The Stalking Continues.... I'm sorry to have to make this video, but she won't stop.
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- Опубліковано 28 кві 2024
- I had a very alarming threat today.
Some of you are aware that I've had an ongoing issue with a woman from Serbia who is constantly Harassing, Abusing and very Narcissistic in her behaviour towards me.
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I would strongly suggest you don't do videos like this, don't respond to emails, block in every way possible, zero response to anything at all - and be glad she is in Serbia. This video is a negative reaction from you to her but it is still attention. If you want to put out a fire, cut the oxygen to it. Any reaction you or Mildred give will feed it - keep feeding it to the police. If you suspect it is a fake account with her, then don't respond. Keep calm and carry on, in public, like they don't exist. You take care.
Yes this is the way to deal with narcissists.
Hi found your show by accident and love the work you do, I've learnt a lot from your show , especially love you touring the churches and talking about the history. Just ignore this women sounds like she has a sad live. Carry on with the good work much love from nz❤❤❤
💯 Agree.. my ex husband is a narcissist & the only way to stop any abuse is going no contact don’t give them any attention because a narc likes ANY attention good or bad.. they will do anything to get a reaction. 💯 ignore
You must go to the Cops no going back.
No I'm glad Paul's highlighting stalking because it's rife!
I'm so annoyed this woman is taking up so much of your time and energy. Really disturbing! 😮
Bobbi dazzler? You're not Gary Drayton are you?
Hi Paul, I had this experience about 16 years ago. I live in the Netherlands and also had a girlfriend from Serbia. She had been living in the Netherlands for 45 years and spoke Dutch well. To make a long story short, I broke off the friendship and she couldn't agree to that. She kept chasing/stalking me and called in the middle of the night. It was really hopeless. I got a good tip from someone. Just don't react any more, what you don't feed will die on its own. And that worked very well for me. greetings from Rotterdam.
I agree 💯
I had a Serbian gf for a while, she was also disturbed. I binned it.
Love Rotterdam..grew up in schiedam went to wolffert van borsellen school...good times in my life..
@@NevilleBamshu23 Good to hear that👍
Straight to the Police if she threatened you. End of.
the offence is in Serbia how is reporting it to British police going to help?
@@The.Last.Guitar.Hero. law and order often work indirectly, you tube picks up these bad soles also she did say she had someone on to Paul Best call 4 record Rock on
Sorry for what your going through hope it ends soon realy enjoy your vids
@@The.Last.Guitar.Hero. It might. I work in Intelligence and we share information with other organisations across borders and continents.
She may well be doing this to other people elsewhere. 🇬🇧
💖 All hail to Mildred and the other moderators for taking the brunt of this abuse 💖👍
Can’t be pleasant for Mildred to have to read this rubbish. Stalker can say anything regarding the threats cos she doesn’t realise it can be checked and she’s digging herself a massive hole
This behaviour is unacceptable 😡
This is like something straight out of fatal attraction, unhinged.
I was married to a narcissist for 25 year. She was relentless. It’s very difficult for you as you’re in the public domain on here. My only advice would be to do as you are doing. Stand up to bullies, don’t take anything off your channel and go through the Police to stop her. There are plenty of them like her out there both men and women. I’m glad the Police are taking you seriously and I hope they continue to do so. The woman is dangerous and will try to destroy you and break you in two. I’m sooooo glad you have a good support group to turn to. To have good friends like them you need to be a good friend too which you very obviously are. You are an all round great bloke and I love your videos.
Talking and sharing with your friends really does help to unload because if not our minds and bodies store up the 💩 and it will affect you in years to come. Wishing you all the best Paul. Keep strong 💕🥰🥇💛
My ex was one violent aswell it’s not good for your mental health x
Relentless is an understatement. These people are soul destroyers, destroyers of worlds. They are inhuman.
Best way is to ignore, she’s clearly unhinged
May not be the safest thing to ignore, but definitely do not reply. In fact I would delete this video in a few days.
Hi , I suggest Mildred just keeps blocking every account that she uses , eventually the stalker will get bored of making up different accounts!! Please tell Mildred to not engage engage with this woman at all , just block each account that she uses .. please don't engage with her yourself either because if she doesn't get a reaction, which is what she wants , eventually she will get bored that she's not get a response .. please don't engage in any conversation with her , or Mildred .. I'm sure if you don't engage with her but just block her accounts, she'll probably give up .. basically keep blocking ok because eventually she'll get fed up of getting no response .. I hope it gets sorted .. keep your spirits up ❤️🙏🏼👏🏼👏🏼🥰
I agree with everything that you’ve written and in this country you only need three unwanted and unanswered contacts for it to be considered stalking I’ve had stalkers. One I sat in my lounge with the curtains pulled tight shut while a man continually asked me what colour knickers I had on and other fun messages.
Thing is, if she is mentally ill she will not think she has done anything wrong. Everyone else will be wrong and she will see Paul as her intended partner. With no one else likely to know to knock a bit of sense into her she will carry on that way and is unlikely to stop. She may end up coming to the U.K. and breaking into his house. I’ve known this happen to people in my past. They feel that they have full rights to do anything.
It’s not right but if he hasn’t got an alarm and maybe even a lock on his bedroom door with an emergency escape ladder fitted to the window to drop down I suggest he needs to think about it. Plus linked smoke alarms so if one goes off the all go off. The fire brigade are very good at fitting those for free.
He doesn’t know her next move but he needs to be one step ahead of her.
Completely correct don't reply just ignore ignore ignore
I agree with this comment
I agree too, every message Mildred gets she should just print off (for info) and then block. Don’t respond at all.
That's easier said than done we are not the one's being stalked. I lived with a narcissus they can wear you down to China Town it can cause so much stress. My health deteriorated. Hang in there paul keep naming and shaming her and go to the police x
Bloody hell mate. I can't understand what she's trying to gain really.
Dude!!! Im sooo sorry u are having all this trash... ive had a weirdo message my wife trying to break up my marriage!! There are sooooo many weird and strange people out there is ridiculous!!
There's a lot of this going on ATM I honestly don't know what the hell is wrong with everyone.
Off their meds
@@jolenehendrickson8915And their heads.
It's a sad world when nothing can be done I get phone calls off a private number women with really creepy voice sometimes tells me where I've been once I came in late after walking dog she told me this really freaked me out police can't do nothing can't trace it reckon they using a app that changes sound of your voice why on earth are people allowed to make apps like this just gives weirdos another platform to hide behind
There are fucking nutters everywhere.
all them covid jabs
She appears to be extremely mentally unwell. This type of thing makes people’s lives an absolute living nightmare. That’s not an exaggeration either. I imagine she has done this sort of thing before. Making threats of violence is just one step too far. Nobody should have to put up with this. Best if none of your followers mention her, as any publicity she gets, good or bad, sets her off. I hope it all stops soon. Mildred, you are a star. Chin up, chuck!
This one's crazy like the one from the Netflix drarma Baby Reindeer 😣🦌
That's the first thing what I thought my little reindeer 😂😂😂. Seriously though it can drive you around the bend, it's a good job she doesn't know where he lives 👍
It's not even funny. I work in this field and it's good that that show is bringing attention to this whole issue - it's actually very, very common.
I have dealt with many cases which are so much crazier than that.
Just what I was thinking
I'm stressed & angry just thinking about this . WHAT HELL.
Is she really in Serbia though? An IP address can easily be spoofed if someone is using a VPN. So sorry this is happening Paul. Sounds like she's a sicko.
It sounds like this lady is unwell.
So sorry this is happening to you, I went thru something similar myself, except he was in the same city.
I'm glad you made the decision to move forward with the police.
Please have Mildred not respond to her, cut off the oxygen supply. I feel giving people like this attention, encourages the behaviour to continue. Negative attention, is attention, & that's what she wants.
Keep your chin up Paul, and keep on, keeping on.
I'm so sorry you're having to go through all this, Paul. I'm not surprised the threat to life has been the last straw. I absolutely love the channel. Keep your chin up and keep up the good work.
You shouldn't have to suffer,from her blackmailing you. We're all supporting you
Send her name mate, let us all deal with her. Good luck mate, your a top bloke and we all love your show
Exactly!!!
I’m so sorry, Paul, that you’re going through this. I’ve never noticed any ‘mistakes’ in your content - it’s so petty when you’re providing really interesting videos, done at your own cost and in your own time, and for free. I only know you from this channel, so know nothing about your life outside of this, and it’s none of my business! Incidentally, my friend (who is a part time registrar who conducts weddings) is looking to become a celebrant (she’s just done her final exams and will be approaching funeral directors in the next few weeks, we’re in Staffordshire). Any tips or signposting would be most welcome. I hope you manage to get this awful, mentally ill woman out of your life - good luck
I recently posted about getting a badge on FB something like “woohoo I got a badge!” Then this crazy guy started to say some mean stuff and FB removed his post. And I suggested he find a better use of his time. But he kept after me, posted a pic of me (he had to dig deep in my photos gallery to find my family photo). Best not to engage with those people. Mentally unbalanced. Nothing I said initially would have set anyone off like that. But in hindsight I should have never acknowledged him.
Paul - For what its worth I will wager that this woman has done and is doing such to other people and very sure her threats and very empty .Im.sorry that this has happened . Good adventures 😉⭐
So sorry you have had to deal with these people
She sounds like a right sad act 🙄
Ahh no 😔 I'm so sorry your going through this it must be exhausting. Absolutely love your videos. Any contact with a narcissist is fuel for them no matter how small.
How awful for you. I have a colleague who has a stalker so distressing for the victims.
I found it distressing when I was young. The last time I was about 51. I just found it, I can’t think of the word, but I was just too old to be asked to get wound up. I was more Meh they are idiots. I reported them anyway and the police went and had a waits and said if they didn’t stop they’d be arrested. They stopped. Funny that.
Sorry to hear this Paul what an absolute nutter ! X
I just want to say, so sorry you're going through this. I hope it's resolved as quickly as possible.
Love your channel & wish you good luck with all of your projects.
Thank you for hard work.
In this country we are lucky as you only need three unwanted and unanswered contacts for it to be considered stalking I’ve had stalkers. One I sat in my lounge with the curtains pulled tight shut while a man continually asked me what colour knickers I had on and other fun messages. Every time I tried to ring them they’d switched the phone off. A policeman left him a wonderful invitation to a cup of tea at his office. He stopped.
Thing is, if she is mentally ill she will not think she has done anything wrong. Everyone else will be wrong and she will see Paul as her intended partner. With no one else likely to know about this in her family or friend circles who would knock a bit of sense into her she will carry on that way and is unlikely to stop. She may end up coming to the U.K. and breaking into his house. I’ve known this happen to people in my past. They feel that they have full rights to do anything.
It’s not right but if he hasn’t got an alarm and maybe even a lock on his bedroom door with an emergency escape ladder fitted to the window to drop down I suggest he needs to think about it. Plus linked smoke alarms so if one goes off they all go off. The fire brigade are very good at fitting those for free.
He doesn’t know her next move but he needs to be one step ahead of her.
You shouldn’t have to put up with people like her. We love you and all the hard work you put into bringing us videos that are very informative and interesting x
She has typical narcissistic tendencies. I'm glad you did this video to make us all aware of the on going problem. And thanks too to Mildred for helping you out. Stay strong Paul. ❤
You would think there is something you could do about this stalker! People like this need to be dealt with via the police, but how do you deal with someone from Serbia. Lady from Serbia ' Stop it. There is plenty of fish in the sea'.
Wow, sorry to hear this is happening. Mildred needs to just block everything. Stay safe!
Baby reindeer 😮
@jenniewatson2182 that was my first thought! It's bloody scary!
I’m in the middle of watching that ! But I think half the issue here is this guy isn’t nipping it in the bud early on ! I mean adding her to Facebook wt.. 😂 I’ve only watched a few episodes but I have yet to see what happens , scary yes indeed ! She’s a total fruit cake !
@@jane57661 most people don’t see a stalker coming and behave as they would towards anyone. Unfortunately stalkers see this as an invitation and off they go. They have no boundaries and live in the own world believing everything they say is true. Very sad for the person being stalked and impacts on everyone around them. Stalking behaviour needs to be taken much more seriously.
Omg baby reindeer was so hard to watch
@@jane57661 no, don't blame the victim, it's not uncommon for them to be kind in the hope it'll just take it down, but it doesn't it fuels it. But I do get your point, but hindsight is 20 20 isn't it.
Please don’t stop making your videos Paul we love them & also if you stop she’s won don’t give her the pleasure of seeing you stop
Sorry to hear about a person following you she obviously needs help and i hope she gets the help she needs
But 👍 to you Paul for rising above it and look foward to seeing your next vid 😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
It's about time that this woman received a huge kick up the arse in the direction of true reality. I don't blame you for naming and shaming her. Make sure you stay positive and not let her pettiness and absurd behaviour get to you. She seems to feed off negativity. She's not right in the head. I'm on your side, Paul. Keep up with the great work that you do. ❤❤
Ignore her. Don’t respond. Just keep blocking her, as the more air time you give her the more she will carry on. If anyone anyone gets contacted by her, they will tell her to do one as she’s clearly a nutter with no mates. Lots of them out there on social playground… just rise above her actions and keep doing what you do
'The social playground' summed up perfectly.
That person needs physical help
@@clairemarkham3485 she needs something, that’s for sure
@@clairemarkham3485 you mean psychiatric help? Yes she does but she will think she doesn’t need it.
@@janemorgan154 I’ve got a five foot long solid walking pole. Thick bit of proper tree. Beautifully turned and polished, with a metal spike on the end and a leather loop through the top. It’s to get me up the slopes of the fields in the grounds of my house halfway up a mountain in rural southern Spain. Good bit of kit. A couple of thwacks from that should do it.
I'm so sorry you are still being harrassed by this vile monster...I hope she reads this! Please be ultra-careful 🤬
Not her again ...I'm so sorry you and Mildred have to deal with this ....its gotta be mentally tough , stay strong Paul and Mildred
Oh Paul don't take her on she's not important, you do good things. We support all you do. Get on n just be you. Dnt know what else to say, this not OK.😮😮
This is incredibly sad and bloody annoying for me to watch mate. I am so sorry you are having to suffer this vile scumbag!
You know my background, Paul and I would say keep doing what you have done; hammer this home to the police and get the wheels turning again.
This has now escalated to a direct threat and must not be ignored or tolerated.
Take care buddy. Keep us posted.
I had a stalker many many years ago who physically assaulted me , and there was a lengthy crown court case etc and justice was served .
She seriously needs to stop what she is doing , it’s criminal , she can get into serious trouble . Stay strong Paul x
I’m so sorry to hear that. I’ve had three stalkers. One is low down active still to this day. He pops up occasionally. I think I’ve blocked him from everything and up he pops like a rat from a drain. He quite harmless so far and he’s been at it for about four years but I don’t take this one seriously enough as I know who it is. It’s the ones I don’t know that I took seriously.
I did however have a husband that attacked me regularly. I’m going through a police case with him. I’ve kind of got used to that though as these things can take a couple of years or more.
To have a stalker that attacked you must have been terrible. X
😖😖😵💫Crazy lady, not ok , best to not let it get you down Hun. ❤
So sorry you and your team are dealing with this. It must be so frustrating to have this kind of stuff going on. Hopefully things get rectified sooner rather than later. 💕
I'm so sorry you're going through this Paul. We're all behind you.
Stand proud Paul !!!
Something to consider is to see if she can be put on a ‘no entry’ list for UK Customs / Border Control. This kind of kook might try to come over.
Hi this is the first stream that I have seen and it is very scary that this woman is so evil! The threat to have someone take care of you is beyond the level of a sane person! I have been stalked myself for years, he has found out where I live over and again despite me moving several times, he phones me, follows me and he has threatened to kill me, my sister and my dogs. I know how you feel and how much it affects your life and I wish you so much luck in getting through this traumatic situation and out the other side. Stay safe and strong, the law is on your side! And so are your viewers.
Thank you, yeh these people have no life so have to try and disrupt others. Thats all it is a disruption. The problem is they think they’re smarter but their emotions get in the way. So just keep your head and your wits about you. Stay safe 🙏
Sorry for you paul ... you have people who care... x
Hi paul im so sorry that your going through this horrible stalking you dont deserve this paul be strong and know that us genuine people who love your chanel and like you towe support you all the way
I totally understand how you feel. I have business interests and one of the people that used that business made very similar threats towards me, which I too had to report to the police.
It's easy to say ignore it and forget it, you can't!
when someone has made threats to you personal safety, however ludicrous they may seem those threats have to be taken seriously.
It disrupts day to day life !
I hope you are able to bring an end to this and that the person involve see sense, But with mental health issues like the person who threatened me and the one that's stalking you have, that may only come about by police intervention and please do not feel guilty for taking that route.
You have a right to live your life in peace and without interference from others. Stand firm and don't feel you need to apologize you are the victim here, the other person made the choices and it's their problem!
Paul, I wish you the best of luck.
We like you being supported and letting us care how you are Paul, you know there's strength in numbers, n this will end it will.👍🥰👍
My goodness she’s relentless
So sorry this is continuing & poor Mildred for having to screen this nasty woman’s emails
You’ve got all our support
As someone said “Stay Strong”
Omg..this is awful..what a horrid woman...Stay safe..❤❤.
The dark side of the internet. It is open season for the most deviant people ...just sickening! Stay strong and safe x
Thank you, yes the depraved ones thrive on it. 🙏
you said on your 100k livestream, when us fans, get tired of the grave sightings etc you will switch to something else; but we will never get tired of it we love your content, and you paul. And just ignore them.
This is awful Paul. I’m so sorry you’re having to go through it. Keep doing what you do - never stop doing something you clearly love. You have lots of good people following/supporting you.
Put that old video back up!! Sorry you're going through this 🦋
I am so sorry to watch this. I enjoy your videos, especially as I have visited several of the cemeteries you have visited when I visit VC graves.
I wish you all the best and hope this sorts itself out soon.
Sadly I know only too well how you’re feeling, I’ve had many stalkers, even had one turn up at my home with a knife! Stay safe and try not to give too much information out, love your videos 😊
Stay strong mate. Your videos have been a godsend to me well I'm suffering with depression, really love your true crime videos. Keep up the good work and don't let her bring you down. ❤
So sorry to heat you are suffering with depression.I had it a while back. It's an awful illness. One sweet day, you'll notice things like flower petals and realise that you are starting to kick it's butt. I hope that that day is very soon
I'm so sorry you're still going through this, you don't deserve it at all 😢 a lot of people are standing with you Paul and we will help you get through this together! And thanks for the lovely shoutout 😊 you're very welcome though. Always here 🙏🏻 x
So sorry to hear rhat you're still gaving to deal with all this s**t. Stay safe as you can, and try not to let it get you down.
I find this behaviour very disturbing, I feel for you. This must be beyond distressing. I hope you continue to rise above, despite how difficult this is. In my thoughts and prayers. Stay strong. Greetings from London xx
Oh Paul sorry to hear this I hope you are ok sending hugs. ♥️💙
I’m so so sorry your still going through this awful nightmare with this woman Paul ❤❤xx
So sorry to hear about this Paul. At the risk of sounding sycophantic I found your channel a couple of months ago and I think it's one of the best! It's up there with Techmoan, and I don't think that I can big it up any more than that! Sounds like your gang is rallying round - stay strong my friend and keep on "I think I've found it"!
Years ago I had a few dates with a guy but I wasn’t feeling anything so ended it nicely , Then I started seeing his van on my road early mornings and evening ( He lived in another city ) It freaked me out and made me feel very uncomfortable but thankfully it didn’t go on too long , So god knows how you feel Paul ! Seems she’s unhinged and needs therapy at the least ! Like others have said ignore ignore ignore any contact , not easy when someone’s doing their damnedest to ruin your life and insult your family too ! Hopefully she will get bored but police do need contacting asap especially her threats , hopefully barred from entering the UK too ! Again so sorry you have this going on , keep up the positive mindset and looking forwards to your next video !
Hi Paul👍this is awful mate and I'm sorry you and Mildred have had to deal with this bizarre character,thanks for sharing this private matter with genuine supporters of your great work. Please take care you two✌️
Hi Paul…This is so Awful for you …I love your channel and your such a lovely person…I really feel for you ..This is so unfair…Sending best wishes Paul X💞
I had a stalker and it’s horrific. Why are people so sick. Anyway hope that you’re ok and keep doing what ya doing. Don’t let her get ya down which I know u won’t x
My jaw hit the computer desk to hear you'd actually been threatened by the nutjob! Well done to Mildred for all of her hard work. Hopefully things settle down soon for you Paul.
😢 So sorry it's started again Paul x
that woman needs to stop she seems to be living in a dream world she needs to seek medical help
So sorry you are going through this still! This is a horrible thing for you! Creepy and scary. Police matter for sure, got to get her sorted. What an absolute nightmare. Take care.
I’m so sorry that you are going through this and I hope you have lots of support around you.
Hi Paul, this is some what disturbing… and upsetting to hear.. is there anyway she can be blocked constantly..? It’s outrageous behaviour 😢 I think from what I’d do is reinstate the video and then correspondence zero to her… if she is a control freak then the best thing is do not feed them with any reply atall ❤ take care and massive respect ❤
Just goes to show Paul. Some people have too much time on their hands. Nothing else to do than be nasty. God Bless you. Glad Mildred has your back.
I love your videos and I am so sorry this is happening. I hope the police can deal with her because it is disturbing enough but now with a direct threat you need the police to shut this down. Good wishes to you!
So sorry you're going through this I'm glad you're not taking this video down if you're asked to.stay strong paul and keep doing you're videos ❤
That's shocking Paul. You shouldn't have to put up with that 😠. You are always respectful when visiting graves etc
Sorry to hear that Paul, I’ve enjoyed catching up with your videos, I watched Barnes Wallis this morning. Now seeing this video message tonight, I hope this horrible situation is resolved for you.
I’m so sorry that you’re going through this Paul, I’ve had a few stalkers and it’s bloody awful. Please stay safe xXx
This is awful, feel for you ,I watched a documentary last night on itv 3 about stalking and it was shocking about how little the police do to help the victims of this horrible crime.
Please don’t be sorry.Stay strong.We’re all behind you & support you no matter what it does or says.
Thank you for letting us know.Take care of you🙏
I have no words, this is just a ridiculous situation. I'm so sorry you and Mildred have to put up with all this. When you stopped mentioning it, I assumed it had all blown over, but apparently not. I really hope the police can do something.
So sorry to hear this, Paul. You have a great channel and I so enjoy watching the content. Thank you for all you do. Sending you such positive vibes , healing and strength and protection.
I'm sorry to here about your troubles. Hoping that things will get better for you soon. Just remember talking about it is the best way to get this out of your system. Keep the faith.
I am so sorry to hear about you being stalked. You do not deserve this whatsoever, and you are dealing with this professionally. Stay strong!
I’m so sorry she’s putting you through this. We’re all supporting you ❤
Keep strong mate we've got your back
This is awful for you Paul. I am even reluctant to ask you a question (and I used to all the time because we are both Supernatural fans). You are lucky having such great friends who are backing you to the hilt and, of course, the support and love of your on-line friends. You will get through this although the path is difficult. I know you can do it xx
Sorry to hear this mate. Totally unacceptable. Disgusting and very disrespectful behaviour. We are all here to support you. 🙏
Hi Paul, obviously from this video I can see you're feed up, its good to vent your frustration, anger and upset. People like this are out there and for whatever reason go down this crazy path. The problem here is all your true fans and followers do not care what she has to say or do. Keep your chin up and soldier on, we've all got your back here. I'm in Japan on Thursday so I'll look forward to your next video then, all the best😎
What a frightening situation to be in when someone threatens you! I really hope the police can deal with this unhinged person asap.
I was unfortunately been in a relationship with a narc, they only way to deal with them is ignore ignore ignore