Doctor REACTS to Scrubs | Psychiatrist Analyzes "My Five Stages" | Dr Elliott

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    I haven't done a Doctor REACTS/Doctor ANALYZES video on Scrubs for ages! I'm watching "My Fives Stages" which surprise, surprise, is all about grief. I talk about why this notion of the five stages of grief is wrong and oversimplistic, and about the wonderful role that palliative care teams can provide to patients in hospital. Scrubs is usually one of the most accurate medical shows out there. I'll forgive them for peddling the five stages stuff.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 158

  • @Harri_James
    @Harri_James 2 роки тому +121

    The 5 stages of grief were originally the 5 stages of dying which was based on a lot of research, observing and interviewing the dying. I personally think in the iteration it makes a lot of sense. That was what on Death and Dying was about. She did write later work applying those stages to the grieving process but she also said she never meant it to be a linear or predictable model and she regretted writing it in a way that didn't make that clear.

  • @gigiobb
    @gigiobb 2 роки тому +141

    Season 8 episode 2 is a fantastic episode to put into comparison to this one. It shows JD dealing with the same topic of death and being there for a person in their last moments but now JD is much more experienced. It shows how he grew as a doctor and how topics that he had trouble in the past dealing with are much more smoothly handed.

    • @glasstumble1677
      @glasstumble1677 2 роки тому +6

      Is this the one where JD and turk are with the dying man?

    • @werwolfoga5916
      @werwolfoga5916 2 роки тому +5

      @@glasstumble1677 yes

    • @timlicht2670
      @timlicht2670 2 роки тому +12

      Came here to say this! That episode does a *significantly* better job talking about grief and the end-of-life process.

    • @mtneubelt
      @mtneubelt 2 роки тому +7

      I agree, while this episode cracks me up "My Last Words" handles death in a much more mature way. I really, really enjoy that episode. May be in top 10 scrubs for me.

    • @juriepica1174
      @juriepica1174 2 роки тому +2

      I agree with this so much!

  • @CommonInternetLurker
    @CommonInternetLurker 2 роки тому +86

    Back in 2012 my brother died from cardiac arrest related to cancer, and as we were all gathered around his bed saying our goodbyes, the ICU nurse was crying along side all of us. She didn't know my brother. She only knew him as an unconscious patient for 3 days, but the fact that she cried told me that she was a very compassionate person. I know a lot of people don't like to see medical professionals show emotion, but for me a nurse or doctor who cries alongside a grieving family they barely know shows me how much they care.

  • @roselover411
    @roselover411 2 роки тому +29

    Part of what makes grief hard is that it *isn't* a linear progression. Sometimes you can think you've gotten past the worst of it and then it comes up behind you out of nowhere months down the road and it feels like you're falling apart all over again. Grief to me is a more cyclical process than something straight forward.

  • @hannalowercase5928
    @hannalowercase5928 2 роки тому +21

    i love your facial reactions so much lmao when you roll your eyes at the innacuracies

  • @taliatalia4595
    @taliatalia4595 2 роки тому +45

    Ahh after a day of studying coming home and seeing that Dr. Elliott posted a video: delightful🥰

    • @ilikereason
      @ilikereason 2 роки тому +3

      I'm hoping that he does many more videos on Hannibal (TV series). Hopefully he watches the entire show on his own. There are A LOT of scenes with therapy sessions. There are even many therapy sessions between Hannibal and his own psychiatrist.
      We find out later that she is actually well aware of who Hannibal is but she walks a fine line because she doesn't want to end up on the other end.

    • @nftbandit9645
      @nftbandit9645 2 роки тому +1

      @@ilikereason I really hope he does. There’s so much to unpack in that show. One of my favorites!

    • @ilikereason
      @ilikereason 2 роки тому

      @@nftbandit9645 Same. Especially for a psychiatrist as perceptive as he is, I think he would fall in love with the show and then he would even understand the "Fannibals".
      Hannibal has his own psychiatrist and we get to see several therapy sessions between the two. He would love that.

  • @mschrisfrank2420
    @mschrisfrank2420 2 роки тому +13

    Watching the UA-cam channel Ask A Mortician has really helped me get more comfortable with death and grief.

    • @michaelap8563
      @michaelap8563 2 роки тому +1

      I loved her collab with and Dr Mike

    • @zkarebear
      @zkarebear 2 роки тому +3

      Yes!! So much of end of life planning terrified me where I could even think about it without becoming inconsolable. Caitlin’s videos completely revolutionized my attitude.

    • @maggiepie8810
      @maggiepie8810 2 роки тому +1

      Same, was just going to say that.

  • @berxsol
    @berxsol 2 роки тому +2

    Man I could watch you review all 100 (aprox) episodes of scrubs and I would still want more

  • @theatrelover9920
    @theatrelover9920 2 роки тому +19

    Thank you for clarifying about the 5 stages of grief, my dad died last month and it's the most awful thing I've ever been through, I thought something was wrong when I didn't go through the anger and bargaining phase, I wasn't even really in denial either, I think I'm only starting to fully accept it now and it hits me fresh every day, knowing that he's gone and never coming back, I will never forget standing outside the church, shaking and sobbing as my dad's coffin was unloaded from the hearse, and I've lost so much sleep over the picture of his coffin being carried into the graveyard by his sons, brothers and friends.

    • @liplaysgames5371
      @liplaysgames5371 2 роки тому +4

      I'm sorry for your loss. May your dad's memory be a blessing

  • @Jurgan6
    @Jurgan6 2 роки тому +23

    My “favorite” episode about grief was in the Clueless TV show, where Cher went through the five Kubler-Ross stages after getting a bad haircut. It was so dumb.
    Still holding out for a video on Crazy Ex-Girlfriend season 3 episode 6: “Josh is Irrelevant.”

    • @DoctorElliottCarthy
      @DoctorElliottCarthy  2 роки тому +10

      There may be another crazy ex vid coming v soon as soon 😉

    • @AskForDoodles
      @AskForDoodles Рік тому +1

      It may be dumb, but it's a nice example of grief occurring in small amounts in our everyday lives, not just the major tragedies.

  • @Adeodatus100
    @Adeodatus100 2 роки тому +5

    I worked in palliative care 1997-2015 and I met soooo many Dr Coxes in that time! All "Here's a problem, let's fix it" instead of "Here's a life, let's help the person live it." Towards the end it was getting kind of boring being told "all doctors are trained in palliative care now", with scant evidence that that was actually the case.

  • @BloodHoneySin
    @BloodHoneySin 2 роки тому +2

    I am definitely due for a Scrubs binge.

  • @closetmonster3790
    @closetmonster3790 2 роки тому +4

    watching ur channel feels like receiving a hug or smt

  • @Old_Joseph
    @Old_Joseph Рік тому +1

    Thank you for mentioning the K-Ross stages misinformation, the concept is so pervasive yet so unscientific

  • @deeanna8448
    @deeanna8448 2 роки тому +3

    The background on their relationship with this patient can be found on Season 5, episode 12. It is titled "My Cabbage."
    She was everyone's favorite patient

  • @helenzebcharles
    @helenzebcharles 2 роки тому +9

    I have only recently discovered your channel and as a mental health advocate I am absolutely loving it. I would love to see you do a reaction video to the film As Good As It Gets.

  • @LioKaufman
    @LioKaufman 2 роки тому +4

    i would love to hear more about actual scientifically supported methods for coping with grief.

  • @qienna6677
    @qienna6677 2 роки тому +2

    I binged Scrubs sooooooo often, I love it

  • @katarinasutherlin
    @katarinasutherlin 2 роки тому +8

    Just wanted to let you know that I’m a psych major starting my second semester of junior year and you’ve really motivated me to keep going even tho I’m tired. Thank you so much for your videos I’m learning so much, I’ve been binging them the past week haha! Please don’t stop making videos! From USA 🇺🇸

  • @user-um4hi9bc2k
    @user-um4hi9bc2k 2 роки тому +12

    you should watch season 8 episode 2. its kinda similar its another episode about a patient death, but its later in the series when JD is more experienced. its a really beautiful episode imo you should def check it out

    • @travisbuschette8609
      @travisbuschette8609 2 роки тому

      If that's the episode I'm thinking of, I agree, that is an amazing episode. One of the best of season 8

  • @peadarruane6582
    @peadarruane6582 9 місяців тому

    When my father was passing, I remember I was dealing with several doctors. My father went into hospital with some breathing issues, and it was found that he had a large lung tumour. The consultant I was dealing with at the first hospital was a real ass in my opinion. Firstly he kicked both my sister out of the room, when he broke the news to my dad, leaving him quite scared and feeling isolated when he found out. Secondly he gave the impression that there was some manner of treatment available, giving me a sliver of false hope as you mentioned. My dad was transferred to another hospital, where the palliative consultant that talked to myself came out very bluntly about my dad's prognosis, which obviously upset me, and he was so understanding and apologetic for upsetting me, which I told him not to be, as the truth is exactly what I wanted to hear. He was so kind and caring, while being totally professional and upfront at the same time. The difference between the two doctors couldn't have been further apart.
    The palliative team in the final hospital was so wonderful and caring, and made the process as painless for both my dad and my family as was possible.

  • @jessicakelly1634
    @jessicakelly1634 2 роки тому +5

    Loved this video, (and courtney act on the mantel this time). Id love to see you analyse the episode where its Turks first Christmas and he loses his faith after seeing so much death

  • @Teeklin
    @Teeklin 2 роки тому +5

    I'd love to see you react to the pilot for The United States of Tara with the amazing Toni Collette playing someone with DID. Would love to see how accurate you think it is and what's played up for television. Really underrated little series that seems relevant to your channel. You should put it on the list!

  • @MRCelSynap
    @MRCelSynap 2 роки тому +1

    Season 3, Episode 14 would be one of the best Scrubs episodes I can think of, as Dr Cox goes through the loss of his friend, talking to him through the episode until the funeral

  • @hannalowercase5928
    @hannalowercase5928 2 роки тому +7

    i absolutely love your "doctor reacts" episodes!! i hope you consider watching the episode "the stinson missile crisis" from how i met your mother, robin has to attend court-mandated therapy and there's a lot to react to in that episode in regards to pyschiatry!

  • @sadhbhpearse7972
    @sadhbhpearse7972 2 роки тому +1

    A year into being widowed, I’m still angry majority of the time

  • @alliem8700
    @alliem8700 2 роки тому +1

    There's an episode (My Jiggly Ball) that mentions using euphemistic language to tell a patient they're dying.
    Keith : Nailed it!
    J.D. : Good job man! What did you say?
    Keith : Well, I just told him there's nothing more we can do right now.
    Turk and J.D. : Ohhhhh!
    Keith : What?
    J.D. : "Nothing more we can do right now" implies there may be something we can do tomorrow.
    Keith : Well, I also said we'd make him as comfortable as possible.
    Dr. Christopher Turk : Sounds like someone's getting new pillows and a comforter.
    Keith : That man knows he's doomed!
    [the patient happily waves at them]
    J.D. : Yeeeah, I'm gonna need you to go back in there and use some form of the words die, dead, dying, deadsies, deadwood. Your choice.

  • @reginastorrie885
    @reginastorrie885 2 роки тому +4

    Yay! A Dr Elliott video day! One of the best parts of the week! 😊

  • @youleeahnah
    @youleeahnah 2 роки тому +2

    I loved your reactions. I really appreciate how you are able to comment on everything, including mistakes in such a non- judgemental way! So much good stuff to learn! Thank you 👌

  • @uncleron9481
    @uncleron9481 2 роки тому +1

    Just excellent. Thanks.

  • @andreachaparro3742
    @andreachaparro3742 2 роки тому +1

    Speaking of detachment, SCRUBS has an episode where they time the time the doctors spend with each patient. You should see it

  • @abbyhuntley3171
    @abbyhuntley3171 2 роки тому +5

    Hey Dr Carthy, I was wondering whether you might make a reaction video to Episode 18 Series 16 of Greg’s Anatomy called Give A Little Bit. It’s got a really interesting combination of safeguarding and mental health issues covered. Obviously it has the typical Grey’s melodrama but I think it’s be a really great one for your channel.

  • @ljmerritt7376
    @ljmerritt7376 2 роки тому +1

    I work in care of the elderly, so naturally this is something I have seen a few times, although most often our service users pass away in hospital, I have both been the one to find someone who’s passed & been present during a natural death. I’ve also done wake shifts where we come to work for the sole purpose of sitting with someone who’s expected to pass, because nobody should have to die alone. I was actually quite surprised in the beginning that it didn’t seem to effect me too much. It’s something I always carry with me, but not as a traumatic event, just a significant one. I care very much about my service users, their comfort & peace of mind are as important to me in death as it is in life, & it’s a privilege to get to know them & their families & to help see them through even their final moments.

  • @michaelap8563
    @michaelap8563 2 роки тому +3

    Anyone else in med school using Dr Elliott's videos to justify not studying for psych exams?
    loved the fairy dust part

  • @nicophill58
    @nicophill58 2 роки тому +1

    Excellent video! I'm glad you are discussing dying and death, it's often a topic folks shy away from but is important to have those discussions. Just as a mention, if you were thinking about more dying/death content you may want to reach out to Caitlin Doughty (her YT channel is Ask A Mortician and its a death-positive space).

  • @charlescannon9588
    @charlescannon9588 Рік тому +1

    You singing the theme song was so cute wtf

  • @daniagadborg2026
    @daniagadborg2026 2 роки тому +3

    Hi Dr. Elliott Carthy. As usual I love your reactions ^^ I hope you had a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year ^^

  • @beehemian
    @beehemian 2 роки тому +10

    You should analyze the movie Session 9!! It's a horror movie, and it has some (questionable) mental illness representation and it'd be cool to see what you think about it.

    • @matthewcrome5835
      @matthewcrome5835 2 роки тому

      Yeah I saw Session 9, and as a horror movie fan, I didn't really like it. It's by the same director of The Machinist, which I think is a better representation of mental health.

  • @alenkapiotrowicz5508
    @alenkapiotrowicz5508 2 роки тому +2

    Always nice to see your videos! Did you think about doing the episode where Jordans brother dies?
    Btw: musician here, you sing lovely, don't be to hard on yourself 😉

  • @katedeans7671
    @katedeans7671 2 роки тому +1

    I much prefer "My Screw Up" - Season 3 episode 14 with Brendan Fraser, as a Scrubs episode dealing with grief

  • @lachiwoods
    @lachiwoods 2 роки тому +1

    love the reaction video... but can we also talk about courtney act in the corner, plus what looks like peter beale and the north korean newsreader in the top?? 😂😂 LOVE IT!

  • @cleothehelpfuljack1057
    @cleothehelpfuljack1057 2 роки тому +1

    The bit where you said. "Quetiapine!" made me laugh. Mostly because that's the medication I am on. Been on it for years.

  • @armpit_farts7327
    @armpit_farts7327 2 роки тому +2

    Im curious about that kind of "silent treatment" thing with therapy. I had a therapist recently who would do that...... Stay silent for like 10 mins of our session. It made me SOOOOOO uncomfortable, I would just bite my nails/cuticles and not say anything. Is it reasonable that someone doesnt react to that sort of treatment?

    • @blindey
      @blindey 2 роки тому +2

      You have to tailor things to the individual. If something's not working, you shouldn't jus keep doing it. Had you talked about it and how you felt with them?

    • @armpit_farts7327
      @armpit_farts7327 2 роки тому +1

      @@blindey I did! And she still did it out next visit, which is why I actually discontinued treatment with her. It just makes me uncomfortable as an introverted, anxious, depressed person.... It just made me felt like I was being judged, even though I'm sure she wasn't. I also found out that there may be a difference between a "counselor" and a "therapist" . I kinda thought I was going to therapy but was actually going to counseling. Don't truly know if there is actually a difference, but in my experience the counseling felt like "diagnosis" and therapy felt like ...cathartic. which I think is really what I want/need.

  • @MadePramana
    @MadePramana 2 роки тому

    Great video. I am interested to know about the study related to the debriefing that you mentioned at the end of the video. Could you give a reference about the debriefing after death within 48-72 hours?

  • @teesh871
    @teesh871 2 роки тому

    The rne of this was really helpful. Weird timing...I've dealt with death in the hosp before...by my partner just lost his little brother in a strange and very quick, completely unexpected way. He had an accident/ witnessed an accident a few years back/back in 2010 when he was much younger and I've seen so much since then.....both of us have. This time my instinct was 'you dont have to talk about it until you're ready. Please let me know when you are but until then...do what you need to do.' Back about 11 years ago I was a new nurse and a lot younger and tried to make him talk about it and kept reminding him of it...which for a young country Australian man (or anyone) wasn't helpful. This time I asked him 'did you tell your beat friend?' And he said 'no. I can't. They will keep checking on me and I can't handle it.' He eventually does tell me...he'll pause the movie we were watching and chat. But yeh....small bursts that he can handle is working

  • @altofmoleperson
    @altofmoleperson 2 роки тому +1

    Broke: Grief is 5 stages, those being denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance
    Woke: Grief takes many forms, and can last longer than some people will tell you. It differs from person to person, so a simple metric like “5 stages and then you’re done grieving” is NOT very effective at encapsulating the difficult process that is grief.
    I remember when my grandpa died, I thought there was a time limit for how log I could grieve. My friends seemed fed up with me continuing to talk about it, and it seemed too painful to talk to my mom about. Because I never talked about my grief, it would sneak up on me, and I ended up developing depression and an anxiety disorder. I believe that if I had addressed my feelings and maybe asked my parents if I could go into counselling, that I could have processed better.
    Sorry for the rant, grief is something that I’ve had a lot of experience with.

  • @sarah2301
    @sarah2301 2 роки тому

    I love Scrubs! You should react to something with Dr. Clock (start of Season 4, maybe episode 1 or 7?)

  • @glowingtrashpanda
    @glowingtrashpanda 2 роки тому

    You’ve GOTTA do the scrubs episode My Screw Up!!!!!!!!! Loads to unpack in that one

  • @Cold-Blooded-Cabin
    @Cold-Blooded-Cabin 2 роки тому +1

    These kind of reactions always interest me. It’s clearly a fairly heavy thing to breakdown and give medical knowledge about . Your take was excellent you didn’t shy away from the elephant in the room. Great video my friend
    Thank you :)

  • @blackcobrea32
    @blackcobrea32 2 роки тому +1

    love to see you react to season 8 episode 2.

  • @jeremymiller4280
    @jeremymiller4280 2 роки тому

    Any chance you could do the episode of House where they treat a psychopath that needs an organ transplant? Love your videos.

  • @levisixx7545
    @levisixx7545 2 роки тому

    You should definitely check out one flew over the cuckoo's nest
    I just love Billy's character

  • @MasterShiruko
    @MasterShiruko 2 роки тому

    Dunno if anyone covered it, but the episode before explained how she was in the clear and going home, she was infected and that is why it's hitting so hard because she was in the clear before being made sick.

  • @TheLoPresti
    @TheLoPresti 2 роки тому

    You should analyze the scene in Ace Pet detective when he pretends to be a former football player that has CTE head trauma, dementia and probably other stuff, to gather information at a mental health center.

  • @mehlover
    @mehlover 2 роки тому

    Dang, I forgot how I liked that episode. And introduced me to thw five stages of death (before thw Robot Chicken one with the Giraffe). If you do more scrubs, can you do My Long Goodbye. It's about death too, and Carla's experience is similar what Dr. Cox went through when Ben died

  • @jeffbrehove2614
    @jeffbrehove2614 2 роки тому +1

    There's a reason that Hedrick is hated at Sacred Heart

  • @Spayroe
    @Spayroe 2 роки тому

    Episodes I would love to see you do if you haven't (there are a few, I too love Scrubs, lol):
    Season 5, Episode 20 - My Lunch and the second part (S5, E21) My Fallen Idol
    Season 3, Episode 14 - My Screw Up
    Season 5, Episode 18 - My New Suit
    Sorry they're all out of order. Thanks for the content you make.

  • @KrisHe1
    @KrisHe1 2 роки тому +1

    I'm studying specialized nursing, and before christmas we had a clinical rotation with focus on dementia so worked in a nursing home for 3 months. One resident died while I was there, but that was very expected and idk it made me more of a supporter of assisted suicide because the person was in such bad shape leading up to start of full palliative care it was awful.
    But one situation I struggled a lot with, was one resident who already at 24 had a massive stroke, and had a high risk of stroke, when the doctor came for the weekly visit said the blood tests were bad. Their cholesterol had increased a lot after stopping the medications. The person was in their early 70s, but had very severe dementia. But also very phsycially well. However because the person and their family had agreed on a DNR, the doctor could not put the person on cholesterol medications without permission from the relatives who were assigned to help make health decisions, bc cholesterol medications are considered life-longing medications. In other words, it could give this person more time/prolong their life. Which with a DNR-status is not something the doctor can decide to do. He said he felt very uncomfortable about it, bc he KNEW the person was very sick bc of dementia, like very advanced stages, but at the same time very present and idk it was pretty confusing at times bc they were so much THERE while also having no ability for short-term memory almost, and working memory was basically non existent. But the doctor said with this person's history and current blood tests, chances of clots was VERY high, so felt wrong NOT to start the medications without second thoughts. It was weird, bc when I think of dementia and most people in nursing homes, I think of old people... early 70s is not OLD by today's standards. My uncle is about to turn 70... but it became the family's choice to act on what they would think was their parent's wish.. they ended up starting treatment, but it is an ethical dilemma.. and I was surprised by how so many of the "younger" residents were so much worse than the older ones... like average age in the unit was 80 yrs old... my grandmother is 86, and still goes traveling all over Europe on those specialized group-trips. With people my parents age, but bc it's like a scheduled group trip she can travel alone without being alone the entire trip. And she really enjoys those adventures. Then the people I was helping, they were in majority younger than her... and barely hanging on, no idea where they were, what was happrning or who was around them... it's a cruel disease. My grandfather, husband of my only living grandparent, died of Alzheimers (well he was VERY sick at the end bc of it, then contracted pneumonia and died), and I know my grandmother in a way felt a relief. And I don't blame her. He was so sick by the end, and could be so cruel and he didn't get a spot in nursing home until 3 weeks before his death. My grandmother was basically locked up in their house because she could not leave him but also not bring him anywhere... it was horrible.. death is hard, and working in health care you often face some really shitty ethical dilemmas. But I am a firm believer in assisted suicide when you know it will only get worse, yet it is still a tough feeling. Even as a "bystander", I struggled a lot with some of the limits to what we could do to help... death is a weird thing. And just because I would not want to live a life like that, anxious and confused, who am I to say someone should die? Idk hard shit

    • @michaelmerenda3158
      @michaelmerenda3158 2 роки тому +2

      I guess you just gotta hope your kids and siblings or other family actually listen to you, otherwise it's just a sad situation. I mean my sister already told me about updating my facebook if i were to suddenly pass away and I'm in my youth still. I was thinking WTH my sister is nuts, but I'll never tell her that you only get the one family so gotta do my best to not make them feel disrepected while still being clear about your wishes/expectations.
      Honestly though, i hope you can be the perfect liason for your family as they age I've been planning to do it for my parents/great aunts/uncles as best i can.

    • @michaelmerenda3158
      @michaelmerenda3158 2 роки тому +2

      @kristine heen i agree with you, what gives us the right to say someone should live or die. I think it's pretty weird, but i would rather there be a choice from someone who actually gives a shit about the patient(doctor,nurse,family,friend) than just some doctor selling themselves to gullible family and getting away with malpractice(happened to my dad and mom) the surgeon killed my mom when i was 10 cause my dad was convinced by him he would take care of my mom's brain aneurysm. He fucked up and she was on a machine for 1 month and I'll never talk to her again. I'm almost 30 years old and it still feels like yesterday so weird

    • @KrisHe1
      @KrisHe1 2 роки тому +1

      @@michaelmerenda3158 I'm so sorry you went through that. Health care should never be the easy decision like that. It should be hard, mentally. For all involved of staff. The moment you stop thinking of all options, the dilemmas, the power disadvantages etc - you are a bad medical provider tbh. It should never be an easy decision or action even if you do it all the time, if that makes sense? And never take advantage of vulnerable people who will take your word no matter what.. Like idk, it's a really rough field tbh, I really felt so uncomfortable bc you don't fully know how someone is actually feeling?
      And for sure, talking about death with your family is weirdly important. I told my grandma that she needs to prepare a "don't like"-list in case she ends up in a elder care facility at any time unable to express it. Bc we make all food, choose all activities etc. If we don't know what you don't like to eat, activities you hate - you'll probably be fed it every day and taken to church despite not being religious basically bc "it is a normal activity for the elderly"... My grandma hates religion, hates it! But there are a lot of things I don't know for sure if she likes or not. So having a list by her will benefit her. And I know where she stands in life prolonging medical help etc. Same with my parents. We talk about it, and it's so important. Because one day it will be too late to get the answers from them, and you'll be there all alone having to make decisions not knowing what they would like. I am 27, and basically have already told everyone what I want if something were to happen to me. Better prepared than leaving them scared of doing something wrong?

    • @michaelmerenda3158
      @michaelmerenda3158 2 роки тому +1

      @@KrisHe1 that's a good way to do it i agree. Better to communicate it now just in case of whatever happening. And thanks yeah it's a weird life lesson i learned at a young age. Cant really trust people's words no matter how well intentioned and there are no guarantees in life. Anyway, just so long as your family is on the same page live your best life outside of work and i know you will cheers :) gotta keep notching off the bucket list haha

    • @michaelmerenda3158
      @michaelmerenda3158 2 роки тому +1

      @@KrisHe1 I'm 29, and i told my sisters as well. I used to want to be an organ donor when i was a teenager, but idk anymore. What do you think about that

  • @jenhalbert3001
    @jenhalbert3001 Рік тому

    SCRUBS is one of my favorite shows ever, as far as I'm concerned you can do sll of them

  • @WastelandsNomad2277
    @WastelandsNomad2277 Рік тому

    Unsure if you'll see this but I highly recommend the movie, Red Dragon. A prequel to this story, dives into another serial killer.

  • @nobodyimportant7804
    @nobodyimportant7804 5 місяців тому

    I never understood the purpose of grief counseling for someone who will die very soon. Once it happens, it is moot.

  • @agneslorthiois9078
    @agneslorthiois9078 Рік тому +1

    You should react to Fleabag !

  • @caitie226
    @caitie226 2 роки тому

    I would be interested in what’s involved in a good debrief, because I feel like they can easily be unproductive in the wrong hands

  • @katphish30
    @katphish30 2 роки тому

    I can't watch News Radio any more, but it's always nice to see Dave Foley.

  • @aps-pictures9335
    @aps-pictures9335 Рік тому

    I would argue that grief stages are an incredibly useful framework, although of course the order is nonsense. The timeframe is also not short term, but we do see the 5 different stages of grieving over the course of weeks or years in grief (be it loss of any form of identity or relationship). I think you’d be hard challenged to dispute that, and I’ve not seen any convincing literature to the contrary.
    I think pushback comes in simplifying such a complex set of emotions and human behaviour… but if the shoe fits… The danger comes in assuming grief is an isolated, all encompassing experience that shouldn’t be just part of a holistic approach to a client’s ongoing circumstances (missing depression by ignoring other signs).

  • @ptiru0567
    @ptiru0567 2 роки тому +1

    I wish I could add another like for liking ”Scrubs”!

  • @emilytretyak2534
    @emilytretyak2534 2 роки тому

    My Lunch followed by My Fallen Idol, and then My Screw Up are easily the best episodes in the entire series and you should really take a look at them

  • @itai6413
    @itai6413 2 роки тому

    another good episode to review would be How I Met Your Mother s06e14 "Last Words".

  • @thedesertskunk
    @thedesertskunk 2 роки тому

    Great video! I have to say though that seeing your textbook labels mirrored is really distracting for me, I gotta learn to let that go.

  • @jordanferrazza8700
    @jordanferrazza8700 2 роки тому

    Can you review Toast of Tinseltown episode 1?

  • @intothelight5619
    @intothelight5619 2 роки тому +1

    Courtney Act just vibing in the background

  • @london4345
    @london4345 2 роки тому

    Please react to the perks of being a wallflower
    It's a really great movie about being a teenager, depression and abuse

  • @jiffyjoffyy
    @jiffyjoffyy 2 роки тому

    you should analyze the show, Prodigal Son

  • @sonofliberty1
    @sonofliberty1 2 роки тому

    6:57 In another video you say you don't like the approach of starting a therapy session with silence but acknowledge it can have the same benefits you mention here.
    Have you changed your mind on this tactic or was your previous opinion based solely on creating a comforting environment for the session ahead and this tactic could be usefull later in a session?

  • @TheLibermania
    @TheLibermania Рік тому

    I'll be honest. I needed 10 seconds to realize what the YMOTANA book in your background is. Why do all the letters (except the N) work perfectly?

  • @83056
    @83056 2 роки тому

    Hey Doc! Greetings from Canada and why are your books upside down. OCD? ;)

    • @DoctorElliottCarthy
      @DoctorElliottCarthy  2 роки тому +2

      No just cheap and film with my phone and the front facing camera 😉

  • @stevenferguson6845
    @stevenferguson6845 2 роки тому

    Could you review One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest

  • @ljmerritt7376
    @ljmerritt7376 2 роки тому

    Oh Mrs Wilks! 😢

  • @OrkarIsberEstar
    @OrkarIsberEstar 2 роки тому +2

    "when someone doesnt appreciate the bad news" well if someone tells me im gonna die im not sure how appreciative im supposed to be XD Uhm...thanks? great?
    I can imagine a suicidal person being happy like "for 20 years i failed at killing myself and now it will finally be over? Hooray!"

  • @debbieporter6581
    @debbieporter6581 2 роки тому +4

    Would u give your views on chronic suicidality? I love your channel. Watch all your vids. Thank you for them.

  • @is.this.really.important
    @is.this.really.important 2 роки тому

    Is there a way to privately leave a message/question?

  • @anthonyjohnson6199
    @anthonyjohnson6199 Рік тому

    "Death is one of the only inevitabilities in life."
    What about taxes?

  • @TheShellbert
    @TheShellbert 2 роки тому

    RadioLab has an AMAZING episode on Elizabeth Cooper Ross.

  • @unicorn3025
    @unicorn3025 2 роки тому

    Hi
    Just curious did you pick my suggestion
    If so
    💖 💖 Thanks so much 💖💖
    I was always curious about 5 stages
    How long does each stages last
    Do the stages get mixed up
    Does the one of the stage last longer then the other stages
    Do you use all the stages or just some
    Thanks 💖
    Next scrubs episode my lunch lady
    Please 🙏
    Sorry 😞 🙇‍♀️

  • @OrkarIsberEstar
    @OrkarIsberEstar 2 роки тому +1

    Now heres something - i am autistic (Aspergers) and work in care for the elderly (geriatry) I am the guy who handles the dead bodies around here cause i genuinely have no issue preparing and moving around corpses, and i never had issues with patients dieing. For me its a purely rational thing - the people who get into the nursing home, i mean come on all of them are gonna die sooner or later in there (or hospitals while under our care) so...i have a hard time relating to collegues that have issues handling the dieing and dead. i mean sure sometimes we know a person for years or even decades before they kick the bucket and form personal relationships, for some death is a blessing for others its really shocking but we knew beforehand how that is going to end.
    And now im wondering if its my autism that causes me to just dont having issues with it like....whatever made the person a person is gone, now its just meat lieing around. Or should i get myself checked for something else? Response of collegues is mixed, on the one hand they are really gratefull that someone does the "uncomfortable" stuff, others are creeped out that i actually like that part of the job (well i get to chill out, when you carry a corpse around nobody is bothering you, you are freed from other duties, get away from the stress, the noise and in special in summer the cellar isnt just silent but nicely cool...^^)

    • @nat3007
      @nat3007 2 роки тому

      It could be I guess even though I knew my dad was sick for a while before he passed it was still upsetting. Everyone is different.

  • @danielstartek9729
    @danielstartek9729 Рік тому

    Doctor I have a scorching case of hemorrhoids what do I do?

  • @DaniDacey
    @DaniDacey Рік тому +1

    In my experience, doctors are just as uncomfortable talking about death as the rest of us. I wish my mother's doctors had been more willing to have certain conversations with us when she was diagnosed; it would have prepped us for the eventual outcome of her disease.

  • @EJproductionsxD
    @EJproductionsxD 2 роки тому +6

    Great video as always!! Please react to My Diagnosis from Crazy ex girlfriend when you get the chance :)

    • @hannalowercase5928
      @hannalowercase5928 2 роки тому +2

      OH, MY GOD, YESSSSSSSS!!!!!!!! this is an extremely interesting song as it clearly shows the impact that not knowing has on one's mental health. that episode altogether is very react-worthy.
      if he is looking for a whole episode to react and not just a song, that one is incredible.

  • @eule1233
    @eule1233 2 роки тому

    I sometimes find it confusing how uncomfortable people are in talking about death. I can't imagine anymore how that felt. I can only tell people that when you stop fearing death and instead see it as your companion, as part of life bot the opposite of life, you will feel more at peace. Talk about how you want your loved ones to treat you body. How do you want your funeral to look. Which intervention do you want. Remember death happens at every age.
    There is a German song that says:
    You can now let the oar out of your tired hands. Your boat knows the way on its own. And the brother of death will be a good guide. There will be no grim reaper there will be no enemy. And even if it's hard to swallow death is friend that means you well. It is comforting that after your time runs out, that saying goodbye and forgiving is a part of life too.
    I hope it helps to remember these lines

  • @onemanwanders
    @onemanwanders 11 місяців тому

    Kubler Ross didn’t write about five stages of grief, she wrote about 5 stages of dying.

  • @Starman_Deluxe
    @Starman_Deluxe 2 роки тому

    Hope you do "dopesick"

  • @fp9204
    @fp9204 2 роки тому

    You use the term "formulating" about Dr Cox, I'm very curious to know what that means in psychiatry?

  • @Kno_Buddy
    @Kno_Buddy 2 роки тому

    You’re talking about outdated by 2022 standards for a show that ran from 2001 to 2010. I thought it ended before I made it to high school let alone junior year, but then again I spent the majority of my life without cable so that kind of skews my memory of shows. An interesting idea for another show on your channel or possibly a separate sub-channel if you feel it doesn’t fit here you could use your training to analyze music. I can easily put together a list for you that would at least cover a few months worth of episodes to get you started.

  • @stevenferguson6845
    @stevenferguson6845 2 роки тому

    Judging from your review of House im going to go with Haloperidol for knocking someone out

  • @tombyrne8657
    @tombyrne8657 2 роки тому

    Why the backwards Blur album cover in the frame?

  • @girliestmammy
    @girliestmammy 2 роки тому

    💖

  • @Emrys91
    @Emrys91 2 роки тому +1

    The lady at the start got ill from a careless Dr who failed to follow H&S guidlines it shows you her getting infected at the end ep that comes befor this.

  • @glasstumble1677
    @glasstumble1677 2 роки тому

    I thought this would be the brendan fraser episode

  • @Rika24
    @Rika24 Рік тому

    Just realized the video is flipped because the words on the books in the background are reversed lol

  • @mholtebeck
    @mholtebeck 2 роки тому +1

    Don't discount yourself. You have a MD. I once had dentist take me to the emergency room as friend. His knowledge of medicine was so much greater than lay people. You're not treating me in an ER, but you know what they are doing.