling birthrate. Now that women aren't forced into this, we are exercising natural selection. Thats all this is.
I think the first bride felt 'unsure' because she was picking up on the undercurrent of her fiance not being committed to her. Her spidey senses were tingling. She should sue him for cost of wedding. Holy crap so much money wasted not to mention the 5+ years of her life wasted.
a lot of people have "cold feet" we hear mostly about the cases where it was justified, but a lot of people with amazing marriages have cold feet on their wedding day because it is consequential to them
THE LAST ONE IS JUST GOLD, she lost but she gained and possibly a person a bestie for life, someone that will be there anytime in point of their relationship. love it
That last one, even though she didn't ask I would say she is the a-hole. But just because so many people spend time and money to attend a wedding. They're taking time off work, buying cloths, booking hotels, buying gifts, etc. And that whole time she knew there would be no marriage which is a huge slap in the face to all those friends and family members that showed up. I'd be pretty angry if a friend or family member did that to me.
@@NonprofitWrench I've had that done to me. I don't know how much time the groom had between the wedding and finding out, but he warned some family members not to come due to 'doubts' but didn't inform anyone on her side, as well as a few of his own guests. For example, I was groom side and my parents were warned (they live abroad) and I was not. The 'wedding' was awkward and not how I wish to have spend my day but at the same time I really couldn't blame the groom after fnding out his bride cheated. At that time my gift, clothes, time off etc. didn't even cross my mind, just that the situation is terrible for everyone involved. We still managed to have a good time away from the drama. It's an odd choice though... I wouldn't be able to stomach my partner for even a minute after such a betrayal.
19:23 **mike, in the kitchen mixing something, hears “she moved…IN THE SHADOWS” followed by a signature Charlotte screech and the chair rolling around the floor; and he smiles and says “that’s my girl!” Edit. Of all the comments I’ve left I’m so happy this the one she finally sees and hearts 😂🤣🤣 haha love your channel Charlotte and can’t wait for the inevitable satire bridezilla series of shorts with Mike. Except maybe we can get some of him being a groomzilla 👀
Unfortunately when you edit your comment, it takes away the creators heart 😓 next time just add a comment to it and not edit it so it won't disappear on you!
@@heatherlowe7330 I’m hoping we get them, especially after I unintentionally sacrificed my “heart from creator” the Petty Potato Queen bestowed upon me 🥲
I can't imagine how horrific that was to hear for the first bride! So bad on your wedding day but that definitely saved her so much more pain in the future!
Agreed! On any other day she's also not obligated to stay but on her wedding day it's up to her where she goes no matter what. Like you said it's her wedding not theirs.
I think the best thing she could have done was create a big text message on his phone, attach the screenshots, and then send it to everyone at the wedding, and the family. Let them know that you are leaving and don't appreciate these texts and affair, on top of him talking shit 🤣😂🤣😂
The only way I’m staying is if I’m putting his phone messages on the big screen and going through them for all guests to see and then they can role play how they’d “work it out” 🍿
As an aside for those wanting to keep florist costs down, if you can avoid it, never tell a florist your flowers are for a wedding…for my wedding my mum told the florists (yes multiple, one for bouquets, one for decorations) it was for a baby shower/birthday party. It was so much cheaper, and they looked beautiful. I concede this only really works for smaller weddings (we only had about 60 guests), but sometimes you have to save money where you can.
Depending on the location you sometimes don;'t even really need decoration flowers. Both me and my husband's brother's bride lucked out with churches that were already really nice as they were any had their flowers always by the altar, so we both skipped the decorative flowers and only did bouquets. And we did other non-floral decor for the reception locations. Additionally, my husband's brother's wife saved even more by just buying some gorgeous in-season flowers at the grocery store and some thick wide ribbon from a craft store and had a fun afternoon with the bridesmaids making bouquets. It's actually easier than it looks.
Loved these - Direct communicators. The epitome of "Absolutely not," "try me," & "Fool around and find out" energy! As someone who says what she means, it was so satisfying to see women follow through on the consequences. Worthy of love and respect ladies and gents! Don't settle for less.
The first story, I would have barged out of that room with his phone in my hands, grabbed whatever microphone was available, made an announcement that I just overheard him saying he didn’t love me and didn’t want to be married to me, and that he has a girlfriend on the side, who knows about me, that he’s meeting up with after our honeymoon, and that I have the phone and can show everyone the messages if they want to see them. Or if there’s a way to project a phone image at the venue, plug it in and turn it on and walk away.
my first thought was projecting it for everyone to see also 😆 if that wasn't possible, I'd screenshot it and send a giant group chat from his phone to everyone at the wedding 🎉
To the first story... I've been married for 41 yrs. I would NEVER suggest someone should work that out. There are some things that are a deal breaker and that is one of those things. I would have said, "Turn and walk and never look back. Get an annulment and sue him for the cost of the wedding". For the second one....Cheers to pushing back! She pushed first. The fact that she ended up in the fountain when pushed back is happy karma. How is that MIL not embarrassed. Shame on her. I thought my mother was the MIL from hell (my husband had the patience of a saint for 40 yrs with her. A lot more than me.) and even she wouldn't have done that..
@MelissaViers-kb8vg oh, I am talking about the comment of the first story, "I've been married for 41 years". I looked at her profile and she seemed very young, I was just asking
@@foreverscreaming yeah I knew what you were talking about!! Definitely makes sense because there is no way she has been married for 41 years lol 😂 if so, I wanna know her secret!!
It isn’t even just the fact that the best friend warned the mother in -law in advance but the fact that the mother in-law put her hands on her first. She had every right to defend herself and her bestie
As someone who had been married 27 years, here's my advice. The wedding day is not as important as the lifetime of marriage that follows. In all the planning and preparation you put into your wedding day, it's even more important to put preparation and work on your relationship. We had pre-marriage counseling to learn things like healthy communication and conflict resolution, talk through common issues like how we will manage our finances, and generally build a god foundation for our relationship going forward. At the end of the day the only things you really need for the wedding day are the two of you, your celebrant and the legal paperwork. Everything else is completely optional. Celebrate your relationship in whatever way suits you with the people you most want to share this day with. Relax about everything else and avoid the drama - it's not worth the energy. When you look back decades later, what will matter is being together with the people you love and care about. Charlotte, I wish you and Mike all the very best for your future life together.
We have been married 48 years and I totally agree. The relationship is the priority. I've noticed the trend of, the bigger the wedding, the quicker the divorce.
That’s why I hate when people say the wedding day is the most important day of your life. What does that say for the rest of your life? It’s all downhill from now on? The wedding is just the beginning. It also diminishes the other critical events in your life, often related to your partner relationship. The size of your wedding, how perfect it seems is unrelated to the success of the marriage. It’s mostly about how much you want to throw a party to be with loved ones or to impress your social circle.
bridesmaids are heros, my parents got a divorce 9 months before my wedding after 35 years... my bridesmaids had to run interference during my reception to keep my dad's new girlfriend from punching my mother after she got so drunk and my mom was so calm and sweet. My gals were the best, didn't even know even went down until 6 months later.
You didn't know about it because your girls wanted your day to be about you, not your parents acting like middle schoolers. What amazing friends you have ❤
The first one, the other brides would've kept the phone, milk it for evidence (and throw it somewhere), annual the union, send a bill to the ex, and then burn bridges by implying that everyone knew and there's more "cheaters" in the group. This girl is too sweet, she even apologized for her behavior when there's no need.
First story - he's not having doubts AND cheating, he's having doubts BECAUSE he's cheating. Nobody can lie to you and still feel loved by you, because they know you only love the lie they are telling you.
For the first bride, you were smart. I hope you didn't ever file the wedding license. That will make splitting up with him so much easier. And that's what you should do. Not because of the shit talking or even the cheating, but the fundamental disrespect he has for you and your relationship. Run! He will never stop doing this if you let him get away with it, no matter what he says.
Story 1 - Her gut could've been telling her something was off and that's why she was so weary but didn't realize why until all the pieces fell in place on the Wedding Day. The ex had NO intentions of ever being faithful, to her or the mistress, but was too far in with OP and didn't wanna risk his 'reputation' ending things or coming out with someone new so soon (and that's if the mistress was someone the family would've accepted given he kept her a SECRET) than any genuine care or worry of not being in love.
Why propose if you aren't sure. He couldn't even stay loyal before the honeymoon phase. Girl RUN and stay gone. Say it with me people, to have a good relationship we have to COMMUNICATE
so here's the answer (not a justification, just an explanation). this dude was a player, but wanted to look like a respectable man. so he "does the right thing" by getting married, but doesn't want to settle down in reality. he is using her as window dressing to hide his shabby state. it's a sucky thing to do, but he was using her to create an image. he might care about her or not, but he cares about his hormones more. he never intended to be loyal, or be a good man; he just wanted to appear to be one. you see guys like this all the time. if his friends are all players/sketchy, you have to ask why they are friends with him then? what they have in common? he was a bad choice in a husband, and she knows it now.
@@kristiesteele3243 ?? you asked why and I explained it to you. in fact, he was sure. sure he wanted to use her for his image. you're welcome. you knew it all the time, you just were pretending that you were shocked by it. Selfish people do selfish things. oh yeah, he didn't want a good relationship, he wanted a disguise. so your advice to run was apt.
I was married for the first time 46 years ago, and still feel a bit ticked that my husband to be had told his best man that he didn't want to go through it. The bestman talked him into it. He told me about this on iur honeymoon. Then around 12-13 the bestman and his wife (my husband's sister) broke up apparently because he was having an affair. So then my husband was positive I was having an affair, and we ended up divorced. The years I was married to that jerk were horrendous with much emotional abuse and financial abuse. It was awful. DO NOT EVER TALK SOMEONE INTO GETTING MARRIED WHEN THEY HAVE SERIOUS DOUBTS ON THEIR WEDDING DAY!!!!
to the bride in the first story u saved him the embarrassment, the unhinged me would of recoded it screenshotted the text went n made a speech with the screenshots n recording on the main screen to put him on blast. you handled it like a mature woman!
im INCREDIBLY thankful that i didnt have to "bounce" anybody from my bff's wedding as the POH (person of honor, cuz nonbinary lol) and STILL get to be godparent to her first dog XD
ALL, learn from my mother's wisdom: "When in Doubt, DON'T!" It applies to so much. Plus a fan-favorite, Maya Angelou: "When someone shows you who they are, believe them!"
Get the wedding annulled!!!! His behavior is going to continue throughout your marriage, and it's definitely NOT a situation that you want to bring children into!
Oh, honey - im of the older generation (65 yrs old) and I would NEVER recommend she try to "work it out." Nevah, evah, evah. If he did THIS to my daughter or granddaughter, i would want to kick his tail every day but Sunday, and I would let him rest up so, I could start again worse on Monday. Swear to God, he'd regret this crap. Interestingly, when I was younger, I'd have tolerated this likely - and did tolerate this kind of nonsense - WAY too much. Now, I know better. No amount of money spent on a wedding is worth staying in a relationship like this. Having doubts is one thing. Him f-ing around on this lovely young lady is something else entirely. She can have a much better life after she's moved on.
@mycreativeheart4159 Yeah, and what's worse, if your kids aren't being a 'ho, you probably were one. Being in your 60s & older means you were "dating" post-Pill & pre-AIDS. Why the rates of STDs are rising in retirement villages & homes.😂😂😂
I’m in my 50s, and I’ve noticed a growing lack of tolerance for disrespectful behavior. I’ve also noticed my daughters are far less likely tolerant of disrespect than I was at their age.
Wow the story about checking his phone, finding such intimate messages with someone else...that punch in the gut.... I hate for anyone else to go through it... so sad ... I think alot of us understand... unfortunately... just remember things always fall apart before they come together in beautiful and unexpected ways ❤
I would sue the husband for all of the expenses, emotional damage and make him pay for the therapy sessions to heal from such betrayal and disrespect. And the woman who he was going to cheat with will have karma dealing with them both
Got my flowers from the local grocery store. Not expensive, absolutely beautiful and they were so helpful. Saved thousands by not going to a specialised florist.
The turkey sound completes it for me. Thank you for bringing it back 🤣 When you stopped doing it, it was like someone singing ba da ba ba baaaaa and then not saying “I’m loving it” afterwards. Killed me inside.
that first story just reminds me of myself lmao 😭😭 my therapist tells me constantly that, you do NOT NEED A REASON NOR PERMISSION to leave a relationship if you are unhappy. your happiness is enough. you do not need a reason nor need to explain yourself or worry about everybody else's emotions. you were not wrong bestie!!!! run like a pretty horsie through the fields of italy if that is what you feel!!!! much love to all us recovering people pleasers 🥲🫶🏻
After I broke the engagement off with my ex he stated he felt that I would break it off, which is why he wanted the two bedroom apartment we shared at the time. I replied with "then why would you ask me to marry you" He said exactly this shit in first story "I thought it was the right thing to do. I was under pressure by your parents." Not because he loved me. Broke my heart. We were together for nearly 5 years.
Charlotte rolling from one side of the camera’s view to the other wile striking a gremlin pose all in in dimmed lighting sent me so much I felt compelled to watch it 2x, as it was the only way to register what I was seeing
The first story - I’m engaged myself and imo if you’re unsure about your partner, sometimes you just choose to choose them. We can never know everything the future holds for us. It’s not what everyone dreams of, but it can be a very good thing and allow you to build the love you want. Sadly, that’s not what he did at all. She deserves so much better, and I’m sure she will find it.
I am older generation, and I’d have stayed long enough to find someone who would take care of getting that marriage license (so it couldn’t be filed) and announcing the groom was a cheater, while I snuck off. ‘Never let them see you cry,’ is one of my mottoes.
@@dragonfliesnh4204 Good point. The US is a little weird. In any case, stopping the marriage from becoming legal is a whole lot easier than undoing it.
@@MrsWheezer I agree so much! In the US each state does things differently and the process isn't all the same. Where I live people can get the paperwork submitted before and after the wedding, depending on what the couple wants to do. Some never even have a wedding. As we know, things greatly vary around the world too but it's interesting when things also vary within a country itself, like the US.
A brief reminder to those saying that the first bride should stay with the husband and work it out: *Drunk thoughts are not spontaneous thoughts.* 90% of the time, Drunk thoughts are your thoughts without a filter. Don't make excuses for a man that has a mouth and could have had this entire conversation 5 years ago.
the thoughts are not the issue, the past cheating and plans to continue.... weren't done while drunk and even if they were, makes no difference. either you are willing to be cheated on, or you are willing to send a cheater away. there is nothing to work out.
I think comedian Gabriel Iglesias has a funny set where he talks about how he met his current wife, they did vodka/tequila shots and learned everything about each other right away (at least per the joke). Seeing how your partner acts when drunk or when really angry is a great way to see who they really are quickly.
I think the drunk thought would deserve a conversation. Maybe not staying together after, but a honest conversation first. The cheating deletes the need for that conversation
I’m living for these besties. I’ve never really been apart of a wedding besides a guest so if drama happened I guess I didn’t notice but I would be so taking a seat at the front for any of these situations with popcorn.
I just can't even imagine not being 100% invested before getting married. You shouldn't "Grow to love" your love should just grow. Marriage shouldn't be for any other reason than not being able to stand the thought of being without the person you love
he was using her to create an image. he got married to look like he was a stable guy even though secretly he was sketchy guy. it was intentional. he was setting her up for a lifetime of being window dressing in an empty marriage. some people are selfish, so they do selfish things.
@@goldengryphon I think, in general, we pathologize too much that isn't illness. I think if I wanted to use a specific word, I would go for something like "grifter" based upon his actions, which we can see, and not whether the deficiency is mental, emotional or moral. he could be any or all of those things, but we don't see that much of his thinking or words in this so I think hard to tell.
by the way, I agree with the OP, it's just I think the guy in the story doesn't. the op is 100% correct. the guy in the story has lost his way (or chose the wrong way)
The MIL pushed the bridesmaid first and she just responded. I just don’t understand MIL’s that want to be a bride at their kids weddings. It’s just pathetic. Btw, I’m loving watching these videos and thinking about Charlotte and Mike’s future wedding. I am so happy for you both.❤
@@hoddy1368 It’s essentially their word against the other’s. It will be witnesses for each and as long as there are no visible injuries… it’s basically she said, she said…
To know that they’re people walking around earth thinking that “it’s okaaaaaaaaaay to cheat, dismiss a partner’s feelings, and get as many chances simply because we all make mistakes” is beyooooooooond me. Matter of fact that kind of thinking shows that a person truly lacks any sense of emotional maturity 🤦🏼♀️ The amount of people that rather stay in relationships just so they’re not alone and labeled single is sad AF. What an aaaawful way to live 💔
On the subject of wedding flowers - yes they cost an absolute arm and a leg!! And they only last a couple days - we bought true feel faux flowers and I made the bouquets/table bunches and 2 years later I still have my beautiful bouquet, the bridesmaids still have theirs and I even had one my mum could keep in the end! I told the guests that they could take the table bunches too! Loved it! And it was all less than £400!!
Communication, communication, communication. I have neglected communication during my two marriages, just because I did not want to seem selfish or touchy about things. My first marriage was unsalvageable, but I fixed myself and my marriage is soooooo much better now!! Communicate, communicate, communicate....!!!
For the first story - Girl - dont go back… if he can gaslight you after this, you are setting yourself up to a lige of fearfulleness, walking on eggshells, being made to feel that you did something to deserve this or that you are the reason why he did x, y or z… and if he is really good at this, he will make you feel at times that you are the center of his world, that the rest are beneath you and you are above all these other things, and that he having to “get validation”, “make mistakes”, “learn and grow”.. but he can only do it with your love and support, only like that can he before a better man… and yes, speaking from experience. not a life-time, but 15 years… don’t go back, no matter what reason he gives. if he truely findes that he loves you and he os truely sorry, then he will spend years proving that.. not days or weeks…listen to your body, how your core feels… it will tell you. walk away head helt high. ❤
An Irish goodbye in this situation and context was the classiest option considering all the betrayal that she discovered on one of the most important days of her life!! Messy would be the ring of fire, created by the flaming piles of as many of his personal belongings I could get my hands with such short notice, encapsulating his vehicle in the parking lot. That would be just the beginning of a very messy public display. That kind of messy would actually be apropos, a degree of tacky to match his. She definitely took the high road in my opinion, one that not many in the heat of an intensely emotional moment that most are not capable of. She's the epitomy of a lady, NOT the ahole!! He already has that title. She has the crown!!!
I'M GAGGED. The editing (about MIL in white dress) when you say 'glad she's not hurt' while rolling your eyes ... hunny, you're glad she got what she deserved, and so are we!
girl, in the 1st story handled it better than I would have. I would have taken the phone gone out to the DJ asked for the mic got everyones attention, started reading the texts, then tell everyone what I over heard between him and the best man, then proceed to call the homewrecker while on mic advising her that I would like to personally and graciously thank her for the congratulatory text but also tell her that this will be the only day he will be married and that she would be able to have my sloppy 2nds as I would be seeking an anullment and letting her know that what she did was not a flex but in fact shows the level of desperation she has stooped to just to try to get a man any man at any costs even if its at the cost of her own selfworth, and reputation. Dropped the mic and walked out!
I think, because she said the MIL pushed her first in the second story, it's technically classified as self-defense, especially since the Bridesmaid was there, and can testify if the MIL tries to report it. By the way, I love your videos, keep doing your best!
As a gay dude, it’s honestly a relief that my family has zero expectations about me having a big wedding. Ever since I started watching Charlotte I’ve been truly grateful to be gay in a new way, lol. Plus I just don’t understand about spending all that money on a one day affair. Put a deposit on a friggin home with it!
In my country you can be legally married as a gay couple and have a big wedding too. Many (catholic) priests won't even refuse you getting married in church either.
@@Jamietheroadrunnerbut here in the US you have to be worried about being harassed the entire time about being who you are, and more likely be turned away for daring to not be straight. I’m gay myself and the this country is going, Europe seems like a better option. You now just have to worry about being stabbed instead of shot.
My ex-fiancee and I were together for 8 years. He also told his best friend that he proposed because "it was the right thing to do". I bought my dress, we had been making payments on the venue for 6 months, I was JUST about to send the invitations when he asked to "postpone". Yes, he could have stopped it way earlier...but at least he didn't GO THROUGH with it.
Your voice is so great! I feel your passion for helping others make decisions. ADHD with me is procrastinating and not starting because I don't see a final outcome with my path. You motivate with your kindness. Thank you for being my nudge forward.
I love the red wine idea because it's anonymous as well as accidental. The B who wears white can think she's gotten away with it for quite a while this way, until that moment when it becomes clear that they have FAFO'd. Not knowing who did it leaves them feeling vulnerable enough to think twice. At least, that is what I would hope.
This isn't just a react channel we get a full on improvisational entertainment show that makes me laugh so hard every week. Cue Charlotte spinning in low light, in her chair with puppet master movements saying (in a creepy voice) you moved in the shadows with a Jurassic Park style screech while moving out of frame. Thanks for all the great core workouts!
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1st story - I am SOOOOO petty, I would've taken his phone to the reception, clicked my glass for a speech, and started reading the texts to all the guests! She is a much better person.
I would LOVE to do that, but I’m not sure if I’d have in me to. I’m pretty sure I would just do what she did
Sounds good at first... However, it would also be embarrassing to herself and their families not just him..
This is EXACTLY what I first thought of when I was listening to the story 😂
THAT was exactly my 1st thought!
Me too..
I know an elderly lady who, not long after getting married, caught her husband cheating. She left him, and moved back home with her parents. Her dad sat her down, as she was bawling her eyes out, and said “Go back home to your husband”
She said “what did you say?” He proceeded to tell her that ALL men cheat. That her husband loved her, and spoils her, and she’d be a fool to leave him over something EVERY man does. Can you imagine?!?! I would’ve left the husband, and the dad! Load up mom and move far away! Let them be roommates or besties! Who cares!!!
WTF
Omfg 🤬
so her dad cheated on her mom too..sad@@BrianAndresScott
EVERY MAN CHEATS????? Oh, hell no! Not in the least bit true. And frankly, don't ever believe this BS. Earn your own money, stand proud and demand better for yourself. My folks got married in the fifties and no, dad didn't cheat. Neither did his father. Demand better.
@@NewEasterWhoDis I’ve had several women tell me that when I’ve told this story. Most of them from that time themselves. I work with elderly people.
"If you have to choose between me or her, choose her. Because if you truly loved me, there wouldn't be a choice" -Someone
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Well said 👏!
I didn't use these words to him, but this is what broke us up. I forced a choice. I'm much happier without him.
@@shanartisan good job! It takes work to build up the courage to do that. (For me at least)
Johnny Depp?
The first one just needs to get an annulment. She is NTA and needs to protect and heal her heart and be happy you can get out so early.
Exactly this
I 💯 agree. I feel so bad for her
I would have got my friends and my brothers up there for support.
He is a spineless eunuch weasel. He didn't have the ballz to stand up to talk about it before the wedding? AND he was cheating? Yeah, annulment time. NTA.
an annulment or divorce may not be needed. if the marriage cert hasn't been recorded in the county clerk's office then it's not yet official. until the government has the paperwork, it hasn't happened yet.
My first husband cheated, and I was talking about it with my MIL. Her outrageous comment, “Honey, men cheat. But, at the end of the day, he comes home to you. He married you, My husband cheated. So what?” Uhhhhhhhhhhhhh. No. Divorce. See ya. I can see where his problem originated.
Boys will be boys vibes
Hopefully you struck gold on the second hubs
First one was clearly a dud.
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@@KonekoPurrrfection I did! Thank GOD!
She was right. Men cheat. And so do women.
It depends on the type of relationship you have.
Yes, people do cheat, but it's less than 25% of men who do (and women). She is delusional and in denial on the reality of things. Although with such a casual response, I'd wonder if she also cheated on her husband.
I love that we can tell Charlotte’s moved from an apartment/condo to a standalone house (or at least a condo with thicker walls) cause she’s gone from trying to keep it down and getting calls from her neighbours mid-filming to screeching like a banshee and yelling “WE ALWAYS MOVE IN THE SHADOWS” 😂
That or she doesn’t care anymore
I thought the same thing. I’m so glad she can be her authentic self without having to be quiet for no one.
And nothing about Naked Man anymore
The first story, she wasn't having pre wedding jitters, her intuition was at an all-time high. She'll never be the A-hole.
That's what I think too
People are allowed not to wanna be with you. Don't get all broken up about it. Move the efff on
@@pamelamarieherrera6548 yeah well people are not allowed to lead you on and betray you. And they are allowed to freaking leave.
don't get into marriage if u don't want to be with someone. Grow the efff up
@@pamelamarieherrera6548yup they are, but then they shouldn’t propose, go ahead with the wedding or cheat. If you don’t want to be either someone, don’t have a wedding!!
We need to hear our intuition always
Charlotte - I worked in the floristry business. You absolutely do *not* have to pay that much for flowers at a wedding.
A key tip. Absolutely *do not* say the flowers are for a wedding event. As the florist will jack up the price around 400% upon hearing that (just like they do on roses around Valentines day)
Instead, say they're for either a "practice event" or for some sort of "formal" or "reception for a birthday", etc. *Never* mentioned the words wedding or insinuate there is to be a wedding.
You just need some flowers for a deb ball or formal dance, etc. Which will include some bouquets, boutineers (for the guys suits) and maybe some table arrangements, etc to decorate.
You could even say it's a birthday or literally *any* other event. Hopefully this little tip will save you on $$.
Also, ask for certain flowers and those flowers that are in season. As if not in season, they'll be even more $$ to obtain.
Hope this tip works for you.
I like this tip. I will remember it. Thank you!
Thank you
I wish I could star certain comments to look back on later when I need then
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@everogersdownunder1242 I switch to new phones constantly so it would eventually be lost
Someone close to me admitted about six weeks before the wedding that she didn't love the groom (she wasn't alone; nobody could stand him). But she had to go through with it because all the plans were made, the dress was bought, invitations were out, blah blah blah. The only thing she loved was being a bride and having A wedding day - ANY wedding day - because "that's what you're supposed to do." She looked miserable throughout the wedding and reception. And she has now been miserably married to a (literally) stupid, cheating, tantrum-throwing, Dunning Kruger-afflicted, overgrown toddler for over 30 years. She's constantly embarrassed by him. And their only child, who is autistic and as intellectually impaired as her father, has said out loud a few times that she's scared of him. But the miserable wife won't budge, because "She took vows" (usually stated with a superior sniff red face, and lip curl). Moral of the story: If you're not genuinely happy with the person you're about to marry, DON'T MARRY THAT PERSON!
No wonder there's so many miserable people in the world. There's so many stories like that. People often don't realize it's not just the couple that's gonna be miserable together, any children born from the union will be scarred forever somehow.
You should advise her to watch more Dateline, 48 hours and 20/20.
That’s so stupid
My sister was engaged when she found out she was pregnant…and found out he was cheating. Engagement off, of course. No “of course” from his mother though. She suggested going through the wedding for the baby, just the way she did!
When my sister mentioned the cheating, his mother shrugged and said men will be men and “let him sow his wild oats”, then he’d settle down but they’d be married and their child wouldn’t be illegitimate. My sister still said it wasn’t going to happen, and it didn’t. It’s been 25 years and they’re great co-parents to their son but he continued to cheat during every subsequent relationship, resulting in two more children.
A tidbit we found out about 10 years ago, is that his dad had a mistress _the whole marriage!_ Actually, the mistress had been with dad a year or so longer than his parents had been married but he’d cheated on her with dad’s now-wife and felt he “had” to marry her because he’d gotten her pregnant.
Moral of the story is misery loves company, I guess. And don’t stay with a cheater, because they’ll always be a cheater.
“I’m not psychic, people are just predictable”
Ohhhhhhh this really hit, so effing true. People like to think they’re all unique and sh*t but turns out we’re more predictable than we think haha
My friends always tell me I’m a psychic when it comes to men, but honestly I just pretend I’m incredibly selfish and stupid, and my “predictions” are always spot on 😂
Bride #2, DON’T FORGET!!! MIL pushed bridesmaid first trying to go inside and there were witnesses! so her push back was self defence !!! NTA
So true! I would have spun from getting pushed and let my big behind do what it needs to do. 😂
No matter what, self defense or consequences of her actions 😂❤
That's what I said!
I came to the comments to say this. You took care of it, and I thank you for that.
Not to mention, Op could just say that it happened while she was attempting to deny MIL entry into the venue. It would be hard to argue that.
Lol, this is exactly what I was thinking and commented before I saw your reply! Also to tell Charlotte that's she's never annoying, tho. ❤
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*HELL NAH! I would have sent the whole damn text thread to my phone, found the preacher & grabbed the marriage license from him then stood front and center, in front of EVERYONE.. ripped up the license, then read out all of the messages!*
*Bet that! Aint nobody gettin' married today!*
Maid of Honor? More like “Pro Level Wedding Bouncer”!!! Bestie understood the job responsibilities and hit it out of the park!!
if she was the asshole, it was a "justified assholery" and she should be let go with time served.
although I think if it was justified, you can't really be the asshole, right?
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this really didn't seem controversial to me. sometimes if someone won't listen , a dip in the pool will cool them down!
Am I the only one that caught the mil pushed the moh first? In that case pushing her was fully self defense and oops that she just happened to fall in the fountain as a result
I just said this. Self defense
@@creativek_custom6010 Yep
@creativek_custom6010 I certainly did. Bridesmaid was obviously provoked, and she was defending herself. Not her fault if mother in law had poor balance. 😅
2nd story-- she didn't push, she pushed BACK. That's not assault, that's self-defense. The fact there was a fountain for MIL to fall into was just icing on the cake.
And the cherry too😂
Came to say this 🙌🙌🙌
Yes Exactly! The worst thing she could've fallen Into would've been The Cake tbh
YASS! Exactly THIS!
And FR the worst thing she could've fallen on IS the cake tbh. 😂
This!
I married my wife in 1995. We spent about $600 on our wedding. Thats flowers, photos, reception,food,2 kegs renting American legion hall. Immediate and extended family cooked the food and made the mints a decorations. Music at the reception was from a brother in law that had a amazing home stereo. This may we will have been married 30 years. We agreed about our life and relationship goals and strategies BEFORE we got engaged. I had many friends criticized everything about my wedding and reception (they have all since been divorced and sometimes multiple times).
Ok boomer
Agreed. There are studies that show that the more you spend on your wedding the higher your chances are for divorce. Money issues are the biggest cause for divorce. Going into your marriage in debt doesn’t help. It’s just one day. We had a cheap wedding and were able to buy a house after to start our life in. We were more concerned about the rest of our life than one day. That was 30 years ago. Still married.
"Red wine can be deemed an accident." The push was also an accident. The MIL put her hands on her and her entire upper torso slipped and propelled the offending woman into the water fountain. Could happen to anybody.
Absolutely! It’s a shame but accidents do occur.
I have a big butt so I would have turned and “accidentally” bumped her into the fountain 😂
I saw it with my own eyes 🙋🏼♀️
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I don’t push. I play team sports so I would’ve sneakily hip checked her arse, I’m a lot of lady to try to get by…😂
Right MIL touched her first. All bets are off then. MIL needs to learn to keep her hands to herself. MIL fafo.😂
“But first, GOBBLE GOBBLE GOBBLE GOBBLE”
Which is Charlotte speak for, “all rise for the honorable judge Charlotte!!!” Lol
Love this. I'd watch for this alone! 😂😂😂😂
@@erikarussell1142 gobble gobble 🦃🦃
You forgot GOBBLE GOBBLE- “you may be seated”
I absolutely love our turkey potato!
@@kairoppi 😂 you right, you right. Dammit. Lol
I never think it's annoying when you predict the endings. My mom and I love watching your videos together and we're right there with you guessing, too! Also for the MOH who pushed MIL into the water fountain, she got pushed first. MOH pushed back in self-defense; there were even witnesses.
I love the last OP so much. The brilliance of arriving at your wedding with the "other" fiancee, still having a reception, and taking a cruise vacation together is just ...chef's kiss.
I aspire to be that level of stealthy petty.
Absolutely perfect ❤
I'm like 99% sure it was made up 😂 if she was THAT in love with him her emotions would have been too difficult to hide for all that time until their wedding...AND she CERTAINLY wouldn't be a happy happy bride walking down that aisle THEN happily invite everyone to the reception 😕 Seriously, I'm shocked she didn't end the story with "and then everyone stood up and started to clap" 😂
I kind of ship OP and Mia. They should've married each other instead. If they were so alike that OP's fiance wanted to marry both of them, they'd probably get along well enough with each other to be the perfect couple.
@@gracehowell.Doesn’t the fact that they were on a honeymoon together imply that they were married?
@@batteryaciddrinker1697a honeymoon is just a trip, there is no wedding police at the airport checking if people are actually married or not. The two ladies simply went together on the trip that was planned as a honeymoon.
Don't ignore your pre-wedding jitters! My sister's fiance knew the marriage was a bad idea, but went through with it because he was too embarrassed to cancel the wedding. They had to tell everyone they were getting a divorce less than a year later, which was much, much more embarrassing! Please cut things off as fast as you can, don't make someone walk down the aisle if you can't really commit.
My sisters first wedding at 19: my dad and mom walked her down the aisle by literally lifting her up and carrying her as she froze. Hindsight, she knew it was the wrong choice to get married.
I got jitters....felt like instead of starting something wonderful I felt like it would mean an end to happiness, so i called it off mother nature gave me the perfect out, as an avalanche had kept us from being able to get to the venue anyways. So I used that as the reason not my jitters and we stayed together. He left me for his friend less than 2 years later. So glad I didn't get married because cutting ties would have been much more complicated than just moving possessions.
@@sweetpea1989 Oh lord, why were they pushing her, was it a shotgun wedding?
@@SoManyRandomRamblings Yeah, even though my sister's divorce has no property, no pets, no kids, and they agreed to the terms themselves without lawyers, it took a year to finalize. The separation was longer than the marriage.. Divorce is no joke.
@@rachelmaddowswife8713 Most definitely. All the paperwork slows everything down, even without all the other B.S. (and some states demand a separation period for 'reasons')
If “I write sins, not tragedies” ever needed an explanation it’s definitely story one.
Yes! Except instead of the bride being the whore it's the groom!😂
I chime in havent you people ever heard of...closing..the god damn door no...its much better to face these kinds of things, with a sense of poise and rationality
The MIL in the 2nd story wore a mermaid style wedding gown? Being pushed into the fountain was just adding to the experience! 😂
I’d make a terrible “fish out of water” joke 🤣
hilarious! nicely done!
She may think she’s the Little Mermaid, but in actuality she’s Ursula.
😂😂😂
First bride: Finding out you're a placeholder with a shutup ring has to be so awful. 😢
Charlotte, I recently found your channel, and as a first time mom with a toddler who repeats EVERYTHING, thank you for holding back the bad words so I can keep enjoying your channel in long car rides!
“How can I not be a bridezilla, I will watch Charlotte Dobre videos”
Can confirm, I discovered this channel shortly after getting engaged in 2020 and watched the bridezilla videos as lessons of what not to do 😂😂😂
Love you Charlotte!! So excited for you and Mike 🥰
Thank you so much!
OP in the first one is NTA simply because her husband was cheating before they got married AND WAS STILL TALKING TO THE OTHER WOMAN. Its one thing to be uncomfortable with commitment, its another to get married to someone while still being in a completely separate relationship outside the marriage! I say annul that shit!
Yep, if he’s not sorry-annulment. 100%
yep and he had plans to see her after the honeymoon!! disgusting!
Yep if it was just the comments... I'd say stay and try to work it out.
However, the cheating.... DONE!! No friggin way. Because he isn't sorry for that. He's sorry he got caught.
Yep. It's just one day. Annulment can still be made.
it's pretty hard to be the asshole after that level of provocation. you would have to have done something EPIC to take the mantle of asshole from the groom.
I was dating a guy for 4 years. Felt like the next step to get married. I was a nervous wreck the day of the wedding. I had doubts but thought I loved him. Thought things would change. After 11 years of marriage I felt like a maid. I raised my daughter on my own. Felt like my husband was another child I had to care for. Finally got courage to leave. Best decision of my life. Should have listened to my doubts. Don't ever think "What if this is my only chance to get married" or "this is enough." Never settle. You're only hurting yourself. Things will not change. They will not grow to love you more. In 2015 I met my best friend. First time talking to him I felt like I had known him my entire life. I fell so deeply in love. Realized I had never been in love before until him. We married in 2018. Its been 6 years. I still get butterflies. Get excited when on my way home to see him. On our wedding day I had *zero* doubts. It felt meant to be. I was a nervous wreck but only felt nervous. I didn't have doubts or wondering. If you have any doubts then they are not the right person. Your partner *SHOULD* be your best friend. I always heard people say that but didn't know what they meant. Your partner should know ALL your secrets. Everything about you. Should never fear telling them anything. Your partner should be the one you have the MOST fun with. Would never do a single thing to hurt you. Should trust them more than anyone in the world. Should always have your back. When you're with the right person they would move mountains to make you happy. You would do the same for them. They will never leave you hanging or wondering about anything. You'll never need or want to check their phone. Your partner will be your #1 fan. If your partner is not your best friend then they aren't the one for you. Don't ever settle thinking this is it. Wait for the right one. Its worth the wait. Everyday will be pure happiness. Everyday you will have someone truly there for you and actually loves you. Its so different being with the right person. I promise you will have zero doubts. Not one single one. Trust me. This is the most important decision of your life. Make everyday happy. Also if you're stuck then leave. You only live once. If I can do it with a 4 year old and a part time job and extremely poor then anyone can. Make the change. Can't imagine how miserable I would still be if I hadn't got the courage to change my life. How would you feel if your partner passed away tomorrow? Would your world be destroyed? Or would you even care?
This is why im not worried about the so called falling birthrate. Now that women aren't forced into this, we are exercising natural selection.
Thats all this is.
I think the first bride felt 'unsure' because she was picking up on the undercurrent of her fiance not being committed to her. Her spidey senses were tingling. She should sue him for cost of wedding. Holy crap so much money wasted not to mention the 5+ years of her life wasted.
a lot of people have "cold feet" we hear mostly about the cases where it was justified, but a lot of people with amazing marriages have cold feet on their wedding day because it is consequential to them
THE LAST ONE IS JUST GOLD, she lost but she gained and possibly a person a bestie for life, someone that will be there anytime in point of their relationship.
love it
That last one, even though she didn't ask I would say she is the a-hole. But just because so many people spend time and money to attend a wedding. They're taking time off work, buying cloths, booking hotels, buying gifts, etc. And that whole time she knew there would be no marriage which is a huge slap in the face to all those friends and family members that showed up. I'd be pretty angry if a friend or family member did that to me.
@@NonprofitWrench I've had that done to me. I don't know how much time the groom had between the wedding and finding out, but he warned some family members not to come due to 'doubts' but didn't inform anyone on her side, as well as a few of his own guests. For example, I was groom side and my parents were warned (they live abroad) and I was not.
The 'wedding' was awkward and not how I wish to have spend my day but at the same time I really couldn't blame the groom after fnding out his bride cheated. At that time my gift, clothes, time off etc. didn't even cross my mind, just that the situation is terrible for everyone involved. We still managed to have a good time away from the drama.
It's an odd choice though... I wouldn't be able to stomach my partner for even a minute after such a betrayal.
Great way to find a bestie tbh. Since the ex probably has a thing for women with similar personality types 😂
@@NonprofitWrench No, there was a marriage. It was between OP and her ex's mistress :D
@@esmee6308 my question is why didn’t your parents tell you once they were warned?
15:03 GIRL!!!!! SHE SAID "I'LL NEVER GET MARRIED AGAIN!" They did itttt! They did the wedding 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤ congrats!!!
19:23 **mike, in the kitchen mixing something, hears “she moved…IN THE SHADOWS” followed by a signature Charlotte screech and the chair rolling around the floor; and he smiles and says “that’s my girl!”
Edit. Of all the comments I’ve left I’m so happy this the one she finally sees and hearts 😂🤣🤣 haha love your channel Charlotte and can’t wait for the inevitable satire bridezilla series of shorts with Mike. Except maybe we can get some of him being a groomzilla 👀
Unfortunately when you edit your comment, it takes away the creators heart 😓 next time just add a comment to it and not edit it so it won't disappear on you!
@@RayM-i3qnoooo I’m so sad 😭😭😭 why did I not know thatttt
I am looking forward to those shorts now 😂
@@heatherlowe7330 I’m hoping we get them, especially after I unintentionally sacrificed my “heart from creator” the Petty Potato Queen bestowed upon me 🥲
I can't imagine how horrific that was to hear for the first bride! So bad on your wedding day but that definitely saved her so much more pain in the future!
Absolutely not craziness
20:40 such angelic singing I’m literally crying
"Some said I should have stayed and worked things out" IT WAS ON YOUR WEDDING DAY! ABSOLUTELY NOT!
Agreed! On any other day she's also not obligated to stay but on her wedding day it's up to her where she goes no matter what. Like you said it's her wedding not theirs.
I think the best thing she could have done was create a big text message on his phone, attach the screenshots, and then send it to everyone at the wedding, and the family.
Let them know that you are leaving and don't appreciate these texts and affair, on top of him talking shit 🤣😂🤣😂
The only way I’m staying is if I’m putting his phone messages on the big screen and going through them for all guests to see and then they can role play how they’d “work it out” 🍿
When a man cheats there is NO WORKING THINGS OUT
@@vice8063 Omg yes xD I could never do that but god damn I wish I could if I ever experience this
As an aside for those wanting to keep florist costs down, if you can avoid it, never tell a florist your flowers are for a wedding…for my wedding my mum told the florists (yes multiple, one for bouquets, one for decorations) it was for a baby shower/birthday party. It was so much cheaper, and they looked beautiful.
I concede this only really works for smaller weddings (we only had about 60 guests), but sometimes you have to save money where you can.
How about renting silk floral arrangements? The only live flowers at our wedding was the bride's bouquet
Depending on the location you sometimes don;'t even really need decoration flowers. Both me and my husband's brother's bride lucked out with churches that were already really nice as they were any had their flowers always by the altar, so we both skipped the decorative flowers and only did bouquets. And we did other non-floral decor for the reception locations. Additionally, my husband's brother's wife saved even more by just buying some gorgeous in-season flowers at the grocery store and some thick wide ribbon from a craft store and had a fun afternoon with the bridesmaids making bouquets. It's actually easier than it looks.
Depends on the size of the wedding too though. $20K on flowers is still a LOT of flowers, even if they were marked up.
Loved these - Direct communicators. The epitome of "Absolutely not," "try me," & "Fool around and find out" energy! As someone who says what she means, it was so satisfying to see women follow through on the consequences. Worthy of love and respect ladies and gents! Don't settle for less.
The first story, I would have barged out of that room with his phone in my hands, grabbed whatever microphone was available, made an announcement that I just overheard him saying he didn’t love me and didn’t want to be married to me, and that he has a girlfriend on the side, who knows about me, that he’s meeting up with after our honeymoon, and that I have the phone and can show everyone the messages if they want to see them. Or if there’s a way to project a phone image at the venue, plug it in and turn it on and walk away.
my first thought was projecting it for everyone to see also 😆 if that wasn't possible, I'd screenshot it and send a giant group chat from his phone to everyone at the wedding 🎉
To the first story... I've been married for 41 yrs. I would NEVER suggest someone should work that out. There are some things that are a deal breaker and that is one of those things. I would have said, "Turn and walk and never look back. Get an annulment and sue him for the cost of the wedding".
For the second one....Cheers to pushing back! She pushed first. The fact that she ended up in the fountain when pushed back is happy karma. How is that MIL not embarrassed. Shame on her. I thought my mother was the MIL from hell (my husband had the patience of a saint for 40 yrs with her. A lot more than me.) and even she wouldn't have done that..
I'm sorry, but 41 years? Is that a typo?
@@foreverscreaming I was wondering that too, but she said that her husband put up with mother-in-law which would be her mother for 40 years
@MelissaViers-kb8vg oh, I am talking about the comment of the first story, "I've been married for 41 years". I looked at her profile and she seemed very young, I was just asking
@MelissaViers-kb8vg ah, I realize, this account is probably a bot
@@foreverscreaming yeah I knew what you were talking about!! Definitely makes sense because there is no way she has been married for 41 years lol 😂 if so, I wanna know her secret!!
It's A-OK to try to guess the ending. We're all yelling our predictions at the phone right along with you.😂
It isn’t even just the fact that the best friend warned the mother in -law in advance but the fact that the mother in-law put her hands on her first. She had every right to defend herself and her bestie
This!!! She is allowed to defend herself
As someone who had been married 27 years, here's my advice.
The wedding day is not as important as the lifetime of marriage that follows. In all the planning and preparation you put into your wedding day, it's even more important to put preparation and work on your relationship. We had pre-marriage counseling to learn things like healthy communication and conflict resolution, talk through common issues like how we will manage our finances, and generally build a god foundation for our relationship going forward.
At the end of the day the only things you really need for the wedding day are the two of you, your celebrant and the legal paperwork. Everything else is completely optional. Celebrate your relationship in whatever way suits you with the people you most want to share this day with. Relax about everything else and avoid the drama - it's not worth the energy. When you look back decades later, what will matter is being together with the people you love and care about.
Charlotte, I wish you and Mike all the very best for your future life together.
We have been married 48 years and I totally agree. The relationship is the priority. I've noticed the trend of, the bigger the wedding, the quicker the divorce.
That’s why I hate when people say the wedding day is the most important day of your life. What does that say for the rest of your life? It’s all downhill from now on? The wedding is just the beginning. It also diminishes the other critical events in your life, often related to your partner relationship. The size of your wedding, how perfect it seems is unrelated to the success of the marriage. It’s mostly about how much you want to throw a party to be with loved ones or to impress your social circle.
Around 19:20 when Charlotte is "moving in the shadooooows" watch it at 2× speed🤣🤣🤣It's Gold!! I love you Ms.Charlotte😂😂
bridesmaids are heros, my parents got a divorce 9 months before my wedding after 35 years... my bridesmaids had to run interference during my reception to keep my dad's new girlfriend from punching my mother after she got so drunk and my mom was so calm and sweet. My gals were the best, didn't even know even went down until 6 months later.
You didn't know about it because your girls wanted your day to be about you, not your parents acting like middle schoolers. What amazing friends you have ❤
The first one, the other brides would've kept the phone, milk it for evidence (and throw it somewhere), annual the union, send a bill to the ex, and then burn bridges by implying that everyone knew and there's more "cheaters" in the group.
This girl is too sweet, she even apologized for her behavior when there's no need.
First story - he's not having doubts AND cheating, he's having doubts BECAUSE he's cheating. Nobody can lie to you and still feel loved by you, because they know you only love the lie they are telling you.
For the first bride, you were smart. I hope you didn't ever file the wedding license. That will make splitting up with him so much easier. And that's what you should do. Not because of the shit talking or even the cheating, but the fundamental disrespect he has for you and your relationship. Run! He will never stop doing this if you let him get away with it, no matter what he says.
Story 1 - Her gut could've been telling her something was off and that's why she was so weary but didn't realize why until all the pieces fell in place on the Wedding Day. The ex had NO intentions of ever being faithful, to her or the mistress, but was too far in with OP and didn't wanna risk his 'reputation' ending things or coming out with someone new so soon (and that's if the mistress was someone the family would've accepted given he kept her a SECRET) than any genuine care or worry of not being in love.
2:12 I CHIMED IN WITH A "HAVEN'T YOU PEOPLE EVER HEARD OF
CLOSING THE GODDAMN DOOR"
Why propose if you aren't sure. He couldn't even stay loyal before the honeymoon phase. Girl RUN and stay gone. Say it with me people, to have a good relationship we have to COMMUNICATE
Once more for the people in the back!
so here's the answer (not a justification, just an explanation). this dude was a player, but wanted to look like a respectable man. so he "does the right thing" by getting married, but doesn't want to settle down in reality. he is using her as window dressing to hide his shabby state.
it's a sucky thing to do, but he was using her to create an image. he might care about her or not, but he cares about his hormones more. he never intended to be loyal, or be a good man; he just wanted to appear to be one.
you see guys like this all the time. if his friends are all players/sketchy, you have to ask why they are friends with him then? what they have in common?
he was a bad choice in a husband, and she knows it now.
@@theoverunderthinker your name fits 😂😂😂.
@@kristiesteele3243 ?? you asked why and I explained it to you. in fact, he was sure. sure he wanted to use her for his image.
you're welcome.
you knew it all the time, you just were pretending that you were shocked by it. Selfish people do selfish things.
oh yeah, he didn't want a good relationship, he wanted a disguise. so your advice to run was apt.
It kinda reminds me of people who think murder is less "embarrassing" than just getting a divorce. Maybe I watch too many true crime videos.
Charlotte doing her 'move in the shadows' voice and pose is my new favorite thing. 😂😂
What kind of noise did she even make sounded like some kind of bird or Phoenix
@@santinoaguilar8601Definitely a pterodactyl lol
The "we move on the shadows" moment is AMAZING and why your channel is so entertaining and successful. Your chaotic energy is one of a kind ❤
I love how the “all rise for the honorable judge Charlotte. You may be seated,” has slowly evolved from comprehensible, to borderline turkey call.
I was married for the first time 46 years ago, and still feel a bit ticked that my husband to be had told his best man that he didn't want to go through it. The bestman talked him into it. He told me about this on iur honeymoon. Then around 12-13 the bestman and his wife (my husband's sister) broke up apparently because he was having an affair. So then my husband was positive I was having an affair, and we ended up divorced. The years I was married to that jerk were horrendous with much emotional abuse and financial abuse. It was awful. DO NOT EVER TALK SOMEONE INTO GETTING MARRIED WHEN THEY HAVE SERIOUS DOUBTS ON THEIR WEDDING DAY!!!!
to the bride in the first story u saved him the embarrassment, the unhinged me would of recoded it screenshotted the text went n made a speech with the screenshots n recording on the main screen to put him on blast. you handled it like a mature woman!
That 2nd story, these are the friends who become honorary Aunties/Uncles to our kids.
im INCREDIBLY thankful that i didnt have to "bounce" anybody from my bff's wedding as the POH (person of honor, cuz nonbinary lol) and STILL get to be godparent to her first dog XD
ALL, learn from my mother's wisdom:
"When in Doubt, DON'T!" It applies to so much.
Plus a fan-favorite, Maya Angelou: "When someone shows you who they are, believe them!"
Same from my mom haha!
@19:33 I’m crying 😂
me too😂😂
You and me both! That needs to be a gif! 🤣😂🤣
I love it
Not me seeing this comment n knowing exactly what you were referring to😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The dinosaur sounding screech 😂 💀
Get the wedding annulled!!!! His behavior is going to continue throughout your marriage, and it's definitely NOT a situation that you want to bring children into!
He is nothing more than a piece of emotionally stunted garbage. There is literally no point in being with him.
Oh, honey - im of the older generation (65 yrs old) and I would NEVER recommend she try to "work it out." Nevah, evah, evah. If he did THIS to my daughter or granddaughter, i would want to kick his tail every day but Sunday, and I would let him rest up so, I could start again worse on Monday. Swear to God, he'd regret this crap.
Interestingly, when I was younger, I'd have tolerated this likely - and did tolerate this kind of nonsense - WAY too much. Now, I know better. No amount of money spent on a wedding is worth staying in a relationship like this. Having doubts is one thing. Him f-ing around on this lovely young lady is something else entirely. She can have a much better life after she's moved on.
I'm 61 and you just informed me that I am of the "older generation".🤣🤣🤣
@mycreativeheart4159 Yeah, and what's worse, if your kids aren't being a 'ho, you probably were one. Being in your 60s & older means you were "dating" post-Pill & pre-AIDS. Why the rates of STDs are rising in retirement villages & homes.😂😂😂
I’m in my 50s, and I’ve noticed a growing lack of tolerance for disrespectful behavior.
I’ve also noticed my daughters are far less likely tolerant of disrespect than I was at their age.
Wow the story about checking his phone, finding such intimate messages with someone else...that punch in the gut.... I hate for anyone else to go through it... so sad ... I think alot of us understand... unfortunately... just remember things always fall apart before they come together in beautiful and unexpected ways ❤
I would sue the husband for all of the expenses, emotional damage and make him pay for the therapy sessions to heal from such betrayal and disrespect. And the woman who he was going to cheat with will have karma dealing with them both
Man, pushing homegirl into a fountain made the bride say "NOW, YOU ARE MY RIDE OR DIE!!!"
21:39 lol I can’t stop laughing at the chosen hand gesture for “my babies are learning” 🤣 ….. to tidddddddy grab.
Got my flowers from the local grocery store. Not expensive, absolutely beautiful and they were so helpful. Saved thousands by not going to a specialised florist.
We did something very similar. No regrets
We did the same. They did our cake as well. And they were beautiful.
A friend of mine grew the flowers for their wedding as their Master Gardener final project and the arrangements were STUNNING
Got mine from the grocery store. Way cheaper & just as nice.
The turkey sound completes it for me. Thank you for bringing it back 🤣
When you stopped doing it, it was like someone singing ba da ba ba baaaaa and then not saying “I’m loving it” afterwards. Killed me inside.
OMG the move the the shadows pan!!! Utter perfection, I love Charlotte AND the editors!!!
That entire move in the shadows sequence captures so much of what I love about Charlotte. I'm a Dobreman for lifer!!!!!
Also Charlotte's denim vest looks sooo good on her! That color pops out so sweetly against her warm skin & hair! Makes me happy like a picnic 🍓
that first story just reminds me of myself lmao 😭😭 my therapist tells me constantly that, you do NOT NEED A REASON NOR PERMISSION to leave a relationship if you are unhappy. your happiness is enough. you do not need a reason nor need to explain yourself or worry about everybody else's emotions.
you were not wrong bestie!!!! run like a pretty horsie through the fields of italy if that is what you feel!!!! much love to all us recovering people pleasers 🥲🫶🏻
Your makeup is on point in this one! Love the eyelashes🤩🤩
After I broke the engagement off with my ex he stated he felt that I would break it off, which is why he wanted the two bedroom apartment we shared at the time.
I replied with "then why would you ask me to marry you"
He said exactly this shit in first story
"I thought it was the right thing to do. I was under pressure by your parents."
Not because he loved me.
Broke my heart.
We were together for nearly 5 years.
Charlotte rolling from one side of the camera’s view to the other wile striking a gremlin pose all in in dimmed lighting sent me so much I felt compelled to watch it 2x, as it was the only way to register what I was seeing
The first story - I’m engaged myself and imo if you’re unsure about your partner, sometimes you just choose to choose them. We can never know everything the future holds for us. It’s not what everyone dreams of, but it can be a very good thing and allow you to build the love you want. Sadly, that’s not what he did at all. She deserves so much better, and I’m sure she will find it.
I am older generation, and I’d have stayed long enough to find someone who would take care of getting that marriage license (so it couldn’t be filed) and announcing the groom was a cheater, while I snuck off.
‘Never let them see you cry,’ is one of my mottoes.
Yep. The license had not been filed. RIP it up and walk away.
Hopefully. Although in many places, people often obtain the marriage certificate before the wedding, like where I live.
@@dragonfliesnh4204 Good point. The US is a little weird.
In any case, stopping the marriage from becoming legal is a whole lot easier than undoing it.
@@MrsWheezer I agree so much! In the US each state does things differently and the process isn't all the same. Where I live people can get the paperwork submitted before and after the wedding, depending on what the couple wants to do. Some never even have a wedding. As we know, things greatly vary around the world too but it's interesting when things also vary within a country itself, like the US.
A brief reminder to those saying that the first bride should stay with the husband and work it out:
*Drunk thoughts are not spontaneous thoughts.* 90% of the time, Drunk thoughts are your thoughts without a filter.
Don't make excuses for a man that has a mouth and could have had this entire conversation 5 years ago.
the thoughts are not the issue, the past cheating and plans to continue.... weren't done while drunk and even if they were, makes no difference.
either you are willing to be cheated on, or you are willing to send a cheater away. there is nothing to work out.
I think comedian Gabriel Iglesias has a funny set where he talks about how he met his current wife, they did vodka/tequila shots and learned everything about each other right away (at least per the joke). Seeing how your partner acts when drunk or when really angry is a great way to see who they really are quickly.
I think the drunk thought would deserve a conversation. Maybe not staying together after, but a honest conversation first. The cheating deletes the need for that conversation
@@irina-ty1336 yeah... 100%. hard to let that go....
There is a saying that the only people who tell the real honest truth are children and drunk people
I’m living for these besties. I’ve never really been apart of a wedding besides a guest so if drama happened I guess I didn’t notice but I would be so taking a seat at the front for any of these situations with popcorn.
I just can't even imagine not being 100% invested before getting married. You shouldn't "Grow to love" your love should just grow.
Marriage shouldn't be for any other reason than not being able to stand the thought of being without the person you love
he was using her to create an image. he got married to look like he was a stable guy even though secretly he was sketchy guy.
it was intentional. he was setting her up for a lifetime of being window dressing in an empty marriage.
some people are selfish, so they do selfish things.
@@theoverunderthinker Narcissist is the word you're looking for. Sociopath works too.
@@goldengryphon I think, in general, we pathologize too much that isn't illness.
I think if I wanted to use a specific word, I would go for something like "grifter" based upon his actions, which we can see, and not whether the deficiency is mental, emotional or moral.
he could be any or all of those things, but we don't see that much of his thinking or words in this so I think hard to tell.
by the way, I agree with the OP, it's just I think the guy in the story doesn't.
the op is 100% correct. the guy in the story has lost his way (or chose the wrong way)
The MIL pushed the bridesmaid first and she just responded. I just don’t understand MIL’s that want to be a bride at their kids weddings. It’s just pathetic.
Btw, I’m loving watching these videos and thinking about Charlotte and Mike’s future wedding. I am so happy for you both.❤
They can argue appropriate force
Not to mention very Lanister like...ew
they miss the spotlight. it is a sickness!
@@brittanyloggins6514 🤣🤢😅
@@hoddy1368 It’s essentially their word against the other’s. It will be witnesses for each and as long as there are no visible injuries… it’s basically she said, she said…
We always move in the shadows 😂 that was the very best part of any video ever made on this whole earth.
To know that they’re people walking around earth thinking that “it’s okaaaaaaaaaay to cheat, dismiss a partner’s feelings, and get as many chances simply because we all make mistakes” is beyooooooooond me.
Matter of fact that kind of thinking shows that a person truly lacks any sense of emotional maturity 🤦🏼♀️
The amount of people that rather stay in relationships just so they’re not alone and labeled single is sad AF.
What an aaaawful way to live 💔
On the subject of wedding flowers - yes they cost an absolute arm and a leg!! And they only last a couple days - we bought true feel faux flowers and I made the bouquets/table bunches and 2 years later I still have my beautiful bouquet, the bridesmaids still have theirs and I even had one my mum could keep in the end! I told the guests that they could take the table bunches too! Loved it! And it was all less than £400!!
Communication, communication, communication. I have neglected communication during my two marriages, just because I did not want to seem selfish or touchy about things. My first marriage was unsalvageable, but I fixed myself and my marriage is soooooo much better now!! Communicate, communicate, communicate....!!!
For the first story - Girl - dont go back… if he can gaslight you after this, you are setting yourself up to a lige of fearfulleness, walking on eggshells, being made to feel that you did something to deserve this or that you are the reason why he did x, y or z… and if he is really good at this, he will make you feel at times that you are the center of his world, that the rest are beneath you and you are above all these other things, and that he having to “get validation”, “make mistakes”, “learn and grow”.. but he can only do it with your love and support, only like that can he before a better man… and yes, speaking from experience. not a life-time, but 15 years… don’t go back, no matter what reason he gives. if he truely findes that he loves you and he os truely sorry, then he will spend years proving that.. not days or weeks…listen to your body, how your core feels… it will tell you. walk away head helt high. ❤
The "moving in the shadows" bit in here was GOLD 😂❤❤
...And silver & sparkles with mega fireworks! :)
17:34 that laugh is my favourite
An Irish goodbye in this situation and context was the classiest option considering all the betrayal that she discovered on one of the most important days of her life!! Messy would be the ring of fire, created by the flaming piles of as many of his personal belongings I could get my hands with such short notice, encapsulating his vehicle in the parking lot. That would be just the beginning of a very messy public display. That kind of messy would actually be apropos, a degree of tacky to match his. She definitely took the high road in my opinion, one that not many in the heat of an intensely emotional moment that most are not capable of. She's the epitomy of a lady, NOT the ahole!! He already has that title. She has the crown!!!
I'M GAGGED.
The editing (about MIL in white dress) when you say 'glad she's not hurt' while rolling your eyes ... hunny, you're glad she got what she deserved, and so are we!
I love that “All rise for the honorable judge Charlotte” has just devolved into turkey noises.
Your laugh and smile is so contagious. Laughing out loud at work and people looking at me like I'm crazy 😂 love the turkey gobbles too
Raise of hands, who _loves_ when Charlotte guesses the endings, because it's hilarious how she gets it right! Every time!
girl, in the 1st story handled it better than I would have. I would have taken the phone gone out to the DJ asked for the mic got everyones attention, started reading the texts, then tell everyone what I over heard between him and the best man, then proceed to call the homewrecker while on mic advising her that I would like to personally and graciously thank her for the congratulatory text but also tell her that this will be the only day he will be married and that she would be able to have my sloppy 2nds as I would be seeking an anullment and letting her know that what she did was not a flex but in fact shows the level of desperation she has stooped to just to try to get a man any man at any costs even if its at the cost of her own selfworth, and reputation. Dropped the mic and walked out!
And that's how you do it 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Nice! That works!
PETTY POTATO ARMY ASSEMBLE!!!!!!!!!!!
Yes ma’-am!!!
WE RIDE AT DAWWWWNNNNN
Here!!
Yee-haw
🥔 🗡️🛡️
I think, because she said the MIL pushed her first in the second story, it's technically classified as self-defense, especially since the Bridesmaid was there, and can testify if the MIL tries to report it. By the way, I love your videos, keep doing your best!
As a gay dude, it’s honestly a relief that my family has zero expectations about me having a big wedding. Ever since I started watching Charlotte I’ve been truly grateful to be gay in a new way, lol. Plus I just don’t understand about spending all that money on a one day affair. Put a deposit on a friggin home with it!
Same❤
In my country you can be legally married as a gay couple and have a big wedding too.
Many (catholic) priests won't even refuse you getting married in church either.
@@flitsertheo you can get married in the US too. Even in Alabama, lol. I just don’t have that wedding gene, I guess.
Why not both? Better yet one of you should already own a home… 🤷🏽♀️
@@Jamietheroadrunnerbut here in the US you have to be worried about being harassed the entire time about being who you are, and more likely be turned away for daring to not be straight. I’m gay myself and the this country is going, Europe seems like a better option. You now just have to worry about being stabbed instead of shot.
My ex-fiancee and I were together for 8 years. He also told his best friend that he proposed because "it was the right thing to do". I bought my dress, we had been making payments on the venue for 6 months, I was JUST about to send the invitations when he asked to "postpone". Yes, he could have stopped it way earlier...but at least he didn't GO THROUGH with it.
Your voice is so great! I feel your passion for helping others make decisions. ADHD with me is procrastinating and not starting because I don't see a final outcome with my path. You motivate with your kindness. Thank you for being my nudge forward.
“I’m not psychic. People are just predictable.” Yeah
This should be on a T shirt.
Ohhhh! I'm so gonna make me one! 😂
Fountain story: the lady pushed the moh first, therefore, no lawsuit as it was self defense.
*THANK YOU!!!* I was wondering if people who were getting on the OPs case missed that part. MIL pushed OP first! It was self-defense at that point.
Exactly. That is what I came to say.
Besides that, water probably won't damage the dress while wine certainly will.
I literally just said because i couldn't find anyone else that said it 🤣
@@CanyonALynn did somebody get on the OP's case? weird. seemed pretty straight forward to me. in fact, seemed like it was overdue.
I love the red wine idea because it's anonymous as well as accidental. The B who wears white can think she's gotten away with it for quite a while this way, until that moment when it becomes clear that they have FAFO'd. Not knowing who did it leaves them feeling vulnerable enough to think twice. At least, that is what I would hope.
The last bride ending up with the other woman is actual gold. Karma is a biiiiiitch.
I don’t think they ended up in a relationship together, they simply went together on the trip that was planned as the honeymoon.
@@s.a.4358Well, we won't know for sure I suppose.
I thought it meant they're together but it doesn't matter, at least they formed a close bond!
This isn't just a react channel we get a full on improvisational entertainment show that makes me laugh so hard every week. Cue Charlotte spinning in low light, in her chair with puppet master movements saying (in a creepy voice) you moved in the shadows with a Jurassic Park style screech while moving out of frame. Thanks for all the great core workouts!