9 Signs Negativity is Eating You Up

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  • @ShortHax
    @ShortHax 3 роки тому +973

    When someone tells you to get rid of the negative person in your life but you are the negative person in your life...

  • @klee5318
    @klee5318 3 роки тому +381

    Time stamps:
    1. Frequent mood swings 0:58
    2. Glass half empty 1:20
    3. Social media junkie 1:53
    4. Discouraging thoughts 2:28
    5. You feel anxious often 2:54
    6. Your funny bone hasn’t been tickled in a while 3:26
    7. You’ve stopped working on your hobbies 4:05
    8. Extended period of isolation 4:34
    9. Environment of gossip 5:19
    Stay strong, you can get through this^^

    • @lybo1581
      @lybo1581 3 роки тому +6

      Thanks a lot 🤗

    • @klee5318
      @klee5318 3 роки тому +4

      @@lybo1581 you’re welcome :)

    • @ev9256
      @ev9256 3 роки тому +1

      Thank you, same! :)

    • @SumanSharma-pf1nn
      @SumanSharma-pf1nn 3 роки тому +1

      Excluding the third one ....I am/have experiencing/experienced all other eight

    • @au9parsec
      @au9parsec 3 роки тому

      If a chipmunk can make it through these hard times then anyone can.

  • @thecatsbackyard4833
    @thecatsbackyard4833 3 роки тому +175

    R.I.P. customer service and service industry workers. Imagine a situation where you have to absorb other people's abrasive toxicity all day long. Imagine having to do that to barely survive and take care of your family. Be kind and gentle to those. People who made your burger or bagged your groceries with a smile. People who took the security tag off that new shirt you love or who took your ticket at the movie theater back when theaters were safe places to congregate.

    • @wawaperpe1600
      @wawaperpe1600 3 роки тому +3

      currently working two jobs in the service industry while in a toxic relationship :) im losing it man

    • @thecatsbackyard4833
      @thecatsbackyard4833 3 роки тому +1

      @@wawaperpe1600 Oh, that sounds rough. You might check out clinical trials. I think you'd be surprised how many are out there and also at how much caution they use. There's also a lot of educated and friendly people that go to these things. It's kind of a cool way to raise start up capital for a small business or the down payment for a house or car. I ran into a guy who was literally paying for a good deal of his college expenses this way. He wasn't a fool either. He was on like his sixth year of school to be a brain surgeon. The studies might pay anywhere from 2 to 3 thousand dollars a week but you have to qualify. You might check it out.

    • @justtrying1952
      @justtrying1952 3 роки тому +1

      @@wawaperpe1600 I hope you’re okay

    • @wawaperpe1600
      @wawaperpe1600 3 роки тому +1

      @@thecatsbackyard4833 thanks for the information ill definitely check it out bro! means a lot :)

    • @wawaperpe1600
      @wawaperpe1600 3 роки тому

      @@justtrying1952 im holding in there. school starts up again soon so i can not work as much and have a distraction from my relationship so. its so hard though because im extremely depressed and like have anger issues and im genuinely losing it istg it gets so much harder everyday. :/ nothing i can do but keep trying so ill get better someday yk?

  • @tatili8214
    @tatili8214 3 роки тому +436

    me watching this and finding out that I’ve been a lot more positive lately : this is nice :)
    edit : I’m literally so glad that this is my most liked comment and that there’s so many people who agree and are also finding that they’ve been more positive lately. it’s so great to know that there’s many other people going through the same amazing feelings as me ♡ it truly makes me smile :))

  • @TheBUCfifty
    @TheBUCfifty 3 роки тому +195

    Number 4 is the story of my life... It's hard NOT to be filled with negative thoughts/emotions when about everytime you try talking with new people or improving in hobbies you enjoy just go horribly.

    • @generic_tough_guy.4830
      @generic_tough_guy.4830 3 роки тому +17

      I feel yah, almost every time I try to talk and say something dumb or annoying or make a terrible joke I just get yelled at by my dad and it ruins whatever we're doing then my parents have the audacity to question why I avoid the family and don't have friends

    • @memeurr--dreemurr8530
      @memeurr--dreemurr8530 3 роки тому

      @@generic_tough_guy.4830 I'm in the same situation. My father would shout at me when I told him a joke, and would also scream at me for not being feminine like he wanted me to be.

    • @generic_tough_guy.4830
      @generic_tough_guy.4830 3 роки тому

      @@memeurr--dreemurr8530 ok CLEARLY not nearly as bad as you
      That sounds fucked

    • @njay6494
      @njay6494 3 роки тому

      @@memeurr--dreemurr8530 oh damn. That's not pleasant one bit

  • @madenita1693
    @madenita1693 3 роки тому +14

    This will be extremely hard when the toxic people in your life is your OWN parents.

    • @ZachEditz748
      @ZachEditz748 2 роки тому

      Trust me, my parents are the main reason I get angry so easily

    • @Iuffycs
      @Iuffycs 11 місяців тому

      or your "older" siblings

  • @enigmatic2878
    @enigmatic2878 3 роки тому +113

    You know negativity is too serious when you resort to talking to strangers online about your feeoings rather than the people close to you.

  • @unclaimedusername6608
    @unclaimedusername6608 3 роки тому +24

    God it's been months since I've felt like drawing. I keep thinking "I should draw something. It's been a while" but when I have the free time I just can't work up the motivation to. I don't know how to get out of this slump, tbh.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +3

      Hey there Unclaimed Username, thanks for sharing. That sounds tough. Have you considered just drawing without feeling or thinking you should or need to? Maybe if you don't set that expectation you can free your mind a bit :) Good luck!

    • @Nite-Mite
      @Nite-Mite 3 роки тому +1

      Same here, only I'm an amateur writer. I've written and posted some stuff already, even had plans for so many more stories. But now? I'd be lucky if I can squeeze out a single short-story, depending on my mood. I have all my ideas for my big stories typed and mapped out, just sitting in my folder waiting to be fleshed out. And they probably never will be at this rate...

  • @Elenamation
    @Elenamation 3 роки тому +63

    “Life is too short to stay in a bubble”
    That’s the thing I have lots of negativity but I can’t escape it, my negativity grows stronger cause of my anxiety disorder and thoughts of death

    • @Elenamation
      @Elenamation 3 роки тому

      @Kayleen Callista yes it does every time I look at some one and I just think of death

    • @usernotfound5935
      @usernotfound5935 3 роки тому

      I'm sorry to hear :(

    • @sierra_mistz
      @sierra_mistz 3 роки тому +2

      I used to have a phobia of death and thought about it everyday... but I have come to the conclusion that it is inevitable and you shouldn't be afraid because God has a plan for you in the eternal life... SO live your life and be happy while you can. Personally reading God's words and just being thankful for everything I have makes me feel better about everything... I don't know what make you happy but don't be too hard on yourself... but if you are religous I would recommend sitting down and just talking with God about everything and praying and ALL THE FEAR AND ANXIETY WILL GO AWAY!!!
      It worked for me and I know it will work for you too!!! It's okay to be scared but don't let it control you❤❤

  • @lizwicksonatastudios
    @lizwicksonatastudios 3 роки тому +127

    I used to think beating myself up was being responsible and being negative was being mature. Now I know that it not true.

    • @sierra_mistz
      @sierra_mistz 3 роки тому +1

      I get how you feel. I would always get anxious and anxiety and intrusive thoughts that were negative and thought it was me so I would beat myself up about it too. But then I realized I am strong and God's mercy will help me. Please know you can do it and I truly believe in you. YOU GOT THIS!!❤❤❤❤ AND ALWAYS REMEMBER GOD IS ON YOUR SIDE AND IT IS OKAY TO FEEL LOW AT SOME POINTS BUT PICK YOURSELF UP AND KEEP GOING!!!!!

    • @lizwicksonatastudios
      @lizwicksonatastudios 3 роки тому +1

      @@sierra_mistz Thanks man. As Sunset Shimmer once said, “My past is not today!”.

  • @cranklabexplosion-labcentr8245
    @cranklabexplosion-labcentr8245 3 роки тому +210

    Imagine the worlds vibes if all social media platforms just “disappeared”

    • @loganthatcher3647
      @loganthatcher3647 3 роки тому +11

      Those companies stocks would plummet!

    • @randomnessexistance821
      @randomnessexistance821 3 роки тому +28

      Me who can only contact and talk to my friends through social media: Guess I'll die then

    • @That.Lady.withtheYarn
      @That.Lady.withtheYarn 3 роки тому +5

      @@randomnessexistance821 sane here.

    • @crowblossom06
      @crowblossom06 3 роки тому +7

      Not like I and many other people have great online friends over Discord

    • @randomnessexistance821
      @randomnessexistance821 3 роки тому +10

      Oh yeah, and also UA-cam is a social media platform too so that would also get chucked out the door :/

  • @PlaystationMarth
    @PlaystationMarth 3 роки тому +3

    I'm filled with negativity and uncertainty, but I'm trying my best to fight it.

  • @riazuil24
    @riazuil24 3 роки тому +7

    Otome games are the only thing keeping me happy right now
    because I feel loved while surrounded by fictional characters

    • @jermadderall
      @jermadderall 3 роки тому

      Same

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому

      Hey SadButBoredSimp, thanks for sharing. That's okay. A lot of people turn to games to find positivity and happiness. Just make sure you don't get too caught up in it :) What's your favorite otome game?

  • @Saltycrowofficial
    @Saltycrowofficial 3 роки тому +112

    Us: HEY! Git outta my head
    Psych2go: No!

    • @UnknownRager96
      @UnknownRager96 3 роки тому +5

      ah, is that an asdf reference?
      "Hey! Git outta my sandwich!"

    • @Saltycrowofficial
      @Saltycrowofficial 3 роки тому +3

      @@UnknownRager96 Yeah 🤣

    • @drpottymouth
      @drpottymouth 3 роки тому +1

      They're like Anonymous, only it's neural, and not technological.

  • @ihearteyesbella
    @ihearteyesbella 3 роки тому +35

    my mum is the best person in my life right now and i cant help but feel like im radiating my bad energy and 'pessimissism' to her

    • @a.k-chan6331
      @a.k-chan6331 3 роки тому +3

      Samee My mom is really a positive person and has to handle a pessimist like me and I feel guilty for that......

  • @QueenGreenflame
    @QueenGreenflame 3 роки тому +73

    Hehe-
    Maybe this explains why I hate all my friends-
    Long story short, all of my friends are positive and I'm the only negative one out of all of them and whenever I say something negative I find funny, they all give each other a side glance and do that awkward laugh or an awkward silence creeps over us.
    Tbh, I think if I got negative friends like me, I'd become more positive in the sense that I'd think I'm actually a likeable person, where as now, people make it seem as if I'm the only negative person out there and my opinion is weird and/or not important.

    • @epicofgirlycub8145
      @epicofgirlycub8145 3 роки тому +5

      Ok why is this so relatable-
      Btw I wil pray for you and I hope your life gets better.

    • @QueenGreenflame
      @QueenGreenflame 3 роки тому +2

      @@epicofgirlycub8145 Thank you, I appreciate your support :>

    • @epicofgirlycub8145
      @epicofgirlycub8145 3 роки тому +2

      @@QueenGreenflame ☺️😊🙏 you deserve it .

    • @saramariasdotter3681
      @saramariasdotter3681 3 роки тому +3

      You've got a good sense of ironic humour! That should make you popular among positive, as well as negative people, I think...! How about becoming a stand-up comedian!?...

    • @moccy
      @moccy 3 роки тому +4

      I refrained sharing everything with my mom. Whenever i say about cooking, sport, gym etc, her first response usually finding fault e.g. the soup looks oily, gym is not good, hiking not good for knee. I just dont feel like sharing everything.
      One day my partner shares something he wished to do for future job, and I commented, what if it's dangerous, what if you cant get regular income etc. He told me, I hope when i share something, you dont project your own overthinking and be so negative. I was taken aback. I'm doing what I dislike. It doesnt mean I refrain from talking my concern, I learn how to disagree in a healthier manner.

  • @SoraFan23
    @SoraFan23 3 роки тому +47

    I feel like everything around me is negative and maybe its just me or my life is just becoming more unbearble each day. I know people always tell me "Things will get better" but then I just tired of hearing that statement.

    • @sierra_mistz
      @sierra_mistz 3 роки тому

      Well since your tired of hearing that one I will give you a new statement to be tired of......
      It's called GOD IS ON YOUR SIDE AND HE WILL GET YOU THROUGH ANYTHING... SO DONT EVER GIVE UP!!!!!
      Your supposed to face trials and tribulations so they make you stronger and more confident so in other words YOU GOT THIS... sometimes I struggle too but then I remember God is merciful and good to everyone and he loves me then I go on about my day!!!😊😊

    • @SoraFan23
      @SoraFan23 3 роки тому

      @@sierra_mistz "Go on about my day" I've heard that one before. Pfft everything in life is such a joke. Its nearly impossible to be happy given all the shit that is going on in the world and pretending like everything is going to be okay is only going to hurt my mental health.

    • @sierra_mistz
      @sierra_mistz 3 роки тому

      @@SoraFan23 I'm sorry if I upset you I thought I was helping... I got tired of hearing that too and I thought I was gonna be sad and hopeless forever but...... i don't personally know you so I can't really know what your going through but I am too and I know that everything will be OK. Life is a choice and it sucks sometimes but I know you will get stronger wheather you realize it or not..... anyways sorry if I upset you I just thought I was helping. It was probably annoying tbh so pls forgive me

  • @NFSMAN50
    @NFSMAN50 3 роки тому +26

    I've been having negative thoughts lately, I was rumitating about the past, over stuff that happened years ago, and it was eating me up. Us Human beings have a negativity bias and easy remember the negative, pessimism in our lives, but it's hard to remember the happy positive thoughts. We aren't meant to be living a life full of negativity, but it's hard, when the enviornment, the people you are around are negative. Keep on moving forward everyone here.

    • @Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes
      @Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes 3 роки тому +2

      Happen to me too, theses last month. (I have depression & anxiety)
      Take care or yourself, take care of your mental health. I wish psych2Go help you.
      We are all different 💚 Think to yourself ^^

  • @ashuachi6954
    @ashuachi6954 3 роки тому +72

    When it comes to giving suggestions or opinions to others, I'm the most optimistic person.but when it comes to me,my mind always discourages me with negative thoughts (what's it turns out into the worst....)
    Me:hey it's quite difficult,but I think I can do it,in some other way.
    Mind:bruh u think so....
    Me:uhmmm...... leave it

    • @saramariasdotter3681
      @saramariasdotter3681 3 роки тому

      If your friends like to listen to you and appreciate your advices, you're stupid if you don't start listening to yourself! 🤣

    • @randomgirl2994
      @randomgirl2994 3 роки тому +2

      I feel the same way but I find that I’m questioning myself: how do I know if this is negativity, and not depression? Maybe it’s a bit of both?

    • @jindorathexplorer
      @jindorathexplorer 3 роки тому

      don't care about what they say, do what you wanna do, it's your life after all. They're saying this cause they're jealous because they know you can do it and you're a strong person. Hope that helped :)

    • @ashuachi6954
      @ashuachi6954 3 роки тому +1

      @@jindorathexplorer well tqs for that, it's just that I'm gifted.but I don't have any support from my family mentally, emotionally and financially.i have confidence in me that whatever career I choose I can do my best in it but I don't where's to start and career path I choose and I never give a damn about what others thought of me,I only care about my family but they choose to support others rather than in me.i wish god show me right path and directs me.😊

  • @FA3WILDES
    @FA3WILDES 3 роки тому +13

    Can you make a video on how to get RID of all the negativity and negative thoughts please? ❤️🌱 Im a huge fan of this channel it has great advice for all the things I have and currently am going through from Anxiety, to Dating advice all through cute animations!!

    • @jewell-_-
      @jewell-_- 3 роки тому +2

      We cannot get rid of it. We have to accept that it exists but what matters is how we handle it. ❣

    • @girly.mimi00
      @girly.mimi00 3 роки тому +2

      @@jewell-_- Well said.

    • @gnarthdarkanen7464
      @gnarthdarkanen7464 3 роки тому

      It's balancing between "Legitimate concerns" and "A stop-sign for a brain"...
      Mostly, try not to transplant your brain with a stop-sign. It's no good... and nothing happens when you just give up and quit...
      Legitimate concerns are legitimate (by definition)... Like the possibility that because I ride motorcycles AND because I'm human, I might fall off my bike sometime. That's a legitimate concern, but no reason for me to stop riding motorcycles... I buy and keep up with my gear, and I don't do anything "too stupid" on the road. I obey the general traffic flow, and keep my eyes out and trained to find the patterns of "stuff going wrong" as far as I can possibly see... That avoids a LOT of trouble that could cause me to fall off the bike...
      Having a stop-sign for a brain is just saying... "Damn! That's just too fast to be riding without any protection at all... I'm sticking to riding in the back of the bus and being small."
      Likewise, when I'm working on a project like nothing I've ever done before... say welding together an axle hitch for my bike to pull a trailer... Someone might point out that I've never done anything like that... BUT it's still just welding, and I HAVE welded before... SO I balance the concerns... I could screw up a weld and it could break off... SO I do a little extra engineering and make sure my welds aren't more critical to it than necessary... BUT at the end of the day, it's just a little trailer, so the worst I could do with it is ding someone's vehicle or lose it on a curve through someone's yard... More embarrassment than anything, and I have insurance... I'll test it.
      AND if I don't mess up my first try out of the figurative gate, how am I supposed to learn how to get it straightened out so I can do it on my own??? Someone else might want a cheap custom trailer hitch for their motorcycle... I could be useful (and even make money)...
      Don't give up... find a different angle if you can (and it's worth it)... BUT just don't give up. ;o)

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому

      Hey Wolfygirl360, thanks for reaching out! Check out that video here: ua-cam.com/video/UAwcCjCzPks/v-deo.html&pp=sAQA

  • @excaliburknives3572
    @excaliburknives3572 3 роки тому +2

    I’m negative because any attempt to be positive shoots back in my face. So as much as I would like to be a positive person, I’m staying in the negativity.

  • @Artist_Arie
    @Artist_Arie 3 роки тому +1

    It’s like you reached into my soul.. I just ended relationships. I didn’t burn a bridge, I burnt the town! Only the ones I knew be there, were the ones still there.
    The rest.. my Walls are up, all feelings are off… this week starts my lifetime of peace. I demand it so 😅💖💖

  • @mrhammettsguitarpick
    @mrhammettsguitarpick 3 роки тому +137

    I hate it but I’m a pessimist over half the time.

  • @endergamer.mp4
    @endergamer.mp4 3 роки тому +71

    Kinda wished I could get rid of my negative energy source but my parents radiate lots of negative energy, even worse than Chernobyl.

    • @scrawnymf
      @scrawnymf 3 роки тому +6

      I feel you dude

    • @Julie-sc9ff
      @Julie-sc9ff 3 роки тому +8

      Same, my parents are always talking about bad things ppl do, or pointing out a "flaw" on somebody, and I feel like it's wearing me out

    • @LyntzbartzkyPerez
      @LyntzbartzkyPerez 3 роки тому +6

      My best friend has very negative emotions i can feel. It really sucks, because I don’t really want to hang out with her anymore because of it, but shes such a good person and it would just be wrong to unfriend her because of it. Im just hoping she gets things sorted out soon

  • @JessicaJohnsonArtist
    @JessicaJohnsonArtist 2 роки тому

    Reading the news & social media really gets me in a negative mood. I try avoid it as much as possible

  • @criescutely7960
    @criescutely7960 3 роки тому +2

    It’s hard to get away from the negativity when it literally lives with you. My entire family is negative. My mother, my father. There’s never a good day, sadly. It’s very stressful.

    • @Iuffycs
      @Iuffycs 11 місяців тому

      same, I'm sorry you have to go through that :/

  • @AlexSpy3DS
    @AlexSpy3DS 3 роки тому +26

    Sometimes, I wish I could go on vacation away from negativity on a quest to become the most Optimistic dude EVER!!!

    • @JayseB1111
      @JayseB1111 3 роки тому +3

      You absolutely can, write down stuff on post it notes around you to remind yourself to stay optimistic, and why

    • @AlexSpy3DS
      @AlexSpy3DS 3 роки тому

      @@JayseB1111 THX mate😎😎😎

  • @zephyrorona9196
    @zephyrorona9196 3 роки тому +15

    I just got home from a stressful day at work. All alone at one by mysef and just felt so lonely. I cried and have been crying off and on now. like ugh I just want a hug. And I just feel like people around me are abandoning me. I’ve been so angry and bitter, and I just have been so sad. It’s just a lot going on.

    • @saramariasdotter3681
      @saramariasdotter3681 3 роки тому +2

      🤗❤️!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +1

      Hey Zephyr, thank you for sharing. You worked hard today, not just at your job but at trying to keep it together and showing up each day. Here's a hug from all of us at Psych2Go and our 6+ million subscribers You're an awesome human being and it's okay to let it out

    • @zephyrorona9196
      @zephyrorona9196 3 роки тому +1

      @@Psych2go AW THANK YOU GUYS SO MUCH I LOVE U GUYS😭❤️ this made my day🤧❤️

  • @squishyfluff
    @squishyfluff 3 роки тому +5

    okay when they said “think chocolate” I couldn’t help but giggle 😂

  • @vanshikasharma3392
    @vanshikasharma3392 3 роки тому +2

    I wish I had someone to share my thoughts with...but at the same time I can't express them, which results in bottling up my emotions ;(

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому

      Hey Vanshika, thanks for sharing. There are many ways to express your emotions :) What kind of hobbies or activities do you like to do?

    • @vanshikasharma3392
      @vanshikasharma3392 3 роки тому

      @@Psych2go I always love dancing & Listening to songs, painting....but I don't do it now, I donno y, the thought of them makes me exhausted :/

  • @voiceacticon667
    @voiceacticon667 3 роки тому

    I have negativity that eats away at me. I am fully of hatred and anger because of shame and carrying a grudge. I refuse to get rid of my negativity because it makes me better myself. I don’t want my shame to diminish

  • @TyeDye622
    @TyeDye622 3 роки тому

    I've been consumed by negativity since I was 9 and I've been living with it for 20 years. What I hate the most is when people give me hope that everything will be okay and it always backfires. It's heard for someone like me to accept positive energy.

  • @Nite-Mite
    @Nite-Mite 3 роки тому +1

    5:07 I am in desperate need of that glowing person to bring me out of that dark bubble that I can't get out of. Work has destroyed me to the point where I couldn't enjoy being around my friends and can't enjoy my hobbies as much anymore.

  • @Elyseon
    @Elyseon 3 роки тому

    Negativity? More like both eyes open. Seeing the world for what it is.

  • @trixkztr
    @trixkztr 3 роки тому +1

    Use to...I use to be like this pretty much everyday through my elementary to high school years.
    I relate to most, if not all, of them when I look back on those days.
    But currently I've been alot better, doing more and still achieving the same goals (Doing well in school, hanging out with friends, enjoying my alone time despite the situations, etc).
    The only thing that changed was my understanding as well as knowledge about myself. Going to therapy, journaling my daily thoughts, doing some sort of workout (like working in the daycare for 4-5 hours at minimum, walking, etc) and treating myself when I can/need made me who I am today; it allowed me to be human for once and know what I need in my life. So, despite the negative influences that I have to deal with on the daily, I know how to handle it if need be.

  • @Emmy_Lou
    @Emmy_Lou 3 роки тому +12

    I’m really having a hard time with discouraging thoughts lately this helped me realize it

  • @wendychavez5348
    @wendychavez5348 3 роки тому

    "The energy you emit is the energy you attract." I try always to be a source of optimism and improvement. I really like the phrase "Practice makes better," because once "perfection" is achieved, what is left? "Better" seems a more reachable goal, and it suits my frame of mind. This channel helps me to constantly strive for Better; thank you!

  • @lutziputzi
    @lutziputzi 3 роки тому +65

    How did you manage to release this 2 hours after after negativity started swarming me

  • @_shreya_9795
    @_shreya_9795 3 роки тому

    I hate the gossiping people but that's what most of us are surrounded with

  • @zer0220
    @zer0220 3 роки тому +1

    Maaan really feeling a good number of these, namely 4, 7, and 8, and a little bit of 2 even
    I was once super optimistic about everything, carefree of the world, and was once always the go-to person if you ever wanted to be brightened up on
    Not only that, really enjoyed and did my hobbies a lot. Times back then were truly glorious
    Nowadays, I’ve noticed I just have thrown myself into total loneliness, whole lots of isolation as a couple of friend groups I had (luckily not all) deteriorated into nothing although everyone was really fun to be around, not only that, I’m quite a people pleaser even if I’m not as interested to hang out with friends I once had so much fun with, I mean, I still have fun, but noticeably less so.
    They ask, I’ll join regardless, but I set up plenty of times where I just wanna sit and be alone
    Not only that, what hurts me the most of my past was just the lack of hobbies I really enjoyed, namely drawing, that was my jam, I was once real carefree with that as well, exploring more and more
    Now, it’s mainly irritating as I never have the motivation or creativity to draw, last good thing I drew and finished was 2 months ago and it’s eating me up that I haven’t done anything recently
    I really wanna do stuff, but I just can’t, I still get plenty of ideas that really seem fun to do as I thought them up, but nothing gives me the drive to sit up and pick up whatever to draw with
    Aaand quick edit right after I posted this XD
    Didn’t realize I accidentally vented all that, just wanted to get my current thoughts out somewhere

  • @fairymairah
    @fairymairah 3 роки тому +1

    I would only talk about negative things only when I feel bad and at a loss. and I have no one to talk to !

  • @AionNoBara
    @AionNoBara 3 роки тому

    Yes yes yes! And when you identify it, set boundaries and don't break them! Stand firm on your decision.

  • @votcentuxy
    @votcentuxy 3 роки тому +10

    Insecurities be slapping me real hard in my face

  • @midnightinsanity
    @midnightinsanity 2 роки тому

    im not being eaten by negativity, i AM the negativity
    and im not proud of it

  • @Iuffycs
    @Iuffycs 11 місяців тому

    and when you start to become negative like them, they start becoming the positive one 😤

  • @jacobsion5516
    @jacobsion5516 3 роки тому +2

    Your voice is so calming!!!

  • @alizekc231
    @alizekc231 3 роки тому +6

    I am just addicted to this channel❤️🥺

    • @Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes
      @Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes 3 роки тому

      Me too 💚 It really help me to understand myself, mental health, the humans, and the life.

  • @yuu_miran
    @yuu_miran Рік тому

    ‘No matter what, it will have both highs and lows’ i wish it could apply to my life. So far, for my lame 36 yrs its only been lows, still, of course im not giving up or sth but understanding thats how it is for most people makes it look more bitter to me

  • @royliu6689
    @royliu6689 3 роки тому

    Thanks to the antics where I live, I’m stuck in online school. Again. And this time around it’s been a lot harder to become more motivated. Since last year, I’ve been a lot more of a social person, but this lockdown made me realize just how much I’d become dependent on social interaction. It all sucks - I don’t sleep well now (if at all), I’ve become a lot more nastier to others than I ever should have let myself become, and I don’t talk to any friends privately about my issues any more, for reasons I don’t understand. I’ve held the belief that I simply have to shove myself into this ocean of work, swim out of it and return in a few weeks, but I’m not handling it. I’m seriously not handling it. I haven’t watched Psych2Go in such a long time and I have to say, if I could only watch one YT channel for the rest of my days, it would be this one. This video and a few others just convinced me to at least try to see my situation in a different way. Thanks! I mean it.

  • @generic_tough_guy.4830
    @generic_tough_guy.4830 3 роки тому +47

    "Think CHOCOLATE"
    me having a lactose intolerance:

  • @varun.shenoy10
    @varun.shenoy10 3 роки тому +1

    Hi Psych2go, I just want to say thank you and I love all of you from the team. You guys have helped me to deal with gaslighting issues that I have with my father. Again a huge thank you to all of you in the team.... I have been sharing your videos with my family and friends and many of them who use UA-cam have subbed to your channel. I am sorry to see that many are unsubbing from you guys 😔😭 But me and my family and friends will keep on doing our best by liking and sharing your videos. I love you Psych2go❤️🤗
    Love and Hugs from Vancouver BC,
    Varun 🤗❤️

  • @clichepuffoodie
    @clichepuffoodie 3 роки тому +1

    Wow I really needed this video today so much
    I had a very bad yesterday and I couldn't stop blaming everyone else for not telling me important thing before hand and I was judging them in my mind for being bad people
    But I realise I should have been more alert and have learned how to talk with people in order to find out important things that no one otherwise tell you
    Its going to be difficult but it's not impossible
    And also I learned to stop thinking about why other would hurt me but think about how I can be more myself
    Also lastly I want to say
    Don't lose your kind heart in midst of walking a harsh path !

    • @Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes
      @Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes 3 роки тому

      Take care of yourself, think to yourself, take care of your mental health 💚

  • @nova4294
    @nova4294 3 роки тому

    When the negativity around you is the state of the world

  • @shadowdva1243
    @shadowdva1243 3 роки тому +1

    Me: *Having negative thoughts every day and every hour*
    My parents: “ItS bEcaUse oF tHat DAmN pHoNe”

  • @eindriifrijofsson6256
    @eindriifrijofsson6256 3 роки тому

    Thank you for these. You have helped me realize how much I am dealing with and start to heal

  • @katieburke2902
    @katieburke2902 3 роки тому +1

    I feel like I say this alot...zero tolerance towards negativity...♡♡

  • @Amiliaz3369
    @Amiliaz3369 3 роки тому +95

    So many time travelers as usual :D
    Have a nice day to you who is reading this comment!

  • @tomtamjimjams
    @tomtamjimjams 3 роки тому

    Other than 2, 5, 6, 7. Everything else is a check. But what can I do about it. Can't do anything about it or, I actually don't plan to do anything to change it. I critic myself for the life choices I make which led up to how things are now for the past years. How could I not see it all as my fault. Makes me despise my existence and the negativity I probably bring to others sometimes. I just want to be independent and get away from them the soonest I can. Live alone, die alone. Full of regrets but hope they live happily and forget about me

  • @a.k-chan6331
    @a.k-chan6331 3 роки тому +2

    I don't post much on social media but as I look everyone's posts and stories I feel why can't I be happy and confident like them.....

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +1

      Hey A.K. KuroWo, thanks for sharing. Social media can be a toxic place so don't base your reality and happiness on what other people what you to see.

    • @a.k-chan6331
      @a.k-chan6331 3 роки тому

      @@Psych2go OMG thank you so much ~♥~

  • @notyetdeleted6319
    @notyetdeleted6319 3 роки тому

    Oh I been surrounded by negativity damn near my whole life, but oh you know, water off a ducks back, gotta figure out a way to live through it, and we’ll if you don’t you just end up dead so seem to be working alright

  • @elementkingaming1947
    @elementkingaming1947 3 роки тому

    I rarely get all associated towards myself. But its truely scary when they all do

  • @drinasun6984
    @drinasun6984 3 роки тому +2

    I had all of these things from my childhood to my teenage years.

  • @punkgirl7781
    @punkgirl7781 3 роки тому

    I can totally relate to number 7 and 8. To motivate myself and stay motivated is really hard. Every time I think "I want to draw something," I lose the motivation before I can grab a pencil. First I thought that I’m just lazy but over the last two years it got worse and I don’t know what to do. Sometimes I can motivate myself a little bit thanks to my best friend but I didn’t talked to him for nearly a month now because I’m stupid.

  • @Quetzalcoatl-Dragon_97
    @Quetzalcoatl-Dragon_97 3 роки тому

    Vibes aren't the main ingredient, they're a byproduct produced by the experiences of your spirit.

  • @stormthecre8r
    @stormthecre8r 3 роки тому +23

    I love the animation style! It’s basically eye candy to me!

    • @minermole101
      @minermole101 3 роки тому

      agreed

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +2

      Thank you! Bonne Ennui is one of our new animators! :D

  • @bangtantextchaos5501
    @bangtantextchaos5501 3 роки тому +7

    Hey everyone!
    How are y'all
    Stay safe from Corona
    ~Time Traveler

  • @mkthatartist7979
    @mkthatartist7979 3 роки тому +3

    * Reads the title of the video *
    *OH! I KNOW ITS EATING ME UP!*

    • @tanishkatemle4242
      @tanishkatemle4242 3 роки тому +1

      Relatable
      I hope it will get better for you mate!! Don't give up and stay safe

    • @mkthatartist7979
      @mkthatartist7979 3 роки тому +1

      @@tanishkatemle4242 thanks :>
      It’s nice to see some genuinely nice comments on UA-cam. Honestly, the comments on this channel is pretty wholesome but outside I see chaos

    • @tanishkatemle4242
      @tanishkatemle4242 3 роки тому +1

      @@mkthatartist7979 I hope for ur best
      This comment section is a proof of humanity being sustained..I feel it's the only proof
      You all people make my day better tysm💕

  • @Iuffycs
    @Iuffycs 11 місяців тому

    My whole family is so negative, I wonder why I always feel so anxious outside of my home.

  • @overtone269
    @overtone269 2 роки тому +1

    Not me completely in awe of the drawing style ....nOpE ...DeFiNeTlY NoT

    • @ellebastonart
      @ellebastonart Рік тому

      Thank you so much! I'm sorry it took me this long to see your comment but it really made my day 💜

  • @irisotero6561
    @irisotero6561 3 роки тому

    New subscriber & your voice is so soothing and, calming to my scattered thoughts. Thank you for these insightful videos

  • @FirstKingOfMushrooms
    @FirstKingOfMushrooms 3 роки тому +1

    Ah yes. This video literally describes me.
    I have many mood swings, though I hide how I feel cause my parents would just yell at me for being sad or angry [either for a reason or no reason]
    I'm always on my phone cause it's like my safe place. Like being wrapped in a blanket or just in my bed. And I do compare myself to others..
    Discouraging thoughts is a daily for me.. from the moment I wake up, till I fall asleep [if I do sleep]
    And when do I feel anxious the most?
    ..
    1. In my household.. [I'm a closeted non-binary/agender person and my parents are transphobic so they make so many negative comments about trans people...]
    2. Getting dressed... [body dysphoria]
    3. School... [very stressful and getting misgendered alot]
    4. Social events... [do I even need to tell why? Just so many people >n

  • @nonsense3819
    @nonsense3819 3 роки тому

    It's weird though i am two faced, people thought i am happy but now really it's also what i like to portrait...

  • @zoealex7734
    @zoealex7734 2 роки тому

    when the advice is to get rid of negative people but the negative people are your parents and you're not old enough to move out for another 5 years...

  • @KyokoChan9
    @KyokoChan9 3 роки тому

    I agree with the demotivation from hobbies one so much 😭 I write fanfic and stories as a hobby and for the last few months I was so demotivated from doing it. I have all these ideas in my head and I really want to write too but my mind wanders to other worries and problems and I get all upset and anxious with the negativity that I suddenly can't bring myself to continue writing. The last thing I want to do is project my problems onto a character so recently I got myself a nice journal app where I can vent to calm myself down🙃

  • @renaewellswithrwhomesllc1802
    @renaewellswithrwhomesllc1802 3 роки тому +8

    I know, sometimes I’ve let negativity get to me. and some of my friends went behind my back, well my bestie did I caught them talking bad about my friend on a game. it made me so emotional that night but I no longer have that so-called bestie. finally, out of my life now, I stick with friends who don’t talk behind my back. they even make me funny bone laugh all the time! and whenever they are having negativity thrown at them. I make that person go away from them

  • @paridhiagarwal3335
    @paridhiagarwal3335 3 роки тому

    I'm filled with negativity and it's very sad for me that Once that positive person became like this

  • @senfayy
    @senfayy 3 роки тому

    don't have people that could help me because they left me and im fine with that now. used to it

  • @lindsay5348
    @lindsay5348 3 роки тому

    It’s sad my family makes me anxious nervous and disrespected

  • @MagicMysteryShow
    @MagicMysteryShow 3 роки тому +4

    This comic style is gorgeous😍

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +1

      Aww thank you! Bonne Ennui is one of our new animators! :D

    • @MagicMysteryShow
      @MagicMysteryShow 3 роки тому

      They really know what their doing ong💪😍

  • @PeninsulaCity2024
    @PeninsulaCity2024 3 роки тому +1

    For me it is more of a literal situation - I can't go to the store or anywhere within my city without running into a rude or violent person. Just being there is more than enough for them to start yelling and reaching for something.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому

      Hey PenisulaCity2024, thanks for sharing. How do you deal with those situations? Do you have anyone who can accompany you?

    • @PeninsulaCity2024
      @PeninsulaCity2024 3 роки тому

      @@Psych2go I try my best to avoid them but sometimes, I have to defuse the situation as much as possible - one time it didn't work and I almost got attacked by a guy asking for some money so he can buy a cigerette while I was pumping gas. The man wasn't even poor or anything. In fact, he let it slip that he just didn't want to use his own money when he went back to his friend on the corner.
      Anyway, its because of that and other similar encounters I usually drive a city or two over where it is safer. I am alone so sometimes, I have to act cold if not apathetic to everyone just because here, people are always trying to scam you into something. Obviously, that isn't healthy in the long run but Its what I have to do. Its almost as if I am back in grade school again - bullies and gangs are everywhere, and those who you should turn to for help either don't do anything or even blame you for the reason why you were a victim.
      Honestly, just a lot going on. The pandemic certianly didn't help.

  • @jamie91995
    @jamie91995 3 роки тому

    I know I’m surrounded by negativity and lack support, I just need to know how to fix it

  • @Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes
    @Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzes 3 роки тому

    As an INFJ, I know/feel theses positive and negative energies. That's why I try to avoid/dodge/escape them. Maybe that's why i feel better lonely.
    I know my mother is eating by these negativity signs, don't know what to do to help her. She could be able to tell me all is ok, whereas it is not.
    I think that she is not aware of the negativity that there is around her.
    Take care of yourself, of your mental health, and remember *" We are all different"*💚

  • @Misty_Moon_Shorts
    @Misty_Moon_Shorts 3 роки тому

    Some of these are true, but not all. The thing is I really can't get rid of that negatively always because I am the negatively. But I have been doing better, and I am not that negative anymore. I have been doing better because of these videos. Thank you!😁💛

  • @celineowemji
    @celineowemji 3 роки тому +4

    This helped me a lot !! Thank you :))

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +1

      Hey Noelle De Villa, that's great to hear! :) Glad to have helped!

  • @chillingongreens
    @chillingongreens 3 роки тому

    I think I'm doing ok.
    I lost a leg, and can barely walk on the other one. Use my food stamps to feed my three dogs. Can't stay awake without feeling anxiety lighting my brain on fire. No one wants to talk to me. People make fun of me if I do step outside. I cry everyday because I can't get even get angry anymore.
    But I am grateful. I have the bare essentials to just barely survive. If I can't walk, I will learn to crawl.
    People are suffering. I am not one of them. I mean, come on. I got three dogs. They need me. I mean, if that's not staying positive, I don't know what is.

  • @Owen2131_
    @Owen2131_ 3 роки тому

    Negativity has been such a pain in my life... worse is i have adhd, autism, anxiety, Ocd... and I haven’t been feeling the best lately...

  • @girly.mimi00
    @girly.mimi00 3 роки тому +1

    Thanks for the content. I needed this.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому +1

      Hey mimi_24 glad to help! :) Take care!

    • @girly.mimi00
      @girly.mimi00 3 роки тому +1

      @@Psych2go Thanks !

  • @Yttrium09
    @Yttrium09 3 роки тому

    I'm glad and thankful I don't relate to this video but if you relate to it I wish you all the best ❤️❤️❤️

  • @cindyreinhart9552
    @cindyreinhart9552 3 роки тому +1

    When Father created the earth for us His frequencies were perfect. Satan has destroyed frequencies that were meant for us....hence everything this video speaks of...and more. Go barefoot and negativity will lesson. It grounds us to our perfect frequency. I tell you the truth. Much love to every single one of you. It is so hard here.

  • @faithquillings
    @faithquillings 3 роки тому

    its a shame when you leave one negative home into a worse negative home and your family treats you like dirt. i was blinded by the nice things at first then the controlling your life happens. so i decided to leave. just pray that this time im not surrounded by negativity because i cant take much more.

  • @babymegatron-fi6iq
    @babymegatron-fi6iq Рік тому

    I don't know why but always when someone trying cheer me up I'm more negative than before😒

  • @minimalbstolerance8113
    @minimalbstolerance8113 3 роки тому

    Positive thinking: "The glass is half full."
    Negative thinking: "The glass is half empty."
    My thinking: "Doesn't matter if the glass is half full or half empty. It's probably got poison in it anyway."

  • @oops44
    @oops44 3 роки тому +1

    Try to have a good balance in life. Be real. Be honest.

  • @stella_studio
    @stella_studio 3 роки тому

    I just don't want to be around my toxic sister anymore. She's ruining my joy for life...

  • @aiiiia9971
    @aiiiia9971 3 роки тому +4

    This aint me? Actually I'm feeling pretty positive lately
    Oddly enough this did highkey remind me of one of my fictional characters, who hits almost all these marks. Poor fella, I wanna give him a happy day.

  • @saramariasdotter3681
    @saramariasdotter3681 3 роки тому +1

    So true - and terribly cute and positive design. Just this makes me happy! 💖👍

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  3 роки тому

      Thank you! Bonne Ennui is one of our new animators! :D

  • @rsj2
    @rsj2 2 роки тому

    i really have no one to share this news with but i can't believe my dad agreed for therapy!!!

  • @JJ-mh4xd
    @JJ-mh4xd 3 роки тому

    I was exposed to negative effects of horrible ex and in laws and were nothing but negative people and draining no matter what I did i had to deal with it and I couldn't escape until I ended the relationship thankfully I stopped having physical symptoms

  • @KellyClement
    @KellyClement 3 роки тому

    or you feel anxious because your house needs swept up and your breathing in negative vibes from a dead relative. (dust)