Escape the Comparison Trap

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  • Опубліковано 21 лис 2024

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  • @JameliaPinnock
    @JameliaPinnock 4 місяці тому +4

    Oh my I absolutely love this - I felt this so deeply “ The more you are, the more you be , that the more your children would have💜💜
    It only takes one person to be conscious.

  • @bakshi-littleoneslife
    @bakshi-littleoneslife 4 місяці тому +3

    Oh gosh!! I have so fallen into many of those comparisons traps! It is so easily done! Thank you for unlocking that cage for us 😊

    • @doctorshefali
      @doctorshefali  4 місяці тому +2

      Glad it was helpful!

    • @SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd
      @SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@@doctorshefali 🥳🌞🥳OUR EXTRAORDINARILY, BRILLIANT🥳🌞🥳 DR. 🪷SHEFALI🪷 🎎DOLL🎎 ... 🧘🧘‍♀️🧘‍♂️GODDESS🧘‍♂️🧘‍♀️🧘 👑🌞👑QUEEN👑🌞👑 KIND TEACHER, 🥰😘🥰DARLING🥰😘🥰 ... 💫🐯💫ROCKS💫🐯💫 ... 🧘🧘‍♀️🧘‍♂️YAY-YAY-YAY🧘‍♂️🧘‍♀️🧘 ... 🎉🎊🎉🎈🙏🌞🥳🌈🌠👨‍👩‍👦🌠🌈🥳🌞🙏🎈🎉🎊🎉

  • @goldieshawel8683
    @goldieshawel8683 4 місяці тому +3

    Comparing ourselves to others can be a way to either grow or stay in lack. Watching this episode helped me to see what ways I too am doing this in my life. As moms so much depends on us and the way we value or devalue ourselves. The more we respect ourselves, love and value ourselves the less we will fall into the comparison traps.

    • @doctorshefali
      @doctorshefali  4 місяці тому +3

      Thank you for your insight. It's true that self-respect and self-love can help us avoid comparison traps. Please follow and share the podcast! 🌟

  • @natashavithal9161
    @natashavithal9161 3 місяці тому

    Thank you for this reminder! :)

  • @Mytown2024
    @Mytown2024 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you very much for this episode Dr Shefali. I really enjoyed it.
    I loved the lesson from the first case, I feel that it's so powerful to realize that by being present a situation/interaction/relationship can totally turned around. To be present is much more powerful than having all the money in the world❤.
    I'm just thinking about HOW someone really makes feel when they are present with me? I feel alive, I feel joy and in the case of people close to me, I feel that they have me in their heart ❤

    • @doctorshefali
      @doctorshefali  4 місяці тому +2

      Wonderful!

    • @SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd
      @SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd 4 місяці тому +1

      ​@@doctorshefali
      🎉🎊🎉🎈🙏🌞🥳🌈🌠👨‍👩‍👦🌠🌈🥳🌞🙏🎈🎉🎊🎉
      AWW, 🥳🌞🥳OUR ELOQUENTLY, EXCHANTING🥳🌞🥳 DR. 🪷SHEFALI🪷 🎎DOLL🎎 ... 🧘🧘‍♀️🧘‍♂️GODDESS🧘‍♂️🧘‍♀️🧘 👑🌞👑QUEEN👑🌞👑 KIND TEACHER, MA'AM: 🔉❤️🔉THE SECRET IN SINGING
      IS FOUND BETWEEN THE VIBRATION IN THE SINGER'S VOICE AND THE THROB IN THE HEARER'S HEART🔉❤️🔉.
      ~🥰😘🥰KAHLIL GIBRAN🥰😘🥰

  • @LaminJammeh-wk3kl
    @LaminJammeh-wk3kl 4 місяці тому

    Good morning doctor shefali

  • @cecilec7512
    @cecilec7512 4 місяці тому

    Thank you soooo much for this episode!!!
    I am so guilty of that, saying to my daughter: you only love your dad, you prefer him. I left her dad due to emotional abuse from him to me.
    And it’s so hard indeed.
    But watching this helped me so much to understand why she’s rejecting me. It’s an eye opener. Thank you so so much Dr Shefali and to both of your guests who I resonated with both.

    • @doctorshefali
      @doctorshefali  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your experience. It's great to hear that the episode provided insight and clarity for you. Please follow and share the podcast! 🌟

  • @suzannemarambio1
    @suzannemarambio1 4 місяці тому +1

    Love this topic as I am constantly checking into my own inner child to soothe her and release the trauma and become abundant and whole again

  • @cinderella407
    @cinderella407 4 місяці тому +2

    🎉🎊🎉🎈🙏🌞🥳🌈🌠👨‍👩‍👦🌠🌈🥳🌞🙏🎈🎉🎊🎉
    THANK 🥰😘🥰YOU🥰😘🥰 ... 🐯🇯🇵🐯WHOLEHEARTEDLY, FOR HELPING THE LIKES OF US🐯🇯🇵🐯, 🥳🌞🥳OUR EXUBERANTLY, JOYFUL🥳🌞🥳 DR. 🌷SHEFALI🌷
    🎎DOLL🎎 ... 🧘
    🧘‍♀️🧘‍♂️GODDESS🧘‍♂️🧘‍♀️🧘
    👑🌞👑QUEEN👑🌞👑 KIND TEACHER, 🥰😘🥰DARLING🥰😘🥰 ... 🎉🎊🎉🎈🙏🌞🥳🌈🌠👨‍👩‍👦🌠🌈🥳🌞🙏🎈🎉🎊🎉

    • @SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd
      @SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd 4 місяці тому +2

      🎉🎊🎉🎈🙏🌞🥳🌈🌠👨‍👩‍👦🌠🌈🥳🌞🙏🎈🎉🎊🎉
      AND ... NOW, PLEASE ... ALLOW ME, TO REITERATE, 🥳🌞🥳OUR GLORIOUSLY, PHENOMENAL🥳🌞🥳 DR. 🪷SHEFALI🪷 🎎DOLL🎎 ... 🧘🧘‍♀️🧘‍♂️GODDESS🧘‍♂️🧘‍♀️🧘 👑🌞👑QUEEN👑🌞👑 KIND TEACHER, 🥰😘🥰DARLING🥰😘🥰: WE AIM TO MAKE 🥰😘🥰YOU🥰😘🥰 ... PROUD OF US, KIND TEACHER, 🥰😘🥰DARLING🥰😘🥰 ... 🎉🎊🎉🎈🙏🌞🥳🌈🌠👨‍👩‍👦🌠🌈🥳🌞🙏🎈🎉🎊🎉

    • @SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd
      @SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd 4 місяці тому +2

      🎉🎊🎉🎈🙏🌞🥳🌈🌠👨‍👩‍👦🌠🌈🥳🌞🙏🎈🎉🎊🎉
      THERE YOU GO NOW, 🥰😘🥰BELOVED🥰😘🥰
      👨‍👩‍👦MOMMY👨‍👩‍👦 ... IT'S A LITTLE TECHNIQUE, WHICH, WE'VE DEVISED ... WITH THE PASSAGE OF TIME ... EVERY SINGLE TIME, WE FALL FROM GRACE ... WITHIN OURSELVES: NOPE, 🥳🌞🥳OUR EXUBERANTLY, JOYFUL🥳🌞🥳 DR. 🪷SHEFALI🪷 🎎DOLL🎎 ... 🧘🧘‍♀️🧘‍♂️GODDESS🧘‍♂️🧘‍♀️🧘 👑🌞👑QUEEN👑🌞👑 KIND TEACHER, 🥰😘🥰DARLING🥰😘🥰 ... WILL MOST CERTAINLY, NOT BE...PROUD OF US AND, OF COURSE, 💫🐯💫WE COMPOSE OURSELVES💫🐯💫, KIND TEACHER, 🥰😘🥰DARLING🥰😘🥰 ... 🎉🎊🎉🎈🙏🌞🥳🌈🌠👨‍👩‍👦🌠🌈🥳🌞🙏🎈🎉🎊🎉

  • @cinderella407
    @cinderella407 4 місяці тому +2

    🎉🎊🎉🎈🙏🌞🥳🌈🌠👨‍👩‍👦🌠🌈🥳🌞🙏🎈🎉🎊🎉
    😮WOW😮
    🥳🌞🥳OUR EXUBERANTLY, JOYFUL🥳🌞🥳 🥰😘🥰BELOVED🥰😘🥰
    🧘🧘‍♀️🧘‍♂️CONSCIOUS🧘‍♂️🧘‍♀️🧘 DR.
    🌷MOMMY🌷, MA'AM ... THE CARIBBEAN IS TAKING A POUNDING, KIND TEACHER, 🥰😘🥰DARLING🥰😘🥰 ... 🎉🎊🎉🎈🙏🌞🥳🌈🌠👨‍👩‍👦🌠🌈🥳🌞🙏🎈🎉🎊🎉

    • @SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd
      @SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd 4 місяці тому +2

      🎉🎊🎉🎈🙏🌞🥳🌈🌠👨‍👩‍👦🌠🌈🥳🌞🙏🎈🎉🎊🎉
      AND, IT HAS ... ONLY, NOW ... BEGUN
      😮WOW😮
      🥳🌞🥳OUR EXTRAORDINARILY, BRILLIANT🌞🥳🌞
      🧘🧘‍♀️🧘‍♂️CONSCIOUS🧘‍♂️🧘‍♀️🧘 DR. 🪷MOMMY🪷, MA'AM ... 🥰😘🥰BE WELL, ALWAYS🥰😘🥰 ... 🎉🎊🎉🎈🙏🌞🥳🌈🌠👨‍👩‍👦🌠🌈🥳🌞🙏🎈🎉🎊🎉

    • @SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd
      @SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd 4 місяці тому +1

      🎉🎊🎉🎈🙏🌞🥳🌈🌠👨‍👩‍👦🌠🌈🥳🌞🙏🎈🎉🎊🎉
      INDEED, 🧚‍♀️💫🧚‍♀️OUR DIVINELY, AWESOME🧚‍♀️💫🧚‍♀️ DR. 🪷SHEFALI🪷
      🎎DOLL🎎 ... 🧘🧘‍♀️🧘‍♂️GODDESS🧘‍♂️🧘‍♀️🧘 👑🌞👑QUEEN👑🌞👑 KIND TEACHER, MA'AM: THE 🪻🧚‍♀️🪻🪷FLOWERS🪷 OF THE FIELD ARE THE CHILDREN OF 🌞🥳🌞SUN'S AFFECTION AND NATURE'S
      L❤❤❤❤❤VE🌞🥳🌞; AND THE CHILDREN OF MEN ARE THE 🪷FLOWERS🪷 OF L❤❤❤❤❤VE AND COMPASSION🧚‍♀️💫🧚‍♀️.
      ~🥰😘🥰KAHLIL GIBRAN🥰😘🥰

    • @SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd
      @SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd 4 місяці тому +1

      @@cinderella407
      🎊🎊🎊🎈🙏🌞🥳🌈🌠👨‍👩‍👦🌠🌈🥰🌞🙏🎈🎊🎊🎊
      AND, I STILL CANNOT COMPREHEND ... WHY, FROM THE VERY INCEPTION ... WHY, WASN'T SOME CARIBBEAN HOSPITALITY EXTENDED TO HURRICANE, 👾💫👾MS. BERYL👾💫👾, KIND TEACHER, MA'AM ... THEY SHOULD HAVE GIVEN HER SOME RUM TO DRINK, OUR 🥰😘🥰BELOVED🥰😘🥰 🧘🧘‍♀️🧘‍♂️CONSCIOUS🧘‍♂️🧘‍♀️🧘 DR. 🪷MOMMY🪷, MA'AM ... 🎊🎊🎊🎈🙏🌞🥳🌈🌠👨‍👩‍👦🌠🌈🌞🥳🙏🎈🎊🎊🎊

  • @rodicaghiculescu3135
    @rodicaghiculescu3135 4 місяці тому

    Now I understand why I backed off when my son rejected me after I gave birth to my secon child, instead of reaching to him 😢

    • @doctorshefali
      @doctorshefali  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you for sharing your realization. It's never too late to reconnect.🌟

    • @rodicaghiculescu3135
      @rodicaghiculescu3135 3 місяці тому

      @@doctorshefali Thank so much for your encouragement !

  • @cinderella407
    @cinderella407 4 місяці тому +3

    🎉🎊🎉🎈🌞🥳🙏🌈🌠👨‍👩‍👦🌠🌈🙏🥳🌞🎈🎉🎊🎉
    AWW, 🥳🌞🥳OUR GLORIOUSLY, PHENOMENAL🥳🌞🥳 DR. 🌷SHEFALI🌷 🎎DOLL🎎 ... 🧘🧘‍♀️🧘‍♂️GODDESS🧘‍♂️🧘‍♀️🧘
    🌞👑🌞QUEEN🌞👑🌞 KIND TEACHER, MA'AM ... INDEED, 🥰😘🥰MUCH...MUCH
    L❤❤❤❤❤VE AND APPRECIATION TO YOUR GOOD SELF🥰😘🥰, KIND TEACHER, ❤️🧸❤️DARLING❤️🧸❤️ ... 🎉🎊🎉🎈🌞🥳🙏🌈🌠👨‍👩‍👦🌠🌈🙏🥳🌞🎈🎉🎊🎉

    • @SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd
      @SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd 4 місяці тому +2

      🎉🎊🎉🎈🙏🌞🥳🌠🌈👨‍👩‍👦🌈🌠🥳🌞🙏🎈🎉🎊🎉
      FOR, THE SECOND PART OF YOUR PUBLICATION ... HAS INSPIRED ME, TO SOLIDIFY: HOW PEOPLE ARE---IS THEIR CHOICE.
      HOW I AM IS MY CHOICE.
      NO MATTER WHAT THEY DO---NO ONE CAN MAKE ME ANGRY---HAPPY OR UNHAPPY.
      🎈🙏🌞🥳🌈THESE PRIVILEGES---I HAVE KEPT TO MYSELF🌈🌠🥳🌞🙏🎈, KIND TEACHER, 🥰😘🥰DARLING🥰😘🥰 ... 🎉🎊🎉🎈🙏🌞🥳🌠🌈👨‍👩‍👦🌈🌠🥳🌞🙏🎈🎉🎊🎉

  • @cinderella407
    @cinderella407 4 місяці тому +1

    🎉🎊🎉🎈🙏🌞🥳🌈🌠👨‍👩‍👦🌠🌈🥳🌞🙏🎈🎉🎊🎉
    AWW, ⛳️🇯🇵⛳️OUR SUPREMELY, SOPHISTICATED⛳️🇯🇵⛳️ DR. 🌷SHEFALI🌷 🎎DOLL🎎 ... 🧘🧘‍♀️🧘‍♂️GODDESS🧘‍♂️🧘‍♀️🧘
    👑🌞👑QUEEN👑🌞👑 KIND TEACHER, MA'AM: 🧘🧘‍♀️🧘‍♂️WE LIVE UPON ONE ANOTHER ACCORDING TO THE LAW, ANCIENT AND TIMELESS. LET US LIVE THUS IN LOVING-KINDNESS🧘‍♂️🧘‍♀️🧘.
    ~🥰😘🥰KAHLIL GIBRAN🥰😘🥰

    • @SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd
      @SINDAMANYVERAPEN-oo2zd 4 місяці тому +1

      🎉🎊🎉🎈🙏🌞🥳🌈🌠👨‍👩‍👦🌠🌈🥳🌞🙏🎈🎉🎊🎉
      AFFIRMATIVELY, 🧘🧘‍♀️🧘‍♂️OUR DIVINELY, AWESOME🧘‍♂️🧘‍♀️🧘 DR. 🪷SHEFALI🪷
      🎎DOLL🎎 ... 🧘🧘‍♀️🧘‍♂️GODDESS🧘‍♂️🧘‍♀️🧘 👑🌞👑QUEEN👑🌞👑 KIND TEACHER, MA'AM: 💫🧚‍♀️💫FROM A SENSITIVE WOMAN'S HEART SPRINGS THE HAPPINESS OF MANKIND AND FROM THE KINDNESS OF HER NOBLE SPIRIT COMES MANKIND'S AFFECTION💫🧚‍♀️💫.
      ~🥰😘🥰KAHLIL GIBRAN🥰😘🥰

  • @KhalidKhan-tv1oc
    @KhalidKhan-tv1oc 4 місяці тому +1

    💖💝💯💝💖