Answering Controversial Questions on Marital Issues + We have an Announcement | Rica Peralejo

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  • @BlancheNtrOy
    @BlancheNtrOy 2 роки тому +21

    I absolutely love this vlog! And I can relate because just a few months ago, my husband and I (married 12 years this November) went through one of the hardest trials in our marriage. We went through a lot before but I feel this was the culmination of it and it was also witnessed by our children. The enemy wants to destroy our family forever, but GOD! He broke us both so we can heal properly through the Holy Spirit and His discipline. It was very painful but it needed to happen. And praise the Lord, my relationship with my husband has been way better now that we are on the other side. If we didn’t push through and just gave up, our children would suffer tremendously as well as ourselves. It’s all by Gods grace and power that are we still going strong. And I also have seen a huge difference in my husband. We have studied Ephesians 5 and it truly helped us. We will continue to walk in faith and have God as the master of our marriage.

    • @joebonifacio
      @joebonifacio 2 роки тому +2

      Wow, praise God! He is really good. Thanks for sharing this testimony.

  • @jammiedmsd8348
    @jammiedmsd8348 2 роки тому +10

    "Differences do not make you wrong. Differences make you strong." Damn that hit hard.

  • @louelladiezmo1998
    @louelladiezmo1998 2 роки тому +1

    God is true to His character and Promises! Kasama Niya tayo sa hirap at ginhawa. He is not giving up on us kaya we will not let go of Him kahit ang hirap hirap na at ang sakit sakit na dahil sa life dito sa mundo at dahil sa katigasan ng ulo natin. His Grace is Mooore Than Enough. Kapit at tiwala sa Diyos. He is coming through.He is coming soon!

  • @liamsyang2011
    @liamsyang2011 2 роки тому +2

    Yung sinabihan ako ni hubby 2 days ago na ..i hope u wont regret marrying me.. dhil God knows nilunok ko lahat para panindigan ang promise ko na tatanggapin at mamahalin ko sya thru good times and bad. Grabe i think wow ganito pala talaga ang marriage...nakita ko namn na ng effort din siya to accept my flaws so dapat give and take talaga..

  • @christinacalcana2817
    @christinacalcana2817 2 роки тому +6

    This vlog is an eye opener for couples. There is no such thing as perfect in relationship. I hope you do more of this. Full of wisdom. May God Bles you and your family po. ❤️

  • @melaniecabotaje2745
    @melaniecabotaje2745 2 роки тому +4

    In the middle of listening to this, I pressed pause, then went straight to Shopee and bought not just one, not just two, nor three but FOUR books. The insights that you share is just full of wisdom that it feels a crime not to share it with married friends. Thank you. :)

  • @Geraldjayr23
    @Geraldjayr23 2 роки тому +2

    This is what absolutely in line with God’s center relationship … keep moving

  • @AlohasVlog
    @AlohasVlog 2 роки тому +5

    I'm still single but I learn a lot from you two. Thank you for sharing this. You're inspiring a lot of people for your wisdom and genuiness. Stay in love and God bless❤

  • @mjnaynes5734
    @mjnaynes5734 2 роки тому +1

    Ms. Rica, I saw you last time s FeastCon. My husband and I attended the masterclass that you and your husband are one of the speaker. it's my first time to see u in person and sobra ako nastartruck aside s dami ng take away learnings.
    And yes, matagal ndin ako subscriber s vlog nyo 🥰. One of my favorite also is when you guest in Toni Talks 🙂. Thank you for all the inspiration 🥰

  • @anajeaninacorpuz1298
    @anajeaninacorpuz1298 Рік тому +2

    I love this vlog. I am still single, and still waiting for my God’s best, but it hit me to the core. I have learned a lot. Thank you ❤

  • @joyluciano2488
    @joyluciano2488 Рік тому

    I’m such a big fan of you Ms Rica and Pastor Joseph. I’m still single but your content really helps to see through what a Christian living should be like. Napakagaling ng thought process nyong magasawa. Even I as a single, madami akonh natutunan. Praise God for your wisdom and stories! ❤️

  • @lizli8339
    @lizli8339 2 роки тому

    Salamat po dito. Sakto ikakasal na ako this December. Dagdag po ito na pang eye opener. Nawa maiapply namin lahat ng natututunan namin sa mga pre-marriage counseling.

  • @meadowdez6302
    @meadowdez6302 2 роки тому +1

    This kind of vlog would still be definitely relevant for many years to come. 🙏 Thank you. 🧡 God bless you both in every way for His glory.

  • @jennylynsantos1616
    @jennylynsantos1616 2 роки тому

    Good thought of dealing with differences daw kapag isa sobrang generous, isa naman praktikal is para ma-weigh nang tama kung may sumusobra na sa inyo haha. Never thought of that. It's a nice point! The pleasure is ours. Your wisdom is gold. Thank you and God bless your beautiful marriage!

  • @richelleannepadin9273
    @richelleannepadin9273 4 місяці тому

    The last question. This happened to us when my mum passed away last year. I was so mad at my husband for not being there for me physically when my mom is in her death bed. We fought for months about it. I resent him for it then here we are stronger than ever. We just go through it. Hindi namin tinigilan yung pag-uusap ng issue na yung almost everyday until ok na kami.

  • @frenchienuguid240
    @frenchienuguid240 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you the Bonis for this inspirational talk. I am so enlightened by how you presented everything. 🥰 I could relate so much to both of you and what my husband and I have gone through over the course of 12 years. It's amazing to know that we're not alone in this journey. It truly is magical to be hearing this from you guys. I truly feel that this has awakened my spirits that there really is hope in most marriages. ❤️❤️❤️ God bless you both. May God protect our marriages. 💞💞💞

  • @sha3174
    @sha3174 Рік тому +1

    Love this vlog, thank you, Hope all the couples going through hard times and thinking of ending the replationship will watch this. God bless.

  • @lendelacosta7168
    @lendelacosta7168 2 роки тому +1

    bat teary-eyed ako sa vlog na to e hindi naman sya nakakaiyak?😅😆...tusok na tusok kase haha..thank you for this, Bonis 😊.. i may not be able to buy the book now because di talaga keri ng bulsa but there's hope sa ebook..crossing my fingers that i will get that copy someday..🤞 God bless you power couple!♥️

  • @hueyvien
    @hueyvien 2 роки тому +4

    before anything else!!! you really look so good on yellow!!!

  • @mylenemyls74
    @mylenemyls74 Рік тому

    Enjoyed watching this . Both very articulate. 😊

  • @mariakarenmenez2563
    @mariakarenmenez2563 2 роки тому

    Wow I am crying. Good tears. Amazing wisdom. Turok sa puso. Praise God ❤

  • @sjrelucio782
    @sjrelucio782 2 роки тому +31

    I'm not even in a relationship but this is too gold 💛🙂✨🙏

  • @leamaytcalingo
    @leamaytcalingo 2 роки тому +3

    You're both SO in the zone here! 👏

  • @feabambinamarquez
    @feabambinamarquez 2 роки тому

    More vlogs like these please, I really enjoy seeing u both on a single frame! so much wisdom and takeaways for today

  • @HannahCarlosPH
    @HannahCarlosPH 2 роки тому +1

    i am now both excited and nervous 😬🫣😂

  • @roselleanerdis9106
    @roselleanerdis9106 2 роки тому +1

    God bless you Boni's! This is a very enlightening and helpful vlog.

  • @deltasierra3295
    @deltasierra3295 2 роки тому

    i believe this is a hug for me from God. thank you, Bonis!💖✨️

  • @ameinizee9378
    @ameinizee9378 2 роки тому

    Perfectly chosen questions talaga, very relatable. I'm sharing this with the hubby mamaya, pag kaya pa niyang makinig sa kaka busy nya today. Thanks guys, you rock!☺️

  • @WisdomSeekersofChrist
    @WisdomSeekersofChrist 2 роки тому

    Wow, full of wisdom, I praise God for the both of you! Nakakaiyak especially the last part! 😭🙏💝🙌

  • @rosariomerencilla1683
    @rosariomerencilla1683 2 роки тому +2

    Excited for the book! Sharing this vlog to our couple friends as well 🎉❤

  • @tasslavs
    @tasslavs 2 роки тому

    My heart and spirit are full from the wisdom that flows out from you, Pastor Joe and Ms. Carla! God bless your hearts and more projects to come! ❤

  • @AngelSalumbides
    @AngelSalumbides 2 роки тому +4

    This is so nice! I've learned a lot. And this is very helpful because I'm about to get married. Thank you!!🥰

  • @elvieanndiputado
    @elvieanndiputado 2 роки тому +2

    We want more, the Bonis! :) This will help us singles to prepare for marriage season.

  • @jonnalopez3183
    @jonnalopez3183 2 роки тому

    Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experience. This came to my feed on the right time. Its like God talked to me and answered my prayer. I want to read your book. And yes more helpful vlogs like this one. God bless your family 😊

  • @momhoney3792
    @momhoney3792 Рік тому

    yes definitely we would love to have more videos from both of you about marriage and family... praise God for the inspiration you both share to us, your avid viewers. Happy new year and may God bless... 🙏

  • @ellaandrade1747
    @ellaandrade1747 2 роки тому

    Full of realizations in life bcoz of u guys. Thank you Rica and Joe! I will buy ur book definitely. More vlogs like this please.

  • @christiandcmarcos
    @christiandcmarcos Рік тому

    Excited for this❤

  • @tzagomez5155
    @tzagomez5155 2 роки тому

    First 2 minutes and I'm already adding to cart sa shopee! I feel enlightened, understood and validated with my big feelings haha! Same with Pstr Joe, I also said the exact same words, 'Why is it so unfair, I feel like I'm on super hard mode in life' haha! I'm excited for the book to arrive! Thanks so much for this content!

  • @sigridsoriano911
    @sigridsoriano911 2 роки тому +2

    super like….. nkakarelate ako as a wife and mum. pls make more videos like this.

  • @desTINAsyonPH
    @desTINAsyonPH 2 роки тому +1

    Super nice questions. Just to add up, laging sinasabi sakin ng spiritual mentor ko. Hindi ba sa ating mga tahanan tayong mga asawang babae ang taga linis? Ganoon din pagdating sa asawa natin, if ever may naging maling decision sila, tayo ang taga linis, tayo ang taga ayos. ❤ ehehehehe God bless to all of us. Kaya natin yan mga mars 🙂 God is with us, wag hayaang mahulog ang mga prutas 😅 Thank you Ms. Rica and Pastor, medyo pareho kayo pagdating sa giving ng hudband ko 🫣

  • @rodelcaguicla5080
    @rodelcaguicla5080 2 роки тому

    Ohh Emm gee..ansarap pakinggan at panooren yung couple na toH, grabeh yung energy napaka strong..lakas makapam budol talaga lalo na dun sa may mga asawa😊,andami ko na naman natutunan,kahit single pa rin ako..paRang gusto ko na bukas mag asawa🤣
    Yung last part sa vlog, tagus na tagus sa puso ko..damang dama ko promise😢
    tHank you Mr. and Mrs. Bonis❤️

    • @RicaPeralejoBonifacio
      @RicaPeralejoBonifacio  2 роки тому +1

      best comment hahahahahahhaha

    • @rodelcaguicla5080
      @rodelcaguicla5080 2 роки тому

      a die hard Fan..sana may award akong Eleven Eleven na book..🤣🤣
      soo excited to get my copy..
      may kasama n po ba yung libreng autograph?thanks po😊

  • @katleenevangelista1549
    @katleenevangelista1549 2 роки тому +1

    Waiting!!!

  • @zizaworld
    @zizaworld 2 роки тому

    This is 🥇 excited for the book. I dearly loved Better than Jewels. I know I will love your new book. Praise God for your lives. Thank you Bonis. I love you ❤️

  • @yanes.pebenito7582
    @yanes.pebenito7582 2 роки тому

    Tnx for your candor, Joseph & Carla!
    Great questions, audience!

  • @linadiaz1953
    @linadiaz1953 Рік тому

    Amazing input very anointed, full of wisdom. Thank you

  • @Iamarjey
    @Iamarjey 2 роки тому +1

    Wow! More vlogs like this please!

  • @ForeverBlessedCharm
    @ForeverBlessedCharm 2 роки тому

    Timely to our situation i will recommend this to my husband to our devotion so we can learn together.

  • @godsprincess5643
    @godsprincess5643 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much Miss Rica and hubby, Jesus Loves Us!

  • @Kuya.Ey11
    @Kuya.Ey11 Рік тому

    grabe yung laman ng vlog nato salamat po!!! (feeling ko po mic lang ni Pastor Joe nagrecord)

  • @herspace94
    @herspace94 2 роки тому +1

    Waitinggg!

    • @herspace94
      @herspace94 2 роки тому

      Im a single woman but I know Im invested to this channel to prepare myself. Hehehe. Thanks Bonis!

  • @honneyjanelaurenia3264
    @honneyjanelaurenia3264 2 роки тому

    I'm not yet married but I learned so much in this vlog. Thank you, Ms. Rica!

  • @yanes.pebenito7582
    @yanes.pebenito7582 2 роки тому

    Grabe, I can relate to Carla but I can also relate to Joe! Loved this vlog! Can’t wait for my copy of the book!

  • @Jessica-yf3do
    @Jessica-yf3do 2 роки тому

    This is a buffett for couples.❤
    Thank you!Continue to shine for Jesus!

  • @magelamurielle7686
    @magelamurielle7686 2 роки тому

    I learned so much from this vlog. I love it! More to come pls 😊

  • @edenalon5435
    @edenalon5435 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much for this very wonderful episode.

  • @iamkristina
    @iamkristina 2 роки тому

    Kahit d pa kame kasal open namam kame sa isat isa. We have no problem with money. we have one child. 😊👍

  • @acar957
    @acar957 2 роки тому

    I love mr boni! I am enjoying your videos together more than I do with rica and the others 😅 power couple talaga

  • @goodannebana2402
    @goodannebana2402 2 роки тому

    I am single yet this teaches me a lot as an individual whom someday will fall into a place called Relationship😊😁 Thank you po🥰😍

  • @sherryannu.thomas8819
    @sherryannu.thomas8819 2 роки тому

    Wow, so awesome topic! Thanks for your topic and God's make away to understand me the marriage life. We're just getting to know each other this time for a month together from 4 years LDR. It's really hard, but thanks God for leading us to be stronger for the sake of our relationship. My hubby was good and supportive, but the problem is me and hard for both of us to adjust our attitude and behavior especially me. Difficult culture, but have advantage also. Thanks God for being our center of our life. God bless and more power to both of you Rica 🙏 Sherry🇺🇸

  • @bellam6908
    @bellam6908 2 роки тому

    Watched this with my hubby and he decided that we need to buy your book afterwards! Excited kami to answer some questions and to also write our own stories/insight about our marriage. We’re a young couple and we are very blessed to have you both to give us wisdom about marriage 💖💖💖

  • @jocelynlabayoga6076
    @jocelynlabayoga6076 2 роки тому

    Very informative. This is such a blessing!

  • @jedviervlogs7773
    @jedviervlogs7773 Рік тому

    Hi thank you for the good topic that you tackled . Hope for more of this vlog about life and marriage.god bless your family , ❤

  • @queincycarbonera7057
    @queincycarbonera7057 2 роки тому

    Thank you for this po! Very insightful even for a single woman like me ♥️

  • @belyu4452
    @belyu4452 2 роки тому

    I am interested in vlogs like this even though I am not married. Hoping to see more!

  • @maylineabastas9183
    @maylineabastas9183 2 роки тому

    I love listening to your conversation. A lot of very fruitful lesson to learn. How I wish malakas lng ang mic ni Jo. 😅

  • @angeliquematriano6547
    @angeliquematriano6547 2 роки тому

    Hi! Ms rica, it helps a lot for us! We are in 6 years in relationship and planning to get married soon! ❤

  • @arethamikayvalencia3847
    @arethamikayvalencia3847 Рік тому

    My idol since I was young.. Pretty as ever po Ms Rica..

  • @sharingoutlovesol1663
    @sharingoutlovesol1663 Рік тому

    Wow! Praise God 🙏💖
    Thanks to you both
    Where we can find your book Ms. Rica?

  • @anjo3615
    @anjo3615 2 роки тому

    wow...a very smart couple..you're way younger than me but im really learning a lot...hope to have a copy of your book!!!!

  • @joykojima
    @joykojima 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much❤❤❤I love it❤😘🙏More please❤️🙏God bless you more❤️🙏Huge fan of yours from Nagoya Japan🇯🇵🇵🇭❤️

  • @annecenteno
    @annecenteno 2 роки тому

    Galeng!!! Congrats guys! D

  • @ssejarahg3646
    @ssejarahg3646 2 роки тому

    I cried watching this ❤

  • @l.i.i.s2987
    @l.i.i.s2987 2 роки тому +1

    Make an e-book please!

  • @jedviervlogs7773
    @jedviervlogs7773 2 роки тому

    Hi thank you for doing this. You help a lot of couple especially those in a relationship or married couple. I hope you continue this blog advice or Q and A theme. It’s really interesting. Talk a lot of different topic in general mostly on how to deal in life and put god on yourself.
    Thank you and hope there’s more next Q and A god bless your family 😊

  • @revenitadulay7642
    @revenitadulay7642 2 роки тому

    This is so nice .iam learning from you guys !

  • @anniesalamat1476
    @anniesalamat1476 2 роки тому

    Nice vlog!...indeed love is a decision, loving imperfect person seeking their highest good for God's glory....

  • @ballhawking101
    @ballhawking101 2 роки тому

    very insightful. thanks pastors!

  • @jeralyncabangis8811
    @jeralyncabangis8811 2 роки тому

    Kahit single ang daming take away ✨

  • @gemmahamilton6876
    @gemmahamilton6876 2 роки тому

    I love watching your vlog. Authentic and anointing by God.

  • @lovertabillaballeza7281
    @lovertabillaballeza7281 2 роки тому

    Ang Ganda nito.. gusto kodin to.. thanks for sharing.maam Rica .

  • @_rodelle
    @_rodelle 2 роки тому

    Bought the book! So excited to receive it na :)

  • @Hannah-mr9xb
    @Hannah-mr9xb 2 роки тому

    these are the exact answers for all of my questions and what if's..

  • @jonnafemartin6864
    @jonnafemartin6864 Рік тому

    Thank u Guys

  • @eleonorvelasco1488
    @eleonorvelasco1488 2 роки тому

    Nice episode .. great talk and discussion .. helped me somehow to understand things about marriage and realized many things..though just find this a bit too fast of a discussion (how probably you speak lols) but great great discussion and one of the best topics for the vlog, you are a couple who inspires, teach and a lot of sense! all the best..

    • @RicaPeralejoBonifacio
      @RicaPeralejoBonifacio  2 роки тому +1

      It’s a vlog kasi so the full version which is slower is in pur podcast 😂

    • @eleonorvelasco1488
      @eleonorvelasco1488 2 роки тому

      @@RicaPeralejoBonifacio soo excited for the book I just ordered after watching this... always a fan Rica..

  • @moo1779
    @moo1779 Рік тому

    love this vlog that am very interested to have a copy of your book. ❤

  • @deeyeyleigh2143
    @deeyeyleigh2143 2 роки тому +1

    Totally unrelated but that color really looks good on you Rica 😊

  • @ForeverBlessedCharm
    @ForeverBlessedCharm 2 роки тому

    Oh wow, I want that book. Where to get it ? I’m living in Melbourne. And yes please I want more of this, it’s so helpful. Thank you and God bless.

    • @RicaPeralejoBonifacio
      @RicaPeralejoBonifacio  2 роки тому

      You may direct message @wellandwise.co on instagram :) they will entertain international orders

  • @princessnuevo1042
    @princessnuevo1042 2 роки тому

    Thank you 💕 dami kong natutunan hindi pala ako o kami ang nakakaranas 😅

  • @mariannietes1535
    @mariannietes1535 2 роки тому

    Wow this is wonderful topic ❤️❤️🙏

  • @JillMG
    @JillMG 2 роки тому

    Thank you po. ❤❤❤

  • @sharingoutlovesol1663
    @sharingoutlovesol1663 Рік тому

    Sold out the Book Ms. Rica huhuhu

  • @neriserosales5432
    @neriserosales5432 2 роки тому

    Looking forward to have your book...prang sit down talk n toh hehehe.

  • @lenglengski
    @lenglengski 2 роки тому

    Thanks for this...Yes! #9.. hello to the Philippine legislative body!! it is so unfair sa naiwan na spouse, the infidel has this sort of freedom, pero the other spouse is just left behind. Yung freedom na lang nga sana yung regalo sa sarili, eh ikaw pa gagastos ng malaki at maghihintay ng matagal, as compared to divorce na mas mabilis sana. 😔 yes to a God-centered marriage, pero kung may chronic infidelity na, give the other spouse a chance naman 🙃

  • @bethvictor1190
    @bethvictor1190 2 роки тому +1

    Excellent content!

  • @janedapdap5416
    @janedapdap5416 Рік тому

    Hi Ms. Carla where can i purchase your book?

  • @theblissfulnow
    @theblissfulnow 2 роки тому

    You both are on fire here :)

  • @myrashock
    @myrashock 2 роки тому

    Full of wisdom.. ❤️

  • @brandyracs5275
    @brandyracs5275 Рік тому

    Where can we get a copy of the book?

  • @sarahbalino4403
    @sarahbalino4403 2 роки тому

    More of this please...🥰

  • @bienamoranto
    @bienamoranto Рік тому

    love this thank you