It's simple, men are tired of being labeled as "creepy" and "weird" for approaching in good faith. Men are also tired of being traditional for non-traditional women.
This woman just wants to have the power to reject men in a humiliating manner with her friends. Women reject men at their most cruelest when they're with friends. Men know the game now.
Quick story one day I walked in the store and had my hoodie over my head and this girl was with her friend and she kept trying to look at my face with my hoodie over it and her friend grabbed her and said stop looking at him
Had a chick at work complain that one guy kept talking to her and she felt uncomfortable. Flash forward a few months and she complained that none of the dudes would talk to her now. No one was rude but they'd just stop talking and leave when she'd go in the break room. No point. Just thought it was funny and you reminded me.
I don't blame those men! Ain't nobody trying to lose their jobs trying to be cordial to women. Jobs are not social clubs or dating venues. Do your job and go home.
It's sickening...To this day.....TO THIS DAY....I can say 'Good morning' or 'Hello' to a sister & they look me up & down like they're ready to fight. Just my experience. I still love my black women, though. Something needs to change.
Same bro. And it's only from sistas. You don't get this treatment from any other women initially. They'll even speak to you and approach you. But sistas won't even say "Hello" and expect to be approached
The real reason they're upset is because we took their power of rejection away. Because if that's the case, why wouldn't women just go talk to a guy they liked? Simple solution
Because like u said power, and also control. See, if they approach us that means we have the power to correct them; hold them accountable and be the head. They feel like when we chase them they can be in control. So that means they feel like we can’t tell them nothing or say no because of that. That’s why it’s best to get with a woman that wants u, because it eliminates a lot of problems. A woman that wants/lust u r the best relationships, and it’s a lot of men that never experienced that.
MeToo got so bad in the corporate offices that I even got sent to HR over a complaint by a female co-worker for NOT talking with her or engaging with her. My short excuse was I am minding my own business. She's not a family member or even a former friend. Heck, she's not in my group much less in the same department as I. Long story short. I still am employed at the same venue while my accuser didn't pass her probationary period and/or survive from the later budget cuts.
Back then social media didn't exist so if he got rejected, it was rather private. Nowadays he's video recorded, laughed at and ridiculed over social media.
Wasn't private if she was with her girlfriends. That still haven't changed. I've seen plenty of guys back in the day get humiliated trying to approach a woman with her friends. I even seen a dude pulled up on the corner to holla at his homeboy an this woman who was right there yelled at him don't talk me I'm not interested you bum. Dude told her b**** ain't nobody trying to talk to your stalking a** get f*** out of here. She definitely deserved that mind her own business thinking everyone trying to holla at her.
I’m tired of sistas asking why. Because when men and even women with sense tell them why, they still never change. What’s the point? Men, leave, goto the real women who will respect men LIKE MEN!!!
I don’t have to ask because I’m aware all that crap is coming back full circle to them I wish there was a dating app or something for traditional men and women
Times have changed. Those days of calling men thirsty have comeback to haunt women. Zoom meetings became a must. There are no false allegations because the meeting is recorded.
What she's really asking is "why don't the men that I find attractive approach me?" I dont like being the guy to answer a question with a question but why should they? The men she wants probably already have better options. She also wont tell you about the guys that did approach her & she turned them down. She says, "hell will have to freeze over" then she better be ready to keep that coat & hat on for awhile. Turn down the entitlement, ma'am.
I was thinking along similar lines. As we age the options get smaller for most women. When women are young they have the most options in dating, but that quickly dips off once they are over 26 and becomes difficult once over 30. Men on the other hand gain in options as they age until probably about age 35-40. But after 40 men become more desirable compared to women of the same age.
@@majorlazor5058 That’s how the SMP (sexual market place) works Imagine a woman complaining about not being approached while at the same time demonstrating why she’s not approached.
I would argue that this applies to both genders tho. Men don't wanna date women they don't find attractive and women as well don't want to date men they find unattractive. There is nothing wrong with that. What I do see a problem, is the idea that the people the SHE FINDS ATTRACTIVE, should approach her, by virtue of her being a woman and her finding them attractive (there's the entitlement, because if a man says the same thing, they would be emasculated or laughed at). For all we know, the men she find attractive aren't in their mind, so the idea of someone that's minding their business SHOULD stop to recognize a woman's beauty and approach, is somewhat of a fairytale (cause in reality , people should find what they consider attractive and approach.).
If I make eye contact with a sister, she will make a disgusted face, roll her eyes, etc. So I ignore them. Meanwhile Becky, Leticia, and Ling-Ling will approach me at the gym and try to spark a conversation. I'm a rather good looking guy and haven't had a problem with talking to women in general, but black women are so freaking hostile, they get pissed off because you're breathing the same air as them.
Because they know how to handle their slaves so it's easy for them to deal with ya because they know how destroyed we are as a people that we seek acceptance from the other nations so I wouldn't gloat about that dude you sound like Stephen
Same here bro. Crazy part is, I've actually caught quite a few of bw looking. Back in the day, that was a clear choosing signal, these days, it's simply a set up for an ego boost. Meanwhile Ling and Becky will actually start a conversation with me.
@@ShayWilliam341 Don’t understand what it is with some of you and this incest talk. You have to be a single mother. It was my mom and dad that told me to avoid single mothers in high school. Great advice. Heck my dad passed away at 86 and mom is 101 doing fine.
@@blackworldtraveler3711 btw, she was trying to say your mother is the one that has all those qualities. She was throwing shade because she felt attacked.
They told us black men that we were guilty of street harassment and they wanted it to stop. So we stopped and just ordered them on our computers and dating apps like a pizza.
Not just black men. White women started the "street harassment" trend by discouraging white men from approaching them, and black women aka "wannabe white women" followed suit.
I preach this all the time. The fellas should have their own gyms, bars and etc. So fellas ain't gotta deal with crap from women and have a piece of mind.
Dude, you're not lying. I literally had a woman toot her butt up infront of my coworker and i as we gym while him and i were at the tire flip machine. And i do mean she was very close and there was plenty of room in that area to work out else where to do her.... whatever the hell she was doing lol.
You know, I said this not too long ago about the brick lady when she said, a man approached her for her number and I’m like we don’t approach them anymore
She going to be single to hell freeze over. Brother's got so many options ,Latinos, Asian ,snow buddies, India, Philippines beauty's, sexy D.R. trust me if she waiting on Brother's to approach her with that masculine energy, and that nasty attitude she going to be waiting till he'll freezes 🥶 over.but them Latinos and beggy ain't waiting on these brothers to approach nothing they see wah they like they go get him. They snatching them young Brother's up period!!!!! Yea keep standing 🧍♀️ in that corner waiting on someone to approach you . that 🧱 wall is your next approach..
It's not a modern thing. Things have always been this way. There's just more focus and exposure today. Even in extremely isolated places, these behaviors are prevalent in women.
Because a lot of them have a bad attitude, playing games to the point we don't want to deal with that mess. I personally don't waste my time with women I stay focused on what I'm doing and working on I don't approach them at all and I'm fine with that. If they show interest in me I'll let them come to me. I'm not going to be chasing them
And another thing I had a problem with what she said that a man would approach a woman while she is with 20 of her homegirls and ask her for her phone number. To me that's bullshit. Not to many men are going to approach a woman and ask her for her phone number if her homegirls are around especially if it's up to 20 of them with her. She must be thinking about a rapper or celebrity or something. A man will approach a woman when she is by herself often times as opposed to her being with her homegirls. There is a difference between reality and fantasy.
Thats the shaming gaslighting. If she was so amazing, she would be off the market. She is still in the streets talking about real men this, real men that. They dont understand shaming doesnt work like in the 90s.
How old are you? Kindly. Because I’m 30 (haven’t dated strangers in 10 years) but I totally remember being 17 (legal adult in MO) at the club and having guys walk up to chat and get numbers. It wasn’t fantasy or celebrity driven. Guys used to walk up to the group with blinding confidence and start showing out. He’d pick the girl before he walked up and he’d make her laugh a bit. They’d dance and chat the whole evening. If y’all are older than me you must remember and if your younger well gosh dang, now I feel old.
@@seadragon1456 I'm in my Forties and most dudes are not going to go up to a woman with her homegirls and start talking to her and trying to get her phone number. And like I said especially if she is surrounded by 20 of them. And man in most cases are going to act like how Ice Cube acted in Friday part one when he was trying to get with Nia Long. Now that's reality! What you and that woman in that video is talking about rarely if ever happens. A man is going to try to talk to you when you are by yourself. He gone try to get the digits then. Now prove me wrong or be quiet.
These women are not approachable, I had an instance where I was in the grocery store line, and a sista was in front of me and she was attractive, she kept looking back (note: no smile, no hi etc. Just with a serious demeanor) so when she did it again I nodded my head to her and she quickly turned around, I got to the checkout and the cashier a guy, recognized it he says "She wanted to holla at you" i expressed to him, well the signals she gave were very weak, not considered choosing signals, and for all I know she could of been looking at me due to I looked like someone she knew etc...he thought and agreed...smh..
@@reggieh1455 How strong does the reception have to be? She have a signal you could've responded. I'm not suggesting to chase these women and I acknowledge women's social and courtship skills have deteriorated but when you see a woman make an effort you should reciprocate.
Another reason many men don’t like to approach is we “assume”that women automatically feel a level of fear for their safety and we don’t want to cause that feeling for anyone. so unless there’s clear evidence that approach is open then we stay away. The juice ain’t worth the squeeze
@@Covingtonao Then the hair that grows out of YOUR head is also a lost cause. This explains why so many men are having weave put in at various barber shops across America.
the girl said "HELL will Freeze over BEFORE she ever approaches a man" she takes no accountability for her love life, she will never want to subject herself to what men must go through in order to find love, multiple REJECTION! but still they're judgemental arrogant behaviour will never dissipate!
I love it! Men are carrying on, indifferent to the women around them, not allowing themselves to fall victim to the power play of a false allegation. Wealthy men are on alert, as today any woman from their past can drum up false accusations and receive cash & prizes for the mere accusation.
Because of many reasons 1) already tried to holla a female but was given a ick look 2) bad experiences 3) think that a lot of women are unapproachable 4) not confident
They should be happy becasue one minute they cry that men don't approach them ,then they turn around and mad they got approached by some non tall man, he not hood enough, he don't have multiple baby mommas
Unpopular Opinion: 1. Men approaching women never was a necessity. 2. Men approaching women gives them the powers to choose. 3. Women approaching men makes more sense, considering they already know how to play the game, despite, saying, they didn't. Women are literal masters of psychology. Let them work they're magic on you.
It did not get lost men are considerating other options. Men do not cold approach and you try your hardest to humiliate them if they are not 6'6 and a millionaire
It is what it is. I have no vested interest either way. Just my thoughts based on experience and what I see in society in today's generation. The generation both men and women care more about material and riches than people, and healthy relationships, strong families, and tight-knit communities. It's only a small few who are on the opposite side
@@uzamakionzie86 Maybe you should get you a passport and go to one those 3 world countries that so many BMs are flocking to. A ten dollar bill is very impressive with those women. Unlike women in America they will never want much because they have never had much.
Why do some people waste time on trolls - she’s clearly attempting to go viral because she clearly understands why most men don’t approach these females these days - please stop pandering to these females looking for clout - Your smarter than that Phil |B1|⭐
Men do not approach ladies anymore. Perfect example my coworker asked me to go to the store with him. He said he gonna ask the lady for her number and out that day. We all knew of her she was very attractive. So he gets to register and shoots his shot. Instead of politely saying no. She got on the intercom. And yelled No Sergeant Brooks I will not give you my number. He was so embarrassed he ran out and forgot to pay. I paid for the items. When I got back to the office you could see he was visibly still shaken
The worst is when you approach a cute girl and her overweight friend jumps in to tell you "SHE'S NOT INTERESTED"..it's always the fridge protecting the snacks
One thing that women aren't telling you about these Dating apps is for women they get a free account, while Men have to get a basic account or have to pay for better features. Personally I'm tired of being called thirsty, creepy or pervy.
I find that older women are so much more approachable. Sure I may not be approaching older women with romantic intent or attraction but overall it's easier talking to most older women in comparison to most younger women.
@@MsLotusBlooms I'm definitely attracted to some but not more attracted. Like if the older woman is out of shape I just can't do it, even if they're coming on to me very strong.
the toxic feminism atmosphere has taken over, now men have been frightened out of approaching women, it's only right women start approaching men. but like this black girl said, hell will freeze over before y'all ever subject yourself to anything resembling the male experience of being rejected over and over and over again before being accepted. FEMALE privilege will soon become a hindrance
That lady that just spoke I can hear the energy of her having an attitude it's just in a matter of time before she let loose. These women don't want a man to talk to them let them tell it they're fine just the way they are. But they'll ask for help from a man when needed.
Your right about the face. My cousin always told me "I never approached a women unless she gave me the Look." I know he is right because he was never turned down. A lot of women feel empowered when they get attention from a lot of men. So its better safe than sorry, and men should not approach a woman or speak to her unless she has shown some sign of interest. Especially if it means we can no longer be used as tools to boost the self esteem of women who did not want us to begin with.
If you noticed, she never said she wants a man. Her only concern is why men aren't approaching. She even told the story of being approached in a group of girls, and a guy would come straight to her. She just wants attention
I remember the shift and I was on Twitter at the time. This started taking place in the early-mid to late-mid 2010s. There was a lot of “Men ain’t sh*t”, “Ew, leave me alone, stop approaching me”, and men were getting canceled very heavily around that time. So we listened and now they act like they don’t know what’s going on.
On the job especially I my line of work which is the petrochemical industry I do NOT I repeat I do NOT bother talk to say anything to these females. Not gonna through me under the bus and get me banned for harassment.
Gents. Stop explaining this to Women.... You don't owe them an explanation. They have had this explained to them countless times and refuse to acknowledge it. It's not Men's job, it does no good to waste your breath and you're talking to a brick wall.
Thanks for sharing, I listen to your podcast the most of many podcasts. I am a Charlotte NC.native and I appreciate your shout out. We definitely agree with you on the problems that Black Americans is facing. Keep on keeping on.
Bro. Five years ago i would say you were lying.... but now i got mine through the military, it wasn't the best choice but it is in the top 5 best choices i ever made in life lol. That thing is a game changer. You dont have to deal with most of this stuff. And they fine asf though! Lol
...and get rejected and also at the risk of accusations of sexual harassment for showing interest in a woman, critically losing your *energy* and time playing chase games ? No.
I employ that principle of not fraternizing on the job just in general. People at work are not your friends or family at the end of the day.-They’ll easily smile in your face one day and then stab you in the back the next. Separate your personal and professional lives. That’s what work is: tolerating people whom you would never talk to otherwise.
@LMLification: I learned my lesson many years ago after a few surprise run ins management caused by complaints from people whom I wasn't flirting with or even interested in. After that, I cut off even the pretense of friendship with members of the opposite sex at work. If it ain't about the job, the weather, or yawn,..the game I don't have any conversation.
@@LMLification My experiences of that nature were always with women not men. Men tend to come at you head on. Not once have I not had a clue as to whom a male opponent was or what the nature or origin of the conflict was.
@@dpeasehead Still not worth the risk. Facts. I have experienced both genders being underhanded. Even dealing with them when lucid is not worth it. People should be solely focused on work, not worrying about anything outside of that. People are in a person’s life for a season.
@@LMLification I agree with you 100% on this issue. Work should not be a battleground between races or genders, but a lot of people seem to know no other ways of interacting, so I keep my distance both during and after working hours.
It's simple, men are tired of being labeled as "creepy" and "weird" for approaching in good faith. Men are also tired of being traditional for non-traditional women.
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Men if you see them down their cell phones and they don't like selfies or video of themselves run for the hills, do not approach them
@@nicholasnorman4179 what
Plus, who can afford to date nowadays?
@nicholasnorman… you edited your response and it still doesn’t make any sense.
Men have finally realized that we'll get further in life when we stop chasing women and start chasing our goals and our purpose 👍🏾💯
FACTS!! 👍🏾💯
finally, the gd truth with it
Truth!!!
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Exactly 💯 Percent
They keep pretending that they don’t understand what’s going on.
They good at gaslighting.
They want to argue, age old strategy. "Keep arguing with men until they give you what you want"... They want to drain your energy.
Don't give out such knowledge gd truth 😂
They’re not pretending though. A woman’s mind will hide what she just said from herself. It seems insane but that’s just how their brains operate
The gaslight kweenz
I don't get why they are worried about men approaching, when they have a rotation already.
Good question men ain't approaching because we tired of HORZZ
They miss their rejection fodder. They need the ego boosts.
@@BrianThaLion99, good point.
Exactly they always have drama if you speak to them it's a problem I teach my son don't speak to women especially black women
@@BrianThaLion99😂😂😂
This woman just wants to have the power to reject men in a humiliating manner with her friends. Women reject men at their most cruelest when they're with friends. Men know the game now.
Blk wmn in particular have a very bad habit of doing this nomsense 💯💯
Quick story one day I walked in the store and had my hoodie over my head and this girl was with her friend and she kept trying to look at my face with my hoodie over it and her friend grabbed her and said stop looking at him
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@@Rpgmaniac
Weird as hell.
@@rastahill748 she could’ve been trying to save her friend from possibly gettin hurt.
Had a chick at work complain that one guy kept talking to her and she felt uncomfortable. Flash forward a few months and she complained that none of the dudes would talk to her now. No one was rude but they'd just stop talking and leave when she'd go in the break room. No point. Just thought it was funny and you reminded me.
they're perpetual children, and the system are their enablers
smart men they aint trying to lose their job 🤣🤣🤣
I don't blame those men! Ain't nobody trying to lose their jobs trying to be cordial to women. Jobs are not social clubs or dating venues. Do your job and go home.
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Ban filming in gyms now.
To Phillip Scott Show:
Some men refuse to approach women, to avoid false accusations and other dramas. Especially, when the woman is white.
YEP 💯 💯 💯
That!
But they harass the hell out of women online
I have lost 2 jobs because of this. Never again. IDGAF how friendly they are, never getting too friendly back. Stay away Satan, I've got bills
My boyfriend says this all the time, and I have to agree in more ways then one!
Modern women are running out of men to reject.
Men don't want them at all and if they want them trust me they want out !!
The number is ever shrinking.
Classic 😂
A lot of women look so angry all the time that's why i don't even bother to speak anymore
Man, you ain't never lied!!! Looking like they're mad at the world.
Definitely! I see that a lot at work, and it's exhausting.
@@daddypea9486 they probably are 😅
Resting Witch Face. I could have used another word for witch, but you know what it is.
Their life is sooo hard.
They are goofy
I’d rather push the start button on my PlayStation 5 than approach these hyenas!!!
lmfao
Amen
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Yeah, Xbox for me. I’ll rather play a 50 waves of Gears of War Horde mode myself.
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What do men even get out of relationships with modern women these days other than being a sponsor?
As a guy in a relationship, i dont know anymore
Being her emotional tampon.
Masochistic Satisfaction??
Heartbreak & STDs & Depression.
Restricted snatch.
Personally, women today are not worth approaching.
Never have been ask Samson
This is facts.
Wow, it's that bad out there???
So you’re approaching men?
Wow, what's going on now? I'm very hurt
It's sickening...To this day.....TO THIS DAY....I can say 'Good morning' or 'Hello' to a sister & they look me up & down like they're ready to fight. Just my experience. I still love my black women, though. Something needs to change.
Don't sugar coat it. There's only one group that looks at you like they wanna fight you when you say good morning.
Then stop speaking to them. YOU have to be the change when you notice the pattern and they refuse to change to improve.
It’s called passport📘Get a sister 👩🏾 from overseas.
Same bro. And it's only from sistas. You don't get this treatment from any other women initially. They'll even speak to you and approach you. But sistas won't even say "Hello" and expect to be approached
It's crazy when old, conservative white women treat you better than "sistas".
The real reason they're upset is because we took their power of rejection away. Because if that's the case, why wouldn't women just go talk to a guy they liked? Simple solution
Simple solutions are a man thing.....mostly
Plus women are attention whores. They love validation.
They are afraid of rejection more and won't, so pookie approach and get em pregnant 🤣
Because like u said power, and also control. See, if they approach us that means we have the power to correct them; hold them accountable and be the head.
They feel like when we chase them they can be in control. So that means they feel like we can’t tell them nothing or say no because of that.
That’s why it’s best to get with a woman that wants u, because it eliminates a lot of problems. A woman that wants/lust u r the best relationships, and it’s a lot of men that never experienced that.
@@1766584 Facts. When a female truly feeling you it really hit different 💯
Never Ever Trust The Modern Western American Woman 🤣🤣🤣
Correct 💯 💯 💯
But you still living in the western hemisphere
@@ShayWilliam341 I travel the whole 🌎🌎
SYSBM
Exactly I'm ex miilitary who have traveled outside of the country.the world is bigger than the US more options
I don't go where I'm not wanted or invited. I just mind my own business and keep myself out of trouble.
Best Comment 💯💯💯
*high fives for all the men avoiding jailtime*
"FREEDOM!"
Whassup my bros?
Facts my brother 👍
Very wise
MeToo got so bad in the corporate offices that I even got sent to HR over a complaint by a female co-worker for NOT talking with her or engaging with her. My short excuse was I am minding my own business. She's not a family member or even a former friend. Heck, she's not in my group much less in the same department as I. Long story short. I still am employed at the same venue while my accuser didn't pass her probationary period and/or survive from the later budget cuts.
Same thing happened to me at my old job.
she just wanted attention nice play
So you had to go to HR for ignoring her??? Damned if you do damned if you dont
That happened to me too 🤷🏾♂️
Yoooo..... thats crazy!!!!! You got jammed up for minding your own business....smh...wow!!
It's trauma, and most men don't want to deal with another failed friendship or relationship. It not worth it right now.
Absolutely
Yup
Not just right now, NOT EVER! Lol!
You the most honest comment in this thread.
Seriously
Back then social media didn't exist so if he got rejected, it was rather private. Nowadays he's video recorded, laughed at and ridiculed over social media.
Wasn't private if she was with her girlfriends. That still haven't changed. I've seen plenty of guys back in the day get humiliated trying to approach a woman with her friends. I even seen a dude pulled up on the corner to holla at his homeboy an this woman who was right there yelled at him don't talk me I'm not interested you bum. Dude told her b**** ain't nobody trying to talk to your stalking a** get f*** out of here. She definitely deserved that mind her own business thinking everyone trying to holla at her.
@iceman_2360 Most blk wmn nowadays have a bad habit of doing that nonsense.
Not me lol..... these hyenas are beneath me
Damn, I had not even thought about that. You're right! No man wants to deal with that.
Or end up on Worldstar. It’s the worst when it ends up on Worldstar.
I’m tired of sistas asking why. Because when men and even women with sense tell them why, they still never change. What’s the point? Men, leave, goto the real women who will respect men LIKE MEN!!!
Spot on 📘🛫
I don’t have to ask because I’m aware all that crap is coming back full circle to them I wish there was a dating app or something for traditional men and women
Times have changed. Those days of calling men thirsty have comeback to haunt women.
Zoom meetings became a must. There are no false allegations because the meeting is recorded.
The more "strong and independent," the more reality hits and proves many of these jezebels wrong..
Absolutely.
Indeed true
What she's really asking is "why don't the men that I find attractive approach me?" I dont like being the guy to answer a question with a question but why should they? The men she wants probably already have better options. She also wont tell you about the guys that did approach her & she turned them down. She says, "hell will have to freeze over" then she better be ready to keep that coat & hat on for awhile. Turn down the entitlement, ma'am.
I was thinking along similar lines. As we age the options get smaller for most women. When women are young they have the most options in dating, but that quickly dips off once they are over 26 and becomes difficult once over 30. Men on the other hand gain in options as they age until probably about age 35-40. But after 40 men become more desirable compared to women of the same age.
@@majorlazor5058 That’s how the SMP (sexual marketplace works)
@@majorlazor5058 That’s how the SMP (sexual market place) works
Imagine a woman complaining about not being approached while at the same time demonstrating why she’s not approached.
I would argue that this applies to both genders tho. Men don't wanna date women they don't find attractive and women as well don't want to date men they find unattractive. There is nothing wrong with that.
What I do see a problem, is the idea that the people the SHE FINDS ATTRACTIVE, should approach her, by virtue of her being a woman and her finding them attractive (there's the entitlement, because if a man says the same thing, they would be emasculated or laughed at). For all we know, the men she find attractive aren't in their mind, so the idea of someone that's minding their business SHOULD stop to recognize a woman's beauty and approach, is somewhat of a fairytale (cause in reality , people should find what they consider attractive and approach.).
Fact
If I make eye contact with a sister, she will make a disgusted face, roll her eyes, etc. So I ignore them. Meanwhile Becky, Leticia, and Ling-Ling will approach me at the gym and try to spark a conversation. I'm a rather good looking guy and haven't had a problem with talking to women in general, but black women are so freaking hostile, they get pissed off because you're breathing the same air as them.
Ling-Ling??? 😂😂😂😂
@@BrianThaLion99 You'd be surprised, it's a rather common middle/nick name amongst Chinese women.
@@altima22689 Hey I respect it. If I have a son Im naming him Pookie so he get the hoez from early on lmaooo
Because they know how to handle their slaves so it's easy for them to deal with ya because they know how destroyed we are as a people that we seek acceptance from the other nations so I wouldn't gloat about that dude you sound like Stephen
Same here bro. Crazy part is, I've actually caught quite a few of bw looking. Back in the day, that was a clear choosing signal, these days, it's simply a set up for an ego boost. Meanwhile Ling and Becky will actually start a conversation with me.
I have a passport and not into single mothers,baggage,makeup,fakeup,weave,attitude,foul language,etc…
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Wow how you can talk about your mother that way how rude of you that’s not right to disrespect her in that manner
@@ShayWilliam341
Don’t understand what it is with some of you and this incest talk. You have to be a single mother.
It was my mom and dad that told me to avoid single mothers in high school.
Great advice.
Heck my dad passed away at 86 and mom is 101 doing fine.
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lmfao! “Incest talk”
yeah they do be sounding weird as hell.
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btw, she was trying to say your mother is the one that has all those qualities. She was throwing shade because she felt attacked.
They told us black men that we were guilty of street harassment and they wanted it to stop. So we stopped and just ordered them on our computers and dating apps like a pizza.
PREACH
Not just black men. White women started the "street harassment" trend by discouraging white men from approaching them, and black women aka "wannabe white women" followed suit.
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The gaslighting is insulting at this point. ABW know why. They just want the power to reject. Don't give it to em brothers.
Well duh…if she accepted every offer then you would be telling other men she’s nothing but a whore.
that part 👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿👌🏿👌🏿👌🏿
gives them a ego boost for the day, they say they don't want men to be thirsty but when we stop, they get depressed!
I'm definitely not
Power two reject?
I preach this all the time. The fellas should have their own gyms, bars and etc. So fellas ain't gotta deal with crap from women and have a piece of mind.
Dude, you're not lying. I literally had a woman toot her butt up infront of my coworker and i as we gym while him and i were at the tire flip machine. And i do mean she was very close and there was plenty of room in that area to work out else where to do her.... whatever the hell she was doing lol.
Exactly
@@calebhenderson6507 I hope y'all didn't pay her no mind. Women have egos and when you don't pay em any attention to em they ego shrinks.
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They already do. There are g-a-i bars all over the nation.
You know, I said this not too long ago about the brick lady when she said, a man approached her for her number and I’m like we don’t approach them anymore
Come to find out she lied about that and has used that story several times before over the years.
News flash: men don't owe you any attention 😊
Boom
Bouya!
She answered her own question with her narcissistic entitled behaviour
Exactly. “Hell would freeze over” is the evidence.
True words!
She going to be single to hell freeze over. Brother's got so many options ,Latinos, Asian ,snow buddies, India, Philippines beauty's, sexy D.R. trust me if she waiting on Brother's to approach her with that masculine energy, and that nasty attitude she going to be waiting till he'll freezes 🥶 over.but them Latinos and beggy ain't waiting on these brothers to approach nothing they see wah they like they go get him. They snatching them young Brother's up period!!!!! Yea keep standing 🧍♀️ in that corner waiting on someone to approach you . that 🧱 wall is your next approach..
"when hell freezes over" ok well good luck.
Simple, it's not worth the time or hassle to speak to these women, ESPECIALLY at work. Men, protect yourself at all times.
We are scared of Child support 😂😂😂😂😂
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Wrong route 😂😂😂😂😂
yup😅😅😅😅
They be extra extra fertile, just by hand shake she’s already knocked up. 😂😂
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Men are just tired of the BS with women
Most these western women aren't very approachable. Some don't smile and always mean mugging and looking at you crazy, so im like no thanks im Good 😅
It's not a modern thing. Things have always been this way. There's just more focus and exposure today. Even in extremely isolated places, these behaviors are prevalent in women.
ONE WORD: PASSPORT.
Passport
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Because a lot of them have a bad attitude, playing games to the point we don't want to deal with that mess. I personally don't waste my time with women I stay focused on what I'm doing and working on I don't approach them at all and I'm fine with that. If they show interest in me I'll let them come to me. I'm not going to be chasing them
Men don't wanna approach DEBT PROBLEMZ N BILLZ anymore.
Bingo!!!
Yes or risk being set up or lied on or stolen from 😊 let a simp deal with it
Facts
Being a stepdaddy is hard to sign up for
That's right inflation is already frustrating a lot of men in this greedy economy so nope we ain't looking no new bills or no child support cases
And another thing I had a problem with what she said that a man would approach a woman while she is with 20 of her homegirls and ask her for her phone number. To me that's bullshit. Not to many men are going to approach a woman and ask her for her phone number if her homegirls are around especially if it's up to 20 of them with her. She must be thinking about a rapper or celebrity or something. A man will approach a woman when she is by herself often times as opposed to her being with her homegirls. There is a difference between reality and fantasy.
Thats the shaming gaslighting. If she was so amazing, she would be off the market. She is still in the streets talking about real men this, real men that. They dont understand shaming doesnt work like in the 90s.
Facts
How old are you? Kindly.
Because I’m 30 (haven’t dated strangers in 10 years) but I totally remember being 17 (legal adult in MO) at the club and having guys walk up to chat and get numbers. It wasn’t fantasy or celebrity driven. Guys used to walk up to the group with blinding confidence and start showing out. He’d pick the girl before he walked up and he’d make her laugh a bit. They’d dance and chat the whole evening.
If y’all are older than me you must remember and if your younger well gosh dang, now I feel old.
I don’t have the app. Edit: you’re ^
@@seadragon1456 I'm in my Forties and most dudes are not going to go up to a woman with her homegirls and start talking to her and trying to get her phone number. And like I said especially if she is surrounded by 20 of them. And man in most cases are going to act like how Ice Cube acted in Friday part one when he was trying to get with Nia Long. Now that's reality! What you and that woman in that video is talking about rarely if ever happens. A man is going to try to talk to you when you are by yourself. He gone try to get the digits then. Now prove me wrong or be quiet.
They are concerned about men approaching because the free meals are starting to stop.
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Fellas, don't fall the bait😡, protect yourself at all cost!!!
*high fives all the men with freedom intact*
Some women don't even exercise good manners. You speak to some just to say hello and they're rude as hell. Just regular stuff.
These women are not approachable, I had an instance where I was in the grocery store line, and a sista was in front of me and she was attractive, she kept looking back (note: no smile, no hi etc. Just with a serious demeanor) so when she did it again I nodded my head to her and she quickly turned around, I got to the checkout and the cashier a guy, recognized it he says "She wanted to holla at you" i expressed to him, well the signals she gave were very weak, not considered choosing signals, and for all I know she could of been looking at me due to I looked like someone she knew etc...he thought and agreed...smh..
Same situation. Exact same result. I'm not saying anything to you without you saying what you want.
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@@reggieh1455Naw you should've said something.
@@Kuroyasha2099 Explain??
@@reggieh1455 How strong does the reception have to be? She have a signal you could've responded. I'm not suggesting to chase these women and I acknowledge women's social and courtship skills have deteriorated but when you see a woman make an effort you should reciprocate.
Women kept saying they didnt want men talking to them. Be careful what you ask for😆
That only applies to men that she is not attracted to. If you look like a chad/tyrone, then its fair game
@@aaronjohnson7175 -- That's the thing, they didn't differentiate.
So, out of safety, we all took the piss lol.
I only approach if they are under 150 and there’s no car seats in the whip … unfortunately I don’t get too approach that much
Another reason many men don’t like to approach is we “assume”that women automatically feel a level of fear for their safety and we don’t want to cause that feeling for anyone. so unless there’s clear evidence that approach is open then we stay away. The juice ain’t worth the squeeze
What's happened to women wearing their natural hair?
So you don't like natural hair now???
Lost cause on that one
@@Covingtonao Then the hair that grows out of YOUR head is also a lost cause. This explains why so many men are having weave put in at various barber shops across America.
I cant tell you how many Black women I've told their natural hair is fine and THEY didn't want to hear it.
@@12DreamsFull says who?
the girl said "HELL will Freeze over BEFORE she ever approaches a man"
she takes no accountability for her love life, she will never want to subject herself to what men must go through in order to find love, multiple REJECTION!
but still they're judgemental arrogant behaviour will never dissipate!
Women most likely see approaching as beneath them, imo her stating that already shows she believes she is above most men.
Women are constantly suing men or calling the cops claiming men are harassing them.
"Men are learning that the juice aint worth the squeeze!" - Manosphere Highlights Daily.
I love it! Men are carrying on, indifferent to the women around them, not allowing themselves to fall victim to the power play of a false allegation. Wealthy men are on alert, as today any woman from their past can drum up false accusations and receive cash & prizes for the mere accusation.
The risks outweigh the rewards
They know damn well why men aren’t approaching the answer is all over social media.
Most women I meet.... the more I get to know them the less I like them.... just my experience
Men value peace and stability over chaos and drama
INDEED AND AGREED 👍💯
One reason is because most are not pleasant to be around.
Mental health
Because of many reasons 1) already tried to holla a female but was given a ick look 2) bad experiences 3) think that a lot of women are unapproachable 4) not confident
They should be happy becasue one minute they cry that men don't approach them ,then they turn around and mad they got approached by some non tall man, he not hood enough, he don't have multiple baby mommas
5) me too movement.
@@calebhenderson6507 yep that too
I’m
Curious. So what is the new American men approach to get women? 304s or just online dating.
Isn't it amazing that feminism gave women the ability to go after everything they want in life except a man.
For Real. Strong and independant women who prefer bears. 😂
Not interested in approaching anymore. Too old and wise to care.
I dont want to be accused of sexual harrassment
It's a good thing most men understand you don't approach women anymore !!
Unpopular Opinion:
1. Men approaching women never was a necessity.
2. Men approaching women gives them the powers to choose.
3. Women approaching men makes more sense, considering they already know how to play the game, despite, saying, they didn't. Women are literal masters of psychology. Let them work they're magic on you.
100% I always said this. Since theyre the picky ones, they minus well choose
@@BrianThaLion99 FACTS.
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The only thing BW are masters of is having kids out of wedlock.
Agreed
On behalf of the “nice guys” *we 👏🏾don’t👏🏾 want 👏🏾them 👏🏾prob👏🏾 lems👏🏾*
We used to just fear getting rejected, now we gotta fear going viral for it
2 words ME TOO. Approaching women today is the same as going to defuse a bomb not knowing if it's gonna explode or is a dud.
@ZetaZintendo; Been dealing with nonsense of one kind or another since I was a teen. I have no interest in either duds or explosions.
@@dpeasehead I totally agree with you i understand you completely 💯
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Man you couldn't have said this more perfectly this needs to be pinned😆
It did not get lost men are considerating other options. Men do not cold approach and you try your hardest to humiliate them if they are not 6'6 and a millionaire
Oh Brother
As a man I can that humiliation line is a lie.
It is what it is. I have no vested interest either way. Just my thoughts based on experience and what I see in society in today's generation. The generation both men and women care more about material and riches than people, and healthy relationships, strong families, and tight-knit communities. It's only a small few who are on the opposite side
@@uzamakionzie86 Maybe you should get you a passport and go to one those 3 world countries that so many BMs are flocking to. A ten dollar bill is very impressive with those women. Unlike women in America they will never want much because they have never had much.
Why do some people waste time on trolls - she’s clearly attempting to go viral because she clearly understands why most men don’t approach these females these days - please stop pandering to these females looking for clout - Your smarter than that Phil |B1|⭐
Western women did this to themselves
That's the part their refusing to accept
Men do not approach ladies anymore. Perfect example my coworker asked me to go to the store with him. He said he gonna ask the lady for her number and out that day. We all knew of her she was very attractive. So he gets to register and shoots his shot. Instead of politely saying no. She got on the intercom. And yelled No Sergeant Brooks I will not give you my number. He was so embarrassed he ran out and forgot to pay. I paid for the items. When I got back to the office you could see he was visibly still shaken
That was so cold ❄️❄️ she did that
Yeah that was not right.
Hope he heals and moves on. May he find peace
Every Viable Male Suitor, Saw What She Did.
Most Any Level Headed Man That Day In That Store, Disqualified Her On The Spot For That.
Oh my god that’s foul thats something that will never have a man approaching ever again
Those day is over. Guys are checking out.
It’s really not hard to understand men are sick of women shenanigans it’s just not worth the headache and frustration
Those days are gone!
Treat All Women With Positive Indifference. 💯
Ive been in corporate America my whole adult life. This is true. Every day I feel like I might lose my job. I hate working in CA and I'm black too.
Society rewards bad behavior and attempts to be a gentleman to a woman nowadays is a bad thing to most sisters!
Naw, don't blame dating apps! Look inward hunny.....
They hate accountability
I agree with everything uncle Phil saying especially with the gym..the gym was sacred at one time
The worst is when you approach a cute girl and her overweight friend jumps in to tell you "SHE'S NOT INTERESTED"..it's always the fridge protecting the snacks
I’m just following what my mama taught me, don’t talk to strangers. 😂
One thing that women aren't telling you about these Dating apps is for women they get a free account, while Men have to get a basic account or have to pay for better features. Personally I'm tired of being called thirsty, creepy or pervy.
I find that older women are so much more approachable. Sure I may not be approaching older women with romantic intent or attraction but overall it's easier talking to most older women in comparison to most younger women.
I feel you I would say too alot young women don't got much to talk about.
@@tatheblkpaladinNot really about what to talk about but being approachable.
@@akendon7260 hmm I see
Maybe you're actually more attracted to older women. A lot of men are actually.
@@MsLotusBlooms I'm definitely attracted to some but not more attracted. Like if the older woman is out of shape I just can't do it, even if they're coming on to me very strong.
I have extreme social anxiety but when I am spoken to, I do try to speak back, may come off as awkward and weird BUT I do reply back. 😂
the toxic feminism atmosphere has taken over, now men have been frightened out of approaching women, it's only right women start approaching men.
but like this black girl said, hell will freeze over before y'all ever subject yourself to anything resembling the male experience of being rejected over and over and over again before being accepted.
FEMALE privilege will soon become a hindrance
Do u have bad skin?
As long you don't insult his mama and didn't call him too short, you will be alright 😂
good women😅
Why would a msn approach a woman that believes she doesn't need a man? 🤔🤡
That lady that just spoke I can hear the energy of her having an attitude it's just in a matter of time before she let loose. These women don't want a man to talk to them let them tell it they're fine just the way they are. But they'll ask for help from a man when needed.
Your right about the face. My cousin always told me "I never approached a women unless she gave me the Look." I know he is right because he was never turned down.
A lot of women feel empowered when they get attention from a lot of men. So its better safe than sorry, and men should not approach a woman or speak to her unless she has shown some sign of interest.
Especially if it means we can no longer be used as tools to boost the self esteem of women who did not want us to begin with.
If you noticed, she never said she wants a man. Her only concern is why men aren't approaching. She even told the story of being approached in a group of girls, and a guy would come straight to her.
She just wants attention
The reason is simple. 80% of women have said they want 1% of men….Dont waste your time fellas, DONT WASTE YOUR TIME!
I remember the shift and I was on Twitter at the time. This started taking place in the early-mid to late-mid 2010s. There was a lot of “Men ain’t sh*t”, “Ew, leave me alone, stop approaching me”, and men were getting canceled very heavily around that time. So we listened and now they act like they don’t know what’s going on.
The broad already knows the answer. Stop passing the buck, Miss. You aint slow.
The blindness to why they won't do it anymore prooves how oblivious and selfish they are mentally.
There’s a difference between a compliment and harassment.. and it’s subjective attraction.
She believes she’s too attractive not to get approached. Not the actual issue
On the job especially I my line of work which is the petrochemical industry I do NOT I repeat I do NOT bother talk to say anything to these females. Not gonna through me under the bus and get me banned for harassment.
You know Damm well why!?
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Gents.
Stop explaining this to Women....
You don't owe them an explanation. They have had this explained to them countless times and refuse to acknowledge it.
It's not Men's job, it does no good to waste your breath and you're talking to a brick wall.
There was a whole ad campaign by Gillette telling men not to approach strange women on the street.
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Thanks for sharing, I listen to your podcast the most of many podcasts. I am a Charlotte NC.native and I appreciate your shout out. We definitely agree with you on the problems that Black Americans is facing. Keep on keeping on.
Yall brothas better do like i did and get you a passport and move out of the country. My life's been amazing ever since
Bro. Five years ago i would say you were lying.... but now i got mine through the military, it wasn't the best choice but it is in the top 5 best choices i ever made in life lol. That thing is a game changer. You dont have to deal with most of this stuff. And they fine asf though! Lol
@@calebhenderson6507 LOL Yessir real talk bruh, having a passport is something that I think all black men should have.
...and get rejected and also at the risk of accusations of sexual harassment for showing interest in a woman, critically losing your *energy* and time playing chase games ? No.
I employ that principle of not fraternizing on the job just in general. People at work are not your friends or family at the end of the day.-They’ll easily smile in your face one day and then stab you in the back the next. Separate your personal and professional lives. That’s what work is: tolerating people whom you would never talk to otherwise.
@LMLification: I learned my lesson many years ago after a few surprise run ins management caused by complaints from people whom I wasn't flirting with or even interested in. After that, I cut off even the pretense of friendship with members of the opposite sex at work. If it ain't about the job, the weather, or yawn,..the game I don't have any conversation.
@@dpeasehead Apply that to both genders. People period can backstab or just turn on you. Not worth getting caught up, whether male or female.
@@LMLification My experiences of that nature were always with women not men. Men tend to come at you head on. Not once have I not had a clue as to whom a male opponent was or what the nature or origin of the conflict was.
@@dpeasehead Still not worth the risk. Facts. I have experienced both genders being underhanded. Even dealing with them when lucid is not worth it. People should be solely focused on work, not worrying about anything outside of that. People are in a person’s life for a season.
@@LMLification I agree with you 100% on this issue. Work should not be a battleground between races or genders, but a lot of people seem to know no other ways of interacting, so I keep my distance both during and after working hours.
I stopped because I got tiered of being disrespected & ignored. I don't know why other men don't do it anymore.