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  • @estibalizprice
    @estibalizprice 10 місяців тому +22

    I truly enjoy these videos. I started following you when my first was born, she’s 10!!. I love to see how happy you are. You and Luca are blessed to have a wonderful relationship. You’re parents are gems. I love your family dynamic. Thank you for taking us on this journey with you❤ Have a wonderful weekend.

  • @justjo6305
    @justjo6305 9 місяців тому +1

    I think leaving for your child is sometimes the only strength you have left. Life is beautiful when you become free

  • @lanabanana4752
    @lanabanana4752 10 місяців тому +7

    Mel I’m so proud of you, we all need a big sister like you. ❤

  • @julia_gy
    @julia_gy 10 місяців тому +7

    I'm truly truly happy for you, Mel! Hearing you say you're fulfilled and happy with your life and career made me genuinely smile! You're such a strong beautiful woman! Luca is so blessed to have you as her momma! I've got to say, you inspire me on so many levels! Thank you for being so honest and generous! ❤❤❤

  • @anjeliquep
    @anjeliquep 10 місяців тому +3

    I’m so happy for you that your living your dreams. Your such a great mother to Luca and it’s been amazing to see you open up and grow.

  • @deekofri7262
    @deekofri7262 10 місяців тому +6

    So kind and generous of you to offer help to women who are struggling to leave relationships 🙏🏾 highly impressed ❤

  • @nikipalie
    @nikipalie 10 місяців тому +5

    I hate connecting over similar traumatic, and sad situations. But you have given me so much hope for what’s to come by choosing myself. And like always, I feel my heart connected to yours. Thank you for this video, and being so vulnerable. All my love ❤

  • @melisa1124
    @melisa1124 10 місяців тому +4

    Not sure why this made me cry. I have been watching you for so long and I didn’t know that you was unhappy. So happy to see you finally being happy ❤

  • @johannasuarez908
    @johannasuarez908 10 місяців тому +1

    I’m so happy you have found your peace and joy. One of my best friends is going through a similar situation where she chose her daughter’s well-being and in turn she too is happy. Continued blessings and love!

  • @girlinthecity6075
    @girlinthecity6075 10 місяців тому +1

    Absolutely loved this Mel, such an honest and wholesome talk, wow you’re really inspiring.

  • @sabriprinces4195
    @sabriprinces4195 10 місяців тому +3

    Omg love this video! You sound so healthy and happy is so beautiful to see... you are a great example for Luca 🥰

  • @sophiaflores4672
    @sophiaflores4672 10 місяців тому +1

    Ive been following you for years around 8-9 years and ive loved your journey and content but i have to stay this is the time ive felt the most connected to you… the most sincere (im not sure im explaining it well) the most real.
    You look and most importantly sound happy … ❤❤❤

  • @MegaDidi09
    @MegaDidi09 10 місяців тому

    I’ve missed your videos so much Mel! Thank you so much for taking the time to share ♥️♥️♥️

  • @comrademax660
    @comrademax660 10 місяців тому

    you are so brave and I love how happy and glowing you look. So happy for you!

  • @rafft.2857
    @rafft.2857 10 місяців тому

    Loved this video! Thank you for sharing! I feel so invested as a follower after 10 years, and I’m so happy that you’re living your best life! I wish nothing but the best for you and Luca🥰❤️🙏🏻

  • @AznBaabe
    @AznBaabe 10 місяців тому +2

    Your glowing smile is what "seeing the light at the end of the tunnel" looks like. Je le vois, je le ressens & je suis genuinely fckg contente pour toi et Luca🩷 J'ai vraiment aimé ce Q&A's, we all can resonate or learn from you & its something that I, personnellement, do NOT take with a grain of salt. Thank you so much & hope to see more of it✨️

  • @nancysoto3577
    @nancysoto3577 10 місяців тому

    I love these videos Mel! Thank you for your raw honesty thoughts and openness. It’s not easy to talk about what you’ve been through but I know exactly what you mean. I’m happy that you found your path and that you are living your most authentic self… so proud of you momma! You are such a good role model for us. Love from your Californian sister!!!

  • @meb6924
    @meb6924 10 місяців тому

    Thank you for you’re beautiful energy ❤ always happy when there’s a new video available 🎉

  • @kathleensherman5718
    @kathleensherman5718 10 місяців тому +2

    I literally stopped what I was doing and sat to watch this video as it was the most relatable and real talk from a person I consider a dear friend. We never met but you and Luca mean a lot to all of us and especially me❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @melissahermoso8234
    @melissahermoso8234 10 місяців тому

    Loving these. Appreciate you sharing. Thanks for all you do!!❤

  • @beachysands4036
    @beachysands4036 10 місяців тому +4

    This is an example of the best of social media and it’s power. Women sharing, lifting up, supporting, and mentoring other women. You’re awesome babe. 🫶🫶

  • @vruelxellenota
    @vruelxellenota 10 місяців тому

    Yesss once a month rendez-vous! 🎉

  • @Heykatierose
    @Heykatierose 10 місяців тому

    Hi Mel, long time subscriber here ☺️ you are so open and gracious. Thank you for your sincerity and genuine spirit! Love your videos.

  • @melissapowers4780
    @melissapowers4780 10 місяців тому

    Been a long time watching and you can really tell you’re happy and in a better place.

  • @lolipena8051
    @lolipena8051 10 місяців тому

    omg Mel, i got teary-eyed when you were talking about D, im dealing with similar and lack of strength. each time i do get it, there is a roadblock. im so happy for you and admire your strength. you do look happier and like a huge weight has lifted off your shoulders. wishing you and luca the best

  • @elizabethm3600
    @elizabethm3600 10 місяців тому +2

    Hi Mel! I’m with you! I bit the bullet and purchased my ultimate Birkin 30 in exactly what hardware and leather that I wanted because I refused to play the game. The bag is epic and in perfect condition and I’m in the process of selling several designer bags that are now deemed irrelevant because I have my dream bag!
    Congrats girl!!! 🖤🖤🖤

  • @lore.35
    @lore.35 10 місяців тому +1

    When you tear up 🥹 got me going ❤

  • @ms_oconor2656
    @ms_oconor2656 10 місяців тому

    You’re so strong Melissa thank you for sharing ❤

  • @deetee7652
    @deetee7652 10 місяців тому

    I appreciate your vulnerability and honesty. Good for you to stand up for yourself and put your daughter first.

  • @ilenenachbar4442
    @ilenenachbar4442 10 місяців тому

    Lovely, honest video! So happy that you are in such a great place ❤️ My mom used to say the exact same thing as yours about things taking twice as long for you. I’ve never heard anyone else talk about that.

  • @susanclarke431
    @susanclarke431 10 місяців тому

    Great to see you so happy and content .

  • @llnut4775
    @llnut4775 10 місяців тому +3

    I totally get it Mel… I was engaged prior to my marriage now, had a carat and a half diamond. Wanted the huge wedding, so glad I didn’t go through with it! I have an amazing husband & family now. You are glowing, happy for you!

  • @LisaLisaD1
    @LisaLisaD1 10 місяців тому

    Loved this, Melissa!! 💗 Lisa

  • @rainajop3316
    @rainajop3316 10 місяців тому

    Love these videos! Keep ‘em coming 😊

  • @angie_moments
    @angie_moments 10 місяців тому +2

    You are a strong confident woman and admittedly appreciate the work you have done through therapy. Great testimony to advocate fir therapy. Brava

  • @lisamariehernandez6207
    @lisamariehernandez6207 10 місяців тому

    One of your best videos to date I loved it !

  • @cassandrap956
    @cassandrap956 10 місяців тому

    Melissa, you are one in a million. Thank you for sharing your strength with us. This is the best thing I've ever seen on UA-cam (although I also really enjoy your vintage handbag content!)

  • @Rachelleluluful
    @Rachelleluluful 10 місяців тому

    Because of you, I bought the MK Astor shoulder bag. I’m in love. The leather smells incredible. What a great suggestion. Thanks, Mel! 🥰

  • @colisa7
    @colisa7 10 місяців тому +1

    OMG, Love these videos!!! You are such an inspiration and I have witnessed your growth, I am an OG subscriber from wayyyy back and I see the change in you. You investing/choosing yourself and Luca is awesome. Loving this era of MelSol 💝. Proud of you!!
    I literally screamed when you answered my Instagram question, LOL!!!
    Btw, I live in Miami and I get what you are saying, I would not change it for the world!!

  • @dinakat9819
    @dinakat9819 10 місяців тому

    Thank you so much for sharing. I really loved this ❤, so happy for you.

  • @noemiehalle-ducasse9250
    @noemiehalle-ducasse9250 10 місяців тому +1

    I can absolutely relate to the feeling you're describing post-divorce. My ex and I separated almost 2 years ago and while we were together, I had sort of accepted the fact that I would never truly live the life I wanted to live. Since the separation, it really has felt like I am finally LIVING my life and still feels almost surreal at times!

  • @LVCoffeeLVer
    @LVCoffeeLVer 10 місяців тому

    Holy cow, 60k!? I’m with you, absolutely insane. I won’t push it on my kids either.
    Loved this ❤❤
    Replica - coffee break is my favorite!! They have all been on TJMAXX for $109.
    I HATED season one of and just like that but season 2 is great!! There are some things I can’t stand…like every way they have gone with Charlotte but the rest has been great

  • @1218Lindy
    @1218Lindy 10 місяців тому

    Love the video, yes once a month updates.

  • @catherinesvbialosh7260
    @catherinesvbialosh7260 10 місяців тому

    I finally got your notification…UA-cam was not giving me notifications when your videos were up… So happy I am here with you xox

  • @alliahmac
    @alliahmac 10 місяців тому

    Excited and proud of my fellow-woman❦

  • @olaola-qo3ll
    @olaola-qo3ll 10 місяців тому

    Mel….i feel you…Sending love

  • @michellefaiello3453
    @michellefaiello3453 10 місяців тому

    Hi Mel you had me in tears too ❤

  • @marya2062
    @marya2062 10 місяців тому

    Thank you, Melissa, for telling your story , I can identify with you so much. Awesome for extending your help that is so meaningful for me thank you again.😊

  • @TianaPeri
    @TianaPeri 10 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤ Mel, you’re AMAZING!!! xx

  • @shonawainwright8017
    @shonawainwright8017 10 місяців тому

    Would love to see an updated bag collection! xx

  • @M3l155a
    @M3l155a 10 місяців тому

    I truly love this woman💕

  • @user-bg9ws7ys4k
    @user-bg9ws7ys4k 10 місяців тому

    Melissa, that's an old world trick😅...glad you are utilising it! It works like magic 😊

  • @ladygagagagax4
    @ladygagagagax4 10 місяців тому

    sending lots of love Mel! Take care

  • @premeyumlife443
    @premeyumlife443 10 місяців тому

    Ur a strong woman my lady. Many many blessings to u & Luca. 🙏🏼❤️😘😘😘Sandy

  • @AP-qr5vy
    @AP-qr5vy 10 місяців тому +1

    Mel, what a wonderful video ❤❤❤

  • @yellowpadish
    @yellowpadish 10 місяців тому +1

    You are such a girl’s girl. Sending you and Luca hugs and kisses 💕

  • @mysa1745
    @mysa1745 10 місяців тому

    So wise, beautiful soul ❤

  • @Keannajacksonn
    @Keannajacksonn 10 місяців тому

    The end of the 15:24 got me! Mel, if I could hug you right now I would. I felt every single thing you were trying to articulate. If you are not in the process of or have gone through it, it is very hard to describe. The puddle of tears that welled up in your waterline said it all. I can't wait for us to finally meet in person one day. Maybe It will be Miami, my second home! Sending you so much love and light your way xoxoxo Keanna

  • @martinehuardguillemette6371
    @martinehuardguillemette6371 10 місяців тому +1

    Hi Mélissa! So happy for you to have reach content and found true love. You seem SO happy! 😊 Here is my handbag question : what do you think of Vivienne Westwood bags for fall/winter? Their are not alot of info on these bags. Thanks and congrats again

  • @reneehampton7665
    @reneehampton7665 10 місяців тому

    I would take the Trendy CC in black.

  • @laurariollano
    @laurariollano 10 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤ so happy for you

  • @cassandra2685
    @cassandra2685 10 місяців тому

    So beautiful
    You talk with your eyes Mel ❤

  • @saharnabi4899
    @saharnabi4899 10 місяців тому

    Omg I can’t wait to see the Uncle Studios dress on 😍

    • @MelissaSoldera
      @MelissaSoldera  10 місяців тому

      I posted it on IG!! It’s so good!!!

  • @michellefarquharson8592
    @michellefarquharson8592 10 місяців тому

    Choosing your daughter is the ultimate queen move!

  • @lfb08
    @lfb08 10 місяців тому

    I would love monthly Q&A’s

  • @patriciaquintela899
    @patriciaquintela899 8 місяців тому

    You made absolute sense to me. I fully identify.

  • @whattheelle360
    @whattheelle360 10 місяців тому

    Random but I got my eyebrows micro bladed because of you and I LOVE them!

  • @artsandbarts360
    @artsandbarts360 10 місяців тому

    Just wanted to tell you Melissa from an educator myself, how proud I am of your growth, honesty, humbleness and discussions.
    I’m certain that you have and or will help so many others in their life. ❤ THANK YOU ❣
    PS I am also catholic ✝and where I fully see your first marriage was not happy, god blessed you with your daughter, thank you for allowing her to be close to both families, as I see many children as an educator that suffer when parents do not do that 😞
    Lastly, …..I can tell you that my husband -soulmate-and I had a fabulous 500 person wedding, a beautiful diamond engagement ring he picked out special for me, a grand celebration and a Hawaii honeymoon, and our families and friends still say thank you to us today sooooo…..I fully understand where your mom was coming from bc when your daughter or son gets married, your family especially your parents are so proud of that🤗…..god bless🙏🏼

  • @valeriepoirier9537
    @valeriepoirier9537 10 місяців тому

    Tu rayonnes et sembles sur ton X. Merci pour cette grande ouverture et partage. Oui pour ce genre de vidéos plus souvent. 😘 xoxoxo

  • @emu9520
    @emu9520 10 місяців тому +1

    My wedding was my partner and I and both set of parents ...a Ted Baker dress that I loved and a really nice meal on our favourite restaurant. I was home on my couch by 5 pm😂. It was perfect

  • @mariaq8435
    @mariaq8435 10 місяців тому

    Hi Mel🙋🏼‍♀️great video❤️❤️❤️Luca is a sweetie pie 😊

  • @melissapowers4780
    @melissapowers4780 10 місяців тому

    I’m going to a wedding in Miami in January - any recos for restos. Also fashion suggestions? Maybe a wedding guest dress. Great video :)

  • @IsabelSmith705
    @IsabelSmith705 10 місяців тому

    Loved this video ❤ please give tips on getting up at 4am!!! 😴

    • @MelissaSoldera
      @MelissaSoldera  10 місяців тому +1

      Tbh I’ve always been an early riser but having Luca pushed me from 5 to 4

  • @kaylheecarroll3186
    @kaylheecarroll3186 10 місяців тому

    Great q and a video ❤😊

  • @sheilacarlislepyreneesmom
    @sheilacarlislepyreneesmom 10 місяців тому

    Great video❤

  • @pennypollard-jones4458
    @pennypollard-jones4458 10 місяців тому

    Love you girl thank yo for Sharing ❤.

  • @prv3115
    @prv3115 10 місяців тому

    I totally understand, but as someone that’s been divorced & in some failed relationships, I think it’s good to be open to meeting new ppl. Not cheating, of course, but staying open. I think you’re single until you’re married.

  • @lindasvenssonsmith4794
    @lindasvenssonsmith4794 10 місяців тому

    Talking about marriage me and my husband had a long weekend with our families and a few friends. Was the best wedding ever, bare foot on the beach in Spain. I never wanted a big marriage and I just had a very simple white dress. No one had ever seen a bride barefoot before lol. We also hung out by the beach , very relaxed and everyone loved it.

  • @marthajacob2191
    @marthajacob2191 10 місяців тому +5

    How is Cowpiggy? I haven’t seen the little guy in awhile 😺

  • @lifewithkristeni
    @lifewithkristeni 10 місяців тому +1

    I see you pulling a Carrie Bradshaw getting married at the courthouse 😊
    I had the big wedding too and if I could go back I would have just went to the courthouse and saved all that money.

  • @steph____
    @steph____ 10 місяців тому +1

    💯agree, my wedding was absolutely beautiful, but if I were to do it over l’d just do a small gathering with a handful of people. It was ridiculously expensive, 300 people I don’t even remember seeing, and went by in the blink of an eye. Such a waste!

  • @Dwightinho56
    @Dwightinho56 10 місяців тому

    Followed you from humble beginnings. Quite a journey you have been on. I am, unfortunately, about to start mine. Don’t want to, but I must😢.

  • @CelesteLoveHeart
    @CelesteLoveHeart 8 місяців тому

    Love ❤Love ❤

  • @CW-cy4dc
    @CW-cy4dc 10 місяців тому

    Omg Mel you and Katie Corin here on UA-cam have to be long lost sisters. I love fitness and fashion and I’ve been watching you for a few years now. But I stumbled across her page today and I swear if you told me she was your sister….haha just thought I would share 😊

  • @MrCynthialaincy
    @MrCynthialaincy 10 місяців тому +1

    I adoré you! And adore your mom! Your amazing mama 🎉 wishing u the very best! Hopefully one day we can do cafe and talk.. so much advice I need from u on mariage and life ❤

  • @Lolaglowskincare
    @Lolaglowskincare 10 місяців тому

    I love you even more! ❌⭕️

  • @danitrivedi
    @danitrivedi 10 місяців тому

    🙏

  • @fashionismypassiongirl660
    @fashionismypassiongirl660 10 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @dinavienna
    @dinavienna 10 місяців тому

    Did you tell us you bought a b25 and did not show it or tell us what color 😢

  • @chereeriggs7671
    @chereeriggs7671 10 місяців тому

    I got married in 2007 too! I was 23 also. I think we have the same birth year. 1983?💖

  • @elenaizquierdo9060
    @elenaizquierdo9060 10 місяців тому

  • @veronikaw3875
    @veronikaw3875 10 місяців тому

    You only sleep 4 hours on weekdays 😱 I need 7-8. Thank you for the video!

  • @rpeguero12
    @rpeguero12 10 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @karinefrommontreal
    @karinefrommontreal 10 місяців тому +1

    🙋🏻‍♀️🥰 Tu es trop cute Mel merci j’ai hate de voir ca mais pas de stress❤

  • @AlicatStyle
    @AlicatStyle 10 місяців тому

    Mel that band on the ring finger doesnt always work. Some men rather a commited woman. Obviously that is not waht we are about... Do you find that its works at a deterrent?

  • @salma151
    @salma151 10 місяців тому +1

    I thought you recycled your ring and diamond into that different cocktail ring you customized

    • @MelissaSoldera
      @MelissaSoldera  10 місяців тому +1

      That was my wedding band upgrades that I purchased for myself… not the engagement ring

  • @sumbulyousuf05
    @sumbulyousuf05 10 місяців тому

    how long was your Invisalign treatment?

    • @MelissaSoldera
      @MelissaSoldera  10 місяців тому

      1 year but only because I wasn’t as good as I should be with the trays

  • @chereeriggs7671
    @chereeriggs7671 10 місяців тому +3

    Wait…u’r only get 4hrs of sleep a night? I hope that’s not every night Mel. I know u take good care of yourself & work really hard, but u gotta try to get more sleep💖💖💖

    • @MelissaSoldera
      @MelissaSoldera  10 місяців тому

      I know!! I really need to work on that

  • @simoneandrews215
    @simoneandrews215 10 місяців тому +1

    Cus I LIKE ANOTHER BAG 💼 MORE 🎉🙌🏾🫶🏾😍🥰😘🥳💗

  • @user-mq6yq8iu3u
    @user-mq6yq8iu3u 10 місяців тому

    #eastlisa bag is super cheap and super good quality