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Answering Controversial Questions on Marital Issues + We have an Announcement | Rica Peralejo

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  • Опубліковано 27 лис 2022
  • Treat this as your free marriage seminar! A seminar of what not to do in marriage 😂 seriously speaking tho, we are grateful to all who sent their questions. They not only point to answers but are answers in themselves in that it makes us all feel a little less alone in our struggles. 🫰🏼
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    None yet.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 184

  • @jammiedmsd8348
    @jammiedmsd8348 Рік тому +10

    "Differences do not make you wrong. Differences make you strong." Damn that hit hard.

  • @BlancheNtrOy
    @BlancheNtrOy Рік тому +21

    I absolutely love this vlog! And I can relate because just a few months ago, my husband and I (married 12 years this November) went through one of the hardest trials in our marriage. We went through a lot before but I feel this was the culmination of it and it was also witnessed by our children. The enemy wants to destroy our family forever, but GOD! He broke us both so we can heal properly through the Holy Spirit and His discipline. It was very painful but it needed to happen. And praise the Lord, my relationship with my husband has been way better now that we are on the other side. If we didn’t push through and just gave up, our children would suffer tremendously as well as ourselves. It’s all by Gods grace and power that are we still going strong. And I also have seen a huge difference in my husband. We have studied Ephesians 5 and it truly helped us. We will continue to walk in faith and have God as the master of our marriage.

    • @joebonifacio
      @joebonifacio Рік тому +2

      Wow, praise God! He is really good. Thanks for sharing this testimony.

  • @lililustre2826
    @lililustre2826 Рік тому +2

    Yung sinabihan ako ni hubby 2 days ago na ..i hope u wont regret marrying me.. dhil God knows nilunok ko lahat para panindigan ang promise ko na tatanggapin at mamahalin ko sya thru good times and bad. Grabe i think wow ganito pala talaga ang marriage...nakita ko namn na ng effort din siya to accept my flaws so dapat give and take talaga..

  • @richelleannepadin9273
    @richelleannepadin9273 16 днів тому

    The last question. This happened to us when my mum passed away last year. I was so mad at my husband for not being there for me physically when my mom is in her death bed. We fought for months about it. I resent him for it then here we are stronger than ever. We just go through it. Hindi namin tinigilan yung pag-uusap ng issue na yung almost everyday until ok na kami.

  • @melaniecabotaje2745
    @melaniecabotaje2745 Рік тому +4

    In the middle of listening to this, I pressed pause, then went straight to Shopee and bought not just one, not just two, nor three but FOUR books. The insights that you share is just full of wisdom that it feels a crime not to share it with married friends. Thank you. :)

  • @Geraldjayr23
    @Geraldjayr23 Рік тому +2

    This is what absolutely in line with God’s center relationship … keep moving

  • @christinacalcana2817
    @christinacalcana2817 Рік тому +6

    This vlog is an eye opener for couples. There is no such thing as perfect in relationship. I hope you do more of this. Full of wisdom. May God Bles you and your family po. ❤️

  • @sjrelucio782
    @sjrelucio782 Рік тому +31

    I'm not even in a relationship but this is too gold 💛🙂✨🙏

  • @AlohasVlog
    @AlohasVlog Рік тому +5

    I'm still single but I learn a lot from you two. Thank you for sharing this. You're inspiring a lot of people for your wisdom and genuiness. Stay in love and God bless❤

  • @frenchienuguid240
    @frenchienuguid240 Рік тому +2

    Thank you the Bonis for this inspirational talk. I am so enlightened by how you presented everything. 🥰 I could relate so much to both of you and what my husband and I have gone through over the course of 12 years. It's amazing to know that we're not alone in this journey. It truly is magical to be hearing this from you guys. I truly feel that this has awakened my spirits that there really is hope in most marriages. ❤️❤️❤️ God bless you both. May God protect our marriages. 💞💞💞

  • @anajeaninacorpuz1298
    @anajeaninacorpuz1298 Рік тому +2

    I love this vlog. I am still single, and still waiting for my God’s best, but it hit me to the core. I have learned a lot. Thank you ❤

  • @louelladiezmo1998
    @louelladiezmo1998 Рік тому +1

    God is true to His character and Promises! Kasama Niya tayo sa hirap at ginhawa. He is not giving up on us kaya we will not let go of Him kahit ang hirap hirap na at ang sakit sakit na dahil sa life dito sa mundo at dahil sa katigasan ng ulo natin. His Grace is Mooore Than Enough. Kapit at tiwala sa Diyos. He is coming through.He is coming soon!

  • @treivien
    @treivien Рік тому +4

    before anything else!!! you really look so good on yellow!!!

  • @mjnaynes5734
    @mjnaynes5734 Рік тому +1

    Ms. Rica, I saw you last time s FeastCon. My husband and I attended the masterclass that you and your husband are one of the speaker. it's my first time to see u in person and sobra ako nastartruck aside s dami ng take away learnings.
    And yes, matagal ndin ako subscriber s vlog nyo 🥰. One of my favorite also is when you guest in Toni Talks 🙂. Thank you for all the inspiration 🥰

  • @meadowdez6302
    @meadowdez6302 Рік тому +1

    This kind of vlog would still be definitely relevant for many years to come. 🙏 Thank you. 🧡 God bless you both in every way for His glory.

  • @joyluciano2488
    @joyluciano2488 Рік тому

    I’m such a big fan of you Ms Rica and Pastor Joseph. I’m still single but your content really helps to see through what a Christian living should be like. Napakagaling ng thought process nyong magasawa. Even I as a single, madami akonh natutunan. Praise God for your wisdom and stories! ❤️

  • @elvieanndiputado3150
    @elvieanndiputado3150 Рік тому +2

    We want more, the Bonis! :) This will help us singles to prepare for marriage season.

  • @mylenemyls74
    @mylenemyls74 11 місяців тому

    Enjoyed watching this . Both very articulate. 😊

  • @leamaytcalingo
    @leamaytcalingo Рік тому +3

    You're both SO in the zone here! 👏

  • @AngelSalumbides
    @AngelSalumbides Рік тому +4

    This is so nice! I've learned a lot. And this is very helpful because I'm about to get married. Thank you!!🥰

  • @sha3174
    @sha3174 Рік тому +1

    Love this vlog, thank you, Hope all the couples going through hard times and thinking of ending the replationship will watch this. God bless.

  • @jennylynsantos1616
    @jennylynsantos1616 Рік тому

    Good thought of dealing with differences daw kapag isa sobrang generous, isa naman praktikal is para ma-weigh nang tama kung may sumusobra na sa inyo haha. Never thought of that. It's a nice point! The pleasure is ours. Your wisdom is gold. Thank you and God bless your beautiful marriage!

  • @lizli8339
    @lizli8339 Рік тому

    Salamat po dito. Sakto ikakasal na ako this December. Dagdag po ito na pang eye opener. Nawa maiapply namin lahat ng natututunan namin sa mga pre-marriage counseling.

  • @lendelacosta7168
    @lendelacosta7168 Рік тому +1

    bat teary-eyed ako sa vlog na to e hindi naman sya nakakaiyak?😅😆...tusok na tusok kase haha..thank you for this, Bonis 😊.. i may not be able to buy the book now because di talaga keri ng bulsa but there's hope sa ebook..crossing my fingers that i will get that copy someday..🤞 God bless you power couple!♥️

  • @sigridsoriano911
    @sigridsoriano911 Рік тому +2

    super like….. nkakarelate ako as a wife and mum. pls make more videos like this.

  • @rosariomerencilla1683
    @rosariomerencilla1683 Рік тому +2

    Excited for the book! Sharing this vlog to our couple friends as well 🎉❤

  • @desTINAsyonPH
    @desTINAsyonPH Рік тому +1

    Super nice questions. Just to add up, laging sinasabi sakin ng spiritual mentor ko. Hindi ba sa ating mga tahanan tayong mga asawang babae ang taga linis? Ganoon din pagdating sa asawa natin, if ever may naging maling decision sila, tayo ang taga linis, tayo ang taga ayos. ❤ ehehehehe God bless to all of us. Kaya natin yan mga mars 🙂 God is with us, wag hayaang mahulog ang mga prutas 😅 Thank you Ms. Rica and Pastor, medyo pareho kayo pagdating sa giving ng hudband ko 🫣

  • @HannahCarlosPH
    @HannahCarlosPH Рік тому +1

    i am now both excited and nervous 😬🫣😂

  • @tassdl2130
    @tassdl2130 Рік тому

    My heart and spirit are full from the wisdom that flows out from you, Pastor Joe and Ms. Carla! God bless your hearts and more projects to come! ❤

  • @deltasierra3295
    @deltasierra3295 Рік тому

    i believe this is a hug for me from God. thank you, Bonis!💖✨️

  • @ForeverBlessedCharm
    @ForeverBlessedCharm Рік тому

    Timely to our situation i will recommend this to my husband to our devotion so we can learn together.

  • @sherryannu.thomas8819
    @sherryannu.thomas8819 Рік тому

    Wow, so awesome topic! Thanks for your topic and God's make away to understand me the marriage life. We're just getting to know each other this time for a month together from 4 years LDR. It's really hard, but thanks God for leading us to be stronger for the sake of our relationship. My hubby was good and supportive, but the problem is me and hard for both of us to adjust our attitude and behavior especially me. Difficult culture, but have advantage also. Thanks God for being our center of our life. God bless and more power to both of you Rica 🙏 Sherry🇺🇸

  • @feabambinamarquez
    @feabambinamarquez Рік тому

    More vlogs like these please, I really enjoy seeing u both on a single frame! so much wisdom and takeaways for today

  • @mariakarenmenez2563
    @mariakarenmenez2563 Рік тому

    Wow I am crying. Good tears. Amazing wisdom. Turok sa puso. Praise God ❤

  • @honneyjanelaurenia3264
    @honneyjanelaurenia3264 Рік тому

    I'm not yet married but I learned so much in this vlog. Thank you, Ms. Rica!

  • @goodannebana2402
    @goodannebana2402 Рік тому

    I am single yet this teaches me a lot as an individual whom someday will fall into a place called Relationship😊😁 Thank you po🥰😍

  • @Jessica-yf3do
    @Jessica-yf3do Рік тому

    This is a buffett for couples.❤
    Thank you!Continue to shine for Jesus!

  • @arethamikayvalencia3847
    @arethamikayvalencia3847 Рік тому

    My idol since I was young.. Pretty as ever po Ms Rica..

  • @belyu4452
    @belyu4452 Рік тому

    I am interested in vlogs like this even though I am not married. Hoping to see more!

  • @WisdomSeekersofChrist
    @WisdomSeekersofChrist Рік тому

    Wow, full of wisdom, I praise God for the both of you! Nakakaiyak especially the last part! 😭🙏💝🙌

  • @Iamarjey
    @Iamarjey Рік тому +1

    Wow! More vlogs like this please!

  • @ameinizee9378
    @ameinizee9378 Рік тому

    Perfectly chosen questions talaga, very relatable. I'm sharing this with the hubby mamaya, pag kaya pa niyang makinig sa kaka busy nya today. Thanks guys, you rock!☺️

  • @roselleanerdis9106
    @roselleanerdis9106 Рік тому +1

    God bless you Boni's! This is a very enlightening and helpful vlog.

  • @godsprincess5643
    @godsprincess5643 Рік тому

    Thank you so much Miss Rica and hubby, Jesus Loves Us!

  • @tzagomez5155
    @tzagomez5155 Рік тому

    First 2 minutes and I'm already adding to cart sa shopee! I feel enlightened, understood and validated with my big feelings haha! Same with Pstr Joe, I also said the exact same words, 'Why is it so unfair, I feel like I'm on super hard mode in life' haha! I'm excited for the book to arrive! Thanks so much for this content!

  • @jonnalopez3183
    @jonnalopez3183 Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experience. This came to my feed on the right time. Its like God talked to me and answered my prayer. I want to read your book. And yes more helpful vlogs like this one. God bless your family 😊

  • @momhoney3792
    @momhoney3792 Рік тому

    yes definitely we would love to have more videos from both of you about marriage and family... praise God for the inspiration you both share to us, your avid viewers. Happy new year and may God bless... 🙏

  • @l.i.i.s2987
    @l.i.i.s2987 Рік тому +1

    Make an e-book please!

  • @bellam6908
    @bellam6908 Рік тому

    Watched this with my hubby and he decided that we need to buy your book afterwards! Excited kami to answer some questions and to also write our own stories/insight about our marriage. We’re a young couple and we are very blessed to have you both to give us wisdom about marriage 💖💖💖

  • @ellaandrade1747
    @ellaandrade1747 Рік тому

    Full of realizations in life bcoz of u guys. Thank you Rica and Joe! I will buy ur book definitely. More vlogs like this please.

  • @zizaworld
    @zizaworld Рік тому

    This is 🥇 excited for the book. I dearly loved Better than Jewels. I know I will love your new book. Praise God for your lives. Thank you Bonis. I love you ❤️

  • @katleenevangelista1549
    @katleenevangelista1549 Рік тому +1

    Waiting!!!

  • @maylineabastas9183
    @maylineabastas9183 Рік тому

    I love listening to your conversation. A lot of very fruitful lesson to learn. How I wish malakas lng ang mic ni Jo. 😅

  • @linadiaz1953
    @linadiaz1953 Рік тому

    Amazing input very anointed, full of wisdom. Thank you

  • @yanes.pebenito7582
    @yanes.pebenito7582 Рік тому

    Tnx for your candor, Joseph & Carla!
    Great questions, audience!

  • @edenalon5435
    @edenalon5435 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for this very wonderful episode.

  • @magelamurielle7686
    @magelamurielle7686 Рік тому

    I learned so much from this vlog. I love it! More to come pls 😊

  • @joykojima
    @joykojima Рік тому

    Thank you so much❤❤❤I love it❤😘🙏More please❤️🙏God bless you more❤️🙏Huge fan of yours from Nagoya Japan🇯🇵🇵🇭❤️

  • @herspace94
    @herspace94 Рік тому +1

    Waitinggg!

    • @herspace94
      @herspace94 Рік тому

      Im a single woman but I know Im invested to this channel to prepare myself. Hehehe. Thanks Bonis!

  • @deeyeyleigh2143
    @deeyeyleigh2143 Рік тому +1

    Totally unrelated but that color really looks good on you Rica 😊

  • @acar957
    @acar957 Рік тому

    I love mr boni! I am enjoying your videos together more than I do with rica and the others 😅 power couple talaga

  • @christiandcmarcos
    @christiandcmarcos Рік тому

    Excited for this❤

  • @iamkristina
    @iamkristina Рік тому

    Kahit d pa kame kasal open namam kame sa isat isa. We have no problem with money. we have one child. 😊👍

  • @angeliquematriano6547
    @angeliquematriano6547 Рік тому

    Hi! Ms rica, it helps a lot for us! We are in 6 years in relationship and planning to get married soon! ❤

  • @jocelynlabayoga6076
    @jocelynlabayoga6076 Рік тому

    Very informative. This is such a blessing!

  • @jedviervlogs7773
    @jedviervlogs7773 Рік тому

    Hi thank you for the good topic that you tackled . Hope for more of this vlog about life and marriage.god bless your family , ❤

  • @rodelcaguicla5080
    @rodelcaguicla5080 Рік тому

    Ohh Emm gee..ansarap pakinggan at panooren yung couple na toH, grabeh yung energy napaka strong..lakas makapam budol talaga lalo na dun sa may mga asawa😊,andami ko na naman natutunan,kahit single pa rin ako..paRang gusto ko na bukas mag asawa🤣
    Yung last part sa vlog, tagus na tagus sa puso ko..damang dama ko promise😢
    tHank you Mr. and Mrs. Bonis❤️

    • @RicaPeralejoBonifacio
      @RicaPeralejoBonifacio  Рік тому +1

      best comment hahahahahahhaha

    • @rodelcaguicla5080
      @rodelcaguicla5080 Рік тому

      a die hard Fan..sana may award akong Eleven Eleven na book..🤣🤣
      soo excited to get my copy..
      may kasama n po ba yung libreng autograph?thanks po😊

  • @jedviervlogs7773
    @jedviervlogs7773 Рік тому

    Hi thank you for doing this. You help a lot of couple especially those in a relationship or married couple. I hope you continue this blog advice or Q and A theme. It’s really interesting. Talk a lot of different topic in general mostly on how to deal in life and put god on yourself.
    Thank you and hope there’s more next Q and A god bless your family 😊

  • @jonnafemartin6864
    @jonnafemartin6864 11 місяців тому

    Thank u Guys

  • @yanes.pebenito7582
    @yanes.pebenito7582 Рік тому

    Grabe, I can relate to Carla but I can also relate to Joe! Loved this vlog! Can’t wait for my copy of the book!

  • @Hannah-mr9xb
    @Hannah-mr9xb Рік тому

    these are the exact answers for all of my questions and what if's..

  • @anjo3615
    @anjo3615 Рік тому

    wow...a very smart couple..you're way younger than me but im really learning a lot...hope to have a copy of your book!!!!

  • @JillMG
    @JillMG Рік тому

    Thank you po. ❤❤❤

  • @moo1779
    @moo1779 Рік тому

    love this vlog that am very interested to have a copy of your book. ❤

  • @aarontiamson158
    @aarontiamson158 Рік тому

    grabe yung laman ng vlog nato salamat po!!! (feeling ko po mic lang ni Pastor Joe nagrecord)

  • @ballhawking101
    @ballhawking101 Рік тому

    very insightful. thanks pastors!

  • @gemmahamilton6876
    @gemmahamilton6876 Рік тому

    I love watching your vlog. Authentic and anointing by God.

  • @bethvictor1190
    @bethvictor1190 Рік тому +1

    Excellent content!

  • @anniesalamat1476
    @anniesalamat1476 Рік тому

    Nice vlog!...indeed love is a decision, loving imperfect person seeking their highest good for God's glory....

  • @queincycarbonera7057
    @queincycarbonera7057 Рік тому

    Thank you for this po! Very insightful even for a single woman like me ♥️

  • @eleonorvelasco1488
    @eleonorvelasco1488 Рік тому

    Nice episode .. great talk and discussion .. helped me somehow to understand things about marriage and realized many things..though just find this a bit too fast of a discussion (how probably you speak lols) but great great discussion and one of the best topics for the vlog, you are a couple who inspires, teach and a lot of sense! all the best..

    • @RicaPeralejoBonifacio
      @RicaPeralejoBonifacio  Рік тому +1

      It’s a vlog kasi so the full version which is slower is in pur podcast 😂

    • @eleonorvelasco1488
      @eleonorvelasco1488 Рік тому

      @@RicaPeralejoBonifacio soo excited for the book I just ordered after watching this... always a fan Rica..

  • @sharingoutlovesol1663
    @sharingoutlovesol1663 Рік тому

    Wow! Praise God 🙏💖
    Thanks to you both
    Where we can find your book Ms. Rica?

  • @ForeverBlessedCharm
    @ForeverBlessedCharm Рік тому

    Oh wow, I want that book. Where to get it ? I’m living in Melbourne. And yes please I want more of this, it’s so helpful. Thank you and God bless.

    • @RicaPeralejoBonifacio
      @RicaPeralejoBonifacio  Рік тому

      You may direct message @wellandwise.co on instagram :) they will entertain international orders

  • @revenitadulay7642
    @revenitadulay7642 Рік тому

    This is so nice .iam learning from you guys !

  • @neriserosales5432
    @neriserosales5432 Рік тому

    Looking forward to have your book...prang sit down talk n toh hehehe.

  • @sarahbalino4403
    @sarahbalino4403 Рік тому

    More of this please...🥰

  • @sharingoutlovesol1663
    @sharingoutlovesol1663 Рік тому

    Sold out the Book Ms. Rica huhuhu

  • @KITTEEKAT
    @KITTEEKAT Рік тому +2

    So meaty. So full of wisdom! Is your book available on kindle? Thank you for doing this!!!

  • @yanes.pebenito7582
    @yanes.pebenito7582 Рік тому

    • The “in-laws issue” is a “spouse issue”.
    • “Pagkakaiba” lang ba ito or “Kamalian” na?

  • @lovertabillaballeza7281
    @lovertabillaballeza7281 Рік тому

    Ang Ganda nito.. gusto kodin to.. thanks for sharing.maam Rica .

  • @_rodelle
    @_rodelle Рік тому

    Bought the book! So excited to receive it na :)

  • @michaelferrer2823
    @michaelferrer2823 День тому

    Hello po pastor joe and ms rica can u give me advice i cannot erase my wife's past sexual experiences woth her past boyfriends meaning she was not a virgin when we got married and on d other side i was a virgin and it felt unfair to me. I know its wrong po, but i can help but u compare myself to the guys he slept with andit brings more doubt lack of self confidence to myself pahingi po ng advice please and prayers. Please reply to me po Godbless 😢

  • @ssejarahg3646
    @ssejarahg3646 Рік тому

    I cried watching this ❤

  • @annecenteno
    @annecenteno Рік тому

    Galeng!!! Congrats guys! D

  • @theblissfulnow
    @theblissfulnow Рік тому

    You both are on fire here :)

  • @lenglengski
    @lenglengski Рік тому

    Thanks for this...Yes! #9.. hello to the Philippine legislative body!! it is so unfair sa naiwan na spouse, the infidel has this sort of freedom, pero the other spouse is just left behind. Yung freedom na lang nga sana yung regalo sa sarili, eh ikaw pa gagastos ng malaki at maghihintay ng matagal, as compared to divorce na mas mabilis sana. 😔 yes to a God-centered marriage, pero kung may chronic infidelity na, give the other spouse a chance naman 🙃

  • @gracenones9961
    @gracenones9961 Рік тому

    Very beautiful vlog!!!God bless po....watching from Riyad...

  • @mariannietes1535
    @mariannietes1535 Рік тому

    Wow this is wonderful topic ❤️❤️🙏

  • @jeralyncabangis8811
    @jeralyncabangis8811 Рік тому

    Kahit single ang daming take away ✨

  • @brandyracs5275
    @brandyracs5275 9 місяців тому

    Where can we get a copy of the book?