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  • @PorkSzoda
    @PorkSzoda 6 років тому +11255

    When you wanna listen to summertime sadness but it’s October

    • @bulakabarquezwilliams6024
      @bulakabarquezwilliams6024 5 років тому +40

      Rip.

    • @darseasides
      @darseasides 5 років тому +35

      WholesomeBoyo u can listen to it now!

    • @bulakabarquezwilliams6024
      @bulakabarquezwilliams6024 5 років тому +62

      @@cantsalvagethis Mhm! You know the vine where the chicken's wearing a red dress? That's the song ^^. I suggest it.

    • @sadydarling
      @sadydarling 5 років тому +7

      @@bulakabarquezwilliams6024 I finally know the name :0

    • @imthetrashman8620
      @imthetrashman8620 5 років тому +7

      Golden memories of reality
      Thank you for telling me the name of the song I've been searching for it for forever-

  • @catcactus1234
    @catcactus1234 4 роки тому +11811

    I don’t actually think this is about the literal definition of “ghosting.”
    The entire song is ironic. The singer talks about “ghosting” in their friends/lover’s house, watching them sleep, etc. which is what people would typically avoid doing if they were actually ghosting someone. It’s supposed to represent how they actually care a lot about the person they’re “ghosting.”
    He leaves metaphorical “sheets” on their bed to signal that he doesn’t want to avoid them anymore. He wants them to notice him so he can continue on with their relationship and “come out of hiding.”
    But it turns out that the person is fine with the singer disappearing from their life, revealing that their relationship never meant anything to begin with. The “you don’t need tricks, you don’t need treats, and you don’t need me” shows that even though the person has tried everything to get their attention, he realizes that he never meant anything to them in the first place.
    It’s kind of a sad song about realizing that your friend/lover never actually liked you the way you liked them.

    • @scissors7996
      @scissors7996 4 роки тому +718

      This is my favourite interpretation of the song, and I've read a lot.
      "I remember the days when I'd make you so afraid", I think the other person initially cared and was worried about the "ghost", but because they did it so many times they got tired of their "tricks". It can be exhausting trying to maintain a relationship with someone who doesn't seem to show interest.
      This is the reason I love this song, you can relate to either the narrator or the person they're ghosting. There is no good/bad guy in the song. Just two people who's relationship didn't work out.

    • @crowbrainzz
      @crowbrainzz 4 роки тому +127

      lol i am now taking this as canon (yes even though its a song)

    • @sewerfern
      @sewerfern 4 роки тому +75

      Oh jesus i love this comment so much

    • @cadethebabe3222
      @cadethebabe3222 4 роки тому +153

      (This is not me disagreeing, this is me adding my own opinion)
      My idea of what this song meant was always that it was someone with depression. When it says "I've been ghosting along", it always seemed to me that that was like someone going through the world not feeling anything, and the whole "you'll know I'm out of hiding" was them coming to the person they're singing to (i always thought someone that the person is dating that always tried to help) and saying that they will try to talk to them and get better. The chorus explains itself, "And you don't need me". A lot of people with depression don't feel needed and like everyone could carry on without them

    • @lookatmyright
      @lookatmyright 4 роки тому +47

      Fuck... Now I'm sad

  • @planetarydreams
    @planetarydreams 6 років тому +8278

    Ghosting:
    "When a person cuts off all communication with their friends or the person they're dating, with zero warning or notice before hand. You'll mostly see them avoiding friend's phone calls, social media, and avoiding them in public."
    Wow big mood

    • @Buggy_Ari
      @Buggy_Ari 6 років тому +21

      Tom Ridgewell Me omg

    • @ungifted5056
      @ungifted5056 6 років тому +112

      Shoot I ghost a lot-

    • @Rowan-kh8qw
      @Rowan-kh8qw 6 років тому +95

      Oops I've been ghosting for months

    • @dreispulentraum
      @dreispulentraum 6 років тому +47

      we all ghosting
      even the son of adam and eva playing overwatch as DR Junkenstein

    • @jasondean1077
      @jasondean1077 6 років тому +22

      is that me constanly

  • @beyondw01f3
    @beyondw01f3 6 років тому +2017

    music + lyrics = Nice 👌
    music + lyrics + eye candy = VERY NICE 👌

    • @beyondw01f3
      @beyondw01f3 6 років тому +2

      by the way, you think you can do one for Burning Pile?

    • @madameminuit7283
      @madameminuit7283 6 років тому +4

      What is eye candy ?

    • @kaiacub
      @kaiacub 6 років тому +20

      Madame Minuit eye candy is anything pleasant to look at "candy for the eyes"

    • @balindasamples6598
      @balindasamples6598 6 років тому +2

      Noice m8

    • @lunapierce4949
      @lunapierce4949 6 років тому

      oh god all i hear is that strange british dude from that vine of him drinking something 😭

  • @peachfuzz00
    @peachfuzz00 5 років тому +681

    Love this song but can't help but get teary-eyed when I listen to it. Reminds me of someone close to me who killed herself a few years ago. She was only 15 when she hung herself and it makes me think of the mindset she must've been living in before she took her life..

    • @trashflife1867
      @trashflife1867 5 років тому +43

      God bless your soul for being so strong 💚

    • @ajeeyamalik2355
      @ajeeyamalik2355 4 роки тому +40

      Hope she has found her peace and staying strong is all u can do for now

    • @silly_.rabbit2
      @silly_.rabbit2 3 роки тому +8

      I'm sorry for your loss. And I'm sorry for her.

    • @mossripalextechno6450
      @mossripalextechno6450 3 роки тому +6

      I had a friend do the same thing. We were both 13 at the time. It sucks when u look back cause you start thinking about all you could have done to help. Hope u are OK and try not be too hard on yourself. 💜❤️💚

  • @deactivated37
    @deactivated37 6 років тому +2937

    Ghosting is when you avoid people because you think they don't like you or vise versa

    • @sealine22aj
      @sealine22aj 6 років тому +177

      Actually
      Ghosting:
      "When a person cuts off all communication with their friends or the person they're dating, with zero warning or notice before hand. You'll mostly see them avoiding friend's phone calls, social media, and avoiding them in public."

    • @deactivated37
      @deactivated37 6 років тому +20

      Emma LeClair
      I know that's what I said

    • @jasondean1077
      @jasondean1077 6 років тому +60

      Sir Samuel
      not really what you said but ok

    • @snufkin13823
      @snufkin13823 6 років тому +3

      oml I didn't expect to see u here!! hi XD

    • @deactivated37
      @deactivated37 6 років тому +17

      jason dean
      It is just with different wording but go off I guess

  • @denthepin2522
    @denthepin2522 5 років тому +1087

    I've been ghosting my friends.
    I dont mean to seem rude, like I don't like them or want to see them. I just think that they don't need me. They're doing just fine without me anyway. I'm better alone. I always make my friends late for class, I always need rides home, I always need to go to their houses when my parents start fighting, and I could go on. Im basically just an walking inconvenience. I make everyone feel awkward and uncomfortable with who I am, so maybe I should just stay alone.

    • @spaceglitter3033
      @spaceglitter3033 5 років тому +89

      denthepin Good friends won't mind that stuff, except for maybe being late to class but idk your friends. Don't leave them thinking you don't want to be close to them if you do.

    • @Nami-fv7bd
      @Nami-fv7bd 4 роки тому +49

      Maybe you could try explaining them how you feel and why you ghost sometimes. It have work for me with my bff

    • @hekkaUnderthefalsesky
      @hekkaUnderthefalsesky 4 роки тому +31

      I feel that way too i feel it strongly and its hard to shake off and feel good abt myself

    • @euniqu
      @euniqu 4 роки тому +14

      This comment, this, this is the exact situatuon im in through rn.

    • @junewilson5471
      @junewilson5471 4 роки тому +8

      dear god this describes it perfectly

  • @dart8230
    @dart8230 6 років тому +1233

    But I do need Halloween. 👻

    • @justapotato1508
      @justapotato1508 5 років тому +5

      シsimplyspaceシ I agree with you. It is now winter where frosty Bois (snowmen) appear everywhere

    • @cotton.candycurls2390
      @cotton.candycurls2390 5 років тому +4

      OMG Yes!

    • @jaaack3747
      @jaaack3747 5 років тому +4

      I prefer halloween most than christmans idk how to write it, my english it's soo bad jdksjdj

    • @malaizze
      @malaizze 4 роки тому

      @Vyldrayphe well you have giant spooky spiders all year

    • @sofiai.5257
      @sofiai.5257 3 роки тому +3

      2020 needs Halloween too but here we are

  • @annaproulx5242
    @annaproulx5242 3 роки тому +34

    This song makes me think not of ghosting like ignoring on social media, but of turning yourself into a ghost. Being a shell of yourself, floating around, barely existing

  • @Littleredrosecross
    @Littleredrosecross 6 років тому +309

    Ghosting seems like it can be for a ton of reasons. I haven't really seen any who do it for the same reason I do... I feel like a burden, and a lot of times I leave people so they'll be unburdened. People... don't react well when I've explained it in the past, so Eventually(and inevitably) I lost just about everyone. Thought I was angery I think, Left to prove they didn't need me.
    Funny how life hurts, huh? At least there's a dozen less people haunted, though. all's well that ends well.

    • @monsedorantes3618
      @monsedorantes3618 4 роки тому +4

      My ex-boyfriend did this a lot he just left randomly and then the last time he left he never came back and when he did he said he felt as if he was a burden to m, I still can’t understand why he would see himself as a burden when I gave him love and attention for three years like I just. It doesn’t make sense but whatever he seems better now.

    • @miastevans7392
      @miastevans7392 3 роки тому +2

      i think i just lost my two best friends cause i did this. i might be able to fix it but idk. i wish they knew how much i loved them, and how bad it hurt to feel like i was losing them. i think i might have hurt my friend a lot tho, and that really sucks

  • @feralhog6350
    @feralhog6350 5 років тому +115

    Why is this me when someone slightly changed the way they act towards me

    • @hanna9908
      @hanna9908  5 років тому +15

      danganronpa trash same

    • @huhfloq2915
      @huhfloq2915 3 роки тому

      Ok feral hog this music sux

  • @plebd9772
    @plebd9772 3 роки тому +16

    this is how i see this song personally with what ive been through:
    ive always been left out of stuff even with my closest friends so like "ghosting along" is like when i would stand behind all my friends on the sidewalk because their was no room for me or they were uninterested in what i had to say. i often would be left in the corner of the room while they hung out so like "ghost in your house" is very fitting with that. "i have decided to leave your house and home unhaunted" is when i acted on my anger and said hurtful stuff and leaving the group. even when i was right their no one ever noticed me so i truly felt like a ghost. ive also never had any friends so as soon as i got them, i clinged on as much as i could. now im alone again with my bestfriend and i like it this way tbh.

  • @dryboneskirby
    @dryboneskirby 6 років тому +27

    oof this hits too close to home. I miss an old friend, wherever she is. I hope you’re ok. You’re probably happier without me in your life.

  • @stawbylemom
    @stawbylemom 4 роки тому +181

    no mom this isn’t country it’s mother mother

  • @Insomnia_3am
    @Insomnia_3am Рік тому +6

    Why do I feel like this is someone watching the person they love, and when it says "I'll leave them folded neat and tidy" is them admitting that they love them. But the person doesn't love them back showing the "You don't need treats, you don't need tricks, and you don't need me".

  • @Ur_goblin_dad
    @Ur_goblin_dad 4 роки тому +311

    Hey, where are my fellow lesbians who are listening to this because a straight girl will never like you the way you like her ;w;

  • @elanapascual3615
    @elanapascual3615 3 роки тому +13

    To me, I think the song is about a guy with anger issues or someone who makes the other person sad or afraid, he doesn't realize that he hurt the person, he thinks the other person needs them, until they finally see how that person looks at them. He apologizes and says he'll be kinder, but they hate him already. So he leaves her/ his home "unhaunted"
    :')

  • @kody4702
    @kody4702 3 роки тому +15

    Why is this such a comfort song? I love it and it makes me feel to good 🥰

  • @glamorouslynothere4785
    @glamorouslynothere4785 2 роки тому +3

    Them: makes an entire song
    Me: the intro part with all the funky stuff is the most best

    • @alictyne
      @alictyne 2 роки тому +2

      Nah the entire song is the best 😍
      But if you like the funky stuff at the beginning you’d probably like lemon demon

  • @mellohi2766
    @mellohi2766 3 роки тому +3

    "You don't need no Halloween"
    2020: fuck u rite

  • @zealouslyCantankerous
    @zealouslyCantankerous 4 роки тому +10

    This may seem weird but the instrumental of the song, especially at the beginning reminds me of the summertime and just feeling loved or loving someone, but the lyrics despite being so depressing make me like I have some sort of helpless infatuation with someone and they oddly like me back and what's truly off about this all is how I've felt all of this all at once
    It's that feeling you get when the school year begins but it still feels like summer and I love it dearly

  • @dekuenthusiast9752
    @dekuenthusiast9752 3 роки тому +11

    **swag is temporary pain is forever**

  • @EmmaLow-bs6pc
    @EmmaLow-bs6pc 3 роки тому +4

    This is now one of my new fave comfort song

  • @PolyglotJ
    @PolyglotJ 5 років тому +17

    I had a friend who used to ghost me. I'm glad we're no longer friends. It ain't easy, but if you're in this same situation, let me tell you that you deserve better

    • @Grace-uv2wi
      @Grace-uv2wi 3 роки тому +5

      Hey, I just wanted to say that if you read the comments, you will notice that neither side of this situation is ideal. Most people who ghost, including me, aren’t doing it because we don’t care about other people, it runs much deeper than that.

  • @butter-knife500
    @butter-knife500 5 років тому +26

    I had a best friend who faked self harm, and they aren't my friend anymore.
    This song reminds me about them for some reason..

    • @calyptelaironia6034
      @calyptelaironia6034 5 років тому +5

      @jackmichael285
      they say that they self harm but they dont actually.. they dont need to show you the scars

  • @andreah9587
    @andreah9587 4 роки тому +7

    I tend to ghost my friends when I’m depressed. I feel like they don’t need me to burden them with my problems. It’s hard to open up, so I just stay quiet. But I always come back once the depression wanes. I really feel every lyric of this song tbh. Not to mention it’s a fricking *bop*. Mother Mother is a band that knows how to speak to my heart.

  • @Tetepadilhaaa
    @Tetepadilhaaa 3 роки тому +3

    big mood.

  • @starlett3685
    @starlett3685 2 роки тому +2

    I added this to my playlist "songs to cry to" ☺

  • @Sss-mb5qs
    @Sss-mb5qs 3 роки тому +6

    This is so beautiful
    Gives me a strange energy
    Also I wanna cry and scream

  • @pocket_gremlin5324
    @pocket_gremlin5324 3 роки тому +4

    Whenever I hear this song, it always makes me think of my brother, he’s my BFF and though we may argue sometimes, we still stay together. Sometimes he compares me to characters from movies, saying he wishes he could be like me, without anxiety and stress. Little does he know I’m just like him, I just wanna set an example.

  • @womenluver
    @womenluver 2 роки тому +2

    Im confuser on how people are seeing this as online ghosting.
    To me it sounds like the aftermath of arms tonite and the person who died is now haunting the person who is still living. But after a while the person who lived moved on/started to date someone else, so the ghost/person who died stop haunting the living person and finally descended into the after life :p
    To add to this there are lines like,
    "I'll leave your house unhaunted"
    "You dont need poltergeists for sidekicks"
    "I'll take these old white sheets from my head." (Think about how the stereotypical Halloween ghost looks)
    Anyway thats how I've always saw it

  • @MV-ir3ov
    @MV-ir3ov 4 роки тому +17

    I'm about to ghost someone I'm dating, because our relationship is going really downhill, they never reply to my messages, they are unable to comunicate with me, they act like they don't want to see me, and i just don't see a point in our relationship anymore. This song makes me feel like it's going to be alright, that i can cut off people without guilt. I loved them before but every time i look at my phone a piece of that love dies because they are ignoring me again. And when they finally respond they don't even apologize. It seems like they are ghosting me now wow

    • @MV-ir3ov
      @MV-ir3ov 4 роки тому +5

      Aight a little update nobody cares about: She's been ignoring my messages for nearly 5 days. I txt her every day but it's probably making it even worse. I feel like shit. I'm so angry and i don't know how to vent, my blood is boiling and i feel like my body will explode.

    • @MV-ir3ov
      @MV-ir3ov 4 роки тому +3

      @@xxgingarsnupz3363 well i hope so. Man, being ghosted hurts more than other ways of breakup.

    • @autumnthemaraurder
      @autumnthemaraurder 3 роки тому

      I'm so sorry. This is currently happening to me too and idk what to do.

  • @patatacarrillo9724
    @patatacarrillo9724 Рік тому +2

    "You don't need tricks, you don't need treats, and you don't need me"
    Hits hard to know you have to let go even if it doesn't make you happy. Sometimes trying to hold onto "something" that is already dead can harm you to the point where you don't recognize yourself anymore. But then you have to deal with the next dilemma: how to make your heart realize you don't belong there? How to understand you don't owe fidelity and loyalty to that special someone who decided you are nothing but a ghost?

  • @barron6821
    @barron6821 5 років тому +2

    The last “you don’t need poltergeist for sidekicks” always gives me chills, this song is really beautiful if listened to properly

  • @enderwolf4130
    @enderwolf4130 3 роки тому +17

    Ghostbur

  • @leynni
    @leynni 3 роки тому +3

    You know life's been hard when out of nowhere once in a while this song pops up in your recommended.

  • @musique2227
    @musique2227 2 роки тому +2

    This song gives me that feeling
    when you finally decide to run away

  • @Jay-ms9od
    @Jay-ms9od 6 років тому +5

    Hit home too much. There's spilled tears on my pillow

  • @aft3r.d3ath34
    @aft3r.d3ath34 3 роки тому +2

    Currently listening to this on Halloween 😺

  • @Ellas_version2
    @Ellas_version2 3 роки тому +3

    It's MY mental breakdown and overthinking session, MY music choice!

  • @ladydeathwolf
    @ladydeathwolf 7 років тому +76

    Fab-u-lous

  • @Chihiro_Fujisaki
    @Chihiro_Fujisaki 5 років тому +14

    Nearly everyone in my life has ghosted me, I only have my bf and best friend left..be great full for what you have

  • @Crystal-ee6ju
    @Crystal-ee6ju 6 років тому +6

    you deserve more subs for putting it here

  • @kaded_cat
    @kaded_cat 2 роки тому +2

    BRO. HOW HAVE I ONLY JUST LISTENED TO THIS MOTHER MOTHER SONG, ITS SO GOOD

  • @alhbraed7621
    @alhbraed7621 5 років тому +2

    imo this song is about a person finally realizing that they should move on from a relationship where the other person doesn’t treat them as well as they used to, e.g ignoring or just generally uninterested. an then the person cat cope without them so they come crawling back, desperate to stay together that they’ll behave well or be “better”

  • @Tobgi_
    @Tobgi_ 3 роки тому +5

    I haven't talked to my friends in 2 months

  • @darkcloud778
    @darkcloud778 3 роки тому +2

    500 days of summer vibes. One of the greatest movies.

  • @tchtchciao3019
    @tchtchciao3019 3 роки тому +11

    I know that the song is about ghosting as in a relationship but imma think about a ghost :’)

  • @kerentan9446
    @kerentan9446 3 роки тому +6

    never been in a relationship but this melody is nice

  • @Nicohaha420
    @Nicohaha420 3 роки тому +4

    This reminds me of Hanako and how Yashiro wants a boyfriend that's not Hanako aswell as Nagito with Hajime

  • @radioactivezombii5512
    @radioactivezombii5512 4 роки тому +1

    I was gonna listen to this to try some new songs and I have been blessed

  • @LanaDiaries48
    @LanaDiaries48 2 роки тому +2

    I'm addicted to this song

  • @june9576
    @june9576 3 роки тому +5

    i have become daughter daughter

  • @hollyhales9709
    @hollyhales9709 5 років тому +1

    This is the first Mother Mother song I’ve ever heard, and all I gotta say is: this slaps!!

  • @larko2717
    @larko2717 4 роки тому +3

    What a nice ghost, I’ll be his friend. :)

  • @motherrrhen8621
    @motherrrhen8621 3 роки тому +5

    this song makes me think of ghostbur-

  • @simonevargasss1790
    @simonevargasss1790 2 роки тому +2

    I just realised this is kind of a suicide letter of a person who avoids everyone because of fear

  • @buzzsburner.8286
    @buzzsburner.8286 3 роки тому +1

    It's too early to start reminiscing over the "good ol days..."

  • @macattack4
    @macattack4 3 роки тому +2

    My favorite mother mother songs are probably ghosting, verbatim, burning pile, and body

  • @Nyx_The_Insomniac
    @Nyx_The_Insomniac 3 роки тому +1

    finally a song i can listen during calls

  • @camellias1946
    @camellias1946 3 роки тому +1

    I isolated myself 2 years ago and now I completely lost all my friends even the ones who tried to contact me. I also ghosted the person I really liked. All because I feel like no one really likes me, they’re just nice to me because I was to them but when I disappeared no one looked for me.

  • @XxTechnoCakezxX
    @XxTechnoCakezxX 6 років тому +2

    Is it convenient that i discovered this song today, a week from Halloween lol

  • @lemonexe9545
    @lemonexe9545 3 роки тому +1

    I'm literally just listening to this like once a hour a day-

  • @chloe8605
    @chloe8605 3 роки тому +1

    I actually want him to feel comfy enough to stop ghosting. I know he's pulling away because he's facing depression, and I feel like I'm grasping at straws sometimes.
    I just want you to know you're not a burden and I love you dearly. 💔

  • @soapykat749
    @soapykat749 4 роки тому +6

    I accidentally said "I remember, I remember the gays."

  • @wokestars328
    @wokestars328 5 років тому +1

    I promised myself I wouldn't ever hear this exact video ever. I watched this so many times the day my dog died. I had my baby since 1st grade to 7thgrade 6[6[17
    Update: I'm crying really bad right now

  • @whoryoupeople
    @whoryoupeople 2 роки тому +3

    I can’t listen to this song ever since i made an amongus version..

  • @producedbysoze6549
    @producedbysoze6549 3 роки тому +1

    Idk but this is kinda relatable for me, especially that I have a gf and a fear of not being loved by her and that feeling that she would leave me for someone better-

  • @realmeoww829
    @realmeoww829 3 роки тому +2

    I feel the song is about an invisible person, people shunned, not interested in that person. Is it right ?
    If yes, then the person is exactly like me. I do not have any friends. People keep trying to act like they let me play with, but they don't care about my feelings. And they're happy without me, don't even care when I'm gone. Why do I feel normal when I'm alone but feel lonely in crowded places? :(

  • @roastingghosts1302
    @roastingghosts1302 6 років тому +24

    I have learned that I should not listen to this song unless I am prepared to get hit with emotions about my past pets.

  • @564k
    @564k 3 роки тому +4

    i've been coning back to this for 3 years on every bad day that i have.

  • @amelitrevino9071
    @amelitrevino9071 6 років тому +7

    I've been ghosting
    Ghosting alone

  • @skrinkiebimble9119
    @skrinkiebimble9119 6 років тому +7906

    The background image makes me think of a little ghost in a boat sailing away after haunting someone they cared about a lot and the whole time they are singing this song

    • @boredlyaesthetic4111
      @boredlyaesthetic4111 6 років тому +78

      I literally love everything about your profile idk why XD

    • @GastArts
      @GastArts 6 років тому +95

      That is the cutest thing I've ever read

    • @elowenelo9767
      @elowenelo9767 5 років тому +35

      Someone should make a animation of that :o

    • @pastelpluto
      @pastelpluto 5 років тому +27

      That's actually so adorable wtf-

    • @seniorsqueakers9537
      @seniorsqueakers9537 5 років тому +11

      I can't take this serious
      Not with ue profile pic XD

  • @graciemoore5110
    @graciemoore5110 4 роки тому +4017

    Everyone in this comment section: the "you don't need me" part is so sad
    Me: but like what about the "if you'll stop staring straight through me" part?!

    • @SadBoy-pe5oq
      @SadBoy-pe5oq 4 роки тому +39

      That's a big oof ; - ;

    • @snotbootyandunorganizedthings
      @snotbootyandunorganizedthings 4 роки тому +70

      O MY GOD THAT PART ALWAYS HURTS THE WORST!!! And the fact he says it once just lingers with for weeks T^T

    • @alpaca9994
      @alpaca9994 3 роки тому +17

      but what about the big ass obvious matephor that ive seen only one guy mention

    • @jiejie4414
      @jiejie4414 3 роки тому +8

      Your likes is on 666 I'm gonna ruin it😼✨

    • @serenityyf.6967
      @serenityyf.6967 3 роки тому +4

      Righttt I always think about that part while listening

  • @ghostprince3620
    @ghostprince3620 6 років тому +6042

    WHO ELSE GET'S EXTREMELY EMOTIONAL WHILE LISTENING TO THIS
    IJUSTFEELBADFORTHEPOORGHOST

    • @simbalover15
      @simbalover15 5 років тому +23

      Rip

    • @Panchoo721
      @Panchoo721 5 років тому +64

      For me its cus it triggers bad memories but I like the song so I stick around XD

    • @chadlikespasta3142
      @chadlikespasta3142 5 років тому +7

      @@gab8510 god ikr (also that profile pic is great lmao)

    • @eden7567
      @eden7567 5 років тому +9

      @hhfhhhfh afbhadg i t s *c a s p e r* (j o k e k i d s)
      hahah im fUnnY

    • @brian-my-man1064
      @brian-my-man1064 5 років тому +11

      i Am nOt cRyInG. nO u.

  • @gingerspice5477
    @gingerspice5477 4 роки тому +988

    Y’all gotta remember this album came out in 2008, ghosting in terms of not talking to someone online suddenly didn’t exist

    • @daedalushelios345
      @daedalushelios345 3 роки тому +185

      In that case it aged like a fine wine

    • @thedutchessofdragonshyre4630
      @thedutchessofdragonshyre4630 3 роки тому +75

      We used to call it blowing someone off. Honorable people do not blow there friends or lovers off. It takes a strong person to face their friends and tell them why they are cutting them out of their lives but if they don't face you and tell you ..you walk around thinking it's all your fault and what did you do..sometimes its just them so Please do not waste your feelings on a blow off. Just cry get it out and move on. Your better off without that person in your lives if they would do such a thing. Thats weak behavior and one day it will come round full circle on them and when they are old they will be wrestling with the deomns of how they treated people in their past. Take care of yourself and move on. Life is too short to dwell on pain. Good friends will come into your lives and they will be true honorable and care about you.

    • @cheddarchemist5644
      @cheddarchemist5644 2 роки тому +4

      @@thedutchessofdragonshyre4630 Ty. I'll keep that in mind. :(

    • @elmopreparestocommitarson
      @elmopreparestocommitarson 2 роки тому +17

      @@thedutchessofdragonshyre4630 yeah but anxiety and bad mental health go burrrr

    • @chicainvisible6
      @chicainvisible6 11 місяців тому

      I agree, ppls getting too intense about anxiety xD

  • @pastelplastic4710
    @pastelplastic4710 6 років тому +1941

    *cALL* *tHE* *gHosT* *BuSteRs*

  • @spiesarentforever7053
    @spiesarentforever7053 6 років тому +9808

    I have bad habit of ghosting on the my friends,especially on social media because of my anxiety.

    • @junothestar1398
      @junothestar1398 5 років тому +764

      Me too, and when I do i feel really bad about it and so I try to talk to them again but then I feel like Im bothering them

    • @internetangel2938
      @internetangel2938 5 років тому +274

      @@junothestar1398 I also feel like I'm just a bother to my friends because they always say to leave them alone because I'm annoying

    • @Ickymunches
      @Ickymunches 5 років тому +35

      Me toooooo

    • @Sunnywithaknife
      @Sunnywithaknife 5 років тому +113

      Same I'm actually ghosting right now but it's because I'm scared of being hurt be people I care about (not in a good situation right now), but I still feel bad

    • @-csotanypure-5106
      @-csotanypure-5106 5 років тому +45

      @@Sunnywithaknife have you ever think about that you hurt someone who finally trusted you and stopped ghosting by your side. And you reject this friend or partner...
      (I don't wanna be rude, just make you think about it)

  • @soup2787
    @soup2787 4 роки тому +3044

    "You don't need no Halloween."
    The Government 2020 be like.

    • @nikoleb8310
      @nikoleb8310 3 роки тому +54

      omg your username is my among us name :0

    • @soup2787
      @soup2787 3 роки тому +38

      @@nikoleb8310 I-

    • @basilbunniez3386
      @basilbunniez3386 3 роки тому +10

      BAHAHA

    • @dianaa1272.
      @dianaa1272. 3 роки тому +20

      This is the first comment I actually laughed at in years🧍🏽‍♀️

    • @o-kiku3939
      @o-kiku3939 3 роки тому +9

      Ok but your pfp! Chihiro is adorable😶💕

  • @iwantcookies758
    @iwantcookies758 4 роки тому +347

    No one:
    My crush: "I've been ghosting"

    • @TheRock-mk1sr
      @TheRock-mk1sr 3 роки тому +5

      ohh noo i laughed at this XD

    • @iwantcookies758
      @iwantcookies758 3 роки тому +1

      @Shriya Painuly I love Mafuyu 😌

    • @gay6751
      @gay6751 2 місяці тому

      is they ghosting

  • @interestedbee5389
    @interestedbee5389 6 років тому +1012

    this song hits close to home

    • @blakezummo264
      @blakezummo264 5 років тому +3

      Same b

    • @uwaargh500
      @uwaargh500 5 років тому +13

      I am so sorry for your home. I hope the song didn't hit them too hard.

    • @babypinkbunnyy
      @babypinkbunnyy 5 років тому +8

      u got spirits or somethin go get the ghostbusters to fix that

    • @sleepyseason902
      @sleepyseason902 4 роки тому +4

      song:
      home: hotel? Travgo

    • @user-hn3ue2ik5g
      @user-hn3ue2ik5g 2 роки тому +1

      It does

  • @blancamargarita4315
    @blancamargarita4315 4 роки тому +968

    this song captures so perfectly what its like to realize you are hurting someone and how hard it is to realize you have to change or leave someone you loved because you were the problem. it’s weird seeing songs like this, usually people write about being the one hurt but you rarely see someone writing about being the one on the other end because many times we are.

  • @PossumPoobah
    @PossumPoobah 6 років тому +932

    *Listens to two songs by this band*
    mood

    • @themindset4164
      @themindset4164 4 роки тому +7

      @Evelynn Brannon mine was burning pile and this

    • @barneyistired3845
      @barneyistired3845 4 роки тому +2

      @Evelynn Brannon gore and violence? bodys abt dysphoria/dysmorphia

    • @RoosterChan
      @RoosterChan 4 роки тому

      Y'all got to listen to orlander by them

    • @weirdmiggy
      @weirdmiggy 4 роки тому

      @asshole I've only listened to this and Verbatim and they're very different songs lmao

    • @lilystoto6535
      @lilystoto6535 3 роки тому +1

      Mine are hayloft and ghosting lol

  • @minepdz9601
    @minepdz9601 5 років тому +809

    this song makes me think about someone.
    someone who i cared a lot, we were like best friends. i started falling in love with him, but he is 2 years younger than me. i met him 3 years ago, because my siblings practice baseball, and his brother practice with mine. so, we met on a birthday party of a friend of them. i fell down, and he gave his hand for me to stand up. since then, we started talking, and we started to go to a lot of places and events from the baseball. then, i fell in love., and, then he too. but his mom didnt like that i am 2 years older than him. so we just keep being friends. but i was ok with that. then, i didnt went to the baseball for a year. didnt saw im, didnt talk to him, nothing. now, i went again. but he just stopped talking to me. stopped saying hi. he ignores me. his mom didnt let him TALK to me. when im about to say something, he turns around. the only thing we share, is looks. i look him, and he looks me. like if we can talk just with that. i just want to be friends again, but he is still denying me. i wish things go back to normal, but it cant, never.
    im so sorry because of my bad english, im spanish speaker.
    thank you if you read it all, srry if i wasted your time.

    • @beesbackup9494
      @beesbackup9494 4 роки тому +29

      Cry and see what he does when he exchanges looks with you

    • @andreah9587
      @andreah9587 4 роки тому +54

      Wow keeping your son from having friends is a really bad parenting technique. I’m so sorry for you guys. 💔

    • @ladyart3375
      @ladyart3375 4 роки тому +32

      Oh this is such a sad story.. I'm so sorry for you ..
      Maybe you will be friends with him again? Who knows..

    • @miki-xq5bi
      @miki-xq5bi 4 роки тому +42

      you are never wasting anyone's time. don't apologize for such a silly thing. i'm so sorry both of your guys' parents intervened in such a hurtful way. but please know that if it's meant to be, it will be, even if it takes time and is later in the future. but don't stay too attached to the idea of that, you will only hurt yourself in the end. but just let things happen, let time do what it needs to do. i wish the best for you guys ♥

    • @gabrieladavila3605
      @gabrieladavila3605 4 роки тому +5

      Que triste :(

  • @zevrxn
    @zevrxn 6 років тому +499

    why did i come here
    now i made myself sad and i absolutely don't regret it

  • @ThatLittleKitten
    @ThatLittleKitten 6 років тому +569

    Mother mother = a great band

  • @ajpengdraws
    @ajpengdraws 6 років тому +490

    Hey would it be so bad if I stayed? I'm just a ghost out of his grave.... *sobs*

  • @simon-gp1qs
    @simon-gp1qs 6 років тому +204

    my kitty's ghost recently left and this made me cry a lil bc i rlly miss her :')

    • @moved7842
      @moved7842 5 років тому +3

      omg same 😭

    • @calyptelaironia6034
      @calyptelaironia6034 5 років тому +10

      @@moved7842
      im sorry for ur loss. i hope youre doing fine, your kitty is in a better place now. rip 💕🌞

  • @meemoo7
    @meemoo7 6 років тому +289

    urgh...I avoided everyone for like a year and when I got into contact again they were pissed lol

    • @morgoth_bauglir
      @morgoth_bauglir 6 років тому +21

      Me before and after recovery lol

    • @meemoo7
      @meemoo7 6 років тому +8

      The Hair Of Slytherin lmao I hope they werent mad at you

    • @morgoth_bauglir
      @morgoth_bauglir 6 років тому +20

      @@meemoo7 They were a bit mad but they were pretty understanding eventually. I think they were just scared of the whole eating disorder thing😅

    • @meemoo7
      @meemoo7 6 років тому +9

      The Hair Of Slytherin i‘m sorry I didn‘t see your reply! I hope you feel better and I can relate. I was hospitalized and after that I still felt bad so I didn‘t really want to talk to someone lol

    • @morgoth_bauglir
      @morgoth_bauglir 6 років тому +6

      @@meemoo7 No problem man. I wish you a fast recovery cause this shit is hard😅🙏

  • @case9426
    @case9426 7 років тому +555

    Thanks for the aesthetic lyrics video :)

  • @catcounty4156
    @catcounty4156 6 років тому +343

    The picture goes well with the sound and tone of the song. Makes everything more beautiful Thanks for the lyrics. 💕

  • @clem.is.confused649
    @clem.is.confused649 4 роки тому +438

    this song hits deep. the line “i’ve been ghosting. i’ve been ghosting 𝗮𝗹𝗼𝗻𝗲. ghost in the world, ghost with 𝗻𝗼 𝗵𝗼𝗺𝗲. i remember, i remember the days, when i’d make you oh, so 𝗮𝗳𝗿𝗮𝗶𝗱.” and “you don’t need me.” makes me so sad, cuz I can relate.

  • @A3415-q3k
    @A3415-q3k 5 років тому +410

    Over a year ago, I decided to ghost my best friend of 11 years because I didn’t like who I was and I didn’t want her to find out that I haven’t changed since she last saw me. I learned about the word “ghosting” yesterday and realized that it’s a shitty thing to do. Well... shittier than I thought, anyway.

  • @jaaack3747
    @jaaack3747 5 років тому +176

    This song makes me feel sad because I have a feeling that I'm going to die (it's not a suicide) but I don't want to leave the people I love, I don't want them to cry, I don't want them to hold on to me

    • @what.2060
      @what.2060 3 роки тому +8

      Damn now I'm scared

    • @idk12605
      @idk12605 3 роки тому

      Same here bud

  • @lasagnamafia
    @lasagnamafia 6 років тому +241

    Why does song always make me cry???

  • @PolarrSlushie
    @PolarrSlushie 6 років тому +463

    Am I supposed to be crying .??because if so I aM AHH

  • @kiramitchiner3
    @kiramitchiner3 3 роки тому +57

    Everyone talks about "and you don't need me"
    but what about the main line:
    "I've been ghosting *alone* "

  • @Sephie_Cafe
    @Sephie_Cafe 4 роки тому +83

    Usually when I have ghosted people I'm too scared to ever go back to talk to them so i just leave them be. I have the tendency to just ghost people, i feel like it's what's good for them since I'm just a shitty annoying person. Or that i see them so happy, and i dont want to ruin there happiness so I just leave and one day I'll probs never come back. I think im okay with that.

    • @erickamakeeaina1649
      @erickamakeeaina1649 3 роки тому +2

      Trust me....Being ghosted is one of the worst feelings in the world
      You wonder if you did something wrong or if you were annoying and such

    • @Sephie_Cafe
      @Sephie_Cafe 3 роки тому +1

      @@erickamakeeaina1649 yeah I know it is, can't help but do it, but now I don't anymore, that was back then I didn't even know what that term meant. Now I just tell them that I will not be friends with them anymore or distance myself slowly but surely {like naturally, most people now tho start ghosting me first or not talking to me for long periods of time so I leave} I don't keep friends for long, but now I am sure of not having anymore friends so I don't end up just leaving n shit like that. I regret ghosting people a lot, but in my mind at the time I think they will not care at all n probs don't even remember me {which is dumb but when I'm in the moment I tend to think very weirdly n just chaotic n connect points together that don't make no logical sense and assume}. I am aware of what I do, so I don't get too close or don't get close at all. Atleast I won't be ghosting anyone anymore or leaving anyone.

    • @thedutchessofdragonshyre4630
      @thedutchessofdragonshyre4630 3 роки тому +1

      Do the homorable thing and tell the person you don't want to be friends anymore. Stop being a weak hurtful inconsiderate jerk or do you just get off on hurting people? It will all come back on you hard if you keep this behavior up. Someone on day will do the same to you and you will get a taste of your own medicine hard. I am sure your family didn't raise you to be this way. Be an honorable person always and never intentionally hurt someone.

  • @piggsyseal2941
    @piggsyseal2941 3 роки тому +61

    That feel when you apparently blew up an entire nation but can’t remember shit so you just give everyone paint instead

    • @Luci_haha
      @Luci_haha 3 роки тому +12

      Ghostbur is gone now😭

    • @lmacoconut5710
      @lmacoconut5710 3 роки тому +2

      I found this song in a ghostbur animatic (sorry for my bad english)

    • @piggsyseal2941
      @piggsyseal2941 3 роки тому +2

      @@lmacoconut5710 there’s literally nothing wrong with your English lmao

    • @lmacoconut5710
      @lmacoconut5710 3 роки тому +1

      @@piggsyseal2941 oh ok

    • @void4283
      @void4283 3 роки тому

      hate it here

  • @chimfiresman4963
    @chimfiresman4963 6 років тому +203

    it reminds me of a book called i heart u you haunt me
    edit:i wanted to cry the first time i heard this song some time ago bc i play a classical instrument. i mean i know the song but i couldnt remember the name and someone made an animation and it reminded me of it