10 Positive Ways To Say NO to Your Child | Dad University
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- Опубліковано 28 чер 2024
- 👋 Welcome to our channel! Today, we're diving into an essential topic for parents: How to say 'no' to your child while fostering a positive environment. At DadUniversity.com, we're all about nurturing healthy relationships through effective parenting strategies. It's crucial to establish boundaries and guide your child in a constructive way, which is why we've put together this insightful video.
🛑 Constantly using the word 'no' can be tough on both you and your child. But fear not! We've got you covered with 10 incredible techniques to say 'no' without the negativity. Let's jump in:
1. Offer Options: Discover how to empower your child by offering alternatives that still give them a sense of control. Cereal or oatmeal, anyone?
2. Use Distractions: Redirect their attention with a positive focus-watch how a playful pup can change the mood!
3. Positive Directives: Instead of 'don't,' guide them towards a positive alternative. Walking on the sidewalk, not running.
4. Collaborative Solutions: Encourage teamwork by involving your child in finding solutions. Turn TV time into quality game time!
5. Be Playful: Transform 'no' moments with humor-staircase race, anyone?
6. The Power of Delay: Sometimes, waiting is key. Explore why a delay can lead to better decisions.
7. Get Them Involved: Make them feel valued by getting them in on the action. Fetching water, anyone?
8. Plan Together: Transform a 'no' into a future adventure. Park time? This weekend!
9. Firm but Gentle: Discover the art of setting limits with kindness. Bedtime, anyone?
10. Provide Reasons: Share your perspective and show empathy-it's all about understanding.
Remember, it's about fostering growth, not just saying 'no.' Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below. We'd love to hear from you!
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I like how the dad appears out of thin air when the kid talks.
this is possible when you hit jedi level parenting :) hahaha
Hi dad university this is so helpful for me. I fell so guilty every time i said no to my 4 years old daughter
This is great thanks! We have been working on quite a few of these with our nearly 2yo. Amazing how empathetic reasoning can sometimes be the thing that's required. Definitely part of a toolkit.
All great in theory. Of course, when your child doesn't just accept these responses in the examples and continues to press and attempt to negotiate or start to throw a tantrum, "No" becomes quite necessary. Not one of my 6 children would have ever accepted one of those responses initially. They were all wayyyyy too stubborn for that (and, a couple of them with ADHD, FAS and RA).
Just saying...
Thanks for the vid!
I hear you. I definitely don't say parenting is easy! :) The hundreds of other videos try to help in other situations, like avoiding tantrums. It's all part of our toolkit. We do the best we can and our "spirited" children try to test us!
I think I should start a channel focused on children with Autism other developmental delays. This doesn't apply to those children
Unfortunately I do not have experience in that area. That would be awesome for you to start a channel More resources are needed for many different situations.
@@DadUniversity I want to but I'm a single dad with a 3 year old autistic son.
I wish I had the resources to do that. I would have loved to have them myself through my journey.
I started with my phone late at night. It's definitely not easy. Just documenting your situation and how you solve problems could be really valuable for others.
Your videos have been really helpful. When I see the thumbnails, I actually get kind of nostalgic thinking about before my child was born.
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Thank you Jason... Can you do a video about timeouts?
Not a fan of timeouts. Taking a break to calm down is fine but punishing a child with putting them alone or in the corner just isn't in line with what I teach.
@@DadUniversity can you explain more of it on a video?
ua-cam.com/video/5P5nXHEeby0/v-deo.html about 5:20 into the video
Thanks for this,very useful for us,but one suggestion,could you give tips about how overcome the afraid to become parent?
I have a few. Here is one: ua-cam.com/video/DpaMnYGK9GI/v-deo.html
Distraction almost always helps me 😂
Yes distractions can be great...at least when they are young :)
i have a question.. if you can help me please.. my 3.5 years old.. who can talk properly and she is so smart to learn everything quickly.. but from few months back im facing a problem.. so turned herself into a baby.. like she started crawling and talking with hands like babies.. first i took it as a game.. but now im worried because whenever i said to her.. you are not a baby talk properly.. she cried so badly.. a lot bad tantrum.. im thinking to go to doctor but my husband says.. its nothing serious she will be fine by the time.. but this thing really bothers me when she acts like a baby.. can you give me any advice?? it will be very helpful for me, thank you.
I don't have a video on that subject (but good idea). Here is a good article that explain it pretty well: www.babycenter.com/child/3-years-old/your-3-1-4-year-old-why-regression-happens_10329572
@@DadUniversity omg thank you so much for the help.. this article made me cry.. this is so right, I forced her to clean up her mess, although I'm doing it in a very polite and loving way (cz I want her to be organized) but still, yes I'm forcing it.. thank you so much sir, definitely ill work on Myself. May God bless you with good health and happiness.