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  • Опубліковано 29 вер 2024

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  • @AngelicaSong
    @AngelicaSong  4 роки тому +126

    also plss watch the ads i gotta pay off those student loans pls help a sis out with some capitalism money hahah uWu pls

    • @anasali-jf7dz
      @anasali-jf7dz 3 роки тому +8

      those adds are good, honestly i would buy that women socks if i had women feet.

    • @gingyrocka6039
      @gingyrocka6039 3 роки тому +2

      its okay to say it as what it is, it's discrimination based on skin colour and ethnicity that is the definition of racism...so sorry that happened, but thanks for sharing your story I won't bother

  • @omarzaifulizan3064
    @omarzaifulizan3064 4 роки тому +357

    I've literally seen lil innocent asian girls from high school turn into the most baddest abgs in college LMAOoo

    • @TechVHD
      @TechVHD 4 роки тому

      Omar Zaifulizan as in abg or cheat

    • @FaceClef
      @FaceClef 4 роки тому +6

      Whats abgs

    • @janetlamkin7969
      @janetlamkin7969 4 роки тому

      @@TechVHD qq we

    • @bazkoa5215
      @bazkoa5215 4 роки тому +35

      They've been sheltered by their conservative parents from a young age. Once they gain that individual freedom they never had before they go all out.

    • @aikoarchiveee
      @aikoarchiveee 2 роки тому

      @@FaceClef asian bad girl

  • @CarmenWood-un2zt
    @CarmenWood-un2zt Рік тому +5

    I am senior at UCB and there are some things that need to be clarified:
    1. There is NO hook up culture. The hook ups that you hear about is only between the women in campus and the top 20% of chads. If you are a regular guy, odds are you will not be able to hook up.
    2. There are a LOT of students that do not participate in the party scene. For a lot of students, we simply don't have the time or want to party.
    3. As she mentioned, getting in to some parties will be difficult. Especially if you are not a woman. As a guy you will not have the traditional college experience if you do bot have
    connections to some fraternity.
    Go bears🐻

    • @thelonercoder5816
      @thelonercoder5816 Рік тому

      So true. This person gets it. It's funny when people say how college is "the best years of your life". This only applies if you're goodlooking, a woman, or super extroverted. For most people, college really isn't different than highschool, other than you living on campus and having more responsibilities. Most men don't engage in hookup culture because they aren't attractive enough to, most people aren't going to parties/bars that frequently (especially introverts like me), and most people do pretty basic things outside of class. College in movies doesn't = real life.

    • @zeyunggiscool
      @zeyunggiscool Рік тому

      were you social on campus?

    • @zeyunggiscool
      @zeyunggiscool Рік тому

      @@thelonercoder5816 were you social on campus?

    • @thelonercoder5816
      @thelonercoder5816 Рік тому

      @@zeyunggiscool Yes. Believe it or not, you can have a social life without hooking up with random people. Most people have basic social lives but aren't engaging in hookup culture lmao. Like I said, you have to be attractive enough to sleep around in the first place. Most guys aren't attractive enough to pull it off even if they wanted to.

    • @hp2546
      @hp2546 9 місяців тому

      @@thelonercoder5816 I guess college is not the same compared to the old generation. We live in a world where college is now mixed with different adults in different age. Even senior citizens go to college. Older adults go to college. There are some that are actually married and does not go around hooking up to cheat on their spouse. Some of the college students even have kids of their own and they make families more important than those hookup culture because not all believe in cheating on their spouse. Going to college is not always about partying. Some even just focus on studying especially struggling students who is barely keeping up with busy schedules. Some even cut their own parties out of their lives. Some of us who graduated high school wanted to control our own social life.

  • @mchlle94
    @mchlle94 3 роки тому

    I think the hierarchy part is weird..That's very American I guess

  • @huilinwang9611
    @huilinwang9611 2 роки тому

    I knew you are American the first time

  • @santiagogarzon5312
    @santiagogarzon5312 4 роки тому +179

    You're ethnic story broke my heart. I experienced the same thing. As a Colombian-American I always felt as if I was trying to prove my "Americanness" but everyone just ended up seeing me as a foreigner even though I grew up in the same country as them, have lived in their culture, and speak English as a first language. In the end I just learned how to deal with it and stopped giving a crap however I know the feeling

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 роки тому +14

      10/10 we are all American.

    • @MLP1594
      @MLP1594 4 роки тому +3

      No deberías tener que probar nada a nadie. Deberías hacerles saber de qué estás orgulloso de tu procedencia.
      Saludos desde Colombia!

  • @diyatripathi6994
    @diyatripathi6994 4 роки тому +75

    This is just what I needed as quarantine has made me very dull. So thanks a lot! ❤❤

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 роки тому

      hahah hope this was SPICY enough

    • @diyatripathi6994
      @diyatripathi6994 4 роки тому

      @@AngelicaSong haha it definitely was

    • @hp2546
      @hp2546 9 місяців тому

      That will make me wonder how any college can have hookup parties to begin with. I know when the government banned social gatherings, many of us were forced into quarantine and so my first college party had to be in zoom meetings. No booze. No hookups. No drinking, No meeting in person, No drug party, etc. I have no idea why many posted videos about partying at college because some of us come from an environment where college parties don't exists due to quarantine. So I am sure for those that were able to party in that 2020-2021 timeline, they must of been in a state or country that doesn't have government quarantine which meant free to host a party.

  • @ShanRizwan
    @ShanRizwan 4 роки тому +36

    SPICY vid right here

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 роки тому

      too hot?

    • @iniaksjen800
      @iniaksjen800 4 роки тому +1

      Jesus !!! Shan from BU . How u doing man ? Is it cold this time of the year in Massachusetts New England.

  • @makhazia5581
    @makhazia5581 4 роки тому +41

    the way you carry yourself is so admirable! so excited to see more and more of your videos

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 роки тому +1

      aw thank you! im excited to post more

  • @christinaji4543
    @christinaji4543 4 роки тому +62

    Ugh when angelica's videos are more educational than my zoom lectures, ,, , , academic icon , , , ,, ,

  • @doodliespiy
    @doodliespiy 4 роки тому +90

    girl u HONEST

  • @HiryuBlue
    @HiryuBlue 4 роки тому +36

    Awesome video! Hey Angelica, how's the gym there at UC Berkeley?

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 роки тому +8

      pretty decent but it gets packed fast! there's two on campus; one main one and one smaller one

    • @HiryuBlue
      @HiryuBlue 4 роки тому +6

      @@AngelicaSong Cool! I only went to one gym there when I visited and only got to stay for about an hour. Didn't know here was another gym. You should make a video of the fitness options around Berkeley.

  • @sunnyquinn3888
    @sunnyquinn3888 2 роки тому +9

    I'm not sure about participating in Greek life. I feel like sororities are pretty much just "skinny blonde rich girl clubs" and that's not me, but I realize that is probably just ME being prejudiced.

  • @Christixn47
    @Christixn47 4 роки тому +16

    I’m going to UC Berkeley for track and field Fall 2020, I do UA-cam too and hope we can collab when I get there !! 😁

    • @tylernevala1380
      @tylernevala1380 4 роки тому

      BRO CONGRATS i'm trying to do the exact same for fall 21

  • @arumirizky4227
    @arumirizky4227 4 роки тому +38

    you deserve more views and subscribers

  • @AngieYoo
    @AngieYoo 4 роки тому +13

    i love you and i love this 🥰 this was so real HAHAHA go bears :’)

  • @lucigrand6056
    @lucigrand6056 4 роки тому +72

    i honestly like how she clarified that she didn’t want to use the word racist very easily while still addressing a racial preference issue. sometimes and today specially we’re really quick to react and call things racist when that word means a lot more than just a subconscious preference that we all have, although it is still something we all have to work on though!

  • @Kei077
    @Kei077 4 роки тому +11

    how do i survive my senior year? I had a breakdown just a few hours ago ( not a dramatic one just the one where you wish you quit school)

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 роки тому +3

      :( I'm sorry you're having a tough time. if it's any hope --- it's almost over and were getting through it together

    • @Kei077
      @Kei077 4 роки тому

      @@AngelicaSong i hope it goes well thank you for responding to me

  • @RosyTa
    @RosyTa 3 роки тому +6

    damn this is so crazy bc i really thought i wanted to join a house but knowing my socal ass i will absolutely not take any shit especially abt my identity as a proud asian woman soooo i think i curved a really harsh environment for me 🤧

  • @TechVHD
    @TechVHD 4 роки тому +12

    does anyone cheat on their quizzes and tests honest?

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 роки тому +8

      guess you'll have to watch and find out :D

  • @edwardbsa
    @edwardbsa 4 роки тому +11

    professors r WILDIN

  • @k.e.4462
    @k.e.4462 4 роки тому +11

    you're such an underrated youtuber lol love you

  • @agirlhasnoname2039
    @agirlhasnoname2039 4 роки тому +11

    We love a well-spoken queen👑

  • @sydneywest7197
    @sydneywest7197 4 роки тому +6

    THANK YOU PEOPLE ALWAYS SUGARCOAT THINGS IM AN ADMITTED FRESHMAN AND EVERY WEBINAR I DID FOR ONLINE CAL WEEK WAS SO CHERRYPICKED

  • @scoobertdoobert9988
    @scoobertdoobert9988 4 роки тому +9

    how do i make my freshman year awesome? also, did you go random with a roommate? finding people on social media is a little intimidating

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 роки тому +6

      I'll do a freshman tips video! but yes go on FB pages and get to know people -- look for mutual friends or just go wild and do random!

    • @scoobertdoobert9988
      @scoobertdoobert9988 4 роки тому

      @@AngelicaSong ahh thank you so much for replying! u a big sister to me

  • @TechVHD
    @TechVHD 4 роки тому +6

    Are tests and quizzes online proctored and only Proctored at Berkeley or other schools? I want to quizlet and chegg

  • @victorianicolele
    @victorianicolele 4 роки тому +10

    om gthe tea HAHAH i loved this!!

  • @lynnelin4202
    @lynnelin4202 4 роки тому +5

    Love you soooooo much! It’s my first time to see your video. You are really gorgeous and confident! And your English is awesome

  • @haleyshih7573
    @haleyshih7573 4 роки тому +4

    oh damn she rly be spilling the tea on hierarchy lmfaoooOOO -- bruh i cant even comment/post on OH w/o offending my friends who are in those clubs kjlsfjkasksksjdfkskssskksksksk

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 роки тому +1

      :-)

    • @haleyshih7573
      @haleyshih7573 4 роки тому

      @@AngelicaSong LOL U RESPONDED WOW UR LESS FLAKIER THAN MY IRL FRIENDS LMFAOOO

  • @alexciss
    @alexciss 3 роки тому +5

    Straight facts, you really spilled the tea 😤

  • @shubhamsinha1330
    @shubhamsinha1330 3 роки тому +3

    are you asian too....like do you feel connected to your roots ....or just because you are from america and you have lived the american life...you feel american... ❤from Tripura India

  • @flyhigh5938
    @flyhigh5938 4 роки тому +22

    The drug part completely freaks me out

    • @F3L1XAUG3R
      @F3L1XAUG3R 4 роки тому +7

      No reason to be. Party drugs are everywhere in college and generally 20-30 year old late-night scenes (but not exclusively). You can partake in moderation or watch from the sidelines. Both options have their pros and cons.
      That being said... Crack, Meth, Heroin, Oxies, benzos, fentanil... If you see those pop up it's time to bail. Those groups/people trend downwards much faster and aggressively than others due to their hyper-addictive properties. But honestly you kind of have to be looking to find those scenes. They're nowhere near as out-in-the-open as molly/coke.
      Psychedelics (mushrooms, acid.. Etc) are fun and are often a great experience for most (but not all) people. Only do it if you trust the people you're with and know internally that you want to give them a try.
      You'll be fine if you keep a level head.

    • @deancj1
      @deancj1 2 роки тому +2

      What's more scary are the stories my partner who grew up in Berkeley told me about when she was still a Berkeley high student attending parties, frat and otherwise. This was a long time ago, maybe things have changed.

    • @drew5681
      @drew5681 2 роки тому

      @@deancj1 I live in the area. they have gotten significantly harder for randos or high schoolers to get into they most of the time require a bid and or cal id. I have heard of high school guys that sneak into Berkeley parties. If you’re a girl in high school and you look 18 plus you can probably get in to a lower tier frat party without sneaking in.

  • @amarathenth
    @amarathenth 6 місяців тому

    the way you said ecstasy three times in different ways is KILLING ME (molly, ecstasy and MDMA are the same thing)

  • @cambriading9858
    @cambriading9858 4 роки тому +6

    I just committed and I’m so excited!

  • @alecgoodwin5455
    @alecgoodwin5455 4 роки тому +4

    I think it comes down to people just wanting to be in their comfort zone of people that look and talk like them which unfortunately comes across as racist and discriminatory sadly.

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 роки тому +5

      But I have a thick valley girl ORange county accent lol how come they only wanted to be my friend once they found out about my social media stuff 😎😎😎

    • @alecgoodwin5455
      @alecgoodwin5455 4 роки тому

      @@AngelicaSong be like that sometimes. always be the one getting chased, never the chaser.

  • @unstrung65
    @unstrung65 6 місяців тому

    I'm 76 years old and would like to say , if more young people were like you , I would not be so worried about the future .

  • @sarahimunoz8418
    @sarahimunoz8418 4 роки тому +4

    I follow you on tiktok and all your advice is gold !!!! Go bears(:

  • @TechVHD
    @TechVHD 4 роки тому +3

    Can I use quizlet or chegg on my online quizzes and tests at UC Berkeley? Is there a proctor

  • @Wonkyslush000
    @Wonkyslush000 3 роки тому +2

    You can and should be upset with hierarchies

  • @faysmith1724
    @faysmith1724 4 роки тому +6

    LSD is acid baby

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 роки тому

      Like I said i probably repeate myself

    • @faysmith1724
      @faysmith1724 4 роки тому

      Angelica Lauren Song No I’m not hating I just wanna help you know

  • @Stephaniejmagno
    @Stephaniejmagno 4 роки тому +9

    Are American parties the same as the movies? 😅 because it’s really different here in Aus aha

  • @fridarobinett4737
    @fridarobinett4737 4 роки тому +3

    Could you share some tips for off-campus housing?:) I’m going there spring 2021 as a transfer student and don’t know the area:/

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 роки тому +2

      I would say stick to south side, = more dangerous-ish but more lively, more restaurants and most students live here! this means anywhere on the block between college and shattuck, but no further than parker for end points!

    • @fridarobinett4737
      @fridarobinett4737 4 роки тому +1

      Angelica Lauren Song thank you so much!

  • @itsjanetlee
    @itsjanetlee 4 роки тому +3

    omg girll cocaine is a big bay area drug hahaha

  • @jacob9673
    @jacob9673 4 роки тому +8

    If you go for engineering or pre med you’re a lot less likely to have the time to do all this. You’ll also probably be more likely to be successful so be warned. There is ALOT less time for partying and that social scene, and grading is much harder.

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 роки тому +28

      dont make blanket statements; im pre-med and still had time to do it all. my engineering friends some of them go ham too and still get A's. just because you couldn't do both doesnt mean others cant. oh also some of my business friends make more than engineering/premed so that's also debunked.

  • @kasatka265
    @kasatka265 4 роки тому +4

    Enjoy watching you,giirl!Seems like the talking with my friend🙂

  • @lewisjones9121
    @lewisjones9121 3 роки тому +1

    L O L hahaha my friend is going to america and hes huge into his frat parties

  • @ravneetrajasansi9094
    @ravneetrajasansi9094 4 роки тому +2

    Which houses make up the top-tier houses?

  • @africanlily6107
    @africanlily6107 4 роки тому +2

    My name is Angelica too!

  • @Hoyasaxa30
    @Hoyasaxa30 3 роки тому +6

    Thanks for sharing your story. I had gone through something similar for undergrad. Nobody wanted anything to do with me until I got “that” internship and found out I was well connected. Being a darker filipino american at a PWI. That’s how I was initially treated at face value and I had to always prove myself.

  • @hp2546
    @hp2546 9 місяців тому

    5:35. Some of them that are holding hands, snuggle and stuff, actually, some of them might even be husbands and wives. We live in a current timeline where it won't matter how old they are. Some are old enough to get married. Some of them may of started dating and not at a phrase of getting married. Some of these couples already have kids. Yes. It might be common to see them kissing. More like sometimes. We live in a world where it won't matter if they are in their 20s, 30s, 40, 50s etc. There can be times that even your classmates might attend class bringing their spouse as well.

  • @thiana3268
    @thiana3268 4 роки тому +1

    I saw this video, and then saw your tiktok but didn't make the connection until I pressed the link in your bio 😭😭💞

  • @saraha3798
    @saraha3798 4 роки тому +2

    this is so accurate 👁👄👁

  • @denwerOkk
    @denwerOkk Рік тому

    Thanks and cheers to you for not using most of drugs.

  • @jennylam9953
    @jennylam9953 4 роки тому +3

    I love ur videooosss !!!!!❤️❤️❤️

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 роки тому

      thank you Jenny! thank you for watching

  • @SteveSaldivar
    @SteveSaldivar 4 роки тому +1

    Spill the tea, sis

  • @SumanSingh-lt2xz
    @SumanSingh-lt2xz 4 роки тому

    Do you gave indians their do people treat them equally do they have friends?

  • @u.sdepartmentofjustice2269
    @u.sdepartmentofjustice2269 3 роки тому

    I’m religious lol wish me luck boys and girls

  • @pinkchihua
    @pinkchihua 4 роки тому +1

    I’m mostly white but I’m not American. I wonder how that will turn out 🤷‍♀️

    • @aksha5wa7ed
      @aksha5wa7ed 4 роки тому +2

      Oh you'd be their diversity token

    • @pinkchihua
      @pinkchihua 4 роки тому

      AF lol

    • @leahclayfield7271
      @leahclayfield7271 4 роки тому +4

      You’re white? You’ll be fine lmao

    • @pinkchihua
      @pinkchihua 4 роки тому

      Leah Clayfield ehhh I consider myself to be white but super white people might consider me to be diverse. Sometimes people assume I’m mixed but really I just have a black great grandparent or something. I dunno how Americans would react.

    • @leahclayfield7271
      @leahclayfield7271 4 роки тому

      pinkchihua Sororities tend to choose white girls with eurocentric features

  • @Terrencetulani
    @Terrencetulani 3 роки тому

    The FBI want an interview with you ma'am

  • @artculloty121
    @artculloty121 3 роки тому

    Can you do a tour of the sports Areas and maybe the rugby part please

  • @iniaksjen800
    @iniaksjen800 4 роки тому +3

    Hi angie . Do u have a LinkedIn ??? I was hoping to connect with u there but wasn't. Don't forget me when u reach 500k or even 1 million subs . I discovered u by your guessing majors vid when u popped in my recommendations. I have been on UA-cam since 2008 ( made account on it just recently) and then u came along . May God bless uncle Sam and asians . Kickin' asses all around the globe . By the way lots of love from INDIA .❤❤❤🥰🥰🥰 . You will be a hit among INDIANS .

  • @EleganceNails
    @EleganceNails 4 роки тому

    I love your content, my dear..Thanks for sharing this wonderful truth about college video. Wish you the BEST!!

  • @sahandsanaei555
    @sahandsanaei555 2 роки тому

    …yes, yes, yes😂

  • @nhabib114
    @nhabib114 2 роки тому

    Excellent

  • @armenpoghosyan4998
    @armenpoghosyan4998 4 роки тому

    Ya its ok im from NOHO we have kids smoking pot during an AP chem test

  • @elizabethl3685
    @elizabethl3685 4 роки тому +3

    not to be like those superficial rush girls LMAO but could u make a video ab google/internship search in general/preprofessional type clubs in college

    • @elizabethl3685
      @elizabethl3685 4 роки тому

      also i love this video! glad i found ur channel

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 роки тому

      Yes once I get started with my internship this summer I’ll be super excited to share with you all! I wanted to share with you all anyways ❤️❤️

    • @AngelicaSong
      @AngelicaSong  4 роки тому

      Yes once I get started with my internship this summer I’ll be super excited to share with you all! I wanted to share with you all anyways ❤️❤️

  • @debbieg5669
    @debbieg5669 4 роки тому

    GO OFF! BITCHES DO TURN INTO FANS!!!!

  • @Vee___22
    @Vee___22 4 роки тому

    Can you make a video on how to make friends?

  • @NikolaSekuloski
    @NikolaSekuloski 3 роки тому

    Do outdoors video

  • @devchatterjee6553
    @devchatterjee6553 3 роки тому

    F

  • @gwyneverehunger2647
    @gwyneverehunger2647 4 роки тому

    LOL

  • @TechVHD
    @TechVHD 4 роки тому +1

    Are the online quizzes and tests proctored? Only at this school or any other schools you know? Can I cheat on my online quizzes and tests

    • @juliananguyen
      @juliananguyen 4 роки тому

      at berkeley they were recently banned from holding online proctoring, but i know other colleges still hold online proctoring :)

    • @TechVHD
      @TechVHD 4 роки тому

      Juliana Nguyen sources? You go? Are they banned from proctoring for spring and summer? Or spring only? And for the future or only for now because of everything going on? You have friends in other schools and do they mention if it's promoters? So I can use quizlet and chegg on my online uc berkeley tests? :)

    • @aidantan8312
      @aidantan8312 4 роки тому

      ​@@TechVHD if you wanna cheat just cheat. No one is stopping you. There is 0 benefit to cheating in college lol, if companies hire you for your work ethic and good gpa and its just fabricated from cheating then how will you perform. Just work hard.

    • @TechVHD
      @TechVHD 4 роки тому

      Aidan Tan I’m talking about online only though, and you can’t cheat when it’s with a proctor online which is when someone is watching you take the test online, which is why I’m asking are the classes that are online, whether they are proctored or not

    • @aidantan8312
      @aidantan8312 4 роки тому

      @@TechVHD They arent proctored. The person above said they areny allowed to proctor. You arent usually allowed to use forums/chegg/stack overflow. But they cant stop you. It's just up to your morals.