For all who are interested in further updates and voice comparisons: I have an Instagram account where I'm pretty active ⬇️🦕⬇️ instagram.com/spacecowardluke
This one hit home a little, I have an older sister and wondered why I always wanted to be like her and wear dresses like she did when we were kids. Long story short I too found out I was trans during my early teenage years but due to fear of societies input and my lack of confidence I kept it a secret and just tried to be "normal". I'm 28 now and happily 1 month and 2 days on HRT :) The main reason it hit home though was that.... my dead name is Luke :P I'm surprised when I see other Luke's lol I hope it treats you well. I fits you. Be ready for all the Luke I am your Father jokes, and "Cool hand Luke" jokes ;) thank you for uploading your timeline. Next is a hormone update timeline!!! I've recorded my first month HRT changes video and will be posting it soon. Be well, be easy, most importantly be you.
The video was perfect! The music matched perfectly with your video. And interestingly enough, I wanted to watch it over and over again like a music video. I am happy for your transition.
Your parents are the real mvps, so many people would tell their children „no that’s for boys/girls“ but they just let you have the things you liked from the very beginning, they knew about this already way before you found out yourself
My parents say that what I wear is for boys but they still get it for me. I had to slowly wear more masculine clothing instead of going straight to the boys section though. I don’t think I’m trans and I have long hair but I think I’m just a bit of a tomboy. I’m nearly 15 so I’m in a big stage of questioning though. I remember being 7 and my signature outfit was ONLY spider man shorts. I didn’t even wear a T shirt. At this time I also tried peeing standing, let’s just say that didn’t go well… 😂 :) ❤
When I go clothes shopping with my younger siblings, I go through both sections. My brother (who I plan to adopt in the coming year) is the one who makes the "that's for girls" or "but I'm a boy" comments. I just ask if he likes it. If he does, who cares? My sister (who I found out this past pride month is genderfluid) has the same struggle I have with venturing to the "other" side. It feels wrong because it's how we were raised. It feels like we shouldn't be looking there. Luckily since taking my brother in, I've been a lot better about not caring what other people think. It sure helps that he doesn't care what people think either. Let's be silly all day and look how we want.
Ikr! I was looking at them and I was thinking how they look exactly like pictures nowadays that are made to look vintage. The pictures were really gorgeous and well taken
I’m not trans but my parents have always done that too and everytime we went shopping if I want to go in the guys section I could I never did Bc I’m not trans but ya. Also I used to get truck toys and stuff along with my dolls because they didn’t care they just let us be who we wanted and it worked out.
Davan Murray me too, my mother used to buy me boys clothes because she doesn’t care that much about it, and I still wear boys clothes but I know I am a woman because I know theses things doesn’t define your gender.
Ikr. I EASILY always obviously knew that. The only exception is if you’re trying to be a spy, going undercover, etc., but still obviously not for social acceptance.
Right? But they're twins. They looked exactly the same. They looked like CHILDREN regardless but then we are conditioned to associate short hair with boys so even though they looked the same it made him look way more like a boy. It's interesting how we shove these ideas onto kids so young instead of just letting them be free and develop how they want to. Fair play to the parents for being supportive and it looks like they weren't pushing gender norms on them from the beginning which is cool
yeah little kids can often pull off being a girl or a guy, once you get to a certain age that's when most boy's faces start to square out a little bit. it's very fortunate for kids who discover that they're trans when they're really young, because they can pass pretty easily. once you hit puberty that's when things become a bit more difficult to manage.
it's so clear that you're her brother. even from a young age, you can just tell. I'm glad your family didn't push gender roles and completely supported you. it makes me glad to hear about supportive families
Yuki Xia literally until like age 11 if I had seen then I never would have guessed that they weren’t both biologically female. That’s the way I want to parent my kids. If they want to be girls and be super feminine that’s fine but they don’t that’s ok to. No gender roles. I wish my parents did that for me
@@aidenoliver1681 me too. I probably wont have kids, but if I do I want to raise them with no limiting gender roles or sexist ideas. They should be allowed to find themselves and be proud of who they are. Everyone should.
When I was young, my parents didn’t care if it was boy or girl clothes. They let me wear whatever I want and I still enjoyed wearing girl and boy clothes. I’m genderfluid btw lol
These kids obviously had a privileged upbringing, which usually means that the parents are well-educated. I'm glad in this atmosphere, he was able to follow his soul and not bend to a cruel society. Bravo!
I started crying cuz of how beautiful this is and how I could only dream of being this privileged, I'm 18 and my parents don't even let me cut my hair. I'm really happy for him.
@@ilovecats21 im 19 and only now i can finally start growing my hair out (MTF), however ill forever regret not having access to puberty blockers when i needed them most...
I’m not trans, but I’m really appreciative of how my mother raised me... she actually hated how girls were expected to wear pink so she’s buy every colour and I’d usually wear orange or green. I hate when people say that if we don’t push gender norms on children they will somehow turn trans, it’s completely untrue.
dilara buyuklu a little is good but too much is- bad ugh. Just let your child be a child and choose their hobbys, favorite colors, aspirations, role models and clothes
2Quick4U you, friend, were born a steaming puddle of vomit and are similarly destined to remain as such. Gender does not equal sex; the identity of others doesn’t concern you, in any sense; it makes them happier and hurts no one
@Juliana Silva No but there's a big difference between a trans person and a tomboy. I don't agree with this person but I think alot of people don't understand why trans people exist. It is a mental condition but not a delusion. A lot of people respect that condition and use preferred pronouns. Think of it this way...if someone has say PTSD you aren't gonna purposefully remind them of that trauma because you don't think they deserve "special treatment" or something.
i love this because when you were really young you can see you dressing the way you were comfortable and your parents supported it and didn’t make you feel like you needed to wear pink or girly clothes.
But don’t because you shouldn’t put yourself in danger, instead, wait until you’re able to live on your own, then be yourself until you’re tired of being yourself.
this made me so emotional as a trans kid myself. im also ftm, and watching you grow up presenting however you liked brought me so much joy. and when you said you started to grow out your hair because of insecurity- damn, i literally started to cry, because thats how ive been feeling nowadays. hope after these five years of your first T shot you feel comfortable as the man youve always been! :D
I just love how your parents let you decide what to wear from such an early age on and then supported your transition. When I was a kid I was a typical tomboy (and I believe we even wore some similar clothes since I´m about your age and also from Germany) but in the end I still was a cis girl, while you turned out to be a guy. And that´s so important: to just let your children experiment and try out, to give them time to figure out their gender identity on their own and fully support them on their way, no matter what.
Astrid W one of my cousins is letting her kid (my niece) wear all kinds of clothes, She’s only about 2 at the moment. I remember when my cousin told me about my nieces first day at kindergarten, and how all the kids were surprised that she wasn’t wearing pink. I can’t wait to see what she’ll make of life when she’s older :)
Astrid W same. I still kinda do and I'm 16 but I know I'm not transgender. I just like boy clothes better, they're comfy and girls clothes are too revealing (I'm extremely insecure so that's kinda why I wear boy clothes)
I noticed that when you two were younger you could wear whatever and have your hair however. That your parents didn’t have gender associates cloths all that much like in the early photos you two had on pants and shirts and gender neutral things. I like how open your parents were and that they didn’t push anything onto you two. That’s how parents should be, letting their kids have some independence when it comes to their looks.
I’m helping my boyfriend on his way to start T, but with the classic case of parents who aren’t that supportive it’s pretty hard. I hope your journey goes smooth with support and happiness!
Just think about the struggle he had to endure even though with looks he passed but once he matured I’m sure he had to deal with a lot of mental challenges once he went through puberty.
It's a blessing and a curse. I'm from the generation where it was all physical copies, not digital. So there's a whole file cabinet full of photos of my sister and I, as well as ~100 photo albums. The curse is..how do you throw those out?? You have to at some point. Be thankful for digital cameras haha
@@oliver-lq3in there's probably 50,000 photos....eventually you have to decide which are worth keeping and ofc throwing any away hurts. You can always print out digital photos!
i apologise if this is extremely insensitive, but he has always looked like a boy. i know i shouldn’t stereotype or enforce gender norms !! in fact, i love breaking them. it’s just my view. it really shows who you were meant to be was always there. even if you were born a girl. you are a man. a man that i just realised i follow on Instagram because you’re cute and ive seen this video before. hope your T journey is going great, ive noticed a huge difference !!
I cannot imagine walking up to this boy and calling him a “she”; he’s a guy, he just IS, like, he clearly had a male soul or something from the beginning
Am snek 616 yea I totally agree about how transgender people like ftm have a male soul in a female body the same with mtf they have a female soul in a male body so once there a certain age they realize n know what gender they are saying that in there mind n soul there male(ftm)female(mtf) in the wrong body plus I remember seeing a video where a psychologist were evaluated 4 real children not actor just so u know n they were around the age of 3 or 4 two children were biologically born boy n girl n the other two were transgender mtf n ftm n the psychiatrist gave each of them easy simple question like at first are u a girl or a born n other question but don’t remember them but anyway I found the video interesting authentic n real cuz by a certain age we know what gender we are and what we like to wear and what kinda toy to to play for typical boy n girl Ps srry for the rant
Really? I looked at the baby and toddler pictures again. Can't see the difference. I can't even tell who is who in these pictures. Kids at that age don't "look male" (or female) to me.
*At the age of 6 I decided to cut my hair short* Me at 17 years old: Mom I wanna cut my hair short My mom: No you don't you still don't know if you'll like it that way Me: * has been asking the same thing since I was 11, won't ever know If I like it until I do it *
Sierra Htims On top of that, they’re almost 18. What’re their parents going to do at that point? Ground them for a month before they move out to a happier life?
aww that sucks at least your almost 18, you'll be able to do it soon. Also don't cut your hair without your mother's permission if you think she will react badly always thin about your safety. I asked my mum if i could get my head shaved (I already had short hair) and i was super nervous to ask and my mum was like 'sure, how short are we talking like bald or buzzcut? Do you want to go to barber to get it done?'
Silver Tide no. Look at the posture, the uncomfortable poses near dolls or girly things. You hav to look past the physical appearance. Small children don’t look like they have a certain gender unless they are put into those clothes or atmosphere. If you saw them out on the street in different clothes they could pass as a boy.
i felt it when you said “i felt like i HAD to.” i feel like i have to be feminine so i can be normal, but it's so hard sometimes. i hope one day i can be who i truely am.
Yep, that was me, I knew I was a boy at a YOUNG age like 4, but I had to pretend to not feel that way and pretended that I was a girl, but I'm out now.
Stefan Unicorn congrats on coming out. i was the same, i didn’t really understand though. like i knew i was different, but didn’t fully understand. i just really want to be normal so i try my best to be feminine, but it’s just not me.
jfjksdj I hope everything turns out okay, I know I’m straight and everything but I question myself a whole lot, it gets confusing a lot for me, but I still feel like I’m straight... idk tho.... but maybe if you joke around the idea a bit with your family, it will be easier to come out to them? I really hope that helps, I don’t really know tho, because I’m not really certain of my own situation, but I hope it helps. I wish you the best :) be proud of who you are, you’re no different, stay strong and you can do it, I know you can :) have a great day my friend! I know you got this!
@@shirleya-z794 Our society is absolutely intolerant of androgyny. I think this one reason why little kids want to be trans. If you want "short Hair" you must secretly want to be a man.
1. Ur absolutely adorable 2. THE PRINCESS AND KNIGHT COSTUMES WERE SO CUTE 3. I’m really proud of you (even though I don’t know you lol) and happy for you! :)
i know this vid is 5 years old but i must say - your parents and family are so awesome! im really happy you had support when you came out, this was a really wholesome story and i appreciate you for sharing it.
Same except it’s that I’m a teenager and I don’t have many past pictures to see how horrible I looked back then, but the worst part is when I started getting hair length gains and didn’t keep track of it. At least I do now.
Excuse me 😤 who gave you the right to be so attractive ! You pass well and I can only wish the same for my future, this made me happy and I hope you’re doing well 💗💗💗
As a ftm guy, that middle school timeline is all too real. The need to comply to fit into society's box felt overwhelming, but thankfully in the end we both were able to move past it. Congratulations on starting testosterone, and thank you for sharing your journey 🫶
I’m a female male twin set too, except neither of us are trans and just seeing time pass by I started crying you reminded me of our past together and I love how close you guys are. Speaking as someone with a pretty shitty relationship with my brother be as happy as possible and don’t take that relationship for granted.
I hope you two have worked out your issues. You have something unique and squabbles shouldn't keep you apart..Love and be there for each other no matter what ❤
As someone with an estranged sibling and no knowledge of your situation, some things are bad enough to keep you apart and for good reason. Don’t ever feel guilty for having boundaries. The whole “but you have to forgive/deal with family” mindset can be toxic and a lot of people will never understand that. That being said, I don’t know your situation, but I hope your life is going well overall ❤️
Glad your parents allowed you to be yourself, so did mine. As soon as a couple months after I realized I was trans I came out. Mostly all my family is supportive. I feel so weird laughing while typing this but my german shepherd just stood up on my bed, farted so loud, and plopped down and is now laying is the weirdest position ever.
lucky, I asked my parents if I could cut my hair short and they yelled at me. I can’t even imagine telling them I wanna be trans I would most likely get disowned(my parents are very transphobic) hml
@@ching6 Same :( My mom said ''don't scare me please'' when I asked her for a neutral sweatshirt (had black and white stripes) that was in the men's section
LoanLeaf You are really lucky my parents always talk about how wrong it is to be gay or lesbian and they told me that trans people are even sicker than the others. I don’t even want to know what would happen if I came out
This video was the first thing that introduced me to transness, I would look at this and think about the fact that at 4 I also went on to refuse wearing pink and purple among other things. I have now finally come to terms with being trans, and just might be getting on T in a year or two, thank you so much for posting this and expressing your journey. Even now I return to it, so thank you so much and I truly hope your journey has been nothing but ups.
dude this is so cute, and also it must rly nice to have childhood images you can show ppl on which u basically look like a boy. good luck on ur journey!!
I am also an identical transguy but I'm one of triplets (2 sisters identical to me and each other) I never really thought about other transpeople with the same scenario and it's so cool to see similarities in journey! My sisters actually got mad when I started dressing unlike them because they really liked the whole fooling people we were each other or whatever. Thank you for sharing, and congrats on T!
Dude, they can fool the death of one. Than one twin goes working for 6 months, while the other one is on vacation. After 6 months they change. As triple, omg, it would have been awesome xDD
It's actually so wholesome to see how many childhood photos you have. I refused pictures being taken as early as 4 years of age, I always thought I was too weird and that I wouldn't ever want to see those memories again, because I'm going to be happy in the future and surely don't want to be reminded of my past. That was one of the biggest mistakes I've ever made.
Graybe Doubt it. He’d be a man. They’d see him as dad. Whether he had them or not doesn’t really matter either. What exactly would be the harmful part?
Once I was going to a football match and I was wearing a tracksuit and I tucked my hair into my hat I was wearing and the steward thought I was a boy and he said to my mam 'hello can I check you sons bag' and my mam was just like 'her bag' and he gave me that look like oh shit ur a girl and I started laughing 😂
Hello! I also have Asian parents. My final attempt was an excuse along the lines of “it's really hot” I was in the marching band and worked my butt off in that, so they finally obliged. That happened over a year ago. I was also 17 at the time. It takes time, but the time will come eventually. There's still got a long road ahead of you, and I'll be supporting you along the way. I wish you the best of luck. Cheers!
This popped up in my recommendations And I’m like “This looks wholesome” And now I’m just happy because July 27th is my birthday too I was just born in 2002
I'm not trans, but this video brought a happy tear to my eye at the end. I am so glad you had love and support by your side when you came out as trans. I'm just so fascinated by stories and journeys such as yours. Best of wishes on your journey on T 💙💙
You two being twins is so cool because looking at your twin is like looking at yourself if you were the opposite gender. I was so surprised at how masculine you looked from the start once you stopped wearing pink! These are all some incredible photos too, like WOW
Onii - Chan Juliana- if that’s even her name just wants to start something up. We all know the person in this video is a boy, not a girl. Julianna just wants to start something and she wants to get attention. It’s a shitty way to get attention, but just ignore her
The thing that's driving me insane is that when I was aged 6 I was still smashing my head into walls and acting like I as on crack how do these kids know so much
I personally identify as trans-masc-enby. I am nonbinary, but I prefer more masculine nicknames and compliments. Thank you so much for posting this video. For such a long time, I was afraid to come out, but when I did, I was absolutely relieved. I haven't started physically transitioning yet (besides changing my clothing style and my hair), but even now, me then versus now is a huge difference. I'm much happier with myself now, but I still have a long way to go. It's videos like this that make me feel much more confident and comfortable with who I am and how I identify. My journey has been long and crazy, and I still have a long way to go. I'm excited to see what the future brings for me, and for you as well. I wish you luck on your journey. Thank you for all that you are doing to help fellow trans-folk and LGBTQ+ community members. To every trans person (and everyone else) reading this: You look wonderful today. You're totally passing! I hope you have a nice day. ❤
i never realized other trans guys went through the “i dont feel girly enough so i’ll be girly” feeling through early puberty 🥺🥺 i had that and forced myself to dress out
I did that. I went from hating skirts and jeans and dresses to wearing them cause it seemed like I should (although I didn’t mind some of the stuff I had). I always felt off, I did make up and wore clothes that showed my chest and stuff, and it really didn’t make me happy. Everything always felt off, no matter what I did. I found out when I was about 14-15.
My grown up kids still moan when I try to take the obligatory snap in front of the Christmas tree every year and at least 1 picture next to the Birthday cake. I took gazillions when they were growing up and I know they will appreciate it at some point when want to reminisce. That said, this is a beautiful video and much respect goes to you for telling your family and the world who you really are. Brave and inspirational and I bet loved just as much, if not more.You seem to have a wonderful bond with your sister. Long may that remain. Thank you for sharing and good luck with the future young man!! xx
So little girls can't have short hair? I sometimes wonder if transsexuality has become popular in society because we tolerate so little androgyny. It wasn't always this way.
She clearly was trying to identify outside of being a twin which was evident she knew she was a twin which over time she identified her actions as trans which is mis leading she clearly had an identity battle going on....STOP LABELING YOURSELF YOUR NOT STR8 TRANS GAY OR BI YOU R WHAT YOU DIDNT CHOSE TO BE WHEN U GOT HERE . JUS BE YOU & KEEP SOULSEARCHING
@@mooble1 ummm bitch don't come for me... I know exactly how to structure a paragraph let alone how to speak but this isn't English class now is it bitch.
oof the wondering why you're not like "other" girls is fucken. #relateable. In high school I couldn't figure out why i felt so gross and predatory in the girl's locker room or changing with my friends. Thought it was cause I'm bi but it's cause boys arent supposed to be in the girls locker room!
agree. I feel the same way. I went through phases of having long hair and dressing like a 'girl' because i wanted to fit in but each time i would go back to cutting my hair cut and dressing the way i wanted to be and not how the world wanted me to be. I'm still yet to come out to my family but i have known since i was 12 and even eariler i knew something was different. The first ever memory i have is at school when my teacher asked me what i wanted to be and i said i wanted to be a dad.
"the people it matters to don't count because it doesn't matter to the people that count" I know this quote may not be verbatem but the intention is there. If you aren't hurting someone then do what makes YOU happy and comfortable in your own skin. Be YOU because if you run around trying to please everyone else, you will inevitability fail and you will be just miserable! Be YOU & be HAPPY. The people that truly care about you will be happy along with you. 🤗♥️
As a trans girl, I found this quite emotional and it gave me happy shivers when the moment came. Even in the pictures you looked uncomfortable, and I’m so glad you're happier now. I wish you the best and tell your sister, she's fab'! 💙
It's kind of interesting how many trans people have a twin, I would love to see a study on that! Edit: Apparently there has been some already! A user called Wrenly left the title of one of said studies down in the comments! Check it out.
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This one hit home a little, I have an older sister and wondered why I always wanted to be like her and wear dresses like she did when we were kids. Long story short I too found out I was trans during my early teenage years but due to fear of societies input and my lack of confidence I kept it a secret and just tried to be "normal". I'm 28 now and happily 1 month and 2 days on HRT :) The main reason it hit home though was that.... my dead name is Luke :P I'm surprised when I see other Luke's lol I hope it treats you well. I fits you. Be ready for all the Luke I am your Father jokes, and "Cool hand Luke" jokes ;) thank you for uploading your timeline. Next is a hormone update timeline!!! I've recorded my first month HRT changes video and will be posting it soon. Be well, be easy, most importantly be you.
@ThatAwesomeFacedGuy Me or Luke? lolol. Pretty sure you mean Luke, because he definitely is handsome.
Just march to the sea
The video was perfect! The music matched perfectly with your video. And interestingly enough, I wanted to watch it over and over again like a music video. I am happy for your transition.
And you can see that your parents love you the way you are. Give them a big hug and kiss. This is beautiful.
his parents seriously know how to take pictures like wtf the quality is so good my parents cannot take pictures at all lol
grace raufer same lol
I know right lol
Don’t u mean HER parnets
Don’t u mean HER parents
@@azanmanwar no because their female to Male so their a boy
the knight and princesses costumes were so cute STOP OMFG
Jojis Lefttoenail your username 💀💀
@@kirbypopstar5807 don't judge me skdjsksja
Oh no which timestamp???
@@btsbwl7264 1:30
Jojis Lefttoenail im not i love it 🗿
when he cut his hair the 1st time i thought" finally i can tell em apart now"
Same
Saaaame
im a identical twin so i can tell them apart easily
i bet some of his family was thinking the exact same thing
I mean he wore “boy” clothes for the most part so it wasnt that hard to tell
Your parents are the real mvps, so many people would tell their children „no that’s for boys/girls“ but they just let you have the things you liked from the very beginning, they knew about this already way before you found out yourself
Ummmmmm, look at your like count... It's 666.
estelle marie I missed it :(
My parents say that what I wear is for boys but they still get it for me. I had to slowly wear more masculine clothing instead of going straight to the boys section though. I don’t think I’m trans and I have long hair but I think I’m just a bit of a tomboy. I’m nearly 15 so I’m in a big stage of questioning though. I remember being 7 and my signature outfit was ONLY spider man shorts. I didn’t even wear a T shirt. At this time I also tried peeing standing, let’s just say that didn’t go well… 😂 :) ❤
When I go clothes shopping with my younger siblings, I go through both sections. My brother (who I plan to adopt in the coming year) is the one who makes the "that's for girls" or "but I'm a boy" comments. I just ask if he likes it. If he does, who cares? My sister (who I found out this past pride month is genderfluid) has the same struggle I have with venturing to the "other" side. It feels wrong because it's how we were raised. It feels like we shouldn't be looking there. Luckily since taking my brother in, I've been a lot better about not caring what other people think. It sure helps that he doesn't care what people think either. Let's be silly all day and look how we want.
@ well said. Keep being yourself because you are perfect as you are. You deserve love from everyone. :) ❤️
can we talk about how professional their childhood pictures look? damn
Maybe mom or dad was a photographer
I know right?! Even the quality is so high i-
Ikr! I was looking at them and I was thinking how they look exactly like pictures nowadays that are made to look vintage. The pictures were really gorgeous and well taken
My old family ohotos were either blurry or oversaturated
They parents must of been photographers ong😭
That was so cool that you cut your hair so early! Congrats on starting T!!
AAAAGH ILY MILES
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Oh heck hey Miles very cool to see you stalk the LGBT UA-cam content like the rest of us
Well hello there
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I’m happy to see your parents let you wear whatever you wanted from such an early age.
I’m not trans but my parents have always done that too and everytime we went shopping if I want to go in the guys section I could I never did Bc I’m not trans but ya. Also I used to get truck toys and stuff along with my dolls because they didn’t care they just let us be who we wanted and it worked out.
@@givemeawall same
@@davanmurray4644 lucky you, I remember asking for cars and remote control helicopters and getting a dollhouse.
@@davanmurray4644 agreed
Davan Murray me too, my mother used to buy me boys clothes because she doesn’t care that much about it, and I still wear boys clothes but I know I am a woman because I know theses things doesn’t define your gender.
"I don't have to pretend to be someone I'm not" That's a lesson a lot of people need to learn trans or not. Beautiful video btw.
Ikr. I EASILY always obviously knew that. The only exception is if you’re trying to be a spy, going undercover, etc., but still obviously not for social acceptance.
ok but imagine having this many childhood pictures... cant relate
Connor is Bored AND then being that good quality
BINCH, I got like 10,000 childhood photos.
I might have 3 lol
I don't have childhood pictures-
Oh wait! I have only one... me as a baby
@@venti462 literally the only childhood pictures i have are family group photos or photos with me holding my nephew.. in total probably about 4.
Also the fact that when he cut his hair short when he was little he already looked alot more masculine than his sister.
Right? But they're twins. They looked exactly the same. They looked like CHILDREN regardless but then we are conditioned to associate short hair with boys so even though they looked the same it made him look way more like a boy. It's interesting how we shove these ideas onto kids so young instead of just letting them be free and develop how they want to. Fair play to the parents for being supportive and it looks like they weren't pushing gender norms on them from the beginning which is cool
Right? Even before the haircut. It was just posture, or mannerisms. It was just subtlety different.
Her hair
@@doubledonutrolls7899his hair* :3
@@doubledonutrolls7899doesn’t being this worthless feel bad? I would hate to be you
no one:
youtube: so we noticed you haven’t cried yet today..
Honestly tho
My day just started it's 8:00
^^^^^^^^^^
I cried almost
Why would i cry to this.
as a trans twin who grows increasingly hopeless abt the current views of us trans ppl in the world, this video was a nice ray of hope
There are good, supportive people out there, too. The angry people are simply the loudest. Be who you are and I hope you find and keep happiness! 🙂
can we just talk about how sick all of the 2000’s fits are in the vid though?
Inspirational AND inspo
leegoespee people really out here tryna dress how our parents dressed us in 05
the first time he cut his hair I thought he looked very masculine
Same
Puberty is weird.
yeah little kids can often pull off being a girl or a guy, once you get to a certain age that's when most boy's faces start to square out a little bit. it's very fortunate for kids who discover that they're trans when they're really young, because they can pass pretty easily. once you hit puberty that's when things become a bit more difficult to manage.
even with long hair i thought he looked kinda skater or surfer dude
duh, i mean why wouldnt you? he is indeed a whole ass dude
it's so clear that you're her brother. even from a young age, you can just tell. I'm glad your family didn't push gender roles and completely supported you. it makes me glad to hear about supportive families
Yuki Xia literally until like age 11 if I had seen then I never would have guessed that they weren’t both biologically female. That’s the way I want to parent my kids. If they want to be girls and be super feminine that’s fine but they don’t that’s ok to. No gender roles. I wish my parents did that for me
@@aidenoliver1681 me too. I probably wont have kids, but if I do I want to raise them with no limiting gender roles or sexist ideas. They should be allowed to find themselves and be proud of who they are. Everyone should.
Mine are like that, still closeted tho
Im a cis girl and I looked exactly like him when I was a child and even still now..
When I was young, my parents didn’t care if it was boy or girl clothes. They let me wear whatever I want and I still enjoyed wearing girl and boy clothes. I’m genderfluid btw lol
ok but like can we talk about how handsome he is
Yo, I know right?!
Bit weird to call a girl handsome
@ bit weird your parents don’t love you.
@@scarabeesoleil8211 ???
@@AndysAppleFarm-aafbit wierd to perpously misgender him.
I'm a transguy who also has a twin! People say my brother and I look similar already even though I'm not out yet. Imagine when I start T lol.
I hope everything is going to be fine for you too! Remember, you're loved!♥
Same here. But he is so much taller than me.
Leo My brother and I are about the same size, which makes me a bit less insecure about my height. My older brother is a giant though.
ThisCosine53 yesssssss
ThisCosine53 same :0
I’m getting strong Dipper and Mabel vibes from you two
Who?
@Caleigh Plunkett oooh okay :)
Yeah
OMG yes!
Me to
I opened up the video and was NOT expecting March to the Sea but i’m not disappointed
i stopped to calm down, lol
What?! I watched it silent :( I’m sad now
IKR
IM SAYINGG
SAME
These kids obviously had a privileged upbringing, which usually means that the parents are well-educated. I'm glad in this atmosphere, he was able to follow his soul and not bend to a cruel society. Bravo!
the privilege is quite evident.........
I started crying cuz of how beautiful this is and how I could only dream of being this privileged, I'm 18 and my parents don't even let me cut my hair. I'm really happy for him.
@@ilovecats21 im 19 and only now i can finally start growing my hair out (MTF), however ill forever regret not having access to puberty blockers when i needed them most...
Shout out to the parents for not pushing gender roles on them👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Fr, when I wanted to cut my hair I had to BEG for my parents n stuff
I’m not trans, but I’m really appreciative of how my mother raised me... she actually hated how girls were expected to wear pink so she’s buy every colour and I’d usually wear orange or green. I hate when people say that if we don’t push gender norms on children they will somehow turn trans, it’s completely untrue.
dilara buyuklu a little is good but too much is- bad ugh. Just let your child be a child and choose their hobbys, favorite colors, aspirations, role models and clothes
@2Quick4U what.. change genders? ok, they were always the same gender but born a different gender. also, so what if i wanna be a boy?
2Quick4U you, friend, were born a steaming puddle of vomit and are similarly destined to remain as such. Gender does not equal sex; the identity of others doesn’t concern you, in any sense; it makes them happier and hurts no one
It’s really amazing how TWINS yet i could see you were “boyish” at a young age even when you were a baby, nature really is something amazing!
@Juliana Silva No but there's a big difference between a trans person and a tomboy. I don't agree with this person but I think alot of people don't understand why trans people exist. It is a mental condition but not a delusion. A lot of people respect that condition and use preferred pronouns. Think of it this way...if someone has say PTSD you aren't gonna purposefully remind them of that trauma because you don't think they deserve "special treatment" or something.
@@gothmom9812 this comment is so fucking good
@Juliana Silva he*
Juliana Silva He.
@Juliana Silva he.
i love this because when you were really young you can see you dressing the way you were comfortable and your parents supported it and didn’t make you feel like you needed to wear pink or girly clothes.
Caitlin Pastore
Next time y’all gather for dinner & start praying, loudly say yas queen.
If they ask about it, just say you’re gaying the pray away.
But don’t because you shouldn’t put yourself in danger, instead, wait until you’re able to live on your own, then be yourself until you’re tired of being yourself.
this made me so emotional as a trans kid myself. im also ftm, and watching you grow up presenting however you liked brought me so much joy. and when you said you started to grow out your hair because of insecurity- damn, i literally started to cry, because thats how ive been feeling nowadays.
hope after these five years of your first T shot you feel comfortable as the man youve always been! :D
good luck bro 🧡
@ thank you!! also osc fan spotted in the wild hehe
@@starshinevideoarchivalproj8368 AAAA OSC!! hi hi (assuming you're osc but if you're not hi hi anyway :D)
I just love how your parents let you decide what to wear from such an early age on and then supported your transition. When I was a kid I was a typical tomboy (and I believe we even wore some similar clothes since I´m about your age and also from Germany) but in the end I still was a cis girl, while you turned out to be a guy.
And that´s so important: to just let your children experiment and try out, to give them time to figure out their gender identity on their own and fully support them on their way, no matter what.
Astrid W one of my cousins is letting her kid (my niece) wear all kinds of clothes, She’s only about 2 at the moment. I remember when my cousin told me about my nieces first day at kindergarten, and how all the kids were surprised that she wasn’t wearing pink. I can’t wait to see what she’ll make of life when she’s older :)
Astrid W same. I still kinda do and I'm 16 but I know I'm not transgender. I just like boy clothes better, they're comfy and girls clothes are too revealing (I'm extremely insecure so that's kinda why I wear boy clothes)
I noticed that when you two were younger you could wear whatever and have your hair however. That your parents didn’t have gender associates cloths all that much like in the early photos you two had on pants and shirts and gender neutral things. I like how open your parents were and that they didn’t push anything onto you two. That’s how parents should be, letting their kids have some independence when it comes to their looks.
Colonel Breadsticks In your opinion that’s how parents should be.
My parents wouldn’t let me cut my hair off so the day before school started I did it myself
@@rainefyre6750 why? Is your opinion different?
Sara yes but no
@@rainefyre6750 explain
You've passed since birth my dude. Good luck on your transition journey. Ill be starting T within a year
I’m helping my boyfriend on his way to start T, but with the classic case of parents who aren’t that supportive it’s pretty hard. I hope your journey goes smooth with support and happiness!
@@rainydaeee I hope the best for you both❤❤
@@rileyreacts777 what's T
@@october3229 Testosterone, its the hormone that starts male puberty
@@thelionneverroars1570 thanks
10/10 music choice. You guys honestly look like brother and sister the whole way through.
Tøp isnt it?
*highkey bisexual panic because they're both so beautiful*
Hghgej same
Me:laughs in Pansexual
Also Me:*freaked the fuck out cus I'm in a nonbinary closet *
LuiYurei me being a lesbian and still falling for both of them, then questioning mysef
Lmao, sooo truee
Dont we ALL ?
IM JEALOUS HE PASSED AS MALE HIS ENTIRE CHILDHOOD AND AROUND THE TIME HE CAME OUT I
right! but the thing is, his sister looks female. theres something about him that makes him look male compared to his twin.
Angel i think his aura? He’s got a very handsome manly aura around him when you look at him
I think both of them have manly faces, he just has a tad bit more male features as he aged.
Even with the long hair he passes.
Just think about the struggle he had to endure even though with looks he passed but once he matured I’m sure he had to deal with a lot of mental challenges once he went through puberty.
I wish my parents took this many pictures of me
No you don’t. 😂 My mom takes so much pictures there isn’t one part of the day undocumented.
It's a blessing and a curse. I'm from the generation where it was all physical copies, not digital. So there's a whole file cabinet full of photos of my sister and I, as well as ~100 photo albums. The curse is..how do you throw those out?? You have to at some point. Be thankful for digital cameras haha
@@andie5031 I'm from that generation as well
Andie why would you throw them out? you have physical objects, not just pixels on a screen.
@@oliver-lq3in there's probably 50,000 photos....eventually you have to decide which are worth keeping and ofc throwing any away hurts. You can always print out digital photos!
i apologise if this is extremely insensitive, but he has always looked like a boy. i know i shouldn’t stereotype or enforce gender norms !! in fact, i love breaking them. it’s just my view. it really shows who you were meant to be was always there. even if you were born a girl. you are a man. a man that i just realised i follow on Instagram because you’re cute and ive seen this video before. hope your T journey is going great, ive noticed a huge difference !!
You really had to flex this hard with all of those cute childhood photos, i loved it
a video about trans people that isnt dislike bombed? did i travel forward like 20 years lmfao
It’s beautiful
it’s so refreshing to finally be able to look at the comment section without feeling disgusted
ikr
With how society is 5 years after this comment, you might as well make that 30 years instead at this point
@@prismiemonai was thinking the same thing :(
I cannot imagine walking up to this boy and calling him a “she”; he’s a guy, he just IS, like, he clearly had a male soul or something from the beginning
THIS RIGHT HERE
just the energy from the pictures totally emulates male energy!
Am snek 616 yea I totally agree about how transgender people like ftm have a male soul in a female body the same with mtf they have a female soul in a male body so once there a certain age they realize n know what gender they are saying that in there mind n soul there male(ftm)female(mtf) in the wrong body plus I remember seeing a video where a psychologist were evaluated 4 real children not actor just so u know n they were around the age of 3 or 4 two children were biologically born boy n girl n the other two were transgender mtf n ftm n the psychiatrist gave each of them easy simple question like at first are u a girl or a born n other question but don’t remember them but anyway I found the video interesting authentic n real cuz by a certain age we know what gender we are and what we like to wear and what kinda toy to to play for typical boy n girl
Ps srry for the rant
Really? I looked at the baby and toddler pictures again. Can't see the difference. I can't even tell who is who in these pictures. Kids at that age don't "look male" (or female) to me.
Truly Charnock
In reality, it’s so much more incredibly complicated than that, however, science still leans far towards trans people being valid.
THERE IS NO WAY BRO WAS PASSING AT SIX
Lowkey jealous of that one lol 🥲
@@GravityHalls frr love the pfp btw
*At the age of 6 I decided to cut my hair short*
Me at 17 years old: Mom I wanna cut my hair short
My mom: No you don't you still don't know if you'll like it that way
Me: * has been asking the same thing since I was 11, won't ever know If I like it until I do it *
At this point, just do it. Worst case she'll be mad but hey, it grows back
Sierra Htims
On top of that, they’re almost 18.
What’re their parents going to do at that point? Ground them for a month before they move out to a happier life?
go for it! you're 17 and old enough to make your own decisions
Just cut it... What can possibly happen?
aww that sucks at least your almost 18, you'll be able to do it soon. Also don't cut your hair without your mother's permission if you think she will react badly always thin about your safety.
I asked my mum if i could get my head shaved (I already had short hair) and i was super nervous to ask and my mum was like 'sure, how short are we talking like bald or buzzcut? Do you want to go to barber to get it done?'
From the beginning I forgot he was born a female dang he looked like a boy since birth.
True
He and his sister are identical twins... he looked like a girl
Silver Tide no. Look at the posture, the uncomfortable poses near dolls or girly things. You hav to look past the physical appearance. Small children don’t look like they have a certain gender unless they are put into those clothes or atmosphere. If you saw them out on the street in different clothes they could pass as a boy.
That’s what I was thinking the whole time, the posture, the way he stood , they looked like boy girl twins
Yes! Even before he started not to wear dresses and such, I can already differentiate him from his twin. He is definitely a boy from the beginning.
i felt it when you said “i felt like i HAD to.” i feel like i have to be feminine so i can be normal, but it's so hard sometimes. i hope one day i can be who i truely am.
Yep, that was me, I knew I was a boy at a YOUNG age like 4, but I had to pretend to not feel that way and pretended that I was a girl, but I'm out now.
Stefan Unicorn congrats on coming out. i was the same, i didn’t really understand though. like i knew i was different, but didn’t fully understand. i just really want to be normal so i try my best to be feminine, but it’s just not me.
jfjksdj I hope everything turns out okay, I know I’m straight and everything but I question myself a whole lot, it gets confusing a lot for me, but I still feel like I’m straight... idk tho.... but maybe if you joke around the idea a bit with your family, it will be easier to come out to them? I really hope that helps, I don’t really know tho, because I’m not really certain of my own situation, but I hope it helps. I wish you the best :) be proud of who you are, you’re no different, stay strong and you can do it, I know you can :) have a great day my friend! I know you got this!
Saliha Hussain thank you so much. i appreciate that a lot. i hope everything goes well for you in your life
Women can be masculine too! You don’t have to conform to societies idea of what being a girl is.
2:24 The cake being half blue and half pink…. Ah, it warms my heart to see supportive parents like this 💖💙
When you cut your hair as a kid I literally said out loud “literally a boy”
shirley A-z gender stigmas
LITERALLY A BOY omg same
shirley A-z he just looked like a boy since the day he cut his hair?
@@shirleya-z794 Our society is absolutely intolerant of androgyny. I think this one reason why little kids want to be trans. If you want "short Hair" you must secretly want to be a man.
Poodle Puff ever heard of something called gender dysphoria??
I know this is not the point of the video but I absolutely love the early 2000's vibes. Makes me wanna be a child again.
Hana c same
Same
Same
It’s when I was a kid, so it’s soooooo nostalgic, lol.
they’re both so attractive tho i’m having a bisexual panic
Same i-
Same
same though fr
@@kittymeow4u879 sAME-
But like yeah
Luke, it’s been five years and I hope you are living your best and most authentic life
Adding “March to the Sea” was absolutely beautiful. You’re loved. Thank you for being you. We care for you.
I love that your parents let you express yourself however you felt. you can see in the pictures. y’all were very cute babies btw!!
1. Ur absolutely adorable
2. THE PRINCESS AND KNIGHT COSTUMES WERE SO CUTE
3. I’m really proud of you (even though I don’t know you lol) and happy for you! :)
i know this vid is 5 years old but i must say - your parents and family are so awesome! im really happy you had support when you came out, this was a really wholesome story and i appreciate you for sharing it.
Shout out to ur parents for taking so many pictures damn I didnt do enough with my babies now there all grown up
Same except it’s that I’m a teenager and I don’t have many past pictures to see how horrible I looked back then, but the worst part is when I started getting hair length gains and didn’t keep track of it. At least I do now.
*Oh my God, look it’s blonde Dipper and Mabel-*
Juniper and dagwod
Wo
How
Yooo
Don't insult them with cringe characters
Excuse me 😤 who gave you the right to be so attractive ! You pass well and I can only wish the same for my future, this made me happy and I hope you’re doing well 💗💗💗
Thank you sm!!!!
!!!!!!
Luke. No like seriously u look really good
Even at like 6 they were the cutest little boy I've ever saw ♥️♥️♥️♥️
As a ftm guy, that middle school timeline is all too real. The need to comply to fit into society's box felt overwhelming, but thankfully in the end we both were able to move past it. Congratulations on starting testosterone, and thank you for sharing your journey 🫶
This should be how all trans youths should be treated by their families, with love and support.
Johanna Bascom I wish 😭😭
i wish...
that feels like a dream far far away from now. both my parents are transphobic/just generally homophobic so i doubt it lol.
I’m a female male twin set too, except neither of us are trans and just seeing time pass by I started crying you reminded me of our past together and I love how close you guys are. Speaking as someone with a pretty shitty relationship with my brother be as happy as possible and don’t take that relationship for granted.
I hope you two have worked out your issues. You have something unique and squabbles shouldn't keep you apart..Love and be there for each other no matter what ❤
As someone with an estranged sibling and no knowledge of your situation, some things are bad enough to keep you apart and for good reason. Don’t ever feel guilty for having boundaries. The whole “but you have to forgive/deal with family” mindset can be toxic and a lot of people will never understand that. That being said, I don’t know your situation, but I hope your life is going well overall ❤️
Glad your parents allowed you to be yourself, so did mine. As soon as a couple months after I realized I was trans I came out. Mostly all my family is supportive. I feel so weird laughing while typing this but my german shepherd just stood up on my bed, farted so loud, and plopped down and is now laying is the weirdest position ever.
best comment xD
I might be wrong but ty lol
lucky, I asked my parents if I could cut my hair short and they yelled at me. I can’t even imagine telling them I wanna be trans I would most likely get disowned(my parents are very transphobic) hml
@@ching6 Same :( My mom said ''don't scare me please'' when I asked her for a neutral sweatshirt (had black and white stripes) that was in the men's section
LoanLeaf You are really lucky my parents always talk about how wrong it is to be gay or lesbian and they told me that trans people are even sicker than the others. I don’t even want to know what would happen if I came out
This video was the first thing that introduced me to transness, I would look at this and think about the fact that at 4 I also went on to refuse wearing pink and purple among other things. I have now finally come to terms with being trans, and just might be getting on T in a year or two, thank you so much for posting this and expressing your journey. Even now I return to it, so thank you so much and I truly hope your journey has been nothing but ups.
dude this is so cute, and also it must rly nice to have childhood images you can show ppl on which u basically look like a boy.
good luck on ur journey!!
Darian Brl. Yes! That must be great for him!
I am also an identical transguy but I'm one of triplets (2 sisters identical to me and each other) I never really thought about other transpeople with the same scenario and it's so cool to see similarities in journey! My sisters actually got mad when I started dressing unlike them because they really liked the whole fooling people we were each other or whatever. Thank you for sharing, and congrats on T!
Dude, they can fool the death of one. Than one twin goes working for 6 months, while the other one is on vacation. After 6 months they change. As triple, omg, it would have been awesome xDD
im the same but only 2 of us are identical! so cool to see that there are others trans guys who are triplets with identical sisters
Lol
Ok this is rlly off topic but I clicked on youre thing or whatever just to go to your playlists cuz u have a really good taste in music lmao 😂💕
@@rockybalboa6514 as a twin, I effin hate the question "so do u guys like switch classes? Like prank the teachers?"
I'm an identical twin and am trans as well. Solidarity!
It's actually so wholesome to see how many childhood photos you have. I refused pictures being taken as early as 4 years of age, I always thought I was too weird and that I wouldn't ever want to see those memories again, because I'm going to be happy in the future and surely don't want to be reminded of my past.
That was one of the biggest mistakes I've ever made.
I think he looks like a male born boy to start with. Cute vid btw
Autumn ! literally. people just have to stop labeling others right at birth bc of what parts they have.
because boys and girls look the same up tell the age of 9-10, only thing that makes them diff is their haircut and clothes.
They're both adorable :^)
@@sunsetsarsaparilla4434 you can do whatever you want but maybe hiding you're trans from them untill so late in life could do more harm than good
Graybe Doubt it. He’d be a man. They’d see him as dad. Whether he had them or not doesn’t really matter either. What exactly would be the harmful part?
What a life. Your parents seem to have taken really great care of you. Lucky childhood. Young me is quite envious.
Bro you’re so cute I’m so happy for you that you’re on T now!!! I wish you all the best :)
can we talk about the picture where he's a knight and his sister is a princess? that is so adorable
I just came out this past weekend as transgender
congrats
congrats dude, hope it went well.
so proud of u!!!
@Grace-Lynn Thode im so sorry :((
@Grace-Lynn Thode you'll find someone who loves you and accepts who you are
how does he look like a guy even with long hair? lmao. i bet he got called a boy a lot as a kid
Brooke I bet it felt really good for him to hear it too and it felt validating even though he didn’t know he was transgender yet.
@@AtomicSim hello fellow Alex
Alex W. Another fellow Alex
@@alexhornewer8396 oh lord there are so many
Once I was going to a football match and I was wearing a tracksuit and I tucked my hair into my hat I was wearing and the steward thought I was a boy and he said to my mam 'hello can I check you sons bag' and my mam was just like 'her bag' and he gave me that look like oh shit ur a girl and I started laughing 😂
i love tøp, but i also just watched someone’s entire life go by in like 5 minutes ..
“At 6 I decided to cut my hair short”
*laughs hysterically having Asian parents*
I’m 17 and they still won’t let me cut my hair short....
Bruh same ;-;
same, I'm planning on cutting my hair anyway with the help of some friends. I'm just tired at this point
Then do it anyway and you can also just donate it so that it’s not that bad “according to your parents”
Cut it and donate it saying it's for charity and that you're trying to be a good person and helping others.
Hello! I also have Asian parents.
My final attempt was an excuse along the lines of “it's really hot”
I was in the marching band and worked my butt off in that, so they finally obliged.
That happened over a year ago. I was also 17 at the time.
It takes time, but the time will come eventually. There's still got a long road ahead of you, and I'll be supporting you along the way.
I wish you the best of luck.
Cheers!
Sir it’s illegal to be that gosh darn handsome. 😤💅
Me: this is gonna be a great video
Video: start playing March to the sea, by tøp
Me: OH THIS IS GONNA BE A GREAT VIDEO
Username and PFP checks out
Tryphare yep
Sometimes quite is violent ikr
Yusss
same 👏👏👏
This popped up in my recommendations
And I’m like
“This looks wholesome”
And now I’m just happy because July 27th is my birthday too
I was just born in 2002
Blossom Cotton hey July 27 is my birthday too
My birthday is June 27 2002 lol
@@august7177 mine too
2000 same day HAHAHAHAHA :')
That's my birthday too but 2005😂
I’m imagining you coming out to your parents and they’re like “We been knew, anything else”, lol. Congratulations though🔥🤟🏿
I was so confused at the beginning since "March to the Sea" Started playing.. I thought my Spotify playlist started playing.
Same! Cause I was just listening to it like a couple of minutes ago
same
Sameeeee
This timeline video is so beautiful and I love the choice of putting March To The Sea in the background
Good luck~
I'm not trans, but this video brought a happy tear to my eye at the end. I am so glad you had love and support by your side when you came out as trans. I'm just so fascinated by stories and journeys such as yours. Best of wishes on your journey on T 💙💙
You two being twins is so cool because looking at your twin is like looking at yourself if you were the opposite gender. I was so surprised at how masculine you looked from the start once you stopped wearing pink!
These are all some incredible photos too, like WOW
Even as a child he gave off a masculine vibe lol
Juliana Silva I hate seeing you in every comment because you call him a she and it’s so annoying.
Onii - Chan Juliana- if that’s even her name just wants to start something up. We all know the person in this video is a boy, not a girl. Julianna just wants to start something and she wants to get attention. It’s a shitty way to get attention, but just ignore her
@@jokah1427 same thought honestly. oof.
My mom asked why I was crying,,
Well- mom-
There’s this really cute boy and skjdksjdksjdksjdks-
The thing that's driving me insane is that when I was aged 6 I was still smashing my head into walls and acting like I as on crack how do these kids know so much
You still knew what gender you were.
Nabranes TwistyPuzzler shut up
@@nabranestwistypuzzler7019 i didn't even know gender was a thing it didn't occur to me. that how idiotic i was
Anime Me ok nvm then
nour Thanks
I personally identify as trans-masc-enby. I am nonbinary, but I prefer more masculine nicknames and compliments. Thank you so much for posting this video. For such a long time, I was afraid to come out, but when I did, I was absolutely relieved. I haven't started physically transitioning yet (besides changing my clothing style and my hair), but even now, me then versus now is a huge difference. I'm much happier with myself now, but I still have a long way to go. It's videos like this that make me feel much more confident and comfortable with who I am and how I identify. My journey has been long and crazy, and I still have a long way to go. I'm excited to see what the future brings for me, and for you as well. I wish you luck on your journey. Thank you for all that you are doing to help fellow trans-folk and LGBTQ+ community members.
To every trans person (and everyone else) reading this: You look wonderful today. You're totally passing! I hope you have a nice day. ❤
Well shit I’m crying. Not just the video itself right, THEN you hit me with March to the sea TOO!
holy shit MARCH TO THE SEA?? haha thank you for the awesome song choice
Ikr! I was shooketh
It caught me off guard when the video started but then I'm like "oh damn that's TØP... Nice"
Dude I'm really happy for you BUT....... I would rather talk about March to the sea. Great song choice. We stan the old TØP
The Misfits Club YES i was looking for a comment like this
The Misfits Club THAT IS THE REASON I WATCHING IT WITHOUT SKIPPING
For real 🙏 👏
yess
Yessss
All I can see is Mabel and Dipper 😂
I’m glad you’re finally who you always were!
YESS ME TOO
i never realized other trans guys went through the “i dont feel girly enough so i’ll be girly” feeling through early puberty 🥺🥺 i had that and forced myself to dress out
Samee it was the worst
Same here
I did that. I went from hating skirts and jeans and dresses to wearing them cause it seemed like I should (although I didn’t mind some of the stuff I had). I always felt off, I did make up and wore clothes that showed my chest and stuff, and it really didn’t make me happy. Everything always felt off, no matter what I did. I found out when I was about 14-15.
Ugh yess, even as a masc-aligned nb I feel you
@@ev_etc3578 Actually, same!! I'm also a trans-masc nb (I usually just say nb guy).
*me scrolling through comments ready to defend homeboys video because that's what you do for another brother*
Don’t know why this made me tear up I haven’t cried in years
I know, this is the only trans timeline that have made me tear up.
Lol imagine not crying 24/7
I had chills.
Yeah I definitely teared up, but I do tend to cry now and then
My grown up kids still moan when I try to take the obligatory snap in front of the Christmas tree every year and at least 1 picture next to the Birthday cake. I took gazillions when they were growing up and I know they will appreciate it at some point when want to reminisce.
That said, this is a beautiful video and much respect goes to you for telling your family and the world who you really are.
Brave and inspirational and I bet loved just as much, if not more.You seem to have a wonderful bond with your sister.
Long may that remain.
Thank you for sharing and good luck with the future young man!!
xx
"YoU cAn'T bOrN kNoWiNg YoU'Re TrAnS"
At age *6* I decided to cut my hair short
So little girls can't have short hair? I sometimes wonder if transsexuality has become popular in society because we tolerate so little androgyny. It wasn't always this way.
I mean, he didn't _know_ he was trans, he just wanted to have short hair ??
She clearly was trying to identify outside of being a twin which was evident she knew she was a twin which over time she identified her actions as trans which is mis leading she clearly had an identity battle going on....STOP LABELING YOURSELF YOUR NOT STR8 TRANS GAY OR BI YOU R WHAT YOU DIDNT CHOSE TO BE WHEN U GOT HERE . JUS BE YOU & KEEP SOULSEARCHING
Palena Bell i can get you a language arts textbook i still have my 4th grade one if you need to know how yo structure a paragraph
@@mooble1 ummm bitch don't come for me... I know exactly how to structure a paragraph let alone how to speak but this isn't English class now is it bitch.
one second in and i'm hearing twenty one pilots. i already know i'm gonna love this
Makes us 2
Same
which song i know nothing abt tøp but i love this what is it
@@burdlo4687 It's called "March To The Sea". It's in the self titled album.
nvm got it
Ok but these are oddly high quality photos considering they're from the early 2000s BFLSHDOAHD one of your parents had a fancy camera huh
their parents are probably photographers
LovatoLover22 I have pictures like this and my parents aren’t photographers
oof the wondering why you're not like "other" girls is fucken. #relateable. In high school I couldn't figure out why i felt so gross and predatory in the girl's locker room or changing with my friends. Thought it was cause I'm bi but it's cause boys arent supposed to be in the girls locker room!
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I feel that way...
What a fun upbringing you had. Your parents took you everywhere and never failed to capture it with a photo. The love is obvious.
It’s so comforting to see someone else who has suppressed themself because they have felt they have had to. It reminds me I am not alone thank you
agree. I feel the same way. I went through phases of having long hair and dressing like a 'girl' because i wanted to fit in but each time i would go back to cutting my hair cut and dressing the way i wanted to be and not how the world wanted me to be. I'm still yet to come out to my family but i have known since i was 12 and even eariler i knew something was different. The first ever memory i have is at school when my teacher asked me what i wanted to be and i said i wanted to be a dad.
My mom yells at me like “DO YOU THINK THAT YOURE SOMETHING YOURE NOT??” When I ask to cut my hair or wear boy clothes ;’)
"the people it matters to don't count because it doesn't matter to the people that count" I know this quote may not be verbatem but the intention is there. If you aren't hurting someone then do what makes YOU happy and comfortable in your own skin. Be YOU because if you run around trying to please everyone else, you will inevitability fail and you will be just miserable! Be YOU & be HAPPY. The people that truly care about you will be happy along with you. 🤗♥️
Clothes don't have a gender. But they are boy clothes because you are a boy
Just respond with, "Nope, I *know* something that I *am"
OMG my dad said the exact same thing!
I’m your mom now. Go clean ur room. Drink some water. Did u get ur homework done? I love u son.
As a trans girl, I found this quite emotional and it gave me happy shivers when the moment came. Even in the pictures you looked uncomfortable, and I’m so glad you're happier now. I wish you the best and tell your sister, she's fab'! 💙
me:**clicks video**
Tyler: **full volume** THERES MILES OF LAND IN FROUNT OF US
:D :D :D
I started crying I didn’t expect that song to be in the video
me too i cried 💕
dude you’ve been passing so well even since you were little! congrats on T!!!
It's kind of interesting how many trans people have a twin, I would love to see a study on that!
Edit: Apparently there has been some already! A user called Wrenly left the title of one of said studies down in the comments! Check it out.
I'd love to see that too!
Yes, I thought the same thing!
I don’t hehe
I'm a twin and I'm trans.
There has been! Milton Diamomd published one called "Transexuality Among Twins: Identity Concordance, Transition, Rearing and Orientation"