This brought me to tears. What she says about parents not able to witness their child's pain..this hits home on such a deep level. Thank you Dr. Shefali 🙏
Dr Shefali is incredible and she has transformed our family and we are a family of certified coaches and therapists. Keep up,the great work Dr Shefali from one Doctor to another.
Ohhhhhh Dr Shefali.... You are a blessing for us! Your words are soothing balm 🌿 what a narrative style ❤️❤️ everytime I loved listening to you 🙏 stay blessed dear!
Just as impressive as her insights is the smooth and poetic way she delivers them, without any hesitations or stumbles. I wonder, has she memorized this entire speech, or is she just so passionate about what she is saying that it comes as naturally as breathing? Kudos either way.
Dr. Shefali is so incredibly interesting to listen to. I am grateful to have found this woman a few months ago. Her book A Radical Awakening is a very important tool in my toolbox at the present time. With her UA-cam videos, shorts, books, interviews and her website, I am acknowledging my transformation. Thank you Dr. Shefali 🙏
I hear you. I have a 2 years old son. It takes so much from me to accept and welcome his pain. And I still wonder if I am doing it right, and all the time. If I were your mum, I would love you to sit me down and talk to me. Help your mum to help you.
My mum did exactly the same with me. I had to learn how to feel and accept my emotions which I started to do in my 30s. I have tried not to do the same with my own children.I am now a relationship counselor and the vast majority of people don't know how to feel their emotions. Above all we struggle with sitting in our pain. When we learn how to do that we are free.
This is why the movie my son is making about his father's life- a life filled with early abuse, witnessed atrocities, adult madness leading to a near-death experience in my early twenties as well as loss of friends to drugs, murder, the greater pain of losing a soul mate, cancer and emphysema, prison for a crime I did not commit, a train wreck, hold ups and physical attacks is going to be a COMEDY with the opening scene me receiving a lashing across my back that segues into scenes of my little niece and nephew dancing with hysterical joy. The agony IS the ecstasy, ultimately.
Brilliant because she connects pain and a paradigm shift to happiness. I had the triple play of abuse stop the insanity of the pain. How many frogs do you have to kiss before you can see the light. The western Dali Lama.....no really some people should never be parents.
This is true, but only in this crappy reality that we were insane enough to chose to participate in. At least it motivates us to get the hell out. Yes, use pain as your escape. It gives not only the motivation but also the means.
Thanks :) Preparing a book about how pain transforms us into (human) being. There's been 2 years and I haven't finished first page. Anyway was worth it to see this( angel in action :)
The purpose of pain is to teach you the most important lessons and if you ignore the pain then you won't learn the lesson and those who don't learn from the past are doomed to repeat it.
Coming from a brown family, parents have a misconception that depression can never happen to anyone and that mindset is what we have got to change cause once they come in terms with depression and that it can happen to anyone, at any stage of life (obviously not only because of break ups!), there is some hope that kids won't end up taking their own lives.
So what if its Indian accent? Does this change the message she gives? Everyone has their way to speak. Can u speak Hindi even a inch of how she speaks? U may become joker wen u try to speak in other language.
So would you say parents love for their children is conditioned love rather than unconditional love because we expect our children to behave in certain way? The expectations of society norms puts pressure on parents to ensure our children behave in certain ways.
The pain unvails the truth, where the pain is there is something that needs attention and care. So if we feel pain which most people do, then there is something wrong with this way of living. Its obvious that human value has dropped and the capital is again the first priority. This is what we fixed and got heald from in Europe hundred years ago, we stopped the pain but only in the countries we had the power to control. We couldnt fix America so that ship is sinking, Asia is aware and now even began to heal, they havent been allowed to start the healing until now just like in south america thay are not allowed to do the right thing. This psykotic power is now back in Europe, it has no other place to go any more. The middle east have had their share of the pain this power inflicts on humanity. And still its there they do most of the damage because noone cares about counties in the middle east. So what about not letting any country bully anyone again, not in any part of the earth should capital come before health and wellbeeing. We can no longer only save ourselfs, its a global thing now and its time to start acting like one planet, one human rase and fight for everyones right to their own leadership. It doesnt matter what opinion we have about other peoples way to rule, it has to be the people themselfs that makes the change not us on the other side of the planet dictating whats right or wrong. Just stop trying to save only yourself if the body dies then we all die. If we dont care about one hands pain cuz we´re living on the opposite side, on the other hand. Then the infection will start to spread and the illness will start a fever that weakens the hole body including the selfish hands people. if its just a scratch then it may not, it will heal by itself. But now its not scratches its bleeding. Its deep wounds and we feel that pain all of us in the soul we all use to run our bodys. I can not be that hard. It must be eazy to make progress towards whats good, if not then something really bad is working against our healing and that thing has to stop immediately. Put desinfection on it and just kill it. We cant like put a small bandage and think it would heal its not gonna work. The hole capital-fist system is wrong because capital is not living beeings. Its not even real. What is real is you and me and our planet and the real resourses is what our planet can provide for us. We can not make anything without the real resources. We need to stop this stupid game, immaginary credit that doesnt exist. Debt doesnt exist either. Its like we forgot that its all just a game, that the money is just a fake thing we made up for the sake of the game. But now just stop playing this stupid game you are crushing life with this non existing thing we cant even see anymore. Its just numbers. Digital numbers is destroying us cause we didnt hold fast to the truth and not the truth is swollowing us. COME ON PEOPLE BE SINSEAR FOR ONES or we just wont find what is hurting us. The big wound, find it. The fever is just a symptom, the rash, the chaos in the world is a symptom. What is needed to be done to stop the attack and start to heal?
my experience is you feel your pain not cover it up I covered it up for years until one day I want deep and felt until it was realize it took me to almost dealth then chose different
The eloquence , the elegance ,the smooth transition from one word to another like a story with so much depth and meaning is just mind blowing.
I admire her so much ❤
Agreed!! Thank you Dr Shefali.
This brought me to tears. What she says about parents not able to witness their child's pain..this hits home on such a deep level. Thank you Dr. Shefali 🙏
Your entire presentation was like watching a character from Shakespeare Drama in Theatre. 💖🇮🇳🙏
Dr Shefali is incredible and she has transformed our family and we are a family of certified coaches and therapists. Keep up,the great work Dr Shefali from one Doctor to another.
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Ohhhhhh Dr Shefali.... You are a blessing for us! Your words are soothing balm 🌿 what a narrative style ❤️❤️ everytime I loved listening to you 🙏 stay blessed dear!
Just as impressive as her insights is the smooth and poetic way she delivers them, without any hesitations or stumbles. I wonder, has she memorized this entire speech, or is she just so passionate about what she is saying that it comes as naturally as breathing? Kudos either way.
I just spent a weekend with her. Not a single stumble. Everything just flows! She is amazing and humble.
@@chantaldavis1341 Agreed- and her live courses are the same!!
This is what I ask myself every time I listen to her. I think it s a matter of intellect, passion and experience. And maybe a gift.
We need to listen more.
Dr. Shefali is so incredibly interesting to listen to. I am grateful to have found this woman a few months ago. Her book A Radical Awakening is a very important tool in my toolbox at the present time. With her UA-cam videos, shorts, books, interviews and her website, I am acknowledging my transformation. Thank you Dr. Shefali 🙏
This talk reminds me of one of the Chapters on Eckhart Tolle's book - A New Earth.
She really is so good, beautiful story teller with so much depth and meaning
I won’t be tired listening of your wisdom..
Dr Shefali is unbelievable! Her work has transformed my family 💙
Pain forces you to be present. If you don't want to suffer more, you take the gift that pain is giving you.
Thank u I’m in physical pain & have no patience
@@Ra-thesunking if you feel pain, you are still alive /saving privqte ryan
You are helping me to change my life. Thank u
Wow, wow, wow! Love her! Every talk is mind blowing.
Dr. Shefali what a speech. What a language...kudos
I can't even tell my mom when I'm suffering as she will come up with a thousand ideas to distract from it, most of which cause even more pain.
I hear you. I have a 2 years old son. It takes so much from me to accept and welcome his pain. And I still wonder if I am doing it right, and all the time. If I were your mum, I would love you to sit me down and talk to me. Help your mum to help you.
My mum did exactly the same with me. I had to learn how to feel and accept my emotions which I started to do in my 30s. I have tried not to do the same with my own children.I am now a relationship counselor and the vast majority of people don't know how to feel their emotions. Above all we struggle with sitting in our pain. When we learn how to do that we are free.
True
I hear you but you are lucky to have a mother present in your life who cares for you.😊
@@natalia-qb4fr iiui
This is why the movie my son is making about his father's life- a life filled with early abuse, witnessed atrocities, adult madness leading to a near-death experience in my early twenties as well as loss of friends to drugs, murder, the greater pain of losing a soul mate, cancer and emphysema, prison for a crime I did not commit, a train wreck, hold ups and physical attacks is going to be a
COMEDY with the opening scene me receiving a lashing across my back that segues into scenes of my little niece and nephew dancing with hysterical joy. The agony IS the ecstasy, ultimately.
Dr Shefali. Hi .thanks for your inputs . Have met u and am learning . Thx .
Brilliant because she connects pain and a paradigm shift to happiness. I had the triple play of abuse stop the insanity of the pain. How many frogs do you have to kiss before you can see the light. The western Dali Lama.....no really some people should never be parents.
She is soooo beautiful
SHE'S GORGEOUS! 😲
Brilliant! Insight for anyone and everyone.
Thank you Dr. Shefali for such an insightful talk.
All my fears came into my even when I was practically spiritually now I trust my inner self
So very good. Thanks Doc!
So truly magnificent...& so beautifully put....
Isn’t she blessed and a blessing as well?
Simply truth 🌟 Thank you. Bless you 🙏
This is true, but only in this crappy reality that we were insane enough to chose to participate in. At least it motivates us to get the hell out. Yes, use pain as your escape. It gives not only the motivation but also the means.
🙏 what a blessing
dr shifali u r amazing
Thanks :) Preparing a book about how pain transforms us into (human) being. There's been 2 years and I haven't finished first page. Anyway was worth it to see this( angel in action :)
I.LOVE HER SO MUCH!!!.,
One of my favourite stories from Shefali #evolve2019 #evolvewithDrShefali
The purpose of pain is to teach you the most important lessons and if you ignore the pain then you won't learn the lesson and those who don't learn from the past are doomed to repeat it.
Coming from a brown family, parents have a misconception that depression can never happen to anyone and that mindset is what we have got to change cause once they come in terms with depression and that it can happen to anyone, at any stage of life (obviously not only because of break ups!), there is some hope that kids won't end up taking their own lives.
thanks for this video, very nice.
Love your necklace! ❤️
Does anyone besides me think that she looks like Ashwariya Rai? ...Anyhow she is briliant!!!👏💞
Rani Sadhana she does!
She does!
Oh really I enjoyed you... Thank you...
Truly amazing!
Just wonderful
There is no kiss from another that will save you from your own dark deep shadows...
This is great
Yes! The one who comply are called Empaths. Most get left behind in life. I say that because I am one of those.
Amazing!
I need her book!
Channeling Jesus
I Love you my Super Sunshine. Love Mom...
12-29-2022
What will become of the ones who comply?
Powerful!!
I'm hearing an Indian accent???
Rhonda Sharon shefali is a indian name.....
she's Indian , she spent her initial years on the shores of the very beautiful and my incredible India !
So what if its Indian accent? Does this change the message she gives? Everyone has their way to speak. Can u speak Hindi even a inch of how she speaks? U may become joker wen u try to speak in other language.
So would you say parents love for their children is conditioned love rather than unconditional love because we expect our children to behave in certain way?
The expectations of society norms puts pressure on parents to ensure our children behave in certain ways.
She’s is truly amazing! Haha 😆
Call me overly dramatic, but I cried.
The pain unvails the truth, where the pain is there is something that needs attention and care. So if we feel pain which most people do, then there is something wrong with this way of living. Its obvious that human value has dropped and the capital is again the first priority. This is what we fixed and got heald from in Europe hundred years ago, we stopped the pain but only in the countries we had the power to control. We couldnt fix America so that ship is sinking, Asia is aware and now even began to heal, they havent been allowed to start the healing until now just like in south america thay are not allowed to do the right thing. This psykotic power is now back in Europe, it has no other place to go any more. The middle east have had their share of the pain this power inflicts on humanity. And still its there they do most of the damage because noone cares about counties in the middle east. So what about not letting any country bully anyone again, not in any part of the earth should capital come before health and wellbeeing. We can no longer only save ourselfs, its a global thing now and its time to start acting like one planet, one human rase and fight for everyones right to their own leadership. It doesnt matter what opinion we have about other peoples way to rule, it has to be the people themselfs that makes the change not us on the other side of the planet dictating whats right or wrong. Just stop trying to save only yourself if the body dies then we all die. If we dont care about one hands pain cuz we´re living on the opposite side, on the other hand. Then the infection will start to spread and the illness will start a fever that weakens the hole body including the selfish hands people. if its just a scratch then it may not, it will heal by itself. But now its not scratches its bleeding. Its deep wounds and we feel that pain all of us in the soul we all use to run our bodys. I can not be that hard. It must be eazy to make progress towards whats good, if not then something really bad is working against our healing and that thing has to stop immediately. Put desinfection on it and just kill it. We cant like put a small bandage and think it would heal its not gonna work. The hole capital-fist system is wrong because capital is not living beeings. Its not even real. What is real is you and me and our planet and the real resourses is what our planet can provide for us. We can not make anything without the real resources. We need to stop this stupid game, immaginary credit that doesnt exist. Debt doesnt exist either. Its like we forgot that its all just a game, that the money is just a fake thing we made up for the sake of the game. But now just stop playing this stupid game you are crushing life with this non existing thing we cant even see anymore. Its just numbers. Digital numbers is destroying us cause we didnt hold fast to the truth and not the truth is swollowing us. COME ON PEOPLE BE SINSEAR FOR ONES or we just wont find what is hurting us. The big wound, find it. The fever is just a symptom, the rash, the chaos in the world is a symptom. What is needed to be done to stop the attack and start to heal?
my experience is you feel your pain not cover it up
I covered it up for years until one day I want deep and felt until it was realize it took me to almost dealth then chose different
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So, nice
greeeaaaat one
7:31
so whats her point?
altaimountain she says we should be present,conscious and let our agenda go,with our kids..and be mindful which l still wonder how to do it!
@@rehannadsamara7342 yeah because he is a transagender helping to push the transagenda on children.
@@sandyk8594 what are you talking about?
No chance the people cheering grasped it!
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No brain no pain. Like in jellyfish
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