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Sista Tells Single Women It's Better To Pay 50/50 With A Man Than 100 By Yourself
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- Опубліковано 15 чер 2024
- Some will not understand the simple math equation. If a woman is paying 100% of her bills alone, then why is she upset to pay only 50% of the bills in her relationship? That's a 50% reduction in what she was required to pay per month.
Unfortunately, a lot of them don't even want a Husband they want a life/travel sponsorship
Yeah they want all that but they don't want to work for it.
Facts bro!!!!! When that next video coming?👀👀👀👀👀.
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The 304 mafia is real. They travel in packs
@mikemoffin6020 no lies told💯
I wanna go 100% with MYSELF . let them stay away from me
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More peace that way brother
That's right. HOLD THE LINE
Yeap!!
50/50 relationships is a realistic thing not the other bs females be talking 100/100
Women are out here trying to to get over on a brotha 🤦🏾♂️
Yep. Every city every state😢
Brothas do the same too, so....
@@y.m.6667You mean your favorite pookie
THANK YOU!! That is another problem with our people: THE MAJORITY OF US ARE TOO MATERIALISTIC AND SELFISH!!
I respect this woman for bluntly telling the truth to these no-good hyenas.
Who are you referring to?
@@kaybrown7733black women who else 😂 cause that's what y'all are
@@kaybrown7733black women who else😂 that's what y'all are
@@JamalJewell Please, get some help! 🤣
@@kaybrown7733 I need help for stating the truth? That's crazy 🤣
This woman is very wise. Women, please listen to her😂. 2 incomes are better than one( 1)
Exactly
Too late brother...feminism got them...
Nope . It’s over.
Let ppl make their own decisions. If someone wants a man to pay 100% then let them find that. If you want to split bills, find someone who’s also cool with that.
Most real couples split bills. Social media sensationalizes lifestyles that many ppl don't truly have.
In my household we do 100/100. Everything that comes in the house benefits everyone
I agree with that.. EVERYTHING comng in, should benefit EVERYONE!!
Going 50/50 allows each to contribute MORE to 401Ks & IRAs. $$$ Then both of you can retire early.
whatever works in your household is your business! Whatever doesn’t work for you shouldn’t be broadcasted online!
Pretty much
That’s what I’m saying. Do what works for your relationship/household.
FACTS!!!
Please let people choose what they want to do with their life. If you want to go 50/50, find someone who’s also willing to do that. But if someone wants someone to pay 100% then that’s their choice. Everyone has choices and shouldn’t be shamed for it. Some women don’t mind paying all their bills by themselves cause that option is better than splitting with a man. However, there are other women who do not mind splitting. So people gotta just find their person who has the same mindset as them and not try to change others. It’s very simple.
My husband pays 100% of our bills because he can. He doesn’t need any financial help from me at all. I do all the household labor. It works for us.
Yes a real man thank God. One that understands his role in life as a provider and sounds like he allows you to fill your role as well? Women also have babies and raise them most of the time with not a ton of help from the Men. That’s the way it’s been since the beginning of time.
@ShaylaC8791 that has nothing to do with being a real man. Plus it's better to live off 2 retirements vs 1...also more income means you can get approved for more credit.
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Are you living in your purpose? Do you believe in God? Are you on your path? Answer those questions truly and honestly, if even only to yourself. Then revisit what you wrote. 🙂
@@neek1232 It has plenty to do with being a real man. Some men want you to have children, do the household work, and have a job.
@@ShaylaC8791 Non-traditional women aren't qualified for men paying 100% of the bills.
Two incomes are better than one
Plus a couple can save and build off that.
When I was coming up in the seventies black people look out for each other 🎉
Maybe the 50s definitely not the 70s
@@Slow-RollingI recall the 70's being better that what us happening currently.
@@Slow-Rolling I don't know how it was for your family I just know how it was for mines.
Even early 80's
It wasn't just this demographic. The -world- *west* is just different now, for everyone.
I have two sons. I tell them to run from those women that don’t want to work. It takes two incomes now. I am like black women are properly educated now go get the smartest black girl in your class. They did.
Drizzle Drizzle! Well done, Ms. Momma!!
Drizzle, Drizzle is NOT a 50/50 relationships. It is men who don't pay bills and want to be princesses!!😂😂😂
@@nmhoskinsThose men rarely exist in America stop it
I 100% agree. Working together, team work, living together, etc. Our culture has become a shell of its former self unfortunately in recent years. Women think that theirs life’s are better than others. Men think that their life’s are better than others. People talk down to each other and make them feel worthless. My oldest sister did the same thing and here kharma is killer her and she wont say it. The Jackson’s said it best in the song “LIving Together”, if this world is gonna be our home we gotta make it strong by living together.
50/50 doesn’t mean 50/50 . It’s the foundation for reasonable contribution from both ends 👀
It means reciprocity. U need that in a relationship.
Some Sistas nowadays rather struggle with bills and have the freedom ta bounce from pole ta pole whenever 😅
Who’s to say they’re struggling? For some women, they would rather pay their own bills, comfortably, than deal with a man and split them.
But overall, everyone has a right to date certain people. It’s called preferences, everyone has them.
@@miaq392 He's obviously talking about those who are struggling. That's who he mentioned.
@@DievestorsNeverLearn Well that doesn’t make sense. Why are you even entertaining or giving someone attention who cannot take care of themselves?
Man or woman, if you’re struggling to take care of yourself, dating, shouldn’t even be on your mind. This should be common sense.
@@miaq392 @miaq392 The same reason why you and most people are on social media platforms talking about things that you don't have to give any attention to.
@@DievestorsNeverLearn We can say the same about you, as you are here as well😂
Can’t even answer the question cause you know it doesn’t make any sense. You all just want something to complain about per usual.
As I said before don’t entertain someone who’s financially struggling. Simple
When my father and mother was coming up in the 60s and the seventies and the 50s and the 40s a man could do everything by himself with one job them days is long gone in America I remember my father had one job we had a house two cars and a truck etc my mother did not have to work or she didn't want to nobody worked in the house but my father🎉 but them days in America is long gone so stop dreaming and they ain't coming back in America 🎉
I knew a guy that was taking care of a woman and paying all of the bills. She was buying stuff from Amazon all of the time. She started with holding s3x from the guy that was doing all of this for her. He had enough of the with holding of s3x and left her. She had to move because she could not afford the town house and had to go back to paying everything herself.
There’s definitely more to that story. No woman just stops withholding s3x without reason. But do what works for you and make you happy.
We have lost so many of the traditional family values in today's society. I'm now learning to drop the ego to become better.
Single motherhood tends to be dysfunctional like that
It depends. That might be better financially when you have no children, downsize and live a very basic lifestyle. Once you start
adding people to your household, you need more space, food, utilities, etc than for one person. That 50-50 financially might still equal or surpass what you were paying before, especially when you are trying to provide a decent life for your family. Too many people get together and never have an initial game plan before moving in together, and then they end up in unpleasant situations with each other.
I'm sure many women were pissed off by her statement because she used LOGIC. Which is the modern woman's kryptonite.
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Accountability is their green kryptonite.. But Logic is red kryptonite to them.
It has nothing to do with logic but more so choices and preferences. Men and women are allowed to have choices and preferences in their dating life. So if a woman wants a man to pay 100%, that’s her choice and you do not have to participate in that. If you prefer to split bills then find someone who’s open to that.
@@miaq392 It has everything to do with logic. You fail to understand this because you are an emotional and illogical being. 🤣
Who cares bro let them mad
I think 50/50 relationships are better these days due to how bad the economy is. Honestly I prefer a 50/50 relationship than a woman cooking and cleaning.
Aren't you the one that says a man should pay all of the bills!!!
50/50 on the bills, 100% on the housework and 100% childcare. Then you wonder why women are opting out.
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What outside housework, maintenance and vehicle care are women opting into? Men cook, cleaning and raise kids like women do
If you got a great man, alot of that pressure will be off of you
It's not a lack of skills, it's ATTITUDE. Domestic black women have spent over three decades building a culture where they want whatever they create is for themselves. There are two major tenent black women are victims, particularly by black men and misandry for black men. Over 80% of domestic black men are done. Those that haven't left aren't even acknowledging black women in public. And black women shouldn't presume this works a hardship on black men. Since domestic black women seem convinced they don't need black men black men are making a community devoid of black men in social connection with black women a reality.
That’s fine. Everyone has a right to do what makes them happy.
GOOD
Their logic makes no sense. You can't reason with them
She understands simple math unlike many women
It's ok to work as a team. You can build more
I definitely don’t have any family building skills
50/50 on bills but doing 100% house work and child rearing?? Issa nope for me. I rather my peace and freedom and 100% bills on me🤣🤣
If you picked a man that you have to do 100% of the child rearing I would submit you made a terrible selection.
I don’t think it’s necessarily 50/50 on bills. I think it’s more about contributing something instead of being a leech considering we’ve had 3 waves of feminism since Grandaddy paid everything 100% 😅
This is good. But we don’t care. At least you didn’t procreate. Or I hope you didn’t.
Excellent content Phillip!! Paying 100% while waiting years/decade for a man that pays all is crazy. Imagine saving half of your salary for 10 years.
We adding in the housekeeper and chef, lawn care, then split down the middle!!! No problem with me
Seems like it ain't working because we don't have our God in our mix? Heard someone say that..
Speaking facts that selfishness is ridiculous
Women who build with a man or go 50/50 with a man gets dump by that man once he can afford to pay 100% all the bills for his preference.
It literally came from hip hop music videos. They try to match that stuff have been for decades
I think it really just depends on the age nowadays. The younger you are, the more flexible you are with helping your mate. But the older woman has more expectations and check marks ✅. I’m marred for 21 years and I pay bills for the household. He also pays bills but he does a lot of other financial things such as getting things around the house fixed, renovated, etc. make sure the cars get fixed when they have issues. All the insurance needed for everything…. And much more. So i think he get the tough end of the stick, so I pay my little bills and keep my mouth shut… 😂my little bills are on the budget billing plan… the expenses he pays are unpredictable..😮. However I do offer when I think the expense is overwhelming. ($$$$). And many times he says he got it, but I know he appreciates me offering the support.
We got to stop starting on the spotlight for this group of girls who are immature and not ready to grow up.
2024 Takes Fun, Respect, LOVE, Brains & Teamwork. (smile)
That's what she says but don't mean to has to be followed, we have to go by what we believe in, the concern for others peoples preferences is a distraction, they all seeking attention anyway
Oh now you singing a different tune 🙄 you were just saying a man should pay all the bills no exceptions 😑
Bro i thought i was the only one that said the same thing about Phil.
Bro i thought i was the only one saying the same thing about Phil.
Fckin right,50/50 is okay with me 😂
School em Phil !!!
These 304s are delusional
We still having this conversation!?😒
Man do what works for your household/relationship and let this topic end, please!
They want 50/50 because their options have run out. FBA Men hold the line stay strong
50/50 or 100 percent on your own 🙄
Some are okay with doing 100% on their own. Others are ok with splitting. Either one is fine. People can choose what they want in their dating life.
Save yourself black man, let brad have them
Exactly
Even brad dont want them 😅
@@Seanda589 EXACTLY 😂😂😂
That's their preference. Would put down their own for them folks but them folks would never put theirs down for them. Yet they don't find that weird.
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Actually have you checked the latest stats? That’s untrue. BW with WM is the number one interracial pairing that’s the most successful of all of the possible interracial pairings.
they want a free ride either way. separate or together
Great video coverage Phillip 💯 Iam 60 years old. I always remember it being that way working together
1:24 You are contradicting yourself or is it a change in your thought because for the long you have been against men that that bring up 50/50
A real relationship should be 100/100. I get tired of these new women talking about how educated they are, and how well they are doing, but they expect a man to pay all the bills and give them a life of leisure. They cannot even be traditional wives in return.
Trad wives get abused and are left on food stamps when y’all drop dead. That education gets her a JOB while you’re worm food
Phil, needs to cover the Hinge nonsense. BW calling out hinge for being bias
It's just their true nature coming to the surface.
If i want to go 50/50,I'll get a roommate.
That selfish woman will end up by herself. She doesn’t want to contribute tell her by.
She might be cool with that. Being single isn’t the end of the world for some folks.
It’s not that 50/50 is a problem. It’s that after a woman pays 50/50, the man does NOTHING else. She has 100% of the house work and 90% of the child rearing. THATS the problem.
Too little, too late...Passport bros are winning 😊
That’s fine. Do what makes you happy.
I approve of this powerful message...Ase'
It's fine if a woman wants to pay 50/50 on bills but I tell the men to make your that you have a job that can cover at least 80-100% of the bills. You are the provider by nature don't fall for that equality trap bs.
That’s called ROOMMATE. You should just get a room mate and not a relationship or a user.
Very good point.
Very good points Phil.
Men are too some of the biggest spenders as well, and if your referring to the small percentage of modern girls out here then speak to them, because the majority of these real women out here are actually doing what they need to.
They aren’t
I'm earlyy appreciate what you do Uncle Phil 🙏🏽
I prefer 100/100.. union of 1 bank account. No individual savings. If I can’t trust you, I can’t live with you.
Don't do that
You can’t foresee the future my brother
…and this is why you see an overwhelming majority of young up and coming black athletes with white girls.
Naw, they don't need a Man, they got it..... 😒
Sometime I wish ppl stop uploading clips of their own opinions
A little freedom!!! You sound like this yt folks.. Everyone should have freedom. WOW!!!
To begin with, a woman with a nose piercing or a lip piercing is not the right type🔔
Stick the 100% women 🦾🦾
Agreed!!! Paying 100% of your own bills.
Yep … just don’t cry about the economy and female homelessness later 🤷🏾♂️
Paying 100% for a used contaminated box doesn’t make sense.
Please do🙏🏽
You old. 😂
I am unfamiliar with the 50/50 financial arrangement. So I cannot relate.
When they say "I can do bad by myself" I simply respond "enjoy"!
Totally agree
50/50 is legit...
This aint the 1950's no more.
2:20 slavemaster shorts 😜
Disgraceful. Something the Arian Brotherhood shows their followers. 🤨
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You hold similar views to the Klan about your men. Pop quiz: where do you think there are more black men currently? Prison or college?
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Oh…we got a BW that can actually do math 👏
Amen
That's the way it's supposed to be. Nobody trying to take care of no grown ass woman
That’s your choice. You don’t have to try to so call take care of another adult. But that’s your prerogative. However, there are men that do not mind financially providing for their household 100%. Those people shouldn’t be shamed for it.
They don’t wanna do this because then they have to be held accountable, meet a standard and listen actively
It's over Phil! Been done a long time ago. Every man look out for yourself and go enjoy your life. Black America had a nice run from the circumstances we came from.
How about 0%?
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2/3rds
I mean really do they have to be told this?
It's until they're somewhere in their late 30s or early 40s when they come to this realization. They can kick rocks.
Women paying 50% of the bills only works out mathematicly if women are getting the same amount in their paypackets as men...DO THE MATHS
Many women make more than the man
Modern women DON'T want 50/50
gents it's better to Leave for Japan and other Asian countries than stay with a Person who will never Love. Respect and be with you for Life
MGTOW REP OF THE PHILIPPINES 🇵🇭😎
PASSPORT BROS. RULE ❤❤❤❤
I noticed this a while ago. 50/50, 75/25, 90/10 is a no go but 100 is alright?
Where she at tho?
Fellas: Never date a woman that hangs out with a bunch of single women, one of them will always try to stay in her head with wrong advice for her relationship with you
2024 Unc ewwthing done went up, so it's 50/50 or keep it pushing 💯 You ain't bout to be no bo$$ bihh on my tab🤣✌🏿drizzle drizzle.
What is the purpose of a woman going to college if not to get a job and pay 50% of the bills.
Exactly 💯
lol they will pay Chris brown $1k plus for a ass grab but don’t wanna go 50/50😂
Can I pay 100 percent of my bills? YUP! Will I bring a modern American woman into my home to pay 50/50? NOPE!