Asalamualkum, great points. As a Muslim brother myself I can understand some of the good families that require a certain Mahr amount because sometimes some brothers wanna cut corners and pay little to nothing. It can show commitment. Also lets say this is all subjective to the financial status of the man. For example, if the man is a DR who makes $200k I would think its fair to ask for a reasonable fair amount that will be more than what would asked for from a blue collar working brother. Many brothers these days want to jump into a marriage without mahr and without a walimah (wedding, or feast) for their own benefits.
I watched this entire episode and as a woman this was so eye opening and informative. A few things I knew already and a few other points mentioned it never even crossed my mind. I'm now going to view the other episodes on the marriage topic. As a married woman , a Muslim woman , I should have asked some of these questions before getting married and perhaps I would have saved myself from disappointment and heartache.
indeed this episode and the other ones are real gems for those who are looking for marriage
Wallah what an amazing video. So many Gems 💎! I’m in the process of finding a wife and you’ve provided me with beneficial l knowledge. Jazakallahu khair
Allahuma Baarik akhii al kareem
I found this video very informative, balanced and gem packed ! The topic was tackled in an innovative way, with a big focus on realism and not just reiterating the generic responses we have gotten use to hearing.
Happy and thankful for the efforts you put in this in akhi al kareem. حفظك الله ونفع بك
Jazaakallahu Khair.
Allahumma Barik
Akhi I think you accidentally made a mistake at 51:50 . Please look into this ❤ May Allah bless you with Khair
جزاك الله خير
Yes what I meant to say was “the father’s friends”
الله المستعان
As a 19 year old girl who’s never married I really appreciate this raw , honest and Islamic content that gives me and many young adults a example to follow that is very adheres to our deen❤️
At our age it’s more difficult to take everything into consideration. This is a really mature way of thinking.