“I was praying for a miracle.” In 2019, blogger SuperPrincessJo spoke about a deep personal loss that is suffered by many couples, but rarely discussed.
I have had 4 pregnancy miscarriage (edit: now 6 in total ; now have decided to take no more health and emotional risk for this one thing) and still don’t have kids.. Today I want all the women having condition like me that “It’s completely OK”.. I went through so much mental trauma because of this and the pressure of society... But now i have realised it’s fine.. Living a happy life is the most important thing.. Women’s please don’t blame ur self for not being married, not being enough fair/tail/thin, And not having kids.. It’s all completely fine
I hope you're doing well...same thing happend 2 me twice already and the pain is unbearabe especially when family members is putting pressure on you for a heir
I used to follow her channel when I was a teen. After that, i came across her today. It's heartbreaking. Pregnancy is difficult... Both for the husband and wife but a mom has to suffer much more.
I lost my baby just last month and since then I've constantly searched for videos and information regarding miscarriage. I literally cried with you through the whole video.... it's really a tough journey....be it pregnancy or miscarriage. Fortunately I'd husband,my family,my friend and my doctor. But this loss stays with you for a really long time. I'm still on leave cuz I don't want to go outside my house and be around people other than my own. I think I should stop here, it's too much that I've written. You were brave to have come out in the open.
This is so heart wrenching. My father's sister had 8 miscarriages. But she became pregnant from the 9th time and the child survived and he is 12 years old now. I still feel a shiver down my spine whenever I recall the incident.
I hav recently gone through the same with my first pregnancy. It really takes a toll both emotionally and physically. Everyone says its very common and happens to many but somewhere being it common doesnt reduce my loss. I really hope every woman who is pregnant and looking forward to meet her child have a healthy baby ..
True, this being common, doesn't reduce my pain, very difficult to cope, specially when your body showed all the symptoms and suddenly in the scanned you realize it's a miss miscarriage.. 😢 I hope I am blessed again 🙏 ✨️
@@banorani9914 after marriage i conceived again after around 4 months and this time everything went well and by the grace of almighty now I am mother of my darling son.😍😍😍
My mother faced miscarriage too. She miscarriaged before my brother and before me too. My brother and I have a 7 years difference. I'm not a mother yet but I can totally feel the pain. Women goes through lot of trauma stress and depression. All my prayers and blessings are with you and your family.
I had lost my dd at 37 week...one routine check and they said there is no beat...the second time last year at 7 weeks...I don't know how I am moving on
It happened to me very recently last year on my birthday couple of months ago. It was my first pregnancy and there was no heartbeat till 10th week. I can understand the pain and I am also still processing the pain. But congratulations to you on your healthy second baby. Baby girl is a blessing. God bless her.
My sister went through this and initially it was difficult to talk about but when we started... We realized everyone knew someone who had gone through the same... 😔
My mom was 1.5-2 months pregnant 🤰 but then, she didn't know the fact ... Eventually it landed up in a miscarriage 😖... When I was still a kid, and I didn't even know anything about it...
Thankyou so much for sharing such a personal experience. I'm so sure it must have given so many women and people strength and spreading awareness is really important. That it could happen to anyone, the feeling that I'm not alone will really help along with the other tips to cope with it.
Happened with me .. It was a very tough time. :(. I can totally understand what you are going through.. dont worry. everything will be fine. I went through this trauma for 8 months.
This is my exact story. came to know day before yesterday about my baby not having a heartbeat, exactly 10th week ,yesterday morning natural bleeding started and I could do nothing.took tablets yesterday. Now am watching this video with very bad stomach cramps. don't know how I got recommended this video,this is exactly my situation.. but thank you for sharing this.
I am undergoing my miscarriage now as I am speaking. So much blood , pain and how it makes your body sore and tired... I knew about my pregnancy loss at my 9th week and the baby stopped growing at 7th. at my supposed 10th week, took the oral med (in SG) and still going through the process now. Just wanted to assure all mommies here that you are not alone. "Do you wanna get preggy soon? I will see once i get through the bleeding ....
Misoprostol, that's what they give you here in the UK. Because it's legal here. But trust me it's a real painful process so they supplement it with codeine. Either way, it's not a good feeling - physically and emotionally. Unless the pregnancy tissue is passed, your body will keep experiencing pregnancy symptoms. I'm happy you've come out of this phase and I'm really sorry you had to go through it.
This year I too passed through a similar condition but mine was ectopic pregnancy. It was our first pregnancy and I was totally devastated. It is still difficult to sink in with the fact that I have lost it through an emergency c section surgery.
I am going through the same and it was my first pregnancy after 6 years of marriage.I hope good things happen as it is shown in video. And thanks for sharing this which made me feel I am not alone.But I wish everyone has a healthy pregnancy.
Tc of ur self ... i had a stillborn at 41 weeks full term my first child all alone during this pandemic.... one day before delivery i had ob appointment and everything normal...i was 5-6 cm dilated when reached hospital very excited happy not knowing in ten minutes dr declared baby passed ... i still had to deliver baby normally had stitches everything just had no baby ..horrible thing is most of times one don’t know what happened
I am having the same experiance now , just came across this video as I'm browsing through about missed miscarriage. I had normal 27 day cycle till March , In March I got periods late .. I went to dr and diagnosed with pcos , bt since I got periods within 5 days late , she said to wait and watch the cycles before going for any treatment plans . Next month itself I got pregnant , I was soo happy as it was my first, I got to see heartbeat at 7 weeks and was quite positive . I had pregnancy symptoms apart from nausea and dint have any pain or bleeding . I went for nt scan dr told that baby stopped growth at 9 weeks and I was devastated . I had to go through medicated abortion . It's hard to accept tht how can baby just stop beating .Now I have hard times ahead to deal with this loss , pcos and possibility of a baby
All those people ( doctors and others ) are to be held accountable for this who hold the opinion that one should *PLAN* pregnancies. Also there should be enough *GAP* between two kids. This is all nonsense.......and this poor lady's experience is proof enough. On the contrary, many times we see many families having kids so close to each other in their birthdate that they are almost like twins; and there's nothing wrong with their health !!!
Hello,I feel you are coming from a place of ignorance and stupidity. The gap between two kids is to make sure any of the kid doesn't get neglected. Also,women have ammnorhea (or natural infertility) for 5-6 months . And why on earth is this even related to this woman's story?
Same happened with me. It's very personal and emotional issue. It's easy to say it's common but the person who is going through this incident suffers mentally and physically.
I also faced same problem... Very heart broken... Ye Jane k bawajood k andar sb khtm ha phr b 2 din tk pills ni le paye.. Same I did went for 2nd ultrasound..... It's really broke down you I cried whole day and night and don't want to let him or her out but Allah knows best..... May Allah bless every woman normal and healthy baby... Ameen
Same happened to me with my second pregnancy.so my doctor did evacuation on d process I started bleeding that I almost lost my life, so he have to stop hoping that it has finished . After three days in hospital I went back home so after same days a week plus I was still bleeding so I had to return to hospital for scan to know what was wrong. Surprising to me the pregnancy was still der,so I repeated the evacuation again for the second time thank god this time around everything was successful. I never imagined my self hearing threatened miscarriage
I have 6 missed miscarriages 😢 Alhumdulillah i have a daughter but now again i am 11.5 weeks pregnant but doc told me the same story in 6 weeks there was a heartbeat but on 11 weeks baby lose heartbeat i am very tens and in grife please pray for me and my family too May Allah pak give my daughter long and healthy life and bless me another healthy child Ameen😢😢😢😢😢
Oh my God, through your whole story I thought I was listening to mysekf, I also have a son. At the moment I am grieving and hoping for a positive resolution next try...
Recently i have had 11 weeks 3 days misscarriege😭💔i dont know how to move on its so difficult to face .I thought l lost my heartbeat 😢😢I missed my baby everytime. I hope positive healthy baby very soon plz pray for me who are reading my comments 🙏🏼🙏🏼😭😍
What she she had gone thru during 2018, I am experiencing the same now.. DNC appointment is tomorrow. Should I say thanks to the God now for suggesting this vdo for me or should I curse the God for what I am facing now Seriously!?! frustrated, this is my first baby after 7 years of marriage 😔
Dear pls have faith. God wants to give you strength in the form of this video and so many comments you can read.. I understand your pain very very well.. And definitely you can curse God till u become fine! I too did..
I have this 4 times. Now I do not have any feelings also. I became rock. Thank god I have my daughter. After my daughter I wanted another child but know luck . I became pregnant 3 times but no luck.
I also feel this pain. I had 2 miscarriage and it's too painful than you haven't baby before It's also pain jab society pressure krtihai. Me uss pain se abhi tak bahar nhi aa pai hu still I have no baby it's too painful
I lost my 5 pregnant end the last one was last week Sunday and yet I have a MacDonald stitches so it was painful but they have not remove the stitches what should I do please help
I lost my first 5th month pregnancy in July 2021 becoz the baby was not getting proper blood circulation and now in June last month I had another missed abortion. I don't understand what to do next?
Oh my! This is so terrible. My cousin mausi suffered something like that. She was pregnant for whole 9 months and we don't know what happened at the end, but at the time of delivery, it was a dead baby boy. The baby was fully grown but his heartbeat didn't start. He was dead. I could see how shattered my mausi and mausaji, she was crying holding him. Anyway she has now 2 children one boy and girl. But that situation was terrible. May god gave every woman strength. This is the most beautiful and difficult process. 🙏
My mom lost my sister when my mom was 9 months just couple of days before due date... I won't know what is that loss is like... But we still remember my sister
I can understand ur pain, i've gone through this. I got pregnant after 5 months of marriage and had a natural miscarraige and suffered a lot and till now i can't concieve. I pray to Allah for every woman who have suffered, May u get a beautiful and healthy baby soon. Ameen sumameen. Pray for me also plz 😑
Aaj kal ectopic pregnancy bohot badh gai hai. Meri didi ko bhi hui thi last year. Late detect ho pai jiski wajah se fallopian tube burst ho gai ek. Is baar bhi ectopic hi lag raha hai.
Same thing happened to me in September this year. And this was my consecutive 3rd miscarriage. Before this i also had an ectopic pregnancy which could be fatal but thankfully my tubes were saved. Can totally relate how painful it is.
Don't cry ma'am...I am not a mother but as a lady I can feel it ...you are blessed with your loving husband and child ...bad things happen..but it will come over soon.. Good will be always there for you❤️
I am sorry but obviously she will cry....she lost a child. She is strong but don't force her to be that strong to not even cry. It's normal to cry if your heart is broken.
@@nittynatsha4346 I can understand your words and support you.. actually I am not saying it in that way to stop crying or something ...PPL who are able to shade tears are the strongest.. Those words actually I use to support her..(like you say someone "don't cry beta")
Sorry to hear this video . Same thing happened on my first pregnancy my doctors didn't tell me exactly what happened at that time. finally I got to know the reason because of this video thank u. Take care
It's completely okay with being unmarried..and not having kids.. Having kids ,being married is not for everyone..it's a choice to have children or not having children...living a happy life is most important..
I know her!! I used to watch her back in the day. My cousin had 9 miscarriages. And my aunt didn't really care like she was like "oh coz she's fat". When they had their first baby boy they were soooooo protective of him and didn't allow anyone to touch him. I understood it now. Coz they lost 9 children. I can only imagine the pain my cousin went through not just physical but mentally too. Now she has got another baby boy. And her first born son is sooo naughty haha.
Same happened with me in may 2020. I got pregnant after 4 years of my marriage and I had a missed miscarrage after 14 weeks of pregnancy. Had a panic attack when doctor told that there is no heart beat. That was the most painful moment of my life. Not sure when will i be pregnant again, I just pray soon 🙏
I got pregnant after 3yrs of marriage and after 36thweeks still birth happened to me on oct 2020.i had lost my entire 9th months..still having heavy heart..and don't know when will be pregnant again..i m praying for you and sending you hope too..be positive
I am here after suffering my second miscarriage few days ago. Please keep us in your prayers and may each woman womb be blessed with a healthy baby in 2022 and beyond
In my case in 6 week i got miscarriage on 1st scanning i got the bad new of no heart beat i still wait for more 10 days but after that 2 nd scan no improvement but after my DNC i was not able to rest my mother in law left me nd went bad as if nothing happens I think that time i need more rest but she left saying try again after some month nd not even my hubby support me you are very lucky i was bleeding for 10 day and i was working 😞no 1 can understand your pain more them your mother or your family i lost my first child still no rest i got
Firstly it's completely possible to get pregnant again. Stress increases cortisol which takes away resources from reproductive system. So stay happy and relaxed when trying for a baby. Just go with the flow and put your trust in the Creator of the heavens and the Earth. Secondly everything happens for a reason. There's wisdom in it. So again put your trust in God Almighty that this is for a greater good. Thirdly exert efforts in eating healthy and making dua.
I lost my baby just a few days before the delivery, she was a fully grown healthy baby..I got covid and then 4 days after that she stopped responding, It happened in September’20 , I still have not been able to overcome it, I know how it feels and right after losing the baby I got detected with three rare diseases and I am still under treatment...I hope I get better and can bring the baby back to us again🙏
@@fourhappybirds Dearest Shruti, Thankyou so much for the kind words...I cant tell you how much it means to me❤️ May God bless you and your family with all the happiness on earth and just like you said I really hope I get better very soon and she choses me again🙏❤️❤️
@@sacredhealingartbykaveri461 for sure.. just faith in our godmother.. my mom told me.. unki favourite devi durga hai... unko meri mom apni mother bolti hai.. shadi ke baad vo first time unke mandir gyi.. aur emotionally unhone man hi man bol diya ki.. maa aap hi aana mere paas.. aur us time mumma 2 months pregnant thi.. after that in 5-6 days mom lost that baby and 1 month after vo second time pregnant huyi.. aur mumma bolti hai.. me huyi.. ghar pe hi normally.. and mumma vo time 18 years ki thi.. i know baby ka lost bahut hi jyada painful hota hai.. jaise heart nikal liya ho body se.... but ma’am uper jo hamare achche ke liye bethe hai... shayad unka faisla apke achche ke liye ho.. agar vo bachchi aa jati.. apke hatho me aur 2-3 saal baad agar usko kuch ho jata.. to aap bilkul sambhal nahi paati khud ko.. trust kro vo bahut jaldi aane vali hai... aapke paas ❤️🙏
I can feel you..word by word...I faced the same trauma...I had a missed miscarriage in my 1st pregnancy...in my 12th week scan I got to know..I went into depression..the worst part was, everyone moved on..except me...it's been 6 years now, and by God's grace I m blessed with a boy and a girl..
Well, it's a natural thing, I didn't know so much is faced by girls in respect of miscarriage. Reading the comments on this video, I'm just shocked what ladies have faced. If one can't conceive, why can't others be supportive enough !? Afterall, it's not end of the world. Even if a couple can't have child, anytime they can adopt one. An orphan would get a family, and God will take care of the rest.
@severus Snape I guess I'm old enough. I don't know about social pressure and thing, but I've many friends who are in favour of adoption, even females for that matter. And I still stand by my statement, it's perfectly fine if you disagree.
@@shakshivyas8489 Wait! I think you misread my statement, or perhaps I couldn't put it in the right manner. I never said anything about the relationship a mother has with her foetus or biological baby. I know how attached a mother is to her child. "big deal" phrase was used for the society and patriarchy which demeans the lady who had had miscarriage. Obviously it's emotionally so painful that only the lady could understand, and I never meant to convey it the way you have taken it. As I said in my main comment, I was myself shocked to read the comments of ladies who had miscarriages, that how and what all they had to face from family and societal front, hence I wrote ONLY in that context. That "big deal" term was not used for the lady, but for the others around her. Meanwhile, you and this other person has accused me of anything and everything, and at the same time, you're talking about kindness? This selective kindness should be looked upon. Goodluck. I hope I could convey my message, if not, then I don't want to make a debate out of it. I'm sorry.
My cousin had miscarriage two years back, and her primitive in-laws made her life hell for quite many months. She had to go through counseling for 2 months to get out of that toxicity. I know how terrible she felt, what all she went through. We kinda faced it together. Everytime I offered her shoulder to cry. All this mess could've been avoided if her in-laws and their relatives had not made a big deal out of it. Inspite of giving her much needed care and love, they offered her slurs and insults. This world is full of sick people! I completely understand what you're saying but sometimes words are misunderstood on social media, just like people in the real world. lol so just keep calm
And yet some people have the audacity to treat children like dirt.
Today she is having beautiful baby Girl ❤️❤️
Really congrats.
She has a ** not she’s having
I have had 4 pregnancy miscarriage (edit: now 6 in total ; now have decided to take no more health and emotional risk for this one thing) and still don’t have kids.. Today I want all the women having condition like me that “It’s completely OK”.. I went through so much mental trauma because of this and the pressure of society... But now i have realised it’s fine.. Living a happy life is the most important thing.. Women’s please don’t blame ur self for not being married, not being enough fair/tail/thin, And not having kids.. It’s all completely fine
Thank u so mch.i so needed this.
You're so brave
You are so strong and beautiful ❤️❤️
Indeed. Thank you 🙏❤️
Sending you love and strength, lady.
Same happened to me..That too with my first pregnancy..No one can feel what a woman has to go through
Ya...
All is good now..Being mother to my boy 🤗..But can never ever forget my first unborn ❤️
@@kkaanchi God bless you :)
I hope you're doing well...same thing happend 2 me twice already and the pain is unbearabe especially when family members is putting pressure on you for a heir
@@cutiepie-vd1uz thats so bad that they dont understand your pain🥺 i am sorry
I had 3 missed miscarriages after 6 years now I have a son . And now with 5th month pregnant
May Almighty protect u n the baby. Ameen ♥️🤗
Congratulations dear
Stay happy and safe sissy
May u have strength to bear the loss and take care of your new child.
@@noreenkhan5412 congratulations
She is so brave to do this. More power to her. ❤
😎
I used to follow her channel when I was a teen. After that, i came across her today. It's heartbreaking. Pregnancy is difficult... Both for the husband and wife but a mom has to suffer much more.
What is her channel name?
Shi kha itz more difficult for women hope every men should understand this in my case not favorable
Thank you. Faced the same. Strength, light and hope for us. My baby is still waiting to come to me another time ❤
May we have it soon💓
We had a similar case ! After 8.5 weeks miscarriage happened!My wife has suffered today missed miscarriage. We are in deep shock!Please pray for us !
Me, last night 🥺 both of us, My husband and I are so shoked all Day.. ❤️❤️❤️
@@slaanasurbat6634same happened with me. Did you conceived later?
I lost my baby just last month and since then I've constantly searched for videos and information regarding miscarriage. I literally cried with you through the whole video.... it's really a tough journey....be it pregnancy or miscarriage. Fortunately I'd husband,my family,my friend and my doctor. But this loss stays with you for a really long time. I'm still on leave cuz I don't want to go outside my house and be around people other than my own. I think I should stop here, it's too much that I've written.
You were brave to have come out in the open.
I had a missed miscarriage in my 1st pregnancy..no one should suffer such pain..no words can explain such pain
Same here. 8th week miscarriage
@@aishahkhan7006 me too ,8 weeks missed miscarriage...
@@maricelamoy5803 May Almighty help us and grant us pious children too. Amen 😊🤲🏻
@@maricelamoy5803how soon after did you get pregnant
How soon after did you get pregnant
This is so heart wrenching. My father's sister had 8 miscarriages. But she became pregnant from the 9th time and the child survived and he is 12 years old now. I still feel a shiver down my spine whenever I recall the incident.
🤯😬😲😢
Ab vo theek h
I hav recently gone through the same with my first pregnancy.
It really takes a toll both emotionally and physically.
Everyone says its very common and happens to many but somewhere being it common doesnt reduce my loss.
I really hope every woman who is pregnant and looking forward to meet her child have a healthy baby ..
True, this being common, doesn't reduce my pain, very difficult to cope, specially when your body showed all the symptoms and suddenly in the scanned you realize it's a miss miscarriage.. 😢 I hope I am blessed again 🙏 ✨️
apny. phr kya kiya
@@banorani9914 after marriage i conceived again after around 4 months and this time everything went well and by the grace of almighty now I am mother of my darling son.😍😍😍
My mother faced miscarriage too. She miscarriaged before my brother and before me too. My brother and I have a 7 years difference. I'm not a mother yet but I can totally feel the pain. Women goes through lot of trauma stress and depression. All my prayers and blessings are with you and your family.
I had lost my dd at 37 week...one routine check and they said there is no beat...the second time last year at 7 weeks...I don't know how I am moving on
It happened to me very recently last year on my birthday couple of months ago. It was my first pregnancy and there was no heartbeat till 10th week. I can understand the pain and I am also still processing the pain. But congratulations to you on your healthy second baby. Baby girl is a blessing. God bless her.
My sister went through this and initially it was difficult to talk about but when we started... We realized everyone knew someone who had gone through the same... 😔
My mom was 1.5-2 months pregnant 🤰 but then, she didn't know the fact ... Eventually it landed up in a miscarriage 😖... When I was still a kid, and I didn't even know anything about it...
My mother had three miscarriages
@@o_0264 OMG! More power to you, bro.... So you are the only child?
@@monynarayananunni7935 no I am the eldest and have 1 younger bro..
The age gap is huge it's 12 years
@@o_0264 Oh... It's almost the same with me and my cousins - I have twin bros.. hum donon ke beech toh 14 years ka difference hai...
@@monynarayananunni7935 itnaa bara age gap honay ki wajah say lagtah hay Kay koi behan bhai hay he nai koi hota he nai jisay baat ki jayay
Thankyou so much for sharing such a personal experience. I'm so sure it must have given so many women and people strength and spreading awareness is really important. That it could happen to anyone, the feeling that I'm not alone will really help along with the other tips to cope with it.
Happened with me .. It was a very tough time. :(. I can totally understand what you are going through.. dont worry. everything will be fine. I went through this trauma for 8 months.
Ek maa ki dhukh koi nai smjht skta.
Really womens are really strongest of all.
Mai dua krta hu asea kisi ke saath nhi ho !
Thank you for sharing. It’s helpful to educate and know this is normal
This is my exact story. came to know day before yesterday about my baby not having a heartbeat, exactly 10th week ,yesterday morning natural bleeding started and I could do nothing.took tablets yesterday. Now am watching this video with very bad stomach cramps. don't know how I got recommended this video,this is exactly my situation.. but thank you for sharing this.
Wrong place I know . But there's a Reason God/Allah/Bhagwaan placed Women on a Higher place than Men .
Only mother!!
@@amerahhamdi5232 yeah but overall women too
@@ClashwithImb lol
@@amerahhamdi5232 ?
@@amerahhamdi5232 i meant That Women are on a higher place than men in General but Mother's for their children have a different level of place
Yes, U have done so good to aware all women. 😍
I am undergoing my miscarriage now as I am speaking.
So much blood , pain and how it makes your body sore and tired...
I knew about my pregnancy loss at my 9th week and the baby stopped growing at 7th.
at my supposed 10th week, took the oral med (in SG) and still going through the process now.
Just wanted to assure all mommies here that you are not alone.
"Do you wanna get preggy soon? I will see once i get through the bleeding ....
You are abundantly blessed!
Thank you for sharing this important video
This is so hard to watch.....but the fact it ends on a positive note❤️
Misoprostol, that's what they give you here in the UK. Because it's legal here. But trust me it's a real painful process so they supplement it with codeine. Either way, it's not a good feeling - physically and emotionally. Unless the pregnancy tissue is passed, your body will keep experiencing pregnancy symptoms. I'm happy you've come out of this phase and I'm really sorry you had to go through it.
in india also misoprostol is administered
gone through this myself
it is very painful emotionally
This year I too passed through a similar condition but mine was ectopic pregnancy. It was our first pregnancy and I was totally devastated. It is still difficult to sink in with the fact that I have lost it through an emergency c section surgery.
I am going through the same and it was my first pregnancy after 6 years of marriage.I hope good things happen as it is shown in video. And thanks for sharing this which made me feel I am not alone.But I wish everyone has a healthy pregnancy.
Experienced that😭😭😭😭😭😭 soo sad ,depressing and helpless situation.... love to u❤
Exactly the same story happened with me .I had a missed miscarriage in 2020 April and it was my first pregnancy.😌
How are you now??
Did you concieve now?
i also lost my 13 week old baby pray for him and I pray for you 😥
You made me cry
Tc of ur self ... i had a stillborn at 41 weeks full term my first child all alone during this pandemic.... one day before delivery i had ob appointment and everything normal...i was 5-6 cm dilated when reached hospital very excited happy not knowing in ten minutes dr declared baby passed ... i still had to deliver baby normally had stitches everything just had no baby ..horrible thing is most of times one don’t know what happened
💔💔how did you came out of this pls tel me, i lost ny baby in 22week please help 😔😔i m not able to move on
I am having the same experiance now , just came across this video as I'm browsing through about missed miscarriage. I had normal 27 day cycle till March , In March I got periods late .. I went to dr and diagnosed with pcos , bt since I got periods within 5 days late , she said to wait and watch the cycles before going for any treatment plans . Next month itself I got pregnant , I was soo happy as it was my first, I got to see heartbeat at 7 weeks and was quite positive . I had pregnancy symptoms apart from nausea and dint have any pain or bleeding . I went for nt scan dr told that baby stopped growth at 9 weeks and I was devastated . I had to go through medicated abortion . It's hard to accept tht how can baby just stop beating .Now I have hard times ahead to deal with this loss , pcos and possibility of a baby
All those people ( doctors and others ) are to be held accountable for this who hold the opinion that one should *PLAN* pregnancies. Also there should be enough *GAP* between two kids. This is all nonsense.......and this poor lady's experience is proof enough.
On the contrary, many times we see many families having kids so close to each other in their birthdate that they are almost like twins; and there's nothing wrong with their health !!!
Hello,I feel you are coming from a place of ignorance and stupidity. The gap between two kids is to make sure any of the kid doesn't get neglected. Also,women have ammnorhea (or natural infertility) for 5-6 months . And why on earth is this even related to this woman's story?
Same happened with me. It's very personal and emotional issue. It's easy to say it's common but the person who is going through this incident suffers mentally and physically.
I also faced same problem... Very heart broken...
Ye Jane k bawajood k andar sb khtm ha phr b 2 din tk pills ni le paye..
Same I did went for 2nd ultrasound..... It's really broke down you I cried whole day and night and don't want to let him or her out but Allah knows best..... May Allah bless every woman normal and healthy baby... Ameen
Same happened to me with my second pregnancy.so my doctor did evacuation on d process I started bleeding that I almost lost my life, so he have to stop hoping that it has finished . After three days in hospital I went back home so after same days a week plus I was still bleeding so I had to return to hospital for scan to know what was wrong. Surprising to me the pregnancy was still der,so I repeated the evacuation again for the second time thank god this time around everything was successful. I never imagined my self hearing threatened miscarriage
I have 6 missed miscarriages 😢
Alhumdulillah i have a daughter but now again i am 11.5 weeks pregnant but doc told me the same story in 6 weeks there was a heartbeat but on 11 weeks baby lose heartbeat i am very tens and in grife please pray for me and my family too May Allah pak give my daughter long and healthy life and bless me another healthy child Ameen😢😢😢😢😢
I had to opt for abortion on 20 weeks as I was bleeding for one week continuously last month. Please pray for me for future pregnancy..
Oh my God, through your whole story I thought I was listening to mysekf, I also have a son. At the moment I am grieving and hoping for a positive resolution next try...
Recently i have had 11 weeks 3 days misscarriege😭💔i dont know how to move on its so difficult to face .I thought l lost my heartbeat 😢😢I missed my baby everytime. I hope positive healthy baby very soon plz pray for me who are reading my comments 🙏🏼🙏🏼😭😍
What she she had gone thru during 2018, I am experiencing the same now.. DNC appointment is tomorrow.
Should I say thanks to the God now for suggesting this vdo for me or should I curse the God for what I am facing now
Seriously!?! frustrated, this is my first baby after 7 years of marriage 😔
Dear pls have faith. God wants to give you strength in the form of this video and so many comments you can read..
I understand your pain very very well..
And definitely you can curse God till u become fine! I too did..
I have this 4 times. Now I do not have any feelings also. I became rock. Thank god I have my daughter. After my daughter I wanted another child but know luck . I became pregnant 3 times but no luck.
Same happened when I lost my pregnancy when my baby didnt get heartbeat
It's so difficult to overcome from misscariag 😟😧Idk how much time I'll take to overcome.
Mera 6 week 3din hoya he.. R Dr ne khaha baby ki heartbeat nehi ayi he.. Plz mere liye pray korna.. Jo baby ki heartbeat a jaye.. Plz 🙏🙏🙏😔
Meri first pregnancy thi 2month hue the aur mera miscarriage hogaya 😭😭😭😭😭
I lost my unborn baby 😭😭😭
Same situation happened to me, 8 week pregnancy miscarriage, doc said it's missed pregnancy, 😭😭
HEY BUT WHAT IS THAT CUT WORD? I KNOE IT IS A SORT OF DEROGATORY TERM (since it's cut) ,BUT WHAT IT IS ? I CAN'T UNDERSTAND IT! I am a kid though!!!
I think it's the hospitals name
@@niraligarg4548 Oh! thanks!!!😊😊😊
This is Same my story as u said
I also had misscarriage yesterday at 11 weeks
😞😞😞😞😞
Very painfull
I had gone through the same phase miscarriage at 8 weeks but got to know after 11 weeke
I also feel this pain. I had 2 miscarriage and it's too painful than you haven't baby before
It's also pain jab society pressure krtihai. Me uss pain se abhi tak bahar nhi aa pai hu still I have no baby it's too painful
I hope I get pregnant and ek bacche ko janam du use goud mi utha spanku puri tarh se health bccha ho
I lost my 5 pregnant end the last one was last week Sunday and yet I have a MacDonald stitches so it was painful but they have not remove the stitches what should I do please help
Super Princess Jo
Same happened to me..I gave 3 doctors opinion.i missed abortion.i have 4 month .
I lost my baby today
Same story mam. 😢
I lost my first 5th month pregnancy in July 2021 becoz the baby was not getting proper blood circulation and now in June last month I had another missed abortion. I don't understand what to do next?
Hi,next time doctor should give u fraxiparine injections to make blood circulation good and everything ll be ok
10:55 what is that word that needs beep can someone can help me
It is the name of the hospital which was beeped
@@cuddlybear2159 thanks
Mera 4th month me missed abortion hogaya 😢
Oh my! This is so terrible. My cousin mausi suffered something like that. She was pregnant for whole 9 months and we don't know what happened at the end, but at the time of delivery, it was a dead baby boy. The baby was fully grown but his heartbeat didn't start. He was dead. I could see how shattered my mausi and mausaji, she was crying holding him. Anyway she has now 2 children one boy and girl. But that situation was terrible. May god gave every woman strength. This is the most beautiful and difficult process. 🙏
Om Shanti 🙏
Tats horrible... It must ve been really hard for her.
Same situation mere saath v hua and it was fault of doctor but by God grace now I m mother of little tiny baby girl
😭❤️🙏🌼 Can't imagine how difficult it must be for her...
Women are such beautiful creation of God. She is equally brave and emotional. Equally strong and sensitive. ❤️
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My mom lost my sister when my mom was 9 months just couple of days before due date... I won't know what is that loss is like... But we still remember my sister
Same
😔 I can relate I lost my brother soon after his birth.
I can understand ur pain, i've gone through this. I got pregnant after 5 months of marriage and had a natural miscarraige and suffered a lot and till now i can't concieve. I pray to Allah for every woman who have suffered, May u get a beautiful and healthy baby soon. Ameen sumameen. Pray for me also plz 😑
Ameen. Allah sbko baby ki khusi den
Recently mujy bhi pregnancy thi lekin wo ectopic pregnancy thi.. Sabse bura time tha wo meri life ka..same day mera operation hua..
😒😒😒😒
I can totally understand, we were also cluelessly running after doctors in lockdown phase.. 😔
I can understand the pain madam.
Aaj kal ectopic pregnancy bohot badh gai hai. Meri didi ko bhi hui thi last year. Late detect ho pai jiski wajah se fallopian tube burst ho gai ek.
Is baar bhi ectopic hi lag raha hai.
This trauma is really shattering. I'm a bachelor but i can understand how hard this pain is
Same thing happened to me in September this year. And this was my consecutive 3rd miscarriage. Before this i also had an ectopic pregnancy which could be fatal but thankfully my tubes were saved. Can totally relate how painful it is.
Stay strong dear 🤗lots of hugs for you
Stay strong ma'am
Don't cry ma'am...I am not a mother but as a lady I can feel it ...you are blessed with your loving husband and child ...bad things happen..but it will come over soon..
Good will be always there for you❤️
I am sorry but obviously she will cry....she lost a child. She is strong but don't force her to be that strong to not even cry. It's normal to cry if your heart is broken.
@@nittynatsha4346 I can understand your words and support you.. actually I am not saying it in that way to stop crying or something ...PPL who are able to shade tears are the strongest..
Those words actually I use to support her..(like you say someone "don't cry beta")
@@atreyeebiswas9802 ohk... I misunderstood you.. Sorry!
I had an exact situation in my first pregnancy....missed miscarriage...
But... after that I am a happy and proud mother of two wonderful kids...❤️❤️
apny apna treatment krwayaa tha
@@banorani9914ye reply koi nhi krta kisi ki help ho jati h
Natural hi concive hua tha sister ya fhir dr. Ko dikha k
Superprincessjo ❤️ youtube sensation back in the day .. so sad to hear the story
I can understand ur feelings.. I have also gone through the same.. it's called missed miscarriage or blighted ovum..
Same here @pooja Mathur
U r really brave to share this to the world. Be 💪
Sorry to hear this video . Same thing happened on my first pregnancy my doctors didn't tell me exactly what happened at that time. finally I got to know the reason because of this video thank u. Take care
It takes courage to speak on such sensitive and avoided problem. I would like to appreciate for taking this courageous step.
It's completely okay with being unmarried..and not having kids..
Having kids ,being married is not for everyone..it's a choice to have children or not having children...living a happy life is most important..
@Amandeep Wahi it is not compulsory
True that !!! Couples can just go and adopt a child...This OUR OWN BLOOD has put so much of Women, their health, their mental peace in danger ..💔
@Amandeep Wahi no uterus,no opinion
Madam you are great to share this video. Many people don't know what happens. It's very nice of you to inform everyone 👍
I know her!! I used to watch her back in the day. My cousin had 9 miscarriages. And my aunt didn't really care like she was like "oh coz she's fat". When they had their first baby boy they were soooooo protective of him and didn't allow anyone to touch him. I understood it now. Coz they lost 9 children. I can only imagine the pain my cousin went through not just physical but mentally too. Now she has got another baby boy. And her first born son is sooo naughty haha.
What is her channel name??
Same happened with me in may 2020. I got pregnant after 4 years of my marriage and I had a missed miscarrage after 14 weeks of pregnancy. Had a panic attack when doctor told that there is no heart beat. That was the most painful moment of my life. Not sure when will i be pregnant again, I just pray soon 🙏
hope you get a healthy happy pregnancy
@@annjay1935 thanks for your support.
You are going to be mommy soon I pray for u ❤
@@bhavyaparashar7486 Thank you so much for showing the support.
I got pregnant after 3yrs of marriage and after 36thweeks still birth happened to me on oct 2020.i had lost my entire 9th months..still having heavy heart..and don't know when will be pregnant again..i m praying for you and sending you hope too..be positive
Now she is blessed with a baby girl
I can understand ur pain dear.same thing happen with my elder sis also ...she was also pregnant with second child after 4 years .
I had a missed miscarriage in 7 week of pregnancy, same like you i didn't feel any symptoms of miscarriage.i also take care of myself very good
Salute to ur husband he supported u at each and every time 👍👍❤️
Husband should definitely
Ur very lucky some of us are not
Felling bad really .....but thank you for sharing it's very helpful video ....and congratulations for your baby girl ...
I am here after suffering my second miscarriage few days ago. Please keep us in your prayers and may each woman womb be blessed with a healthy baby in 2022 and beyond
I hope you overcome this ❤️ and may god bless your family 😘
Feeling happy to see her second child in the end of the video.
In my case in 6 week i got miscarriage on 1st scanning i got the bad new of no heart beat i still wait for more 10 days but after that 2 nd scan no improvement but after my DNC i was not able to rest my mother in law left me nd went bad as if nothing happens I think that time i need more rest but she left saying try again after some month nd not even my hubby support me you are very lucky i was bleeding for 10 day and i was working 😞no 1 can understand your pain more them your mother or your family i lost my first child still no rest i got
Firstly it's completely possible to get pregnant again. Stress increases cortisol which takes away resources from reproductive system. So stay happy and relaxed when trying for a baby. Just go with the flow and put your trust in the Creator of the heavens and the Earth.
Secondly everything happens for a reason. There's wisdom in it. So again put your trust in God Almighty that this is for a greater good.
Thirdly exert efforts in eating healthy and making dua.
I lost my baby just a few days before the delivery, she was a fully grown healthy baby..I got covid and then 4 days after that she stopped responding, It happened in September’20 , I still have not been able to overcome it, I know how it feels and right after losing the baby I got detected with three rare diseases and I am still under treatment...I hope I get better and can bring the baby back to us again🙏
She will return... very soon believe me 🙏 god bless you 😘❤️
@@fourhappybirds Dearest Shruti, Thankyou so much for the kind words...I cant tell you how much it means to me❤️ May God bless you and your family with all the happiness on earth and just like you said I really hope I get better very soon and she choses me again🙏❤️❤️
@@sacredhealingartbykaveri461 for sure.. just faith in our godmother.. my mom told me.. unki favourite devi durga hai... unko meri mom apni mother bolti hai.. shadi ke baad vo first time unke mandir gyi.. aur emotionally unhone man hi man bol diya ki.. maa aap hi aana mere paas.. aur us time mumma 2 months pregnant thi.. after that in 5-6 days mom lost that baby and 1 month after vo second time pregnant huyi.. aur mumma bolti hai.. me huyi.. ghar pe hi normally.. and mumma vo time 18 years ki thi.. i know baby ka lost bahut hi jyada painful hota hai.. jaise heart nikal liya ho body se.... but ma’am uper jo hamare achche ke liye bethe hai... shayad unka faisla apke achche ke liye ho.. agar vo bachchi aa jati.. apke hatho me aur 2-3 saal baad agar usko kuch ho jata.. to aap bilkul sambhal nahi paati khud ko.. trust kro vo bahut jaldi aane vali hai... aapke paas ❤️🙏
Also aap ne bohot he sach baat boli hain, may be this was God’s plan and he will send her back to me once I am better🙏😊😊
Be positive 🥰🥰😘 strongwoman
Why is India still so tabooed by such topics......We have to let go of these societal issues.....We are with u
I can feel you..word by word...I faced the same trauma...I had a missed miscarriage in my 1st pregnancy...in my 12th week scan I got to know..I went into depression..the worst part was, everyone moved on..except me...it's been 6 years now, and by God's grace I m blessed with a boy and a girl..
Thank you
Aapke jo first abort hua wo girl thi ya boy
Thank you for sharing your story with us. ❤️
Well, it's a natural thing, I didn't know so much is faced by girls in respect of miscarriage.
Reading the comments on this video, I'm just shocked what ladies have faced.
If one can't conceive, why can't others be supportive enough !? Afterall, it's not end of the world. Even if a couple can't have child, anytime they can adopt one. An orphan would get a family, and God will take care of the rest.
@severus Snape I guess I'm old enough.
I don't know about social pressure and thing, but I've many friends who are in favour of adoption, even females for that matter.
And I still stand by my statement, it's perfectly fine if you disagree.
@severus Snape I feel no one's disrespecting anyone here.
@@shakshivyas8489 Wait! I think you misread my statement, or perhaps I couldn't put it in the right manner.
I never said anything about the relationship a mother has with her foetus or biological baby. I know how attached a mother is to her child.
"big deal" phrase was used for the society and patriarchy which demeans the lady who had had miscarriage. Obviously it's emotionally so painful that only the lady could understand, and I never meant to convey it the way you have taken it.
As I said in my main comment, I was myself shocked to read the comments of ladies who had miscarriages, that how and what all they had to face from family and societal front, hence I wrote ONLY in that context. That "big deal" term was not used for the lady, but for the others around her.
Meanwhile, you and this other person has accused me of anything and everything, and at the same time, you're talking about kindness? This selective kindness should be looked upon.
Goodluck.
I hope I could convey my message, if not, then I don't want to make a debate out of it. I'm sorry.
@severus Snape 👆 please read this.
And I admire the 'subtle' way you judge people.
My cousin had miscarriage two years back, and her primitive in-laws made her life hell for quite many months. She had to go through counseling for 2 months to get out of that toxicity.
I know how terrible she felt, what all she went through. We kinda faced it together. Everytime I offered her shoulder to cry.
All this mess could've been avoided if her in-laws and their relatives had not made a big deal out of it.
Inspite of giving her much needed care and love, they offered her slurs and insults.
This world is full of sick people!
I completely understand what you're saying but sometimes words are misunderstood on social media, just like people in the real world. lol so just keep calm