4 5 2022 Shelby Police Department (Ohio) Ofc Nolen Biased Policing Targeting Wrecking Lives 4Profit
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- Опубліковано 5 лип 2024
- Quick backstory:
We Married June 23, 2010. It was only a few months after she had already cheated on me with 5 different men, her mother even admits this to me through a Facebook message, as she tells me how her daughter lies so much, she can't even keep her own stories straight and how she thinks its "funny"... I don't see that as something to laugh about, if anything and she has that kind of a problem maybe her mother should have done better raising her.
On or Around December 22, 2010, she was charged for Domestic Violence after threatening me, saying "I'll Sh00t you in the F**king face and that's a threat and that's a promise". The charges were filed by Aaron Bushey of the Shelby Police Department. I personally had gone to the police department because I was trying to retrieve my Silkscreen equipment, I had just purchased for 3200$ that I was going to start doing custom apparel with. Needless to say, she had stolen my equipment and traded it off for a used PlayStation 3. Which would have been maybe a $100 value at that time.
I had begun researching borderline personality disorder, mainly because I definitely felt there was something off about her. Not only would she indulge in serial cheating, but one day she would act like Shes your very best friend, and the next day she would run off behind your back mess around with someone who was supposed to be your friend, and then make up all kinds of lies in hopes to ruin your character/reputation. And the lies were just outright disturbing. After her DV I had chosen to go no contact because that was the only viable option I could find through my research. If you try and help, or fix, one of these people, which you CANNOT do unfortunately and trust me I had tried, you will eventually end up broke, robbed, abused, jailed, homeless, or even dead. That is the just of it, and I know this is a routine cycle with them since they are not able to regulate their emotions, build no genuine authentic bond with people, and act impulsively to gain "attention" and admiration from others. Call it childhood trauma etc., I call it a grown adult who still acts like a child and does anything and everything to evade accountability, never admits they cheated or were dishonest, yet you can have the proof right in front of you and show them. Instead, she would get very aggressive, scream "Shut the F**k up" at me, which is honestly to me one of the biggest acts of Disrespect. This would happen because I would ask questions, and she would have problems remembering her stories and ultimately would tell on herself or speak "hints", as it made her feel like she had some kind of power or that she thinks Shes superior... What is sad, you go from being their "everything" supposedly. Once I began giving her everything, including every dollar I made, giving her the benefit of the doubt anytime my close friends or family would call out some very sketchy behavior, ultimately pushing people away (It's all a part of their isolation tactics...) Eventually you go from being the greatest thing in the world to being weak, pathetic, and worthless. I didn't resort to the name calling but instead when I started seeing patterns in her behavior, and when I started researching ASPD (Sociopath/psychopath) after she had called me a narcissist one day. I had known what a narcissist was... When I looked it up and realized borderline personality disorder was also one of the types within that ASPD group, it all started coming back to me. 11 years of separation is quite a long time, especially when I hadn't spoken to her, and hadn't seen her in 11 years yet we were still married, and both resided in the same small town. She contacted me Aug 2021 claiming that she wasn't the same 19-year-old she once was, how she had changed, how she loved me the whole time, and basically filled my head with the "Soulmate" bs, how she would constantly dream about me and would scout my Facebook to see how I was. She had been in multiple relationships over the time we have been separated, and she even returned with a 10-year-old child which I was accepting of and moved her and her child in. I have to admit, it was probably the worst decision I have ever made in my entire life. I had been single for 8 years, we were still married, I figured that would be an awesome story to tell our children and grandchildren how we separated 11 years to come back to one another and live our lives out together. Never would have thought I would be hunted for F3 Abduction.
Here is a hard FACT about DV and the State of Ohio. Unless they damn near kill you, I mean you are put in the hospital, have stab or gunshot wounds, the likelihood of your abuser going to jail is very, very slim. Unless he has multiple charges he won't be held for long. I am a survivor of DV. I was his victim #4. He NEVER did any substantial time at all. A few days at the most. However long it took Mommy to raise the money for his bond. Them letting him go after me allowed him to get victim #5. That still didn't put him in jail. It wasn't until he violated the protection order that he FINALLY spent 2 years in prison. He went for violating the Court, not his victim.
The title made me think the officer was wrecking people lives for money🙄
Please tell me you are NC with this Cluster B nightmare.
I have no idea wtf i just watched... And yes i did read the "Quick" backstory
It was like the intro to Star Wars lmao
Yea im literally so confused about what im looking at here…
Erm yea I ain't got a clue either but there's a bunch of other previously uploaded videos on this channel that may add some context...
@@kevin6666123 I checked out a few and I’m getting a vibe that this is all vindictively posted to hurt the girl in these videos, whether she is right or wrong. It gives me the ick.
@@xBeefcorex why does it give you the ick if she's the aggressor? Being politically correctness is old news. We now use comrehension skills and critical thinking to judge the situation.
Learn to do some paragraphs man. It's impossible to read this wall of text.
shouldnt have let her and her daughter back in your life big dog