When It's Time to Leave a Relationship

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  • Опубліковано 3 жов 2024
  • "All the ways that we haven't grown in our own life, they're going to be reflected in our relationship."
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  • @Roma-bz4xe
    @Roma-bz4xe 2 дні тому +1

    I advised my friend to break up because her relationship was not healthy. She argued that she can't because kids are involved. I replied that she should focus on self-care, be a model of self-care for her kids, and move out of the toxic relationship.

  • @GabrielGargari
    @GabrielGargari 5 років тому +35

    I love this! Been practicing this for a while; relationships being a mirror of what hasn't been healed yet. Love your videos!

    • @bwilliams4266
      @bwilliams4266 5 років тому

      I feel it’s wrong for anyone to date a the wrong person gladly I could hack my spouses phone on time with the help of a hacker and didn’t get to marry them because I saw their conversations with people and how entitled they felt! Contact mike if you need any hack help! He will help you hack whatsoever you need to social media phones you name it his contact details are:
      Instagram @MIKESWILFRED WhatsApp/text +15182175945 and email HACKERLITE0077@GMAIL.COM

  • @SN-wz5ls
    @SN-wz5ls 4 роки тому +18

    I also believe that we stay in relationships as well because we lack self love and’ the understanding of this.. and we stay because we’re conditioned to belief that we don’t give up that they will change.. as well that it’s our responsibility to show love and never give up...
    From my experience, I can say there was some codependency because I was seeking true love, but also I did not want to let go the person because I felt they were hurt and I was responsible to showing that they are loved!!!

    • @anupriyamishra4350
      @anupriyamishra4350 2 роки тому

      Then what should we do?

    • @thomasgrabowski2202
      @thomasgrabowski2202 Рік тому

      relatable :O !

    • @SN-wz5ls
      @SN-wz5ls Рік тому

      @@anupriyamishra4350 one day I read a line from a someone talking about toxic relationship.. the line was “don’t be an asshole to yourself.” Snd another person told me “stop making excuses for them.”
      These two lines hit me in the head that I really needed to conquer all fears and backlashes, and “take responsibility of my own happiness.”
      Because “you cannot change others, they have to make the changes within themselves.” So better to value yourself and move on with your life if you chances to them bare no lessons or changes

  • @MultiTannn
    @MultiTannn 4 роки тому +3

    So true my marriage has really served me well to look into my shadow n patterns I have been holding since childhood n I can really grow spiritually..I show gratitude to god for giving me my soulmate as my life partner..

  • @ipsitahota9650
    @ipsitahota9650 4 роки тому +5

    I left at the right time. I was claustrophobic. It's been a year and I'm still healing.

    • @sns3073
      @sns3073 4 роки тому

      Same here...but i feel i was little late. Its been a year. But still have not healed completely ...

  • @sarwatsheikh8278
    @sarwatsheikh8278 3 роки тому +2

    You know what Dr Shefali....thank you for saying the exact words...that I was...saying. Codependency! I left it! Not because that person was abusive...but because I was unintentionally trying to stay in that same DYNAMICS. But guess what....an awakening time knocks at everyones' door...I chose to open my door towards that awakening and closed the doors upon old DYNAMICS!

  • @anellimm
    @anellimm 5 років тому +4

    Just in time, thank you.

    • @bwilliams4266
      @bwilliams4266 5 років тому

      I feel it’s wrong for anyone to date a the wrong person gladly I could hack my spouses phone on time with the help of a hacker and didn’t get to marry them because I saw their conversations with people and how entitled they felt! Contact mike if you need any hack help! He will help you hack whatsoever you need to social media phones you name it his contact details are:
      Instagram @MIKESWILFRED WhatsApp/text +15182175945 and email HACKERLITE0077@GMAIL.COM

  • @barinder2382
    @barinder2382 4 роки тому +5

    But what about if kids are involved in a relationship... ???? What should be the right decision so that children don’t suffer from an unhealthy relationship between the parents ?

    • @TraceyMrachek
      @TraceyMrachek 2 роки тому +3

      it's best to model self care to them by healing yourself, which sometimes can only happen by removing yourself from a toxic relationship and work on being codependent with yourself (self-parenting) rather than with another person. that's what I am doing, and it has provided more security to my children. it's showing them how to stand up for themselves. wishing you the best.

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 4 роки тому +1

    Every person that speak on this subject matter speak on it in the same manner. God bless you all. 😊😊😊

  • @thomasgrabowski2202
    @thomasgrabowski2202 Рік тому

  • @nickychopra1755
    @nickychopra1755 5 років тому +2

    Amazing, succinct - so much important insight delivered so quickly!! Thank you for this very well done video Dr. Shefali! You have forever change the way I understand my journey with relationships 🙏🙏

    • @bwilliams4266
      @bwilliams4266 5 років тому

      I feel it’s wrong for anyone to date a the wrong person gladly I could hack my spouses phone on time with the help of a hacker and didn’t get to marry them because I saw their conversations with people and how entitled they felt! Contact mike if you need any hack help! He will help you hack whatsoever you need to social media phones you name it his contact details are:
      Instagram @MIKESWILFRED WhatsApp/text +15182175945 and email HACKERLITE0077@GMAIL.COM

    • @donnawoodford6641
      @donnawoodford6641 4 роки тому

      She started to repeat herself at one point, but the message was shorter than most.

  • @snezray2324
    @snezray2324 Рік тому

    Amazing ❤

  • @thomasgrabowski2202
    @thomasgrabowski2202 Рік тому

    I REALLLY FUCKING NEEDED THIS THANK YOU!!!!!

  • @kendiramanush6250
    @kendiramanush6250 4 роки тому +1

    I just LOVE This WoMaN 😘👌
    Namaskaarem Heroin Shefali
    🙏💘

  • @ladennayoung2939
    @ladennayoung2939 4 роки тому +2

    Thanks for the video. It is good content. Pretty woman, and I love your accent.

  • @animeshsharma2281
    @animeshsharma2281 3 роки тому

    u r a great lady and
    beautiful speaker

  • @spirituallysoaringhigh6089
    @spirituallysoaringhigh6089 3 роки тому

    The relationship for me to grow

  • @blessedsoul8981
    @blessedsoul8981 3 роки тому

    The only video which helped me♥️

  • @PowerfulU
    @PowerfulU 4 роки тому +1

    Such great and important advice.

  • @Learning-Is-life-Sobia
    @Learning-Is-life-Sobia Рік тому

    Great

  • @ean3345
    @ean3345 3 роки тому

    God bless you.

  • @westcoastbred7745
    @westcoastbred7745 4 роки тому

    Wow just wow

  • @crepexuk
    @crepexuk 5 років тому +2

    Awesome. So much to be said about this topic... Wonder if there are any non-context dependent axioms that help sense check how well the couple is doing on these fronts

    • @bwilliams4266
      @bwilliams4266 5 років тому

      I feel it’s wrong for anyone to date a the wrong person gladly I could hack my spouses phone on time with the help of a hacker and didn’t get to marry them because I saw their conversations with people and how entitled they felt! Contact mike if you need any hack help! He will help you hack whatsoever you need to social media phones you name it his contact details are:
      Instagram @MIKESWILFRED WhatsApp/text +15182175945 and email HACKERLITE0077@GMAIL.COM

  • @spirituallysoaringhigh6089
    @spirituallysoaringhigh6089 3 роки тому

    And if you can’t grow to together then GO

  • @MrMathers1991
    @MrMathers1991 5 років тому +13

    Jay shetty's aunt ?

  • @doladutta7699
    @doladutta7699 4 роки тому +3

    What about parent child relationship where the young adult is emotionally and verbally abusive. Entitled, demanding. Is it tym to end.the relationaship as a parent n how

  • @thomasgrabowski2202
    @thomasgrabowski2202 Рік тому

    I should of left so much sooner. So much sooner. So so sos so so much sooner :'( !!!!! The control was HORRENDOUS!!!! NON STOP CONTROL! Can't say this! CAn't do thaT! "Don't hurt my feelings" like bruh! Anything that was supposed to be light was taken as insult like constantly walking on eggshells holy shit it was a NIGHTMARE. But yet she still "loved me" somehow.........I am so lost and confused seriously what the hell happened.......

  • @James-me6dw
    @James-me6dw 2 роки тому

    Proverbs 31.

  • @pja9142
    @pja9142 4 роки тому

    truth

  • @michaelst.helene1540
    @michaelst.helene1540 4 роки тому

    ok! but then how do we heal up abandonment or rejection, jealousy etc once it appears. I certainly agree relationships can be teachers!

  • @universelove6163
    @universelove6163 4 роки тому +1

    Does she have any videos about cheating !!!!!

  • @nadiafedorenko491
    @nadiafedorenko491 4 роки тому

    What if the toxic person is your own mother?

  • @JustBeREAL1st
    @JustBeREAL1st 4 роки тому

    Gone✌🏽

  • @renjia3504
    @renjia3504 5 років тому

    No I need her she only tried to stab me twice once with bill and another with my favorite katana

    • @bwilliams4266
      @bwilliams4266 5 років тому

      I feel it’s wrong for anyone to date a the wrong person gladly I could hack my spouses phone on time with the help of a hacker and didn’t get to marry them because I saw their conversations with people and how entitled they felt! Contact mike if you need any hack help! He will help you hack whatsoever you need to social media phones you name it his contact details are:
      Instagram @MIKESWILFRED WhatsApp/text +15182175945 and email HACKERLITE0077@GMAIL.COM

  • @lebroncr
    @lebroncr 5 років тому +1

    like your eyes but thats it