@@TheObliviousRhino me too, haha, i started getting serious in texting and she started to talk about her and how her family is and etc... she said she wants to meet with me but when i asked her if she is free last friday she didn't reply till today, haha. i think it's over.
1. The purpose of technology is to set up the next in person meet up. Never try to build connection via technology. 2. After sending your text, go do something else. This should be a natural thing if you have the lifestyle you want pursuing your purpose. 3. Keep your texts shorter than hers. Never send long reams of text.
I don't really have problems with getting girls, but I have a problem with how to meet them and gain interest with all this technology and social media. It was so easy back in the day.
Hey, thank you so much for your tips. I agree that the aim of texting is just to get a meet up with her. But during this tough time, due to the cities lockdown, texting and calling are all channels we can use to communicate. So plz make a video talking about how to make a relationship stronger in this time. Thank you.
But open-ended questions have always worked. I would always reply with a question. The girl is bound to reply and the conversation flows continuously. I reply back in relation to whatever she’s said & then ask a question. It has never failed. 😃
In the case of long distance texting/interactions, instead of meetups you can do Skype calls/phone calls to look forward too. And don’t worry as much about needing to set up that next date like he makes it seem in this video. Only when your in dating proximity should you start to do that.
I need to emphasize that this usually works well with American women. If you’re dating a European women or you live in Europe, this might Not apply to you 100%. There’s a huge whatsapp culture in Europe that the majority of couples build rapport through texting on Whatsapp. I know this sounds weird for Americans but many relationships nourish through deep conversations on Whatsapp. So if you’re dating a woman in the states, this video is gold. But if you’re dating a woman from Eastern Europe or you live there, this video doesn’t apply to you 100%. Some girls will straight up call you if you don’t respond in 10-15 minutes:) to see if you’re okay and this is very normal in that culture. Also besides texting, it’s not unusual for couples there who talk on the phone for hours every day and if you’re not the type who can do that, you may end up losing her pretty quickly:)
I find his basic groundwork fine.. But some of the things he tells you to say sound a bit childish and naive, definately the case in Europe in the UK its somewhere between the US and Europe. I go to Whatsapp, after dating. Built up a nice rapport with a girl in London whilst I was on holiday in bali. Had our first date when I got back, in the sack 3rd date. So textinting does work as an ice breaker.
Yes not much of these 'rules' apply to European and UK women, they are far easier to make sense of. I would hate to be an American trying to make sense of American women in the dating world there. Too much hard work and the whole process sounds petty and exhausting.
Take all that stuff soooo seriously while she has to learn NOTHING about dating and take nothing seriously and yet be ahead of you in every aspect. All for a 65% divorce rate where 80% of all divorces come from women. If you ask me, don't put sooooo much value and importance in this nonsense. Saying things like "one single text can destroy everything forever" is just MAD man...
@My Girl is getting rammed by RAMY no. Disagree. Texting is the best. You give her enough time to reply also you don’t have to get yourself caught in a bad spot. Actually lot more reasons.
I understand you say the main purpose of texting is to set up the next in person meet up but I can’t talk to my crush in person because of the pandemic, so I feel like I don’t have a choice but to use texting to get into a conversation.
To each his own on his advice and approach however I tell guys on BBDtv no emojis or lol's however I always enjoy your perspective bro! Safe to say you do know what your talking about.
Slightly different in Europe and UK a bit more closer to US here. I use WhatsApp, after dating site preliminary. Whenever I tried to get to the point after a few texts... So when can weeet for coffee, it was kind of ignored, but the texting continued for a while longer, then I could take it offline and actually set up first date.
If i have got some signs that a girl likes me and i remember her name from some meet up, could i just simply message on Messenger? I think that phone number isn't necessary cuz it always come to texting where you have to shine
If she is short dosnt has to be something negativ.. I have exlerienced this sometimes in the beginning. Only thing was that i as well kept my messages short. It took a while for her to start asking quedtions so i had to lead this.. But she did start sending more and more smiley.. I also really had her wait for like an hour between texts, sometimes 30 mins sometimes 2 hours.. And after a while she started to send double message with at least 15 minutes in betweens. Short after she showed Great curious in me and after that the game was totally different.. From time to time she ignored me but she generally showed more interests in me both with freqency questions and words wrote...
Imo there are no rules. If you have a set of rules laid out on you..your trying for the wrong one. Chances are she has two other guys in her wings helping her to make those decisions. A woman like that could never value you as a friend. Without friendship between you two...it will end even if you do get her and you will pay for it.
First rule there are no rules. Like love and war there are no rules, hopefully common sense rules. Be kind and thoughtful words can seriously hurt like the arrow may not be retrieved once in flight.
She may be pretending .if she is having one then what she is doing with you .. instead ask what she found in him great .. now you can get correct info about their relationship !! If the connection is deeper leave thoughts of dating her - if the connection is poor she will report to her n you can have it her
What if the woman you interested in is in a place faraway from where you live like continents apart from each other how do you go along connecting with her on till the day you finally meet up ?
@@Arteshir Ikr it's jus dat the possibility are very low to really meet up in person but then again it depends on the other person it's still worth the the try don't u think
Isaac Frederick take it from my bad experience people only remember your presence in the beginning and the end so just talk to her a couple weeks before let her know you coming flirt a little text call whatever and then once your 1-4 days before seeing her do it again
mw01908 It would only work long term if there are plans to be together physically eventually. But if that’s not on the table eventually it’s most likely gonna break down
WTF......If you have to do all this shit. For a little attention. And never approach a cat like the dog you are. Because you're afraid maybe she'll diss you. Then she's a fucking stuck up B. Always be you, because you are who you are. If you don't like you. Change and rearange for yourself. If not, she ain't worth it . NEVER EVER CHANGE YOUR PERSONALITY IF YOUR INTENTION'S ARE GOOD. YOU THE BOSS, YOU ARE ALPHA, YOU A KING. FREQUENCY- VIBES- ENERGY. IF ONE OF THEM DOESN'T LEVEL UP. FIX IT. DON'T LOOK FOR LOVE IF YOU DON'T LOVE YOURSELF. TRUST IN THE HIGHER POWER OF THE UNIVERSE. FEEL THE ENERGY. AND YOU WILL SHINE LIKE THE DIAMANT YOU ARE. SO YOU CAN BE HER ROCK. "WHO AM I!?" i'M A CHAMPION!!!
The problem is....high value women don't chase men who haven't been in contact. Nor do we initiate kisses on dates. So there is a problem isn't there? Everything else was on the money though. We dont want to hear about your day via text, we want you to ask us out.
I'm sorry this is very incorrect information! Do the exact reverse of what he said! He's mistakenly assuming women think like a man does. This is how men think, NOT women!
Texting a new woman you are interested in is like defusing a bomb. One wrong move, and boom. It's all over.
Yeah man I just Fucked a conversation up recently with one text.
@@TheObliviousRhino me too, haha, i started getting serious in texting and she started to talk about her and how her family is and etc... she said she wants to meet with me but when i asked her if she is free last friday she didn't reply till today, haha. i think it's over.
Wow. I don’t get them sometimes, however I have found someone else who wants to go on a date.
@@TheObliviousRhino good for you bro, good luck and have fun!
So stop beeing interested
By far best dating advice on UA-cam. No bullshit, no hype, just good information. Learned it too late. Take heed young bucks!!
1. The purpose of technology is to set up the next in person meet up. Never try to build connection via technology.
2. After sending your text, go do something else. This should be a natural thing if you have the lifestyle you want pursuing your purpose.
3. Keep your texts shorter than hers. Never send long reams of text.
I don't really have problems with getting girls, but I have a problem with how to meet them and gain interest with all this technology and social media. It was so easy back in the day.
The less u use it the better actually
Hey, thank you so much for your tips. I agree that the aim of texting is just to get a meet up with her. But during this tough time, due to the cities lockdown, texting and calling are all channels we can use to communicate. So plz make a video talking about how to make a relationship stronger in this time. Thank you.
These tips are GOLDEN! Good stuff, keep doing what you do
But open-ended questions have always worked. I would always reply with a question. The girl is bound to reply and the conversation flows continuously.
I reply back in relation to whatever she’s said & then ask a question. It has never failed. 😃
In the case of long distance texting/interactions, instead of meetups you can do Skype calls/phone calls to look forward too. And don’t worry as much about needing to set up that next date like he makes it seem in this video. Only when your in dating proximity should you start to do that.
I use Skype and I love it much better than texting. I also use WhatsApp at times : )
I need to emphasize that this usually works well with American women. If you’re dating a European women or you live in Europe, this might Not apply to you 100%.
There’s a huge whatsapp culture in Europe that the majority of couples build rapport through texting on Whatsapp.
I know this sounds weird for Americans but many relationships nourish through deep conversations on Whatsapp.
So if you’re dating a woman in the states, this video is gold. But if you’re dating a woman from Eastern Europe or you live there, this video doesn’t apply to you 100%.
Some girls will straight up call you if you don’t respond in 10-15 minutes:) to see if you’re okay and this is very normal in that culture.
Also besides texting, it’s not unusual for couples there who talk on the phone for hours every day and if you’re not the type who can do that, you may end up losing her pretty quickly:)
Amazing
Absolutely he has zero knowledge of international women and he tried to sound like an arrogant know it all... thumbs down.
I find his basic groundwork fine.. But some of the things he tells you to say sound a bit childish and naive, definately the case in Europe in the UK its somewhere between the US and Europe. I go to Whatsapp, after dating. Built up a nice rapport with a girl in London whilst I was on holiday in bali. Had our first date when I got back, in the sack 3rd date. So textinting does work as an ice breaker.
Yes not much of these 'rules' apply to European and UK women, they are far easier to make sense of. I would hate to be an American trying to make sense of American women in the dating world there. Too much hard work and the whole process sounds petty and exhausting.
why is that difference do you think?
Let the woman initiate 80% of the time works perfect and raise her interest in you & much easier for you
Facts!! Save you and her time.
I don't get it
@@slim3710 basically be busy with your own life and don't worry about her. She comes to YOU when she wants to chat.
How does texting work during quarantine? How do you keep her interest while you can't see her for an undetermined period of time?
OMG he has to make a video on this. Try emailing him about the challenge COVID-19 has brought upon us weaklings.
Take all that stuff soooo seriously while she has to learn NOTHING about dating and take nothing seriously and yet be ahead of you in every aspect. All for a 65% divorce rate where 80% of all divorces come from women. If you ask me, don't put sooooo much value and importance in this nonsense. Saying things like "one single text can destroy everything forever" is just MAD man...
Brutal truth.
One texting mistake I made and I didn't even realize it at the time: I had my "read receipts" on. Turn those suckers off! They don't do any good.
What if it’s a long distanced relationship.. where it’s quite difficult to meet. Yes they meet every now & then but still, how does that work?
@My Girl is getting rammed by RAMY no. Disagree. Texting is the best. You give her enough time to reply also you don’t have to get yourself caught in a bad spot. Actually lot more reasons.
Long distance relationship lol she’s getting that ass nailed count on it
I understand you say the main purpose of texting is to set up the next in person meet up but I can’t talk to my crush in person because of the pandemic, so I feel like I don’t have a choice but to use texting to get into a conversation.
Call em'
Never double txt.
Irish Dating Coach
100% and no doubt! Good to see your still at er' bro!!
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Woman here. This is good advice!
To each his own on his advice and approach however I tell guys on BBDtv no emojis or lol's however I always enjoy your perspective bro! Safe to say you do know what your talking about.
Keep grinding bro
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Slightly different in Europe and UK a bit more closer to US here.
I use WhatsApp, after dating site preliminary. Whenever I tried to get to the point after a few texts... So when can weeet for coffee, it was kind of ignored, but the texting continued for a while longer, then I could take it offline and actually set up first date.
She replies instantly most of the time. How should I react please help?
Ask her out
If i have got some signs that a girl likes me and i remember her name from some meet up, could i just simply message on Messenger? I think that phone number isn't necessary cuz it always come to texting where you have to shine
I agree with the Dynamite issue 👌👌
Also know that bad texts you did before, can be healed and rebuild relationships and feelings by good texts
And what are you supposed to do if she says she wants to text before and get to know you ?
I sent that wrong text it boom she almost lost full interest in me
Is this on Spotify?
Another Dating Coach's textt policy is stated as " texts are for information not communication "?
If she is short dosnt has to be something negativ.. I have exlerienced this sometimes in the beginning. Only thing was that i as well kept my messages short. It took a while for her to start asking quedtions so i had to lead this.. But she did start sending more and more smiley.. I also really had her wait for like an hour between texts, sometimes 30 mins sometimes 2 hours.. And after a while she started to send double message with at least 15 minutes in betweens. Short after she showed Great curious in me and after that the game was totally different.. From time to time she ignored me but she generally showed more interests in me both with freqency questions and words wrote...
Thank you
Imo there are no rules. If you have a set of rules laid out on you..your trying for the wrong one. Chances are she has two other guys in her wings helping her to make those decisions. A woman like that could never value you as a friend. Without friendship between you two...it will end even if you do get her and you will pay for it.
17:41 to explain ONE rule? Oh wait...Now there's four more things? Give me a break!
😅🤣
First rule there are no rules. Like love and war there are no rules, hopefully common sense rules. Be kind and thoughtful words can seriously hurt like the arrow may not be retrieved once in flight.
Except if you're long distance
Even if it is cold approach like snapchat?
Thanks based 2X God
What if she is texting you every day!
Ignore her... lol
Block her
Call her and ask her on a date instead, if she keeps texting you after tell her you’re busy and that you have to go
What if they say
*"I have a boyfriend"?*
tell her, "would you like a second one?"
@@captainglad4966 LMBO !!!!!!
say, me too.
She may be pretending .if she is having one then what she is doing with you .. instead ask what she found in him great .. now you can get correct info about their relationship !! If the connection is deeper leave thoughts of dating her - if the connection is poor she will report to her n you can have it her
Just ignore her and leave u will see the magic on coming days
What if you already messed up throughout the process
Then it’s over for you. Buy a rope.
Well that explains it. I fucked that one up lol
leave the phone in the car or let the battery die.
Damn, thats a good idea, thanks
What if the woman you interested in is in a place faraway from where you live like continents apart from each other how do you go along connecting with her on till the day you finally meet up ?
Absolutely, most of the tips revolve around meet in person which definitely are wrong advice if they are long distance.
@@Arteshir Ikr it's jus dat the possibility are very low to really meet up in person but then again it depends on the other person it's still worth the the try don't u think
Isaac Frederick take it from my bad experience people only remember your presence in the beginning and the end so just talk to her a couple weeks before let her know you coming flirt a little text call whatever and then once your 1-4 days before seeing her do it again
Always enjoyed the massage lol
And how does this work in a long distance relationship?
long distance relationship never works any way.
@@smedzi They can do and have.
mw01908 It would only work long term if there are plans to be together physically eventually. But if that’s not on the table eventually it’s most likely gonna break down
WTF......If you have to do all this shit. For a little attention. And never approach a cat like the dog you are. Because you're afraid maybe she'll diss you. Then she's a fucking stuck up B.
Always be you, because you are who you are. If you don't like you. Change and rearange for yourself. If not, she ain't worth it .
NEVER EVER CHANGE YOUR PERSONALITY IF YOUR INTENTION'S ARE GOOD. YOU THE BOSS, YOU ARE ALPHA, YOU A KING.
FREQUENCY- VIBES- ENERGY. IF ONE OF THEM DOESN'T LEVEL UP. FIX IT. DON'T LOOK FOR LOVE IF YOU DON'T LOVE YOURSELF.
TRUST IN THE HIGHER POWER OF THE UNIVERSE. FEEL THE ENERGY. AND YOU WILL SHINE LIKE THE DIAMANT YOU ARE. SO YOU CAN BE HER ROCK.
"WHO AM I!?" i'M A CHAMPION!!!
hi
Just use sign language 🤟
Why not just call her? It shows you have some balls
The problem is....high value women don't chase men who haven't been in contact. Nor do we initiate kisses on dates. So there is a problem isn't there?
Everything else was on the money though. We dont want to hear about your day via text, we want you to ask us out.
I'm sorry this is very incorrect information! Do the exact reverse of what he said!
He's mistakenly assuming women think like a man does. This is how men think, NOT women!
Looks like I came too early.lol