Have you ever wanted to make a narcissist truly regret how they treated you? In this video, I’m sharing the one thing you can do that narcissists never expect - and it’ll leave them filled with regret for the rest of their lives. This is personal, it’s powerful, and it’s about reclaiming your life from their toxic influence. Tune in to discover how you can take back control and finally find peace.
Narcissists don't actually regret losing you. They don't have the capacity for that kind of regret. They might regret investing time or resources in you, but they don't emotionally invest in anyone enough to regret losing them. Such regret would diminish their high regard for themselves. All people are replacable and disposable to them. The idea that they will regret losing you, or anyone else for that matter, is a bit of empathic projection. As is the idea that you can get revenge since they will never see the justice in it. They are always the victim and never the villain in their mind. Consequently, there are only two things you can do. One is to leave and never go back. In which case you will have abandoned them and they are still the victim in their minds. Or, two, stick around to make them miserable enough to leave by reversing the roles. In which case they are still the victim, but at least you will have returned some of the misery.
I shared some Stoic tools for staying calm when others are upset-what do you think? Have you ever tried any of these techniques? I'd love to hear how you handle emotional situations! Let’s chat!
Have you ever wanted to make a narcissist truly regret how they treated you? In this video, I’m sharing the one thing you can do that narcissists never expect - and it’ll leave them filled with regret for the rest of their lives. This is personal, it’s powerful, and it’s about reclaiming your life from their toxic influence. Tune in to discover how you can take back control and finally find peace.
Narcissists don't actually regret losing you. They don't have the capacity for that kind of regret. They might regret investing time or resources in you, but they don't emotionally invest in anyone enough to regret losing them. Such regret would diminish their high regard for themselves. All people are replacable and disposable to them.
The idea that they will regret losing you, or anyone else for that matter, is a bit of empathic projection. As is the idea that you can get revenge since they will never see the justice in it. They are always the victim and never the villain in their mind. Consequently, there are only two things you can do. One is to leave and never go back. In which case you will have abandoned them and they are still the victim in their minds. Or, two, stick around to make them miserable enough to leave by reversing the roles. In which case they are still the victim, but at least you will have returned some of the misery.
No one is anything YOU didnt except the whole time. Go ahead and blame everyone but yourself 😊
I shared some Stoic tools for staying calm when others are upset-what do you think? Have you ever tried any of these techniques? I'd love to hear how you handle emotional situations! Let’s chat!
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Hey, awesome to see you here! It’s me, Ivan . What part of the video did you like the most?