Growing Through Your Differences: Interracial Marriage
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- Опубліковано 10 вер 2024
- Hear from Pastor Jeff and Nicky Whye as they share how being in an interracial marriage has changed their perspective on community, parenting and faith.
From our Sandals Church Virtual Marriage Conference session, Growing Through Your Differences with Pastor Jeff & Nicky Whye.
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I'm not Christian, but the undercurrent of their shared faith is important. At the end of the day, what matters is a sense of kinship and shared vision on how a couple wants to live life. And the fact they have a connection fostered in their faith makes it easier to bridge any kinds of gaps as opposed to being complete polar opposites. Been there, done that, it rarely works. As my late father used to say, "as a man son, no matter WHAT KIND OF WOMAN you pick, you're gonna have some stress! Just make sure it's the stress of your choosing." I never forgot that. Continued success to the two of them.
I have nothing agaisnt interracial relationships or marriages as long as everyone's happy and safe that's all that matters
When God is in it , everything is beautiful
Amen!
Amen to that
PERFECT 🥰 LORD GOD ALMIGHTY
absolutely
You know, having carefully observed the behavior and mindset of African-American people for over 30 years, I've come to the conclusion a long time ago that something is terribly and profoundly wrong with the psychology and mind of a people who are on the BOTTOM and the WORSE OFF in the entire world and who are the most dehumanized, disrespected, devalued, discriminated, marginalized, unloved, unfriended, persecuted, exploited, killed, murdered, robbed, pillaged upon, brutalized, lied to and deceived, miseducated, incarcerated, gentrifide etc., yet, they are...
OBSESSED with being loved, validated and accepted by their oppressors and other groups.
OBSESSED with dating/marrying outside their group. Mostly with their oppressors. Black males alone date/marry outside their race more than all other groups combined with mostly white women.
OBSESSED with loving and trying to save other people and integrating with other groups.
OBSESSED with being the moral gatekeepers of the world.
OBSESSED with inclusion rather than being obsessed and loving themselves as a people.
OBSESSED with expressing SYMPATHY, CHARITY and GOODWILL toward other groups rather than themselves.
OBSESSED with using their labor and minds to build and maintain empires and kingdoms for other groups rather than themselves.
OBSESSED with showing the world how loving, charitable and giving they are when other groups are in need but neglect themselves as a people.
OBSESSED with bearing the problems of the world on their shoulders rather than solving their own.
OBSESSED with begging other groups for help and liberation.
OBSESSED with being colorblind.
OBSESSED with not being able to stand on their own feet and STRUGGLE ALONE as a group and always ALLOW other groups to TAKEOVER and RE-DIRECT their movements.
OBSESSED with other group's values, cultures and ideology.
OBSESSED with everything that is non-black.
Where is the dignity self-respect in this type of behavior by a group of people?
I feel so genuinely SAD for these people and their self- destructive psychology.
This is what happens when race is not honestly talked about in churches. So many churches are so unwilling to talk about this and it ended up killing or severely hurting relationships that could be saved if we actually listened. As a black woman, I can say it gets tiring when the church is willing to talk about abortion, LGBTQ matters, politics but when it comes to race we all of a sudden shut black folks, Mexican folks native folks down then use a token person of color to justify it. I am glad you guys made this video because so many churches are too cowardly to address this. Props to you guys 🙏🏾
A church that is racist or embraces racism is not church of Christ. It's that simple!
Period🙏❤ God would not want us to hate others for their skin colour
Checkmate
In the Bible God tells the 12 tribes of Israel to stay with their own tribe.
@@dannywaldroup3311because during that time period alot of the foreigners were pagan and not good so the Israelites had to stay within each other - times have changed
On the judgment day truly only god can judge
@@dannywaldroup3311 I didnt know this but also old testament and new testament has different laws and requirements for salvation too after Jesus death the way to salvation and everlasting life was thru faith in Jesus Christ as our lord and savior
I so much appreciate the wife's perspective and honesty!
Nicky you are WONDERFUL !!!!!!!!! Of COURSE Jeff is ALSO (smile) ! I'm a black woman. I dated a white fellow and one day we went to the movies when a deaf-mute white woman came to where we were waiting in line and separated us with her hands and and did a "shame, shame" finger-rubbing gesture ! HOW SAD was that gesture when she had OTHER problems in her life !
Thank you for watching Deborah! We're sorry you had to experience that act!
Love love love this! Thanks Deborah for your AMAZING and encouraging words!!!!! And yes, so sad for that experience.
Should have Middle finger 🖕 her. She’s understood that!
@@sandalschurchtv
Black males WORLDWIDE practice INTRA-racism and colorism against their their own of black women.
White women are clueless about this.
When you see a black male with a white woman, the white woman is in the relationship because she doesn't care about skin color.
The black make is in the relationship BECAUSE he cares about her skin color.
Get it?
Black males think that their own race of women are ugly.
Thank you for sharing. I really enjoyed listening to the story of your relationship, marriage and family. God bless you, Nicky and Jeff.
Thank you so much!
Thanks so much Knights4U
They are an absolutely beautiful couple, God bless them both ❤❤
It’s so satisfying hearing the Jesus element in your relationship that I hope more persons could listen. My grandmother black woman was married to a white Irish man that’s in the 1930s but in my country it wasn’t a big issue instead a privilege
May the LORD bless you more, keep that LOVE burning through JESUS CHRIST, AMEN.
The wife really opened my eyes. I thank her.
Thank you for watching Skott!
When I was studying how God addressed interracial marriage, I was naturally drawn to Num 12. At that time, I just read that God punished Miriam’s racism by giving her leprosy and then healing her in a week. I didn’t realize the severity; my mind perceived it as she got sick and then was healed. It’s only recently that I realized that God sentenced her to a slow and painful death (unlike being struck by lightning where death is instantaneous) for her racism.
It wasn't racism that she was being punished for. It was for speaking against God's servant. If you read that story in full, God had actually instructed His people to not marry foreigners (not because God had something against interracial marriage but because these foreigners worshipped man-made gods & idols). So Miriam felt her brother was being a hypocritical leader by choosing a black woman (foreigner) as a wife despite having delivered God's message against it. God was basically letting Miriam know that He would deal with Moses Himself if He wanted to & she had no business assassinating his character over that marriage.
How do turned a so called 1681 white person white with leprosy
Make that make sense please
Noah 3 sons was all the same race and the same nationality
Through sin and disobedience leprosy came about
There is no real thing as a 1681 white person in the bible
@@hummingbird4335 An ism is an ism is an ism/ Every ism is a sin/ Life is theological, not ideological/
Christians have murdered millions and millions and millions and...
Thanks for sharing this! I can really relate. Race was never an issue!
I don't think its nearly the adjustment for Black people as it is White people. We grow up learning and interacting with Whites. A lot of White people can go through life not having to learn our culture and have very little interaction with us.
Agreed
@@localone1597 we don’t want your kind.
Was very moved. There's hope in America.
Thanks for watching Sam!
there's hope all because of Interracial Marriage, huh?
that's the ONLY thing that will change everything??
What a wonderful expression of who we are in Christ. Above all we are people who come out of a variety of backgrounds. The beauty is in seeing each other's value and not the racial barriers that the enemy (the devil) or the world tries to infect us with. Blessings on you and your beautiful family
That story was so beautiful
Amen!
What a great voice for radio!
i love this, thanks for sharing
So, I'm not religious (which is another story) and I started watching this very skeptical and have been pleasantly surprised at how light this conversation is going. Not sure if that's good or bad but I stayed and finished the video.
Thank you for watching with us Rae!
My Family members are Interracial Couples. My Friends are in interracial couples. I love interracial couples.
Wonderful self-awareness! I appreciate Jeff's wife and Jeff's sister for helping her to understand and his wife's Black best friend. Keeping Jesus in the heart will help navigate those lenses. 'Cause heaven has no Black or White side! Read the book of Revelation! God bless.
Beautiful!
A beautiful family
Great Couple 🌹💍 💓
I thank God Almighty for your interview. You both articulated your situation extremely well. I do believe that the Lord has blessed you both to meet and marry. Continue the good work and educating people concerning equality as it pertains to race. May God continue to bless you and your family as you strive to see Jesus christ.
Thanks for watching!
This is what I'm talking about. Christian interracial couples. How often would you see this.
We will never destroy racism. This will always be there and we cannot perish it. Unfortunately
But I think We should improve ourself about these anacronics conception.
Good. It's natural and that means it's based and good
@@goldenrule8706 well good thing is that we just love destroying people like you and guess what, we don't care how you feel. Just stop stalking and harassing people
How sad 😔
Damn she’s pretty in and out.
Love this
Just a beautiful couple 💑
it has change our lives some, but things did change at time when we moved south here in the state of Georgia, we been together for close to 12 years and we are older couple too in our 60+ years now lived up north upstate new York for about 3 years and wanted to move south near but not far from where I was born married 2 years now and yes there was looks of all kinds I"m black and she' white Germany/Isiah, things started to change the long we stay our church, friends and family's and some of our neb's????,but we are older couple now like I said and it's working out just fine thanks
Thanks for watching Robert! We're praying for you and for your marriage to continue to grow!
Thank you for sharing your beautiful story 👌🏿😘
love it; that was beautiful to see and listen too.
Thanks for sharing! I can relate. I’m from Columbia, MD too. Race was not an issue!
I grew up in the 60s so back during the time when something like this wasn't taboo
They look like a beautiful couple. I hope they grow old together:)
would the same still be said if they were a White Couple??
Interactional is a beautiful thing... And rare. Some people stick to the own and some are afraid of what other people think mainly family members.
Theres nothing beautiful about it. I find it disgusting
@@iaintmadatcha well you stay inside your box while others go outside their box.
@@divinedeva84 hey i love my box hunny 💋
@@iaintmadatcha Good thing too because no-one else does.
@@ebakindeji5941 plenty people do chuck
its nice when religion can bring people together
I loved this.
Go to jail
@@qualalampFOOBOOairpillowsvolun you first troll 🧌
Lovely!
You two like so many others are paying the price now in some sense to show what it is to be conformed into the image of Christ. The middle wall of partition has been broken down by Jesus Christ on the cross. There's no jew or Gentile, I believe spiritually speaking in the eyes of God, there's no black or white. We are just one in Christ. Since we are going to be one in heaven, Jesus said " thy kingdom come", we are one in the kingdom right here and right now. Some people are slow to get it even among believers, but the Holy Spirit is working in us.
God knew he could trust both of you to show case what heaven is like, I am proud of you.
A good love story of black and white ❤️❤️.
That was beautiful ! God created each and everyone of us in his image and likeness so we are one no matter what color our skin is, I am West Indian from Trinidad, and my wife is Russian. She’s the most beautiful person you could ever meet up on the face of this earth ,she will do anything for you, and so is her family. I love her so much very understanding we were basically brought up the same way seem morals. We didn’t know anything about discrimination until we got to this country of America, so it’s time for us to change the way we think and look at each other no matter what color our skin, we should learn how to get along with each other and understand each other. Hey life is short and we need to get along with each other so we can enjoy the short time that we have upon this earth! Thanks! 🙏👍👏👏👏
Good for you two keep loving keep giving👍👍
In scripture God told the children of Israel not to mingle with the nations and their gods now some may say that's talking about intermarriage with other people it's not
I also attended Anderson University where I met my husband.
I love this.
Like I don't understand God made both black and he didn't make any mistake and love seeing black and white marriages keep your eyes on God you all are one hand made.
Jeff hopped out of a time machine straight from 1984.
As a black dude, I had to keep checking my girl about talking to African people. Even the body language has to change. There is a way to talk to get respect back.
Very beautiful conservative family. God bless them
Christ king! These two described me and my wife and family almost identical.
Very nice and lovely couple!
Beautiful story from beautiful People, God bless you
what an intelligent all weather woman Jeff!.. you shot a Parrot!!
I dont even know what that means. I hope its good ;o). haha!
I believe and love Black and White and interracial married couples. It is ashamed racist people are against it.
This is beautiful how a black man and a white women came together to become one.
i agree
Theres nothing beautiful about it
@@iaintmadatcha why not
It really is, that brother has a lovely godly wife!
Go to jail
This world is filled with colours like flowers. why would anyone single themselve to dating one race. I find this hard to believe. Do people not understand what they are missing out on? Same goes to friends we keep.
you mean why would you change the race of these flowers that god created
It's always nice to have a safe space :))) !
Great interview.
I met my husband at Anderson University. Enjoyed hearing from you
Thanks for watching Carol! Praying for you this week.
Thats Awesome! Blessings!
I'm never against interracial marriage & interracial friendship I hate to hear marry your own race to me it sounds immature & low self-esteem. Certain people I refused to talk about interracial marriage because some people against it
Sticking to your own sounds immature? Wtf smh you have been westernised to say something so stupid. PRESERVE YOUR HERITAGE AND CULTURE!
I bet u are a black American woman. Only a black American woman would say that.
@@iaintmadatcha MUH IDENTITY MUH HERITAGE MUH RACE MUH COMMUNITY MUH GENETICS MUH BACCCKKKGROUUNNDDD WAAAAAHHHHHHH
@@iaintmadatchaI have a white gal for you !!
@@peterbrown3944 no thanks keep her for yourself
Deuteronomy 7-4
Ezra 10:10-11
Learning to understand a particular race and discard prejudices that is inherent in someone's subjective opinion is not an easy process.It takes time.In marriage once you take that step of interracial courting you should be prepared against fierce headwinds.Its not easy.Dont ever assume that you are taken by surprise. If you do ...you are a naive person.The keys...high self esteem assertive high IQ and sense of ingenuity above average.Anything less than that you are boundv to get drowned.
He has a handsome masculine voice. Above all its God, Love, and Gospel.
I respect though the thing is there is no such thing as “races” only the human race. Pastor and leader just need to teach that we are all one the human race. Or even better believer and unbelievers.
❤👍
Is it me, like how many times is she going to say "he's not angry or militant" as if to suggest that if he spoke up or resisted societal norms of racism or discrimination that he is militant.....another way of saying he's not like those other black men. I've tamed him and he has assimilated and therefore "not militant or anything". Damn girl, he's a brotha. Let him live.
It's just you.!
Jeff..long time no see😊. Enjoyed the video.
If it is a diverse church then it is a multicultural church and not a black church.
I'm going to be real I'm black & I don't mind having interracial friends white people can be friends with me whenever They like same with Asian, Latino, Polynesian, Caribbean, African, Jewish , Arabian. I don't mind being in a interracial relationship if I marry an white guy He gotta be handsome, friendly, tall, have abs have relationship with God also He have to be courteous, fun also support me & my dreams hairstyle Pompadour or Undercut / Fade Haircut doesn't matter what color his eyes
@ I'm being real with everyone my guy type tall under 7"0 handsome, charming with abs shorter haircut good guy very intelligent. Bad guys not my type . I don't like mean / bossy people I don't like talking politics & religious because people think They know Everything which makes me mad. I don't like arguing with people to be real . I don't want no negative comments about me I have problems with people I want to avoid negative so lets be positive & have a good day 😊 God Bless you
Beautiful couple
You know, having carefully observed the behavior and mindset of African-American people for over 30 years, I've come to the conclusion a long time ago that something is terribly and profoundly wrong with the psychology and mind of a people who are on the BOTTOM and the WORSE OFF in the entire world and who are the most dehumanized, disrespected, devalued, discriminated, marginalized, unloved, unfriended, persecuted, exploited, killed, murdered, robbed, pillaged upon, brutalized, lied to and deceived, miseducated, incarcerated, gentrifide etc., yet, they are...
OBSESSED with being loved, validated and accepted by their oppressors and other groups.
OBSESSED with dating/marrying outside their group. Mostly with their oppressors. Black males alone date/marry outside their race more than all other groups combined with mostly white women.
OBSESSED with loving and trying to save other people and integrating with other groups.
OBSESSED with being the moral gatekeepers of the world.
OBSESSED with inclusion rather than being obsessed and loving themselves as a people.
OBSESSED with expressing SYMPATHY, CHARITY and GOODWILL toward other groups rather than themselves.
OBSESSED with using their labor and minds to build and maintain empires and kingdoms for other groups rather than themselves.
OBSESSED with showing the world how loving, charitable and giving they are when other groups are in need but neglect themselves as a people.
OBSESSED with bearing the problems of the world on their shoulders rather than solving their own.
OBSESSED with begging other groups for help and liberation.
OBSESSED with being colorblind.
OBSESSED with not being able to stand on their own feet and STRUGGLE ALONE as a group and always ALLOW other groups to TAKEOVER and RE-DIRECT their movements.
OBSESSED with other group's values, cultures and ideology.
OBSESSED with everything that is non-black.
Where is the dignity self-respect in this type of behavior by a group of people?
I feel so genuinely SAD for these people and their self- destructive psychology.
Not at all
@@jamessmith4287 Your opinion
@@brooklynguy8744 Fact
@user-he3by8ut3mwe exist and we can go and live anywhere we want
BM/WF is fairly common and more acceptable than WM/BF couples are, generally speaking.
We're hoping these kind of conversations can help shift those social feelings 🙏🏼
White women are more boldly courageous in living joyously, passionately, fearlessly and won't hold back in fulfilling their holy desire for procreating with the ideal man/
@@FabzRoma-is3sq still unnatural and immoral
Of course, the number of wm bf couples may be several times smaller than the number of bm wf couples, or maybe 10 times smaller
The reason is that most WMs prefer Asian women after WW, but not black women
Also, successful black men prefer white women, and 25% of black men marry white women
And in general, it is said that mixed-black people in wm bf are relatively more friendly with white people than mixed-black people in bm wf
@@The_Noble_Lucifer Still unnatural and immoral, judging from the Masonic symbol you have says alot of why you seem to support it I assume.
i would love to know what the comment was...sounds like things got blown way out of proportion
She said something mean and disrespectful to his mother and sister in that passive-aggressive way white females do. Then she cried her fake white female tears. She knew exactly what she was doing, she is very unattractive and lashed out like they always do. Typical white female bs.
Linda historia el amor todo lo puede
I am asian we love our own heritage
Can't believe they let you here! You have some gall! & you gave you the likes? Scary!
Asian girls don't date Asian guys I feel sorry for yall
Props. People
Lol I'm an African american millennial all I've gotta say is I'm grateful for the times I live in.
@user-he3by8ut3mwrong again. Your opinion is duely noted
The man's voice!!!
What is wrong with his voice ??
👍🏿
Down south 50 60s yrs ago this wouldn't have been accepted
Why must you live in the past????
Why must you take down statues, which are part of our Nation's heritage? Obama lengthened the racial divide!
you are right John. Praise God we dont live there now. However we still have a ways to go. I am going to spend my mind doing what Phil 4:8 says. Have my mind focused on the positive!
Still isn't in some circles
On a positive note, predudice has no significant amount of hatred in God's world, Numbers 12 in the Bible is a prime example, love is the key. 🙏🙏😅
You know, having carefully observed the behavior and mindset of African-American people for over 30 years, I've come to the conclusion a long time ago that something is terribly and profoundly wrong with the psychology and mind of a people who are on the BOTTOM and the WORSE OFF in the entire world and who are the most dehumanized, disrespected, devalued, discriminated, marginalized, unloved, unfriended, persecuted, exploited, killed, murdered, robbed, pillaged upon, brutalized, lied to and deceived, miseducated, incarcerated, gentrifide etc., yet, they are...
OBSESSED with being loved, validated and accepted by their oppressors and other groups.
OBSESSED with dating/marrying outside their group. Mostly with their oppressors. Black males alone date/marry outside their race more than all other groups combined with mostly white women.
OBSESSED with loving and trying to save other people and integrating with other groups.
OBSESSED with being the moral gatekeepers of the world.
OBSESSED with inclusion rather than being obsessed and loving themselves as a people.
OBSESSED with expressing SYMPATHY, CHARITY and GOODWILL toward other groups rather than themselves.
OBSESSED with using their labor and minds to build and maintain empires and kingdoms for other groups rather than themselves.
OBSESSED with showing the world how loving, charitable and giving they are when other groups are in need but neglect themselves as a people.
OBSESSED with bearing the problems of the world on their shoulders rather than solving their own.
OBSESSED with begging other groups for help and liberation.
OBSESSED with being colorblind.
OBSESSED with not being able to stand on their own feet and STRUGGLE ALONE as a group and always ALLOW other groups to TAKEOVER and RE-DIRECT their movements.
OBSESSED with other group's values, cultures and ideology.
OBSESSED with everything that is non-black.
Where is the dignity self-respect in this type of behavior by a group of people?
I feel so genuinely SAD for these people and their self- destructive psychology.
*Prejudice*
and black people are the most Prejudice out of everyone.
Her father must be so proud.
Yes, he raised a wise woman.
@@charlesdonahue7683 I was being sarcastic. He's disgusted.
@@I_leave_mean_comments Did he tell you that?
@@charlesdonahue7683 yes
@@I_leave_mean_comments Okay, because in the video she shares the experience of her father and father-in-law (both ministers) in harmony, at the piano, singing together at a holiday gathering. But if you say that he secretly shared his discontent with you privately, I have no reason to doubt you.
Start by saying no such thing as different RACES
Dr Umar entered the building 🤣😂
So sick and tired of people talking about different races when that does not exist! Mankind is ONE with many variations/flavors. Reprogram your minds people...get off the cabal educational system and open your eyes. Enough already!
AMEN! THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!
You are right
So true! There is only one race. The human race. It is ethnicity that makes up our differences. As well as many other factors. I wish we didnt have to talk about it. However it is a real thing. I am trying to talk about it in a way, so that we talk about it less. Thanks Marie!
❤️🩹🕊️
It is just a matter of the most grotesque ignorance this world has ever experienced. A demon made person has decided to discriminate against some while uplifting some others, making this world of people a caste society with presumably insurmountable barriers.
Unfortunately, the so-called civilised people have become the fiercest defenders of this caste system. And they are capable of speaking at the top of their lungs that they are believers of a God Who created everything and made us from the same and only one person. There is no greater shame in proceeding in this way.
Thank you, my sister, for saying that "we believe in building bridges and bringing people together and unifying, and I feel like our marriage is a picture of that..." God has never said that this nonsense of racial supremacy is good stuff.
Great couple. I would like to ad that we are a Black & White couples as well, however, most of the racial angst we have encountered are from Black people. Mostly black women. I fear that too much is focused on how us Black people feel, and not our White counter parts. Consider the recent discourse with Candace Owen's & Cardi B. There is an erroneous movement advocating that blacks "can't" be rascist, as if slavery negated that. Even Black people have told our daughter that she can't discuss Black issues cause she's not Black enough. If we are to be fair, as my mother said, we should also hear what White people go thru as well. That would be an honest conversation.
I'm Black and my husband is White. We've been harassed by black males when we are living our lives. My husband has had to defend us a few times against angry militant black male aggression during our 15 year marriage. It was terrible to experience. Luckily we rarely encounter black males.
I love see whites lady’s married whith Mexicans cause Mexicans men’s work hard
That is funny, Indiana.
These people seem nice but religion does not solve any racial issues. Slavery in the US was condoned by religion and the bible. The main problem in the US between black people and white people is economic, the wealth gap that exists between the two groups.
Slavery in the US was not condoned by Christianity and the Bible. 1 John 3:15, James 2, & Exodus 21:16 proves that the Bible is against the early 1800s slavery. The scriptures I mentioned in this comment also prove that racism is a sin. Abraham Lincoln was a Christian and he abolished slavery. Martin Luther King Jr was a Christian and he ended segregation in the southern states. I also want to point out that all of the slave owners from the early 1800s who claimed to be a “Christian” were not “Christians” at all since you can’t be a Christian and at the same time continue living in sin. (Rom 6, Gal 5:19-23, Heb 10:26-31) Not everyone who claims to be a Christian is actually a Christian. (Matt 7:17-23) For example, if someone claimed to be a Christian and at the same time he or she was bullying homeless people then he or she is not a “Christian” like he or she claims to be. Ethnic issues can be solved by the Bible simply by teaching that racism is a hateful sin and that the Bible proves that racism is a sin. Also, the slavery that was talked about in the Bible was temporary slavery that happened in Israel around 4,000 years ago and in Rome in the days of the early Church and those types of slavery were not racist or oppressive. On the other hand, the early 1800s slavery was racist and the Bible is against that kind of slavery. You should not apply modern context to texts that were written 4,000-2,000 years ago. Christianity is strongly against racism and therefore, the Bible is strongly against racism.
cute couples!
AMEN 🙏
What a peoples of color means?
Jesus and racism is so dumb.... Love is awesome...
My ?s would be, how do they deal with race issues such as the the justice system ( police brutality)?
Racism in general?
Her racist family?
Her calling him the N word when she gets mad?
Her threatening to call 911 when an argument happens?
Sounds dangerous to me.
Your 3rd and 4th questions are stereotypical fears people have of interracial relationships. For decades I dated in and out of my "race" and have known and been close to several interracial couples. In my experiences with friends, family, and my own personal relationships, it never happened. I must say if ANYONE is in an interracial relationship and their partner out of anger calls them a racial or cultural epithet in anger or not in anger... end the relationship because they DO NOT respect you. And if YOU do it... you don't respect your partner.
@@tonycurry5545 I can agree with that( someone being disrespectful). So what about the race talk? I’m sure it has to be some cultural difference when it comes to the justice system.
@@JudahTribe-lt3ur A lot of that is opinion based and varies by individual. For example, my wife, who is White believes as I do about the disparities in the justice system. And for the record many of the in-laws I have close relationships with feel the same about the disparities now that they know it exists.
We've learned quite a bit from each other over the years we've been together. And much like the couple in this interview, it is all about the "safe space". Without regard to race EVERY couple should have that safe space and much more so in every interracial relationship.
As a Black man I learned from my wife's family and from her that many things such as reconstruction, redlining, Juneteenth, and many other things simply weren't taught in White suburban schools. We jokingly say they were cheated out of their K-12 education on American History. Knowledge of individuals such as York, Crispus Attucks, Frederick Douglas, and more were lost on them. The simplicity of why many Black people in the U.S. have the last name of Washington and Jackson they didn't understand until recently.
For most of my life I thought White people KNEW the issues, were educated on our shared history. It has been an experience to learn of their (my in-laws) ignorance and see how enlightenment has changed their outlook on life.
@@tonycurry5545 I appreciate your comment
@@tonycurry5545 One more ?
Back in the 80’s, my uncle dated a whyt chick, and he said he hated the stares( we are from back east.. Baltimore). Did you deal with that?
This was cool, but she talked the whole time.. the white woman whose voice we always hear in society was pretty much dominating this convo. All in all, she said so many valuable things but she just shouldn't have been the center of this convo.
I disagree. She was talking from her experiences. When my wife & I are out, based on the subject, one may talk more than the other or evenly based.
@@elijahwebb7167 I think that’s valid and I didn’t mean to imply her experiences weren’t valid. In this care however; her voice just should not have been the focal point since she is a white woman and in the context of race, her voice is always centered. “Her” being a broader term and not this specific woman. Again, this is my opinion, as a Black woman I just would’ve resonated more with this story of “his perspective” from
Him instead of his wife recounting his experience- which she did do often..... I also want to point again to the fact that I did believe this to be valuable and lots of good point were made, just a critique.
I remember going to a all white school in the 70s
@@devonelizabeth8368 Hey Devon. Thanks so much for watching. I hear what you are saying. This is the reason why i wanted her to talk on this point (which by the way, there is a 50min video of this where I talk a lot in it ;o), this is just a taken out clip) she has come to see the "other side" and a lot of times when we here from people who are white, that talk about racial disparities, they usually have no reference or context of their view point. Her voice is mainly for the lighter hue side, saying to them, hey white folks, listen up. There are some things we got to learned. And I did the hard way here. But I needed to learn this. Her voice here is huge. Thanks Devon!
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Lamentations 4:7: Her Nazarites were purer than snow, they were whiter than milk, they were more ruddy in body than rubies, their polishing was of sapphire:
We know that no one is righteous no not one, as pointed out in Romans 3:10
Romans 3:10: As it is written, There is none righteous, no, not one:
We also know that our righteousness is as filthy rags to a holy God.
Isaiah 64:6: But we are all as an unclean thing, and all our righteousnesses are as filthy rags; and we all do fade as a leaf; and our iniquities, like the wind, have taken us away.
Furthermore, there are no pure people groups because:
Romans 3:23: For all have sinned, and come short of the glory of God;
And we know that sin has been passed down from Adam.
Romans 5:12: Wherefore, as by one man sin entered into the world, and death by sin; and so death passed upon all men, for that all have sinned:
Romans follows up and tells us that it was through one man's sin all have sinned, so it is through one man (Jesus) that all men will be made righteous.
Romans 5:18: Therefore as by the offence of one judgment came upon all men to condemnation; even so by the righteousness of one the free gift came upon all men unto justification of life.
Therefore, the verse relating to the Nazarenes in Lamentations, about them being whiter than milk and purer than snow cannot be talking about their spiritual condition, for even if one is justified, the entire group will not have been justified. As such, this has to be talking about their physical characteristics because as stated earlier, all have sinned and come short of the glory of God.
Whiter than milk, therefore, must be denoting their white skin or fair complexion. Purer than snow must be expressing their unmixed blood line. It also says that their polishing is as of sapphire. Sapphire is blue, so obviously the only part of the body where you have blue, naturally, is in the eyes. And the eyes, themselves, due to being hydrated by tears looks like a polish with a glistening sheen.
There is only one race of people who have both white skin and blue eyes. It is the white race.
The verse also says that the Nazarenes are ruddy. Ruddy, from previous Strong's Concordances and other concordances, is defined as showing blood in the face, blushing, a redness.
Thus, Lamentations has seemed to have described white people with blue eyes and the ability to blush. No other race, at large, can show blood in the face through blushing. Only the white race.
Jesus, our Savior, was a Nazarene. If the Nazarenes were white, then it stands to reason that so, too, was Jesus of Nazareth.
The Bible also uses the word ruddy to describe David, and the meaning Adam is translated as man and ruddy, red. Since the word ruddy is applied to the word white, it stands to reason that both Adam and David were also white.
Regarding Noah, it states that he was perfect in his generations.
Genesis 6:9: These are the generations of Noah: Noah was a just man and perfect in his generations, and Noah walked with God.
Since we know that no one is righteous but by the grace of God, and since this is talking about his generations (his ancestors) being perfect, this cannot denote a spiritual condition. This is referring to a physical state of being unblemished. This would imply that it is talking about being unmixed.
Since based on the description of the Nazarenes, as well as the term ruddy which relates to Adam, David, and the Nazarenes as well, it would seem to indicate that mankind is white. After all, Adam means "man", as well, and mankind came from Adam's seed. Furthermore, Adam was created in the image of God.
Genesis 1:27: So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.
Therefore, if Adam is white, then so, too, must God appear as white, as Adam was created in God's image. And since Jesus is God in the flesh, it makes sense why He, a Nazarene, would appear as white. And, therefore, the appearance of the Nazarenes matches up with all of these other scriptures.
Furthermore, because we know that sin passed to mankind from Adam, this would deduce that Adam's sin corruption was passed down to his descendants. Since Adam was white based on what we've seen, this would imply that sin passed down to his seed, the white race.
If we look at a basic look of Biblical genealogy, we see an order like this: Adam --> Seth -->Noah--> Abraham --> Isaac --> Jacob/Israel --> David --> Jesus
Since Adam is ruddy (applied to fair skin), and since David is ruddy, and since the Nazarenes were ruddy, this would indicate that they were all white. It would also back up whites being the only race fully of Adam.
And since Jesus said he came but for the lost sheep of the House of Israel.
Matthew 15:24: But he answered and said, I am not sent but unto the lost sheep of the house of Israel.
The House of Israel is the genealogical line that came out of Jacob/Israel. We know that Jacob was between both Adam and David, both of whom are ruddy, and we know the Nazarenes were ruddy. We also know that the Nazarenes were part of the tribes of Israel. Therefore, Jesus seems to be saying that He came for this bloodline. That is, the white, ruddy bloodline. And this would make sense since the bloodline of Adam would be a white bloodline, and it was this white bloodline through which sin passed down to all of mankind (meaning of Adam).
Thus, this seems to indicate that only whites can be saved.
So where does this leave nonwhites. They were likely considered beasts created on the sixth day along with land animals.
Genesis 1: 24-26:
And God said, Let the earth bring forth the living creature after his kind, cattle, and creeping thing, and beast of the earth after his kind: and it was so.
And God made the beast of the earth after his kind, and cattle after their kind, and every thing that creepeth upon the earth after his kind: and God saw that it was good.
And God said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth.
As you can see, it speaks of the beast of the Earth, and then later goes on to describe making man in his image.
The Bible is clear that beasts are not only quadripeds, but some are bipeds with hands.
Jonah 3: 8-9:
But let man and beast be covered with sackcloth, and cry mightily unto God: yea, let them turn every one from his evil way, and from the violence that is in their hands.
Who can tell if God will turn and repent, and turn away from his fierce anger, that we perish not?
There is a clear distinction between man and beast, otherwise there would have been no reason to list both. This differentiates mankind from beasts. Note that the beasts can cry mightily unto God, just as man can. Also note that both have hands and can wear sackcloth.
Thus, this shows that there were beasts with hands that can understand God. This isn't a mere animal.
As such, this shows what appears to be a man-like creation that is not man that has many of the characteristics of man. Knowing this it makes sense how Cain found a wife in the land of Nod after he was banished from the family.
Genesis 4:15-17:
And the LORD said unto him, Therefore whosoever slayeth Cain, vengeance shall be taken on him sevenfold. And the LORD set a mark upon Cain, lest any finding him should kill him.
And Cain went out from the presence of the LORD, and dwelt in the land of Nod, on the east of Eden.
And Cain knew his wife; and she conceived, and bare Enoch: and he builded a city, and called the name of the city, after the name of his son, Enoch.
So Cain went into Nod and knew His wife. If Adam and Eve were the only people at the time after Cain's brother, Abel, was slain, other than Cain, then where is there a female for Cain to take as a wife. It stands to reason that it was a beast who was man-like. Hence, a different race.
As such, when Noah was loading up the different animals and creatures onto the ark, he took also these other races. It would seem to explain why we still have races other than whites today. It wasn't very long after, perhaps a hundred years or so after the flood, when God separated groups according to language.
So if Jesus only came for whites of the seed of Israel, it would seem to suggest that nonwhites cannot be saved.
What about those who are mixed with Adam's seedline. The Bible refers to these people as Mamzers (in the Hebrew), which translates to bastards. This means a mixed, adulterated bloodline. What does the Bible say about mixed bloodline or bastards?
Deuteronomy 23:2:
A bastard shall not enter into the congregation of the Lord; even to his tenth generation shall he not enter into the congregation of the Lord.
What do you think bestiality is? Sure, it's human sexual relations with animals, but it is also with beasts.
Leviticus 18:23:
Neither shalt thou lie with any beast to defile thyself therewith: neither shall any woman stand before a beast to lie down thereto: it is confusion.
Do you honestly think a woman can lie down and have sex with a willing male quadraped? No. They also would have no desire to do such. This seems to be clearly referring to human-like beasts.
In fact, it says regarding bestiality that it warrants death.
Leviticus 20:15:
And if a man lie with a beast, he shall surely be put to death: and ye shall slay the beast.
Therefore, yes, interracial relationships, marriage, etc. are clearly sinful.
So, based upon what has been shown, it makes sense why white countries and white people are under attack by satanic forces that desire to eradicate them. Satan wants to destroy the seedline of Adam and Israel. It is why the media promotes endless race mixing, why nearly every couple in commercials is an interracial couple. It is why namely only white countries are under assault and having nonwhites purposefully sent into white living spaces. They want to prevent white children from being born and for whites to be consumed into a mixed race mass.
Ezra 10:2-3:
And Shechaniah the son of Jehiel, one of the sons of Elam, answered and said unto Ezra, We have trespassed against our God, and have taken strange wives of the people of the land: yet now there is hope in Israel concerning this thing. Now therefore let us make a covenant with our God to put away all the wives, and such as are born of them, according to the counsel of my lord, and of those that tremble at the commandment of our God; and let it be done according to the law.