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Stop. I am literally laying unmotivated and sad about how alone I feel AND THEN I SEE THIS NOTIFICATION wow I needed this.
same
You too?😭😭😭😭
I just searched exact videos like this today and then she posts this😮
We’re all together in this rn?🤝🏼
@@FirstName-xt1gkYeah😭😭😭
I feel like the longer I wait, the bigger the blessing that I’ll get ❤
I want Tam to live on my shoulder as my fairy godmother, stopping me from making bad decisions. THAT'S THE DREAM
i was listening to what was i made for because i was sad. i saw this on my home page and pressed play. the song paused, the video started, and then the song started playing in the video 😭😭😭
Thanks! I needed to hear this😊
I love you. I love your energy, your perspective on things. I don't want to play the victim when I'm not ok, I'm searching for help and you are so helpful🫶🏼
PERFECTTT TIMINGG
I just unfollowed and removed my crush cuz he kept ghosting me and yesterday when I spoke to him first (again) he was like “what do you want?”. Honestly I’m so done lol but it kinda hurt so here I am watching this.
9:17 I want to listen this
Thank you ❤️
I needed this very much 🤌
Thank u tam:)
Babe's back❤
Love you tam
I literally cried while watching this video- I just left a toxic friend group and am now alone in the school bathrooms half the time like a stereotypical teen movie. I watched this video and it made me shed a tear- Tam, you’ve given me hope and made me genuinely start to feel comfortable with being alone.
as someone who's been through the exact same situation - trust me, it gets better. you'll either find a lovely, energetically positive friend group, or you'll be content by yourself. much love
I've been there. It'll get better. Keep to yourself and work on you. Weight lifting kept me sane during a similar experience.
I m literally dealing w the same situation trust me it is just for good!
been there for a long time like this as i moved to so many schools, but trust me its for your good. maybe rn it doesnt feel right but it gets better, either u learn to do things by ur own and u have yourself or you will get good people later. hoping for positive things and love for you 💗
I spent half of my year alone too. 🫂🫂
Everything happens for a reason guys. Hard periods of loneliness (it can be positive for many btw) teaches you, that you only got yourself at the end of the day. Everything whats meant for you will find you, but you have to find and know yourself first, without other people influences.
You can say that a thousand times, being alone makes us re-discover our purpose in life even though it hurts sometimes.
I've never seen wiser comment. It really shifted my reality. Like reaaally. Tysm i hope every good thing in life finds you
Who's cutting onions?
"What was I made for" always makes me emotional. Having it play in the background along with this topic really hits deep. Thank you for a great video 💛
As I huge billie fan I can approve 🫶🏻
Literally clicked so quickly that my screen froze
😂😂
DAYUM 😮😂
@@tamkaur Tam, do you have telegram or something because I keep getting notifications from a non verified acc to converse with them about a request that i made,
Am I the only one that feels lonely rn even tho I have so many amazing friends and family ?
me too sometimes I just feel so disconnected with reality
Yes so true I have friends but I feel lonely like no one is here for me
@@lazybooklover8167 I hope it gets better for u🫶🏻🫶🏻, when I commented that, it was 2 months ago, and now I feel sm better!! I feel loved by the ppl in my life and I’m so grateful. I rlly hope u stop feeling this way, and I hope yk how amazing u are💕Have a great day
yep. i have amazing friends and have a supportive family. yet i feel so lonely and like im falling behind. all my friends have great relationships & i sometimes feel envious of them. sometimes i also realize that i tend to suffer in silence and i never share my burdens with my friends because i don’t want to overwhelm them. after watching this video it made me feel a lot better though. they’re my friends for a reason and i’ve realized that they’re there for me even when i don’t seek it out
Same with me😅
It's nothing bad to be alone, but honestly it would be nice to have just one friend with whom I could go out and do girly things. I have never experienced such friendship and I would love to have a bestie like a sister 🎀
girl--I would've LOVED to be your friend but I'm sure you're probably a globe away, no one should ever feel lonely hope you found your soulsister
I feel the same!!
Same here +1
In the same stage, hopefully people like us can find each other and make each other feel more important❤
Same 😭
You’re my safe space 🫂🥹
😘😘😘😘
literally!
Fr
THE ELDER SISTER EVEREYBODY NEEDS
I needed this....just a divine timing ❤
"to people in their twenties" meanwhile here I am, turning 33 in a month, 2 years ago I realised I have cptsd, so I'm literally only now figuring out who I am, what I want for myself, after a breakup, temporarily living at my mom's place, paying off old debts and basically isolated from the world and possibilities of meeting new people like a hermit. Guys, it's never too late to figure out your life and everyone has a different timeline, there's no expiry date on that. Thank you Tam for this video, it was much needed as recently I often have this thought that I'm wasting the best years of my life and I needed a reminder that in fact, I'm preparing for the best years of my life 💖
more power to you, you absolute amazing:)
yes there’s other lessons youve learned in your 20s though that others in their 20s haven’t. now’s your time for this one!
Exactly in the same boat as you. Thanks for helping me feel like I’m not alone ❤
37. Same here. Don't discount the arrested development from trauma. You were trying to keep yourself alive. Sending love.
33 here myself. I'd like to say it's not too late for us
I am just 17 years old and the thought of being alone, having no partner, being judged beacuse of some past mistakes.... i was feeling lonely and not understood by anyone.. cause of this i began overthinking too... really needed this at the time. THANK YOU ❤
Hi sis I'm a high school girl from India.... And i was feeling so depressed and lonely in class coz I seat alone and eat lunch alone
I really needed it
Thank you so much sis❤
Love yaa!!
me too- if I saw u sitting alone I would definitely come say hi. You seem rlly sweet, i’m sorry we’re both alone; it’s not forever
Hi queen I know this message wasn't meant for me, but just remind you that diamonds weren't shaped in sunlight and gold, but in shadow and dirt. Yet they are the most treasured, most beautiful, most loved. This will be your destiny, and you may be lonely now, but that's because you are a sun surrounded by planets. Just because you are alone, doesn't mean you aren't needed or loved. Remember this❤
@@Luccccccccccci oh my that was good...
@@dhayapooranee.s1401 thank you🤍
@@avareadssI sometimes wish I was gone even when you try to talk to family your still alone I basically stay in my room everyday
Read this when you feel lonely, here're my summary notes:
1. Being alone isn't a bad thing. It Can bring you so much joy.
2. Don't use your past to define your present.
3. You will always be there for you.
4. Spend rather time with yourself than with people who push you down.
5. Do it for your future self.
6. Just because it's taking time, doesn't mean it's not gonna happen.
7. Stop waiting for others! You're in control.
8. Your happiness should never depend of other people's action.
9. When there's silence, this is where you grow the most.
10. Give yourself a tab on the back because you're not victimizing yourself by watching this video.
11. Loneliness is a gift! Everything is happening for you, not against you.
12. Remember this is only a phase.
13. You're only starting your life.
14. Remember how far you've come.
15. How do you see yourself? Write id down!
Thanks 🙏
Thanks
Needed this. I left my fiancé of 5 years, my home, my friends and my town all in one weekend. It’s been so lonely but it’s amazing to be reminded it’s for my higher self. Thank you so much for everything you do, Tam!!
I remember this was me 3-4 years ago.
wow ur so strong ❤
how are you now???
More and more power to you girl!💙
Felt so alone today and this really helped. I have been single and living on my own all year but today made me feel incredibly sad that I still don't have someone that aligns with me but I know that this is a part of the journey and finding someone is not all life is about. I took myself to the Farmers market today, bought myself flowers, went thrifting, watched my favorite shows, cooked food, and read a lot. I know I can do this even in those moments of extreme quiet when that scary loneliness creeps in. trying to rmr Loneliness can be a blessing and room for self development.
the way i manifested a ''watch this when'' video from you a few days ago and u actually uploaded it. u have no clue how much i needed this. thanks for such comforting videos tam!
Leaving this comment here , so that i can look back at how much progress ive made on loving myself and my own company
this video feels like a big sis hug
I read most of the comments and that people are sad and lonely. And for them, i'll say it will get better, it always does. But today, i'm so so grateful that i'm happy.. I have felt lonely in past but rn i have myself and some of the best people. I actually lost a very healthy friendship 2weeks ago but bcs of tam i have put it in past and is healing very fast! ❤ I just wanted to express my gratitude and gratefulness for the happy moments i have in life today❤ Even though i'm so sick today and haven't been productive this week, i'm still happy and grateful❤
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this video made me emotional. i understand myself, i learn from my past, my experiences, my intentions and how i seek to change my mindset, my lifestyle, how i treat myself with self-love, with the motivation to move on and work through our pains and struggles. we have the power to change our lives by accepting ourselves for who we are.
This got me hugging and apologizing to myself for the shit I put myself through this week 💔 I’ve been on a self love journey for the past couple of months and this week has been rough and I acted like a hurt little child and that was coming from a place of trauma and insecurity and I dont blame her for showing up every once in a while she’s been through a lot and expecting her to heal completely with a few months of inner work would be unfair. I’ll be there for her forever. Thanks Tam.❤
This video made me cry, ugly cry. I really needed this. Ever since my breakup, I have been feeling so alone and like my life is falling apart. This was such a comfort. I stopped and took a moment to appreciate all of the things I already achieved, all the progress I have made. Ive been good with being alone in the past, but this loneliness is even stronger now and more intense, which only means my life will become even BETTER than in the past. If you're reading this, you are not alone in being alone. Lets all take this period of our life to become the most strongest version of ourselves
I was just watching your video on "feeling sad" one and than you posted this you're always at the right time ❤❤
What is her qualification just curious, btw love youuuu tam❤.
how do her videos always perfectly align with my life!!
omg literally perfect timing 😭 I had just broken up with one of my friends, I thought I was feeling fine with it, but today I was sitting in a class with 2 popular girls who were talking about their friends, it reminded me that I still hadn’t “fit in” and that i never will anywhere, this video popped up right after school today and Im feeling so much more at peace right now.
Tam ILY so much you're like my sister that always gives me the best advices ❤
Hey Tam! This video, is my reality, especially the fact 6:36-6:49. Last year, when I was a 7th former, I was in my toxic girl era, like I would literally overthink the dumbest things, I'd procrastinate things, I used to be an attention-seeker, I used to chase people for their attention and love and what not! But now, after a year, when I'm an 8th former, I'VE COMPLETELY CHANGED! I'm the opposite now, I love myself so much that I don't need anyone now, I enjoy my own company and honestly, it's been MONTHS since I've overthink ANYTHING! Like I don't even remember the last time I over-thought ANYTHING!
(Credit goes to you, girl! THANK YOU!!)
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~EsHaL💖
I was feeling alone today but instead of staying in bawling my eyes out about it i went out with my own self
This video is actually very comforting❤️
I have a question, when you talk about loneliness not being a destination but more of a transition,
does it count if I have been alone and didn't really have friends since i was a child? .. Im worrying that this might never come and that I am missing out connections. I am 21, isn't it the time you meet great friends? or before that?
I wish i would find people who I can bond with. I like nature, i wish i could go camping, hiking with friends. Talking about everything.
1. Busy, why not me?
2. Loneliness is only your believe
3. Loneliness - absence of yourself
5. Future Version wishing how good it gets. It was necessary. Waiting time was necessary . You have them in future.
6. People you seek out seeking you out too
7. You can't stop waiting for stop feeling lonely. You are the one who control ur feelings. It's a journey to find them
8. Maybe you are meant to be lonely. Your happiness shouldn't depend on others action
9. 11:48 moments of silence - is the thing.
10. 14:43 you clicked on this video. ⭐ Awareness ⭐
11 15:46 loneliness is a gift 🎁 i was isolated for a bigger reason.
They left bcuz of your growth 📈
12 17:08 loneliness= transition
13. 18:15 stressing about future. You are just starting to live your life 💝
14 19:58 imperfect ≠ failing
15. How do you see urself
I am 28 years old and I took a massive change last year by removing friends who I have been friends with for 10 + in my life who know longer align with me. I am currently in transition period and it feels so good and I have never felt so much peace and I am so excited to have done all of this before I am 30.
omg I was literally crying at the beginning of the video, but then I didn't realize when I started to feel calmer than ever
After watching this I came to know that I always kept others before me, I was so shy that if others did anything bad to me I would not act on it that made them control "my" life I don't want it that way, from now on I would like to keep a promise to myself that I would keep myself before anybody else and appreciate only my loved ones, I am going to speak for myself, and I will try to do things out of my comfort zone ,it's my life one day everybody is gonna die anyways why not do ur best and die. Thanks to you Tam after watching your videos I always feel that I am the best version of myself, whenever my energy goes down and I need motivation I will always look up to you. I have never commented my heart out in any social media platform this is my first and I think I did the right thing ❤
The "living in one of your answered prayers" resonated with me the most.
2 days I talked to the universe, saying how lonely I recently feel and that I need help and a sign that I am not lonely and I saw this video. I feel really grateful for these amazing advices, I actually love myself, however I think that I forgot about it and that's why I feel like this. Now I won't see loneliness as something full of sadness and if I do, I am going to rewatch this video even thousand times
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Her timing is unmatched ❤
طبيعي اني دمعت؟ 🥹 يا الله هالحكي اشقدّه مطمئن ومُريح ومنطقي🥹🩷🩷 شكراً من قلبي وممتنة لوجودك🫶🏽
مرحبا ❤😊
عندك انستا؟❤@@rosemary5989
Tam! All I wanna say is THANK YOU SO MUCH!!! This came up at the right time❤ Love from India 🇮🇳💕
i literally needed this right now
I just wanna thank you with all my heart Tam❤
This video saved me today and in the insidious toxicity outside, I found myself-inside.
It reminded me of how I always have 'me', and that it's imperative that I show up for myself, and give myself that strength, love, comfort, support and compassion.
In the dark storm of tears, I could bring the rainbow to light...
Your words alleviated my gruesome loneliness and made me appreciate the greatness of the moment as it was, as blissful peace. I could fill the void, and find and befriend my inner self.
Thank you!
Lots of loveee,
Deethi ♡
this sucks, I'm crying so bad trying to figure everything out. I cannot only this videos give me hopes on living as the best version of myself
divine timing so real
the timing is so perfect tam! Love you!
*PLEASE ADD CHAPTERS BACK TAM!!!*
Thank you so much for this video, I was thinking for a long time, that there is something wrong with me, when I realized that I am not anyone favorite... I am just an option when someone can't... And now, I am trying to see myself as my favorite, thanks to your videos 🥰
16:21 “I was isolated for a bigger purpose”
Tam, I'm literally 31 years old and I learn SO much from you. Thank you my love. I am rooting for you! 🥰
Same!
am turning 30 this year too and feel like am only just learning the tools to live my best life now >.< :)
I actually started taking care of myself & spend time with myself thanks to you! Tam you truly changed my life. Thank you so much & sending love to you❤
being 15 an already being lonley an had an experience ALREADY about friends an just being cute an happy on my own because im loving my own vibe atm friends or not i like just staying an keeping to myself. Ily tam
I just started a new job that I really wanted, but I'm really struggling with loneliness- and I don't really understand why. I'm having a lot harder time adjusting than I thought I would. I'm still new, so of course they're not going to know me well enough yet to truly "see me". I'm a firm believer that things always get better, especially with a self-aware and self-loving mindset. Be gentle on myself. I'm leaving this comment here so I can come back in a few months and see how much things changed. I'm wishing everyone else the best on their journeys as well!
Wow this came at the perfect time! Thank you for articulating realistic perspectives of loneliness, I have been having a tough time trying to find ways to soothe & coach myself through this period of my life! Being someone in their 30's and finding myself without friends or a partner has made me acutely aware of my loneliness but I know it is just a season, not a permanency.
I actually wanna leave my friend group because they‘re really toxic and i dont feel comfortable around them. The actual reason i still am with them is that 1. im scared of being lonely and i wouldnt know what to do alone in School breaks… and 2. i dont know how to quit the friendship. This Video kinda helped me with my Situation
I noticed a calmer energy in you with this specific video message ❤
this is all false
i love to be alone
it's a need, often
i still experience loneliness
loneliness is NOT simply "a negative perspective on being alone"
we have literal needs for empathy and compassion and relationships
we are a social species
your whole psychosocial emotional system goes haywire if you aren't getting enough of it
and that isn't solved by simply "changing your perspective"
claiming it can be is dangerous
you could convince people that they are the problem and that simply choosing to not be lonely will solve this
it won't
they could end up feeling guilty about a perceived inability to make the choice you're suggesting
if you're severely lonely and this is your coping strategy and you're happy with it, keep it up
but some people are isolated victims of abuse with actually zero supportive relationships and you're telling them that's fine. it's not fine. they need connections. and being positive about spending time alone isn't going to fix that.
Still waiting for when you reach 1 million subs fr (you're a gem, Tam, you have no idea how much you have helped me)
Thanks,Tam. Watching this is 2024 and I love myself. I have a long path to cover but I love my growth. I do not seek external validation because I know at the end of the day I love myself fully knowing how I have evolved. I will pray for everything I get. I get it all. I am grateful.
Impeccable timing, 💗from Sri lanka,
Thank you so much for making this video! I'm going through a huge transition in my life and loneliness is something I've been struggling with. You're amazing and inspiring me to be the best version of myself💓
13:10 well that's the reason I got so alone cause my standards for friendships were so high....and now I think I just should've let my standards and my perfectionist side went down a little
"What was I made for?" such a perfect song for this ahhh!! I wish this came out last year when i was at my peak loneliest, but better late than never. And as a 20 year old going on 21, 13 is *chef's kiss* tysm!!
how did it get better? 🤗
The way i cried after watching this video.... I love you girl... I really wanna meet you one day... And i will one day...
just when I needed this the most, thank you♥
Tam pleaseease make a video on "How to overcome PERFECTIONISM"... Really need it.
Literally needed this Tam!!! Ive been single now, almost a year after break up - raised my standards a lot but feels a bit lonely kus my future mans havent found me yet 😂❤
Thankyou Tam, exactly what I needed for the period of my life I am going through right now 💞
This video made me excited about living life again, thank you
Tam You have literally changed my life...❤️ Thank you so much 🫶🫶 Thank you so much Universe for recommending Tam's Videos.. Lots of Love🫶❤️
Divine timing Tam ❤
First comment🥺... And how do you post videos on the right time... 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
i cry while watching ur video - today i feel of low,wasted my time ,insecure,and feel like im not their were i want to be but when u said im feeling live for first time and still growing and that im just a teenage and its ok to do things worng its my firts time to try somthing new and every thing is for my better ----- thank u tam sis i wish u get more love , happens,success in ur life
Right when I needed you..Thank you so much for this💞💞..... its 2am and I was kinda becoming nihilistic
This video feels like a hug, thank you!
Love you Tam❤ I hope you become my friend
I was writing a letter to my younger self who went through so many heartbreak and was lonely her whole teenage but i was struggling what to write and how to comfort her and then i saw this notification, i am crying right now this is what i needed the most thank u so much for this and i love u sooo much ❤
I am requesting u again to share ur content in hindi language also. Your content can really help indian Moms and Aunts to take their life in their hands and heal themselves from all the mysoginy
I m your biggest fan tam.. you are my inspiration ❤❤
omg the timing i just had a heartwrenching breakdown an hour ago idk how i am still alive and you......thankyou tam iloveyousomuch😭😭😭😭
its because of you i have reached this level where i wanna live for myself if not anyone but for me to live for my dream self I'm yet to be thankyou tam you're saving a life
Hey… just hang in there please. You will get out of this tunnel sooner than you imagine ❤
I really want to hug you so much just by watching this video... I'm 21 and listening to fact 13 made me feel better, I wasn't sad rn but when this video came out I was just wondering what to do because I'm not talking to anyone and I'm alone in my room hahaha thank you so much! Greetings from Colombia
i needed this soo muchh , thankyou tam💕
The background music 'what was i made for' really lifts up my mood. Ly Tam ❤
This video comes in the right time
This helped me release everything i was holding back,i knew i really loved myself thank you💗
Thank you.
I have been moving frequently between different countries in the past few years and it has been great, it did a huge impact on my professional life and self growth. However, it has been socially difficult at times. It is hard to make friends with this lifestyle. I could not count how many times I felt the weakness of loneliness and I thought about reaching out to my ex-friends because I knew they would reconnect with me but I always would remind myself the reason why I moved on from them. I am so glad I never slipped and only kept these ideas in my thoughts. I did not have standards when I was younger, it was a huge lesson, I met all kinds of people and some of them taught me why I shouldn't be friends with just anyone. I'm fine alone, I travelled alone a lot. I learned to talk with my family, I used to never talk about my life with them, I would look for strangers to tell about myself. It was not easy to open up to family, but it surprised me that they were actually supportive even thought I never in my life would have thought they would be.