Unemployed Millennial living at home with parents update

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  • @96Jazangel
    @96Jazangel 4 роки тому +137

    I love your channel and your honesty. I’m 24 and living with my family still. This is an integral part of my culture and I’m currently unemployed. Studies had to be deferred. Applying for work, constantly, but I’m also a career for a sick parent. I’m done with keeping up with the world, things will happen at their own pace and all that matters is we’re doing what we can to be healthy, happy and contributing to our community.

    • @Michelle-pn9xt
      @Michelle-pn9xt 4 роки тому

      a career for a sick parent?

    • @LivingAsTasha
      @LivingAsTasha 4 роки тому

      Michelle *carer

    • @mariedigital4404
      @mariedigital4404 4 роки тому

      I’m in the same boat after being robbed last year. Good luck with your journey and I’ll be supporting : ]

  • @SustacheRealEstate
    @SustacheRealEstate 4 роки тому +72

    I'm 30 and had to move back with my parents. It's been a humbling experience but I have enjoyed spending time with them. I'm reinventing my life and decided to switch careers. I love my parents and I know this isn't forever. Enjoy it while you can!

    • @SustacheRealEstate
      @SustacheRealEstate 4 роки тому +5

      @sonnick Feel the same way. My parents are getting older and I can see it. I'm trying to cherish them as much as I can.

    • @Bostonroad1992
      @Bostonroad1992 4 роки тому +7

      I’m the same I’m back home and now gona go back to change careers and study something different!!! Life is hard man

    • @SustacheRealEstate
      @SustacheRealEstate 4 роки тому +2

      @@Bostonroad1992 I know how you feel 100% But we got this! Better days are coming

    • @Aristocratic13
      @Aristocratic13 4 роки тому

      This made me upset

    • @miguelrobb5719
      @miguelrobb5719 4 роки тому +1

      I been there. I met a girl at 22 and married her and moved away shortly afterwards. I ended up moving back with my parents at age 24 for 3 months. Man I gotta tell you it was the worse experience and it reminded me of why I left in the first place. I don’t hate my family but I couldn’t live with them. I’m always being taken advantage of and accused of running up the electric bill even though the only thing I ever use is my friggin cell phone and washing my clothes once a week. The only reason that I moved back with my family (my wife was with me as well) was because my mobile home was being built. I offered to chip in for rent and even help with the bills. They got greedy and took advantage. Once I moved out, they got mad at me. Anyways I enjoy my my time in peace. I’m 28 and happy as hell to have my own place once again.

  • @Katherout
    @Katherout 4 роки тому +139

    "just don't fart and everything's fine"

  • @saraha.1336
    @saraha.1336 4 роки тому +46

    Finally, I been wanting you to upload. I'm pretty much in the same situation. Living with my parents and trying to get a job in the tech industry. I'm trying to self teach and it's so overwhelming

    • @abhim9221
      @abhim9221 4 роки тому

      my local community offers java courses maybe your does to u should look it to it!

  • @souka8379
    @souka8379 4 роки тому +33

    I’m in the same situation i just graduated and now im at home unemployed and i think im going crazy because it’s the first time in 5 years living with my parents, don’t get me wrong they are the sweetest parents i couldn’t ask for more, it’s just that i’m so not used to this plus the battle of will i find a job during this pandemic no calls so far..🥺🙏🏼
    Ps: can you please keep posting about this (vlogs,topics..) anything that could help us thank you love u

    • @mariedigital4404
      @mariedigital4404 4 роки тому +4

      Dude...I’m now seeing I’m not the only one. Same deal with me and the job search is...messed. Sending support for you, myself, and anyone in the same boat!

  • @lovelybeaute
    @lovelybeaute 4 роки тому +62

    This girl literally has an elevator in her house

  • @joiwade_
    @joiwade_ 4 роки тому +14

    Keep making these updates :) Love to hear what's going on w other millennials/genz UA-camrs!

  • @janaelopez1110
    @janaelopez1110 4 роки тому +62

    It’s the elevator in a family home for me

  • @peaceandcalm698
    @peaceandcalm698 4 роки тому +9

    *Living with parents is NOT a sin*
    _Hope more people understand this_ .

    • @TheRealPiscesBarbie
      @TheRealPiscesBarbie 4 роки тому +1

      Thank you I really needed that I’m 19 will be 20 in March I’ve been beating myself down about this

    • @peaceandcalm698
      @peaceandcalm698 4 роки тому +1

      @@TheRealPiscesBarbie ❤️

    • @Maverickgouda
      @Maverickgouda 4 роки тому +1

      According to the pbs news video that brought me here, most young adults in the US are living with their parents

  • @geezSH
    @geezSH 4 роки тому +7

    The reason I love UA-cam is for this reason. It is refreshing to watch others experience what you yourself may be experiencing, too. It's assuring to know I'm not alone or lame lol. Thank you, girl!

  • @MaddieCassidy
    @MaddieCassidy 4 роки тому +13

    not unemployed fortunately, but have been living with my parents since i graduated college in 2017 and it's been such a good decision for me (mostly financially, thanks to student loan debt lol). finally starting to look at apartments + moving out this fall, i think the timing is finally right for me! 💌

    • @MalluStyleMultiMedia
      @MalluStyleMultiMedia 4 роки тому +1

      Smart move ...if I were you, I would stay one more year at least with parents and buy one condo or small property now to rent out.

    • @Babbysamiee
      @Babbysamiee 4 роки тому

      MalluStyle MultiMedia good advice!

    • @MalluStyleMultiMedia
      @MalluStyleMultiMedia 4 роки тому

      Babbysamiee 😀 aim early retirement..anything is possible

    • @MaddieCassidy
      @MaddieCassidy 4 роки тому

      @@MalluStyleMultiMedia yesss! love that!

  • @seaweedjen
    @seaweedjen 4 роки тому +11

    im in the same situation too just graduated last dec, move back home and still looking for work. its hella hard but im glad im not the only one feeling this way!

    • @MalluStyleMultiMedia
      @MalluStyleMultiMedia 4 роки тому

      What’s your background? I heard salesforce is a good field ... I’m studying that now little by little.

  • @NickVennlig
    @NickVennlig 4 роки тому +4

    Hey, just clicked on your video because I thought I also related to the title. I also graduated from college in 2019. I lived in my college town until early 2020, but then moved back home and continuing my exhausting job search here. The pandemic hit, so career/job hunting was put on hold. Since things "opened up", I've been working at a coffee shop just to start saving up money again and not stay at home all the time, which I totally miss too. But yeh, I completely get it. For a while, I had to make a real effort to tell myself that I was not in a rush, that a nice career opportunity would show up eventually, and I would move out of my parents sooner or later. It's totally cool living at home. Sure, I miss living in an apartment and with friends, but I've since realized that it's these days that I'm gonna miss when I truly move out again. Trying to appreciate it while it lasts has been a helpful mentality for sure.

  • @bhaddassbre
    @bhaddassbre 4 роки тому +43

    Very random, but the “What I spend in a week” trend was very popular a few months ago and I think it would be very cool to see what you spend in a week as an unemployed millennial!

    • @Michelle-pn9xt
      @Michelle-pn9xt 4 роки тому

      If she is unemployed, she can't spend anything.

    • @bhaddassbre
      @bhaddassbre 4 роки тому +3

      Michelle Her being unemployed does not equate to her not having money. She obviously has savings and is saving by living at home with her parents.

    • @kellyj817
      @kellyj817 4 роки тому +1

      @@bhaddassbre I believe she's said before that she earns money from UA-cam too

  • @ralphw7454
    @ralphw7454 4 роки тому +3

    I’m 35 back at my parents too and... it sucks because 2020, I had big plans but now I’m trying redirect my career and emotionally find myself. But nonetheless I’m grateful to have a place to fall back on. It’s just been somewhat frustrating with my moms strict Filipino rules about EVERYTHING. 😂
    But cheers to self love and reinventing 💗

  • @justanotherpersonxo
    @justanotherpersonxo 4 роки тому +11

    I'm thankful that in my Country is not wierd to live with your parents basically until you get married. And some people literally stay at home after getting married as long as you have a job/career and help financially it's totally fine. Is way worse if you just live your elderly parents living by themselves here. That's more frown upon actually

    • @kathleenking47
      @kathleenking47 4 роки тому

      This nation is like this as well
      I moved back at 30, and found my husband

  • @SamElle
    @SamElle 4 роки тому +16

    Ahhh I’ve been missing seeing your videos! I like that you have been continuously updating us though! I’m living with my parents now at 24!

    • @maureene7138
      @maureene7138 4 роки тому +1

      Same. Turned 24 and moved in with them

    • @brandonc9691
      @brandonc9691 4 роки тому +1

      I also unemployed millennials too. I am 24 and living with my parents. This Pandemic messed up my whole university plan :(. I am still gonna achieve that goal and I am majoring in History with a minor in International Relations. However, psychology is another major that may be skyrocketing due to mental health from this Pandemic!

  • @phil89ab
    @phil89ab 4 роки тому +1

    “Everything else I invest in goes to shit”, godamn why is that so relatable.

  • @michellekoai
    @michellekoai 4 роки тому +56

    wait, you have an elevator in your house?? that's so cool haha

    • @astrocutie37
      @astrocutie37 4 роки тому +17

      I literally came straight to the comments to see if anyone else was shook by that LOL - what a handy house feature

    • @keneochuba6442
      @keneochuba6442 4 роки тому +2

      @@astrocutie37 Same

  • @thaothach1
    @thaothach1 4 роки тому +2

    I think your channel is so underrated. You're so genuine, you deserve more subs

  • @ssssssssss13
    @ssssssssss13 4 роки тому +2

    can’t wait to watch this annemarie! I look forward to your uploads and missed you!

  • @queenexistence5735
    @queenexistence5735 4 роки тому +3

    Im50 and I’ve been forced to move back in with my Pop.
    Housing is too freaking expensive. Not doable on wages we get paid.

    • @miguelrobb5719
      @miguelrobb5719 4 роки тому

      I would have became a truck driver and live in my truck. Hell. I would have bought a motor home and lived in it.

  • @jon6309
    @jon6309 4 роки тому +3

    I graduated and currently have an office job that basically pays me peanuts and not enough to survive on my own. My father passed away and was well off and had no mortgage on the home we live in so it’s just me, my Mom and our Pomeranian in a 5 bedroom house. I try to pull my weight by helping out here and there and I am saving as much money as I can but I am still embarrassed by the situation I am in. It would be nice to meet my life partner already as I have saved up enough money for down payment but don’t have sufficient income to cover the mortgage payments.

    • @Michelle-pn9xt
      @Michelle-pn9xt 4 роки тому

      Life partner?

    • @jon6309
      @jon6309 4 роки тому +1

      @ Michelle: I am single and if i wasn’t it would probably be easier for me to qualify for a mortgage with the double income because I already have the 20% down payment but the problem is my salary is too low to qualify for monthly mortgage payments so it would probably require a salary of two people to qualify.

    • @dustinsalgadopavon7852
      @dustinsalgadopavon7852 4 роки тому +1

      I totally understand and respect your point of view, however, I don't think that should be the reason to get/find a life partner

    • @jon6309
      @jon6309 4 роки тому +1

      @ Dustin: I agree with you however I’m just saying it will make it much easier for me to be on my own if I had a significant other. I know a couple who just recently bought their first home and it was only possible together they both didn’t qualify on their own.

    • @Traumatised311
      @Traumatised311 3 роки тому

      You could sell the 5 bedroom house and move in a 3 bedroom ,like that you will have so much money

  • @TechVHD
    @TechVHD 4 роки тому +7

    in hindsight knowing what you know now, would you recommend double majoring in business with something technical? like business and cs, business with engineering, instead of what you did with only business

    • @TechVHD
      @TechVHD 4 роки тому +1

      i sure am going to, too much to put on the line to only have “general business” and i’m going to usc

    • @Justin-ev8nn
      @Justin-ev8nn 4 роки тому +2

      Most business programs allow you to concentrate on a specific track - accounting, finance, marketing, IT, etc.

    • @TechVHD
      @TechVHD 4 роки тому

      Justin not usc’s business, it’s business administration, general, other csu and uc’s do have specialized business along with general, as in business administration general, business administration marketing, business administration finance, etc

    • @Justin-ev8nn
      @Justin-ev8nn 4 роки тому

      ClashOfClans Yes, the CSUs have specialized tracks as do the UCs that offer business admin as well. While USC doesn’t offer that, they still give you the opportunity to specialize by using your upper elective classes to take specific classes like finance or accounting. While it doesn’t explicitly say that they offer specialized concentrations, you’re still practically “specializing.”

    • @TechVHD
      @TechVHD 4 роки тому

      Justin i’m well aware, that’s not specific to usc

  • @kaylareneepatterson51
    @kaylareneepatterson51 4 роки тому +2

    Has anyone commented on the fact that she just casually sent her stuff upstairs via elevator...no? Okay? Moving on I guess. I'm also assuming that this is a single family house

  • @lmac7633
    @lmac7633 4 роки тому

    I moved to Cincinnati last year for my first professional engineering job. I got laid off at the end of April because no one wants to buy airplanes when noone is traveling (crazy right?) and now I've been frantically looking for a job. Still havent found anything and the thought of moving back in with my parents terrifies me.

  • @Justin-ev8nn
    @Justin-ev8nn 4 роки тому +13

    Damn, your house has an elevator?

  • @corinneliu
    @corinneliu 4 роки тому +2

    we love the content 😍 Keep it coming gal!

  • @karlo7893
    @karlo7893 4 роки тому +1

    I wanna learn to code as well! It's never too late to study again :)

  • @JennieCJ
    @JennieCJ 4 роки тому

    I was just watching your college vlogs the other night to get me motivated for school this week! I love your outlook on the future and will definitely have to visit Alaska sometime in the future :) glad to see you uploaded again!

  • @rjtheripper931
    @rjtheripper931 4 роки тому

    Millennial here!!!! I am working a job that pays me 3 dollars per delivery and have a 2 year degree. I am still living with my parents. I have simply stopped applying for jobs because they are going to reject me. I don't know what I am going to be doing next. I am hoping more schooling is going to fix the problem.

    • @Maverickgouda
      @Maverickgouda 4 роки тому

      Depends on what kind of schooling. I have 2 degrees and job hunting is still grueling. But I just wanna get into med school within a few years. Our generation is very educated, and yet so many are underemployed. Seek job skills

    • @nanawordie7967
      @nanawordie7967 3 роки тому

      i’m so sorry :( i would keep applying to jobs though and have faith that you will get one soon. I was in your same situation about not being able to find a job and i prayed and prayed and i got one!

    • @Traumatised311
      @Traumatised311 3 роки тому

      @@Maverickgouda I am an engineer but I don't wanna work as an engineer, really liked social media managin as a job but last month I just started working for a small doctor as her social media manager she abused me just for sake of it, I am unemployed, might become a serial killer soon

    • @Maverickgouda
      @Maverickgouda 3 роки тому

      @@Traumatised311 I seriously hope you don’t become a killer. My mama was an engineer at first & changed up when I was a toddler. She’s run a business for 30 years. It’s like F.I.R.E. movement of engineers & other high-earning professionals crossing over. Good luck

    • @Traumatised311
      @Traumatised311 3 роки тому

      @@Maverickgouda wow , thank you so much for your positive comments,what business does your mom run if you don't mind sharing, also I will become a killer soon ,nobody can stop me

  • @surfsailor2545
    @surfsailor2545 4 роки тому

    What did the triangle say to the circle? "You're pointless. Just like this video".

  • @katehaberl9324
    @katehaberl9324 4 роки тому +2

    Love love your videos!! I’m a few years younger than you & have loved following your journey! I also think that it’s super cool that your house has an elevator lol

  • @bigpinkbear17
    @bigpinkbear17 4 роки тому +3

    not sure if you would see this, but there’s a youtuber called Rowena Tsai, that has a very similar vibe to you :) both of you have such rich internal worlds and the way you share about those worlds remind me of her. anywhos, love your video and keep on keeping on at being yourself ❤️

  • @mooremindfulmoments6599
    @mooremindfulmoments6599 4 роки тому

    I love this video! I’ve been living at my parents for almost a year now and definitely want to revamp my space to make it my own!

  • @HonestlyChelsea
    @HonestlyChelsea 4 роки тому +4

    Your dad at the beginning 😂😂😂

  • @aiai8192
    @aiai8192 4 роки тому +2

    Wish you'd upload more often 🙂 be safe always!

  • @DiannaCarney
    @DiannaCarney 4 роки тому +1

    Me: Reads title. Yup. I'll relate to this UA-camr. Haha glad I found you!

  • @johnjake2000
    @johnjake2000 4 роки тому

    I live with my parents until my mom died and my dad move out because he has a 2nd family. I am Asian in our culture, the only time they (your parents) throw you out, when you started your own family. My dad just visited me and he told me, "wow this is already big, I think you should find the girl and settle down and start your own family" This is already my second house, I bought a new one and in memories of my mom I rebuild this house.

    • @Traumatised311
      @Traumatised311 3 роки тому

      In asian families if you move out of your parents house means you don't care about them, as you're supposed to look after them until they die and then you inherit the property

  • @ProfGrowPulse
    @ProfGrowPulse 4 роки тому

    hi am also learning to code! How is your progress?

  • @MrVikingsandra
    @MrVikingsandra 4 роки тому

    Oh wow Anchorage! I'd love to see what it's like! It reminds me of that Robin Williams/ Pacino movie...is it always light in the summer, like Scandinavia, the sun never sets? I definitely wanna visit, such a cool place, I'm glad you're settled.

  • @Dharamv1234
    @Dharamv1234 2 роки тому

    Some individuals blame the job seekers for the plight they’re in. Being unemployed can happen to anyone.

  • @panda5122
    @panda5122 4 роки тому

    I took JS 211. Definitely one of my favorite classes from USC!

  • @vendinillab6134
    @vendinillab6134 4 роки тому +1

    Love your videos ❤️❤️

  • @shakiras5679
    @shakiras5679 4 роки тому

    Maybe you could do media stuff for a local Alaskan publication! Check out Peak Northwest for one in Oregon :)

  • @joannesheppard5409
    @joannesheppard5409 4 роки тому +1

    Edit: I watched 5 seconds after she showed the poster haha. Have you ever thought about learning Korean? I feel like that would be some fun content!
    With the Korean poster, is it meant to say your name at the bottom? From my very basic skills I think it says "I am legend Anne-Marie".
    Also, I really appreciate this series! Being (newly) an unemployed millennial I appreciate you making it look cool! Haha.

  • @LifeWithRilla
    @LifeWithRilla 4 роки тому

    Hey good to see you uploading again. Hope you're enjoying your break! Get rested and don't forget to do coding Kara's! I just signed up to be a TL again and we'll i was accepted so I'm going to be a FT TL again. That is going to be fun! 1 more month until I'm in Labs and then it's time to start the job hunt during labs! ☺️
    Hmu soon!

  • @CatherineHa
    @CatherineHa 4 роки тому

    Great video. Love how genuine you are. What camera do you use!! Quality looks amazing 😍

  • @dman747
    @dman747 4 роки тому

    I'm not there to judge because everybody's life is different and I usually don't get into this kind of topic is because some people may take this the wrong way. This is kind of a personal topic.

  • @undarmaagansukh6983
    @undarmaagansukh6983 4 роки тому

    Hi, Annemarie! I really enjoyed watching this and flying to Alaska on Monday for a work trip. How is the weather in Anchorage now? What should I pack for 5 days trip and its my first time visiting there :) Thank you!

  • @lilybloom794
    @lilybloom794 4 роки тому +2

    Great Video! ☺️☺️☺️
    I’m in a similar situation like you, too. Back living with my parents since last year, graduating from university and searching for a job.
    I just started to learn how to code online 🙂

  • @kenw6497
    @kenw6497 4 роки тому +1

    Are you unemployed? How are going to pay off those student loan debts? Is college a waste of time and money?

  • @BEACHDUDE71
    @BEACHDUDE71 2 місяці тому

    I'm 53 single no children or job and I live with my parents

  • @carolinezhang2051
    @carolinezhang2051 4 роки тому

    Where is your warm tone ring light from?

  • @salma31000
    @salma31000 4 роки тому +4

    Nothing is wrong with living with your parents if your still trying to figure out your life ... plus if your parents are welcoming why not ... I hate the American ideology that once u move out than it’s looked down upon to move back in ...

  • @SpaceMotorist
    @SpaceMotorist 4 роки тому

    Lol I just found this channel. I like and I stay.

  • @garcimq
    @garcimq 4 роки тому +1

    Sucks you can’t get a lock for your door

  • @darpur5469
    @darpur5469 4 роки тому

    Thanks for sharing

  • @raeram2008
    @raeram2008 4 роки тому +6

    Can you be an Alaska travel vlogger? If Alaska will pay you lol

  • @daisiejay
    @daisiejay 4 роки тому +1

    It means I am a legend! :)

  • @napperforlife2020
    @napperforlife2020 4 роки тому +1

    "I AM LEGEND"

  • @kfreedom470
    @kfreedom470 4 роки тому +1

    That's what happens when you live in California, its not all sunshine and flowers there

  • @barbidolls
    @barbidolls 4 роки тому +1

    I adore you! ❤

  • @Traumatised311
    @Traumatised311 4 роки тому

    UA-cam recommendations exposing me lately

  • @livmorganfan8528
    @livmorganfan8528 4 роки тому +1

    Im born in 1994,am I a baby boomer?

  • @Carla-de2sz
    @Carla-de2sz 4 роки тому

    That's amazing that you got to take a class on the Shoah. It sucks that Rose got kicked out at VP for her Jewish beliefs at USC.

    • @annemariechase
      @annemariechase  4 роки тому

      It was a great class, and I learned so much. I'll have to read up on that - I wasn't aware!

  • @MalluStyleMultiMedia
    @MalluStyleMultiMedia 4 роки тому

    Cool ... Study Salesforce if you’re interested

  • @kingdomseeker88
    @kingdomseeker88 4 роки тому

    Imagine having to drag all that up the stairs

  • @whiteknightofkaos
    @whiteknightofkaos 4 роки тому

    What coding language did you learn?

  • @southwestAZ
    @southwestAZ 4 роки тому

    yes the title fits with me to !!

  • @donjour69
    @donjour69 4 роки тому +1

    I love the Dad checks up on his daughter just incase she's filming her onlyfans

  • @ronbaltazar8773
    @ronbaltazar8773 4 роки тому

    You're a UA-camr so technically you are not unemployed but self-employed.

  • @XXTHE12THMANXX
    @XXTHE12THMANXX 4 роки тому

    Me too!

  • @janmichaelaustria9073
    @janmichaelaustria9073 4 роки тому

    Dude! Learn to code with me!

  • @genevi3680
    @genevi3680 4 роки тому

    Start a debt collecting business! It's going to be gigantic!

  • @lovelybeaute
    @lovelybeaute 4 роки тому +2

    This is what privilege looks like. Why not go get any job! Like tutoring, service or pay your parents rent?

    • @patb2582
      @patb2582 4 роки тому +9

      Why though? Isn't that what's family is for? She's clearly not a lazy girl so why put extra stress on her :(

    • @lovelybeaute
      @lovelybeaute 4 роки тому

      pats cookie I just don’t agree with her promoting the phrase unemployed millennial like it’s a badge of honor

    • @rjtheripper931
      @rjtheripper931 4 роки тому +1

      @@lovelybeaute with what? A competitive job market. I can't even apply to McDonalds and get it. I just quitted.

  • @TechVHD
    @TechVHD 4 роки тому +2

    Why can’t you use your usc connections to find a great job? i’m sure you can do it

    • @astrocutie37
      @astrocutie37 4 роки тому +8

      It's not that easy.. .especially at a time like this

    • @TechVHD
      @TechVHD 4 роки тому

      update: she could get a job from her previous internship but decided not to because of a couple of reasons, but then decides to learn how to code, which is great for self learning skill, but if it’s not used to create something of her own, then it’s going back to square one with her not wanting to go corporate

  • @istella1234
    @istella1234 4 роки тому

    It saids Im a legend

  • @deloresredman4792
    @deloresredman4792 11 місяців тому

    Its getting old.

  • @alezandradavila2581
    @alezandradavila2581 2 роки тому

    Lol

  • @Doors067
    @Doors067 3 роки тому

    I mean you could come live with me lmao

  • @geekaleek
    @geekaleek 4 роки тому +1

    YOURE A ZOOMER!

  • @danafarmer7763
    @danafarmer7763 4 роки тому

    😱🐷😁👍

  • @McRemmyBaby
    @McRemmyBaby 4 роки тому +2

    Most us millennials r BUMS? Why is this?