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    Hi my loves 🦋 In today's video I give you my tips on how to enjoy spending time alone wether your single or in a relationship, the importance of filling up your own cup, how I like to spend my time alone and what to do when you STILL feel alone after doing all the "self care/filling up your cup" activities. Hope you enjoy 💗
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  • @shaniyadunchie
    @shaniyadunchie 11 місяців тому +75

    I thought I was weird being a loner in school now I love it. If I knew then what I know now I would keep a book with me, listen to podcasts, or practice a new hobby and not be concerned about being left out. Plus I personally believe that God was protecting me from people who weren't supposed to be in my life because I wasn't as picky about who I let into my space. Whew! Growing pains 😅

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  11 місяців тому +8

      Girl yes 🔥 thank you for sharing, I know there will be girls who read this comment and feel so validated 🤍

    • @MalailaHarrison-wp2qu
      @MalailaHarrison-wp2qu 11 місяців тому

      🧡💚🤍

  • @carsoncrouch7895
    @carsoncrouch7895 10 місяців тому

    I love the view from your condo! 😍😍

  • @user-xu9nm6ke2e
    @user-xu9nm6ke2e 11 місяців тому

    Wooow elicia! This help me a lot thank you so much 🤍🤍🤍🤍

  • @breannagraham4170
    @breannagraham4170 11 місяців тому +18

    I can realte to this so much. I am always feeling lonely because I have no friends but I know it's because I am toxic to be around. So I am on a self work journey to become less toxic and rid myself of the negativity that is pushing everyone away. It's been hard. But this video really spoke to me. Ty!

    • @nthusengmokhesi908
      @nthusengmokhesi908 9 місяців тому

      I love how self aware you are, all the best on your journey ❤

  • @Sandyficslick
    @Sandyficslick 11 місяців тому +14

    Im so glad to be finally be in the time of my life where I have no problem spending time alone. In fact, i crave it at least once a week. As someone who's been single most of my life, its something that has to be dealt with. But it used to be tough. I would wish for the guy i liked to reach out to me and check on me or wish for friends to think of me when i am alone and it would feel the worst when no one is reaching out and you're all alone. But now, when you're not in that mindset of waiting or being desperate you feel good, you feel powerful and comfortable spending time by yourself and getting things done and learning about yourself. Thank you for bringing up this topic. As a hopeless romantic, i havent given up on finding love but still enjoy learning to be more than happy to enjoy my own company.

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  11 місяців тому +4

      Awww this is amazing. I love your mindset around this!! 🥰🤍

  • @jessicacortez2354
    @jessicacortez2354 11 місяців тому +10

    watched this while doing my makeup even though I barely do my makeup decided to show up for myself and otw to a long study session 💞 love your videos!!

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  11 місяців тому +2

      Aww I love this so much for you 🥹🥰🤍

  • @brimarieeee
    @brimarieeee 11 місяців тому +11

    What a treat, you’re killing it girl! Have a fabulous weekend! 🫶🏼✨

  • @librarenaissance
    @librarenaissance 11 місяців тому +10

    Haven't watched it yet but this is godsent! Yesterday was my 35th birthday and I never felt so alone, cried the entire day. Will see it now! ❤

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  11 місяців тому +3

      Awww babe :( I know the feeling. Sending you so much love and happy belated birthday.. 🫶🏼 this feeling will pass 🤍

    • @librarenaissance
      @librarenaissance 11 місяців тому

      @@eliciagoguen thanks girl!

    • @amandaw4945
      @amandaw4945 11 місяців тому

      Cried on my 31st and felt so alone then had a dream a few months ago that I was crying on my 32nd birthday! 😢

  • @rashidahwhite6905
    @rashidahwhite6905 11 місяців тому +6

    Store your avocados in a glass bowl of water in the refrigerator…they will stay fresh for weeks.

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  11 місяців тому +1

      Interesting 🤔 thanks 🫶🏼

    • @rachelraeeee
      @rachelraeeee 11 місяців тому +1

      WHATTTT !?!? I needed to know this forever ago thank u!!

  • @carsoncrouch7895
    @carsoncrouch7895 10 місяців тому +2

    I used to be so comfortable with my alone time and even cherished it. Then I met my first love/bf and we were inseparable. I just broke up with him and it’s been so hard to be alone again. This video gave me so much strength and encouragement that I can get back to that place again. Thank you!

  • @imaishaa
    @imaishaa 11 місяців тому +3

    I choose me bye :)

  • @kashishagrawal3716
    @kashishagrawal3716 11 місяців тому +5

    You've been so active latelyyy. Damn you're working so hard🧿♥️ Alsoo sis can youuu make a videoo on how to actually enjoy the process of creating your dream life. Sometimes we get too stuck up in our daydreaming and we forget to love the ups and downs of journey ie. Life essentially. I wanna be more open to life and not try to control it 🥺🫲

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  11 місяців тому +1

      Thank you babe 🤍 and yes! I definitely already have content on that, but can definitely make more 🫶🏼🤍

    • @kashishagrawal3716
      @kashishagrawal3716 11 місяців тому

      @@eliciagoguen okayy I'll watch the old videos in the meantime. But firstt let's watch this oneee🩷🩷🩷🩷 thankyouuu for replying eliciaa. You're so humble and so sweet.

  • @jessicajackson1879
    @jessicajackson1879 11 місяців тому +3

    I could listen to you all day! I love your content girl., thank you

  • @MirleneFevrier
    @MirleneFevrier 11 місяців тому +3

    I would like to see more videos like this. 💛💚💛

  • @sydneyy495
    @sydneyy495 11 місяців тому +2

    Two videos in the span of 5 days? Yay I’m so excited I love your videos they make my day💕🥺

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  11 місяців тому

      I’m so glad you noticed 🥹🥰 Love you 🤍

  • @edwardleecaliforniausa
    @edwardleecaliforniausa 11 місяців тому +2

    Good morning happy Friday morning and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter and I'm proud of you and I enjoy your channel

  • @Discoqueen49
    @Discoqueen49 11 місяців тому +1

    This came at the right time. I find when the weather starts changing I get less social and more isolated, and although I’ve lived in Toronto for 14 years now, I find it’s a really hard city to make friends in and I’ve been feeling really disconnected and like I don’t belong here, like I don’t have community.

  • @user-xu9nm6ke2e
    @user-xu9nm6ke2e 11 місяців тому +1

    But elicia we want more videos like this! And specifically we want you explaining last point when you talk about energetic wall! That’s shook me 😵‍💫

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  11 місяців тому

      I got you babe 🫶🏼🫶🏼🫶🏼

  • @nikoleta0gnr
    @nikoleta0gnr 11 місяців тому +1

    So proud every time you mention greek yogurt and feta. Kisses from Greece 🇬🇷🥰

  • @stacyborisova4464
    @stacyborisova4464 11 місяців тому +1

    I just discovered you and I felt the vibe, your words influence me
    Then i realised that i have a bday on the same day as youuu 😅🥰

  • @bee_lecwidi
    @bee_lecwidi 11 місяців тому +1

    You make me a better person , like you just make sense man 😂❤

  • @gbarr18
    @gbarr18 11 місяців тому

    This is so hard for me. I wish I had mornings off to do what I want to do. I literally work from 7a-3:30pm every weekday and I feel like I have to rush home to do all the things I have to do before the day runs out. I try to do things alone on weekends, but not having a car and not being able to drive makes it so much more difficult. Spending time alone inside is okay until it gets a little too repetitive 😔 I feel like I don’t have time to for myself when all I do is work and do chores after work ☹️

  • @BriBorgersen
    @BriBorgersen 11 місяців тому

    I hate when hoodies ride up onto my neck.. I cut like a 2-4 inch slit down the center so it won’t strangle me lol

  • @analiseramirez3864
    @analiseramirez3864 11 місяців тому

    its hard because i literally hate going out but i feel like im missing out when i dont

  • @F4R4DISE
    @F4R4DISE 11 місяців тому

    Needed to hear exactly. this. 😤❤️ Thank uuu!!

  • @gardenofdeb
    @gardenofdeb 11 місяців тому +1

    You are my fav! 💚

  • @tayaaliz4088
    @tayaaliz4088 11 місяців тому +2

    Omg hellooooo

  • @marcelle6699
    @marcelle6699 11 місяців тому

    I'm going through something like this... I'm living by myself, in another state, working remotely... i'm far from my family, single for a couple of years, i have Just a few friends that I have no frequent contact and, since I moved here, not doing much around other than working from home. But I like my company... The problem is that I'm enjoying the peace of being alone and that is making me a lonely person... And It makes me feel that I'm getting weird 😂 and losing opportunities of having fun in life..
    (Writting from 🇧🇷)

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  11 місяців тому +1

      Maybe this is just the phase you’re in right now my love, things can always change 🥰🤍

  • @alexisKa-night
    @alexisKa-night 10 місяців тому

    One of the best parts of this video for me is when you mentioned Organic Olivia! 🤗

  • @imaishaa
    @imaishaa 11 місяців тому

    Lot's of love form India keep rocking❤

  • @Billy33753
    @Billy33753 11 місяців тому

    For my night routine I like to meditate, listen to podcasts and read a good book

  • @miaomiaou_
    @miaomiaou_ 11 місяців тому

    Yay I love Parade! Love the video 😊

  • @itsppi
    @itsppi 11 місяців тому

    Girl!! how tall are u?

  • @daniellas7069
    @daniellas7069 11 місяців тому

    i love you!

  • @RemiReagan
    @RemiReagan 11 місяців тому

    Sooo true about the avocados

  • @RemiReagan
    @RemiReagan 11 місяців тому

    Those bralettes are SO CUTE! I’m definitely going to order some

    • @eliciagoguen
      @eliciagoguen  11 місяців тому

      You totally should 🥹 honestly soo comfortable 🥰