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5:07 This was one of my mother's favorite tools, after she'd slight me or do something she knew would get to me. She would then blissfully nearly sing to anyone else around to "just ignore her," as if my upset was unreasonable and came from nowhere but my black heart. I was a child being abused in front of others who didn't care at all.
Setting limits or "boundaries" for yourself and to others is not rude. It's just that you are kind to yourself and you want those people to help themselves as well. I'm glad that I am watching your videos since last week. Your videos help me in my emotional and self growth. Thank you ma'am!
Yes, if we never learned how to protect our emotional autonomy, it’s like learning a new language 💯 It’s like learning any other skill, though, with practice we can all get good at this 💪🏻. All the best to you 🙋♀️
Thank you so much for your video series on emotionally immature people. I’ve struggled my whole life with two adult family members who act like children. Now, I work with two people who act like teenagers rather than professionals. It helps me so much having these frustrations validated and shared. I feel better able to protect myself now.
How do I stop doing this ? Or recognize I am doing it ? It’s killing my relationship. She already says she doesn’t want to be with me anymore and I’m finally doing shit to save it
Without knowing all the details it’s hard to answer your question - but a good start is always to focus on the feedback from your partner and the needs they voiced.
@@DrMaikaSteinborn yeah it’s what I should’ve been doing this whole time. I make a lot of conversations about how I fucked up and how I can do better and how I will do better and then I don’t do any better or put any work in. she says I throw eggshells everywhere and walk on them around her even though she’s done nothing but react to my bad behavior. I have made the whole relationship about my personal problems. She says I’ve given her no room to breathe and deal with her own stuff. I just need to shut up and work on my own shit.
Hi maika,i want a small help from you.these days iam very depressed and some unusual thinking and unusual thoughts are coming into my mind and makes me even more depressed. so i asked some of my friends to what to do and they said to go and see a therapist.i said ok. But maika i keep getting hopeless that what if therapies don't work on me and what if there are no ways for curing?.so what advice would you like to give me? Thank you.
Hi Wilber, I'm sorry to hear that you're not feeling well. These phases in life can be a tremedous chance for inner growth, if we allow them to be. Feeling hopeless about ever getting better is one of the mechanisms and symptoms of depression. This is unfortunately, what prolongs depression for many people: their depression tells them that there is no hope of ever getting better, so they don't try anything to get better. Luckily, there is hope, lots of it! Depression has a high healing rate and therapists nowadays have a lot of detailed knowledge they can support people with and help them heal. I encourage you to not believe your feeling that there is no hope, it is just a feeling, not truth. The reality is that people heal from depression and other mental illnesses all the time. What do you have to lose if you try therapy and what is the potential gain? It is definately worth trying. I wish you all the best 💖
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5:07 This was one of my mother's favorite tools, after she'd slight me or do something she knew would get to me. She would then blissfully nearly sing to anyone else around to "just ignore her," as if my upset was unreasonable and came from nowhere but my black heart. I was a child being abused in front of others who didn't care at all.
That sounds awful 😕 I'm sorry you had to go through that. Good that you're reclaiming your emotional autonomy now!
I am so sorry. I know what you are talking about or better, I felt the same way. You are not alone and this was not right!!
@@Sunnivah13 Sorry for your unnecessary pain, too.
I'm sorry to hear you were abused by your mother and I praise you for calling it what it is. I was also abused by my mother. 🕊️
Setting limits or "boundaries" for yourself and to others is not rude. It's just that you are kind to yourself and you want those people to help themselves as well. I'm glad that I am watching your videos since last week. Your videos help me in my emotional and self growth. Thank you ma'am!
Exactly! And thank you for the kind comment, I'm very happy to hear that my videos are helpful to you!
I appreciate the language. I didnt learn it, so its like learning a new language! I will be taking notes and practicing!
Yes, if we never learned how to protect our emotional autonomy, it’s like learning a new language 💯 It’s like learning any other skill, though, with practice we can all get good at this 💪🏻. All the best to you 🙋♀️
Thank you so much for your video series on emotionally immature people. I’ve struggled my whole life with two adult family members who act like children. Now, I work with two people who act like teenagers rather than professionals. It helps me so much having these frustrations validated and shared. I feel better able to protect myself now.
I'm glad my series resonated with you! If you're interested, you can find more on this in Lindsay C. Gibson's books.
THIS IS SO GOOD 💗! IM LOVING YOUR EMOTIONAL IMMATURITY SERIES !!
Aw thanks! 💛 I‘m glad you‘re getting something out of it!!
Great information
I’m glad it’s helpful 🙂
Great, thank you!
☀️🌸🙏🏻
Thank you Maika for these strategies. I like the picture
Thank you 😊
Very insightful and deep. Thank you,
Glad to hear this, thank you!
Thank you so much for this! Very insightful.
I'm glad it's helpful, thanks for watching and commenting 😊
There were many takes away !! Thank you ❤️🙏
That‘s great! 🎊🙏🏻
This is really helpful. Thank you so much for giving permission!
Aw, glad to hear it! Thank you!
Great video
Glad it resonated with you!
Thanks again
🦋🙂
Own thoughts and feelings
Really helpfull
That’s great 🙂✨
Disconnects from self
🔥🔥🔥
🙂
i have another one: don't play the role they have in mind for you.
Yes, absolutely, thank you! If the cap doesn't fit, we don't have to wear it!
How do I stop doing this ? Or recognize I am doing it ? It’s killing my relationship. She already says she doesn’t want to be with me anymore and I’m finally doing shit to save it
Without knowing all the details it’s hard to answer your question - but a good start is always to focus on the feedback from your partner and the needs they voiced.
@@DrMaikaSteinborn yeah it’s what I should’ve been doing this whole time. I make a lot of conversations about how I fucked up and how I can do better and how I will do better and then I don’t do any better or put any work in. she says I throw eggshells everywhere and walk on them around her even though she’s done nothing but react to my bad behavior. I have made the whole relationship about my personal problems. She says I’ve given her no room to breathe and deal with her own stuff. I just need to shut up and work on my own shit.
Hi maika,i want a small help from you.these days iam very depressed and some unusual thinking and unusual thoughts are coming into my mind and makes me even more depressed. so i asked some of my friends to what to do and they said to go and see a therapist.i said ok. But maika i keep getting hopeless that what if therapies don't work on me and what if there are no ways for curing?.so what advice would you like to give me? Thank you.
Hi Wilber, I'm sorry to hear that you're not feeling well. These phases in life can be a tremedous chance for inner growth, if we allow them to be. Feeling hopeless about ever getting better is one of the mechanisms and symptoms of depression. This is unfortunately, what prolongs depression for many people: their depression tells them that there is no hope of ever getting better, so they don't try anything to get better. Luckily, there is hope, lots of it! Depression has a high healing rate and therapists nowadays have a lot of detailed knowledge they can support people with and help them heal. I encourage you to not believe your feeling that there is no hope, it is just a feeling, not truth. The reality is that people heal from depression and other mental illnesses all the time. What do you have to lose if you try therapy and what is the potential gain? It is definately worth trying. I wish you all the best 💖
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