Why Was She "Sold" by her Mother? | Consuelo Vanderbilt

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  • @ittybittykittymama7582
    @ittybittykittymama7582 Рік тому +23

    Her second wedding photo looks quite different from her first. No tears there, but only a happy smile!
    The later photo is that of a truly happy woman! Yay for Consuelo!

  • @tinacarter5304
    @tinacarter5304 Рік тому +166

    I'm so glad she got to marry for love! Many were too scandalised by the idea of divorce and stayed in such unhappy marriages. Heartbreaking when you stop and think about it. So happy for her!

  • @stormyskyz4251
    @stormyskyz4251 Рік тому +178

    Imagine using your right to divorce from a marriage, to better your life, only to deny that freedom and comfort from your own daughter to repair the damage from your own choice.
    So selfish omg

    • @katiefountain2407
      @katiefountain2407 Рік тому

      And honestly why would you want to get back into that group? They sound like a shit*y lot to me.

    • @healingandgrowth-infp4677
      @healingandgrowth-infp4677 11 місяців тому

      To your own daughter not from your own daughter

  • @stares_mthrfckrly
    @stares_mthrfckrly Рік тому +29

    The issue with Alva is I highly doubt anyone told her “no”. And she didn’t want anyone, including her daughter, to tell her “no”.

  • @noragilotti3646
    @noragilotti3646 Рік тому +47

    I read her book, The Glitter and the Gold. It was fascinating. She was a great and generous lady who endured much, and gave even more back.

  • @maryaltshuller885
    @maryaltshuller885 Рік тому +14

    I read Anderson Cooper's Book about the Vanderbilt Dynasty and he quoted Consuelo saying that her mother was a dictator. Strange how money, power and prestige can warp a person.

  • @CuteDwarf11
    @CuteDwarf11 Рік тому +39

    I'm glad she was finally able to find happiness in her second marriage. Shame on her mother.

  • @facetedperspectives9950
    @facetedperspectives9950 Рік тому +126

    Consuelo was one of the most fascinating women in history. Her soul tenderness and sensitivity are evident in every picture of her. We often fail to see that patterns of behavior don’t change. Her mother was a character and that’s the kindest thing that can be said about her. Her daughter was a tool for her social advancement…. disgusting then and now. Alva was a narcissistic bully.

    • @huldrrrr9486
      @huldrrrr9486 Рік тому

      Unless you were one of the wives of the married men she slept with

    • @Lyrielonwind
      @Lyrielonwind Рік тому +1

      I think is Alba, related to an Spanish aristocratic family.

    • @theresebortzfield188
      @theresebortzfield188 Рік тому +6

      Alva seriously disturbed. Horrible and abusive mother

    • @lhl9010
      @lhl9010 Рік тому +3

      @@theresebortzfield188 it was how it was for the upper classes, go read an dget informed.

    • @nobodyyou_know7836
      @nobodyyou_know7836 10 місяців тому

      @@lhl9010 still is

  • @jujubees5855
    @jujubees5855 Рік тому +35

    God bless you, mijo, for not letting these folks be forgotten. Much love and respect for your hard work from Texas.

  • @axelsqip
    @axelsqip Рік тому +14

    Thank you for this interesting video. I just regret that you passed rapidly about her life in France. I live in Eze, on the Riviera, where M. Balsan and her had a stunning estate and received so many famous people between the World Wars. The estate still exists and is in private hands. Consuelo Vanderbilt left a strong and dear memory in the village.

  • @unhiddenhistory
    @unhiddenhistory Рік тому +24

    You can see the sadness in Consuelo's eyes in every painting and photograph of her.

  • @danielrosas5685
    @danielrosas5685 Рік тому +16

    THANK YOU FOR THE STORY. WELL DONE. NOT EVERYTHING IS ROSES IN THE BEST FAMILIES

    • @violettesager3946
      @violettesager3946 Рік тому

      THE BEST FAMILIES 🤔 are the poor ones LOVING THEIR CHILDREN 😉‼️

  • @Garbeaux.
    @Garbeaux. Рік тому +266

    Well done. She happens to be distant cousin from her maternal side of the family. Her aunt was my great-great grandmother. We actually have kept the ‘Vanderbilt’ silver (we just call it that) which was given as a wedding gift. I read her autobiography a few years back but felt a lot was glossed over. I guess she couldn’t really say how she exactly felt.

    • @timefoolery
      @timefoolery Рік тому +19

      Very cool! I’m related to the Spencer’s 😊

    • @kylesteele3936
      @kylesteele3936 Рік тому +13

      I want some actual proof. How would such a distant relative have any of her things. Don't mean to be skeptical but everyone claims things like this. I would think the English relatives kept all wedding gifts.

    • @Garbeaux.
      @Garbeaux. Рік тому +39

      @@kylesteele3936 I’m talking about wedding gifts that her family, possibly mother, gave when my great-grandmother was married. Hence why we call it Vanderbilt and not Marlborough silver. I never said I had any of her personal things. Please reread. Wanna family tree? Lol. Give an email.

    • @Caterina...3
      @Caterina...3 Рік тому +38

      @@Garbeaux. Why would you even bother to reply to someone as rude as that person who questioned you.
      Just the fact they asked for proof; such a troll!

    • @lb8141
      @lb8141 Рік тому +20

      That's fascinating! You need not have to justify or answer anyone. Thank you for sharing 😊 I am Custis on my mother's side.

  • @chatita9527
    @chatita9527 Рік тому +32

    Fortunately nowadays IN OUR SOCIETIES we can marry for love and divorce when we want to. This is freedom, and we should be grateful for this! There are still societies / countries where marriages are arranged and forced, and divorces for women are not possible. TERRIBLE!

    • @julijakeit
      @julijakeit Рік тому +9

      Yes, unfortunately in our society people now marry recklessly based on "Instant Chemistry" and do not check in depth the abilities of their future spouses to raise a family which results in insane amount of divorce and unhappy children. We should not discard what was beneficial from he pas but adapt it to he modern times.

    • @darlenemestas5839
      @darlenemestas5839 Рік тому +5

      The families, some, still have genealogy meeting before marriage. They go over the family lines and hereditary issues.

    • @deborahdean8867
      @deborahdean8867 Рік тому

      Dont get too excited about it. Divorce has always been theoretically possible in every culture, it just might not be practically possible. But today, you sure cant say people, especially women, are happier than they were in times ost, and you certainly cant say western women are any happier than cultures who still practice arranged marriages. In fact, I know people today who practice it and are glad it's their parents making the decision.

  • @vanessahenry7238
    @vanessahenry7238 Рік тому +6

    Description of 'Sold' is an understatement. Pretty much what a daughter is, because with money like that, love is not the match

  • @exdus235
    @exdus235 Рік тому +5

    Very nicely done. So comfortable to watch as the music's volume was kept low. Like that each image was captioned with the person's name and dates. An all around good job. 👌

  • @frankfowlkes7872
    @frankfowlkes7872 Рік тому +7

    Consuelo had a very good relationship with Winston Churchill who was the Duke's first cousin. She found Winston much more interesting and entertaining the her husband the Duke!

  • @richardlippincott8881
    @richardlippincott8881 Рік тому +9

    wow. SO interesting. I am so glad Conseulo found happiness in her later years. How awful for her marrying a man who only cared about her wallet. Incredibly demoralizing to be in that position. She must have felt so devalued. But, her kindness shined. RIP dear Consuelo.

  • @patriciamartin6756
    @patriciamartin6756 Рік тому +17

    Poor Consuelo. Her mother was a bully. Thank God , Gloria was , I think , the first Vanderbilt woman to control her own life

  • @lynneh9744
    @lynneh9744 Рік тому +54

    You should do a vlog on Gladys Deacon, the other woman in Consuelo's first marriage. She had an interesting life and childhood, which contained madness, murder, and scandal, was a compulsive liar who became an acknowledged beauty; later on becoming Duchess of Malborough, and then later on a recluse who bred dogs and chicken I think. When I read her biography, she sounded a horrible woman, but without doubt, she had an interesting life, as did her parents.

    • @themysteriousdomainmoviepalace
      @themysteriousdomainmoviepalace Рік тому +10

      And she returned in this life aa Meghan Markel

    • @hunnybee971
      @hunnybee971 Рік тому +2

      @@themysteriousdomainmoviepalace snicker.... SLAP... Not funny. Yeah. Okay.

    • @noorgonzalez1076
      @noorgonzalez1076 Рік тому

      @@themysteriousdomainmoviepalace
      😮😢😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
      Isaiah 33:5,6
      Revelation 21:3,4
      Psalm 37:10,11

  • @robinettes5774
    @robinettes5774 10 місяців тому +6

    I’ve been watching the new series The Gilded Age and absolutely love it. Your videos helps me follow the families like the Astor’s. Thank you.

  • @CherryPi314
    @CherryPi314 Рік тому +5

    They have a beautiful mansion here in my town of Newport Rhode Island....and wow, what a mansion it is! They had one of the first elevators of the time on Bellevue Avenue

  • @Gilded-girl
    @Gilded-girl Рік тому +14

    Fun fact: Consuelo’s second husband Jacques had a brother named Etianne. He had a love affair with Coco Chanel. If they had married. Coco Chanel and Consuelo would’ve been sister in laws.

    • @lindseystein9676
      @lindseystein9676 Рік тому

      Hopefully the brother wasn’t another nazi like some of her other love interests. Coco Chanel has a dark past

  • @loretta_3843
    @loretta_3843 Рік тому +31

    It's amazing, we think wealth brings freedom, happiness and everything good. She was living in a tyrannical home and married off at the tender age of 18, (basically, in the simplest form), like property. My parents were penniless Italian immigrants, but they chose each other and had 60 happy years together. I imagine there are many fabulously happy wealthy people out there but it's good to remember any level of society has it's problems and at least when you're in possession of a light bank account, you know your friends are there because they actually enjoy your company and care for you. This is something many with wealth have to worry about and it can't be good for your sense of self. Consuelo seems like a lovely lady with compassion. Sorry to ramble on!😄

    • @Cate7451
      @Cate7451 Рік тому +5

      Thanks for saying this it’s good to know. Every generation needs to know this.

    • @cathiwim
      @cathiwim Рік тому

      Women and girls WERE considered property then, and in many places, still are.

  • @leopardvixen2242
    @leopardvixen2242 Рік тому +21

    Very well done! I love The Gilded Age! Mini series like The Buccaneers, are my fave. One of the best vacations I've ever taken was to Newport, RI, to see all the summer cottages. Unfortunately, we didn't have time to see Marble House, but we did see the other prominent Vanderbilt home, The Breakers. I can't wait to go back! The history of the architecture, people, culture, everything, is fascinating! I'd love to see more videos from you about more of the Dollar Princesses, as most have been forgotten!

    • @peggyh4805
      @peggyh4805 11 місяців тому

      Newport is a must-see.

  • @RSZ229
    @RSZ229 Рік тому +14

    Great job! But how could her mother do that to her when she herself experienced damaging consequences from a divorce?!

  • @heathers7265
    @heathers7265 Рік тому +22

    She was such a beautiful woman. And had such a sweet face! ❤️

    • @jessicaryan3805
      @jessicaryan3805 Рік тому

      Great report, I felt like I was in the company of aristocrats! Thank you!

  • @kmaher1424
    @kmaher1424 Рік тому +8

    After the divorce the Duke converted to Roman Catholicism. He wished to remarry in the Church so an annulment was necessary
    Alva testified that she had bullied and lied to force Consuelo into marriage. The annulment was granted and the Duke married.
    The Duke's second marriage was unhappy but he had saved his estate
    Consuelo and her mother reconciled since her story had a happy ending

  • @smorgasbroad1132
    @smorgasbroad1132 Рік тому +16

    Alva was a toxic narcissist. That Consuelo named her home in Florida after that monster mother baffles me.

    • @vieiradosreismariadelurdes9105
      @vieiradosreismariadelurdes9105 Рік тому

      Alva maried with Vanderbilt ,than Divorced... and than maried with Belmonte.... .

    • @sierraball444
      @sierraball444 7 місяців тому

      Stockholm Syndrome is real 😞

    • @tell-me-a-story-
      @tell-me-a-story- 6 місяців тому

      She still loved her mom.
      She probably thought it was all normal, as she had no perspective on how other children were raised.
      She probably never fully understood that she’d been abused.

  • @bobbyrutherford9359
    @bobbyrutherford9359 Рік тому +11

    Forgotten Lives always has great content in his cases I really enjoy watching his videos

  • @ellebelle8515
    @ellebelle8515 Рік тому +9

    A very imperfect mother, in many ways, was forcing 'perfection' on her daughter in an excessively cruel manner.

  • @cottoncandy4486
    @cottoncandy4486 Рік тому +10

    You are a great story teller. Great story.

  • @AmorDivino-e5q
    @AmorDivino-e5q Рік тому +4

    I like the story of this interesting woman,she seem a very cool and calm person,two virtues I admire. Thanks for this biography very well presented.

  • @bettinabarry8423
    @bettinabarry8423 Рік тому +12

    Always enjoy your presentations and this one doesn't disappoint 👏

  • @ashleycrowe6649
    @ashleycrowe6649 Рік тому +16

    I absolutely love your videos, thank you for making them! 💕

  • @catholiccrusader5328
    @catholiccrusader5328 Рік тому +6

    Consuelo was pretty cool a damn good woman and I'm glad her second marriage was a good one.

  • @Fran_Fuentes
    @Fran_Fuentes Рік тому +9

    Thank you for this piece of history that you're sharing with us

  • @Himesua
    @Himesua Рік тому +24

    There's a movie called "The Buccaneers" It details the lives of four women who were similarly raised to be married off to English aristocracy, much like Consuelo Vanderbilt and Jenny Spencer-Churchill.

    • @kaloarepo288
      @kaloarepo288 Рік тому +2

      Yes it's based on a novel by Edith Wharton -I watched the tv series a long time ago but I don't think there was ever a feature movie on it -I could be wrong!

    • @ruthanneseven
      @ruthanneseven Рік тому +1

      Haha! I'll bet very few Brits know about this!

    • @jeanplunkett5580
      @jeanplunkett5580 Рік тому +7

      @@ruthanneseven Oh yes they do .🙂

    • @Gilded-girl
      @Gilded-girl Рік тому +2

      Edith Wharton based one of the characters on Conseulo. They met but I don’t think Consuelo liked Edith very much .

    • @michaelplunkett8059
      @michaelplunkett8059 Рік тому

      ​@@Gilded-girl Edith socialized more with her Uncle Cornelius and Alice Vanderbilt. I believe she was over for tea when their original Breakers burned down.

  • @oevilone
    @oevilone Рік тому +11

    Thank you for covering her life!

  • @wholeNwon
    @wholeNwon Рік тому +31

    Blenheim was a gift of the UK to the first Duke. "The Glitter and the Gold" is an interesting read. Her descriptions of visits to Q. Victoria are amusing. Her visit to Russia was interesting. The Empress declined to meet with her but the Czar did. I was once invited to tea by Mrs. Alfred G. Vanderbilt II. The invitation was delivered by a liveried footman or butler (don't recall which).

    • @berenicewaters4096
      @berenicewaters4096 Рік тому +4

      Wow, how was the tea wirh the family like ?. Must ve been amazing surroundings. Thanks for sharing

    • @janetcw9808
      @janetcw9808 Рік тому +2

      Did you go? 👍🏻

  • @Lady_Chalk
    @Lady_Chalk Рік тому +7

    If you happen to be near Asheville, North Carolina, visit the Biltmore Estate. It is absolutely beautiful, and built from pure love.

    • @auntiem0thman
      @auntiem0thman Рік тому +1

      Absolutely gorgeous at Christmas, I spent lots of time in my childhood there thanks to my grandma getting perks from her job.

    • @comparedtowhat2719
      @comparedtowhat2719 Рік тому +2

      Pure love, huh. Don't think so. I read it was built by one Vanderbilt trying to out-do the others in "my castle/mansion is larger and grander than yours."

  • @annfisher3316
    @annfisher3316 Рік тому +14

    I have been deep diving into the industrial and gilded ages lately, so this dove tails perfectly. Seemingly the opulence did not bring joy to many....

  • @richardshiggins704
    @richardshiggins704 Рік тому +10

    Excellent biography. Very well narrated . I seem to recollect that the Vanderbilts are now rather down at heel compared to their glory years .

    • @mbsheisey
      @mbsheisey Рік тому +1

      Income tax did them in, I think.

  • @Skarfp
    @Skarfp Рік тому +107

    Amazing how beautiful Consuelo was considering her mother was such a pug.

  • @GriffithsJacqueline
    @GriffithsJacqueline Рік тому +9

    Great video, I hadn't realised she led such an incredible life.

  • @peacemomma7122
    @peacemomma7122 3 місяці тому +1

    Comprehensive and excellent video. Thank you for sharing.

  • @Gilded-girl
    @Gilded-girl Рік тому +17

    The Glitter and the Gold ends when Consuelo is about 45. If you are interested in what happened to her after that , there is a book by James Brough called portrait of an America Heiress. He follows the rest of her life and who her estate went to .

  • @patriciabaughn4749
    @patriciabaughn4749 Рік тому +5

    Well done and interesting. She did much philanthropic work and is remembered for that. She had thevmeansxyo help people less fortunate and willingly did so.

  • @theresapatterson7482
    @theresapatterson7482 Рік тому +14

    This story was very interesting, I feel her mother wasn’t interested in her daughters happiness. All for money and status, madness. Consuelo she was a beautiful looking young woman, I think to be forced into a loveless marriage is heartbreaking I feel very pleased for her having a divorce and moving on with her life. Consuelo after marring second time and living in U. K. She did wonderful things and went on to live a long life. A story that turned ok after a horrible beginning.

  • @deniseconsultant1538
    @deniseconsultant1538 7 місяців тому +1

    I really enjoyed it. I enjoyed all of your videos. Interesting. Good work. Thank you.

  • @loonylinda
    @loonylinda Рік тому +1

    really enjoyed this .

  • @juliahelland6488
    @juliahelland6488 8 місяців тому +1

    Thanks for sharing this! I absolutely enjoyed listening! 💯❣️

  • @marthadavenport1032
    @marthadavenport1032 Рік тому +2

    I LOVE THIS YOU GIVE ME NEW KNOWLEDGE EACH ONE I WATCH YOU DO AN AMAZING JOB PLEASE KEEP IT UP THANK YOU

  • @berenicewaters4096
    @berenicewaters4096 Рік тому +10

    There used to be a brand of clothes named Gloria Vanderbilt which I used to love. Another excellent video from FL. This story reminds me of The Guilded Age TV series written by Julian Fellows that was shown in the Summer in the UK.

    • @normatible9795
      @normatible9795 Рік тому +2

      Yes, I’m wearing a pair of jeans with Gloria Vanderbilt brand, size 8 , I bought in Costco for 14,99. What a coincidence that I’m watching this !

    • @robine916
      @robine916 Рік тому +2

      Gloria Vanderbilt is Anderson Cooper's Mom!

    • @blue-dragon31652
      @blue-dragon31652 Рік тому

      She was from the rich Vanderbilts but they lost their fortune. Cooper took over the monetary affairs from his mom when he was teen because she didn’t understand money.

    • @east32nd
      @east32nd Рік тому +3

      Yup these are Gloria and Anderson’s ancestors

    • @cls2res
      @cls2res 10 місяців тому

      And let's not forget Cora (Levi?) of Downton Abbey fame😊. Her character saved Highclere with much-needed American capital.

  • @Caterina...3
    @Caterina...3 Рік тому +5

    Loved this!
    Thank you for all the work you did on this video.

  • @sharimccormick1352
    @sharimccormick1352 Рік тому +3

    Very interesting and spoken so very clearly. Thank you.

  • @arribaficationwineho32
    @arribaficationwineho32 Рік тому +5

    Daughters were used as chattel in previous decades. Bartered for family fortunes. So glad women do no longer suffer this horror

  • @debbralehrman5957
    @debbralehrman5957 Рік тому +3

    Thanks for all your great stories.

  • @rebeccagable9629
    @rebeccagable9629 Рік тому +2

    Very interesting--thank you!

  • @t.h.337
    @t.h.337 Рік тому +13

    I've been to the Vanderbilt mansion located in Biltmore, north Carolina. Is it the same Vanderbilts? I believe so...but anyway it's a cavernous but also gorgeous place that reflects an completely different age and way of life. I found it fascinating.

    • @here_we_go_again2571
      @here_we_go_again2571 Рік тому +11

      The Vanderbilt who created
      Biltmore Estate was a cousin
      of William K and Alva Vander-
      bilt (Consuelo's parents) There
      also was another branch of the
      Vanderbilt Family that moved
      to the UK (back in the 1800's)

    • @t.h.337
      @t.h.337 Рік тому +2

      @@here_we_go_again2571 thanks for clarifying. I had a feeling that it wasn't the same Vanderbilts that he was directly talking about in this video

    • @mairim4578
      @mairim4578 Рік тому +3

      @@t.h.337 her mansion is in New Port,Rhode Island,I saw both,where Gloria Vanderbilt family had another mansion,

    • @mallorygraf8574
      @mallorygraf8574 Рік тому +2

      ​@@here_we_go_again2571Yes! I visited that huge house and was astonished at how big it was....so beautiful. I was impressed by how big kitchen was...as big a a hotel kitchen.

    • @boston_octopus
      @boston_octopus Рік тому +1

      William K. Vanderbilt's brother George built Biltmore - Consuelo's uncle George.

  • @59tante
    @59tante Рік тому +5

    Great story

  • @ELKE-
    @ELKE- Рік тому +2

    I'm not first place, but always happy to be here!😉 Thank you FLives for great research history. Love your work

  • @m.f.richardson1602
    @m.f.richardson1602 Рік тому +2

    Always interesting.
    I always learn something new..
    Thank you
    Peace 💕🇺🇲

  • @sandraobrien8705
    @sandraobrien8705 Рік тому +5

    She was an interesting, quite striking looking woman and really doesn't resemble her father or mother much. In the 1905 portrait by John Singer Sargent of her with her husband and two sons, I think she looks exotic, strong and quite foreign really for someone of Dutch and English descent. She looks more Greek. I like the strong position Sargent chose for her and the fact she looks ready to complete her half turn and walk right out of that painting, directly towards the viewer. She is the only one in the painting you get that impression from. A year later she did just that and separated from her husband.

    • @tell-me-a-story-
      @tell-me-a-story- 6 місяців тому

      I think she just resembles the Cuban part of her family a little more.
      (Some Hispanic people look similar to Greeks)
      And took after her I think it was her grandma.

  • @helengorton894
    @helengorton894 Рік тому +2

    WONDERFUL and so informative..thank you!!!

  • @languageresources2314
    @languageresources2314 Рік тому +2

    Why can't I stop seeing Taissa Farmiga as Consuelo Vanderbilt? That show ruined my life, lol, it was so good!

  • @jendamum
    @jendamum Рік тому +2

    Found your channel and had to subscribe. Great content and I look forward to seeing more!

  • @TA-cm9yi
    @TA-cm9yi Рік тому +2

    Hello from Alberta, thank you this was a compelling FL.

  • @donnyetta
    @donnyetta Рік тому +3

    Thank you - Your work is very interesting.

  • @danacarter4793
    @danacarter4793 8 місяців тому

    I always wondered how a duke was associated with the Vanderbilts but never took the time to look into it , Thank you for this vid,very informative 🥰

  • @aprilmorrison9627
    @aprilmorrison9627 Рік тому +1

    well done. thank-you! I enjoyed this.... 🙂

  • @lisapop5219
    @lisapop5219 Рік тому +13

    I've always wondered how she got her first name

  • @3frenchhens818
    @3frenchhens818 Рік тому +10

    I like it very much when the very rich have social consciences and help the poor, work for women's rights and other good causes. That's how the lucky should be.

  • @daviddevlogger
    @daviddevlogger Рік тому +24

    I wish my book of life was written in pencil … There are a few pages I would like to erase

    • @RowanWarren78
      @RowanWarren78 Рік тому

      Well said

    • @ruthanneseven
      @ruthanneseven Рік тому +2

      Go for it!
      I think of that as well, until I realize how much more I learned from my mistakes, than my successes. ✌

    • @katie195
      @katie195 Рік тому +1

      erase and rewrite

    • @vinny160
      @vinny160 Рік тому

      Wouldn't we all???

    • @RowanWarren78
      @RowanWarren78 Рік тому +1

      @@vinny160 you know...I think there are a couple of things I would change, but for the most part, not much. I have learned so much from my mistakes.

  • @cadillacdeville5828
    @cadillacdeville5828 Рік тому +2

    I look forward to every time you upload 💕❤️😍

  • @serahloeffelroberts9901
    @serahloeffelroberts9901 Рік тому +10

    Alva actually locked Consuela in her room and threatened to have the man she loved assassinated if she didn't agree to marry the duke. Talk about a Mommy Dearest.

  • @user-cj6yw5fu4l
    @user-cj6yw5fu4l Рік тому

    Great video, which makes you want to know more about this lady, and others at that time ,thanks as always

  • @VesperR8
    @VesperR8 Рік тому +5

    I’m enjoying this series of wealthy heiresses

  • @patricialong5767
    @patricialong5767 Рік тому +4

    I've heard them called "Dollar Princesses.'

  • @aubreyshelton3217
    @aubreyshelton3217 Рік тому +1

    You are adorable.. honestly. Love the background 💓

  • @jamesnaas4727
    @jamesnaas4727 Рік тому +1

    Yes! Very interesting! Loved it! 😎💪👏👏👏

  • @myheroesofamerica719
    @myheroesofamerica719 Рік тому +1

    Wonderful job!

  • @ThomasHarding1990
    @ThomasHarding1990 Рік тому +2

    correction : Blenheim Palace was built FOR the 1st Duke of Marlborough not for the 9th Duke.

  • @jenniethrockmorton5660
    @jenniethrockmorton5660 Рік тому +1

    I enjoy all your videos.

  • @vinny160
    @vinny160 Рік тому +2

    Another stunning story...

  • @hunnybee971
    @hunnybee971 Рік тому +1

    The first thing I noticed with the Family Portrait with Mummy and the children: No one smiled. How sad.

  • @huldrrrr9486
    @huldrrrr9486 Рік тому +11

    I feel horrible for her as a child and bride, however that is no excuse for her planning to abandon her children on two different occasions and sleeping with married men and being partially responsible in wrecking their marriages. Just because of what her mother selfishly arranged for her, it doesn't give her the right to selfishly almost ruin her children and other innocent women's lives

    • @Sweetlyfe
      @Sweetlyfe Рік тому +11

      Let’s blame the woman shall we?, what about the men they were ruining their marriages, also it was very common for the aristocracy to take a lover.

    • @huldrrrr9486
      @huldrrrr9486 Рік тому +7

      @@Sweetlyfe You're putting words in my mouth. If she were a man my comment would be no different. I'm not blaming her for the unhappy marriage, or even taking a lover. I'm just saying she didn't have to ruin other womens marriages or her children's lives by having affair with married men and leaving her children, which would break both their hearts and their reputation. The married men were absolutely as responsible of course I'm not defending them at all, but this particular video and comment were about Consuelo

    • @brenda1378
      @brenda1378 Рік тому +4

      You need to study how life was in the period, how children were seen once a day and must never be heard. How woman had no right to their children. How men could beat wives and children up and down the street.

    • @huldrrrr9486
      @huldrrrr9486 Рік тому +4

      @@brenda1378 I have, and I have read her memoirs. There is no mention anywhere of Consuelo being abused by her husband, awkward, snobbish and stuffy but not abusive, on the contrary he was surprisingly forgiving of her trying to elope early on in their marriage, and she had a quite close relationship with her her children, but that didn't stop her from trying to leave said young children so she could run away with married men. There's also the fact that this would ruin their reputations for life. I know she was in a really miserable, complex situation. I believe she was at heart a good person who went through a lot of pain, but also sometimes a selfish and flawed who also put others through a lot of pain, I just felt they deserved a mention too that's all.

    • @brenda1378
      @brenda1378 Рік тому

      @@huldrrrr9486 You just come across that a woman should shut up and put up. I do agree that in my opinion it is very wrong to have affairs with married people, but with those people it was always the done thing. They married or were forced to marry for any reason but love.

  • @1rjbrjb
    @1rjbrjb Рік тому +3

    I enjoy your work including the diligent research and entertaining narration. But how, precisely, was Sir Winston's Iron Curtain speech "infamous"? Famous, certainly. I'm sorry, are we siding with Stalin?

  • @tinaboostrom7549
    @tinaboostrom7549 Рік тому

    I find this video amazing. I'll be watching more in the future

  • @meeeka
    @meeeka Рік тому +2

    Oh please!!!! Do Jenny Churchill!

  • @NannupTiger
    @NannupTiger Рік тому +3

    Diana, Princess of Wales, was a Spencer

  • @eshim3961
    @eshim3961 Рік тому +1

    @6:22: Withrop Rutherford, Consuelo's early love, later married FDR' s longtime mistress, Lucy Mercer.

  • @raquelrodriguez6359
    @raquelrodriguez6359 Рік тому +1

    Wow for someone whose name means consolation she sure had a problem finding consolation for herself.

  • @jacquetracy3194
    @jacquetracy3194 Рік тому +1

    I think she was a very brave woman.! She was a survivor...

  • @TheLaughingVampire
    @TheLaughingVampire Рік тому +19

    It's really mind boggling to me how someone can march for women's suffrage and then marry her own daughter off like equipment at a farm auction.

  • @grapeshot
    @grapeshot Рік тому +4

    Throughout human history it has always been about the superficial.

  • @code-52
    @code-52 Рік тому

    If you can, you should visit the Vanderbilt House.

  • @janieromer2907
    @janieromer2907 Рік тому +4

    Arranged marriages were the norm in these circles. Given the current rate of divorce from love marriages and the price paid by the children I’m not sure romance is as good a foundation as it’s meant to be.

  • @gabriellebernard198
    @gabriellebernard198 Рік тому

    One thing they don't focus on neck. She had a long elegant neck. Very graceful and proud. They don't come like her often.

  • @mariposaorofusionfoodchann7573

    What a wicked mother!! Forcing your child into a marriage because of your social standing?? At least she found happiness, but a good 20+ years after the marriage to the impostor she didn't even want!