What about when you start dating a guy after being with a girl and everybody's like, "Oh so you're straight now?" Or "I told you it was just a phase." Like UGH!!!
yaoifinatic1 OH MY GOD I HATE THAT. My mom hated that I had a girlfriend in high school, so now that I'm dating a boy she's psyched. xP or at least she was until I told her I was going to see the pride parade. She actually told me 'I thought you were over the whole gay thing.' :/
Another thing that really annoys me is my ex-boyfriend was super jealous if I even spent too much time with another guy, but he didn't care if I had feelings for a girl. He didn't even care at all if I was intimate with one! It makes me so mad, like what?? My relationships with girls aren't serious to you?!
Erebus69 Interesting. So you think it's because it's not competition with him? I wonder if he really would get turned on from it, I should offer to let him watch haha
The "threesome" questioning really gets to me. Why does a non-straight relationship always have to revolve around sex? Do straight relationships always revolve around sex? Urg.
Stocking Anarchy It gets to me so bad too. Also "Can't you just choose one??" Or "Oh, so you're lesbian/straight now??" Um, no, I'm still bisexual, I'm just with a woman/ man.
UGH. The whole "nice!", "yeah I made out with someone before, so I understand" "have you had 3somes". bs is most annoying. They didn't even mention the even more annoying "Lets see you kiss" "prove it" or "Oh, I can change that for you, you just haven't met me *jerk wink*".
Oh gods, the whole "Threesomes" thing. I've totally lost count of the amount of morons who have automatically assumed "bisexual" means I automatically must be into swinging or orgies or threesomes. Glad I'm married now and don't have to deal with that shit anymore.
longtail4711 If a couple wanted me to get down with them I would totally do it. I would be OK having sex with either the man or the woman, or giving head to the woman while being the bottom the man, or whatever. I'm a freak, love to do it all :) As far as relationships go, I find men much easier to get along with (I am male), I guess maybe because we can relate to each other better so things just go smoother.
This was actually kind of adorable (the ending, that is.) I deal with this kind of thing all the time. One of my coworkers actually told me to, "Make up my mind," one day because I was talking about a guy that I liked at the time. "First you say you like girls, then you say you like guys, either be a lesbian or straight, you can't be both." I was actually speechless.
People are so stupid when it comes to sexuality.. Of course you can like both ¬_¬ Or one, or none, or all. And then there's all the stuff in between. People need to be educated but have you noticed it's mostly the guys who don't get it? I have at least.
[MEP]Deidara It's called asexuality, or demisexuality. It's a lack of sexual attraction to any gender. Demisexuality is like, a branch of asexuality that sort of makes exceptions. It's complicated to explain. You can look them up on Google for more information.
Celina about your 3rd point yes most dyslexics do mess up with grammar the rules that are similar get confused with others like I didn't get the difference between " 's" did and "s' " I just learned that yesterday and I'm in 9th grade. So unless your dyslexic you don't have the right to tell me what dyslexics do and don't get confused with.
The things people say to Bisexuals.. Honestly we aren't that different. I just feel as comfortable dating another woman as I do a man, why is it such a big deal..
6Twisted yeah that's ridiculous. People finding a relationship "hot" just because it's two women. If that's why people treat me different they need to get their heads out of their asses. I get more persecution, people telling me "it's a phase" "it's not real" Oh and my favorite "you'll burn for that" doesn't make me feel like me trying to have a normal relationship with another girl is "hot". You need to grow up.
Because Having One Too Many Drinks And Making Out With Someone You Don't Have Any Sexual Or Romantic Feelings For Doesn't Count As Being Bisexual, But Nice Try 😂😂😂
For all the people in the world bisexual does not mean we're secretly gay it means we love every boy and girl and no we're not afraid of commitment and no we can't choose its not how it works and boys can be bi too
Swayze H He must of said it wrong. He must if ment that we like boys and girls. Bi's are not sluts. Also loving every boy and girl isn't slutty it is one of the deadly sins, its named Lust.
I as a bisexual female can fully clarify I've had all these problems. One thing BuzzFeed forgot to add is a bisexual who never dated someone of the opposite sex or the same sex is STILL A BISEXUAL. I've had 2 girlfriend (one I'm still with), yet I've never dated a guy but I'm STILL BISEXUAL. A few people I've met say "Oh no, you've only dated girls so you're a lesbian not bisexual." and it's irritating because I'm still bisexual, I've just never had a guy like me back. Is it that hard to figure out? Please tell me I'm not the only one who's had this problem.
GloomAndDoom375 ive had this issue but in the opposite circumstances, im pansexual and ive only dated guys but im still pansexual. ive had a crush on one of my closest friends and admitted it but she never liked me back :p just because you'e only dated one gender dosen't mean your not bi/pan
Wolflovex Wattpad YUP. No, darling, I'm not a lesbian just because I'm a woman who has dated women. No more than I'm vegan because I ate a a vegan restaurant.
I came out to my friends as bi...tried to tell my parents they didn't believe a single word I said and I'm like "how do you suppose I prove it? By kissing a girl in front of you c'mon guys!"
When I told my best friend at the time that I was bisexual (being the second person I had ever told this), like a week after I was talking about this cute guy I had met and she said "wait im confused, didn't you like girls?" I don't know what she thought I bisexual was. And probably the worst part: as soon as I told her (I was worried because I've always been touchy with my friends, we've seen each other in underwear and stuff, and I didn't want her to think I was after her) she went "Oh well I pictured, since you've always been so pro gay rights and all." !!! I was pro gay rights way before I realized I also liked girls the same way I've been pro animal rights my whole life and I'm not a kangaroo.
AtomicKittenBaby omg i hate that they assume youre pro gay that makes you gay. same with being for black power and stuff i dont want to say it just bc im black,
If you've been to public high school, public collage, or if you've ever been a teen, you'll know why. :'( (I'm a lesbian, and I see a lot of trends in the LGBT community as far as bisexuality and how people react to it, it's unfortunately a shaky subject)
My boss just told me she thinks bisexuals are greedy and indecisive and when I told her how untrue and offensive that was, she still wouldn't apologize. "We should just respect each others opinions" she said. Honestly, this video made my day. It nice knowing someone understands.
***** Yes, I am vocal as well as sensitive, and there isn't anything wrong about that. I exercise my freedom of speech to defend myself and others. You, on the other hand, exercise your freedom as a weapon. Telling someone to "kill[them]self" is a form of bullying and is very dangerous. Your practice of cyber-bullying isn't appropriate. Please re-frame in the future.
its so annoying like at PE i hold my girlfriends hand and my PE teacher is a homophobe and she said stop thats inappropriate touching but a straight couple kissing in the middle of the gym and the teachers don't care
I hugged my female friend (I am also female) and a teacher told us pda wasn't allowed. I then hugged and kissed my boyfriend and they said nothing about it.
itsashley lol i go to a catholic all girl school and my girlfriend and I, can never hold hands. But basically give each other lots of hugs and quick kisses on the forehead because hugging and kissing on the forehead at my school is seen as not gay.
Its really frustrating how people treat bisexual men and women. I was talking to a guy on OKC and after about two weeks we finally traded numbers and within that very first day he sent me a thinly veiled warning about how if he was talking to someone he wanted to be the only person they were talking to. That sent off huge red flags; we were still talking and I hadn't even been on a date with him yet. I asked him if it was because of my sexuality, and why that would even play a part in this, and his response was "wouldn't you feel threatened too if I was into guys?" Needless to say, we didn't end up talking beyond that. But seriously, where does this idea come from that bisexual/pansexual people are any more promiscuous or less loyal than gay or straight people?
+Delfina Garcia no no, it will be harder to not cheat when you are attracted to both. It all really comes down to your own "self control" but ultimately if you were constantly near "millions of dollars" or your favourite "chocolate" you would be tempted to try some. Basically what I'm trying to say is, if it's two genders you are attracted to, the chances of cheating goes higher. The probability of a bisexual person cheating Goes higher. Whether if it was a straight person, (yes they could cheat) they only have one gender they are attracted to and they are less likely to cheat. I should make myself more clear A bisexual person has just as many desires to cheat as a straight person. But for a bisexual person, they have more options, therefore the chances of a bisexual person cheating goes higher!!!! Like holy it's common sense People And I'm not saying bisexual people "are automatically going to cheat" I'm saying that the chances of a bisexual person cheating is higher compared a S.p
+Delfina Garcia but then again, it also has another of different factors that contribute to someone cheating, but a main one would come down to "self control"
Only 13. I'm planning on never telling them. Only way they would find out is if I brought a girlfriend home or a wedding. I'm not particularly close with my family and even though they're accepting they all have loud mouths and word would spread around like the plague.
You must tell them, in a few years they will ask you that: you will have kids and if you're getting married, an example, i will never have kids or getting married but my parents always tell me that i will have kids, and i said them that i´ll never have kids or getting married and now they never ask me more, you can do it, they must understand you if they are your family
no, it happens. people ask stupid questions without realizing that they are stupid. they mean well, so you don't slap them upside the head. but internally you want to yell. because yes it happens still in 2017!
the most annoying thing is when people think you're "just doing for attention", christ i could marry a women and people would still say i'm "just doing for attention" and that "i'll end up with a guy in the end"
+Evie Annie Same thing with me, Im bi and I know it but one of the many reasons I hvent came out yet is all the people around me even my flippin family will think that I do it for attention. And another reason is that my mom's view on bisexual people is that we are just all confused and don't know which way is up, makes me sooo Mad.
i'm worried about this all the time! especially since I'm a younger teen, so people are like "you don't know yet you're too young and just want attention!"
It's even worse than this when you're pansexual and nobody knows what that means and they think you either made it up or you're sexually attracted to frying pans
A. Coleman Well, some people naturally care more about what society thinks than others. I'm Bi and I don't care who knows, but I'm the kind of girl who goes out into public with purple pants, a red shirt and a blue hoodie. And my weird awesome lion hat. I don't care about what society thinks of me, but I do care about what people think of me. It's completely fine to be Bi, but I know how it can be hard to come out. My friends act differently around me now, and I kind of wish that I didn't tell them. But I'm still happy that I did.
+AGBDYM062998 I told my dad about pansexuality and I said it was every gender, and somehow he managed to crack the joke "So like animals included??" then he also did the classic "There are only two genders though!" and I fukci ng
Having a crush on a girl who thinks you are straight and something happens which makes you come out, then she gets nervous that you like her and have to lie because she is the prettiest girl in the world and you don't want to be without her.
If woman like woman, let them be lesbian . If they are not straight, they should have only woman. They don't deserve man then. But don't forget, most "lesbian" porn is done by straight girls on drugs for money. Most woman prefer a man. Lesbian relationships are one of the most destructive relationships...
Procrafter117 Honestly, I feel sorry for you guys (assuming you're homo/bi?). One of my best friends is bi and another lesbian (I'm hetero myself) and they were so freaking terrified when they came out to me, because the internet and society had made them think I would treat them differently or not like them anymore just because of their sexual preference.. I'm not going to overreach myself and apologize for all the negativity you've received because of it, but I hope you don't have too hard of a time because of some idiots. I really hope you have friends who knew you before coming out and still treat you the same way, because from what I've seen that really helps. I hope people accept you and just treat you the way they would others, because you're normal people like everyone else. Have a great day :)
MG42GeYeR It's kind of hard to be comfortable around people who sometimes judge you for something that's completely natural and out of your control... just saying.
Sarah L. Clark Cool, find a affectionate and strong guy who will satisfy you in life. Bisexualism is worse than Lesbianism, these girls are the UNhappiest people with a forked feelings. By the way those [former] bisexual girls having found their men became much more devoted/staunch than others ;) Life is sweet,so enjoy )
Sarah L. Clark Don't worry about the label. Just live your life and love who you are attracted to. You are who you are. Simple as that. If you find a woman in your future, it's all good. If you stay with men, it's all good. Only you can live your life the way YOU need to live it.
ZombieMommy Thanks for being so normal and level headed. That's rare to find on youtube. And yeah, I honestly don't really label myself any sexuality, because I personally know how truly weird I am, and I don't think a label properly fits it. Honestly, that's how most of us are. Fuck the labels! :)
Right! The other day in class me and some other girls were talking about our dating life and so one girl said "you've never taken pictures with any guy youve dated?" and I said "nope" and corrected her 'guy' with guys or girls and she said? "Your gay??" I responded "No im Pansexual" and she was like "oh girl, you're bi!" like ????? how you gone tell me what I am lol? Thats not how it works lmao
Straight women who call their girl friends "girlfriends" leads to so much confusion and awkwardness. Just call them friends. You wouldn't call a boy friend a boyfriend, so why do it with girls?
Idk it's just a thing you say, I feel like you have to kind of live with it. Like in French a petit ami or something like that means boyfriend or girlfriend, but it could also mean little friend so they have no select word for that
Being bisexual is kinda hard at times . You have to choice what gender you wanna date sometimes . Plus if you tell someone ur bi they are gonna think you like everyone you see i dont get why someone explain___:/
I feel like it's almost more complicated to be bi rather than just gay or straight. People think that you have to choose one or the other. I have a friend who has called me a lesbian before because I've never been in a relationship. I'm sorry, but I root for both teams (that's a phrasing I like to use to explain it better).
Tasha Forrest yeah and when you have straight friends and they have to make comments about anytime you say you like ANYONE regardless of gender, like "wait your straight now? what about that girl you had a crush on?" people are just so one-minded a lot of the time that your either straight or gay its so annoying.
Yeah today I think it's really more misunderstood, but back in the 1900s it would be much better to be bi because if you were gay you completely wouldn't have a life, but if you were bi you still could live a happy life with a gender that you are attracted to (I know it's unfair to push you to one of them tho).
I'm a pansexual agender person and I'm dating a bisexual transboy and its a lot like this. Some people think we're two girls, some people think we're two guys, some people think we're a guy and a girl. A lot of times people think it's weird that my last partner was a girl, but now I'm with a guy, and some people think I'm a lesbian that sees him as a girl and that's why I'm with him. Really, it's just that he liked me and I liked him. Case closed, bring out the dancing lobsters.
Kieren Sheilds Oh, I have a friend who's in the same situation- they're pan agender dating a transgirl. The amount of "Oh you're straight now?" and "I didn't know you were a lesbian!" comments are weirdly equal.
+Kieren Sheilds if you don't bother the question : why is your transboyfriend bisexual when he dates an agender? I thought this people then aren't bisexual but instead pansexual or sth like this.
Reading below comments and I'd just like to say that I am a bisexual woman and I don't really feel like there's any difference between bisexuality and pansexuality. I am not limited to liking two genders even though yes, the word bi does mean two, but it is outdated to say that it's attraction to only 2 genders. I personally, also as a cisgendered person so my view may be wrong, feel that transgender people aren't any different than "normal" men and women, as the gender they identify as is the gender they are. (sincerely hoping that makes sense, to summarize; people born with a penis who identifies as a female IS a female and vice versa). I am also not limited to those two/three (depending on how you look at it) and would have no issue falling for somebody who is genderfluid or anything else. I may as well be calling myself pansexual, I just feel more at home using the more familiar bisexual - and thus that is where I feel I identify the most. I hope that clears something up for anyone wondering.
Bisexuality means attraction to two or more genders, and pansexuality means attraction to people regardless of gender. So maybe for bi's gender has something to do with attraction? Who knows, it's really the which label the person prefers. I've grown up with any polysexual friends (except for about 3) identifying as bi, so I consider myself a biromantic.
You both are homosexuals deal with it! Not putting it in rude term, what I meant is that you both like the same sex but just one of you goes either way...and asexuality shouldn't be a thing because it basically means you don't or you do which is a human thing not an ethnic or whatever. I'm still a bit confused on asexuality because you don't have romantic relations but it doesn't stop you from having sexual relations.? Either or idk I'm a conservative Christian I think you shouldn't by how am I to tell you to live your lives. Not that someday they'll end.
Being a bisexual female is difficult. But I imagine it's a bit worse for bisexual men. Either way, my sexuality does not fade when I am with someone. I don't become a lesbian when I'm with a girl and I don't become straight when I'm with a boy. In either case I'm still attracted to both genders equally. I love looking at the body features of both assigned human genders and that desire doesn't go away just because I'm with one or the other. I'm not confused. I know that I love men and women the same. And I'm not greedy or afraid of commitment. I have only one partner at a time and enjoy the fact that I am exclusive to that person.
Jalen Lane because as she said 'I love men and women the same'..theres absolutely no need to pick..its our personal preference..you're happy with your sexuality, we're happy with ours. Sexuality is not a decision, it is determined from when we're in the womb, there is scientific evidence to prove this..you can see it in kids the way they interact with one another what sexuality they could have...im guessing you're a straight male? So how do you know you're straight? Did you make that decision? No, its in your brainwaves, embedded before you were born. Back to the point, bisexuality means that you love male and female alike..simple as.
Jalen Lane Because I feel sexually attracted to both and can connect to both on an emotional level. However, I will not have two partners just because I'm bi. I will have one at a time and that depends on what kind of person they are, not their gender.
Oh my gosh, this is really relatable. I am a bisexual girl, and I don't have problems with people bullying me about that, but godamnit these people! They're like "you're lesbian? I thought you were straight!" "Oh wait, you're lesbian again!" and I'm just like NO! I'M BI!
Well, I'll tell you, most bisexuals have the same chance of leaving their boyfriends/girlfriends as straights or gays and lesbians. It's just an illusion for gays and straights that just because we have a wider choice for dating, there's double the chance that their bisexual girlfriend/boyfriend will leave. For us, it's just that there are more people who either run away from us or try and hook up with us. Besides, if she truly loves you, she won't be leaving anytime soon.
***** Anyone can cheat it doesn't matter what their sexuality is. And even is someone who is bi cheats not every who is bi will cheat. It would be like me saying "Oh my straight boyfriend cheated on me...now every straight man I date is going to cheat on me." Is that true? No. I have never cheated. I don't even know if I could do a 3 some..I just ugh. I am all about monogamy. If you are not even going to give someone a chance because they are bi..yeah that is very closed minded. A persons sexuality does not make the person.
-_- Do you know what morals are? Cause I assure you I have them. But since you are going to judge me on something I can not change I doubt you would even care enough to get to know a person. Wow wow wow I am Bi so I don't have morals? Are you serious? Shit I better stop being nice and respectful to people..I better drop out of school and stop volunteering instead of working I should start robbing places and stealing stuff from stores. -___________------- I should start kicking animals and should throw my cat outside. -_- Wow. Wow apparently not being straight equals not having morals woooooowww. Oh my god I really hope you don't think this way. Morals and sexuality are two totally different things. I think you need to get out more.
Just accused me and other bi sexual women of not having morals because we are bi. (Which is not something that can be change. Just like you can't change that you are straight. I can;t change that I am bi. )
Yes. I am so glad I got through to you. I actually want to cry happy tears! Just because some person who was bi treated you bad not everyone who is bi is a bad person. A few years ago I was hurt badly by someone who is a Christian and for a while I dispised everyone who was Christian because in my mind I figured everyone who was Christian was horrible and would hurt me. That is not true though. Yes there will be some people who are Christian or bi that treat others bad but not everyone who is Christian or bi is like that. There are bad people from every background but there are also good people from those same backgrounds.
Uh... huh? That's a polyamorous relationship, i.e., more than one person together at one time. Being bisexual means you're attracted to girls and guys, but not specifically at the same time.
Hahaha. This Video was Funny. Having some Bi Friends I've been around and asked some questions myself. What makes you Bicurious? What attracts you about Females?
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Bree Iero A little more than curious, by your description.
Bree Iero not necessarily sex,it's the same as being straight just finding people attractive or kissing,it's being curious about the same gender but not sure if you're definitely bi..
It'll be almost the same video so why bother making a second? it'd be good if they included a bisexual guy in the video but did you ever think that they might not have a openly bisexual guy to be in it? Not only that but not everything has to include or be about men.
yeah, the title is "girl problems" but then at the start of the video it says "bisexual people". plus - it wouldn't bee too different, just a guy instead of a girl. i know a bisexual guy and he's also met with these kind of conversations
***** i've met with insults and offensive stuff and i'm a pansexual girl. but i guess that men have it worse when it comes to bisexuality, partially because with a girl it's considered 'hot' by many
***** not really. i've usually met with "bisexual problems" stuff, same questions. but yeah some people are a little bit weirded out, some say i have it "easier" than straight or gay people, some say it's "cool", some don't even know what that word means
I also hate it when my straight lady friends say ''I wouldn't want you hitting on me." Then I truthfully say that they're not my type, then they become offended. ?????
The one I hate the most is "oh, are you confused? It's ok, I won't tell her you've dated guys. You'll end up picking one gender in the end..." etc Like no I like both I'm not picking anything thank you very much.
I'm bi but I totally understand what you say, people don't get the difference and that makes me sorry for pansexual people, and I also have the famous "C'mon, it's just fashionable to be bi" which is the most annoying thing ever
I would just like to say that this video is pretty accurate towards bisexuals, but as a bisexual guy I think we have it worse. At least people think bisexual girls exist. I'm just constantly accused of being a closeted gay, or just being confused. Other guys think I'm disgusting, and so do the girls because they think I'm just basically gay. I can't fit in with gay guys because I'm too straight and I can't fit in with straight girls because I'm too gay. My only stable relationships have come from other bi girls and bi guys. It would be cool to see the 15 Bisexual Guy problems video but this is BuzzFeed so that's probably never going to happen.
I think bisexual girls have it a little bit luckier because people disgustingly assume girls to go through a "lesbian phase" where they suddenly become sexually attracted to women for a few months or years in college, but still have sex with men. The women who do that only do it for the attention from men who think girls making out is hot. They don't feel sexual attraction to women for a short period of time and have it fade away, it's always or never. Unfortunately, guys don't have that small "advantage", because as horrible and incorrect in every way, shape, and form that it is, it still makes it SLIGHTLY more acceptable. I'd have to agree, guys have it worse.
Alice Pan It isn't better. I think that people need to stop pretending to be a different sexuality for attention because it really belittles those who were born that way and society will view those people in the way the attention-seekers act. Yeah, they do have that going toward them. But women are disrespected by misogynists all the time, regardless of their sexuality. Regardless of sexual preference, misandry and misogyny is something all people suffer with unfortunately. They really are stupid concepts... I think both male and female bisexuals have a lot going against them. A LOT. (society is a b*tch)
I've never been more confused in my entire life! My whole life i've always thought i was straight cause i've always liked guys, but ever since i can remember i've always had small little crushes on girls, even when i was like 8 and i don't understand. Cause i can't see myself having a relationship with a girl only a guy. But sometimes when i see certain girls i find myself physically attracted to them. Am i bi? Cause i feel like i am, but more attracted to guys... idk someone please help!
Georgia Watts I guess my question to you is, why do you feel the need to label yourself? You have relationships with guys and would like to try some vag on the side, so what? Lots of straight women like to experiment. Tell your boyfriend, im sure we wont mind having a threesome or letting you experiment with women. Why do you have to wear a label! As the one said before me, there is a difference between lust and love.
Dear Georgia, don´t stress yourself. You like guys and that is just fine and it is nothing unusual to feel that way, to feel physically attracted to women. I think one day you will meet the woman that you want to go all the way with, since you have that already in mind and you will like it that is for sure ;) If someone has this thought it will happen sooner or later because you just want to find out what it is like. I was 25 when I had my first experience and it totally surprised me...
+Georgia Watts You're bisexual hetero-romantic. You could be with a girl or a guy but only have a romantic relationship with a guy. That happens a lot! Don't be confused C: Just do what you feel!
Hiya, I agree with the others you don't seem perfectly straight but hey don't stress about it. You are what you are and you don't need to give yourself a label if you don't want to. If you feel like having a relationship with a girl or guy you do it, whatever feels good for you. :). It will all figure itself out you'll see :)
+Georgia Watts It's possible. I wouldn't worry about it or anything. If you want to, experiment. Date a girl. If it doesn't really work out, then maybe you're straight. I'm straight, but I still appreciate a lovely lady once in a while. It just depends. Good luck!
The most annoying thing is when your partner thinks that just bc you're bisexual, it means that there are more chances of you cheating or more "competition". Ridiculous.
I know what you mean, I'm a guy and when I tell people I like girls, they're like "omg, so that would make you....straight?" and I'm like "yep". And the conversation ends. That's about it.
hell no, i have no ass, but curvy sounds better than saying slightly overweight. Im not like 600 pounds, hell i weigh 160, but all the fat on my body gathers in my stomach
I'm bisexual, but none of those or most of them, I've never tried, maybe because of my age or the fact I never had a girlfriend or boyfriend, but as 15, girls are so much better, but older boys are also kind of sexy, so that is probably the only problem I have, wich one do I choose? I know love is not something you choose, but I simply don't know what to look after, if so.
+Shane Doyle No matter, I found out myself, but I still think I'm more bisexuel, because actually the gender doesn't matter, the face and the mind is what I go for, what makes the person speciel and stuff. I know where is many both guys and girls out there, who would love some love from somone who love them :3
+Anna Christina Landmark I'm 15 too and I'm bisexual too, and I think it's like you're just waiting for someone special to meet, boy or girl. At the moment I like a boy but I have a girl crush on a friend, so you don't like "choose", you like both at the same time
I'm lesbian myself, and I always feel bad for Bi girls when trying to date lesbians in the community. For some reason, there is this stigma that bi women just automatically will date a lesbian and then want a guy while with the girl and chest in her or leave her for the guy. So the majority or whatever percent of lesbians won't date bisexuals. It's so ignorant. The UA-camr Arielle is kind of a supporter of this too.
Kate Lynch I fully agree. Aren't we all human and deserve respect? Especially from the lgbt community.No no scratch that, from everyone period :( it just saddens me really. I can't even date properly when the majority of people think like that but yeah we need more people like Hayden Fisher :)
Haha thanks. I just think people need to seriously educate themselves before making assumptions. I would date a bi chick if a girl ever wanted to date me.
haha thanks. I seriously hate that this stigma exists. The youtuber Arielle tried to do a bi week and ask lesbians what they thought and it did nothing but show more of the stupidity that some lesbians have. I also have a feeling that Arielle herself feels the same way.. I just.. ugh.
Literally, the most annoying things my friends say to me are this. "You're so lucky to like boys AND girls. God, I wish." NO I'M NOT LUCKY I WISH I WAS ONE OR THE OTHER SO THAT WAY I'M NOT TOO GAY FOR GUYS OR TOO STRAIGHT FOR GIRLS. I AM NOT LUCKY! sorry… i've been upset the past few days about this. I had to get it out.
When people found out I was bi the boys were like, "look at that girl she's hot right?!?!" I don't think some people understand that just because I'm bi, it doesn't mean I like every girl I HAVE A TYPE OK.
I hate it when girls say "I was out with my girlfriend" and don't mean an actual girlfriend, but just a female friend. It just annoys me for some reason.
Me toooooooooooooooo... I always squee a little inside because I like meeting other girls interested in girls, and it sucks when it turns out they arent xD.
How about a bisexual guy problems video? "So...you're gay?" "No, I'm bi." "But you're dating a dude." "Yeah?" "That means you're gay." *Guy and his boyfriend kiss.* "Ew..." *cuts back to the clip of two chicks kissing* "Nice!" *bi dude comes to a party with a chick* "So...you're...not gay now? What the hell?" "Oh, honey, I used to be 'bi' too, but then I realized it was just a phase! I'm gay now!" "So...can you just make up your mind already?" *on a date with a girl* "So...why didn't you tell me you're gay?" "What?" "Yeah, it says so on your facebook page. 'Bisexual'" "*on a date with a guy* "So...are you just confused or something?" "What?" "Yeah, it says so on your facebook page, 'Bisexual'". Just some suggestions :)
I'm a lesbian myself and I see how it must suck to be getting death glares, cruel words and even violence when two guys show their affection in public. BUT on the other hand us lesbian and bisexual women, when we kiss in public guys seem to think its a free show. They're sometimes even howling and cueing us to proceed like what they would do in a damn strip club. In my opinion I believe both side have it as hard. Just in different ways.
oh no bc being anything but cishet is so disgusting and terrifying. its not like hate crimes against the lgbt+ community are appalling or anything. but you know those damn gay people and their creepy taboos in existing
***** blinded people like you think all of a sudden weirdos are accepted in this world and in 50 years from now people are gonna think that dogs and humans can be married
Oh you don't like unnatural things? Please hand in your phone, all technology and never use any form of transport. Oh also can you please go live in the woods cause pretty sure that house with heating is unnatural.
How is being bisexual unnatural?? Like seriously dude we love who we love there's nothing unnatural about it. Also turn in everything you own because news flash nothing but nature is natural. FACTS
Most "radical" christians are white males and they tend to be a little more forgiving when they see two hot girls making out with a potential for a threesome
Some people are just like "I'm just scared bisexual people will leave me for the opposite gender..." And I'm just like, "so you'll feel better if they left you for someone of the same gender or..."
that feeling when this is so true...That feeling when you come home and your cousins be like "Oh my gosh, your friend is so pretty" so i be like "No this is my girlfriend"response are mostly like "Same thing"... Like really when will i have precious time with my baby without having the statement "Oh are you lesbian?" Im like NO IM NOT LESBIAN! NOTHING WRONG WITH THEM BUT IM BI!!!
*when I show affection to my FRIEND that is a girl* "That's gay!" "You'we confused." "You like a girl. So you're gay, right?" *after explaining I'm bi* "Don't turn gay on me, Ava." I don't hate gays, but I'm not lesbian. I'm bi.
I married a bi-sexual women. My family were a bit confused by it... as they thought just because she found men AND woman attractive she would be "more" unfaithful. Which is absolutely untrue. Instead of preferring Coke OR Pepsi, she likes both. It never was a problem for me. Attraction and deep emotional connection are not solely a function of a penis or vagina.
OH my gosh this video is my life right now as I recently came out as bi to some of my closer friends they ALWAYS ask me - do you prefer guys or girls - orr - oh so your half gay and half straight?-
Ismael Martinez Really? Those are possibly the easiest concepts. Asexual = no sexual attraction. (Ever just not been attracted to a specific person? It's like that, but with everyone.) Pansexual = gender doesn't matter when it comes to attraction. (You're a girl? Boy? Both? Neither? It depends on your mood? Awesome! I like you.) Simples.
They forgot this situation:
"So, are you a lesbian, now?"
-"No, Im bi"
"Don't worry, i wont judge you for being lesbian ;)"
Oh my god yesss
happened to me but like
"oh so are you gay"
"no I'm bi"
"ok then "biiii" I get it"
like ugh!
Ikr! It's so annoying when people call me lesbian but I'm bi! It's like, PEOPLE! Get the point!
Yessss omg
+MaGa -G (Tomato) yes, exactly. What's so hard about this? I LIKE *GIRLS* AND *GUYS*! WHOA!
What about when you start dating a guy after being with a girl and everybody's like, "Oh so you're straight now?" Or "I told you it was just a phase." Like UGH!!!
yaoifinatic1 omg yes it is SO annoying!!!
yaoifinatic1 the struggle is real.lol
yaoifinatic1 OH MY GOD I HATE THAT. My mom hated that I had a girlfriend in high school, so now that I'm dating a boy she's psyched. xP or at least she was until I told her I was going to see the pride parade. She actually told me 'I thought you were over the whole gay thing.' :/
Another thing that really annoys me is my ex-boyfriend was super jealous if I even spent too much time with another guy, but he didn't care if I had feelings for a girl. He didn't even care at all if I was intimate with one! It makes me so mad, like what?? My relationships with girls aren't serious to you?!
Erebus69 Interesting. So you think it's because it's not competition with him? I wonder if he really would get turned on from it, I should offer to let him watch haha
Why does 2014 sound so long ago
+Mario Gencarelli Ikr. XD
Ikr?
I'm bi
+Elecia Darbo me to my girlfriend and I have so many probs like this
+Elecia Darbo okay ? 😂
I'm bi but I'm so shy that I just don't approach or date anybody 😂😂😂
Gurl date who you want don't be shy
Same.. I actually have a preference for girls.
I'm such a awkward person so I just watch from a far
I'm pan but I have the same problem lol I'm waaaaay to awkward to approach someone
It actually happens the same to me hahaha i'm way too shy i can't
The "threesome" questioning really gets to me.
Why does a non-straight relationship always have to revolve around sex? Do straight relationships always revolve around sex? Urg.
No. And I don't see why LGBTQ+ relationships are viewed as dirtier since straight sex is much more prevalent in the media. It irks me.
Stocking Anarchy Yes.
Stocking Anarchy so true
Stocking Anarchy It gets to me so bad too. Also "Can't you just choose one??" Or "Oh, so you're lesbian/straight now??" Um, no, I'm still bisexual, I'm just with a woman/ man.
Short answer, yes yes it does
UGH. The whole "nice!", "yeah I made out with someone before, so I understand" "have you had 3somes". bs is most annoying. They didn't even mention the even more annoying "Lets see you kiss" "prove it" or "Oh, I can change that for you, you just haven't met me *jerk wink*".
omg I found you again 😝😄
ever since I saw your vids I keep seeing your comments :D *waves* hi
How random, I click on a bunch of random buzzfeed videos and find out Mira is bi, I think? lol
Oh gods, the whole "Threesomes" thing. I've totally lost count of the amount of morons who have automatically assumed "bisexual" means I automatically must be into swinging or orgies or threesomes.
Glad I'm married now and don't have to deal with that shit anymore.
longtail4711 If a couple wanted me to get down with them I would totally do it. I would be OK having sex with either the man or the woman, or giving head to the woman while being the bottom the man, or whatever. I'm a freak, love to do it all :)
As far as relationships go, I find men much easier to get along with (I am male), I guess maybe because we can relate to each other better so things just go smoother.
This was actually kind of adorable (the ending, that is.) I deal with this kind of thing all the time. One of my coworkers actually told me to, "Make up my mind," one day because I was talking about a guy that I liked at the time. "First you say you like girls, then you say you like guys, either be a lesbian or straight, you can't be both." I was actually speechless.
People are so stupid when it comes to sexuality.. Of course you can like both ¬_¬ Or one, or none, or all. And then there's all the stuff in between. People need to be educated but have you noticed it's mostly the guys who don't get it? I have at least.
PyroWingzA.K.ASplinter Yeah, I have noticed that. Strangely, this one was a woman. But I do get a lot of the typical male 'bisexual questions."
PyroWingzA.K.ASplinter wait a minute, "none"? How can you don't like any gender? I mean, i understand bi gay, and straight pl but like none?
[MEP]Deidara It's called asexuality, or demisexuality. It's a lack of sexual attraction to any gender. Demisexuality is like, a branch of asexuality that sort of makes exceptions. It's complicated to explain. You can look them up on Google for more information.
That happens to me at school all the time like stfu
when they say "it's 2014" and your watching it in 2016
You're *
OMG! A Dyslexic made a spelling error! Were all going to die!
1. We're *, 2. How did I know you had dyslexia 3. Dyslexia messes with the letters...not the grammar
+Celina gg
Celina about your 3rd point yes most dyslexics do mess up with grammar the rules that are similar get confused with others like I didn't get the difference between " 's" did and "s' " I just learned that yesterday and I'm in 9th grade. So unless your dyslexic you don't have the right to tell me what dyslexics do and don't get confused with.
The things people say to Bisexuals.. Honestly we aren't that different. I just feel as comfortable dating another woman as I do a man, why is it such a big deal..
Never dated a guy. My best friend and I are both bisexual and both single so I thought why not?
Michelle Evans I think the reason people act weird when they find out you're bi is because they don't want to act weird but end up doing so anyway.
Michelle Evans It's a big deal because it's hot. Sometimes I wish I was a woman just so I could go lesbian xP
6Twisted yeah that's ridiculous. People finding a relationship "hot" just because it's two women. If that's why people treat me different they need to get their heads out of their asses. I get more persecution, people telling me "it's a phase" "it's not real" Oh and my favorite "you'll burn for that" doesn't make me feel like me trying to have a normal relationship with another girl is "hot". You need to grow up.
just because i'm bisexual people think i will fall in love with everyone i see, ugh -.-
Omggg right like i dont understand why they assume that
Ikr!!!!! Same here!!
so true
Danielle Mariana same
Danielle Mariana omg I thought its just me who has that struggle!!
I just came out as bi to a few of my friends, but I still haven't told my parents or anything.
Note: I'm out to everyone now, and I'm really happy.
same I'm terrified
yeah, me too
I told my bestie I had a crush on her and now we as arnt talking cus shes a homophobe 😫
+LunaIDK That's too bad, but if she's really that homophobic then you're better off without her.
I just told my mom today, and it was amazing.
"Oh I kissed a girl in college I totally get 'this'" bish no you don't
I HATE that comment
Because Having One Too Many Drinks And Making Out With Someone You Don't Have Any Sexual Or Romantic Feelings For Doesn't Count As Being Bisexual, But Nice Try 😂😂😂
@@learleanatrimmer2892 Exactly
For all the people in the world bisexual does not mean we're secretly gay it means we love every boy and girl and no we're not afraid of commitment and no we can't choose its not how it works and boys can be bi too
And NO WE WON'T CHEAT ON U
+Brenna Boksa love your profile pic
Thx
+BB So true, I meet people that think it is I am afraid of commitment ALL the time!
Swayze H He must of said it wrong. He must if ment that we like boys and girls. Bi's are not sluts. Also loving every boy and girl isn't slutty it is one of the deadly sins, its named Lust.
Daughter 1: I'm lesbian, dad.
Dad: okay.
Daughter 2: I am too.
Dad: Does anyone in this house like boys?
Son: I do.
LOL MY GID NICE ONE sadly I can't hit a like bcs I'm on mobile
😂😂😂😂😂
+Lovely Cake 1234 Get an I phone
THIS IS BEAUTIFUL
+SaladFingers 09 Son: I do.
I as a bisexual female can fully clarify I've had all these problems.
One thing BuzzFeed forgot to add is a bisexual who never dated someone of the opposite sex or the same sex is STILL A BISEXUAL. I've had 2 girlfriend (one I'm still with), yet I've never dated a guy but I'm STILL BISEXUAL. A few people I've met say "Oh no, you've only dated girls so you're a lesbian not bisexual." and it's irritating because I'm still bisexual, I've just never had a guy like me back. Is it that hard to figure out? Please tell me I'm not the only one who's had this problem.
GloomAndDoom375 ive had this issue but in the opposite circumstances, im pansexual and ive only dated guys but im still pansexual. ive had a crush on one of my closest friends and admitted it but she never liked me back :p just because you'e only dated one gender dosen't mean your not bi/pan
GloomAndDoom375 By their logic, anyone who has not yet been in that kind of relationship is asexual.
Angela Brett Right. I agree, they don't understand that just because we haven't dated one gender doesn't mean we don't feel attraction to that gender.
mollycrownmolly Damn! Sounds rough.
GloomAndDoom375 they mentioned that in the video
"Oh! You have a girlfriend?"
"Yes."
"So you are a lesbian?"
"No, I'm bi."
"But you have a girlfriend, so now you're a lesbian."
Story of my life...
Wolflovex Wattpad ikr
same except I'm pan
Wolflovex Wattpad YUP. No, darling, I'm not a lesbian just because I'm a woman who has dated women. No more than I'm vegan because I ate a a vegan restaurant.
Wolflovex Wattpad, saaaaame
Wolflovex Wattpad same XD
GIRLS LOVE GIRLS AND BOYS
+Zoe Curnock LOVE IS NOT A CHOICE
YASSSSSSS
the phandom is everywhere and nice use of the lyric
+troye WOULD BE CAUGHT IN THE WAY YOU GOT MEEEE
Panic! At The Disco
I came out to my friends as bi...tried to tell my parents they didn't believe a single word I said and I'm like "how do you suppose I prove it? By kissing a girl in front of you c'mon guys!"
well, you told them, they don't have to believe you. as long as they know, then its great.
+ThatsTWOSimple well...sorta i still want them to believe me and not have them think it's just a phase
Emeraldsound you can try to tell them again maybe when you're a little older and they might believe you then
+ThatsTWOSimple I guess
Emeraldsound i hope it goes smoothly for you
The hardest thing is falling for a straight girl tbh. The struggle
TRUTH
+MCR is dead ;-; PROTIP!1!1! I KNOW RIGHT
Yes!
+Hornthread AJ damn right *(sobs in corner)*
true.
WHY DO PEOPLE THINK WE ALL DO THREESOMES
???????!!!!!!!!
I'm....guilty of unicorning....and doing threesomes as a bisexual person. But I KNOW that's not the case for everyone....
To me threesomes are not at all arousing
SilverWolf
Understandable it's not for everyone.
Exactly it's annoying as heck
Just looked up what unicorning is......I will never look at unicorns the same way again.
When I told my best friend at the time that I was bisexual (being the second person I had ever told this), like a week after I was talking about this cute guy I had met and she said "wait im confused, didn't you like girls?" I don't know what she thought I bisexual was.
And probably the worst part: as soon as I told her (I was worried because I've always been touchy with my friends, we've seen each other in underwear and stuff, and I didn't want her to think I was after her) she went "Oh well I pictured, since you've always been so pro gay rights and all." !!! I was pro gay rights way before I realized I also liked girls the same way I've been pro animal rights my whole life and I'm not a kangaroo.
AtomicKittenBaby Lol nice. Forgive her. Teach her. Love her.
Jahnn Alexis I was never upset at her, we grew apart for other reasons lol she never judged me though, it was just hard to understand i guess
AtomicKittenBaby I'm bisexual too. And that last line killed me. Hhahahahahahahha.
AtomicKittenBaby omg i hate that they assume youre pro gay that makes you gay. same with being for black power and stuff i dont want to say it just bc im black,
OMG I totally get this.
Why is it so hard for people to understand what a "bisexual" person is???!!!!!!
If you've been to public high school, public collage, or if you've ever been a teen, you'll know why. :'(
(I'm a lesbian, and I see a lot of trends in the LGBT community as far as bisexuality and how people react to it, it's unfortunately a shaky subject)
My boss just told me she thinks bisexuals are greedy and indecisive and when I told her how untrue and offensive that was, she still wouldn't apologize. "We should just respect each others opinions" she said. Honestly, this video made my day. It nice knowing someone understands.
are you by any chance a p&s regular?
I don't know what "p&s regular" stands for so, I'm guessing I am not.
ok, nevermind then :)
*****
Yes, I am vocal as well as sensitive, and there isn't anything wrong about that. I exercise my freedom of speech to defend myself and others. You, on the other hand, exercise your freedom as a weapon. Telling someone to "kill[them]self" is a form of bullying and is very dangerous. Your practice of cyber-bullying isn't appropriate. Please re-frame in the future.
its so annoying like at PE i hold my girlfriends hand and my PE teacher is a homophobe and she said stop thats inappropriate touching but a straight couple kissing in the middle of the gym and the teachers don't care
mhmm but we have pe seprate so boys and girl and rhen the girls are split in different sets depending on our qbilities
I hugged my female friend (I am also female) and a teacher told us pda wasn't allowed. I then hugged and kissed my boyfriend and they said nothing about it.
*claps* woooooow, just wow. The insensitivity of some people these days.
itsashley wow that's messed up. I hope things get better for you and your partner.
itsashley lol i go to a catholic all girl school and my girlfriend and I, can never hold hands. But basically give each other lots of hugs and quick kisses on the forehead because hugging and kissing on the forehead at my school is seen as not gay.
Its really frustrating how people treat bisexual men and women. I was talking to a guy on OKC and after about two weeks we finally traded numbers and within that very first day he sent me a thinly veiled warning about how if he was talking to someone he wanted to be the only person they were talking to. That sent off huge red flags; we were still talking and I hadn't even been on a date with him yet. I asked him if it was because of my sexuality, and why that would even play a part in this, and his response was "wouldn't you feel threatened too if I was into guys?" Needless to say, we didn't end up talking beyond that.
But seriously, where does this idea come from that bisexual/pansexual people are any more promiscuous or less loyal than gay or straight people?
It becomes easier to cheat when you love both genders.
+GooglyEyez actually, not really.
+Delfina Garcia no no, it will be harder to not cheat when you are attracted to both. It all really comes down to your own "self control" but ultimately if you were constantly near "millions of dollars" or your favourite "chocolate" you would be tempted to try some. Basically what I'm trying to say is, if it's two genders you are attracted to, the chances of cheating goes higher. The probability of a bisexual person cheating Goes higher. Whether if it was a straight person, (yes they could cheat) they only have one gender they are attracted to and they are less likely to cheat.
I should make myself more clear
A bisexual person has just as many desires to cheat as a straight person.
But for a bisexual person, they have more options, therefore the chances of a bisexual person cheating goes higher!!!!
Like holy it's common sense
People
And I'm not saying bisexual people "are automatically going to cheat" I'm saying that the chances of a bisexual person cheating is higher compared a S.p
+Delfina Garcia but then again, it also has another of different factors that contribute to someone cheating, but a main one would come down to "self control"
+flyincoke ah yeah really.
*reasons I haven't come out yet*
How old are you? if you are old enough maybe you can ignore them
Only 13. I'm planning on never telling them. Only way they would find out is if I brought a girlfriend home or a wedding. I'm not particularly close with my family and even though they're accepting they all have loud mouths and word would spread around like the plague.
They would end up telling me I'm too young to know. And give me some speech in that voice like they're talking to a kindergardner.
Akio I know, parents sucks xD
You must tell them, in a few years they will ask you that: you will have kids and if you're getting married, an example, i will never have kids or getting married but my parents always tell me that i will have kids, and i said them that i´ll never have kids or getting married and now they never ask me more, you can do it, they must understand you if they are your family
"I made out with a girl in college once, so I totally get this." Man, the amount of times someone has said this to me is ridiculous.
This was honestly so frustrating to watch because I'm bi and this is what I'm afraid of even more than not being accepted.
DON'T BE BI YOU'LL REGRET YOU WERE EVEN BORN
*of
come on this is 2017, i hardly think people would seriously spend the whole party asking stupid questions they know an answer to
no, it happens. people ask stupid questions without realizing that they are stupid. they mean well, so you don't slap them upside the head. but internally you want to yell. because yes it happens still in 2017!
same
the most annoying thing is when people think you're "just doing for attention", christ i could marry a women and people would still say i'm "just doing for attention" and that "i'll end up with a guy in the end"
+Evie Annie Same thing with me, Im bi and I know it but one of the many reasons I hvent came out yet is all the people around me even my flippin family will think that I do it for attention. And another reason is that my mom's view on bisexual people is that we are just all confused and don't know which way is up, makes me sooo Mad.
Only my 2 best friends believe me its really annoying I mean I questioned my sexuality long enough I don't need you doing it too
+Evie Annie Exactly
to all you married straight people that say this: youre just doing it for attention, you just haven't found the right goat for you
i'm worried about this all the time! especially since I'm a younger teen, so people are like "you don't know yet you're too young and just want attention!"
"It's 2014 they'll get it". Me: It's 2016 and they still dont get it😂😑
Yup😞
Ugh so true it hurts.
Honestly..
Madison's Channel now it's 2018 and they still don't get it:(
Me in 2018, they still don't get it. Fun
It's even worse than this when you're pansexual and nobody knows what that means and they think you either made it up or you're sexually attracted to frying pans
Or they say things like "Isn't that the same thing as Bisexual?"
omg I know right?!
A. Coleman Well, some people naturally care more about what society thinks than others. I'm Bi and I don't care who knows, but I'm the kind of girl who goes out into public with purple pants, a red shirt and a blue hoodie. And my weird awesome lion hat. I don't care about what society thinks of me, but I do care about what people think of me. It's completely fine to be Bi, but I know how it can be hard to come out. My friends act differently around me now, and I kind of wish that I didn't tell them. But I'm still happy that I did.
+AGBDYM062998 I told my dad about pansexuality and I said it was every gender, and somehow he managed to crack the joke "So like animals included??" then he also did the classic "There are only two genders though!" and I fukci ng
Are you attracted to trees?
Having a crush on a girl who thinks you are straight and something happens which makes you come out, then she gets nervous that you like her and have to lie because she is the prettiest girl in the world and you don't want to be without her.
Gosh this
+Kady laplount ....my life
Preach.
uuuuuhhh how do you know my life?
If woman like woman, let them be lesbian . If they are not straight, they should have only woman. They don't deserve man then. But don't forget, most "lesbian" porn is done by straight girls on drugs for money. Most woman prefer a man. Lesbian relationships are one of the most destructive relationships...
So much gay, lesbian, and bisexual people here. I finally feel at home 😭.
Same
Procrafter117 Honestly, I feel sorry for you guys (assuming you're homo/bi?).
One of my best friends is bi and another lesbian (I'm hetero myself) and they were so freaking terrified when they came out to me, because the internet and society had made them think I would treat them differently or not like them anymore just because of their sexual preference..
I'm not going to overreach myself and apologize for all the negativity you've received because of it, but I hope you don't have too hard of a time because of some idiots. I really hope you have friends who knew you before coming out and still treat you the same way, because from what I've seen that really helps. I hope people accept you and just treat you the way they would others, because you're normal people like everyone else.
Have a great day :)
MG42GeYeR It's kind of hard to be comfortable around people who sometimes judge you for something that's completely natural and out of your control... just saying.
Procrafter117 ikr? :DDD
ikr 😭😭
Random comment: that girl is really pretty
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the one gabby's dating
+Annabeth Chase she kind of looks a little bit like jennifer beals
ANNABETH! ITS YOU
+Annabeth Chase But you're with Percy..
I'm pretty sure I'm bi, but I've never persued anything with a woman.
Sarah L. Clark U aren't going to have a wedding with a woman, are you ?)
Suano Colchians I highly doubt it
Sarah L. Clark Cool, find a affectionate and strong guy who will satisfy you in life. Bisexualism is worse than Lesbianism, these girls are the UNhappiest people with a forked feelings. By the way those [former] bisexual girls having found their men became much more devoted/staunch than others ;) Life is sweet,so enjoy )
Sarah L. Clark Don't worry about the label. Just live your life and love who you are attracted to. You are who you are. Simple as that. If you find a woman in your future, it's all good. If you stay with men, it's all good. Only you can live your life the way YOU need to live it.
ZombieMommy Thanks for being so normal and level headed. That's rare to find on youtube. And yeah, I honestly don't really label myself any sexuality, because I personally know how truly weird I am, and I don't think a label properly fits it. Honestly, that's how most of us are. Fuck the labels! :)
I'm pan and the number one problem fofr me is: "isn't that another word for bi?"
I've heard people say that to pan people, and I'm like "NO THATS NOT HOW IT WORKS"
SAME
Right! The other day in class me and some other girls were talking about our dating life and so one girl said "you've never taken pictures with any guy youve dated?" and I said "nope" and corrected her 'guy' with guys or girls and she said? "Your gay??" I responded "No im Pansexual" and she was like "oh girl, you're bi!" like ????? how you gone tell me what I am lol? Thats not how it works lmao
update: I'm a lesbean
phan and emo trash sme
In my opinion she is the prettiest girls on buzzfeed
agreed
*girl
***** maybe
i think hottest is a better way to describe it
what about that redhead erin?
dude, omg. lol
I'm pansexual but I have most of these problems😂. I guess you can consider Bi and Pan sort of similar..
And most people know what bi means. Not so with pan. My gf just says she's bi when she isn't in the mood to explain what pan means.
my freind is pan and my other friend is bi😃👌
Bi and pan are two different things, and I'm pretty sure the people at BuzzfeedYellow understand that. :)
catz537 And I'm also pretty sure that Buzzfeed in general has not made a single video about Pansexuals.
AJ Burbank I don't know. I've never seen any vids by them about pansexuals, but you could look for one.
"Do you hate men?"
"...no"
TRIGGERED
Haley Gold XD
no, but I like gay yellow science monsters called Alphys just more ;3
true tho xD
honestly it's the same thing if you're pansexual
True
yas
besides that they just assume you're bi
True!!!!
Twenty Øne CryBabies love your name
ALL OF THESE ARE TRUE AND I CRY EVERYTIME
Omg phandom!!! And same
Nice pic ❤️❤️👌
Same!
Do you prefer crying on boys or girls shoulders?
+happybois Whoevers there for me.
Straight women who call their girl friends "girlfriends" leads to so much confusion and awkwardness. Just call them friends. You wouldn't call a boy friend a boyfriend, so why do it with girls?
***** exactly so rude I told my friend not to do that. They said why? Like no girl can have an actual "girlfriend."
Idk it's just a thing you say, I feel like you have to kind of live with it. Like in French a petit ami or something like that means boyfriend or girlfriend, but it could also mean little friend so they have no select word for that
+Voke Akati-Udi Petit ami is always used for a boyfriend (or petite amie for a girlfriend) it can't really mean anything else.
Well then my French teacher lied to me XD
+Voke Akati-Udi Well is your teacher french ? Because if she/he's not, it's easy to get confused.
WHEN YOU GET ASKED FOR THREESOMES ALL THE TIME
STOP
Nope, never have.
+Katy Madoxx Threesomes are great!
Oh well now I have... once
+Katy Madoxx I have two bi girls and we have constant threesomes its great!
you "have" two bi girls? they're objects to you?
Being bisexual is kinda hard at times . You have to choice what gender you wanna date sometimes . Plus if you tell someone ur bi they are gonna think you like everyone you see i dont get why someone explain___:/
I feel like it's almost more complicated to be bi rather than just gay or straight. People think that you have to choose one or the other. I have a friend who has called me a lesbian before because I've never been in a relationship. I'm sorry, but I root for both teams (that's a phrasing I like to use to explain it better).
That's a really good way to explain it!
I totally agree, I tried to tell my friend that I was bisexual and she didn't even know that term existed
Tasha Forrest yeah and when you have straight friends and they have to make comments about anytime you say you like ANYONE regardless of gender, like "wait your straight now? what about that girl you had a crush on?" people are just so one-minded a lot of the time that your either straight or gay its so annoying.
Yeah today I think it's really more misunderstood, but back in the 1900s it would be much better to be bi because if you were gay you completely wouldn't have a life, but if you were bi you still could live a happy life with a gender that you are attracted to (I know it's unfair to push you to one of them tho).
I prefer saying that I swing for both teams. It just sounds more fun to me.
I'm a pansexual agender person and I'm dating a bisexual transboy and its a lot like this. Some people think we're two girls, some people think we're two guys, some people think we're a guy and a girl. A lot of times people think it's weird that my last partner was a girl, but now I'm with a guy, and some people think I'm a lesbian that sees him as a girl and that's why I'm with him. Really, it's just that he liked me and I liked him. Case closed, bring out the dancing lobsters.
Kieren Sheilds Oh, I have a friend who's in the same situation- they're pan agender dating a transgirl. The amount of "Oh you're straight now?" and "I didn't know you were a lesbian!" comments are weirdly equal.
Kieren Sheilds (tsukiyama :0.) That must be hard for you
Kieren Sheilds so my brain just exploded... Thanks for that
pizaasco Same. Haha.
+Kieren Sheilds if you don't bother the question : why is your transboyfriend bisexual when he dates an agender? I thought this people then aren't bisexual but instead pansexual or sth like this.
Reading below comments and I'd just like to say that I am a bisexual woman and I don't really feel like there's any difference between bisexuality and pansexuality. I am not limited to liking two genders even though yes, the word bi does mean two, but it is outdated to say that it's attraction to only 2 genders. I personally, also as a cisgendered person so my view may be wrong, feel that transgender people aren't any different than "normal" men and women, as the gender they identify as is the gender they are. (sincerely hoping that makes sense, to summarize; people born with a penis who identifies as a female IS a female and vice versa). I am also not limited to those two/three (depending on how you look at it) and would have no issue falling for somebody who is genderfluid or anything else. I may as well be calling myself pansexual, I just feel more at home using the more familiar bisexual - and thus that is where I feel I identify the most. I hope that clears something up for anyone wondering.
Same tho
Bisexuality means attraction to two or more genders, and pansexuality means attraction to people regardless of gender. So maybe for bi's gender has something to do with attraction? Who knows, it's really the which label the person prefers. I've grown up with any polysexual friends (except for about 3) identifying as bi, so I consider myself a biromantic.
l say love who you love
You both are homosexuals deal with it! Not putting it in rude term, what I meant is that you both like the same sex but just one of you goes either way...and asexuality shouldn't be a thing because it basically means you don't or you do which is a human thing not an ethnic or whatever. I'm still a bit confused on asexuality because you don't have romantic relations but it doesn't stop you from having sexual relations.? Either or idk I'm a conservative Christian I think you shouldn't by how am I to tell you to live your lives. Not that someday they'll end.
Calebar l am actually straight l just dont care who you love
so Gabby is Bi and you're a lesbian? Tricky.
what
Being a bisexual female is difficult. But I imagine it's a bit worse for bisexual men. Either way, my sexuality does not fade when I am with someone. I don't become a lesbian when I'm with a girl and I don't become straight when I'm with a boy. In either case I'm still attracted to both genders equally. I love looking at the body features of both assigned human genders and that desire doesn't go away just because I'm with one or the other. I'm not confused. I know that I love men and women the same. And I'm not greedy or afraid of commitment. I have only one partner at a time and enjoy the fact that I am exclusive to that person.
harvestlight I understand all things.
No offense but why can't you just pick one?
Jalen Lane because as she said 'I love men and women the same'..theres absolutely no need to pick..its our personal preference..you're happy with your sexuality, we're happy with ours. Sexuality is not a decision, it is determined from when we're in the womb, there is scientific evidence to prove this..you can see it in kids the way they interact with one another what sexuality they could have...im guessing you're a straight male? So how do you know you're straight? Did you make that decision? No, its in your brainwaves, embedded before you were born.
Back to the point, bisexuality means that you love male and female alike..simple as.
Jalen Lane Because I feel sexually attracted to both and can connect to both on an emotional level. However, I will not have two partners just because I'm bi. I will have one at a time and that depends on what kind of person they are, not their gender.
Jenny Savage OK that's fair thanks for the explanation.
Oh my gosh, this is really relatable. I am a bisexual girl, and I don't have problems with people bullying me about that, but godamnit these people! They're like "you're lesbian? I thought you were straight!" "Oh wait, you're lesbian again!" and I'm just like NO! I'M BI!
Well, I'll tell you, most bisexuals have the same chance of leaving their boyfriends/girlfriends as straights or gays and lesbians. It's just an illusion for gays and straights that just because we have a wider choice for dating, there's double the chance that their bisexual girlfriend/boyfriend will leave. For us, it's just that there are more people who either run away from us or try and hook up with us. Besides, if she truly loves you, she won't be leaving anytime soon.
***** Anyone can cheat it doesn't matter what their sexuality is. And even is someone who is bi cheats not every who is bi will cheat. It would be like me saying "Oh my straight boyfriend cheated on me...now every straight man I date is going to cheat on me." Is that true? No. I have never cheated. I don't even know if I could do a 3 some..I just ugh. I am all about monogamy. If you are not even going to give someone a chance because they are bi..yeah that is very closed minded. A persons sexuality does not make the person.
-_- Do you know what morals are? Cause I assure you I have them. But since you are going to judge me on something I can not change I doubt you would even care enough to get to know a person. Wow wow wow I am Bi so I don't have morals? Are you serious? Shit I better stop being nice and respectful to people..I better drop out of school and stop volunteering instead of working I should start robbing places and stealing stuff from stores. -___________------- I should start kicking animals and should throw my cat outside. -_- Wow. Wow apparently not being straight equals not having morals woooooowww. Oh my god I really hope you don't think this way. Morals and sexuality are two totally different things. I think you need to get out more.
Just accused me and other bi sexual women of not having morals because we are bi. (Which is not something that can be change. Just like you can't change that you are straight. I can;t change that I am bi. )
Yes. I am so glad I got through to you. I actually want to cry happy tears! Just because some person who was bi treated you bad not everyone who is bi is a bad person. A few years ago I was hurt badly by someone who is a Christian and for a while I dispised everyone who was Christian because in my mind I figured everyone who was Christian was horrible and would hurt me. That is not true though. Yes there will be some people who are Christian or bi that treat others bad but not everyone who is Christian or bi is like that. There are bad people from every background but there are also good people from those same backgrounds.
The worst thing is when people thing that because u are bisexual it means that u are going to be dating a girl and a boy at the same time ugh
Lol
Uh... huh? That's a polyamorous relationship, i.e., more than one person together at one time. Being bisexual means you're attracted to girls and guys, but not specifically at the same time.
lol I know! It's like, no someone is BISEXUAL not a WHORE XP
That's because alot of people actually do that
bisexual women tend to ask or approve very easily of bringing another women to bed with their husband. I seen it a lot
Its annoying when you say your bi then people g around saying your a lesbian. IT PISSES ME OFF SO MUCH
I'm bi curious/never dated a girl so never had these problems not sure I will in the future..
Hahaha. This Video was Funny. Having some Bi Friends I've been around and asked some questions myself. What makes you Bicurious? What attracts you about Females?
Bree Iero A little more than curious, by your description.
Bree Iero umm yeahh not true lol
Bree Iero not necessarily sex,it's the same as being straight just finding people attractive or kissing,it's being curious about the same gender but not sure if you're definitely bi..
JeidoCupcake! Yep. That's exactly right.
Argh, I hate when girls use the term "girlfriend" to mean a friend who is a girl soooo much. That term creates way too many awkward situations >.>
Can't wait to see the male version of this...
It'll be almost the same video so why bother making a second? it'd be good if they included a bisexual guy in the video but did you ever think that they might not have a openly bisexual guy to be in it? Not only that but not everything has to include or be about men.
yeah, the title is "girl problems" but then at the start of the video it says "bisexual people". plus - it wouldn't bee too different, just a guy instead of a girl. i know a bisexual guy and he's also met with these kind of conversations
*****
i've met with insults and offensive stuff and i'm a pansexual girl. but i guess that men have it worse when it comes to bisexuality, partially because with a girl it's considered 'hot' by many
*****
not really. i've usually met with "bisexual problems" stuff, same questions. but yeah some people are a little bit weirded out, some say i have it "easier" than straight or gay people, some say it's "cool", some don't even know what that word means
same content, except i won't have a boner
its so true 😂
classmate:"you have a girlfriend?!"
me:"yep"
classmate:"so..you're lesbian"
me:"no!? I'm not!"
I also hate it when my straight lady friends say ''I wouldn't want you hitting on me." Then I truthfully say that they're not my type, then they become offended.
?????
My life like: "Oh.. so are you.. um ya know like.. A les-"
"No I'm just bisexual."
Who here is bi? (Probably most of you are) I'm bi!
I am and… I am proud of it!
Jenieva Lynne Oares same
I am
Jewel Raymond Me!!!
Jewel Raymond Me!
The one I hate the most is "oh, are you confused? It's ok, I won't tell her you've dated guys. You'll end up picking one gender in the end..." etc
Like no I like both I'm not picking anything thank you very much.
i'm pansexual but those problems are the same for me xD
but with the ''it's like being bi '' and the '' so you can sleep with everyone lol gangbang''
I'm bi but I totally understand what you say, people don't get the difference and that makes me sorry for pansexual people, and I also have the famous "C'mon, it's just fashionable to be bi" which is the most annoying thing ever
Rinou Mokao that's horrible D: they are idiot or there were like that in their birth ?
+NATHALIE LESNE Honestly I don't know what is worse...
What's pansexual?
Keith is my spirit animal
same
Same
same
I'm a handsexual guy
that's just sad. You probably shouldn't even mention that to people.
whats that?
iam forced handsexual
Van Buren
why soo racist lool
Monster Karim it isn't a racist, it's discrimination learn the difference
Im gonna come out as bi soon wish me luck! 😅
good luck! :D
Good luck!! I wish you the best
Good luck!!! :D
Awe Hun!!!! I feel so happy for you :D
I wish you so much luck
thanks everyone! i did and everyone was ok with it 😄
I would just like to say that this video is pretty accurate towards bisexuals, but as a bisexual guy I think we have it worse. At least people think bisexual girls exist. I'm just constantly accused of being a closeted gay, or just being confused. Other guys think I'm disgusting, and so do the girls because they think I'm just basically gay. I can't fit in with gay guys because I'm too straight and I can't fit in with straight girls because I'm too gay. My only stable relationships have come from other bi girls and bi guys. It would be cool to see the 15 Bisexual Guy problems video but this is BuzzFeed so that's probably never going to happen.
People never thought I was just gay, or at least they didn't say it to my face, I guess I'm just lucky.
I think bisexual girls have it a little bit luckier because people disgustingly assume girls to go through a "lesbian phase" where they suddenly become sexually attracted to women for a few months or years in college, but still have sex with men.
The women who do that only do it for the attention from men who think girls making out is hot. They don't feel sexual attraction to women for a short period of time and have it fade away, it's always or never.
Unfortunately, guys don't have that small "advantage", because as horrible and incorrect in every way, shape, and form that it is, it still makes it SLIGHTLY more acceptable.
I'd have to agree, guys have it worse.
That video exists dude...
Alice Pan It isn't better. I think that people need to stop pretending to be a different sexuality for attention because it really belittles those who were born that way and society will view those people in the way the attention-seekers act.
Yeah, they do have that going toward them. But women are disrespected by misogynists all the time, regardless of their sexuality.
Regardless of sexual preference, misandry and misogyny is something all people suffer with unfortunately. They really are stupid concepts...
I think both male and female bisexuals have a lot going against them. A LOT. (society is a b*tch)
Haha, all the trolls are finally coming in! I was wondering what happened to them! How cute, they think they are offending people...
"this is 2014, they'll get it"
Could you guys do a video about pansexuality .
What does non-binary have to do with being pan?
No, wait, I get it now. Your comment makes sense
They did
They did
STRAIGHT PRIDE ...... 30 rounds M4 in your head GAY OR LESBIAN
Oh my god gaby's girlfriend is so cute I'm questioning my sexuality.
lol same
SAME OML I THINK I HAVE A CRUSH ON HER
I've never been more confused in my entire life! My whole life i've always thought i was straight cause i've always liked guys, but ever since i can remember i've always had small little crushes on girls, even when i was like 8 and i don't understand. Cause i can't see myself having a relationship with a girl only a guy. But sometimes when i see certain girls i find myself physically attracted to them. Am i bi? Cause i feel like i am, but more attracted to guys... idk someone please help!
Georgia Watts I guess my question to you is, why do you feel the need to label yourself?
You have relationships with guys and would like to try some vag on the side, so what? Lots of straight women like to experiment. Tell your boyfriend, im sure we wont mind having a threesome or letting you experiment with women.
Why do you have to wear a label! As the one said before me, there is a difference between lust and love.
Dear Georgia, don´t stress yourself. You like guys and that is just fine and it is nothing unusual to feel that way, to feel physically attracted to women. I think one day you will meet the woman that you want to go all the way with, since you have that already in mind and you will like it that is for sure ;) If someone has this thought it will happen sooner or later because you just want to find out what it is like. I was 25 when I had my first experience and it totally surprised me...
+Georgia Watts You're bisexual hetero-romantic. You could be with a girl or a guy but only have a romantic relationship with a guy. That happens a lot! Don't be confused C: Just do what you feel!
Hiya, I agree with the others you don't seem perfectly straight but hey don't stress about it. You are what you are and you don't need to give yourself a label if you don't want to. If you feel like having a relationship with a girl or guy you do it, whatever feels good for you. :). It will all figure itself out you'll see :)
+Georgia Watts It's possible. I wouldn't worry about it or anything. If you want to, experiment. Date a girl. If it doesn't really work out, then maybe you're straight. I'm straight, but I still appreciate a lovely lady once in a while. It just depends.
Good luck!
Starts blasting Girls/Girls/Boys*
YYAAASSSS GURRLLL
Misspixelwolf ) loving p!atd is not a choice
Misspixelwolf ) Same.
The most annoying thing is when your partner thinks that just bc you're bisexual, it means that there are more chances of you cheating or more "competition". Ridiculous.
See that just tells me that those kind of people are very insecure.
I know what you mean, I'm a guy and when I tell people I like girls, they're like "omg, so that would make you....straight?" and I'm like "yep". And the conversation ends. That's about it.
Awesome comment
Made my day.
😄
I am a bisexual, curvy, polygamous, ginger living in the bible belt. Discrimination is my life
Alyssa Armstrong Me too except for polygamous and bible belt but might as well be at my home.
People have different viewpoints on what curvy is, you have a big booty is what you're saying?
hell no, i have no ass, but curvy sounds better than saying slightly overweight. Im not like 600 pounds, hell i weigh 160, but all the fat on my body gathers in my stomach
At least you're hot.
Spider - Woman XD thanks, you ain't so bad yourself
I am glad I have friends who don't even make it a big deal
Same here! And it helps that my friends are a mixture of straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual and bicurious. So to us, it's nothing.
Imagine how hard it is being a bisexual guy.
I kinda want to see a video from a bisexual guy's perspective now.
swordsandmagic Yeeeeess!!!!
Its very difficult and super awkward. Especially when your black and come from a christian background :(
swordsandmagic yes! that would be great!
swordsandmagic 60% of bisexual guys are bottoms so
I'm bisexual, but none of those or most of them, I've never tried, maybe because of my age or the fact I never had a girlfriend or boyfriend, but as 15, girls are so much better, but older boys are also kind of sexy, so that is probably the only problem I have, wich one do I choose? I know love is not something you choose, but I simply don't know what to look after, if so.
+Anna Christina Landmark Perhaps you're heteroflexible?
What does that exactly mean? :)
+Shane Doyle No matter, I found out myself, but I still think I'm more bisexuel, because actually the gender doesn't matter, the face and the mind is what I go for, what makes the person speciel and stuff. I know where is many both guys and girls out there, who would love some love from somone who love them :3
*special
Good for you then, that's really a nice way of being.
+Anna Christina Landmark I'm 15 too and I'm bisexual too, and I think it's like you're just waiting for someone special to meet, boy or girl. At the moment I like a boy but I have a girl crush on a friend, so you don't like "choose", you like both at the same time
I'm lesbian myself, and I always feel bad for Bi girls when trying to date lesbians in the community. For some reason, there is this stigma that bi women just automatically will date a lesbian and then want a guy while with the girl and chest in her or leave her for the guy. So the majority or whatever percent of lesbians won't date bisexuals. It's so ignorant. The UA-camr Arielle is kind of a supporter of this too.
Kate Lynch I fully agree. Aren't we all human and deserve respect? Especially from the lgbt community.No no scratch that, from everyone period :( it just saddens me really. I can't even date properly when the majority of people think like that but yeah we need more people like Hayden Fisher :)
Haha thanks. I just think people need to seriously educate themselves before making assumptions. I would date a bi chick if a girl ever wanted to date me.
i hate how everyone thinks bi's cheat alot, i'm bi and i think it's wrong to cheat
I wish more people thought like you Hayden.
haha thanks. I seriously hate that this stigma exists. The youtuber Arielle tried to do a bi week and ask lesbians what they thought and it did nothing but show more of the stupidity that some lesbians have. I also have a feeling that Arielle herself feels the same way.. I just.. ugh.
Literally, the most annoying things my friends say to me are this.
"You're so lucky to like boys AND girls. God, I wish."
NO I'M NOT LUCKY I WISH I WAS ONE OR THE OTHER SO THAT WAY I'M NOT TOO GAY FOR GUYS OR TOO STRAIGHT FOR GIRLS. I AM NOT LUCKY!
sorry… i've been upset the past few days about this. I had to get it out.
When people found out I was bi the boys were like, "look at that girl she's hot right?!?!"
I don't think some people understand that just because I'm bi, it doesn't mean I like every girl I HAVE A TYPE OK.
Asexual biromantic powers activate!
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I hate it when girls say "I was out with my girlfriend" and don't mean an actual girlfriend, but just a female friend. It just annoys me for some reason.
Me toooooooooooooooo...
I always squee a little inside because I like meeting other girls interested in girls, and it sucks when it turns out they arent xD.
"this is 2014, i think they'll get it" HAHA HONEY NOOO
How about a bisexual guy problems video?
"So...you're gay?"
"No, I'm bi."
"But you're dating a dude."
"Yeah?"
"That means you're gay."
*Guy and his boyfriend kiss.*
"Ew..."
*cuts back to the clip of two chicks kissing*
"Nice!"
*bi dude comes to a party with a chick*
"So...you're...not gay now? What the hell?"
"Oh, honey, I used to be 'bi' too, but then I realized it was just a phase! I'm gay now!"
"So...can you just make up your mind already?"
*on a date with a girl*
"So...why didn't you tell me you're gay?"
"What?"
"Yeah, it says so on your facebook page. 'Bisexual'"
"*on a date with a guy*
"So...are you just confused or something?"
"What?"
"Yeah, it says so on your facebook page, 'Bisexual'".
Just some suggestions :)
I'm a lesbian myself and I see how it must suck to be getting death glares, cruel words and even violence when two guys show their affection in public. BUT on the other hand us lesbian and bisexual women, when we kiss in public guys seem to think its a free show. They're sometimes even howling and cueing us to proceed like what they would do in a damn strip club. In my opinion I believe both side have it as hard. Just in different ways.
***** I was wondering the same thing, where's the "bi guy problems video"?
They just uploaded it today! :)
It's 2016 and people still don get it
"its 2014 they'll get it"
Um no. just because it's 2014 doesn't mean that all of a sudden all creepy taboos are accepted.
This is creepy?
Since when was being Bisexual a creepy taboo?
oh no bc being anything but cishet is so disgusting and terrifying. its not like hate crimes against the lgbt+ community are appalling or anything. but you know those damn gay people and their creepy taboos in existing
Well idiots took over this nation thank god 3rd world countries dont do the same
***** blinded people like you think all of a sudden weirdos are accepted in this world and in 50 years from now people are gonna think that dogs and humans can be married
This just shows how biphobic people can be.
Would you be weirded out by a person eat anther human? It falls under the same category: unnatural & abominable
yes because cannibalism and love are both equal sins.....great job. *slow clap*
Oh you don't like unnatural things? Please hand in your phone, all technology and never use any form of transport. Oh also can you please go live in the woods cause pretty sure that house with heating is unnatural.
How is being bisexual unnatural?? Like seriously dude we love who we love there's nothing unnatural about it. Also turn in everything you own because news flash nothing but nature is natural. FACTS
Im really shocked as to how little radical Christians there are commenting "Being gay is wrong"
Not all Christians are rude because others are different, maybe they're like that where you are. But I and others don't have an issue with it.
shirelpet He said "radical Christians" though ;)
im chritstian but idgaf about that shizz lol
Most "radical" christians are white males and they tend to be a little more forgiving when they see two hot girls making out with a potential for a threesome
Radical fundamentalist Christians aren't in the Buzzfeed target audience (thankfully).
“It’s 2014,they’ll get it” sat here in 2018 and thankfully more people are starting to get it
Some people are just like "I'm just scared bisexual people will leave me for the opposite gender..."
And I'm just like, "so you'll feel better if they left you for someone of the same gender or..."
that feeling when this is so true...That feeling when you come home and your cousins be like "Oh my gosh, your friend is so pretty" so i be like "No this is my girlfriend"response are mostly like "Same thing"...
Like really when will i have precious time with my baby without having the statement "Oh are you lesbian?"
Im like NO IM NOT LESBIAN! NOTHING WRONG WITH THEM BUT IM BI!!!
*when I show affection to my FRIEND that is a girl* "That's gay!"
"You'we confused."
"You like a girl. So you're gay, right?" *after explaining I'm bi*
"Don't turn gay on me, Ava."
I don't hate gays, but I'm not lesbian. I'm bi.
I go through these problems a lot, even though I'm single
you didn't need to comment here... its a sick subject and I hate the video ideology
Sunny what do you mean?
Mahalia Jade
I married a bi-sexual women. My family were a bit confused by it... as they thought just because she found men AND woman attractive she would be "more" unfaithful. Which is absolutely untrue.
Instead of preferring Coke OR Pepsi, she likes both. It never was a problem for me.
Attraction and deep emotional connection are not solely a function of a penis or vagina.
I'm a bisexual woman married to a straight man. I'm glad there are other guys out there that understand!
when they were holding hands I curved up in a bubble of bisexual happines
OH my gosh this video is my life right now as I recently came out as bi to some of my closer friends they ALWAYS ask me - do you prefer guys or girls - orr - oh so your half gay and half straight?-
One of the reasons why I'm not out as bi yet lol I have a strong feeling I'm gonna be hiding in the closet for a looong time.
Haha , I'mm not hiding , I just don't tell everyone I meet but if someone asks i'll tell them :p
I don't know tho , I think for ur bi you technically are half straight , half gay ?? Haha I don't know
Haha , I guess but I don't think of it as "half gay , half straight" I think of it as "bisexual"
xx
MyBrutalRomance yeah ! I get u haha
The girl played Gaby’s girlfriend is probably one of the prettiest girls I’ve ever seen
"This is 2014..."
2016 is almost over and all I can say is Time is flying by like a Motha-
and here we are, halfway through 2019
As a bisexual man this made me mildly angry because I've had to deal with ALL of this and it sucks
things like this is the reason for why i dont i want to come out as pansexual. mind making a pansexual girl problems video? ^^
Omg, I feel you, but I'm openly pan, but it's super annoying having to explain it to people. I would love to see a pansexual problems video!
jazzie maxwell I understood everything from the lgbt community until asexuals and pansexuals appeared
Ismael Martinez asexual people dont experience sexual attraction. pansexuals are attracted to people of all different genders (cis, trans, nb, etc.)
Gary Oak spot the homophobe
Ismael Martinez Really? Those are possibly the easiest concepts. Asexual = no sexual attraction. (Ever just not been attracted to a specific person? It's like that, but with everyone.) Pansexual = gender doesn't matter when it comes to attraction. (You're a girl? Boy? Both? Neither? It depends on your mood? Awesome! I like you.) Simples.
And here we are in 2024. Not too much of a change.