My untold Molar Pregnancy MISCARRIAGE story
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- Опубліковано 23 кві 2019
- My story of miscarriage is intimate and personal to me. Finally brave enough to share. So many women and partners go through this and suffer in silence. Share this video if you are or know someone. Let miscarriages not be a taboo subject. It is not your fault, you are not alone, and most importantly you are a mom.
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My first pregnancy way back in 1979 was a molar pregnancy. In that era no ultrasounds were done during pregnancy at all unless there were complications. I had an OB appointment at 10 weeks and my uterus was a 10 week size. Fetal dopplers at the time couldn't pick up a heartbeat until at least 12 weeks. At 14 weeks a couple of days before my next OB appointment I suddenly had severe stomach and back pain along with vomiting and then started hemorrhaging vaginally badly. It was just pouring out of me. I ended up in the ER via ambulance. The ER doctor said my 14 week uterus was measuring a 20 week size. I was rushed to emergency surgery. I woke up and the first thing I saw was an IV bag along with a bag of blood as I lost so much blood I required transfusions. I recovered completely without further care except follow ups. I went on to have 5 healthy babies between 1981 and 1995. My heart goes out to you♡
THIS. So helpful to hear how they did it before the era of more advanced technology. I appreciate you sharing.
I also had molar pregnancy last year and after undergoing minor surgery I didn't recovered and so I underwent chemotherapy for three months.Its now 8 months after chemo and am under check up . please tell me if in future I will have a child 😢?
@@christinemwende427now I m suffering from 3rd molar pregnancy from last 8 yrs in 8 yrs it was 3rd time
I'm going through this right now and I'm so happy to see that you're pregnant now. Thank God. I'm so happy for you.
I'm so so sorry that you are going through this. This is something that I hate anyone to go through. Praying for you and that you'll get a quick drop in your HCG levels!!
I've just found out I'm also having a molar pregnancy, literally less than an hour ago. Your story has given me hope. Thank you for sharing
I had one 29 years ago, and at the time, I couldn't find anyone who had had one to talk to. There was no internet and I felt totally alone... for years. My doctors had read about it, but some of them treated me like a freak. :-( It was really hard to deal with it alone. So glad people can find support now.
I know this was posted a year ago but I just wanted to share my story because yours has helped me so much. In January 2020 I found out I was pregnancy and had a miscarriage at 10 weeks I had a d&c. I got pregnant again in August 2020 and my first ultrasound showed a complete molar pregnancy. I had emergency surgery the same day and went home. I had to do weekly blood tests until my levels dropped. I went from 144000 HCG to 1 today. I’m now onto monthly blood tests and should be cleared to try again in 6 months. I just wanted to tell you that you’re not alone and a lot of women don’t talk about the struggles of pregnancy...I completely understand how you feel. God bless you and your family, I have hope for you, God will carry you through the dark times and will be there to uphold you in the positive times. Love to you ❤️
I know this is an old comment, im just re watching some old videos. But i hope all is doing well for you. I hope the love of jesus is filling your life. God bless you dear🙏❤
I'm pregnant right now after a miscarriage. So grateful for our new little blessing and thank you so much for this video, I know I'm not alone and that good things come out of hard times 💗 Congrats on your new baby boy!!
I had a molar pregnancy and I was in and out of hospitals because I was always dehydrated from severe vomiting. I had a partial molar pregnancy (I believe that’s what they told me) but my hormones after surgery went down after three weeks. I had one appointment every week to monitor it. The downer is that I had to have the surgery on my fiancé and mine anniversary so we didn’t get to celebrate. I would’ve been due this September which makes it hard but I have been handling it okay. So thank you for sharing your story. 💛
Hi Ashley! :) I'm so so so sorry to hear that you went through a molar pregnancy as well :( and on your anniversary to top it all off :( This seriously breaks my heart. I'm so happy that your hormone levels went down after three weeks! That's really good!! If you ever need someone to talk to I would love to be there for you
MIne took nearly a year to go down to less than 1 (relative 0). Blood tests every week for nearly a year!
Im suffering frm this molar pregnency
@@mohammedshaheen7203 same here love 😭 how you feeling now?
Becca: Thank you for sharing your story. I just had another miscarriage May-June. I am grateful you're opening up about this taboo subject. It makes Covid isolation doubled during this lonely time. Thank you for sharing. ❤
Just went through my molar pregnancy surgery today. And yes, nothing compares to the emotional pain. Thank you for this video. I feel less alone.
You are so brave and strong for telling your story! I'm so happy for you and your little family that you have today ❤️
Thank you for sharing, because it’s important for people to understand that life is challenging for everyone... even beautiful, happy, loved and supported people like you and your family! Congratulations on your healthy baby boy. He is fortunate to be so loved ♡
I'm so sorry you went through this. Thank you for sharing your story.
You are so strong and you deserve all the happiness!
Thank you so much for sharing your story ❤️ I just miscarried with a blighted ovum and I remembered seeing on your feed on IG about your story a couple months ago. It really helps knowing I’m not alone and hearing your story. I’m sure it hasn’t been easy but you have so much grace, faith, and power. So thank you for sharing ☀️
wow I am so sorry you are having to go through this :/ This is something I hate to be experienced by anyone. Take the time to heal and dwell and in self love ❤️you are NOT alone. Thank you for your sweetest words you are so so kind. If you ever need someone to talk to, id love to be here for you
18:00 - that’s exactly how I felt coming out of my D&C, luckily the anesthesia meds they gave me were still giving me a break from crying and calming me down
19:36 - so very true 💯 I’m in the middle of this now
Hi I’m 21 currently going through this. Everything was so confusing because it was too early to tell I had to have about 10 ultrasounds before they could tell it was a molar pregnancy .. and the D&C was so scary .. I just hope everything from here on out goes well and that my hormones drop .. Thank you for sharing this your video really gave me hope and faith ❤️
Just came across your channel. I has a molar pregnancy with twins. One was molar and one was normal. I had to lose both of them sadly. Its was very traumatic and then you have the added fear of cancer afterwards. Thank you for opening up and talking about. Cru is gorgeous, by the way 😍
Hello, can I ask how you how one would fear cancer afterwards? I've heard this in molar pregnancies but I am not sure how that could happen, thank you.
Thank you for talking about such an important topic! Praying for you and your family💛
Thanks for the love and the prayers
Girl, you are so sweet and i love your videos and tiktoks! You and Josh are literally #lifegoals! Congrats on the beautiful baby!!
I had a molar pregnancy too, when they did the D&C they punctured my uterus and I had internal bleeding and had to have a second surgery a few days later. After all I finally had my 2nd princess:)
wow that is so scary they punctured your uterus!! that sounds awful but im so glad you were able to fully heal :) And so happy you had your 2nd princess! So inspiring and so happy you got your happy ending :)!!
Such an empowering story. You are so strong! Keep trusting in the Lord :)
Thank you so much friend! means so much!! Keepin the faith for sure
Thank you for sharing your experience! I had kind of an opposite experience with my first pregnancy. I had an inexperienced sonographer at my first ultrasound, and due to my uterus also being tilted back, she couldn’t see anything. They rescheduled for a week later and the same sonographer still wasn’t able to find the baby. However my HCG levels were very high! They called me telling me I had a molar pregnancy. They said I would need emergency surgery and maybe even a hysterectomy! I was only 20 & freaking out. I decided to switch practices because I was frustrated at the care I’d received. At the new OB office I explained what I’d gone through expecting them to re-assure me. Instead they said it definitely sounded like I had a molar pregnancy, before they’d even examined me! The ultrasound tech at this place was able to find my healthy baby right away. Turns out I was pregnant with twins! However, one twin was growing outside of my uterus in my body (not an ectopic/tubal pregnancy). The placenta had attached to my organs and baby was free floating out there. That baby did not survive due to not enough blood flow, but the one in my uterus was perfectly healthy. He just turned three! I’m still so traumatized and upset that I was told I had a molar pregnancy right off the bat. I can’t imagine how much more traumatic it must have been to actually go through it-especially with all the conflicting info you heard! I’m so happy that you have baby Cru now!! ❤️
Awww! Thanks so much for sharing! That would be so so hard! I can't even imagine the whirlwind of emotions you must've been going through with that pregnancy! I'm soooo happy you were able to get a second oppinion :) Aww and now your sweet baby is 3!! That's so exciting :) We feel so blessed that we have little Cru now!! :)
Little did you know little Cru was on his way and that’s the baby God had planned for you 😍❤️. Always have hope.
I had a complete molar pregnancy too. I had cancer and had to go through chemo. My OH and I have just started to try again. Thank you so much for sharing your story and bringing awareness to the uniqueness of a molar pregnancy.
Wow I am so so sorry for everything you have gone through. This just hurts my heart :( Praying you can surround yourself with support and take the time to heal and dwell in self love
Evn mine is same..
What a roller coaster of trauma to find out what was going on! So sorry you had to endure all of this. Such a painful experience
Here you guys are a few years later with two beautiful boys 💙 💙
You are such a blessing to me right now.. although I’m not going through a molar pregnancy (which I can’t even imagine how you did that) but I am currently 28 weeks pregnant and my water broke.. so now I’m in this hospital room for the next 6 weeks away from my other babies and family and it’s so hard. We had already met with an amazing midwife and planned on a water birth .. I have been so excited ... and then this happens... it’s so easy to lose focus on what is important .. I’m so grateful baby is doing great and moving and doing well in its little empty bath.. I’m sad my bump isn’t as big as it was .. I’m sad I can’t enjoy the rest of this pregnancy the way I planned in my head with my kids and husband .. just so many emotions. I have been crying all morning .. you are such a sweet girl and I love it beautiful smile and heart. Thank you for sharing such a personal moment in your life to give encouragement! I would love to hear from you!!! I have followed Britney, lo, and Maddie since their first pregnancy which is when I got pregnant with our son . And then all of u got pregnant again and so did I a few months later ... and I have been so excited .. it’s just hard. But thank u!!
Hello dear, i hope you and your baby are doing well. My first baby was born at 36 weeks. I was in early labor for 6 weeks. I had it stopped 2 times and had steroids for my babys lungs i also had high blood pressure. Im so sorry you didnt get to enjoy your full pregnancy, i was also scared my entire first pregnancy i also had an sch and bled the whole time. I know its not the same but i do know it can really hurt you mentally. So i pray for you and your family to just have happiness and joy and love. Your amazing!
@@kelsiefletcher that had to have been really scary.. I think any pregnancy that doesn’t go the way it’s supposed to is scary regardless of circumstances.. u feel out of control and that’s really hard.. my little princess came at 31 weeks .. is in nicu but is doing so great!!!!! Cant wait to bring her home !!!!
Praying for you and your beautiful family!
Here are some of my favorite bible verses in times of grief and sadness.
“Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.”
-Matthew 5:4
“The lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”
-Psalm 73:26
“He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.”
-Psalm 147:3
So beautiful
This was very encouraging to me... thank u for reminding me of god’s promises!
Thank you for sharing. I found out I have this yesterday. I'm scared and confused... praying for the best
So glad you spoke about this! I had my normal levels back on the 29th of May after my partial molar pregnancy! It took me almost 4 months of testing to reach that normal Hcg. Still struggling right now with bleeding and horrendous period camps like I've never had before but so thankful that the scary part is over! Love and support for everyone out their going through this! ❤️❤️
Wow i am so so sorry you have to go through this! :( it's so so hard. Praying you can heal and your cramps get better soon that sounds just awful!! Sending you so so much love!
Going through the aftermath of partial molar too. Only on month 2 of testing and my levels have plateaued. Praying to God that I don’t have to do the chemo. I’m so scared.
Thank you for this video, I know it’s old but I just found it. We were diagnosed early in week 8. We had to have a surgical abortion and now we have to get my hcg tested every two weeks. Fingers crossed my hcg goes down to 0 in 4 weeks ❤ Again thank you for sharing
Hi, I found your video because I'm afraid I might have a molar pregnancy and I was curious if you remember anything about what your HCG levels were? Mine were 125,000 at 7 weeks 5 days. My provider said that was high. I'm also seeing it in a lot of normal ranges too though. I go in for my first ultrasound Thursday and I'm afraid they are going to tell me it's a molar pregnancy. I've had two previous miscarriages and have been struggling with infertility for the last 8 years. This is the farthest along I have progressed, and I really thought this was going to be my rainbow baby. Now I'm so afraid and confused and Thursday feels like eons away...
god bless. everyone has a good time through their life and you are going through that good time with a lovely husbands and 2 beautiful kids....god bless you and literally every being in this world
Same feelings..and same thing happened to me 15 days ago still fighting and praying fr being a mother again😢
I love watching these two what a lovely family 😍💕 I hope to see a baby girl 💖💖
🤍🤍🤍 thank you for sharing!!!
I had a complete molar pregnancy a few months ago. I wish people talked about them more. I know they're rare but I wish I had heard about them before having one. I felt like the only one that had ever had one! The doctors said there was a high chance that I would have to have a hysterectomy. But thankfully they were able to save my uterus! Praying for the go ahead to try and get pregnant again soon.
Thank you so much
I have had my molar pregnancy evacuated a week ago. I am so scared about my final test report.
I know exactly what You felt. Drs giving me false hope Thinking my baby was growing normally. Turns to find out at 8 weeks i had complete molar pregnancy. Im so heartbroken and scared. You give me hope , im waiting for my hcg levels to go down im 1 week post op D&C surgery..
Sending hugs and prayer 🙏
Thank you so much!!
Same thing I had but I dint conceived again u r story brings very positive side😊
I just found out I have molar pregnancy 😭 like you said losing a baby is hard,, I have a d and C surgery tomorrow morning
It's so hard to think about it specially me and my partner we been wanting to have a baby for 9 years 😩 😢
hello. I am so happy to hear your story. I have a molar preganancy also and i am so scared. can i ask if is it possible that to be cancer?
did you had twice operation?
what should i do to low my hcg?
hope to hear from you🙏
Your HCG level needs to drop to below 5 to be considered within normal range. May God bless you and help us all through this difficult time xxx
Much love to you from New Zealand.
I’m going through the same exact thing right now I’m so sad scared everything all at once 🙏
How was your surgery I haven’t had mine they are talking about maybe needed a blood transfusion and having to go in every week to check my levels so scary
I am so so sorry you have to go through this!! This hurts my heart so much. Take the time to heal and dwell in self love
@@anaalves6241 I had to do the same thing! the surgery isn't too bad, they put me under so you don't feel anything! Recovery is usually just 2 weeks! praying your goes well!!
I just got diagnosed with a molar pregnancy yesterday and they're doing surgery today, everything happened so fast im shaking.
Was für eine schöne Familie, so liebevoll ❤❤❤❤
So sorry that you were forced to end that pregnancy 😰
I am going through this right now but they refused to do the d&c now because I have covid so I'm home in quarantine depressed
I’m feeling so hurt, so lonely n my emotions all over the place😞 I’m going to have my molar pregnancy removed wednesday I have never been so scared in my life, I didn’t plan to have any more kids I have three already, last year I stop using birth control I didn’t get pregnant after a year with a molar pregnancy this time, o don’t know if it will be more dangerous cause 45 but the felling it’s all the same, I’m
Having anxiety n can’t sleep at night, I’m feeling like my life it’s over🥺😭
Going the same.. I’m terrified
Hi my wife had a molller pregnancy after d &C she recovered after three months as like you now it's have been 7 month can you tell me when we try for baby
I’m going through this now. I’m so scared. Could you tell me what should I do or eat to drop my HcG? 😭 hope to have your share. From Vietnam
Same here hun😭😭 how feel now??
I had a molar pregnancy too 😔 and 3 other miscarriages.
Thank you
does anyone having had a molar pregnancy know how high their hcg levels were?
i just got the call from the doc that im at 180000 and im only 7 weeks.. i need to go in for an ultrasound and worry it could be molar.
I am watching knowing she has a happy life with Josh cru and indi
please tell me when did you have that molar pregnancy ....and how long you waited before you get pregnant ...im going through this now and im so scared
I'm so sorry to hear that you are going through this :( I was so scared too. My heart goes out to you! I found out I was pregnant May 2018. I had my D and C surgery on June 12, 2018. My HCG blood levels went down after 3 months and then I found out I was pregnant May of 2019. So the whole process took about 1 year. I'm praying for you!!
@@ockeydockey im so happy to hear this ...i have good news ...im now one month after the c section and my hcg levels is negative 😍😍😍😍im so so happy and my doctor was impressed ....thank yo soo so much you inspire me ..biiig hug🤗🤗🤗
I had a molar pregnancy when I was 14/15 I don’t quite remember but I know I had to have 2 d&c’s and I also couldn’t get pregnant for a whole year. I did had to get chemo for it but not the one where I lost my hair. I always think about it and the what if’s. Now I have 2 handsome healthy boys and I’m glad gods plan was greater than mine.
I'm so sorry you had to go through that! It is definitely such a hard thing to go through! I'm so so happy that you now have to handsome healthy boys! You are so strong! Sending you so much love!!
Have u blessed with twins aftr molar pregnency
I'm so sorry for your loss, and at such a young age!! It must have been so difficult. I'm 31 and I had my D&C 2 months ago. Like you I then also had to start a course of chemotherapy to get rid of it as it had become an Invasive Mole. I'm going through my second cycle of chemo right now. I'm so happy to hear that you have your beaufitul boys now! It's given me so much hope. God bless you always xxx
How many cycle of chemo you become ok@@user-me6mr3lw5l
Que. Linda. Pareja
Hugs to u n hubby
thank you so so much! sending you hugs as well
Hai last week i had a molar removal surgery
I'm going through this right now.. pray for me
Praying for you
Hi, I've also just found out about my molar pregnancy. How did you get on with yours? InshaAllah all is well with you now x
@@user-me6mr3lw5l I've had to go through ivf. This is my first cycle. Fingers crossed!!
@@shahistasalam1 May Allah give you the baby of your dreams!
Hi shaista listen I was also going through this
I never had any pain after my D&C
I had mine over 30 years ago in-between my 2 son's.