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Hi. Wonderful channel! Great job, subscribed not long ago. I have a question: How should I dress for the office in summer when it's hot? Blazer won't work, right? I have a low level office position and I definitely can't wear a tie- my supervisor hates white collar workers.
@@cezarypruszkowski9523 Perhaps a Vest, I just watch his video on "How to buy a Vest," and it's very Helpful and explains the Vests function and how to wear it.
In 2003, I had a stroke and became disabled. Use to be in law enforcement. So my weight gaining started. 2015, I was diagnosed with diabetes type 2. For 2 years on meds, I began a change in diet and workout. Today, I'm off all diabetic meds. Now, I'm back in church and watching your videos to fine-tune what I used to be. I'm having trouble with finding my colors. Told blues by one, then told lighter colors and then told blacks. Where does a man go? That's not expensive, and get a color pallet to work with.
The only two suits I’ve owned, light gray & charcoal black, both from banana republic,the jacket for around $160 and pants for slightly less, they fit extra good for a great price 😂
Thank you for your hard work and dedication! I’m 60yrs old, retired and fit. Thx to you I dress my age, and always get compliments. Hx for all you do!🙏
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Reinventing yourself is an important step to be a man of class. I turned 50 this year and upgraded my wardrobe. Some people who know me are surprised, yet they all say it looks good. I could easily retreat back to blending in with everyone else. I notice when I am at the grocery store or even at work, I’m the best dressed person there. It’s complete change for me. I’ve learned to embrace it and lean into it.
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Same same. I'm 34 and used to dress very southern-preppy for my 20s. I started dressing in athlesuire for my daily wear when I'm remote working. But I definitely need to upgrade my night-time, fall, winter, and summer wardrobe. Just want to look grown without looking boring.
In my life I don't have someone that can help me with style and dress. I have been able to properly build my closet up for a year and a half with this channel, and I'm not even close to being done.
@Kyle Comstock - few of us have anyone in our lives to guide us in style/dress. Just wanting to know these things puts you in front of 90+% of the men out there. There are plenty of resources/channels to help you in your journey; e.g., Gentleman’s Gazette, 40 Over Fashion, The Style O.G., The Parisian Gentleman, Chap’s Guide, etc. Keep on growing & learning!
Hey Antonio, I just wanted to thank you for your videos. I’m a 24 year old hospital worker, and watching your videos has helped me with my self confidence and image. In a field where fashion is the last thing on everyone’s minds, your videos have helped me set myself apart. My favorite piece of advice you’ve given me is to build a capsule wardrobe. I’m working on building a wardrobe of 5 shirts, pants, shoes, and jackets. My goals in the future is leverage knowledge and style to instill confiedence in my patients. So that they can receive the best care and return to their families. Thanks Antonio! Sincerely, Christian
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The Number 1 Rule is the most important to me. Whether I'm dirty and sweaty in work clothes or dressed up at the office, nothing says confidence and maturity like being a class act at all time. Great video
I started working as a counselor, earlier this year, and I had to update my wardrobe. I’d previously worked as an investigator, so I normally dressed in anticipation of entering filthy homes and being out in the elements. My love for nicer clothes has been rekindled, and your channel has been invaluable regarding sartorial questions and ideas. You’ve done an outstanding job on this channel, and I’ve referred others to your channel for assistance with dress, communication, and confidence. Keep up the good work!
I'm 35 and a father of two. I've started to work on my new more mature wardrobe and with your help I've started to turn heads when walking down the street. Thank you for sharing all your knowledge.
I’m challenging myself with coming out of my introverted box. Within the past 2 years, I’ve stated the journey of building my own company and in order to lead my team, I need to lead from the front; literally outside of my box. The part where you mentioned speaking slower and not too quickly is a great reminder of maintaining self-awareness and self control while communicating effectively. Thank you for the content, I’ve been following your channel for years and I always stop to look at what you share.
The speaking slower part is really important, I am someone who recently began fluency classes with the Pro90D program. It is for stutters and people who in general want to be better speakers. I don't stutter anymore, however I continue to do the program to speak better and I also dress better now. I am getting clients like crazy because of the way I represent myself at meetings. Due to the way I talk and dress people think I am this big time business man that is in his 40s, but I am really just a 29 year old South African guy trying trying to build a huge remote post production company.
This past summer I’ve moved into a more prestigious job. With that being said, it has put me into more of a public position in the region I live, running events and programs etc. Taking a moment to think and slow things down has been HUGE in my success. It simply allows me to let those I’m working with to know that I’ve got all my” I’s and T’s” where they need to be. Thanks for all your hard work and research into helping men become better men. Merry Christmas!
I had been a big time stoner since I was 15 when I was 24 I got cancer 3 years into my remission I began to have grand maul seizures due to a new epilepsy diagnosis. Turns out cannabis was the cause of my seizures, now at 31 I stopped it all a year ago my life turned around, the seizures stopped and I have decided to to step my style a self care up your fragrance and style videos are helping me in so manta ways to help me step up!
I am 45 and yesterday someone thought I Was 29 because of my clothing advice you keep on giving me, I truly admire you and I Always am dying to see what fragrance and clothes you recommend, I LOVE your videos Antonio and with my them I will never look old.
I went to my sons back to school night. Wore slacks, dress shirt and shiny shoes. Other dads were in jeans n T-shirt. I stood out. Catching a few eyes from counselors. Telling my son I handle my self very well.
I am turning myself around, completely. My dress is changing, I'm thinking about fragrance, simple accessories and fashion in general. Thanks to you and a book I'm reading, I am starting to take myself seriously, and taking steps to show who I am. Thank you, you are worth a great deal more than I am paying you.
Same here. My approach was to look more professional and close more sales as I’m self-employed dates and going out or in the back of my mind not the forefront but the channel is helping me to elevate every aspect.
@@searchforthetruth1 I run my own business and am about to start another. I rejuvenate unkempt properties, >10 acres, put in ponds, wells, gardens, orchards and solar, enough to run the property +50%. Attention is payed to the house along the way and once it's payed off, sell it to someone who knows it's value. I am starting a UA-cam channel focusing on problem areas in the country, laws, food production and so on. In order to make it a success I am working on fashion, speach and presentation. Coming from field work to interpersonal communications, I feel behind the 8 ball. 1 thing I learned in the Army in my 20's, you can take more punishment than you ever thought possible. Now in my 60's I'll add another, never give up on yourself, never give in to others, if you are certain this is your direction, never look back, ever forward.
11:24 >> What a PRECIOUS words !!! You nailed it all . Your channel is not about style , and dressing only 👏🏻👏🏻 It’s so much more : it stimulates to think who you are and wanna be looking inward . Congratulations from Brazil . God bless you man.
Love that you address the psychology of color here, yes - dress in colors that work with your skin tone and don't detract from your face. If someone sees the clothes before they see your face, you're wearing the wrong color. Good rule for white is to wear the same shade of white that you have in your teeth and eyes. Blondes - stay away from black (navy or a flattering dark brown), Dark hair and light skin (high contrast), stay away from muted light colors.
Some very good points. I would include being authentic and engaged. Being a person of class encompasses a number of areas - dress, persona, behaviour, speech and actions. Treat everyone like they are the most important person in the room. Be an active listener and engage with each person you speak with or interact with.
All the office colleagues who loved dressing formal and classy now prefer pyjamas and their home offices. When they do occasionally come to the office, its Jeans and hoodies. Office party went from 'dress to impress' to 'come as a bum'
You know something? I'm a punk and a metalhead. While at University, I tried dressing up, tried to change a bit of how I dress, to be more high status (despite my working class heritage). That was when I was first introduced into the world of channels like this or Gentleman's Gazette, alpha m., Charisma on Command and others like it. I tried to fake it till I made it. And... I felt fake. I didn't feel good with all of this. Dressing up was like a putting a lipstick on a pig. However, when I was at a dark place in life, I once again put some heavy music, put on my old cargo pants and a polo shirt, and I thought - screw it, I'll go back to being who I really am, and it worked. I gained all of my confidence back, I was at peace with myself again. I am a punk and a metalhead after all, it wasn't just a phase. BUT. I never stopped watching channels like the ones I mentioned (well, nowadays I don't really have time, so RMRS is most of what's left that I have time for). I stopped wearing chinos and Chelsea boots, I went back to cargo pants, steel-nose boots and sneakers. BUT, what I kept is the knowledge of the importance of Fit, Fabric and Function. No longer oversized t-shirts to hide my belly, now they're fit and show my built up chest and broad shoulders. No longer too large pants, now I know how to shop to fit my size both waist and leg length, and I know how to make them fit, if I need to. No longer am I wearing just a deodorant, or maybe a cheap fragrance I got at a convenience store, it's a well researched one, and I know of the base, heart and head notes, so I can tailor them to a season or occasion. My beard is no longer just growing, maybe combed, I know know how to take proper care of it. No longer am I just wearing black, I know how to play with colour, with tones of them. I am still undeniably me, undeniably a punk and a metalhead, and I'm just a warehouse worker. But I know how to look like the best dressed one, even without switching my style to something that I don't feel comfortably in. Now my style is both comfortable, and thanks to all of the little tricks like these, I'm even more confident than ever. I didn't understand at first, I took things at a face value. But once I "got it", once it clicked, it works. You don't need to dress in a suit, sports jacket or a blazer. You can be who you want to be, and tricks like these will just make you look better in your own style.
love to hear that, my man. Yes, his advice is transferable, no matter your personal style. I have a hybrid style, a slightly edgy with an undertone of dressy ( think of a shirt casual shirt with large black floral patterns, black jeans and, a slim leather jacket), and I never own a suit/sport jacket. Still, my personal style foundation is built on the things Antonio has been teaching for years. P.S: Hope you are living a much better, happy life now.
That is pretty awesome to hear. Its funny because I am kind of like you but slightly opposite. I have been a metalhead at heart since I was a teenager, metal has always been my life. However I always wondered why people were able to pull that look off so well, believe me I tried but I was never comfortable, neither did I really know how to do it. I am a healthcare professional and am more of a nerdy science type and at this stage in my life, the RMRS blazer jacket / clean professional look is what I have always geared towards and actually fit my personality, despite my love for metal music. I feel the most comfortable in this type of wear or in gym tank tops lol. Thanks for sharing, metal heads are rare these days
However, it does look good. Kinda like chrome rims, love them on other cars but would never be riding chrome 20’s(I will wear a blazer/suit to special events)
Pushing 60 and ready to start a new career after a injury. Physiotherapy daily, reading and working on being a stronger man mentally and physically. Thanks for your advice on our life journey.
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Man, great stuff. Refreshing actually. In a society these days where being a strong man seems to be frowned upon - this is just what we gentlemen need to hear. Cheers.
Thank you Antonio! This video spoke to me a bit beyond dressing classy. But look IS really everything about a Men. I am in a place where I want to change my life and this is one of the most critical steps. My looks, how I dress, and I am perceived. “Practice being the men you want to be.” “Your mannerisms, slow down.” Those are the most important message I got from this video, Apart from the rest.
Hey Antonio Jordan here. I am self-employed with a service based business depends on sales generated so I have recently refined my style by wearing clean nice sunglasses, good fragrance and new professional footwear. I’m going to be updating my wardrobe as well as my work clothes opting for a more refined and professional look.
I must say, lately what I've been striving for has been my interactions with people. Being a man who can do things slower like you said. But also being patient and still caring towards others. I've noticed that because of this effort (mostly to just better myself and strengthen my relationship with my wonderful lady) that I have earned a lot of respect and trust from those around me. You've helped me a lot Antonio and I'm sending more gents towards your channel for guidance too. Thank you!
I don't know. I've been complimented when I'm dulling my senses with painkillers and not overreacting in forced family holiday reunions. A lot of guys dull their senses in forced family get-togethers with alcohol. But people always smell alcohol on your breath. And accuse you of being too feminine if they smell any scent on you. I found that black jeans, black sweater or turtleneck, some painkiller drugs and a slight amount of caffeine or steroid are when I'm most successful in establishing a solid masculine presence in these forced family holiday reunions. I'm not proud of this, by the way.
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Slowing things down a beat does not cost a penny to do. It conveys a sense of purpose; which sends a message to others that you are one who can get things done.
Slowing down is what I need the most at the moment. I have noticed myself and I feel like I'm always in hurry , walking fast even indoors is what I need to get rid off maybe.
I have a grey pinstripe with a 3 button jacket. I wore it to a meeting with the execs of my company and some newer people didn't realize I was a simple analyst. Was a fun meeting.
Honestly I use to buy whatever t-shirt I can get at Walmart but after wanting to better myself I stumbled onto your page and it has been positive. I have eaten better been more active and because of it I was able to grab some nice shoes and some nice casual shoes I re edit my closet and add some polo shirts some nice button ups and even was able to get my first complete suit I’m hoping to keep growing in bettering myself and your videos have help me understand fashion better in a appropriate manner
I started wearing fragrances every day. Whenever I buy pants right now I make a point of making them something that isn't jeans. I even bought a turtleneck a month ago, something I never thought I would spend money on.
I decided to change up my way of dressing up for every occasion. Where I started is in the gym. Once I lose about 20 pounds around my waist then I’ll start. I love wearing boots and shoes. My challenge, I wear orthotics.
It is important to control your emotions. This does not mean to just be unemotional, but rather being aware of how you portray yourself. Express yourself but keep your cool. If one acts or rather reacts from an emotional state, then one often will respond in a manner that is not winning.
I have recently started trying to take life into my own hands. I've started exercising, and working on my career as well, and your videos help me keep moving by telling me how important it is to take care of yourself, and have confidence.
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I hope this isn't a buzz-kill but I'm going through something that is shaping my life beyond anything I've ever experienced before, including, oddly, my views on being a classy grown man (I'm 59). My wife is dying from cancer and has been hit with ten rings of hell thus far, with God knows how many more on her horizon. Her bravery, fortitude and grace are the most heartbreaking yet inspirational things I've ever seen, and make me want to be better than I ever thought I could be, every-single-day. Of course, I'd rather have learned this big jarring lesson any other way, but I hope I'm doing her proud by stepping up and being everything she needs (or wants). I'm probably the last guy qualified to offer Zen brilliance but please, gents, live a good proud life for yourself and your loved ones. Nothing else matters.
I better myself by simply Dressing well each day whether it be my Coaches Uniform or a Suit and Tie, as "The Better You Dress, the Better You'll Be." I plan to wear a suit and tie at least 3-4 times a week at the bare minimum as well as make my wardrobe consist of solely bespoke and well fitting garments respectively. Dressing Better for me is the first step to becoming a Better Man in every way, shape or form.
Found you from fragrance videos, but there's so much more that you bring that the current state of modern society that young men seem to have lost touch with. Respect.
I’m new to RMRS and I appreciate all you do Antonio! I’m 50 and starting my second career after retiring from the USAF, and I want to look, feel and smell my best. This is something I never thought I would care about, but funny how people change!
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Hello Antonio, doing to not necessarily Change the man I am but rather to Allow that man to shine through for myself and others to see; watching everything I can find that you have put out here, budgeting in for the Style Course you offer, restricted and reforming my diet( weighed in this morning at 161) down from 178 30 days ago. You have been the breath of fresh air and push that my 60 year old out of touch self has needed. TY. Semper Fi
I have been dressing nice since I was a child with my uncle who was mentally challenged and has always loved the way I look but as I got older kinda went off that path nut now om trying it again and look good but watching your videos is helping me understand the real concept of how to look good smell and act and I'd like to thank you and I will keep on watching take care now love the style lol.
Lately I’ve gotten back into having a serious fitness routine. And it’s helped me out tremendously! It’s something I let slip when I left active duty. I stay active in my current job, but really taking time to focus on my health and fitness in a meaningful way has payed dividends in helping me feel better and I’m training my mind to focus, grow, and adapt more. 💪 Never stop learning and training!
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I bought a shirt from collars and co and it was so soft and felt super comfy to wear. The collar is so interesting; it's nice and stiff, as well with the placket! Unfortunately, I had to return it. The small was just too big a fit as a 5'8 145lb lean athletic man. But, they did tell me XS is coming so I'm keeping an eye out!
After a recent divorce, I decided to start taking care of myself, never really paid attention to how people dressed and the results of looking good until I started watching your videos and decided to pay attention out there, there is a HUGE difference, the way you present yourself makes a significant impact on what you are expressing, from a social gathering to a work meeting. Your videos not only help men like us to be more successful, but contribute to a better society as well. Thanks for what you do Antonio.
Discovered you in 2018. Watched every week. Learned so much. You for style and Peterson for mental focus are my main content go-to. Im dressing up for work (remote working for 7 months now) and also because I want my son to see a father who dresses according to how he speaks. Thank you for the great work you are doing.
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Actually I think its true that behavior is very important when you look classy. Especially treating anyone with respect and not to look down on people. Style wise the most important part for me is fit and owning your style, not participating in every trend. Mine is simple, mostly dark clothing but with some unique shoes.
Were you in the marines!? Semper Fi brother, I love what you are teaching on this channel. It's amazing how you took dress, and used it as a teaching moment to emphasize what it really means to be a man or high class. In a world that doesn't know what high class is anymore, you are who we need more of!
I want to thank you for this video! I really enjoy your advices and especially your rule #1. We mostly focus on our appearance, our clothes, our jewelry to show who we are but what about the inside... If we want to look like men, then we should be men! I wanted some change in my life for the next year to come. I'm surely going to follow your videos for 2023. Wish all the best!
Thank you for the advice. I invested in 3 new sport jackets and I get a lot of comments on how sharp and confident I look when out on calls and meetings. The industry I'm in has lost touch on class and people praise for trying to bring back the professional look instead of khakis and a "company logo" golf shirt, yuck!
Wow just wow. This video spoke to me. I was 320lbs and now about 220lbs. My main problem would be. I buy cloths and already too big a month later. Currently hovering around size 34-36.I'm a Construction worker so I wear mostly jeans, but go to tons of functions and events. However you are absolutely right about dressing better. I will get sports jacket soon.
My style has always been very trim and minimalist with vintage inspiration occasionally. Even though I’m not high class by any means, high class people make my yearly salary in a week or less, or already come from money. However because of the way I dress, people will frequently assume that I am. I’m sure if I had more opportunity to wear suits, the effect would be even more extreme. My suit preference is more English country side but more lightweight Italian structure. Tweed is the most beautiful fabric. If I were actually high class I would have vicuña tweed suits made. Lol
Thank you Antonio I'm gettingoit of the box, reading, learning and working to be the best version of me. Leaving behind the insecure and timid old self..taking risk and speaking my mind in a cool, calm and educated manner. Thank you again for been an inspiration and a guide for all of us.
Good video... An honest, hard working, intellectual man, someone knows their stuff and is able to articulate it politely and firmly, and a good listener would always triumph over fancy jackets. In fact, paying too much attention and detail on your clothes could be counter-productive. You need to be a bit rebellious, and carefree, and comfortable in your own skin to shine.
The number one thing I did to improve my wardrobe this year was to wear only dark colors other than white and red. Men wear way too much blue in my opinion. Way too much. I do still have one pair of blue jeans. Haven't worn them in months.
This sounds simple but I think it is powerful. And that is; don't live like a broke single bachelor. I'm 23 years old have always shopped at thrift shops and have lived on my own since I was 18. I didn't cook or take care of myself physically. And I am now changing that by eating healthy, exercising, being well groomed and presentable, shopping at higher end quality store for groceries and clothes, and living not like a broke bachelor but like a respectable and sophisticated young man who had his life together.
The last item comes down to always doing the right thing, at the right time, in the right place. This is what I taught the kids in my classes. There is more to it, but remembering this formula will get you far in life.
Antonio, I noticed that your challenge coin has the US Navy creed of honor, courage, commitment. Did you serve? I found that those ideas were as impactful to live by post service as they were in service. Thank you for your videos, they go a long way in helping to envision the man I aspire to be.
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Recently, my life has come to some dramatic forks. I’ve been forced to take the highroad, as well as some roads less traveled. I feel as if life piled on me all the burnable, flammable materials that it could, lit a match, and burned me to the ground. I am rising from the ashes, though, a new man, with new convictions and ambitions. And with my new life philosophy, I need the style and look to complete the transformation. With that beautiful coin in my pocket, I could never forget the struggle, the challenge and the manifest destiny… “Like a boy, who’s never been to battle, and is eager to be in war, I threw myself into life still attached to my umbilical cord” - Me
I really want one of your challenge coins. I'm finally killing it in the gym and my diet is excellent, but I want more than to just look good in a year or two. I want to be a different person and I want the way I look and act to reflect that.
One of your best videos ever, Antonio. Chock full of great info and advice. The end was very inspiring. Many thanks. Btw, what jacket are you wearing in the video?? It's freakin' beautiful.
Awesome vid as usual. I am a fisherman, but I am a fisherman with style. What is the number one thing to look stylish...it's the same thing I say about the best fishing lures. There is one fishing lure that is the absolute best. It is the one that you have confidence in.
I love your tips and have always liked to dress well but have struggled and your tips really help and now that I'm in my 50s and kids are grown I have more money to spend on my wardrobe so keep up the great work. also, im not a businessman, but just like good style.
Related to 'fit', and equally important, is proportion. Your clothes may fit well, but the accessories you wear also need to be suited to your physique and compliment your body type. If you're slim (like me): make sure your watch is proportionate to your build (i.e. 36-38 mm). A 44-mm watch face might look fine on Schwarzenegger or Stallone, but will look ridiculous on a slimmer wrist. Choose a dress shoe that is slimmer and lower-profile (i.e. Italian), versus something that's decidedly chunky (i.e. British). Wear a winter scarf whose dimensions suit your frame (i.e. narrow, as opposed to overly-wide). The same goes for your briefcase, belt, etc. All of these accessories should be subordinate to the wearer, not the center of attention.
Thank you for all of your professional advice on how to be a man and dress like a man of class. I LOVE to dress up when I can. I am a 15-year Law Enforcement officer and there is a trend to wear "tactical gear" when going to training. Unfortunately, I wear a specific uniform every day. I feel by following the trend, it's lazy and just fits in. I take opportunities, like law enforcement training, to be a man and dress like a man. I feel proud of myself when I dress like a man. You're absolutely right when someone dresses well, people take you more seriously as you're an expert in the field. I strive to be a man of class by wearing appropriate clothing styles for my body and occasion. Thank you again for all of your advice.
In 2024, health and wealth are the goals I've been working out every day (mma, weights and yoga for flexibility) I've been watching your videos and taking notes! As my body started taking shape I've been buying the staple pieces that you recommend for my body type thank you
This is really good advice, just be yourself, you can dress in just about anything and if you just own it with confidence you'll have to swagger and Ooolala touch for the crowd.
I work in infra construction man. Sometimes realy dirty heavy work. But in freetime i realy like to dress with style, these videos have help me to choose my clothing style better.
I remember bumping into you a few years ago and it was cool! As someone staring a fragrance and wine line I find myself really drawn to anything pertaining to lifestyle. Your videos have really made me much more mindful in what colors i choose and what goes with my complexion. Thank you! As someone who wants to attract major deals in wine and perfume I love this 🔥🔥🔥🏆👊🏾
Asking anyone here: I feel like I might be a little ahead of my time here but have just started college in a town where dressing well is incredibly out of place/frowned upon. What is the easiest way to slowly ease into dressing well so it might not seem too out of place. Or recommendations of outfits that would suit college well.
It's ok to be different, specially when doing it with class. I would start with a dark blue suit, then a grey or charcoal. Star to mix and match them. Get some colorful pocket squares to get some pop. Then you can build up with some more stylish suit colors such as purple, reds, etc. The most important rule is to make sure that they fit your body style. Italian cut with hampered pants is probably the best look for college since it makes you look young.
Learn this stuff if you need it, but honestly, you're right, it's out of place in almost all situations and makes you look ridiculous most of the time. Figure out a bad ass casual look you like instead. And, definitely wear fragrances.
Jacob Star little by little & if you have the opportunity in the future try to go to a different place or State but not Democrats 😊 states.. God bless you 🙏
I just love suits! When i wear one it always straightens my back and i walk "taller" more "confident" There is a saying which i will never forget and it goes: "What lingerie is to a woman, is suits for a man" Stay classy everyone ;-)
Great content. I'm 59 and have tried to dress sophisticated but it's not always easy. Do you have color and style charts? For example, best shirt colors to go with different pant colors, to go with blazer colors. Then different shoe must haves and different colors there.
Appreciate all the great info and work you put into your videos to help men look great! I have a question regarding color choices for skin tones that are red/pink in the face. What do you recommend? (BTW I am light/med hair tone but hoping to get a response for the dark-haired red-faced men also! Thank you!
Also good pro tip for men that most never understand is never wear a just a tie and collard shirt alone without a sports jacket and or blazer, too many guys today are completely skipping the jacket yet opting to go with the tie, sure some outfits or events might call for it but generally speaking your better going without the tie and doing a nice dress shirt and jacket together vs skipping the jacket and going with the shirt and tie only, it's not a good look and alot of guys think dressing up for an event means simply a white collared shirt and tie yet completely forget the jacket, especially since most guys today are ditching the full suit so it's a hodge podge of mismatched shirts and bottoms.
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Hi. Wonderful channel! Great job, subscribed not long ago. I have a question: How should I dress for the office in summer when it's hot? Blazer won't work, right? I have a low level office position and I definitely can't wear a tie- my supervisor hates white collar workers.
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@@cezarypruszkowski9523 Perhaps a Vest, I just watch his video on "How to buy a Vest," and it's very Helpful and explains the Vests function and how to wear it.
In 2003, I had a stroke and became disabled. Use to be in law enforcement. So my weight gaining started. 2015, I was diagnosed with diabetes type 2. For 2 years on meds, I began a change in diet and workout. Today, I'm off all diabetic meds. Now, I'm back in church and watching your videos to fine-tune what I used to be. I'm having trouble with finding my colors. Told blues by one, then told lighter colors and then told blacks. Where does a man go? That's not expensive, and get a color pallet to work with.
Thift shops are an idea if you want to cheaply try new things! Sometimes there are really nice pieces there
Paisley & Grey has an array of patterns that are interesting and affordable. Not the best suit on the planet but it gets the job done
The only two suits I’ve owned, light gray & charcoal black, both from banana republic,the jacket for around $160 and pants for slightly less, they fit extra good for a great price 😂
Respect+
Ali express has cheap things as well
Thank you for your hard work and dedication! I’m 60yrs old, retired and fit. Thx to you I dress my age, and always get compliments. Hx for all you do!🙏
I appreciate you - thank you!
Always important. So awesome
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Reinventing yourself is an important step to be a man of class. I turned 50 this year and upgraded my wardrobe. Some people who know me are surprised, yet they all say it looks good. I could easily retreat back to blending in with everyone else. I notice when I am at the grocery store or even at work, I’m the best dressed person there. It’s complete change for me. I’ve learned to embrace it and lean into it.
I’m 35 and I switched up at about 26 27 best thing I’ve ever done
Best of all, dressing nice makes you respected and gives a first impression
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Same same. I'm 34 and used to dress very southern-preppy for my 20s. I started dressing in athlesuire for my daily wear when I'm remote working. But I definitely need to upgrade my night-time, fall, winter, and summer wardrobe. Just want to look grown without looking boring.
@@conlawmeateater8792 Treating people with respect makes you respected.
In my life I don't have someone that can help me with style and dress. I have been able to properly build my closet up for a year and a half with this channel, and I'm not even close to being done.
@Kyle Comstock - few of us have anyone in our lives to guide us in style/dress. Just wanting to know these things puts you in front of 90+% of the men out there. There are plenty of resources/channels to help you in your journey; e.g., Gentleman’s Gazette, 40 Over Fashion, The Style O.G., The Parisian Gentleman, Chap’s Guide, etc. Keep on growing & learning!
@@jrh11254 Amen.....let's all apply it and grow and mature as we get older, we can teach it to our sons and daughters......
That makes two of us! I live in Kansas City, and though I love it dearly, NO ONE considers it a stylish place.
Hey Antonio,
I just wanted to thank you for your videos. I’m a 24 year old hospital worker, and watching your videos has helped me with my self confidence and image. In a field where fashion is the last thing on everyone’s minds, your videos have helped me set myself apart. My favorite piece of advice you’ve given me is to build a capsule wardrobe. I’m working on building a wardrobe of 5 shirts, pants, shoes, and jackets. My goals in the future is leverage knowledge and style to instill confiedence in my patients. So that they can receive the best care and return to their families. Thanks Antonio!
Sincerely,
Christian
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The Number 1 Rule is the most important to me. Whether I'm dirty and sweaty in work clothes or dressed up at the office, nothing says confidence and maturity like being a class act at all time. Great video
I started working as a counselor, earlier this year, and I had to update my wardrobe. I’d previously worked as an investigator, so I normally dressed in anticipation of entering filthy homes and being out in the elements. My love for nicer clothes has been rekindled, and your channel has been invaluable regarding sartorial questions and ideas. You’ve done an outstanding job on this channel, and I’ve referred others to your channel for assistance with dress, communication, and confidence. Keep up the good work!
I'm 35 and a father of two. I've started to work on my new more mature wardrobe and with your help I've started to turn heads when walking down the street. Thank you for sharing all your knowledge.
I’m challenging myself with coming out of my introverted box. Within the past 2 years, I’ve stated the journey of building my own company and in order to lead my team, I need to lead from the front; literally outside of my box. The part where you mentioned speaking slower and not too quickly is a great reminder of maintaining self-awareness and self control while communicating effectively. Thank you for the content, I’ve been following your channel for years and I always stop to look at what you share.
The speaking slower part is really important, I am someone who recently began fluency classes with the Pro90D program. It is for stutters and people who in general want to be better speakers. I don't stutter anymore, however I continue to do the program to speak better and I also dress better now. I am getting clients like crazy because of the way I represent myself at meetings. Due to the way I talk and dress people think I am this big time business man that is in his 40s, but I am really just a 29 year old South African guy trying trying to build a huge remote post production company.
This past summer I’ve moved into a more prestigious job. With that being said, it has put me into more of a public position in the region I live, running events and programs etc. Taking a moment to think and slow things down has been HUGE in my success. It simply allows me to let those I’m working with to know that I’ve got all my” I’s and T’s” where they need to be. Thanks for all your hard work and research into helping men become better men. Merry Christmas!
I had been a big time stoner since I was 15 when I was 24 I got cancer 3 years into my remission I began to have grand maul seizures due to a new epilepsy diagnosis. Turns out cannabis was the cause of my seizures, now at 31 I stopped it all a year ago my life turned around, the seizures stopped and I have decided to to step my style a self care up your fragrance and style videos are helping me in so manta ways to help me step up!
I am 45 and yesterday someone thought I
Was 29 because of my clothing advice you keep on giving me, I truly admire you and I Always am dying to see what fragrance and clothes you recommend, I LOVE your videos Antonio and with my them I will never look old.
I went to my sons back to school night. Wore slacks, dress shirt and shiny shoes. Other dads were in jeans n T-shirt. I stood out. Catching a few eyes from counselors. Telling my son I handle my self very well.
I am turning myself around, completely. My dress is changing, I'm thinking about fragrance, simple accessories and fashion in general. Thanks to you and a book I'm reading, I am starting to take myself seriously, and taking steps to show who I am. Thank you, you are worth a great deal more than I am paying you.
Same here. My approach was to look more professional and close more sales as I’m self-employed dates and going out or in the back of my mind not the forefront but the channel is helping me to elevate every aspect.
@@searchforthetruth1 I run my own business and am about to start another. I rejuvenate unkempt properties, >10 acres, put in ponds, wells, gardens, orchards and solar, enough to run the property +50%. Attention is payed to the house along the way and once it's payed off, sell it to someone who knows it's value.
I am starting a UA-cam channel focusing on problem areas in the country, laws, food production and so on. In order to make it a success I am working on fashion, speach and presentation.
Coming from field work to interpersonal communications, I feel behind the 8 ball. 1 thing I learned in the Army in my 20's, you can take more punishment than you ever thought possible. Now in my 60's I'll add another, never give up on yourself, never give in to others, if you are certain this is your direction, never look back, ever forward.
What kind of properties do you look for ? Where ?
@@louklein7143 Rural Arkansas
11:24 >> What a PRECIOUS words !!! You nailed it all .
Your channel is not about style , and dressing only 👏🏻👏🏻
It’s so much more : it stimulates to think who you are and wanna be looking inward .
Congratulations from Brazil . God bless you man.
Love that you address the psychology of color here, yes - dress in colors that work with your skin tone and don't detract from your face. If someone sees the clothes before they see your face, you're wearing the wrong color. Good rule for white is to wear the same shade of white that you have in your teeth and eyes. Blondes - stay away from black (navy or a flattering dark brown), Dark hair and light skin (high contrast), stay away from muted light colors.
Some very good points. I would include being authentic and engaged. Being a person of class encompasses a number of areas - dress, persona, behaviour, speech and actions. Treat everyone like they are the most important person in the room. Be an active listener and engage with each person you speak with or interact with.
All the office colleagues who loved dressing formal and classy now prefer pyjamas and their home offices. When they do occasionally come to the office, its Jeans and hoodies. Office party went from 'dress to impress' to 'come as a bum'
You know something? I'm a punk and a metalhead. While at University, I tried dressing up, tried to change a bit of how I dress, to be more high status (despite my working class heritage). That was when I was first introduced into the world of channels like this or Gentleman's Gazette, alpha m., Charisma on Command and others like it. I tried to fake it till I made it. And... I felt fake. I didn't feel good with all of this. Dressing up was like a putting a lipstick on a pig. However, when I was at a dark place in life, I once again put some heavy music, put on my old cargo pants and a polo shirt, and I thought - screw it, I'll go back to being who I really am, and it worked. I gained all of my confidence back, I was at peace with myself again. I am a punk and a metalhead after all, it wasn't just a phase.
BUT. I never stopped watching channels like the ones I mentioned (well, nowadays I don't really have time, so RMRS is most of what's left that I have time for). I stopped wearing chinos and Chelsea boots, I went back to cargo pants, steel-nose boots and sneakers. BUT, what I kept is the knowledge of the importance of Fit, Fabric and Function. No longer oversized t-shirts to hide my belly, now they're fit and show my built up chest and broad shoulders. No longer too large pants, now I know how to shop to fit my size both waist and leg length, and I know how to make them fit, if I need to. No longer am I wearing just a deodorant, or maybe a cheap fragrance I got at a convenience store, it's a well researched one, and I know of the base, heart and head notes, so I can tailor them to a season or occasion. My beard is no longer just growing, maybe combed, I know know how to take proper care of it. No longer am I just wearing black, I know how to play with colour, with tones of them. I am still undeniably me, undeniably a punk and a metalhead, and I'm just a warehouse worker. But I know how to look like the best dressed one, even without switching my style to something that I don't feel comfortably in. Now my style is both comfortable, and thanks to all of the little tricks like these, I'm even more confident than ever.
I didn't understand at first, I took things at a face value. But once I "got it", once it clicked, it works. You don't need to dress in a suit, sports jacket or a blazer. You can be who you want to be, and tricks like these will just make you look better in your own style.
love to hear that, my man. Yes, his advice is transferable, no matter your personal style. I have a hybrid style, a slightly edgy with an undertone of dressy ( think of a shirt casual shirt with large black floral patterns, black jeans and, a slim leather jacket), and I never own a suit/sport jacket. Still, my personal style foundation is built on the things Antonio has been teaching for years. P.S: Hope you are living a much better, happy life now.
@@subratafreelancewriter8504 Good to be who you are, clothes don't make the person, the person makes the clothes.
That is pretty awesome to hear. Its funny because I am kind of like you but slightly opposite. I have been a metalhead at heart since I was a teenager, metal has always been my life. However I always wondered why people were able to pull that look off so well, believe me I tried but I was never comfortable, neither did I really know how to do it. I am a healthcare professional and am more of a nerdy science type and at this stage in my life, the RMRS blazer jacket / clean professional look is what I have always geared towards and actually fit my personality, despite my love for metal music. I feel the most comfortable in this type of wear or in gym tank tops lol.
Thanks for sharing, metal heads are rare these days
Well said! Whatever you do, you gotta stay true to yourself. 🤘🏻
However, it does look good. Kinda like chrome rims, love them on other cars but would never be riding chrome 20’s(I will wear a blazer/suit to special events)
Pushing 60 and ready to start a new career after a injury. Physiotherapy daily, reading and working on being a stronger man mentally and physically. Thanks for your advice on our life journey.
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Man, great stuff. Refreshing actually. In a society these days where being a strong man seems to be frowned upon - this is just what we gentlemen need to hear. Cheers.
Thank you Antonio!
This video spoke to me a bit beyond dressing classy. But look IS really everything about a Men. I am in a place where I want to change my life and this is one of the most critical steps. My looks, how I dress, and I am perceived.
“Practice being the men you want to be.”
“Your mannerisms, slow down.”
Those are the most important message I got from this video, Apart from the rest.
Hey Antonio Jordan here. I am self-employed with a service based business depends on sales generated so I have recently refined my style by wearing clean nice sunglasses, good fragrance and new professional footwear. I’m going to be updating my wardrobe as well as my work clothes opting for a more refined and professional look.
I must say, lately what I've been striving for has been my interactions with people. Being a man who can do things slower like you said. But also being patient and still caring towards others. I've noticed that because of this effort (mostly to just better myself and strengthen my relationship with my wonderful lady) that I have earned a lot of respect and trust from those around me. You've helped me a lot Antonio and I'm sending more gents towards your channel for guidance too. Thank you!
Learning to slow down was a big thing i learned from him too! Happy for you.
I don't know. I've been complimented when I'm dulling my senses with painkillers and not overreacting in forced family holiday reunions.
A lot of guys dull their senses in forced family get-togethers with alcohol. But people always smell alcohol on your breath. And accuse you of being too feminine if they smell any scent on you. I found that black jeans, black sweater or turtleneck, some painkiller drugs and a slight amount of caffeine or steroid are when I'm most successful in establishing a solid masculine presence in these forced family holiday reunions. I'm not proud of this, by the way.
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Slowing things down a beat does not cost a penny to do. It conveys a sense of purpose; which sends a message to others that you are one who can get things done.
Slowing down is what I need the most at the moment.
I have noticed myself and I feel like I'm always in hurry , walking fast even indoors is what I need to get rid off maybe.
I have a grey pinstripe with a 3 button jacket. I wore it to a meeting with the execs of my company and some newer people didn't realize I was a simple analyst. Was a fun meeting.
Honestly I use to buy whatever t-shirt I can get at Walmart but after wanting to better myself I stumbled onto your page and it has been positive. I have eaten better been more active and because of it I was able to grab some nice shoes and some nice casual shoes I re edit my closet and add some polo shirts some nice button ups and even was able to get my first complete suit I’m hoping to keep growing in bettering myself and your videos have help me understand fashion better in a appropriate manner
I started wearing fragrances every day. Whenever I buy pants right now I make a point of making them something that isn't jeans. I even bought a turtleneck a month ago, something I never thought I would spend money on.
Thanks for sharing Antonio. I recommend to use much more the colour red (trousers, shirts, scarf). It works wonders...I wear something red every day
I decided to change up my way of dressing up for every occasion. Where I started is in the gym. Once I lose about 20 pounds around my waist then I’ll start. I love wearing boots and shoes. My challenge, I wear orthotics.
Confidence is key to everything. Looking sharp and clean elevates it.
I am a Cardiologist from India. I watch ur videos often. You instill class and your positive attitude is very infectious.
Keep it up🎉🎉
It is important to control your emotions. This does not mean to just be unemotional, but rather being aware of how you portray yourself. Express yourself but keep your cool. If one acts or rather reacts from an emotional state, then one often will respond in a manner that is not winning.
I have recently started trying to take life into my own hands. I've started exercising, and working on my career as well, and your videos help me keep moving by telling me how important it is to take care of yourself, and have confidence.
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I hope this isn't a buzz-kill but I'm going through something that is shaping my life beyond anything I've ever experienced before, including, oddly, my views on being a classy grown man (I'm 59). My wife is dying from cancer and has been hit with ten rings of hell thus far, with God knows how many more on her horizon. Her bravery, fortitude and grace are the most heartbreaking yet inspirational things I've ever seen, and make me want to be better than I ever thought I could be, every-single-day. Of course, I'd rather have learned this big jarring lesson any other way, but I hope I'm doing her proud by stepping up and being everything she needs (or wants). I'm probably the last guy qualified to offer Zen brilliance but please, gents, live a good proud life for yourself and your loved ones. Nothing else matters.
I better myself by simply Dressing well each day whether it be my Coaches Uniform or a Suit and Tie, as "The Better You Dress, the Better You'll Be."
I plan to wear a suit and tie at least 3-4 times a week at the bare minimum as well as make my wardrobe consist of solely bespoke and well fitting garments respectively.
Dressing Better for me is the first step to becoming a Better Man in every way, shape or form.
Antonio!
That light blue blazer with the navy blue button is inspiring!
Definitely getting that now!
Found you from fragrance videos, but there's so much more that you bring that the current state of modern society that young men seem to have lost touch with. Respect.
I’m new to RMRS and I appreciate all you do Antonio! I’m 50 and starting my second career after retiring from the USAF, and I want to look, feel and smell my best. This is something I never thought I would care about, but funny how people change!
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Hello Antonio, doing to not necessarily Change the man I am but rather to Allow that man to shine through for myself and others to see; watching everything I can find that you have put out here, budgeting in for the Style Course you offer, restricted and reforming my diet( weighed in this morning at 161) down from 178 30 days ago. You have been the breath of fresh air and push that my 60 year old out of touch self has needed. TY. Semper Fi
I have been dressing nice since I was a child with my uncle who was mentally challenged and has always loved the way I look but as I got older kinda went off that path nut now om trying it again and look good but watching your videos is helping me understand the real concept of how to look good smell and act and I'd like to thank you and I will keep on watching take care now love the style lol.
Lately I’ve gotten back into having a serious fitness routine. And it’s helped me out tremendously! It’s something I let slip when I left active duty. I stay active in my current job, but really taking time to focus on my health and fitness in a meaningful way has payed dividends in helping me feel better and I’m training my mind to focus, grow, and adapt more. 💪 Never stop learning and training!
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Thank you for providing the history of what makes these things. It is the history and story of an item that draws me. You are great
I bought a shirt from collars and co and it was so soft and felt super comfy to wear. The collar is so interesting; it's nice and stiff, as well with the placket! Unfortunately, I had to return it. The small was just too big a fit as a 5'8 145lb lean athletic man. But, they did tell me XS is coming so I'm keeping an eye out!
You have hit “the nail on the head!”
EVERYTHING starts from within and the commitment to yourself is the only thing that matters. Ooh-rah, Devil Dog
After watching 2 of your videos, it's no mystery why you have 3.5M subscribers. Great Job
After a recent divorce, I decided to start taking care of myself, never really paid attention to how people dressed and the results of looking good until I started watching your videos and decided to pay attention out there, there is a HUGE difference, the way you present yourself makes a significant impact on what you are expressing, from a social gathering to a work meeting.
Your videos not only help men like us to be more successful, but contribute to a better society as well.
Thanks for what you do Antonio.
Discovered you in 2018. Watched every week. Learned so much. You for style and Peterson for mental focus are my main content go-to. Im dressing up for work (remote working for 7 months now) and also because I want my son to see a father who dresses according to how he speaks. Thank you for the great work you are doing.
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Actually I think its true that behavior is very important when you look classy. Especially treating anyone with respect and not to look down on people. Style wise the most important part for me is fit and owning your style, not participating in every trend. Mine is simple, mostly dark clothing but with some unique shoes.
Were you in the marines!? Semper Fi brother, I love what you are teaching on this channel. It's amazing how you took dress, and used it as a teaching moment to emphasize what it really means to be a man or high class. In a world that doesn't know what high class is anymore, you are who we need more of!
I want to thank you for this video! I really enjoy your advices and especially your rule #1. We mostly focus on our appearance, our clothes, our jewelry to show who we are but what about the inside... If we want to look like men, then we should be men! I wanted some change in my life for the next year to come. I'm surely going to follow your videos for 2023. Wish all the best!
Thank you for the advice. I invested in 3 new sport jackets and I get a lot of comments on how sharp and confident I look when out on calls and meetings. The industry I'm in has lost touch on class and people praise for trying to bring back the professional look instead of khakis and a "company logo" golf shirt, yuck!
Your final comments on the video hit the nail in the head. Well done! 👍👍
Wow just wow. This video spoke to me. I was 320lbs and now about 220lbs. My main problem would be. I buy cloths and already too big a month later. Currently hovering around size 34-36.I'm a Construction worker so I wear mostly jeans, but go to tons of functions and events. However you are absolutely right about dressing better. I will get sports jacket soon.
My style has always been very trim and minimalist with vintage inspiration occasionally. Even though I’m not high class by any means, high class people make my yearly salary in a week or less, or already come from money. However because of the way I dress, people will frequently assume that I am. I’m sure if I had more opportunity to wear suits, the effect would be even more extreme. My suit preference is more English country side but more lightweight Italian structure. Tweed is the most beautiful fabric. If I were actually high class I would have vicuña tweed suits made. Lol
Love the content here at RMRS!! With the tips I have learned, I can better represent myself and the values of my father and grandfather!👍🏾
Excellent idea for a video. How one presents themselves to the world matters
Thank you Antonio
I'm gettingoit of the box, reading, learning and working to be the best version of me. Leaving behind the insecure and timid old self..taking risk and speaking my mind in a cool, calm and educated manner. Thank you again for been an inspiration and a guide for all of us.
Good video... An honest, hard working, intellectual man, someone knows their stuff and is able to articulate it politely and firmly, and a good listener would always triumph over fancy jackets. In fact, paying too much attention and detail on your clothes could be counter-productive. You need to be a bit rebellious, and carefree, and comfortable in your own skin to shine.
Great tips!!! I would also say having you’re hair always trimmed and clean. Beard or no beard, just always make sure to look trimmed and clean.
keeping up on personal grooming, community service, putting family first
The number one thing I did to improve my wardrobe this year was to wear only dark colors other than white and red. Men wear way too much blue in my opinion. Way too much. I do still have one pair of blue jeans. Haven't worn them in months.
This sounds simple but I think it is powerful. And that is; don't live like a broke single bachelor. I'm 23 years old have always shopped at thrift shops and have lived on my own since I was 18. I didn't cook or take care of myself physically. And I am now changing that by eating healthy, exercising, being well groomed and presentable, shopping at higher end quality store for groceries and clothes, and living not like a broke bachelor but like a respectable and sophisticated young man who had his life together.
The last item comes down to always doing the right thing, at the right time, in the right place. This is what I taught the kids in my classes. There is more to it, but remembering this formula will get you far in life.
Antonio, I noticed that your challenge coin has the US Navy creed of honor, courage, commitment. Did you serve? I found that those ideas were as impactful to live by post service as they were in service. Thank you for your videos, they go a long way in helping to envision the man I aspire to be.
Very nicely done. One of the better style videos that I've ever seen.
What an excellent presentation. Keep up the great work and thank you so much.😊
Wisdom! Thanks for sharing your insight and experience.
After watching all your videos ive chamged my entire wardrobe. Result is amazing. Thank you for all your work 💪🤟♥️
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Recently, my life has come to some dramatic forks. I’ve been forced to take the highroad, as well as some roads less traveled. I feel as if life piled on me all the burnable, flammable materials that it could, lit a match, and burned me to the ground. I am rising from the ashes, though, a new man, with new convictions and ambitions. And with my new life philosophy, I need the style and look to complete the transformation. With that beautiful coin in my pocket, I could never forget the struggle, the challenge and the manifest destiny…
“Like a boy, who’s never been to battle, and is eager to be in war, I threw myself into life still attached to my umbilical cord”
- Me
Thank you for your video very informative blessings to you your family and friends and associates
I really want one of your challenge coins. I'm finally killing it in the gym and my diet is excellent, but I want more than to just look good in a year or two. I want to be a different person and I want the way I look and act to reflect that.
One of your best videos ever, Antonio.
Chock full of great info and advice.
The end was very inspiring.
Many thanks.
Btw, what jacket are you wearing in the video??
It's freakin' beautiful.
Awesome vid as usual. I am a fisherman, but I am a fisherman with style. What is the number one thing to look stylish...it's the same thing I say about the best fishing lures. There is one fishing lure that is the absolute best. It is the one that you have confidence in.
Hey Antonio - Lots of great points. Here is one more: Wear a mechanical watch. It shows you respect and value both time and craftsmanship.
I love your tips and have always liked to dress well but have struggled and your tips really help and now that I'm in my 50s and kids are grown I have more money to spend on my wardrobe so keep up the great work. also, im not a businessman, but just like good style.
Wonderful presentation as always and loaded with useful tips. This video is something that you would keep coming back to for all that it says.
Related to 'fit', and equally important, is proportion.
Your clothes may fit well, but the accessories you wear also need to be suited to your physique and compliment your body type.
If you're slim (like me): make sure your watch is proportionate to your build (i.e. 36-38 mm). A 44-mm watch face might look fine on Schwarzenegger or Stallone, but will look ridiculous on a slimmer wrist.
Choose a dress shoe that is slimmer and lower-profile (i.e. Italian), versus something that's decidedly chunky (i.e. British).
Wear a winter scarf whose dimensions suit your frame (i.e. narrow, as opposed to overly-wide).
The same goes for your briefcase, belt, etc. All of these accessories should be subordinate to the wearer, not the center of attention.
Thank you for all of your professional advice on how to be a man and dress like a man of class. I LOVE to dress up when I can. I am a 15-year Law Enforcement officer and there is a trend to wear "tactical gear" when going to training. Unfortunately, I wear a specific uniform every day. I feel by following the trend, it's lazy and just fits in. I take opportunities, like law enforcement training, to be a man and dress like a man. I feel proud of myself when I dress like a man. You're absolutely right when someone dresses well, people take you more seriously as you're an expert in the field. I strive to be a man of class by wearing appropriate clothing styles for my body and occasion.
Thank you again for all of your advice.
I always appreciate your videos.
Thank you
In 2024, health and wealth are the goals I've been working out every day (mma, weights and yoga for flexibility) I've been watching your videos and taking notes! As my body started taking shape I've been buying the staple pieces that you recommend for my body type thank you
This is really good advice, just be yourself, you can dress in just about anything and if you just own it with confidence you'll have to swagger and Ooolala touch for the crowd.
I work in infra construction man. Sometimes realy dirty heavy work. But in freetime i realy like to dress with style, these videos have help me to choose my clothing style better.
I remember bumping into you a few years ago and it was cool! As someone staring a fragrance and wine line I find myself really drawn to anything pertaining to lifestyle. Your videos have really made me much more mindful in what colors i choose and what goes with my complexion. Thank you! As someone who wants to attract major deals in wine and perfume I love this 🔥🔥🔥🏆👊🏾
Very interesting, good luck!
What's the name of your line?
@@Swashbuckler9x for wine it’s blissful memories by Kayles and for fragrances it’s Kayles fragrances. Kayles Enterprises is my main brand
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Godspeed
Awesome advice as always Antonio!
Asking anyone here: I feel like I might be a little ahead of my time here but have just started college in a town where dressing well is incredibly out of place/frowned upon. What is the easiest way to slowly ease into dressing well so it might not seem too out of place. Or recommendations of outfits that would suit college well.
It's ok to be different, specially when doing it with class. I would start with a dark blue suit, then a grey or charcoal. Star to mix and match them. Get some colorful pocket squares to get some pop. Then you can build up with some more stylish suit colors such as purple, reds, etc.
The most important rule is to make sure that they fit your body style. Italian cut with hampered pants is probably the best look for college since it makes you look young.
Learn this stuff if you need it, but honestly, you're right, it's out of place in almost all situations and makes you look ridiculous most of the time. Figure out a bad ass casual look you like instead. And, definitely wear fragrances.
Jacob Star little by little & if you have the opportunity in the future try to go to a different place or State but not Democrats 😊 states..
God bless you 🙏
Huge value add…all your content is…thanks so much for the great words of advice!
Great advice for public speaking and nailing a presentation!
I just love suits! When i wear one it always straightens my back and i walk "taller" more "confident" There is a saying which i will never forget and it goes: "What lingerie is to a woman, is suits for a man" Stay classy everyone ;-)
Great content. I'm 59 and have tried to dress sophisticated but it's not always easy. Do you have color and style charts? For example, best shirt colors to go with different pant colors, to go with blazer colors. Then different shoe must haves and different colors there.
Good job with being unique and not repetitive Antonio!
Appreciate all the great info and work you put into your videos to help men look great! I have a question regarding color choices for skin tones that are red/pink in the face. What do you recommend? (BTW I am light/med hair tone but hoping to get a response for the dark-haired red-faced men also! Thank you!
Also good pro tip for men that most never understand is never wear a just a tie and collard shirt alone without a sports jacket and or blazer, too many guys today are completely skipping the jacket yet opting to go with the tie, sure some outfits or events might call for it but generally speaking your better going without the tie and doing a nice dress shirt and jacket together vs skipping the jacket and going with the shirt and tie only, it's not a good look and alot of guys think dressing up for an event means simply a white collared shirt and tie yet completely forget the jacket, especially since most guys today are ditching the full suit so it's a hodge podge of mismatched shirts and bottoms.
I love the fact that you and Aaron Marino from Alpha M channel hang out together.
its that time where im 6hrs away from the holiday party and im watching antonio on style. you are god sent
Great advise .I believe in all of what you said, your class act ! 👍🏼
Thanks, Antonio.
Good manners and behavior. That matters most to me.
I like the navy blue and from your other video you mentioned you also like it. At least I don't feel alone liking this colour