Handkerchief Vs Pocket Square | Difference Between Handkerchiefs & Men's Pocketsquares
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They all leveraged the stylish power of a handkerchief or pocket square.
In today’s article I’m going to explain to you the major differences between a handkerchief and a pocket square.
A lot of the confusion surrounding the pocket square vs. handkerchief debate is actually the fault of style experts. We tend to use the terms interchangeably, but there is most definitely a difference.
The rule of thumb is:
One’s for show and one’s to blow.
Anyone want to guess?
If you’re struggling, don’t despair:
The pocket square is for show and belongs in your jacket breast pocket.
The handkerchief is for show and goes in your back or front pants pocket or inside your jacket lower pockets/inside pockets.
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Love the video! My grandfather ALWAYS had a handkerchief on him, and a drawer full of them neatly folded. I never paid much attention to it, then a few months ago I ran across a package of them in a shop and grabbed them cause they reminded me of Gramps. Since that day I have come to fully understand why the people that carry them, swear by them. Time and time again I find that grandpa was always right when it comes to 'manly' things. ;) I never leave home without one. Think I'll have some monogrammed and see if I like that.
That's a cute story 😊
Greetings from Ukraine Antonio.
Regarding Pocket Squares/Handkerchiefs I would as well suggest to spray it with you favourite perfume or cologne. Actually that's what gentlemen used to do in the past, cover they nose as walking through the stinking streets of the cities. You can use some long lasting perfumes for the pocket square and ligth colognes for handkerchiefs. As well when I travel I really like to spritz with light cologne the handkerchief and fold it into the luggage. So when I arrive to destination my clothes got a nice fresh smell.
Nick Yatsenko Thanks for the suggestion - appreciate it! Cheers Ukraine :)
+Nick Yatsenko Hmm... good tip.
Damn, that is a great tip!
Amazing idea. I will be incorporating this idea into my hankercheif routine.
Just wanted to share what I think is the best reason to carry a handkerchief is to lend it to your lady.
You let her keep it.
Don’t lend it.
What, even if you have just used it?
My how things have changed. Men used to wear monogram handkerchief that you call pocket squares. They did carry a handkerchief for themselves but many of time if a lady was crying or needed a handkerchief it was the monogram one they gave her and from their pocket that could be seen. I remember them well. I came from San Francisco and a well dressed man always had one. If you couldn't have your shirts monogram at lease your handkerchiefs were.
+Bless Battens That's true!
handkerchiefs are lovely because you can offer one to someone if they are crying which is a really sweet thing to do :)
what if the handkerchief has snot tho
Yes. So romantic to let a distressed person wipe your snot on their face. Lol
My father just passed down a monogrammed set of handkerchiefs to me that he's never used, and after watching this video, I'm even more excited to start using them!
For me, the handkerchief is for sweat. Tissue for snot. That simple :). Clearly a personal preference, but I would hate to wipe my brow after having used it for anything other than sweat.
Jim D Agreed.
Jim D all my pocket squares and hankies are silk, can't really put any human fluids near them.
As a 16 yo going to prom this Chanel is a life saver because I know nothing about this stuff
I didn't hear him say anything about men's fragrances.
I caught a bad cold 2 months ago when the weather changed. And throughout the cold I used a 5 pack of handkerchiefs in rotation. It saved my runny nose for sure!
I picked up one of the TSHU handkerchiefs. They truly are wonderful! I actually bought another for a good friend who would waste money on all of the cheap ones that are honestly no good and he loves it. Thank you for the recommendation!
Excellent presentation, both visually and for the information contained.
I got my first handkerchief along side my custom shirt and it looks nice
I am 19 and I use handkerchief
(I dont care what other think)
Zaid Md well I am 15 and have one.
Congratulations
Great video, the only time I had been told the difference besides this was by a friend's father. I fully agree with using handkerchiefs, they only get better with time, and are great when I am outdoors all day working. I myself have five or six, but am still lacking a true pocket square.
gondiamond Well go get one :)
I use handkerchiefs because my grandpa did. It turns out I prefer them too because they hold up and don't turn my nose raw during cold seasons.
I am just starting to wear a pocket square. But always have carried a hanky. When I go to an event/gathering such as a wedding or funeral I will carry a hanky for my nose and also carry a well ironed hanky for someone that needs some maintenance during a good cry. That would be offered to a lady that needs help and is embarrassed for her situation of tears and her runny nose. If she keeps it fine if she gives it back fine. Several times the lady would keep it wash and iron it and return it to me. It is just the gentlemanly thing to do. Plus the word will get out that I am a gentleman.
That's so sweet 😍 Mens are not gentleman anymore I guess coz i've never seen that.... 🙄
Last month I stumbled across an old boys size hankie with a light purple striped border. It was in a box of stuff from the late 1960s. I washed it and am now using it to clean my eyeglasses. It works as good as new.
Antonio,
I have been following your channel for about a year, and you have helped me to improve my overall style, especially since my career has really taken off since graduating from MBA school at Texas A&M. I've recently began upgrading my shoes and have begun to recognize that many quality shoes companies are based out of foreign countries, such as England. For example, I've recently been shopping for chukka boots and noticed on the style forum that people recommend the Loake 1880 Pimlico or Loake Kempton. How do you go about shopping for shoes from companies based overseas and get the right fit in order to avoid having to return the shoes over and over and incurring horrendous shipping costs.
In addition, Paul Evans seems to be a great company, how can one ensure that the shoes will stand up over time (most shoes are beautiful when you first buy them and no reviews exist from people who have worn the Evans over a year) especially ones from a startup company? In other words, how can I tell that the leather quality and sole will be strong and durable over time from the moment of purchase assuming proper care? Thanks again!
Jason Lee I personally own 7 pairs of their high quality shoes to include a pair of beautifully crafted wingtip dress shoes. Low quality footwear is held together with glue and made with cheap raw materials such as cardboard and paper that does not age well. You can save money in the long term by buying more expensive shoes that last for decades.
Always love your videos, and pleased and surprised that the Americans are still using handkerchiefs - I had thought from my Canadian relatives that it was only us archaic Brits that still perpetuated them. Agree with the elderly Ukranian gentleman that old is better - hankies need to be soft and pliable, and a new one has too much starch/stiffener; they need to be 'broken in.' Some of mine must be 40 years old :)
Peripatetic45 absolutely - still using it and it's very useful
Handkerchief is a must in Asia
I always carry a handkerchief, my hands sweat a lot and I can't stand shaking hands or writing without them being dry.
PS: that's a beautiful picture, you two look great!, and I laughed with the little story, picturing the woman trying to cover her head with paper is hilarious!
Jimmy Matanza haha :)
If you like to be a provider and a protector, It is classy to carry 2 handkerchiefs; one in your inner jacket pocket and one in your slacks’ pocket. One is to offer to the woman, one is for you. I wish this habit would come back; it is very sexy and comforting.
I know this is a place for men to learn more about being well dressed, etc. It would be nice if you recognized many women watch to learn things to help the men they love. The closing statement could be reflective of that.
+1 Susan. I'm a girl too 👌 You're right thé double handkerchief's habit is sexy it's so gentleman
Thanks for the info! Gonna get one soon!
I knew there were differences and that a pocket square was for decoration where as a handkerchief was for use. I didn't know what the differences in the build were or that you didn't put the Handkerchief in the same place! Good information here!
Steven Butler glad it helped!
Great video! Just what I needed to learn as I make my first complete suit. Cheers!
Hey! Is that the dark knot tie from the second set you're giving away on facebook? great video, Antonio!
That green blazer your wearing is the bizness my friend 👍🏾👌🏾
Thanks for the video - I have recently gotten into cotton hankies,and was thus led to your video. The info i need is how to properly fold and use a pocket hanky. I think every dad used to teach his sons the right way - don't know where to get that info now...
Gs Wovoka That's for another video :)
Hello, Antonio,
I've seen men (more than once in 007 movies, for instance) take their pocket squares out of their pockets and use it as a handkerchief. Isn't a cotton pocket square and a handkerchief the same thing? Isn't there an overlap among what is called a pocket square and a handkershief?
Thanks.
+Matheus Seidel The pocket square is for show and belongs in your jacket breast pocket and the handkerchief is for blow and goes in your back or front pants pocket or inside your jacket lower pockets/inside pockets.
I had no idea what a pocket square was. But I grew up with handkerchieves. I don't leave the house without a handkerchief.
I think as ties fall out of fashion, pockets squares are going to be the go to way to add some color and pattern to an outfit.
Great video I've also got some old Handkerchiefs which I only use at home. I've got an off topic question: I'm in college and I kinda want to update my school outfit from pretty casual mostly jeans sneakers and very casual shirts but I don't want to look "overdressed" if there is such a thing. When I go out on the weekend I still like to dress up wearing blazers chinos and some nice dress shoes/ boots.
Philippe Bucher This article should help: www.realmenrealstyle.com/career-wardrobes-the-undergraduate-student/
Great video :)
+MrsDVK Thanks!
the head covering was a cool lil side story
I often forget to have tissues on me, plus small bags of tissues just don't feel comfortable to carry in your pockets. A handkerchief is easy to carry, looks good in your breast pocket, and can be re-used again and again.
Shawn Long Yes it is!
Thanks
I don’t remember a time my father didn’t have a handkerchief on him. He had good ones for work and going out and he used his older ones for weekends and at home. They last forever. Now there is a trend, which my daughter followed, where girls are carrying a loved one who has passed handkerchief on their wedding day. My father had already passed and he and my daughter were very close. She carried one of my father’s handkerchiefs in memory on her wedding. Some even have them sewn into their dresses. Just another use for the handkerchief.
do you know what??
when ever i am in any doubt about suit/blazer i always find solution in your videos.
thank you
You're welcome.Glad my videos helped.
is it fine to use pocket square while i go for an interview/business meeting/normal office day?
+Real Men Real Style ive always liked dressing Sharply , but never knew how to properly do it , and your videos are helping me figure it out :)
+Ethan Koepp glad it helped - thanks for watching my videos :)
Hi Antonio, whats up with that power clash attempt? :)
Nice tie Antonio
I always have a handkerchief in my back pocket. It's a lifesaver if you have allergies like you said.
Hey, Antonio! Great video! One question, though: is it ok to use a handkerchief in the breast pocket?
I think that's what Don Draper does on Mad Men, whereas Roger Sterling always has a fancily folded pocket square. It ends up being a small detail that perfectly characterizes both men (that's why it's such a great show). By the way, doesn't a handkerchief provides a more professional appearance? Let's say a young man is going for a job interview in a conservative environment (such as a law firm). Couldn't a pocket square, such as the one you're wearing, present a less serious image?
Thanks!
LucasAmericano Their squares have a tag-team effect on clients. It's subtle, but deliberate. Sterling's job is to butter the clients up, and his more open square gives a more relaxing and open signal to the clients. Draper is a closer - so his is more conservative; this show the clients that the firm also is professional and not rash. Hehe, also love the show.
Antonio, besides the pocket square pocket, should I leave the pockets on a sports jacket sown up or do I open them up?
So, I've been carrying a bona fide handkerchief now, two of them at a time, as a matter of fact, tucked safely in my right breast coat pocket, for six or eight months now, with the almost sole intention of having them available to give away when encountering a lady in distress.
In those six months, I've offered a handkerchief to a lady three times, twice to have it accepted unthinkingly and instantly, and a single time to have it declined. Both of the times it was accepted, each lady thanked more profusely, and made a reference to how pleasant it was to receive such an act of kindness. That made me feel pretty darn good.
I carry two so that i have one available to me, to use for wiping a sweaty brow or catching a sneeze or cleaning my glasses, while still having the other clean to give away.
wdwrxco nice!
That's cute 😍
I’m going to have to recommend my fiancé to you channel lol.
I use the hanky cause my grandfather always used one when he was around. I like the nostalgia of it. Wife hates it though cause there may be snot in it 😆
Can you use pocket squares to clean your phone screen or glasses?
Or is that not good for the fabric/too inconvenient to put it back?
Thanks :)
Just a quick question: what about linen? Sometimes I saw it on handkerchiefs and pocket square. Sometimes they even come in pure white that I confuse them oftentimes. Is the size determines which one is handkerchief or pocket square? Thank you for advice.
What are your thoughts between a pocket square or a boutonniere? Is it appropriate to wear both at the same time?
Which colour suit should I buy for my farewell party
YOu should put this out to Macy's Dillards, JCPenny, etc., and make every salesperson WATCH IT! I was at a 'quality' clothing store recentlly looking for a new pocket square, boutonniere, etc., and the guy insisted they are the SAME.
cool! I live in Montreal!
***** nice!
why is your left jacket collar like that antonio?
25 years :o!
HonorFreeMusic I need to learn this langauge.....
Any tips on colour/patterns and styles of folding? I know some men (usually for formal occasions, typically in Britain) fold the pocket square so a triangle (sometimes two little 'horns') stick out of the pocket. And should the pocket square match the tie or is it its own entity?
+Xanatos712 Here you go: www.realmenrealstyle.com/pocket-square-infographic/
Dandy! Thanks for the guide.
Greetings from Ukraine. Surprised that you've been here.
So, how do you use a handkerchief?
You blow your nose, fold it and put it back in your pocket? How often do you wash it? What about whne you've got a runny nose and run out of "clean surface" on it?
JosephGallagher Wash after use (or when returning home - I use mine throughout the day multiple times). I rarely run out of clean surface.....
JosephGallagher you said exactly what I feel about it. Handkerchiefs sucks, & are really disgusting. They can only be used as antiques.
JosephGallagher well normally you have at least 10-20 handkerchiefs, so they aren't washed daily, more like once a week. I think of it like a socks or underwear, because you can't wear the same piece longer than one day, but it doesn't mean you have just one and you wash it every day.
useless name I hadn't though about them like thaat, that's a really good analogy. Thank you Useless :P
I know this question is a little off-topic, but should I use a pocket square only in dressier occasions? In other words, can I pull it off without a tie? Or is that a no-no? Thanks again for you help!
Dake Townsend Wear it anytime you wear a jacket - I love rocking it with a casual jacket and no tie.....
Dake Townsend Yes to wearing them all the time, I have a few ones for different jackets and they usually compliment the attire with or without a tie, since I take the latter as the "extra" accessory depending of the situation.
I’m impressed that you lived in Ukraine while you courted your wife and became friends with her family. I assume it was in the western Ukraine, I may ask, you how much Ukrainian do you learn?
handkerchief is replaced by tissues now but pocket squares are kinda fashion essential
+rana ehtisham Good point. But I still prefer handkerchiefs :)
In an emergency I ripped out a piece off my boxers looked fantastic 👌
Thing about pocket squares, same as with ties, hand roll makes all the difference, once you understand the difference, you wear nothing but, all machine edge pocket squares are reduced to dust cleaning duty.
What would measurements be? Does it matter if the pocket square is not silk but still a nice fashionable pattern and material?
Forget this comment. I see you’ve already made a video for it lol...
would a pocket square look fashionable in a dress shirt in lieu of a coat if you dont have one?
I've I always thought I dressed well, but I am wondering about your choices of patterns in your shirt, tie, pocket square and suit color. Nothing remotely matches let alone compliments the others. Is there some sort of mystery here we are to try unravel?
Is Tishu still around?
Would there any good time to take out the pocket square and use it?
Or is it really 101% for the show?
+Albert Diones This article should help: www.realmenrealstyle.com/handkerchief-or-pocket-square/
I like the silk pocket square in the video. Where to find?
***** Here you go: www.1tshu1tree.com/shop/
Is it O.K to wear a navy suit, a white shirt, a navy bow-tie and a light green pocket square?
Is Antonio's tie to shiny?
wish I could afford 1 or 2 of these.but these are low on priority list because my kids come first. these are pipe dream accessories for me.
I bent over for Tilley.
How about handkerchiefs made from linen?
Where do you buy your suits?
+Simon Mogenstrup Here you go: www.realmenrealstyle.com/resources/mens-stores/
Just a quick question, is Bandanas a handkerchief or a pocket square?
Tsaqib Al-Hasawi No.
Tsaqib Al-Hasawi No
actually m trying to make an waist coat of navy/denim clr and Arctic blue colors lining etc to give an balance of the colors but I dnt knw vl it look good on me or not cuz my skin tone is dark then other😞sad...m an fashion designing degree student frm Mumbai india
If it is well-designed, well-made and the colours are in good taste, it will look impressive on anyone. I wouldn't bother about trying to match the colours to your skin tone, though you will, of course, have a personal preference on the colours which you like to wear, anyway.
Good luck!
Just a technical/style question; is your video reversed or do you wear your wedding band on your right hand?
Darkwingdave's Discussions No - I'm married to a Ukrainian.
@4:55 You must have felt awesome in that moment
I got a box of 3 vintage 1960s handkerchiefs and I shant be blowing my nose on them. A hankercheif is for the forehead, corners of the mouth and to lend to ladies to dry their tears. THATS IT!
And I thought i'd seen it all....
I mean... can share how to wear navy blue waist coat...!! for girls who have Lil dark shade of color skin plz
+Monica Vanniyar Hey Monica - this should help: www.realmenrealstyle.com/men-color-contrast/
Sir is it necessary to have pocket square and tie of same colour. Plz tell
Never match your tie and pocket square
Thank you sir, yours suggestion means a lot to me.
No problem. I recommend matching your pocket square colour with the colour of your shirt for a nice contrast.
Sure sir.
We here in india only use handkerchiefs...never imagined using a tissue for blowing, tissue is for cleaning your hands
Bhavya Saran Interesting......
Should one get rid of buying a box of tissues for home?
And just keep a pile of hankies on the coffee table instead?
Son of a Zombie I can only speak for myself and say that as a guest I would be reluctant to use my host's "linen" to blow my nose into. It would seem odd to do that. Just leave a box of the finest tissues out for your guests and provide yourself and your family with the best hankies that you can afford. Also, the ladies might prefer tissues for make - up and lipstick applications. Leave a box of tissues in the "powder room". You'll still greatly cut down on your paper consumption. Especially during Allergy Season.
William Albert solid tips!
I can get 5x Handkerchief for the same price as a single Pocket Square. Can I just use a Handkerchief as a pocket square?
+TheLastPixel Here's my take on it - www.realmenrealstyle.com/handkerchief-or-pocket-square/
I buy have-a-hank handkerchiefs they are %100 cotton and cost 75 cents
jonathan Jaffe great to hear
Only in America does this need to be explained
Illegals? Sure thing Magaboy
I seriously doubt that.
@Dave Allen not in Maine. Not agreeing with your opinion, but if you want your racial paradise come up to the tri state area of Maine Vermont and New Hampshire. Its 98.6 percent western European descent.
Thanks! I mean for using the phrase"At the end of the day" PROPERLY!! Not the way the fake Media people use it.
Did you really use a picture from the movie inglorious bastards to show someone using a handkerchief haha.
Tommy Gannon *Basterds
I hate tissues. They turn up in the wash no matter how carefully you check your pockets. Handkerchiefs and bandanas are so much more pleasant to use.Besides, washing your hands is the only way to be sanitary after blowing your nose. I don't think I have ever worn a pocket square with a suite before. I'll keep an eye peeled for a simple white one the next time I pass through a clothing store. They break up the symmetry a little and will make you stand out in a good way from the crowd.
William Albert point taken!
i use tissues to blow my nose, but I still use handkerchief to clean my glasses ....
Is they say you can't use a pocket square for practical issues it's because they haven't saw Hannibal Lecter on action xd
Hmmm I prefer a bandanna in the back pocket... Who needs a handkerchief when you have a bandanna..
+flashdamingo I used to tie a bandanna by the corner on my left belt loop, hanging freely and easily accessible whenever I needed to dry my hands, clean my glasses or anything else. Haven't worn it in a while though due to my current styles of dress.
wht abt the reAL GIRLZ>?
+Monica Vanniyar ???
Though i have question And very good one . Handkerchief are much better when is made out of 100% pima cotton or 100% silk? Which one will do the job better for taking care of sweat not the nose let's leave that out just to dry your sweat? Where can I find handkerchief in solid red or blue color without patterns ? The bad about the silk is that you have to dry clean them and the 100% cotton you can just wash them. That's my opinion on the difference
your wife is such a beautiful lady
I often travel to Ukraine! Small world huh?
+Ben Watson cool! yes it is
Pretty sure this guy ran for president in some tiny unknown country and lost. Just that kinda vibe.
Pocket square is absolutely useless as it’s just decor. The handkerchief is extremely versatile and useful. Tissues are wasteful and non-eco friendly