Loneliness Is a Myth

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  • Опубліковано 20 лют 2020
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    We look at being alone as if the there is something wrong with it, but this is far from the truth.
    We are our own best companion, and no one on the outside can fill up the emptiness we feel within. Only we have the power to do this.
    Dr. Shefali is a NYT bestselling author of The Conscious Parent and The Awakened Family. She is also a clinical psychologist, an international speaker and a wisdom teacher, integrating Eastern philosophy with Western psychology.
    Learn more about her at: www.drshefali.com

КОМЕНТАРІ • 41

  • @Enrico_Fusai_Counselor
    @Enrico_Fusai_Counselor 4 роки тому +8

    We are *never* alone.
    We are Consciousness experiencing the never ending supply of energy, love and understanding of our own Spirit.
    All the messy stuff, is created by our Ego 🙏🏼

  • @hussinasalam8457
    @hussinasalam8457 Рік тому +1

    To be alone and not lonely is a great art ..

  • @Reamdemnati
    @Reamdemnati 4 роки тому +10

    Beautifully said Dr Shefali it’s so true ❤️

  • @eliotglassier5848
    @eliotglassier5848 3 роки тому +3

    Solitude
    Love yourself

  • @divyanshukumar7628
    @divyanshukumar7628 4 роки тому +8

    Beautiful we are whole , Don't need anyone to make me whole

  • @PowerfulU
    @PowerfulU 4 роки тому +5

    ❤️❤️❤️ Beautifully said.

  • @bharath19886511
    @bharath19886511 4 роки тому +1

    So much truth...Bless you Soulful Shefali

  • @nidhip3109
    @nidhip3109 4 роки тому +2

    Your confidence,
    Is our trust for you.
    Amazingly, and rightly said.
    But this can only be temporary.
    Man is a social animal.
    At every step of life, we need companions, to share, to love, to be with...

  • @chalorediosunesameenasyd8629
    @chalorediosunesameenasyd8629 4 роки тому +2

    I am experiencing it ..yess that’s true!

  • @aribahaidermalik4459
    @aribahaidermalik4459 3 роки тому +1

    The worst thing is people don't let you to be lonely

  • @gaynorca
    @gaynorca 2 роки тому +1

    thank you

  • @bingbong4466
    @bingbong4466 2 роки тому

    WONDERFUL WISDOM Thanks for your truth :)

  • @duyvoquang4109
    @duyvoquang4109 4 роки тому +1

    thankyou!

  • @sanjibdutta6794
    @sanjibdutta6794 4 роки тому

    Mam..... really this video of URS made my day today and to some extent I get to see what you try to convey

  • @HareKrishna-ff2kf
    @HareKrishna-ff2kf 4 роки тому +1

    Love yourself before loving someone else.❤️

  • @gahnvs1005
    @gahnvs1005 4 роки тому +2

    Amazing. I hate being by myself. I think I am not funny enough. Not successful enough. Just not enough. And I long to be in the company of others. I will try to do this and see what happens.

    • @Enrico_Fusai_Counselor
      @Enrico_Fusai_Counselor 4 роки тому +1

      GAH NVS - Look for Marisa Peer’s videos about “being enough” 🎈

    • @sharonmassey2923
      @sharonmassey2923 4 роки тому +2

      "If you are lonely when you are alone, you are in bad company." - Jean-Paul Sartre

  • @minichanz
    @minichanz 3 роки тому

    So beautiful 🥰

  • @flybabyskybaby
    @flybabyskybaby 4 роки тому

    Yes mam ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Zainab-jb7lr
    @Zainab-jb7lr 2 роки тому

    I always crave my own company..trust me I always do :)

  • @1magnificentreg
    @1magnificentreg 4 роки тому +3

    nobody, i mean NOBODY LOVES ME like... ME!! crazy bout Me!

    • @minichanz
      @minichanz 3 роки тому

      I tell you what, I'm not afraid of you knowing that you love yourself.

    • @minichanz
      @minichanz 3 роки тому

      *I'm not afraid of you, now that I know you love yourself.

  • @christos9586
    @christos9586 4 роки тому +3

    F.L.Y First Love Yourself...

  • @aineslattery3090
    @aineslattery3090 4 роки тому +3

    Interesting replys I person ally have always been aware that I love been alone it doesn't mean I have no friends but after being with them its like a treat to be left alone and I would be very sociable but my choice even in marriage is my own company is more peaceful to my core being I feel so so lucky to have this gift as I used to think there was something wrong with me I also love love total silence xx love life be kind 💖😉

  • @ema8909
    @ema8909 2 роки тому

    How do we balance enjoying being alone without going into Hermit mode?

  • @Biggestbull007
    @Biggestbull007 4 роки тому

    I still didn't understand what you want to present before us.
    I feel horrible and lonely. I am gonna have Divorce soon. My mind is wandering in the past and always in guilt. It makes me more morose. How to tackle this mindset..?

    • @jessicalt4121
      @jessicalt4121 4 роки тому +1

      Rahul Bhagat I would join a divorce support group or go to counseling... give yourself time to grieve, time to get stronger, then you will like your company in time but of course you can’t always be by yourself. It took me 3 years to get stronger after a breakup. Exercise, classes, seeing friends, traveling, walking in nature and doing for others, plus getting a dog helped, meds.
      I wish you well.

  • @KaElSah
    @KaElSah 4 роки тому +1

    Have a balance of the two. We are social creatures. The title is misleading.

  • @iamenough6958
    @iamenough6958 Рік тому

    011923 👀

  • @cinderella407
    @cinderella407 2 місяці тому +2

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    • @SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd
      @SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd 2 місяці тому +2

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  • @missunderstood5353
    @missunderstood5353 4 роки тому

    Bullshit... I’m extremely alone. So alone it feels like I’m dead.

  • @bbaby962
    @bbaby962 4 роки тому

    To some extend it is ok. But I dnt agree with you at all. What kind of philosophy is that you are preaching? We are social being we are for one another.we can't live alone without the other. God created man and woman to live and increase their children.if we follow your ideology then there would be no creation.If you please don't want to be with others then please stay alone don't depend anybody or anything in this world. Sorry if i have hurt you. This was my idea.... Expressed...

  • @maureendunsworth1765
    @maureendunsworth1765 4 роки тому +1

    Genesis 2:18 "Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.”
    Proverbs 18:1 "Whoever isolates himself seeks his own desire; he breaks out against all sound judgment."
    Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 "Two are better than one, because they have a good reward for their toil. For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up."
    Thanks, but no thanks! You can keep your Buddhist/Hindu whatever philosophy.