The Link Between Male Violence & Tragedies in the U.S.
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- Опубліковано 5 лют 2025
- ‘Men need to start challenging other men’ - Activist and educator Jackson Katz breaks down how the increase in tragedies across the U.S. and how we define manhood are directly related
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He's the only man willing to speak these facts. It makes me so angry anytime a mass violence event happens and nobody will call out that it's just another example of male pattern violence.
and how would you want to solve this?
@@naikjoy I think there needs to be a revolution in how boys are raised. Boys are more psychologically vulnerable to certain things than girls are and need a stricter environment to help develop discipline and principles with the help of older men who have developed themselves emotionally.
I think I got a notification from here, someone thinking what I said is insulting because boys aren't effeminate? What??
As a woman you should stay away from abusive men and women who cuddle abusive men. For your own safety, even if it's your own family members
I agree, watch out for the red flags and a pattern of narcissistic behaviour, criminal background divorced and kids all over the place
It is nuts how casually we accept male violence
agreed and men won't educate their sons to stop attacking women
maybe hundreds of thousands of years evolution may have something to do with it right ??? be greatful this is the least violent time in human history at least in the west. It also the most depressive and lost cause of the west. Violence isn't a negative nor a positive
@@beaulieuonnp593and women should educate their daughters to not fall in love and mate with bad men
@@beaulieuonnp593You mean how a majority of violent crime victims are men? 🤡
@@wingknight7132men 0 accountability teach your sons to stop being 🅱️!✝️☪️h
Men told me it wasnt cool or masculine to dance or paint or sing or love. They those men grew up to hate themselves and society
When you've lived with privilege, equality feels like oppression.
Is toxic masculinity really about men making a conscious choice to oppress others, or some reaction to a loss of privilege? Or is it something more subtle and insidious that affects both men and women?
Exactly
Slavery was started by ◼️ people.
Wow. Deep!
“Violence is the last refuge of the incompetent.“
-Isaac Asimov
Tell that to the soldiers that stormed the beaches of Normandy...
@UC88nHiKEuhm5CeIDqT89Wnw don’t bother with that ReaPlays, AKA cheap-rhetoric-boy! He simply is pathetic. 🥳
I know, ReaPlays… “rent free“. 😘
@@Hertz2laugh Strawman. WWII happened because every avenue of diplomacy ended up failing.
@@Hertz2laugh how many times do you need us to highlight your indecent and dishonest intellectual pattern for you to learn?
Thanks for the entertainment! Rent free🥰
This quote doesn't resonate with me. A lot of revolutions which we benefit from today happened because of violence. The one that comes to mind is the civil Rights act. Years of peaceful protest, no rights, then the burning of a church black church and the death of some young black daughters instigated riots and a lot of violence and after these acts of violence we have the civil Rights act. Incompetence led to the violence which preceded the signing of the act but it wasn't the people who were incompetent, not their refuge.
To me, one of the biggest tragedies of toxic masculinity is how deeply limiting it is to men, how robbed men can be of creative, social, professional, and personal potential. It's a form of crippling, or hobbling. Very sad.
Yup. And every man should reclaim their own autonomy and say "I DEFINE MYSELF, how I CHOOSE to be is what a MAN IS, your opinion will be considered, but my self dominion is FINAL".
@@waiifii22
*Therapy*
@@waiifii22 But are you defning yourself because you want to or because you are conforming to stereotypes? because while I agree that being a man is different for everyone, when you shut off yourself to criticism it doesnt allow you to grow, you just need to be critical about which criticism is helpful and which is just meant to shame you into "falling in line" with the current toxic standards of masculinity, in essence I agree with your sentiment but thread carefully.
But doesn't toxic femininity reflect on toxic masculinity anyways? People tend to focus on the man part, but neglect, Ignore or don't acknowledge and take seriously how toxic femininity from woman can factor in as well
@@vanessamaldonado5877
*He needs therapy, I know exactly what he meant with his comment* .
That’s my ex’s father in a nutshell. Her father stopped emotionally growing about halfway through high school, so he only feels three things-happy, angry, or numb. Anything else is a loss of control or an expression of weakness
Patriarchy promises men that simply by being “heads of household” they’ll get respect from their wives, children and communities but that’s not a guarantee- and a lot of them become angry and violent when they don’t receive that respect they feel entitled to. There are healthy ways to have your children to look up to you and your wife to value what you say and it’s not through domination like most men are lead to believe.
Dominating your social and family community to assert your agenda is not the same as being a head of household. Being a leader is about caring for and creating a safe space for the individual's under your care, not asserting your paradigm on them and hazing them to conform. Leading should always be a conscious act of care for your community and loved ones, anything else is intrinsically megalomaniacal.
A lot of women feel entitled to lay on their back and have kids, meanwhile they don't enough money to provide for that kid. Women in America are the most coddled individuals I've ever come across in my life.
"Head of household" means primary provider. Yes, if someone is paying all the bills they'll feel "entitled". When it's expected, in this day of "equality", then it ensures resentment. Everyone is violent, physically or otherwise. No gender holds monopoly on it-but Everyone insists gender is a social construct sooooo the entirety of society is guilty and culpable.
I think of it as...
They earn and provide things to the family... Exhausted from work all they need is respect...
That's no harm... We need to improve the jobs and work culture... Stop blaming patriarchy... All the time everything is blamed at men now...
We live in a Majority rules matriarchal democracies
Toxic masculinity hurts men. And it’s hurts the rest of us.
@@idk16577 it is though. I know it triggers you, but it is. Toxic femininity is also a thing. Just because you don’t like it, doesn’t mean it’s not a thing 😂. Just another example of of that anti-intellectual energy seeping out of your pores.
And healthy masculinity keeps the world from falling apart.
@@bosertheropode5443 ah yes. It’s just the men who are making sure the world doesn’t fall apart. 😅
@@laurenwalker1048 Almost exclusevily men operate the dangerous jobs. It's overwhelmingly men that go to the front lines, it's overwhelmingly men that storm burning houses to save the inhabitans. It's overwhelmingly male cops that do the dangerous parts of the jobs. It's mostly men that die at their workplace. It's mostly men that invented the things we use and take for granted today. Women play an important role aswell, but it's not them that are under constant fire from the Left. Without masculine men, human civilisation would have collapsed in the stone age.
@@bosertheropode5443
*The right and the left are in bed with each other; sorry to break it to you* .
The “link” is literally a straight line. Men are committing all these atrocities
Yes, and it's incredibly important to have this conversation as a society about why are we teaching our boys that this is what they have to conform to to be a man, and start teaching that emotional intelligence is the greatest skillset to grow their capacity as a person and as a "Man"
@Thornboy🥀 the most marginalized and systemically oppressed group who are given the least support are the most emotionally reactive to their pain. Not an excuse or justification, just an equation.
@Thornboy🥀 I saw your recent comments. You don't actually care about the welfare of black people. You are just racist.
@@waiifii22same applies for women right?
@@waiifii22Men are the most oppressed group? Hahaha not women who were and still are in a lot of places considered property of men?
This is the reason why countries in europe focusing on work life balance and make people less stress.
Couldn’t have said better myself
Not the only reason for male violence and toxic masculinity but it could be one of them. Assuming these men take the same responsibilities in the household, which they don't in most cases but nice try
European is the one's that started all this madness. I'm just saying only group of people that have took any and everything by force. Too the point they still til this day say they found American.when in fact we all know the Indians was here already
I'm a female, but my dad wanted a boy, and this was Texas, so I was raised in the same John Wayne School Of Bullsh*t that a lot of men were. It's a horrifying code of conduct, and does violence to the heart of anyone raised this way.
Bruh are you serious??? Let me guess your dad made you work hard & that's the violence you're talking about huh?
@@mindlessmonk3322 let me guess, you’re in denial about the very concept of toxic masculinity and that’s why you created this invalidating narrative to deflect?
@@Alex_W99 anything can be toxic with a high enough dose, including femininity.
@@mindlessmonk3322 Ah yes, even more deflection.
@@Alex_W99 if my last statement was deflection then that means you completely misunderstand what that statement means. Let me break it down Barney style too much of anything is toxic including your feminist mentality.
Male violence in all the world
Agree 100%! Especially, since I have been subjected to this behavior, as a woman, basically, since early childhood. I have been molested, beaten, literally stabbed in the back and all of that has only seemed to get worse in my lifetime. Not only for me, who thankfully has survived, even though I have PTSD and other emotional and psychological issues, I am one of the luckier people. I am 57 years old and I have watched our country turn into an even more hateful place. May all of those who didn't survive the abuse RIP....
@KC Grey I hope so, too. I have grandchildren that are from about your age to 21 and they're all 3 young women. Luckily, their current boyfriends are not the abuser types. At least not to my knowledge. I consider them as my grandsons. If they EVER hurt one of my girls, they know they will feel my WRATH. They love and respect me, so I think I am not going to have to worry. Good luck to you and I hope you're future is full of love and happiness. Take care and definitely, stay safe. If you ever get a gut feeling that something is wrong, get as far away from the situation as possible. ALWAYS follow your intuition. It's the most powerful thing in your soul and it is telling you something, whether it is a good thing or a not so good thing. Peace and love sent your way. ✌️💜👍
@@Mystic-WTF
If they ever hurt your girls
You
Cut. Them. Down.
Stay safe
@@pugasaurusrex8253 Thank you for your input. Don't worry, I will take them down (I didn't back down then, either), if such a situation should ever come to pass, again. Unfortunately, the way this country is going, it's only a matter of time.... Sad, but true. No one is safe....
Many of the problems than men blame women for are actually caused my other men, their laws, their viewpoints & THEIR interpretation of "manhood"!!
Females have larger EGOS than men have. Accept that as soon as you can.
Toxic femininity in Mothers.
Perpetuates Toxic behavior in male children AND female children.... I'd say they learn relational aggression more than half of it from their mothers at home
Facts
Mr. Jackson Katz you are the message that must travel all around the world. Thank you so much for your bravery.
*The w♀️man who gave birth to this man and helped raised this man, thank you; if more men were like this man than "MAYBE" there's still hope for the male specimen* .
@KC Grey women like her have been hurt badly by men(most likely emotionally) so they end up bitter and resentful towards all men
Hopefully they never have sons
@@chideraalexanderdex547 hopefully you dont shoot up a school incel.
@@chideraalexanderdex547
Some already have
Poor kids
A culture of violence has stained humanity for millenia. I can't imagine violent and abusive acts stopping, however, humanity should always work to reduce the occurrence whenever and wherever possible.
Banned religion and church. It's just a pyramid scheme to molest poor kids
Agreed but we can't infringe on the bill of rights. If you want to suspend the bill of rights I can take care of many problems, including things like liberals free speech and women voting.
@@semosancus5506
Bill of rights didn't say anything about dumb hicks owning machineguns and assault rifles
Being childfree by choice, I am not going to be producing toxic men
“Aggrieved entitlement”-bingo! Two words to sum it up.
Rights don't exist in nature.
And are ones do all work.
If anything men daught we don't deserve rights. But eventually reach 🤬 it
THIS MAN & WHAT HE IS SAYING IS SPOT ON ! ❤️☮️🙏
Native Americans were simply out bred and replaced do you really believe the poster child for Hating witches used the witch craft of germ warfare. Even if they would. they'd wear those beaked mask when handling those cursed blankets to inhale those small pox vapors themselves
Some of the most emotionally stable and self secure men I know are those with backgrounds as combat veterans or years in martial arts training. They know the kind of pain they are capable of causing because they have experienced themselves in some form or another. For those that continue with martial arts, it is a way to get out frustrations and rage in an environment with rules and where you are facing a peer. It's not about dominance of others through violence. It's about self control and channeling their violent impulses. So if you're reading this and don't know how to help a friend out or maybe your child, take them to a reputable martial arts studio. They will make friends and have multiple real life role models on what a man can be while accepting the side of him that drives him to anger and violence. Because the goal should not be to remove violence, but to control it within yourself. After all, there are dangers in this world and times when controlled violence is needed to prevent further harm.
So everybody should be kungfu fighting?
Man, what a bunch of tough guy worship horse dung. Seriously man, you are so captured by unhelpful ideas you just don't realise how stupid it all comes across. 'Violent impulses'..? That is just being an aplogist for male violence. Men can be kind, gentle, artistic, creative, nurturing and without a violent impulse in our entire being, we're just not socialised that way due to bs ideas that we need to be soldiers or go break boards while dressed in pyjamas to 'get the anger out'. I mean, sending a boy to martial arts to temper "the side of him that drives him to anger and violence"..? Even Anakin Skywalker would think that was ridiculous
@@Ravi0207 As fast as lightening...
Every cycle starts and stops with you, generations of hate and anger can stop when one person says 'No!'. If enough people do it it bring change
"emotionally illiterate": TRUTH!
I grew up in Europe. There are guns in Switzerland and in Germany, guns in Turkey, guns in many countries in the middle east.
None of these countries has a mass shooting rate like the US. Also there are plenty of countries in the middle east, (and countries like Russia for example) where it would make more sense to talk about "toxic" masculinity" given the gender norm enforcement, but they don't have school shootings.
It's access to guns.
We can absolutely talk about the violence committed by men, but the actual conversation America needs to have has been the same since Colombine: why will a nation rise up and drive out the English but not drive out the gun lobbyists? Why are the United States not united in making it harder to get access to guns? It's been obvious to the rest of the world since the 90s. Where is swatting a problem? The US. Gender based violence may be a motive, but if there wasn't such easy access to guns it's pretty obvious there'd be less opportunity.
That will not happen and frankly you do not understand the US to see why it wouldn’t happen.
Just to point out. You debunk your own argument in your opening. If all these countries have fire arms, but we see a disproportionate level of fire arm violence then we can surmise that the access to fire arms is not the issue.
This is basic logic.
If you want to make this argument you can not point to countries that have access to guns but not the violence.
You need to lay a foundation that americans have guns and that is the cuase.
Noticed this for a long time now.
This guy really said it all 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
We talk about violence without talking about ◼️ people. And what privilege.
And the genocide was just Natives being out bred and replaced.
You really believe the poster child for Hating witches used what was considered with Craft.
Even if they would they'd were those beaked mask when handling those cursed blankets. So they wouldn't inhale those small pox vapors
Ok, so white man bad very bad.
Cool, about as insightful an analysis as i’d expect coming from a ”gender expert”.
YES!!! Finally a man stating this!! So many boys and men have this negative mentality. We need more men to help each other and accept the help. Because ego can also make it impossible to help the other person.
Females have larger EGOS than men have. Accept that as soon as you can.
Toxic femininity in Mothers.
Perpetuates Toxic behavior in male children AND female children.... I'd they learn relational aggression more than half of it from their mothers at home
@jan Physical Violence isn't the only form of Violence. Emotional violence is a thing amongst women in much higher rates than men
@jan Just because someone Report crimes against themselves doesn't make them innocent. Amber Heard reported against Johnny Depp, as to defame him.
And in most cases the conviction rate is less than 5%. Meaning these are False cases that are been reported in the heat of anger, or as to take Revenge from men.
@jan Reporting false FIRs is a part of the emotional violence.
Why are they talking about this like it’s an American thing or white male thing?
Males period, of all cultures are more aggressive. Our value and tends to come by how well we do. That’s pretty much the same with males of all species.
Because this is in the context of the issues we currently have in the United States not in China or Africa.
@@banehelsing7541
But framing the issue incorrectly won’t help solve the issue.
If a doctor is trying to get rid of a bacterial infection, are they just going to focus on the presence of it in Latvian men that are 6’4 and are the age of 52?
No.
The root issue isn’t being American nor is it being white. You take all that away and you will STILL see the same issue.
How is that helpful?
@@TinkerTailorSoldier1 Any person, especially living within the United States, knows what he’s talking about… it’s clear as day, he’s said nothing specifically about “Americans” or “whiteness”.. and not only that, there’s separate issues regarding American Nationalism + White Supremacy in this country which he didn’t even touch on that contributes to the problem…
@@banehelsing7541
He said this behavior is “normative”.
He was talking about American culture and then he absolutely did bring up race, watch the video again.
So I will ask, once more. Since stripping away those criteria would still leave the same issues, what good is it to present it in a manner?
America is literally one of the youngest countries. It’s culture is a mash up of many. The behaviors he is talking about existed long before America even existed.
Do you not agree with that?
@@TinkerTailorSoldier1 At this point you’re missing the point, looking at semantics and nit-picking minor details while disregarding the main problem at hand… at such point there isn’t anything more I can add because you’re mind is fixated on minute details that are trivial in comparison to the very serious issues we have in the United States in regards to violence and men…
P.S. I’d add, in other words, that it seems to me that you’re more interested in re-directing the stigma and/or the culture of American white straight men in particular who are stereotyped as “violent” and “angry”… this is a whole separate issue altogether…
I’m happy I’m not a male 😂 even tho I’m extremely oppressed because I’m a girl from the Middle East
I am disappointed of being male.
I'm happy to be a male, no periods or wasting loads of money on fake hair & makeup. 😆
@@wiseguy240Winston but males die early!
@@wiseguy240Winston periods aren't too bad, got us out of PE
@@beaulieuonnp593 and that's an abuse of woman power, a power completely unchecked, unrecognized as unacceptable and unregulated by woman, 80% of Western Men regulate their power, woman do not and it causes overall more tragedy on the men's side of the camp, mental trauma, asset removal by manipulation, and suicide because it affects 100% of us everyday with most interactions of women.The power dynamics are not equal, woman have more power, and you know it, but are unwilling to do anything about it. We did somethingn about our power. The only thing you can do is point a finger at the 20% of men, when the 80% of men take your abuse full time everywhere from 100% of woman.
I remember in HS watching a video called "Tough Guise". It made so much sense.
This is a interesting point
No it isn't. It's the same stupid point over and over - whites males bad
It's sexist and racism rolled into one package. And then they wonder why young men are frustrated with society.
@@Hertz2laugh
The point is that males usually the ones that commit violent acts as that's due to social stigma and norms that are spread throughout culture. This video is just bringing attention to it. Not everything is about color
@@Hertz2laugh
I think young men are frustrated for a multitude of reason
Empowering video! Thank you!
Respect for honest men I love you men but only those. Kisses to you I love you
He's right and wrong. It's both men and boys. Not just men.
Violence is the history of mankind.
But does it have to be our future? That's the real question.
Except that we are a humankind not a « man » kind
@@halihali3135 when the word man triggers you lol
@@waiifii22
Yes
He speaks about "our culture" having deep roots in violence as though it is somehow unique to "our culture". The history of humanity has deep roots in violence. While most of us are generally civil people and we are mostly more civil than animals there still have always been pockets of violence and evil towards other humans. I'm not trying to excuse the violent events that took place in America, but slavery and genocide are not uniquely American nor are they uniquely European or uniquely Caucasian.
The idea that we are more civil than animals is just an outright lie. We don’t have the heart to live like animals so we created civilizations to make things easier. We’re not at all more moral than animals. We’re just weaker.
Men who don't want to fight are ridiculed and belittled so even though some men don't want to fight, there is this overwhelming peer and social pressure to "defend your manhood" or whatever. It's actually braver and more courageous to just walk away from an unnecessary fight if given the choice.
by other men who are contributing to the problem
Violence and predation are inherent to our very being. Men cannot EVER change. Just accept it.
As a childfree woman, I have accepted that males are predatory and violent. Not having sons is great, nipped at source. Many women have had ENOUGH of feeling like they will be attacked and raped and sometimes killed just walking home from the bus or along a footpath. Many of us are sick of males being part of the problem and not the solution. I give up with males. ... I don't want to have any sons whatsoever
@@beaulieuonnp593 Correct. Violence defines us and we can never be better people as men.
whenever people talk about the dark side of masculinity, they're talking about cis-men. I have never seen trans-men represented as angry or violent. wonder what that's about.
Because trans-men aren't men. There not included.
Lmao bs they absolutely do get angry and its been on multiple videos of them being violent and aggressive
This isn't true. Humans get angry, all of them, and some of them become violent. Trans folk are fsr FAR more likely to be attacked than to attack, but never underestimate the attack potential of any human.
@@GavinCooper05 You mean trans-women, not trans-men. They were right.
@@udb1987 okay so that just proves trans women are more like men because they show violence. And trans man are more like women because they don't. Can't argue with that. Thanks for clarifying
Thank you.👏👏👏
But every culture have deep roots in violence.. 😅😅
Men aren't being properly taught to how to safely vent anger. Violence isn't good but if someone is bullying you, instead of holding it in and bottling it, tell them to back off if there don't "punch them in the face" and do that every time they come at you. But we are taught not to do that. Tell a bum a$$ teacher that does nothing then bullying may get worse. So punching them and maybe fight one time vs years of abuse. Take your pick.
Females have larger EGOS than men have. Accept that as soon as you can.
Toxic femininity in Mothers.
Perpetuates Toxic behavior in male children AND female children.... I'd they learn relational aggression more than half of it from their mothers at home
Because women get offended by mysogyny aka Truth
Oh yes you punch them back and the punch kills them.. so the man ends up in jail anyway. Men need to be intelligent and 'attack the bully' in a legal more clever way.
There’s a great documentary about these concepts called Tough Guise.
Katz was a writer for that
If this masculine culture has always been the way the US is, why are these school shootings only happening in the last few decades?
This is part of weakening the patriarchy. Emotionally underdeveloped men feel robbed of the entitlement the patriarchy promised them that is disappearing as women ASK FOR bodily autonomy, fair pay, etc while creating boundaries of NO that weren't always accessible to women, especially women of color.
@Thornboy🥀 It's conservatives that are suffocating freedom, enforcing their patriarchal ideals by politicizing personal choices like what clothes someone wants to wear or what they want to do with their bodies. Toxic masculinity is stood up by those that invented it, but it's not compulsory to buy into that bs for the sake of being on one side of the aisle. That's just petty.
@Thornboy🥀 liberal progression is the cure, not the cause, of men not being valued for more than they produce financially and in paternity.
So true...and well put.
True. The so-called 'manliness' is toxic.
We have a lot of parents, but not enough parenting.
We have too many single mom's...
Yep. That's it. Both of you have solved a difficult, complex societal problem with your simplistic analysis and pop-psychology solution that, by the way, isn't borne out by ANY modern research, though I'd be surpised if "research" did anything to influence your opinions in the first place. 🤦🏻♀️
Good stuff
👏👏👏 well said
Did Genghis Khan suffer from toxic masculinity?
?
Huh? Ah yes he was a severe Misogynistic sociopath.
@@jiovanna4136 but I thought this was a cis while male in America issue? Domination and subjugation of others is literally the history of the human race. This is nothing new as this guy seems to suggest.
A lot of these men are also in dire need of a therapy in order to deal with past traumas, good video nonetheless!
So the system is systemically corrupt yet you seek therapy from some certified by that very system.
So many need to watch this video and yet so many won't 😔
men arent entitled to womens attention.., they arent mens shrinks. women arent entitled to mens protection, we arent here to police other men. Just love yourselves first. If you see a dangerous situation run away, save yourself first. Love yourself first.
As a beta, the only time I ever hard to defend/fight for myself was when dealing with an alpha male. Not all men reach for violence unless necessary so we should be careful classifying all men in one bucket. But it is unfortunate it is such an ingrained part of many of us and we often fail to see how easy it is to use as a tool of control against other men and women. We also need some level of men willing to fight in wars and protect our country so while we may approach men to try to teach them violence is not the answer 99% of the time, in some cases fighting is necessary to protect yourself and others from a violent person or person(s) when there is no other choice as all other choices have been exhausted.
What is beta? Sir are you well? There is no alpha and nobody is above you. Men make everything so complicated with their red pill, purple pill cheese bacon pill alpha beta measuring banana in the shower BS. This dude acted violent not because he is alpha but because he is incompetent/sick.
A warrior is someone CAPABLE of great violence who keeps it on a VERY tight leash. I think we all understand the necessity for defense. The problem is the lack of self control and proper application. Boys these days take pride in having no self control or discipline and running around acting like wild animals but that’s not what a warrior is. You control the anger. Not the other way around. The second a man doesn’t have control over himself he automatically becomes more of a liability than an asset. Especially to women and children.
It is usually males who start wars. Best thing is to be childfree by choice and not have sons.
We talked about violence with talking about b◼️
I like that guys mindset
His mindset was that young white kids are angry and violent because they were raised as Americans and the solution is to raise them differently by emphasizing emotions.
It's nonsense.
WHY?
Aragon from LOTR is a great Model for Men
I see in your eyes the same fear that would take the heart of me
But....... He's not a man.
@@ninefingerjack he's a man plus.
@@asheronthedruid I think according to lore they are offshoots and far enough back that they are not of "man" anymore
@@ninefingerjack I thought he was born a man then gifted more as he aged.
So, without saying it. He seems to agree that we need good fathers in the household.
That's what you got out of it? I heard a combination of, we need to parent boys in a way that allows them to honor their feelings, and if you were raised with traditional masculinity then it's your job now to look within and weed out the toxic parts.
@@NinjaGrrrl7734 Traditional masculinity is called chivalry, dumbass!
@@NinjaGrrrl7734 just because you belive something is toxic does not mean it is. Competitive men is what have made this world. But violence is not just a male thing women can be just as violent and abusive but we don't talk about that. A prime example is the Amber and jd trial
Yes we need fathers or father figures around who are emotionally literate and stable.
And men are the majority of victims of violent crime. Bet you didn't show that huh.
The chickens are coming home to roost because the foundation was ignored.
Let's qualify that with white if we are talking solely about the US. Not saying others aren't violent but as far as the genesis of white hegemony here
I agree
Real chilli has beans
We must find a final solution to the white male question.
The crazy part is that nobody knows if you're joking.
@@darthvader5532 A black street is likely to be poorer due to discrimination.
@@tastiestduck122 discrimination from who?
@@tastiestduck122 Discrimination = Democratic Plantation?
The only real final solution is love. Just ask Hitler, trying to exterminate all his "enemies" didn't achieve that outcome, there will never be an end to "the other" but hatred of the other we can each choose to end immediately.
Yes.
The world wouldn't be different if a woman had power
M'en s rage
Not related at all… lol 😂
Men are peter files
Especially White men? HAHAHAHAHA. Spend a single day in the hood.
What a clown comment.
Different types of violence for different reasons. Haven't seen too many groups of armed black individuals marching around trying to show the white man who owns 'Murica.
Hasn't been hood individuals doing these recent mass shootings.
@@Bigsauce7593 They keep it in the hood!
@@mbogucki1... are you serious?
All races and genders have grievances, and many act out though it’s wrong.
The purge of comments in this section is rich coming from a company that is essentially profiting off of free speech
Beau of the Fifth Column talked about this months ago
King attitude
No.
True
Duh.
Bros, you can be tough.
Just go smell some flowers, guys
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Your utilization of passive aggression makes you less manly. So please excuse me while I ignore you for the rest of my life
This guy just sounds like he always comes back to blame white man
So this guy looks like he makes a decent living in "this country"...I mean, he's in his library, which I presume is in a nice sized home....🤷🏻♂️.....is "gender expert" his full-time??
Violence is bad. I hope the guy who invented it gets fired or something. It’s like bro, you could have invented a flying car or something but instead you create violence? Not cool, man, not cool. 👎🏼
Im sorry for being male 🙏
Don’t, be just be a decent bloke. Be kind, emphatic and considerate to others.
Ok, so you shouldn't be "sorry" for being male because it isn't a choice you can make. Additionally, this video isn't saying that men are bad, but rather acts of violence are, and since acts of violence are mainly committed by men, this video tried to explain the reason for that.
Castration is your penance
You don't have to be sorry. Just don't contribute to the violence and own your emotions.
- A fellow male
Cut it off! Boom your a girl..............do it you don't use it anyway
I got a good laugh when this dude said white men have a sense of entitlement lol if they do, it’s because they learned it from the left
FACTS- Especially in the Black Community
Yeah, there’s a lot of entitlement in the black community. SMH - you actually think this
Sorry this just loses me. It's definitely a problem among American men, but the talking points here all seem wide of the mark. At some point most major civilisations have had slavery, it was never a purely European invention, unfortunately it's ancient (look at Egypt). Genocide certainly has happened many times in many nations, just read history. The real question is why does America have its problems. Probably because America has no social safety net so stakes are higher, and also has massive access to guns so it's easy to get them. Not to mention that US citizens are scammed by their government and healthcare. It's the richest nation on earth but if you don't earn above a certain amount it is like living in a much poorer country. High stakes, no social net, easier to buy guns than alcohol...and a government that has sent a continuous message of apathy to gun violence in schools for 30 years.
That's what's up
Did he act as a consultant for that Gillette commercial?
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Dear SIR I believe in Jesus name but I seem lots of un justify rules on me
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Finally something I agree with liberals and conservatives can get behind this. You deserve nothing in life you have to work for everything you get. And nobody can do it on their own. Everyone receives help in their climb to the top not even the top billionaires can say they built their empires on their own but with the help of the people they employ and the people they learn from. You are accountable for everything you do people that step on other people to get ahead don't stay ahead for long they run out of people willing to help them.
Oh yeah, preemptive blaming of something instead of tackling mental illness & the political climate suffocating kids especially at schools.
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Men are frustrated that gender experts don't believe in the Declaration of Independence, no less the Constitution. We REALLY need you gender experts to get on board!! 🙏🇺🇸
Pov you are spreading false news
Oh god… is this real life