i put a clip in the wrong spot 30 minutes in, whoops. longest video i ever made. i put no ads on this video because i just feel awful about all of this and i think this is beyond money, but i do need people to see this, so feel free to share.
"I can't stand Selena Gomez. Why? Not because she has an auto-immune disease.." Wait, what? "Having an auto-immune disease" is on the list of reasons you could, in theory, hate someone?
Personally my favorite was "continues to drink and do drugs, *probably* " like, ok sweetheart, just be honest about the fact you wanna fuck Justin and thats why you hate this woman
@@sowhatphie I was thinking the same thing. I mean she was pretty much talking shit about Bella Hadid when Bella posted about depression which is something we all need to be sensitive about.
she reminds me of an ex friend i have. she started raging on twitter because a girl was saying she was 3 weeks clean of s*lf h*rm,, i shit you not my friend replied saying "she's such an attention seeker. i'm 6 months clean but you don't see me talking about it"sksjdjddj i don't talk to her now bc she was so toxic.
@Malak Yehia it's a joke thing i carry along with me to use "eye--" instead of "i--" ! a lot of other people use it too, i just inherited the habit accidentally from one of my close online friends.
Having a baby is a mutual choice. If Ellen doesn’t want kids then her wife has the option to leave or stay. Not wanting children doesn’t make you a terrible person... having children you don’t want just to make someone else happy makes you a terrible person.
yeah true, it's not the general consensus among mental health/psychiatric professionals that psychopaths have a tendency to be intrigued with animals... oh wait.
@@khatunamezvrishvili6211 it is the general consensus among mental health/psychiatric professionals that psychopaths have a tendency to be intrigued with animals
her saying that Pete not committing suicide is a revenge tactic is so insensitive. the reason i didn’t kill my self at my worst time 5 years ago was because i knew it would break my family’s hearts. that is not manipulative that is not vengeful, it’s literally a learned tactic in therapy to latch onto those things to keep you alive and safe. it’s a survival tactic for suicidal people. i hate everything she says
i know,, it made me so upset i had to put my phone down for half an hour. i’ve been chronically suicidal for 2 years and literally the only reason i’m alive is because i didn’t want to hurt my family. sometimes it gets to a place where i get upset because i want to do it so bad but i just couldn’t do that to my family. not wanting to hurt the people around you has been the thing keeping so many people alive and to say that talking about it is attention seeking and that he wants to do it for revenge is so so damaging
Literally the only reason I didn’t kill myself for the past couple years was that my dog wouldn’t understand where I went . And it’s absolutely insane to see her invalidate this type of reason. My old therapist literally said that this is the best way to keep yourself alive, to make reasons, no matter how small, to wake up the next day. On god this is pissing me off so fucking much. I’m not one for violence but chair and make it ELECTRIC Edit: I never expected this much attention,,but thank you all for the wonderful and kind comments. It means the world to me to know so many kind people care. I truly am doing better and I hope everyone is doing better too. I love you all
You are such a gentle soul for thinkin this way even. You are literally putting your dog's needs above yours. You donot deserve to die. We need people like you on earth. Nobody deserves to go thru this thought process, but you literally do not deserve to experience it. I dont know what has happened in your life to make you feel this way, but just because its valid, doesn't mean its correct. I wish you a happy long long life filled with bless and love. Someone like you deserve to be loved for your gentle soul alone. Im sure you have alot more good qualities thats are not seen from just a comment. Bless you and your lucky dog.🌻💛
I agree! But thank you for staying. You are here for a reason- even if it isn’t shown yet. You are loved and your emotions are valid. You have every right to feel the way you do about things and react however you want- but please stay alive. People will miss you. Especially your dog :)
Thank you guys all for the kind replies ;-; I’m doing a lot better these days (even got on meds and made it to 18!!) but hearing your kind words really makes me glad I stuck around
It’s exactly the same for me! Big things like being important or special or inherently worth living never made sense to me and I was never able to grasp it, but the one thing I knew was that no one else would take care of my cat or love her or feed her, so I reminded myself of that every single day until I started believing that I really needed to live.
I'm bipolar and borderline and watching this video just made me so mad clearly she knows nothing about mental illness at all. You can be medicated for both and like you said they arent fun drugs its things like mood stabilizers and anti psychotics
frankiestar43 I have BPD too and when she said that you can’t be medicated for BPD I instantly knew she was an idiot. There obviously aren’t any drugs that are specifically meant to treat BPD but it is possible to take various psych meds to help. What a moron.
@@azugirl111 same i already knew she didn't know anything about it but she said that and I just sighed and looked over at my 9 pills I take for a good day and was like yeah shes a fuckin lair and just wants to make him look bad. She didn't even watch the video literally just took it all out of context and made pete look bad for no reason it was actually a really good interview if you have time you should watch it i relate alot to him on mental health its helpful to see others with the same issues.
How... How did he managed to stay so calm? He has this inner peace in him. He works through it all in silence. His eyes went so sad and helpless while suicide bit. It's... Awful. She's awful. And doesn't know the weight of her words.
he'd be an excellent DBT therapist. he'd be coveted. in the past ~18 yrs I've tried all sorts of therapies till I landed on DBT a decade ago (I still try new things if they augment my DBT practices). I've had 8 therapists. 4 of which are either DBT or CBT certified. his dialectical perception of reality is innate. takes yrs to have such a judgment-free language and criticism of someone w aggressive anti-social behavior. ❤
Came for this comment, so thank you! That interview was great and Pete's struggles were obvious and all too real. [immediately] Shallon: "He doesn't want help" -𝘤𝘶𝘵 𝘵𝘰- "he keeps going back to rehab, getting his doctors to adjust his meds." ᴡHᴀT??
...which is the difference between Shallon and D'Angelo. He does immense research, before he puts a video out. And I wanna say again, she is a "journalist"... not doing any research about her topics? Good luck with job applications...
As horrible as Shallon Lester is Id like to point out a positive that this video created. I after watching this was finally able to reach out for mental health help simply because of what DeAngelo said about not needing to hit certain criteria to ask for help. I'm now in therapy and have found a very helpful emotional support system. So thank you DeAngelo. Stay hydrated and take care of yourself. :)
Also, Hitler was never actually psychologically evaluated by a psychiatrist and diagnosed with psychopathy. A person does NOT have to be a psychopath to be a horrible human being,
As someone who went through a morbid phase of trying to dissect everything hitler did in like, middle school, and has now recently taken a college psychology course, I can tell you that from what I know he was the exact opposite. Yeah he was a horrible, horrible person, but he wasn't psychopathic, he was delisuional. He THOUGHT he was doing the right thing, and dear god No He Wasn't but he wasn't doing it with the knowledge it was wrong. from what I can tell, he didn't know he was wrong, which a psychopath often does. Please feel free to fact check me on everything but: -A bad person is just a nasty person, they get satisfaction from putting others down and feel better about being in power over people. A bully is a perfect example, an abuser can be the highest end of this; This is "I did X because you did Y" -A psychopath KNOWS what is wrong, and they don't feel guilt or sadness in response to their actions (In some cases it can turn into pride or joy which is why young serial killers started with animals often). This is "I did X because I don't care that it was wrong/It felt good" -A deliuded person does horrible things without knowing they are horrible; if they understood why they're wrong, they'd feel TERRIBLE, but the way they are now they don't really have the ability to understand. This is "I did X for the greater good/to help you/because it was the right thing".
Like Nazis aren't delusional, Nazis are dangerous and actively hate people they deem as others to the point where they support genocide to protect the "purity" of their ethnostate. If you're gonna assign them any kind of mental health trait, that's much more narcissistic than delusional, but slapping on arbitrary psychological terms that are constantly changing to very complex sociopolitical issues that have resulted in serious consequences like the deaths of millions of people is highly offensive to both mentally ill people and people who lost their lives at the hands of violent, racist reactionaries. They're very mentally sound and very intentional in what they do.
- “I have been having suicidal thoughts” - “who asked you?” This girl is unbelievably dangerous. Her content should be kept out of the hands of children. and everyone really....I have a feeling that issue will take care of itself.
Unbelievably dangerous. I’m schizophrenic and I have bad suicidal thoughts and episodes sometimes that if someone was to tell me “if you won’t commit it, why even bring it up” I would commit it. The only reason why I haven’t went through with it yet is bc I have younger siblings that depend on me, but sometimes I feel so isolated and lost that it gets hard.
@@Froppy727 hey, i know that im a literal stranger on the internet but. staying alive can and will bring change for the better. even if Everything can't change, i can vouch that there will be a point where the worst of it is behind you. im deeply sorry that you're going through this. you are in my prayers, i will hope you have a good day every day that i pray.
@@Froppy727 It's important to bring it up even if it's just a fleeting thought, because no one deserves to be tortured with those kinds of thoughts and everyone deserves help, and you can't get help if you don't let anyone know you need it. I hope you are getting help and taking good care. Thinking about my sister was a big help to me when I was struggling with depression and agoraphobia and having thoughts of suicide and self-harm. Holding on to the people you care about is a vitally important and powerful way to get yourself through any mental illness. So keep holding on to your love for your siblings, and recognize that each day you do you are doing a good thing for them and for yourself and be proud of that, because I know it can be hard but it also means you are a caring and considerate and loving person, despite what your thoughts may try to convince you. I hope each day gets easier and brighter for you. Thank you for talking about your experiences. Unlike what this horrible woman says, I think it's so important and it's brave. And it helps people who are going through what you are feel less isolated in their experiences as well.
長浜清子 Thanks for sharing dude, sometimes it helps to talk about it. If you need an outlet, I remember this site called 7cups which is basically an online chat support group? But hey, what got me through was remembering that things are always changing, you can get through this and things will be better, promise. Focus on identifying negative thoughts and trying to replace them with positive ones. One day, you’ll wake up and realize you’ve been feeling better and you didn’t even notice. That’s been my experience, anyways. Much love bro
Yea, the mentally ill that exist people try their hardest, if they didnt they wouldn’t be around. If someone without illness were in their shoes, then maybe they would realize that mentally ill people do try.
@@sexfuk2119 - yep, this. I was signed off work for 6 months this year with severe depression and honestly, it was harder than when I literally almost died of salmonella. Every day is unbearable. Thankfully I’m getting better now, but hearing this woman talk like this about depression and anxiety is just horrible. Like I could cry I’m so angry horrible. Then to say that people with mental health issues shouldn’t date? She should F off and shut up. As I said here earlier, I might have depression and anxiety but thank goodness I don’t have an ugly soul like she does.
@@emm8357 im so happy that u got better! good for you :D i myself have been showing symptoms of social anxiety and/or depression for years and im planning on getting a diagnosis&therapy as soon as i get the money and reading on your comment that yeah, it can get better, made me smile,,
the part about using suicide as "revenge" really bothered me. One of the only things that pulled me through potential suicide attempts was the thought of how people I was close to, specifically my mom and sister, would react. They kept me alive, and for her to say Pete was using it as "revenge" is flat out disgusting.
ABSOLUTELY! IT TOOK ME A WHILE TO GET THROUGH THIS VIDEO AND I CAN'T BELIEVE SOMEONE COULD DO THIS JUST ON A HUMAN LEVEL...SHE IS DIGUSTING AND I DON'T KNOW HOW OR WHY SHE'S ALLOWED TO SAY 95 PERCENT OF THE SHIT THAT SPUES OUT OF HER MOUTH LIKE VENOM! SHE IS SERIOUSLY DISTURBED!!! D'ANGELO IS SO RIGHT SHE IS SO UGLY HER HEART IS 🖤!
21:14 As a person who struggles with suicidal thoughts and tendencies, this really stuck out to me. The only reason I’m still here is because of my family. There is no revenge. I don’t even understand where she got that from. It’s disgusting, shallow, and hurtful to everyone who hears it. I honestly hope that one day she understands the harmful words and motives she’s put in to countless people.
Jolisa What does race has do with any of this. You are entitled to your OWN opinion but, a person saying that’s another person is an *manipulative* or a *psychopath* with no actual facts does not sit right with me. Of course people are getting extremely offended of what Shannon is saying and it has absolutely nothing to do about ego. I can not believe you actually support and agree with Shannon while she is making lies about mental illnesses. If anything I think *you* are the insane one for still supporting Shannon while she is talking and “joking” about serious topics. She is literally making LIES based of no facts nor evidence. I hope you can open your eyes and see how horrible of person she truly is.
I think she's outright ugly, just got a face that you wanna punch, she reminds me of that type of mum who can't accept their child had done something wrong and blames everyone else
@@boywithhairlikethis it will differ with country to country, but POC will typically find it harder to get diagnosed/ get treatment with mental health issues. So white people would have an easier journey. keep in mind I haven’t reached the video where she talks about this so I have no idea what she said i’m just answering what you said EDIT: I just watched it. She is royally fucked up in the head. White men can experience depression, anxiety etc just as much as any other race. To say that white men should ‘stop dating’ is horrible advice for mental health (unless the issues stem from the abusive/controlling partner)
@@boywithhairlikethisIt can affect one's mental health in that it can change how we interact with the world and how it interacts with us, which affects our mental health
I HATE that she pulls the "straight white male" card as if it will trick people into thinking she's being woke and not just hating on people with mental disorders just... Ew
Yep! Her ego is unbelievable! It’s like every video she speaks very highly of herself, ‘I wrote a book! I used to work in star magazine 25 years ago!’ It’s painful to watch and very narcissistic and unattractive. Even the most successful people in the world don’t brag about themselves as much as she does. I wouldn’t call her a ‘has been’ she’s a ‘has never been.’ In so many videos she also brags about ‘being great in bed’ Seriously?? If you have to keep saying it you’re insecure about yourself. If you’re good in bed you wouldn’t keep saying it. Lol! It’s so embarrassing. She always mentions having fucked lots of people as if being banged by hundreds or even thousands of men is something to be proud of. Wouldn’t you at least find ONE that wants to stick around if you were ‘great in bed’?? 🤔 Lol!!! She’s just a pump and dump. She’s jealous of famous young women because she never made it, so always brings other women down. She’s old, bitter, used up and has been pumped and dumped so many times she’s gone crazy and letting out her toxicity on everyone else. All her negativity is because of her own inner demons. Insecurities are loud, confidence is silence.
Yeah, like wtaf?! Is it not commonly known that people with mental health problems are usually the ones who need love the most? My god, I hate people like this (I very rarely straight up insult people, but this is one of those times where I can safely say that I do not like this person)
Being a psychology student: There sure is nobody who diagnoses with these "levels". Psychopathy is an outdated term, clinically it's called antisocial personality disorder and it's a spectrum. For professionals it's one of the biggest sins to pretend you can diagnose someone without talking to them in person in a proper therapy session. Edit: Being the current top comment, I'd like to do my part and ask for a skincare routine
@@emmy8961 there are plenty of fake psychology channels that do similar content. Some of their audience absolutely does think of their videos as being factual and accurate. If you just look at a channel like The Rewired Soul, the comments section is usually full of people who are taking it pretty seriously. The audiences for these people are probably mostly children that are still too naive to have a proper think on these matters, but it's still a worrisome trend and very unhealthy.
Emmy she’s throwing the word “psychopathy” around, creating a narrative that she is a psychopath around false information to fit her confirmation bias. The comments absolutely show that there are many people who believe this false narrative. Though it doesn’t even matter whether people actually believe it or not, she’s the one who made this video claiming the shit she says is true, made for people to believe her. That’s the issue, not whether people believe it or not.
@T. Dee Why say something like that about someone's career path or study? I'm sure they've thought it through. Were you a psychology student? Instead, why not give helpful advice or your experiences?
Absolutely... I studied psychology on top of a totally irrelevant cell biology and biotech background, and when I switched to this 'soft' science, I had people ask me if I am analysing them or reading their minds... that also pisses me off. TBH, I have never even heard of the list she was using. The standard we were taught to follow was the DSM-IV or V (some people have some issues with the newest since Asperger's no longer has it's own category).. And when she said psychopaths are not the same as sociopaths, I just cringed, since both are layman terms for the same type of people with the same disorder. Just absolute garbage, she needs to stay in her lane.
This guy literally put his mental health aside to share this with the internet because of the importance this topic has. Now that's commitment and dedication. Thank you for using your platform to draw attention to these issues, now you go take care of yourself dude
@@J33SS I mean that he says in the video that he tried filming it three times (this one was the third) and every time felt like he put himself in a schreder and then try to put himself back together. And also it is visible how talking about depression and watching this woman hating on depressed people affect s him. And he has put himself through this (and didn't put ads along the video) because he considered that it was something more people should know about bc it's a real issue that isn't being dealt with. I'm sorry this was such a long response, I hope it was helpful! have a great day!
I know right it's so hard to watch her say those things but then he goes on to try and talk about it but ends up breaking his logical persona and that voice break just absolutely killed me. Makes me hate people like Shallon so much more.
After watching his most recent update, you can understand that this video was so genuinely hard for him to make. This is already such a difficult topic and having the personal experiences and struggles of this must make it feel so overwhelming to talk about. I have so much respect for you.
Also the comment on how there’s no magic pill? As in there’s no medication? I’m waiting to get on mood stabilisers for bipolar, what do you mean there’s no medication what
@@krrr.4902 There is no medication for Borderline. Borderline is a personality disorder, NOT a mood disorder such as Bipolar. Bipolar can be treated with medication designed to adjust the chemicals in your brain. Personality disorders such as Borderline can only be managed by cognitive behavioral therapy.
@@tyf.5111 yes, we know. It took me a while to remember what's happening... Lester is berating that man mainly for "lying to score drugs". The person I responded to tried to clarify that what Lester meant was something completely contradictory. I say I doesn't make sense as in lacking a coherent train of thought. Kinda like me at 3 am right now. Lester can't say "he should get treatment" and also "there's no treatment"; that's the flaw I tried to point out. The dude was in fact doing therapy, he was getting treatment so whatever she means is just mindless bitching about a guy she doesn't like.
Yeah I know I just wish that some day she is not together internet words videos and I know I don’t make any sense but it’s just like a lot like the way that she is saying that dumb stuff
"He has borderline personality disorder something bad happened in that house!" HIS DAD WAS A FIREFIGHTER WHO DIED IN THE 9/11 ATTACKS. YOU THINK THAT MIGHT BE THE SOURCE OF SOME TRAUMA? HUH?
Also bpd stems from narcissistic parenting however just because a child has been emotionally abused at the hands of a narcissistic parent doesn’t necessarily mean the parent is a bad or even abusive person in fact if anything perpetuating that misinformation only causes further guilt and confusion within people suffering from those circumstances who have more than enough for worry about. Not to mention that narcissistic personality disorder is another thing that doesn’t just come up out of thin air and is also the direct result of a traumatic upbringing in it’s own right. Clearly some people fall into multiple different categories in the personality disorder category and thus changing the way they perceive the actions they’ve taken that have directly caused mental harm to a loved one but that doesn’t mean every single person diagnosed with npd is just ruthlessly uncaring humans are so much more complex than that which is exactly what makes bpd so difficult in the first place because you are literally groomed to make excuses for your abuser who may just happen to also be the person in the world who loves you and you love back the very most and that is a deeply counterintuitive struggle to be having inside yourself about possibly the only person in your life you have ever truly been close to or had to depend on. The nuances are essentially endless but the fact that she can make it out to be so black and white despite it nearly being entirely grey is the part that is most deeply concerning to me and hopefully anyone else who has had to struggle with these issues in their lives.
There isn't any one universally accepted and well understood cause for BPD. BPD is basically just your brain developing certain patterns while growing up. A lot of people develop these patterns as a result of abusive childhoods, or a narcissistic parent (not all abusers are narcissists, by the way). But a lot of people develop these patterns for other reasons that are harder or even impossible to trace. Mental health and psychology isn't math, there's no formula, no x+y=z. It's more complicated than that. And part of it is genetics. It's not always caused by abuse. I know multiple people, myself included, whose parents were perfectly fine and normal and not in any way narcissistic. No abuse, no childhood trauma, and yet still we ended up with BPD. Saying that people can't be BPD unless they were abused makes it harder for BPD people who weren't abused to accept that they have it, which means it's a longer time before they get help. For the longest time I argued I can't have BPD because I wasn't abused, and it took a while and a lot of research before I accepted that "I have BPD" and "my childhood was fine" are not contradicting statements. This misinformation hurts people, and keeps them from getting the help they need.
Well when you think about the fact that she’s a white female it makes sense. While this is of course not true of all white feminists, a lot of them are just wanting equality for themself and not other women. She could also just be trying to jump onto some “trendy” version of feminism.
(To Golden Arrow) No no no, I think you've misunderstood my comment. I wasn't implying that feminists can only 'do this and that' (at least not intentionally) I was just pointing out that her wearing a "FEMINIST" t-shirt whilst simultaneously slandering females the way she did is ironic: Simply because her shirt says one thing but the words coming out of her mouth says something completely different. This would be the case even if she was only slandering males. The irony happens to be just more obvious and 'cutting' because she's specifically slandering females. (Edit: edited a horrific amount of grammar mistakes)
The tone of her saying "oh but he's depressed", this sad excuse for a human just gaslighted and mocked the struggles of over 790 million people. What the literal fuck
One of the symptoms of Lupus is slurred speech. So actually a person with Lupus (like Selena Gomez) could appear drunk when they are completely sober. Which a 5 second google search could tell this horrid woman.
she’s making up this whole lie that selena is an addict because of her slurred speech like not only does she have lupus but also people just stutter??? like normal human beings mess up their sentences???
I slur my words and have trouble talking just before I get migraine headaches. People have assumed that I'm drunk when that happens, too. A friend of mine sometimes slurs her words when her blood sugar levels drop, she's pre-diabetic. There are so many reasons why someone might talk a little different and this woman can only come up with "DRUNK!". She's so hateful.
In one part he had tears in his eyes and I closed the video and cried uncontrollably for 5 minutes. I'm weird, even if someone says they have a bad headache my head starts hurting. I was thinking a lot about that part, like A LOT, but oh well edit: 23:00 he looks like he's gonna cry and that's basically the only reason I didn't finish watching this video
@@karmenmatas7140 i can't decide if it sucks or not :( and i feel like a hater pointing out the smallest details of his personal life, its not my bussines and I shouldn't be talking about his stuff :'c
@@justine-3432 you are not a hater for that, in fact it's the complete opposite as for deciding if it sucks or not I'm sure that people will appreciate your genuineness in the long term don't beat yourself up over it
Fabulous job on this. My kiddo was diagnosed with schizophrenia when she was 8 (13 now) and deals with a lot of this kind of ugliness. People like you are a huge support! Thank you for being you ❤️
The suicide bit hurts me. Because, when I made my attempt, my mom almost had a heart attack. To this day, I feel ashamed. I love my mom and I do my best to not fall back again. She is wrong ans her comment is immoral.
ive never understood trigger warnings until now. hearing her speak so carelessly and shamefully about mental illness makes me sick to my stomach. i actually want to cry right now. when pete said that he has suicidal thoughts but doesnt act on it because of his family, i related to that. for shallon to say that i might as well just do it is gross. i cannot believe one women can have so much ignorance and unawareness.
I’m so sorry you experienced that. I had a similar feeling of wanting to cry and throw up cuz I just couldn’t understand how someone could say those things in such a... SMUG way.
As someone who is bipolar and in a stable, healthy relationship, it is absolutely something you can live a normal life with. Yes, I occasionally need more emotional support than a non-bipolar person would, but I'm not out here intentionally hurting or abusing my boyfriend. He knew what he was getting into and we fully support each other in our respective struggles.
she often says she is/has whatever she's about to shit on someone else for as a manipulation tactic to be able to say extra offensive bullshit & get away with it unchallenged.
I’m a psychology major and everything this woman is saying is completely untrue and doesn’t have any scientific basis. Absolutely disgusting use of misinformation. Also, I completely understand how difficult it is to detach yourself from the subject especially if it’s close to home. I often have to speak to other people about subjects that can be very close to home but detaching is a skill I am continuing to learn. I am so proud of you for making these videos and actually helping people who may be in a darker place after watching her videos.
It's really difficult to listen to her regurgitate the same garbage in a perpetual state of juvenile understanding of psychology. She has such a beginner's understanding and sounds like shes constantly in a phase of learning the hard way but never really learning or changing. I think she should move on to something that aligns better with her mentality and by that I mean she should drop psychology and pick up astrology.
I’m a psych major as well and I’m only halfway into this video and literally everything this woman has said is seemingly based on really shallow stereotypes of psychology and mental health and not at all rooted in actual psychology- and if she had taken just a single psych class she would know better. This is ridiculous.
"I used to cut myself and I don't speak about it." That is her talking about it. And people speak about these things to spread awareness. Something she needs more of.
i love how she mentioned that she was "a cutter" then says he's saying those things for attention... logic? hello? edit: i hate these edits but this is worth it... 69 LIKES DUDES YEEEEEEAAH
As someone who is getting a PhD in psychology, everything she spews out of her mouth is not only untrue, but extremely harmful. This is how misinformation spreads about mental illness and disorders. Nothing she said was even remotely true. I barely made it through half of the video I was so upset. How is she still even allowed on UA-cam?
Yeah, and like I'm pretty sure psychopath isn't a term in DSM. I just hate the blanket term psychopath for mental illness. The fear and drama around it contributes to the normal fear with anxiety that "I'm going crazy! I might go too far!"
Dai Yea, I just visited her channel and holy crap! People DO believe her. Where do they come from? She is such a horrible human being! I can’t even began to explain oml.
I agree this woman is horrible and is racist in every sense of the word but what did she say? I don’t watch her or follow her in any way this is my first exposure so I’d like to know what she said.
"You can't be medicated for BPD" I- what? "He's constantly changing his medications!" Yes. Yes you need to do that sometimes. I've changed mine many times, for being bipolar, because it's necessary. This is so infuriating- I pride myself on being quite eloquent, as conceited as that may sound (it's the personality disorder, I promise/j), but these types of videos just. Makes me so frustrated that I want to cry. If anyone's a psychopath, it's her.
As someone with bipolar disorder, who honestly considers the fact that I decided to change medications as a big reason why I was able to overcome suicidal ideation, I wholeheartedly agree with this. This woman is absolutely the furthest thing from qualified to talk about mental health possible. I am eternally grateful that I found a great psychiatrist who understand mental health and medication, because without her I’d never have known how adhd medications (which I also take due to having adhd) can sometimes make bipolar symptoms worse, I’d never have figured out that the anxiety meds I was taking were making me feel like shit because of how they were affecting my insomnia, and so much more. Changing medications is a normal, and honestly necessary in most cases, part of the mental health journey. All that this woman is doing is hurting others because of her own unresolved issues, and I hope she figures them out, if only so that she stops spreading harm. Also, I too pride myself on eloquence. It’s fun using big words and sounding fancy :)
@@pan.gremlin two peas in a pod (or something like tgat), I see haha. Bipolar disorder already makes one feel insane, whether you know what it is or not, so having people like this speak out on something she absolutely does not know anything about in such a negative way certainly doesn't make anything better. I feel you on the BP and ADHD combination, they only spur each other on until everything's nothing but a huge chaotic mess. I'm thankful that I live in the place I do where the medical personnel are very skilled at what they're doing, if I hadn't I probably wouldn't be sitting here ranting about a grown ass woman acting like a child. But hey, I think we're doing great you and I for surviving this, kudos to us 💪
BPD isn't short for bipolar. It's short for borderline personality disorder and no you can't medicate for it 😂 I'm one of the top studied cases in my state 😊
@@kris_jenner_is_a_cryptid_ I'm aware of that now, but since English isn't my first language I had a hard time distinguishing between bp and bpd in the way the word is shortened as it's shortened in a very different way in my own language. But that was something I learned quite recently 🙈
She actually did make a video about that. It was the first and last video from her I watched and I guess my initial instincts about her have now been proven right.
she learned the words "manipulative" "abuser" and "gaslighting" and, ironically enough, started abusing them to manipulate and gaslight her audience into believing her stupid lies.
couldn't have said it better. everything she says seems to be a reflection of her own insecurities. she's said herself that she has narcissistic disorder, and she's clearly using her channel to fuel that.
I genuinely started crying while listening to this lady talk about "If you're not actually going to commit suicide, why even bring it up?" because it 's so horrible to hear. I have struggled with suicidal thoughts and depression before, but even if I hadn't, it's still so disgusting and upsetting to know that this is how some people think. I really had no idea that someone could be so hateful.
Hey I wanna say it's going to be alright but I would be lying because I don't know what the future is like. All I can say is that if you ever need a shoulder to virtually cry on or talk to dm me @zeeeartistapeasant on instagram. I hope things get better you are not alone and you are a marvellous human.
Dude, nobody asked you about your mental health. /s. For real though I hope it’s gotten better and continues to get better. You are genuinely meaningful to people around you even if you don’t realize it. Have a good life. Just in case you don’t know “/s” means that what was said before it was sarcastic. I don’t actually mean that no one asked
There's a German word, "lästern" (pronounced lestern, literally). It means to talk badly or mean about someone behind their back unprompted and doing it to have fun and feel good and create in-group feelings with people listening to you. Fitting.
d'angelo get emotional over mental health awareness and acceptance is honestly a STRAIGHT UP KING MOVE and I applaud him for showing vulnerability on the topic
It hurts so much to hear her say that it's "revenge" for Pete Davidson to not want to commit suicide for his mom and sister. That literally is something that hurts me on such a personal level, that's literally the sickest thing I have ever heard in my life. When you're depressive and suicidal sometimes all you need is one thing to keep you alive until you get the help you need. It is so sickening to hear someone denounce that when personally, the thoughts of how my siblings would react to my death would sometimes be the only thing to get me through my depressive moods. I'm so disgusted.
I knew Pete’s sister, Casey, growing up. Both her and her mom are such sweet people & are nothing but loving to Pete. Hearing Shallon suggest that they must have done something harmful to him for him to end up with BPD made me sick. She’s such a twisted individual. Edit: typo
I hope you're doing better and you've gotten help. That part was especially disgusting and shocking to hear. Every time my mind tried to convince me that I should leave, thought of my parents stopped me.
exactly. I've struggled with a lot of suicidal thoughts yet I'd never do it purely for my mum and for one of my friends who's also extremely suicidal and has said that me and other friends are the reason they're alive. they are the people keeping me here and if it wasn't for them I wouldn't be here
Yes! When you’re suicidal, attaching yourself to something is literally your lifeline. Shallot has no idea what it feels like to think you’re going crazy, have your mind spiral out of control, and have to literally beg yourself to live.
I like how she feels entitled to "analyse" people while her narcissism (that she admitted to have on a higher scale) is screaming during the entire video. This video rlly made me realize at least 80% of what she says is straight bullshit
i know that this was posted 6 months ago but i just want to quickly say !! people with narcissistic personality disorder are people with a real diagnosable mental illness and it's not correct to say that she is narcissistic when there is nothing pointing towards her having NPD. even if "narcissism" is colloquially used as a synonym for "being vain and cruel" it's not correct to use that term for people without NPD since it contributes to stigma against the disorder. i don't want to be rude i just wanted to point out that it's not the most productive thing to describe her with that term !!
My bad, not trying to be a dick, but it's suicidal ideation. Idealism is a mindset and/or branch of philosophy; ideation means "generation of ideas" so essentially in psychology, thoughts that come to your mind. Again not trying to be an asshole
Honestly this women sounds like me trying to write an argumentative essay at 3 am the day before it’s due. Bullshit points, bullshit opinions, and either no source or a source that isn’t credible whatsoever.
lmao about the Ellen and Portia thing- let's say Portia DID want to have a baby and Ellen didn't. Ellen is NOT OBLIGATED to agree to have children that she DOESN'T WANT. She wouldn't be 'being mean' to Portia by not agreeing to have one. Children are a lifelong commitment and it's totally valid for someone to not want to make that commitment. If both parties are not on board with having children, then they SHOULDN'T have children. They should either work it out together and come up with a compromise (working in childcare, taking in a foreign exchange student, etc) or split up to find partners who share their position on having children. Shannon Lester is really out here trying to convince ppl that woman who wanna remain childfree are heartless monsters, huh
lmao i just finished the video (this woman made my blood BOIL so i took several breaks) and god there's just. not a single redeeming factor abt her is there
i'm not fan of Ellen myself, but you're totally right.i'm only 10 min in the vid, see this woman fir the first time, i just can't believe that she is real.wish me luckkk
A couple of years ago, before I came to terms with being bisexual, I had intense suicidal thoughts, to the point that I almost did it a couple of times. The only thing that kept me from going all the way was thinking about what would happen to my family afterwards. Hearing Shallon indirectly tell me that I was “getting revenge” against them absolutely disgusts me. I can’t believe a woman who talks about other people like that has a platform as large as her.
A little addendum: that tweet about her trying to make out with a gay guy who looks like Justin Bieber is not only an admission of pedophilia, it’s also a confession of intention to commit sexual harassment/assault and is also a horrifying thing to admit to.
Thank you friend, it’s gotten much better since those days, as I’ve come to terms with myself and been blessed with a very accepting family who respect me for who I’ve always been. Granted, I still live in Bible-Belt America, so it’s not exactly the most queer-friendly environment, but I’ve had the pleasure of watching that mentality slowly change as my generation grows up and is able to cause greater change here. That’s a consolation, I suppose
my best friend committed suicide last month.hearing her say “if your not going to do it,don’t bring it up” and “no one asked” on suicide is absolutely disgusting.he tried his hardest for his family but sometimes it doesn’t always work and last long enough. i’m proud pete has kept living with his struggles and NO ONE should have be silenced at all.this bitch is disgusting
kohvoh im so sorry about your best friend, im sure your friends a great person who struggled. i hope u and all loved ones can find peace in this sad time :c
@top text i can't grasp a frame of mind in which that sentence would be an appropriate response to what was said. I'm wondering if there was any thinking involved in it. So if there's was any cognitive function behind writing that, don't bother sharing. I don't wanna reason with disappointment
Sophia Walker “The Truth About Pete Davidson and Ariana Grande: When Guys Play The Victim”. Though I’m not 100% sure if she means that Pete not committing suicide is revenge, when I watched the video she mentions his mother and sister and that if he did commit suicide, that would be revenge against them. At least from what I understand.
Was not expecting to burst out crying during this video. Her just downgrading suicidal ideation and saying there's no reason to bring it up was so upsetting and made me so livid
“If you’re not actually gonna commit suicide, the why bring it up?” When I heard this I literally felt like I got hit by a bus. I’ve felt those feelings so many times, and even though I truly believe I’d never act on it... I think everyone has a right to speak about their internal conflict. If you’re reading this and you’re struggling, please talk to someone you trust. Get help. Therapy is always a really great place to start.
It sounded like she was saying he wasn’t suicidal because he didn’t want to commit suicide, suggesting that someone has to prove that they’re suicidal. Maybe I’m reading too far into it, but after I thought about it, what she said seemed purposefully hurtful.
My own mom pulled the "if you really wanted to commit suicide you would have done it" card on me. And to think she wonders why I never talk to her about this shit anymore.
@@flowerrr_06 That's even an issue in hospitals, at least in my country. There's an ongoing case about a girl with severe mental issues but no hospital believes her and just sends her out of the hospital even though she had tried to commit suicide
or that one partner must "give their partner a baby" or they're an asshole. having a baby is a big fucking deal. if both partners aren't all in on it then they need to come to terms with not getting what they want or find a partner who is on the same page. not some half assed, it's your baby to take care of, leave me out of it honey. if my husband wanted another baby, he'd have to find someone else to make him one because one is all i got in me. these are things You discuss before marriage to make sure you're okay with committing to each other.
Laci Rae exactly! I myself have no interest in having children! I love kids, I’ve raised them since I was a kid because I helped family members with babysitting. I just don’t want children because I KNOW how much work they are! And know how much effort, money and care goes into a child. Not everyone can handle kids. Not everyone SHOULD have kids. Some people can’t handle them/aren’t the type of people that should have them. Why is that so hard for some people??
Terra_the _Nightingale, yeah, they are such a massive life long commitment i cannot fathom how so many take it so lightly. i love & enjoy being around my kid, of course, but it took me until i was 32, & married for 8 years, before i jumped off that cliff. & even then, i thought it would take a while to happen so if it didn't happen on our first try, i prob would have chickened out again for a few more years. the thought of doing what felt like a "once in a lifetime" experience all over again seems like a nightmare to me. the end of living any part of your life for yourself. with one you can still find time, but the more You have, the more you lose in very large proportions. i have friends who have 3 or more & they have all gone insane. their lives look miserable. some people are truly amazing & can pull it off very well somehow tho. i know one lady who has 6 & they are all amazing & she seems very happy. but that is very rare to find, in my experience.
I don't think you need the "kinda" there 😅 Hard to be more misogynistic than believing only babies can make a woman feel fulfilled and that if a woman does not have a child, someone must have kept her from her singular life goal.
Hands down it’s completely misogynistic. I, so far, don’t want to have kids in my life because if the health complications that aren’t taught in school.
Shallon: WhY wOuLd YoU tElL hIm yOu CuT yOuRsElF hE dIdNt aSk Also Shallon: I was a cutter for a while, but I dont talk about it Me: So he's not allowed to talk about unless someone asks but you are??????
i’m glad that i saw this video- i found her within the last week n find her theories about celebs so entertaining n interesting ……. at least now i know she’s all BS
Yeah I was looking for a comment like that. Like you can see how ridiculous that thing (shallon) is just by seeing how even he is affected by it even tho he is normally neutral.
Zoe Joy Black when I first discovered her-I enjoyed her videos. But they more and more made me uncomfortable because she was coming across so mean and the videos no longer had any bit of “use these celebrities and their issues to help your own life” - so I don’t watch anymore.
Teresa McKeown exactly!! some of her advice is actually quite solid but the rest of the videos give me the vibe that she doesnt have a lot of close connections imo
@@teresamckeown5594 I did for a short (binge) bit but then she gave advice how exploiting ppl, especially (~"they're desperate") single mothers, to further your career (in Halloween series she made) made me sick ... and she sells _feminism_ merch 😡🤦🏻
As someone whose had s*icidal thoughts , me saying “I won’t go through with it because of my kids” actually, helps me feel grounded again. Thank you for calling this POS out.
violet and yet after that incident she created another video talking bad about him. I even remember that in one of her older videos she ‘sarcastically’ said that Gigi probably broke up with Zayn cuz she was tired of weighing more than him, when in fact Zayn has an eating disorder. 😒
@@jirai_pup oh yeah...she loves to brag about encounters with 17 year olds. Ready to glare made an great video about it, check it out ua-cam.com/video/-ylUB9EjwAs/v-deo.html
Demi Lovato almost died from an overdose and so many people continue to attack her for something that is not proven she did(the finstagram). Why are we mad here and not have sympathy for Demi.
Yeah I just heard her talk about the fact that he is having suicidal tough but choose to fight and stay alive because he has a sister and a mother scream’s revenge... wtf?
I thought Shallon didn’t understand how relationships work when she called herself a “party lesbian” but she would never be in a relationship with a girl because she couldn’t handle that level of drama two women bring to one relationship and as a bisexual person that makes me very uncomfortable like - what. what does that even mean. do you even hear yourself.
Shoot I remember that one too. I guess cause she worked for Star magazine that's credible info too. Smh, I can't believe I almost believed her. Thankfully I always kept a bit of skepticism when watching her videos.
Exactly, Men have drama as well. Its not the same as women but it can happen. She also talks about drama in her relationships on her channel, and she dates en. Sounds a little hypocritical to me
I'm also bisexual and I wasn't that comfortable with that comment. However, I still choose to watch her videos because I take what I want from them and leave the rest. She does have some good points and I appreciate those
I hope you're doing OK, D'Angelo. I know I'm not the only one who's worried about you, and you don't have to feel expected to come back if you don't want. Just please be OK. You are a beautiful person in an ugly world;
She's also said how Zayn faked his anxiety and how she has anxiety and she does not cancel work things. I am not in any means a mental health expert but I think its basic sense that everyone copes differently. She dismissed other people's struggles because of how she copes with her own.
@@lunarcatalina Yes! she mentioned Z in that video as well. She had a video claiming how he does drugs and does not care for his albums and how he released one. It's not my business if he does drugs but that does not make him a bad person + he has two albums out at that time... sis does not even do basic research.
avanshika bajaj exactly!!! that drove me up the wall. im glad she’s getting called out, and I hate she considers herself a mental health advocate while putting these people down.
She essentially said that cutting is shameful and shouldn’t be talked about. 😳😡 if you are struggling with self harm opening up to people is crucial and can save a life.
Omg when she said Pete Davidson isnt trying to fix his mental illness. Like i have mental health issues, and i did not want to stop cutting, i didnt want to get better, and that took a lot to admit. Not being able to or not wanting to fix a mental health problem is a part of the problem ITS HARD. If i hadnt opened up, who knows where id be.
I self harm but telling others has helped me so much and this woman is just saying your shouldnt talk about it makes me feel sick, like she is an ass and her actions and words are horrible, this whole video just proves how bad of a person she
i am so sorry. i could tell you got emotional when talking ab suicide. thank you for being here. not only d'angelo but everyone reading this. i love you, you are worth it.
i put a clip in the wrong spot 30 minutes in, whoops. longest video i ever made.
i put no ads on this video because i just feel awful about all of this and i think this is beyond money, but i do need people to see this, so feel free to share.
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she looks and sounds like someone who would have bullied me in middle school for being depressed
nope Nope YIKES
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nope Nope she also said she was a weird outcast emo kid
@@parkchimmin7913 this has nothing to do w literally anything but ur icon? good. 11/10. thats all sdfkjsdhfs
@@katybee3891 sounds like a desperate older lady trying to be relatable™ to the kids
"I can't stand Selena Gomez. Why? Not because she has an auto-immune disease.."
Wait, what? "Having an auto-immune disease" is on the list of reasons you could, in theory, hate someone?
It just doesn't make sense... I can't understand how she can be so confident in her hate towards people and put a 'psychology' blanket over it.
Personally my favorite was "continues to drink and do drugs, *probably* " like, ok sweetheart, just be honest about the fact you wanna fuck Justin and thats why you hate this woman
Good news lads, you can now hate me lmao
@@catherinetaylor3494 yeah fuck you mate, complete garbage abuser LMAO
i fucking hate ablebodied people
I'd like to go back to 40 minutes ago, when I didn't know this awful, offensive woman existed.
Same. I had know clue she existed
I second that
.. Me too
I knew her from memeulous
🤣🤣🤣🤣
*Pete Davison talking about self-harm*
Shallon: "nobody asked"
Also Shallon, in a room by herself: "I was a cutter"
She's definitely a self-centered hypocrite. Everyone she hates is evil but she can do no wrong 🙄 she's an awful person
@@sowhatphie I was thinking the same thing. I mean she was pretty much talking shit about Bella Hadid when Bella posted about depression which is something we all need to be sensitive about.
My blood boiled….
i was thinking that too😭😭😭
You would think that that would play into how she approaches other people talking about self-harm...
“you harmed yourself. okay, but who asked?” but then proceeds to tell us that she used to harm herself without being asked...just contradicted herself
I’m so glad you caught that. I was like “bitch who the fuck asked YOU if you’re gonna go there???”
Came here to say this. Such cringe.
Mic drop
Shallow Lester
she reminds me of an ex friend i have. she started raging on twitter because a girl was saying she was 3 weeks clean of s*lf h*rm,, i shit you not my friend replied saying "she's such an attention seeker. i'm 6 months clean but you don't see me talking about it"sksjdjddj i don't talk to her now bc she was so toxic.
Can we cancel her and give this man a hug? He looks like he needs a hug rn, you could hear his voice breaking at one point.
No.
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@Malak Yehia it's a joke thing i carry along with me to use "eye--" instead of "i--" ! a lot of other people use it too, i just inherited the habit accidentally from one of my close online friends.
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Having a baby is a mutual choice. If Ellen doesn’t want kids then her wife has the option to leave or stay. Not wanting children doesn’t make you a terrible person... having children you don’t want just to make someone else happy makes you a terrible person.
this 👏
it's good if people who don't want children don't get them rather than treating them bad or not caring for them at all
Exactly, wanting children is a decision that needs to be made by both parents!
But her wife don't actually want a baby
Do I know You yes we know, but they’re saying that even if she did that wouldn’t make ellen a bad person.
I would rather have a friend talk to me about their depression than a dead friend. It makes me sick.
So true
Same
Because at least you can still try and help them. At least they’re still here at the end of the day.
@@SahloFolina2161
Unfortunately , i didn't save them
@@notwerkinginthishouse8634 I’m so sorry. Don’t blame yourself.
Me: *loves the environment and learning about animals and biology*
Shallon: “basically Hitler”
bahahaha no this comment is just to good
yeah true, it's not the general consensus among mental health/psychiatric professionals that psychopaths have a tendency to be intrigued with animals... oh wait.
@@Teresastace1 I'm confused. What are you trying to say?
@@khatunamezvrishvili6211 they tend to hurt animals
@@khatunamezvrishvili6211 it is the general consensus among mental health/psychiatric professionals that psychopaths have a tendency to be intrigued with animals
her saying that Pete not committing suicide is a revenge tactic is so insensitive. the reason i didn’t kill my self at my worst time 5 years ago was because i knew it would break my family’s hearts. that is not manipulative that is not vengeful, it’s literally a learned tactic in therapy to latch onto those things to keep you alive and safe. it’s a survival tactic for suicidal people. i hate everything she says
Happy you’re here 💕
I almost lost it when she said that, that's just disgusting.
i’ve stayed here for family and my best friends and i’m also in therapy so i agree
i know,, it made me so upset i had to put my phone down for half an hour. i’ve been chronically suicidal for 2 years and literally the only reason i’m alive is because i didn’t want to hurt my family. sometimes it gets to a place where i get upset because i want to do it so bad but i just couldn’t do that to my family. not wanting to hurt the people around you has been the thing keeping so many people alive and to say that talking about it is attention seeking and that he wants to do it for revenge is so so damaging
💕glad you’re here!!💕
Literally the only reason I didn’t kill myself for the past couple years was that my dog wouldn’t understand where I went . And it’s absolutely insane to see her invalidate this type of reason. My old therapist literally said that this is the best way to keep yourself alive, to make reasons, no matter how small, to wake up the next day. On god this is pissing me off so fucking much. I’m not one for violence but chair and make it ELECTRIC
Edit: I never expected this much attention,,but thank you all for the wonderful and kind comments. It means the world to me to know so many kind people care. I truly am doing better and I hope everyone is doing better too. I love you all
thank you for staying with us. keep it up, it's hard but it's worth it.
You are such a gentle soul for thinkin this way even.
You are literally putting your dog's needs above yours.
You donot deserve to die.
We need people like you on earth.
Nobody deserves to go thru this thought process, but you literally do not deserve to experience it.
I dont know what has happened in your life to make you feel this way, but just because its valid, doesn't mean its correct. I wish you a happy long long life filled with bless and love. Someone like you deserve to be loved for your gentle soul alone. Im sure you have alot more good qualities thats are not seen from just a comment. Bless you and your lucky dog.🌻💛
I agree! But thank you for staying. You are here for a reason- even if it isn’t shown yet. You are loved and your emotions are valid. You have every right to feel the way you do about things and react however you want- but please stay alive. People will miss you. Especially your dog :)
Thank you guys all for the kind replies ;-; I’m doing a lot better these days (even got on meds and made it to 18!!) but hearing your kind words really makes me glad I stuck around
It’s exactly the same for me! Big things like being important or special or inherently worth living never made sense to me and I was never able to grasp it, but the one thing I knew was that no one else would take care of my cat or love her or feed her, so I reminded myself of that every single day until I started believing that I really needed to live.
Shallon: I imagine-
Everyone: Yes. Yes you are imagining, please stop.
THIS
LMAO
LMAOOO
Deadass.
Not to mention bipolar drugs aren’t recreational. She’s acting like he’s enjoying a high on those drugs. It’s nothing like that.
I'm bipolar and borderline and watching this video just made me so mad clearly she knows nothing about mental illness at all. You can be medicated for both and like you said they arent fun drugs its things like mood stabilizers and anti psychotics
frankiestar43 I have BPD too and when she said that you can’t be medicated for BPD I instantly knew she was an idiot. There obviously aren’t any drugs that are specifically meant to treat BPD but it is possible to take various psych meds to help. What a moron.
@@azugirl111 same i already knew she didn't know anything about it but she said that and I just sighed and looked over at my 9 pills I take for a good day and was like yeah shes a fuckin lair and just wants to make him look bad. She didn't even watch the video literally just took it all out of context and made pete look bad for no reason it was actually a really good interview if you have time you should watch it i relate alot to him on mental health its helpful to see others with the same issues.
And she acts like you can’t change medication if you have bipolar or borderline or any mental illness for that matter
antidepressants really arent fun lmfao i cant believe she said that
How... How did he managed to stay so calm? He has this inner peace in him. He works through it all in silence. His eyes went so sad and helpless while suicide bit. It's... Awful. She's awful. And doesn't know the weight of her words.
@Cat Princess 101 She's still the same though it only lasted a few days 😕
I think it’s worse. I think she DOES know the weight of her words & chooses to say them anyway. What a dumpster fire.
It looks kind of like she is still making these videos and it honestly makes me mad.
yESSSS if I was him I would have no self control and would be friGGin yelling
he'd be an excellent DBT therapist. he'd be coveted. in the past ~18 yrs I've tried all sorts of therapies till I landed on DBT a decade ago (I still try new things if they augment my DBT practices). I've had 8 therapists. 4 of which are either DBT or CBT certified. his dialectical perception of reality is innate. takes yrs to have such a judgment-free language and criticism of someone w aggressive anti-social behavior. ❤
One Google search would have told her that Pete's father was a firefighter who died in 9/11. Of course he has trauma from that.
my first thought when the clip with the interview came up. he is publicly known for that and made it part of his standup routine.
Came for this comment, so thank you! That interview was great and Pete's struggles were obvious and all too real. [immediately] Shallon: "He doesn't want help" -𝘤𝘶𝘵 𝘵𝘰- "he keeps going back to rehab, getting his doctors to adjust his meds." ᴡHᴀT??
...which is the difference between Shallon and D'Angelo. He does immense research, before he puts a video out. And I wanna say again, she is a "journalist"... not doing any research about her topics? Good luck with job applications...
Why would she google search when she could just make shit up in order to get views?!
@@Tchika oml if this ain’t the literal truth!
As horrible as Shallon Lester is Id like to point out a positive that this video created. I after watching this was finally able to reach out for mental health help simply because of what DeAngelo said about not needing to hit certain criteria to ask for help. I'm now in therapy and have found a very helpful emotional support system. So thank you DeAngelo. Stay hydrated and take care of yourself. :)
Congratulations love! I hope you are doing ok.
I just want to check in and see how you're doing, has everything worked out for you?
I hope you're okay :)
congrats darling
Congratulations!
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Also, Hitler was never actually psychologically evaluated by a psychiatrist and diagnosed with psychopathy. A person does NOT have to be a psychopath to be a horrible human being,
Exactly
As someone who went through a morbid phase of trying to dissect everything hitler did in like, middle school, and has now recently taken a college psychology course, I can tell you that from what I know he was the exact opposite. Yeah he was a horrible, horrible person, but he wasn't psychopathic, he was delisuional. He THOUGHT he was doing the right thing, and dear god No He Wasn't but he wasn't doing it with the knowledge it was wrong. from what I can tell, he didn't know he was wrong, which a psychopath often does. Please feel free to fact check me on everything but:
-A bad person is just a nasty person, they get satisfaction from putting others down and feel better about being in power over people. A bully is a perfect example, an abuser can be the highest end of this; This is "I did X because you did Y"
-A psychopath KNOWS what is wrong, and they don't feel guilt or sadness in response to their actions (In some cases it can turn into pride or joy which is why young serial killers started with animals often). This is "I did X because I don't care that it was wrong/It felt good"
-A deliuded person does horrible things without knowing they are horrible; if they understood why they're wrong, they'd feel TERRIBLE, but the way they are now they don't really have the ability to understand. This is "I did X for the greater good/to help you/because it was the right thing".
also psychopaths are not necessarily mass murderers or bad people
@@kiwibuddy5341 He wasn't delusional, he was just a Nazi. Saying that Nazis are delusional is incredibly dangerous for psychotic people.
Like Nazis aren't delusional, Nazis are dangerous and actively hate people they deem as others to the point where they support genocide to protect the "purity" of their ethnostate. If you're gonna assign them any kind of mental health trait, that's much more narcissistic than delusional, but slapping on arbitrary psychological terms that are constantly changing to very complex sociopolitical issues that have resulted in serious consequences like the deaths of millions of people is highly offensive to both mentally ill people and people who lost their lives at the hands of violent, racist reactionaries. They're very mentally sound and very intentional in what they do.
the fact that she has the word feminist on her shirt while she literally hates women makes me cackle.
Ugh same. Such a shame to the actual movement
this is why people hate feminists. women like this acting like they are feminists destroy the credibility of the true feminists.
Ellen is a nice person 😊
@@luxmin6115 true
@@manojjainism I don't personally think she is, have you done any research on adrenochrome harvesting?
She's trying to stop D'Angelo from talking about whatever he want to, We all know the outcome
she may have blocked him on twitter but she’ll definitely watch the video anyways.
@@jordyn.24 You're right
he cried :((
@@tjfication. I know, It shows that it really means to him
@@jordyn.24 absolutely she will. She will be fuming. Throwing crap around the apartment screaming at herself. I can picture it.
>wears "feminist" hoodie
>calls asian guys "women" and "girly" pejoratively, tries to make random female celebrities look like villains for no reason
racisim and sexism is the furthest thing from feminism
@@kittykittybangbang000being a feminist has nothing to do with sexism?????
That logic makes less than no sense
@@maggierappa417 They didn’t say that
- “I have been having suicidal thoughts”
- “who asked you?”
This girl is unbelievably dangerous. Her content should be kept out of the hands of children. and everyone really....I have a feeling that issue will take care of itself.
Unbelievably dangerous. I’m schizophrenic and I have bad suicidal thoughts and episodes sometimes that if someone was to tell me “if you won’t commit it, why even bring it up” I would commit it. The only reason why I haven’t went through with it yet is bc I have younger siblings that depend on me, but sometimes I feel so isolated and lost that it gets hard.
@@Froppy727 hey, i know that im a literal stranger on the internet but. staying alive can and will bring change for the better. even if Everything can't change, i can vouch that there will be a point where the worst of it is behind you. im deeply sorry that you're going through this. you are in my prayers, i will hope you have a good day every day that i pray.
@@Froppy727 It's important to bring it up even if it's just a fleeting thought, because no one deserves to be tortured with those kinds of thoughts and everyone deserves help, and you can't get help if you don't let anyone know you need it. I hope you are getting help and taking good care. Thinking about my sister was a big help to me when I was struggling with depression and agoraphobia and having thoughts of suicide and self-harm. Holding on to the people you care about is a vitally important and powerful way to get yourself through any mental illness. So keep holding on to your love for your siblings, and recognize that each day you do you are doing a good thing for them and for yourself and be proud of that, because I know it can be hard but it also means you are a caring and considerate and loving person, despite what your thoughts may try to convince you. I hope each day gets easier and brighter for you. Thank you for talking about your experiences. Unlike what this horrible woman says, I think it's so important and it's brave. And it helps people who are going through what you are feel less isolated in their experiences as well.
長浜清子 Thanks for sharing dude, sometimes it helps to talk about it. If you need an outlet, I remember this site called 7cups which is basically an online chat support group? But hey, what got me through was remembering that things are always changing, you can get through this and things will be better, promise. Focus on identifying negative thoughts and trying to replace them with positive ones. One day, you’ll wake up and realize you’ve been feeling better and you didn’t even notice. That’s been my experience, anyways. Much love bro
I wonder if she even goes back and looks at her videos.. because she’s got serious issues. How is this woman relevant... who is watching her crap?
i hate when people talk about mentally ill people like they arent trying hard enough
Yea, the mentally ill that exist people try their hardest, if they didnt they wouldn’t be around. If someone without illness were in their shoes, then maybe they would realize that mentally ill people do try.
@@sexfuk2119 - yep, this. I was signed off work for 6 months this year with severe depression and honestly, it was harder than when I literally almost died of salmonella. Every day is unbearable. Thankfully I’m getting better now, but hearing this woman talk like this about depression and anxiety is just horrible. Like I could cry I’m so angry horrible. Then to say that people with mental health issues shouldn’t date? She should F off and shut up.
As I said here earlier, I might have depression and anxiety but thank goodness I don’t have an ugly soul like she does.
If I were to hear "snap out of it" one more time.......
@@emm8357 im so happy that u got better! good for you :D i myself have been showing symptoms of social anxiety and/or depression for years and im planning on getting a diagnosis&therapy as soon as i get the money and reading on your comment that yeah, it can get better, made me smile,,
ESPECIALLY when they’re doing the absolute most to help themselves.
Yo she actually just said “you harmed yourself? Ok but who asked?” Like Jesus how crazy can you be
Matthew C. Right like holy frick um how bout who asked you? No ones going to you with their life story so get out of here with your trash thoughts.
Matthew C. A 30 apparently lol
Ok but honestly that's what helped pull me out of my first depression state and my cutting, telling my gf and best friend really helped
34 weasels in a trenchcoat totally agree, telling people seems to help so much, and saves so many peoples lives
That's literally how people die. Holy fuck this woman is idiotic.
the part about using suicide as "revenge" really bothered me. One of the only things that pulled me through potential suicide attempts was the thought of how people I was close to, specifically my mom and sister, would react. They kept me alive, and for her to say Pete was using it as "revenge" is flat out disgusting.
thanks for staying strong! 🙏🏾❤️ its hard and i hope ur doing better now :((
@@coolgurl2033 thank u :) i have been doing a little better lately, that means a lot
@@atlastoon27
Im the exact way the thought of how it'd affect my family I wouldn't want to put them through it. I'm glad you're doing better.
I’m still struggling to wrap my head around how she made that connection??
Someone said the women don’t claim her. On behalf of humans, we also don’t claim her.
white women need to apologize for this
evil alien robot every white woman doesn’t have to, just her
On behalf of the objects, we also don’t claim her.
On behalf of the unobservable universe, we don't claim her either✋🏼🙅♀️
On behalf of things made of atoms, we don't claim her
"were gonna talk about our mortal enemy, Selena Gomez"
Honey, she doesn't even know you exist
"Our" as in her and Justin's
gckbowers411 🤢🤢 the fact she thinks she’s on the same level as his wife or similar to his wife is sad
Exactly what I was thinking.
Oof size: *Large*
Or cares
D’angelo is such a sweet and sincere person, so seeing him struggle with shallon saying these cruel things makes me extremely upset for him
I know:(( he looked so sad it broke my heart 🥺
So glad he did the video to make us feel better.
I know right, I’ve struggled with suicidal thoughts too and I hate this girl already.
I know right its so sad :(
ABSOLUTELY! IT TOOK ME A WHILE TO GET THROUGH THIS VIDEO AND I CAN'T BELIEVE SOMEONE COULD DO THIS JUST ON A HUMAN LEVEL...SHE IS DIGUSTING AND I DON'T KNOW HOW OR WHY SHE'S ALLOWED TO SAY 95 PERCENT OF THE SHIT THAT SPUES OUT OF HER MOUTH LIKE VENOM! SHE IS SERIOUSLY DISTURBED!!! D'ANGELO IS SO RIGHT SHE IS SO UGLY HER HEART IS 🖤!
21:14
As a person who struggles with suicidal thoughts and tendencies, this really stuck out to me. The only reason I’m still here is because of my family. There is no revenge. I don’t even understand where she got that from. It’s disgusting, shallow, and hurtful to everyone who hears it. I honestly hope that one day she understands the harmful words and motives she’s put in to countless people.
Hey man I know it's been a year but you're definitely not alone in those feelings. I hope you're doing okay
“She’s got a kind of ugliness that you can’t see” couldn’t of said it better myself.
Jolisa What does race has do with any of this. You are entitled to your OWN opinion but, a person saying that’s another person is an *manipulative* or a *psychopath* with no actual facts does not sit right with me. Of course people are getting extremely offended of what Shannon is saying and it has absolutely nothing to do about ego. I can not believe you actually support and agree with Shannon while she is making lies about mental illnesses. If anything I think *you* are the insane one for still supporting Shannon while she is talking and “joking” about serious topics. She is literally making LIES based of no facts nor evidence. I hope you can open your eyes and see how horrible of person she truly is.
Jolisa no I’m pretty sure you’re insane.
@Jolisa a big LOL hating on every other person out there is a good content
I think she's outright ugly, just got a face that you wanna punch, she reminds me of that type of mum who can't accept their child had done something wrong and blames everyone else
You can tell looking at her eyes you could not trust a word she says
If I had not "brought up" my suicidal thoughts, I would not be alive.
purple explorer you’re a brave soul, and I love you. This pain is only temporary and I hope you have great days very soon
im so glad you did.
hope you're doing ok 💛 you're brave, stay strong
@purple explorer sending lots of love and prayers. Keep on keeping on!
Amen 🙏
She compared Ellen to Hitler
She compared Ellen to Hitler
Oh god
Abby Locklear SHE COMPARED ELLEN TO HITLER!!!!!
Imperial Dovahkiin I- 😳
@ That sounds fanatical. Lol. 😲
@ My dear I don't know what are you sprouting off....Your high and I like it.
Imperial Dovahkiin HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHABFAVFTVWTVSFV I’M DEAD
The white man with anxiety analogy is MIND BLOWING. Like what, she has zero empathy for anyone struggling
I’m a white boy with social anxiety- i literally don’t know how race and skin color has anything to do with mental health.
@@boywithhairlikethis it will differ with country to country, but POC will typically find it harder to get diagnosed/ get treatment with mental health issues. So white people would have an easier journey.
keep in mind I haven’t reached the video where she talks about this so I have no idea what she said i’m just answering what you said
EDIT: I just watched it. She is royally fucked up in the head. White men can experience depression, anxiety etc just as much as any other race. To say that white men should ‘stop dating’ is horrible advice for mental health (unless the issues stem from the abusive/controlling partner)
@@boywithhairlikethisIt can affect one's mental health in that it can change how we interact with the world and how it interacts with us, which affects our mental health
I HATE that she pulls the "straight white male" card as if it will trick people into thinking she's being woke and not just hating on people with mental disorders just...
Ew
Shes the type of person who loves hearing herself talk
Yep! Her ego is unbelievable! It’s like every video she speaks very highly of herself, ‘I wrote a book! I used to work in star magazine 25 years ago!’ It’s painful to watch and very narcissistic and unattractive. Even the most successful people in the world don’t brag about themselves as much as she does. I wouldn’t call her a ‘has been’ she’s a ‘has never been.’ In so many videos she also brags about ‘being great in bed’ Seriously?? If you have to keep saying it you’re insecure about yourself. If you’re good in bed you wouldn’t keep saying it. Lol! It’s so embarrassing. She always mentions having fucked lots of people as if being banged by hundreds or even thousands of men is something to be proud of. Wouldn’t you at least find ONE that wants to stick around if you were ‘great in bed’?? 🤔 Lol!!! She’s just a pump and dump. She’s jealous of famous young women because she never made it, so always brings other women down. She’s old, bitter, used up and has been pumped and dumped so many times she’s gone crazy and letting out her toxicity on everyone else. All her negativity is because of her own inner demons. Insecurities are loud, confidence is silence.
Nicole sis?
I agree ☝🏻
I agree
She literally implied that people don’t deserve love unless they’re mentally healrhy
as if health defines worth or some shit...GOD she sucks
which literally means that most people don't deserve love like most people struggle with mental health at some point
Yeah, like wtaf?! Is it not commonly known that people with mental health problems are usually the ones who need love the most? My god, I hate people like this (I very rarely straight up insult people, but this is one of those times where I can safely say that I do not like this person)
so she admitted that she never deserves love.
*healrhy* but anyway right, in that case she doesn’t rLy deserve love then 😭
Being a psychology student: There sure is nobody who diagnoses with these "levels". Psychopathy is an outdated term, clinically it's called antisocial personality disorder and it's a spectrum. For professionals it's one of the biggest sins to pretend you can diagnose someone without talking to them in person in a proper therapy session.
Edit: Being the current top comment, I'd like to do my part and ask for a skincare routine
@@emmy8961 there are plenty of fake psychology channels that do similar content. Some of their audience absolutely does think of their videos as being factual and accurate. If you just look at a channel like The Rewired Soul, the comments section is usually full of people who are taking it pretty seriously. The audiences for these people are probably mostly children that are still too naive to have a proper think on these matters, but it's still a worrisome trend and very unhealthy.
Emmy agreed
Emmy she’s throwing the word “psychopathy” around, creating a narrative that she is a psychopath around false information to fit her confirmation bias. The comments absolutely show that there are many people who believe this false narrative. Though it doesn’t even matter whether people actually believe it or not, she’s the one who made this video claiming the shit she says is true, made for people to believe her. That’s the issue, not whether people believe it or not.
@T. Dee Why say something like that about someone's career path or study? I'm sure they've thought it through. Were you a psychology student? Instead, why not give helpful advice or your experiences?
Absolutely... I studied psychology on top of a totally irrelevant cell biology and biotech background, and when I switched to this 'soft' science, I had people ask me if I am analysing them or reading their minds... that also pisses me off. TBH, I have never even heard of the list she was using. The standard we were taught to follow was the DSM-IV or V (some people have some issues with the newest since Asperger's no longer has it's own category).. And when she said psychopaths are not the same as sociopaths, I just cringed, since both are layman terms for the same type of people with the same disorder. Just absolute garbage, she needs to stay in her lane.
Shallon Lester: "Pete is a terrible person and I'm glad Ari broke up with him"
Ariana: "🎶And for Pete I'm so thankful🎶"
"he's scamming his doctors out of medicine"
guess my 6-year-old brother with Epilepsia is doing that too.
A disorder where your nerve cells in your brain are disturbed, causing seizures
Trelise' Avery-Moore epilepsia is just epilepsy in spanish :)
Hope he's doing well!
@no, my name is tyler..Not again
In Spanish epilepsie is epilepsia
This guy literally put his mental health aside to share this with the internet because of the importance this topic has. Now that's commitment and dedication.
Thank you for using your platform to draw attention to these issues, now you go take care of yourself dude
yeah i have a crush on him too
@@J33SS he said he had to detach himself from the topic he is talking about in order to be able to talk about it
@@J33SS 22:37
@@J33SS I mean that he says in the video that he tried filming it three times (this one was the third) and every time felt like he put himself in a schreder and then try to put himself back together. And also it is visible how talking about depression and watching this woman hating on depressed people affect s him. And he has put himself through this (and didn't put ads along the video) because he considered that it was something more people should know about bc it's a real issue that isn't being dealt with.
I'm sorry this was such a long response, I hope it was helpful! have a great day!
@@nienie1618 yes, thank you, I hadn't seen this
Have a nice day!
He looked like he was gonna cry talking about suicide. This is a man who has real empathy for others ;-;
i saw that too i felt so bad
ikr I feel like he might have gone thru some stuff :(
Leila he said that he has before 🥺
I know right it's so hard to watch her say those things but then he goes on to try and talk about it but ends up breaking his logical persona and that voice break just absolutely killed me. Makes me hate people like Shallon so much more.
Leila he said in the video like “ as someone who has dealt with it before....”
After watching his most recent update, you can understand that this video was so genuinely hard for him to make. This is already such a difficult topic and having the personal experiences and struggles of this must make it feel so overwhelming to talk about. I have so much respect for you.
"he's not trying to fix his bipolar disorder"
"how dare he get his meds adjusted"
Also the comment on how there’s no magic pill? As in there’s no medication? I’m waiting to get on mood stabilisers for bipolar, what do you mean there’s no medication what
Stefy J she means there is no medication for Borderline
@@IlloyedKater dude that makes even less sense, come on.
@@krrr.4902 There is no medication for Borderline. Borderline is a personality disorder, NOT a mood disorder such as Bipolar. Bipolar can be treated with medication designed to adjust the chemicals in your brain. Personality disorders such as Borderline can only be managed by cognitive behavioral therapy.
@@tyf.5111 yes, we know. It took me a while to remember what's happening...
Lester is berating that man mainly for "lying to score drugs". The person I responded to tried to clarify that what Lester meant was something completely contradictory. I say I doesn't make sense as in lacking a coherent train of thought. Kinda like me at 3 am right now. Lester can't say "he should get treatment" and also "there's no treatment"; that's the flaw I tried to point out. The dude was in fact doing therapy, he was getting treatment so whatever she means is just mindless bitching about a guy she doesn't like.
“Something bad happened in that house”...did she not even bother googling Pete Davidson? His dad was a firefighter who died on 9/11
Exactly. That is the reason he feels like that but she literally doesn’t care to look into their lives🙄
Exactly, She's such an insensitive prick 😒
but then facts would get in the way of her hate
That was so cheap to hear. Not because I'm a fan of Pete Davidson, but also it's very insensitive to say to a young man who lost his dad.
Yeah I know I just wish that some day she is not together internet words videos and I know I don’t make any sense but it’s just like a lot like the way that she is saying that dumb stuff
"He has borderline personality disorder something bad happened in that house!" HIS DAD WAS A FIREFIGHTER WHO DIED IN THE 9/11 ATTACKS. YOU THINK THAT MIGHT BE THE SOURCE OF SOME TRAUMA? HUH?
ikr like woah big shocker a dead dad may cause some issues in life
I mean yeah I fully agree however though losing a loved one during adolescence doesn’t cause borderline personality disorder.
Also bpd stems from narcissistic parenting however just because a child has been emotionally abused at the hands of a narcissistic parent doesn’t necessarily mean the parent is a bad or even abusive person in fact if anything perpetuating that misinformation only causes further guilt and confusion within people suffering from those circumstances who have more than enough for worry about. Not to mention that narcissistic personality disorder is another thing that doesn’t just come up out of thin air and is also the direct result of a traumatic upbringing in it’s own right. Clearly some people fall into multiple different categories in the personality disorder category and thus changing the way they perceive the actions they’ve taken that have directly caused mental harm to a loved one but that doesn’t mean every single person diagnosed with npd is just ruthlessly uncaring humans are so much more complex than that which is exactly what makes bpd so difficult in the first place because you are literally groomed to make excuses for your abuser who may just happen to also be the person in the world who loves you and you love back the very most and that is a deeply counterintuitive struggle to be having inside yourself about possibly the only person in your life you have ever truly been close to or had to depend on. The nuances are essentially endless but the fact that she can make it out to be so black and white despite it nearly being entirely grey is the part that is most deeply concerning to me and hopefully anyone else who has had to struggle with these issues in their lives.
There isn't any one universally accepted and well understood cause for BPD. BPD is basically just your brain developing certain patterns while growing up. A lot of people develop these patterns as a result of abusive childhoods, or a narcissistic parent (not all abusers are narcissists, by the way). But a lot of people develop these patterns for other reasons that are harder or even impossible to trace. Mental health and psychology isn't math, there's no formula, no x+y=z. It's more complicated than that. And part of it is genetics. It's not always caused by abuse. I know multiple people, myself included, whose parents were perfectly fine and normal and not in any way narcissistic. No abuse, no childhood trauma, and yet still we ended up with BPD.
Saying that people can't be BPD unless they were abused makes it harder for BPD people who weren't abused to accept that they have it, which means it's a longer time before they get help. For the longest time I argued I can't have BPD because I wasn't abused, and it took a while and a lot of research before I accepted that "I have BPD" and "my childhood was fine" are not contradicting statements. This misinformation hurts people, and keeps them from getting the help they need.
this woman research skill is terrible i guess.
Suicidal ideation is far more common than you’d think and whatever keeps you from hurting yourself is good. Thanks D’Angelo for your support.
Shallots: “She’s not gonna make it to 27”
Selena: *is 28*
Plot twist: Selena is aging backwards due to her lovecraftian ancestry
@@ShibuNub3305 haha love to see it
Shallots 😂😂🤣🤣🤣 whewwww
*SHALLOTSSSSSSSSSSS* LMAOSJDJSJDKKSI
🤣🤣🤣
Shallon: Selena Gomez wont live until she’s 27 years old!
Selena Gomez: IS 28 years old
Selena?
@@doiknowyou6284 I love your username and pfp-
That’s just prove how she care for the content
She don’t
@*•Neptune• * i don't get it, what was wrong with what frog chair said
*•Neptune• *, I’m sorry, shouldn’t be joking about that stuff
I...I can't get over that she's wearing a "FEMINIST" sweatshirt while slandering fellow females...
yes, and feminists don’t discredit male mental health!!
Well when you think about the fact that she’s a white female it makes sense. While this is of course not true of all white feminists, a lot of them are just wanting equality for themself and not other women. She could also just be trying to jump onto some “trendy” version of feminism.
So does that mean that feminsts can only slander men
(To Golden Arrow) No no no, I think you've misunderstood my comment. I wasn't implying that feminists can only 'do this and that' (at least not intentionally) I was just pointing out that her wearing a "FEMINIST" t-shirt whilst simultaneously slandering females the way she did is ironic: Simply because her shirt says one thing but the words coming out of her mouth says something completely different. This would be the case even if she was only slandering males. The irony happens to be just more obvious and 'cutting' because she's specifically slandering females.
(Edit: edited a horrific amount of grammar mistakes)
she's surely a TERF... or FART for that matter:
Feminism
Appropiating
Racist
Transphobe
The tone of her saying "oh but he's depressed", this sad excuse for a human just gaslighted and mocked the struggles of over 790 million people. What the literal fuck
One of the symptoms of Lupus is slurred speech. So actually a person with Lupus (like Selena Gomez) could appear drunk when they are completely sober. Which a 5 second google search could tell this horrid woman.
she’s making up this whole lie that selena is an addict because of her slurred speech like not only does she have lupus but also people just stutter??? like normal human beings mess up their sentences???
i talk like that every time i am tired, literally how could a human in 21. century with internet act like this??
But that would’ve proved she was wrong and we can’t have that, obviously
I slur my words and have trouble talking just before I get migraine headaches. People have assumed that I'm drunk when that happens, too. A friend of mine sometimes slurs her words when her blood sugar levels drop, she's pre-diabetic.
There are so many reasons why someone might talk a little different and this woman can only come up with "DRUNK!".
She's so hateful.
Totally didn’t know Selena Gomez has lupus. That really sucks
He did a hell of a job keeping his emotions in check. Good on you, young King.
In one part he had tears in his eyes and I closed the video and cried uncontrollably for 5 minutes. I'm weird, even if someone says they have a bad headache my head starts hurting. I was thinking a lot about that part, like A LOT, but oh well
edit: 23:00 he looks like he's gonna cry and that's basically the only reason I didn't finish watching this video
Justine - and that’s on being an empath 🥺
@@karmenmatas7140 i can't decide if it sucks or not :(
and i feel like a hater pointing out the smallest details of his personal life, its not my bussines and I shouldn't be talking about his stuff :'c
@@justine-3432 you are not a hater for that, in fact it's the complete opposite
as for deciding if it sucks or not I'm sure that people will appreciate your genuineness in the long term
don't beat yourself up over it
@@mjolnirsoul9214 I don't deserve you caring for me, I didn't do anything (well, besides commenting here) but thank you :')
Is it too late to change "karens" to "shallons"?
I’ll help spread the word
This woman makes Karens seem like saints
Nop
Or shallows
shallon is in a whole different terrible person league than karens
Fabulous job on this. My kiddo was diagnosed with schizophrenia when she was 8 (13 now) and deals with a lot of this kind of ugliness. People like you are a huge support! Thank you for being you ❤️
she seems similar to onision in the same way a shallot is similar to an onion.
OMG underrated comment 🤣
You, sir, are a genius. I commend you 👌👌👌
Well, her name is one letter away from the word shallot so... can this be a thing? PleAse? Shallot Lester. I’m crying
It took me a minute but holy crap you're right
I mean, they both make people tear up and are terribly stinky.
The suicide bit hurts me. Because, when I made my attempt, my mom almost had a heart attack. To this day, I feel ashamed. I love my mom and I do my best to not fall back again. She is wrong ans her comment is immoral.
Stay strong 💪👊
Dear love, I hope and pray you feel better now. Love from Uganda
lots of love to you, i’ll be praying for you
Hope you’re doing well now! Keep going strong!
Don't be ashamed. You must have been hurting and that's ok. You are human. Forgive yourself, honey. I'm SO glad you are here! And so is your mom 💕
ive never understood trigger warnings until now. hearing her speak so carelessly and shamefully about mental illness makes me sick to my stomach. i actually want to cry right now. when pete said that he has suicidal thoughts but doesnt act on it because of his family, i related to that. for shallon to say that i might as well just do it is gross. i cannot believe one women can have so much ignorance and unawareness.
Same. Her words are just so hurtful.
Its made me so so fucking angry.
I’m so sorry you experienced that. I had a similar feeling of wanting to cry and throw up cuz I just couldn’t understand how someone could say those things in such a... SMUG way.
she’s such an awful person. im so glad you’re still here
John 3:16 KJV 👍💕
As someone who is bipolar and in a stable, healthy relationship, it is absolutely something you can live a normal life with. Yes, I occasionally need more emotional support than a non-bipolar person would, but I'm not out here intentionally hurting or abusing my boyfriend. He knew what he was getting into and we fully support each other in our respective struggles.
“I was a cutter and I don’t bring it up when no one asked” when no one asked. Shallon, come on.
Wait did she just literally go : "I would't talk about being a cutter" Right after she said she was a cutter? Even though "nobody asked"
she often says she is/has whatever she's about to shit on someone else for as a manipulation tactic to be able to say extra offensive bullshit & get away with it unchallenged.
I have no idea why that bit made me the most upset, but it did which might even show why she's worse than Ellen
That, my friend, is called a “hypocrite.”
@@frightfang5235 Yes indeed!
That's what I thought, why did she mention it if she thinks that this is manipulative? Is she this dumb? Yeap
She sounds like a high school mean girl who never learned compassion and never grew up
69 likes, nice
She’s the one Bitch in every homeroom that literally no one tolerates. You know the one.
Honestly she's like the lovechild of a Karen and Regina George 😂
She’s a glorified wine mom (per j aubrey)
this is so spot on
I’m a psychology major and everything this woman is saying is completely untrue and doesn’t have any scientific basis. Absolutely disgusting use of misinformation.
Also, I completely understand how difficult it is to detach yourself from the subject especially if it’s close to home. I often have to speak to other people about subjects that can be very close to home but detaching is a skill I am continuing to learn. I am so proud of you for making these videos and actually helping people who may be in a darker place after watching her videos.
It's really difficult to listen to her regurgitate the same garbage in a perpetual state of juvenile understanding of psychology. She has such a beginner's understanding and sounds like shes constantly in a phase of learning the hard way but never really learning or changing. I think she should move on to something that aligns better with her mentality and by that I mean she should drop psychology and pick up astrology.
Aubrey saying she has a beginner’s understanding is charitable. Just ignorant, hateful, and dangerous garbage.
I’m a psych major as well and I’m only halfway into this video and literally everything this woman has said is seemingly based on really shallow stereotypes of psychology and mental health and not at all rooted in actual psychology- and if she had taken just a single psych class she would know better. This is ridiculous.
i love how she talked about addiction... “her body won’t make it until 27” my dad made from 27 and he suffers from addiction... she needs to sit down
Kind of unrelated but I hope you get your degree
"I used to cut myself and I don't speak about it." That is her talking about it. And people speak about these things to spread awareness. Something she needs more of.
How she equated Pete's suicidal situation as "revenge" is beyond me. How the hell did her mind go there???
i love how she mentioned that she was "a cutter" then says he's saying those things for attention... logic? hello?
edit: i hate these edits but this is worth it...
69 LIKES DUDES YEEEEEEAAH
alana graff exactly?? The “didn’t ask” comment makes no sense after she said she used to self harm, your audience didn’t ask either???
She also wears a necklace that says "revenge" in arabic so...
I like your profile picture
@@nina_aug2909 But shes RACIST too so how she gonna wear Arabic (a very beautiful language of poetry) on her neck? Sad.
As someone who is getting a PhD in psychology, everything she spews out of her mouth is not only untrue, but extremely harmful. This is how misinformation spreads about mental illness and disorders. Nothing she said was even remotely true. I barely made it through half of the video I was so upset. How is she still even allowed on UA-cam?
She shouldn’t be we should all report her. Get this absolute trash off of this site
Yeah, and like I'm pretty sure psychopath isn't a term in DSM.
I just hate the blanket term psychopath for mental illness. The fear and drama around it contributes to the normal fear with anxiety that "I'm going crazy! I might go too far!"
Weasel exactly, and even if it was it’s still impossible to diagnose someone based on their tv/internet presence, even for a professional.
you missed the part where she implied that taking acid gives you anxiety disorders. just the worst person lol
I have conduct disorder/childhood aspd LMAO and she's the type of person to stigmatize Aspd/npd
She was horrible for stereotyping Asians and her racist remarks against BTS were SO offensive. Why is she still getting views?
I guess those views are from like-minded people.
Dai Yea, I just visited her channel and holy crap! People DO believe her. Where do they come from? She is such a horrible human being! I can’t even began to explain oml.
So many people like this get views, it’s sad
I agree this woman is horrible and is racist in every sense of the word but what did she say? I don’t watch her or follow her in any way this is my first exposure so I’d like to know what she said.
what did she say about bts?
"You can't be medicated for BPD" I- what?
"He's constantly changing his medications!" Yes. Yes you need to do that sometimes. I've changed mine many times, for being bipolar, because it's necessary.
This is so infuriating-
I pride myself on being quite eloquent, as conceited as that may sound (it's the personality disorder, I promise/j), but these types of videos just. Makes me so frustrated that I want to cry. If anyone's a psychopath, it's her.
As someone with bipolar disorder, who honestly considers the fact that I decided to change medications as a big reason why I was able to overcome suicidal ideation, I wholeheartedly agree with this. This woman is absolutely the furthest thing from qualified to talk about mental health possible. I am eternally grateful that I found a great psychiatrist who understand mental health and medication, because without her I’d never have known how adhd medications (which I also take due to having adhd) can sometimes make bipolar symptoms worse, I’d never have figured out that the anxiety meds I was taking were making me feel like shit because of how they were affecting my insomnia, and so much more. Changing medications is a normal, and honestly necessary in most cases, part of the mental health journey. All that this woman is doing is hurting others because of her own unresolved issues, and I hope she figures them out, if only so that she stops spreading harm.
Also, I too pride myself on eloquence. It’s fun using big words and sounding fancy :)
@@pan.gremlin two peas in a pod (or something like tgat), I see haha. Bipolar disorder already makes one feel insane, whether you know what it is or not, so having people like this speak out on something she absolutely does not know anything about in such a negative way certainly doesn't make anything better. I feel you on the BP and ADHD combination, they only spur each other on until everything's nothing but a huge chaotic mess. I'm thankful that I live in the place I do where the medical personnel are very skilled at what they're doing, if I hadn't I probably wouldn't be sitting here ranting about a grown ass woman acting like a child.
But hey, I think we're doing great you and I for surviving this, kudos to us 💪
BPD isn't short for bipolar. It's short for borderline personality disorder and no you can't medicate for it 😂 I'm one of the top studied cases in my state 😊
@@kris_jenner_is_a_cryptid_ I'm aware of that now, but since English isn't my first language I had a hard time distinguishing between bp and bpd in the way the word is shortened as it's shortened in a very different way in my own language. But that was something I learned quite recently 🙈
she acts like a 14 year old who believes that Harry styles likes her from the 000.1 seconds of eye contact and thinks that they would get married
vio didn’t she lie and say she kissed him or something?
Shrub Life probably
@@shrublife3160 she did 😭😭😭😭 that video is from a WHOLE new world it SENDS me
She actually did make a video about that. It was the first and last video from her I watched and I guess my initial instincts about her have now been proven right.
@@shrublife3160 yep she said something like they met backstage and they made out while the rest of 1D was trying to get harry to come with them
she learned the words "manipulative" "abuser" and "gaslighting" and, ironically enough, started abusing them to manipulate and gaslight her audience into believing her stupid lies.
couldn't have said it better. everything she says seems to be a reflection of her own insecurities. she's said herself that she has narcissistic disorder, and she's clearly using her channel to fuel that.
Methinks she's projecting hard, because she's guilty of a lot of the stuff she tries to drag celebrities down over.
@@najadamu2724 "Methinks she's projecting hard" is my new catchphrase, thank you very much
It bothers me that she says "right?" after nearly every point she makes as if she's trying to grasp at validity.
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I genuinely started crying while listening to this lady talk about "If you're not actually going to commit suicide, why even bring it up?" because it 's so horrible to hear. I have struggled with suicidal thoughts and depression before, but even if I hadn't, it's still so disgusting and upsetting to know that this is how some people think. I really had no idea that someone could be so hateful.
Oh my gosh I understand you ❤️ and always remember people are here for you
Hey I wanna say it's going to be alright but I would be lying because I don't know what the future is like. All I can say is that if you ever need a shoulder to virtually cry on or talk to dm me @zeeeartistapeasant on instagram. I hope things get better you are not alone and you are a marvellous human.
Don’t stop talking and seeking for support ❤️
Dude, nobody asked you about your mental health. /s. For real though I hope it’s gotten better and continues to get better. You are genuinely meaningful to people around you even if you don’t realize it. Have a good life. Just in case you don’t know “/s” means that what was said before it was sarcastic. I don’t actually mean that no one asked
@@juhbell I asked
him holding back tears while im sobbing on my bed is a mood.
There's a German word, "lästern" (pronounced lestern, literally). It means to talk badly or mean about someone behind their back unprompted and doing it to have fun and feel good and create in-group feelings with people listening to you. Fitting.
Shallon Lestern 🏌🏽♀️
I never realised, that there's no translation for that... it's such a common word in the german language.
@@Viveggi gossiping perhaps? Vielleicht mehr tratschen als lästern aber schon ziemlich nahe dran^^
There's always a german word for exactly the type of thing I can never describe.
I mean, slander kind of comes into mind here
d'angelo get emotional over mental health awareness and acceptance is honestly a STRAIGHT UP KING MOVE and I applaud him for showing vulnerability on the topic
Daisy we stan this king
Hes way too amazing for youtube 😔
Yes
It hurts so much to hear her say that it's "revenge" for Pete Davidson to not want to commit suicide for his mom and sister. That literally is something that hurts me on such a personal level, that's literally the sickest thing I have ever heard in my life. When you're depressive and suicidal sometimes all you need is one thing to keep you alive until you get the help you need. It is so sickening to hear someone denounce that when personally, the thoughts of how my siblings would react to my death would sometimes be the only thing to get me through my depressive moods. I'm so disgusted.
Last ear my dog was the only one to keep be alive... I love my dog so much... I must be a psychopath... so I‘m getting revenge on my dog... wait what?
I knew Pete’s sister, Casey, growing up. Both her and her mom are such sweet people & are nothing but loving to Pete. Hearing Shallon suggest that they must have done something harmful to him for him to end up with BPD made me sick. She’s such a twisted individual.
Edit: typo
I hope you're doing better and you've gotten help. That part was especially disgusting and shocking to hear. Every time my mind tried to convince me that I should leave, thought of my parents stopped me.
exactly. I've struggled with a lot of suicidal thoughts yet I'd never do it purely for my mum and for one of my friends who's also extremely suicidal and has said that me and other friends are the reason they're alive. they are the people keeping me here and if it wasn't for them I wouldn't be here
Yes! When you’re suicidal, attaching yourself to something is literally your lifeline. Shallot has no idea what it feels like to think you’re going crazy, have your mind spiral out of control, and have to literally beg yourself to live.
I like how she feels entitled to "analyse" people while her narcissism (that she admitted to have on a higher scale) is screaming during the entire video. This video rlly made me realize at least 80% of what she says is straight bullshit
i know that this was posted 6 months ago but i just want to quickly say !! people with narcissistic personality disorder are people with a real diagnosable mental illness and it's not correct to say that she is narcissistic when there is nothing pointing towards her having NPD. even if "narcissism" is colloquially used as a synonym for "being vain and cruel" it's not correct to use that term for people without NPD since it contributes to stigma against the disorder. i don't want to be rude i just wanted to point out that it's not the most productive thing to describe her with that term !!
not to say that she isn't vain and cruel at all though, she most definitely is, just that the term "narcissism" itself isn't too accurate
The way she called his suicidal ideation “revenge” and smiled.... was honestly chilling
And she’s trying to find out if Elan is the psychopath? She needa figure herself out
I know I was soooooo upset I was like uhhh ma’am?
RIGHT?! LIKE SHE IS EVIL!
Shallon: Oh you want to survive? ... Good luck with your revenge plots. *creepy smile*
My bad, not trying to be a dick, but it's suicidal ideation. Idealism is a mindset and/or branch of philosophy; ideation means "generation of ideas" so essentially in psychology, thoughts that come to your mind. Again not trying to be an asshole
Honestly this women sounds like me trying to write an argumentative essay at 3 am the day before it’s due. Bullshit points, bullshit opinions, and either no source or a source that isn’t credible whatsoever.
Dang I- Do you want a tutor or something?
I'm pretty sure she wrote it at 3 am in one sitting.
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@@makeshiftdoves thank you I adore you
oh god relatable
lmao about the Ellen and Portia thing- let's say Portia DID want to have a baby and Ellen didn't. Ellen is NOT OBLIGATED to agree to have children that she DOESN'T WANT. She wouldn't be 'being mean' to Portia by not agreeing to have one. Children are a lifelong commitment and it's totally valid for someone to not want to make that commitment. If both parties are not on board with having children, then they SHOULDN'T have children. They should either work it out together and come up with a compromise (working in childcare, taking in a foreign exchange student, etc) or split up to find partners who share their position on having children. Shannon Lester is really out here trying to convince ppl that woman who wanna remain childfree are heartless monsters, huh
lmao i just finished the video (this woman made my blood BOIL so i took several breaks) and god there's just. not a single redeeming factor abt her is there
i'm not fan of Ellen myself, but you're totally right.i'm only 10 min in the vid, see this woman fir the first time, i just can't believe that she is real.wish me luckkk
And it’s really hypocritical for her to say so since she always says she doesn’t want kids.
A couple of years ago, before I came to terms with being bisexual, I had intense suicidal thoughts, to the point that I almost did it a couple of times. The only thing that kept me from going all the way was thinking about what would happen to my family afterwards. Hearing Shallon indirectly tell me that I was “getting revenge” against them absolutely disgusts me. I can’t believe a woman who talks about other people like that has a platform as large as her.
A little addendum: that tweet about her trying to make out with a gay guy who looks like Justin Bieber is not only an admission of pedophilia, it’s also a confession of intention to commit sexual harassment/assault and is also a horrifying thing to admit to.
glad youre still here with us buddy :) stay strong my fellow bisexual
Thank you friend, it’s gotten much better since those days, as I’ve come to terms with myself and been blessed with a very accepting family who respect me for who I’ve always been.
Granted, I still live in Bible-Belt America, so it’s not exactly the most queer-friendly environment, but I’ve had the pleasure of watching that mentality slowly change as my generation grows up and is able to cause greater change here. That’s a consolation, I suppose
So happy that you're still here, keep on going! ❤️
my best friend committed suicide last month.hearing her say “if your not going to do it,don’t bring it up” and “no one asked” on suicide is absolutely disgusting.he tried his hardest for his family but sometimes it doesn’t always work and last long enough. i’m proud pete has kept living with his struggles and NO ONE should have be silenced at all.this bitch is disgusting
kohvoh im so sorry about your best friend, im sure your friends a great person who struggled. i hope u and all loved ones can find peace in this sad time :c
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Who needs pictures? What more proof is there needed? Do you think someone would lie about a friends suicide for attention?
Thank you for sharing your story. I'm sorry, and hope you find peace. Sending love ❤
@top text i can't grasp a frame of mind in which that sentence would be an appropriate response to what was said. I'm wondering if there was any thinking involved in it. So if there's was any cognitive function behind writing that, don't bother sharing. I don't wanna reason with disappointment
As someone who has attempted this twice, I’m so sorry for your bestie and the suffering that they must have experienced. I hope you’re okay.
Oh my god it was him holding back tears that really made me cry out of anger. If you managed to make DANGELO FUCKING WALLACE cry, you’re Satan
Exactly-
I know I saw it an immediately started crying myself.
Wait when in the video did that happen?!
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i can’t believe she said pete not committing suicide was REVENGE i-
I screamed... like what?!
olivia welch do you know what video.
How does that even make sense? I was just staring at the screen like, “I’m sorry, what...?”
Sophia Walker “The Truth About Pete Davidson and Ariana Grande: When Guys Play The Victim”. Though I’m not 100% sure if she means that Pete not committing suicide is revenge, when I watched the video she mentions his mother and sister and that if he did commit suicide, that would be revenge against them. At least from what I understand.
I physically shivered at that...
Was not expecting to burst out crying during this video. Her just downgrading suicidal ideation and saying there's no reason to bring it up was so upsetting and made me so livid
“If you’re not actually gonna commit suicide, the why bring it up?” When I heard this I literally felt like I got hit by a bus. I’ve felt those feelings so many times, and even though I truly believe I’d never act on it... I think everyone has a right to speak about their internal conflict. If you’re reading this and you’re struggling, please talk to someone you trust. Get help. Therapy is always a really great place to start.
It sounded like she was saying he wasn’t suicidal because he didn’t want to commit suicide, suggesting that someone has to prove that they’re suicidal. Maybe I’m reading too far into it, but after I thought about it, what she said seemed purposefully hurtful.
@@flowerrr_06 no that's absolutely what it sounded like. "Prove to me you're suicidal by committing suicide"
My own mom pulled the "if you really wanted to commit suicide you would have done it" card on me. And to think she wonders why I never talk to her about this shit anymore.
@@flowerrr_06 That's even an issue in hospitals, at least in my country. There's an ongoing case about a girl with severe mental issues but no hospital believes her and just sends her out of the hospital even though she had tried to commit suicide
Can we do something to stop her? like all reporting her..? we have to do something, she has to stop
I feel like it’s kinda misogynistic to assume all women would want a baby and the only reason they wouldn’t is because they are being forced to
or that one partner must "give their partner a baby" or they're an asshole. having a baby is a big fucking deal. if both partners aren't all in on it then they need to come to terms with not getting what they want or find a partner who is on the same page. not some half assed, it's your baby to take care of, leave me out of it honey. if my husband wanted another baby, he'd have to find someone else to make him one because one is all i got in me. these are things You discuss before marriage to make sure you're okay with committing to each other.
Laci Rae exactly! I myself have no interest in having children! I love kids, I’ve raised them since I was a kid because I helped family members with babysitting. I just don’t want children because I KNOW how much work they are! And know how much effort, money and care goes into a child. Not everyone can handle kids. Not everyone SHOULD have kids. Some people can’t handle them/aren’t the type of people that should have them. Why is that so hard for some people??
Terra_the _Nightingale, yeah, they are such a massive life long commitment i cannot fathom how so many take it so lightly. i love & enjoy being around my kid, of course, but it took me until i was 32, & married for 8 years, before i jumped off that cliff. & even then, i thought it would take a while to happen so if it didn't happen on our first try, i prob would have chickened out again for a few more years. the thought of doing what felt like a "once in a lifetime" experience all over again seems like a nightmare to me. the end of living any part of your life for yourself. with one you can still find time, but the more You have, the more you lose in very large proportions. i have friends who have 3 or more & they have all gone insane. their lives look miserable. some people are truly amazing & can pull it off very well somehow tho. i know one lady who has 6 & they are all amazing & she seems very happy. but that is very rare to find, in my experience.
I don't think you need the "kinda" there 😅 Hard to be more misogynistic than believing only babies can make a woman feel fulfilled and that if a woman does not have a child, someone must have kept her from her singular life goal.
Hands down it’s completely misogynistic. I, so far, don’t want to have kids in my life because if the health complications that aren’t taught in school.
Shallon: WhY wOuLd YoU tElL hIm yOu CuT yOuRsElF hE dIdNt aSk
Also Shallon: I was a cutter for a while, but I dont talk about it
Me: So he's not allowed to talk about unless someone asks but you are??????
Not to mention that he literally asked
Good point !’n
The fact that she has a fanbase, baffles my mind!!
Especially her videos getting more likes than dislikes. Man so many people are blind instead of doing their research
@@littlesparrow303 Exactly!
i’m glad that i saw this video- i found her within the last week n find her theories about celebs so entertaining n interesting ……. at least now i know she’s all BS
@@8thhouseintuitive274 Glad you did
A bunch of lonely women who have no mind of their own
“But Pete has borderline personality disorder, so something happened in that house.” Uh yeah. His dad died in 9/11.
Tbh Pete Davidson is a piece of shat whom deserves to rot but RIH to his dad ❤️ my heart breaks for all those lives lost
@@maddyl5649 what did he do??
Maddy L what did he do do
@@maddyl5649 Don't be shy prove your claim
Maddy L don’t be shy, prove your claim
“Because I have struggled with some of it” sounded really broken and like it was from a really deep place in your heart and I felt so bad
This person fucking phased Danglo,
The broke Danglo... the guy who’s know for always being chill and mellow.
This person... just... no
When he opened up about it I started tearing up bcz I’ve also struggled with it.
For real. This woman is just vile.
Yeah I was looking for a comment like that. Like you can see how ridiculous that thing (shallon) is just by seeing how even he is affected by it even tho he is normally neutral.
IKR!!! he had tears in his eyes and almost started crying too😭😭
The entire commentary community is coming for this woman. I think you've broken the internet. Thank you for spreading light.
She is messing with so many fandom. From Beyonce to Bts
Zoe Joy Black when I first discovered her-I enjoyed her videos. But they more and more made me uncomfortable because she was coming across so mean and the videos no longer had any bit of “use these celebrities and their issues to help your own life” - so I don’t watch anymore.
Teresa McKeown exactly!! some of her advice is actually quite solid but the rest of the videos give me the vibe that she doesnt have a lot of close connections imo
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I did for a short (binge) bit
but then she gave advice how exploiting ppl, especially (~"they're desperate") single mothers, to further your career
(in Halloween series she made)
made me sick
... and she sells _feminism_ merch
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As someone whose had s*icidal thoughts , me saying “I won’t go through with it because of my kids” actually, helps me feel grounded again. Thank you for calling this POS out.
Thank you for sticking around!!!!
Her insecurities are jumping out ALL. Over the place , surprised she hasn’t been sued for defamation
Actually, Zayn Malik's lawyer sent her a legal notice for trash talking about him.
Divya Ramanimahesh as he should
I was thinking that. She should be drowning in legal action...
violet and yet after that incident she created another video talking bad about him. I even remember that in one of her older videos she ‘sarcastically’ said that Gigi probably broke up with Zayn cuz she was tired of weighing more than him, when in fact Zayn has an eating disorder. 😒
Divya Ramanimahesh she needs to be shut down and taken off every platform
she honestly needs to pick a struggle... homophobic, racist and ableist? like honey....
Also sexist. This woman is hectic.
But then if you don't agree with her, she'll just call you a woman hater and calmly rinse the bullshit off her narcissistic hands
And she is obsessed with hooking up with teenagers...she is something else 🤢🤢
@@lauriechan1426 she's what-
@@jirai_pup oh yeah...she loves to brag about encounters with 17 year olds. Ready to glare made an great video about it, check it out ua-cam.com/video/-ylUB9EjwAs/v-deo.html
It’s funny how she says “nobody asked” yet here she is on UA-cam, making up stories nobody asked for. Seems pretty hypocritical if you ask me.
'But nobody asked' you!' Would be her response to this 😂
She even mentions her obsession with teenage boys in her book, I believe. I watched Rachel Oates video reviewing her book. It's crazy.
Shallon is a predator, full stop. She is my age, sleeping with 17 year olds? (By her own admission) Disgusting. She should be in jail.
female predators don’t get called out enough
When D’Angelo spoke about suicidal thoughts and looked like he was about to cry, my heart broke. We love you, D’Angelo, and we care about you.
I started tearing up damn I came for the tea but I got feels🥺💖
I had to keep going back because i couldnt watch it
Just Peach E. SAME THING FOR ME I WAS ABOUT TO CRY TOO TF
This is the first video I’ve ever seen with him and that part really shook me. It was like I could feel the pain by seeing into his eyes
Demi Lovato almost died from an overdose and so many people continue to attack her for something that is not proven she did(the finstagram). Why are we mad here and not have sympathy for Demi.
great video D'angelo, the content she makes is so harmful and slanderous
Talk about this too pls we need more awareness on these issues!
I love your chanel 😊
Keep up the great work 😎😎
talk about this!
Love your videos luke
Yeah I just heard her talk about the fact that he is having suicidal tough but choose to fight and stay alive because he has a sister and a mother scream’s revenge... wtf?
I thought Shallon didn’t understand how relationships work when she called herself a “party lesbian” but she would never be in a relationship with a girl because she couldn’t handle that level of drama two women bring to one relationship and as a bisexual person that makes me very uncomfortable like - what. what does that even mean. do you even hear yourself.
Shoot I remember that one too.
I guess cause she worked for Star magazine that's credible info too. Smh, I can't believe I almost believed her. Thankfully I always kept a bit of skepticism when watching her videos.
I think she just puts people into certain boxes and narratives instead of realizing people are complex beings
Exactly, Men have drama as well. Its not the same as women but it can happen. She also talks about drama in her relationships on her channel, and she dates en. Sounds a little hypocritical to me
I'm also bisexual and I wasn't that comfortable with that comment. However, I still choose to watch her videos because I take what I want from them and leave the rest. She does have some good points and I appreciate those
I invite you to watch her video about her opinion on why we don’t need to celebrate PRIDE anymore or something like that....
I hope you're doing OK, D'Angelo. I know I'm not the only one who's worried about you, and you don't have to feel expected to come back if you don't want. Just please be OK. You are a beautiful person in an ugly world;
She's also said how Zayn faked his anxiety and how she has anxiety and she does not cancel work things. I am not in any means a mental health expert but I think its basic sense that everyone copes differently. She dismissed other people's struggles because of how she copes with her own.
avanshika bajaj she did that too rihanna too!
@@lunarcatalina Yes! she mentioned Z in that video as well. She had a video claiming how he does drugs and does not care for his albums and how he released one. It's not my business if he does drugs but that does not make him a bad person + he has two albums out at that time... sis does not even do basic research.
avanshika bajaj exactly!!! that drove me up the wall. im glad she’s getting called out, and I hate she considers herself a mental health advocate while putting these people down.
Catalina Diaz i used to watch her but her videos got hella weird. I’m glad shes getting called out too!
fishtank pianos EXACTLY.
She essentially said that cutting is shameful and shouldn’t be talked about. 😳😡 if you are struggling with self harm opening up to people is crucial and can save a life.
Omg when she said Pete Davidson isnt trying to fix his mental illness. Like i have mental health issues, and i did not want to stop cutting, i didnt want to get better, and that took a lot to admit. Not being able to or not wanting to fix a mental health problem is a part of the problem ITS HARD. If i hadnt opened up, who knows where id be.
I self harm but telling others has helped me so much and this woman is just saying your shouldnt talk about it makes me feel sick, like she is an ass and her actions and words are horrible, this whole video just proves how bad of a person she
She said that woman who have infertility issues should get over themselves and chill. That's when I stopped watching. She's a fuking bully.
Yes!!!!
@@Lulu-ze3hq it was the same for me 💖 Stay strong!
i am so sorry. i could tell you got emotional when talking ab suicide. thank you for being here. not only d'angelo but everyone reading this. i love you, you are worth it.
someone had to say it, I'm so glad he made this video
I love you too, please stay safe and healthy.
This made me tear up a lil bit, this was so well said 💕
I love you too, thank you d’angelo and thank you for commenting something so sweet
This is old, and silly to respond to this, but your comment brought tears to my eyes. Iunno, sometimes I don't feel worth it.