I had a korean guy friend (ex best friend) I ended up deleting him as I got tired of how he treated foreign women. He would be dating a different foreign women every month and the break up would end up pretty bad each time. He mainly targeted women who were into k pop etc. Sadly some korean guys are like this, they usually go for the typical foreign girls who are obsessed with BTS and love kdrama and sadly lots of the girls fall for the korean guys who just see them as easy targets. Be safe girls. Korean guys arent the same as in love k dramas .
And some of these men have the nerve to complain about being "fetishized" when it is the other way round as well. They capitalize on this k-pop frenzy....
I have a question!Do you think you are really on the bottom of finding a man? I saw good guys marrying lots of good African women. But what I see with you is, you are a smart, intellectual,open and stimulating beautiful woman. You do and should not settle for less.I see you more dating a well intended, open intellectual man. They are more difficult to find. But they exist. Do not see yourself at the bottom. See yourself as the Queen you are and you will find a good person.❤
I'm someone who suffers from severe anxiety and romantic relationships make me anxious so I don't even bother with them. The person who called you desperate is a loser and people just be saying anything on the internet and it's so upsetting. I alwys like hearing your perspective on things and although I'm not interested in dating and relationships, this was very interesting and informative.
Thank you so much for watching, I have anxiety too and suffering through it hahaha but then again, I like putting myself in uncomfortable situations to see how I will cope.
@@Nolusindiso_Hleko That doesn't sound like an anxiety problem, but just the normal anxiety that can crop up. If you like pushing your comfort zone to grow, that's not bad anxiety. But I'm glad for you that you don't have to suffer that. You seem like a very strong person.
Saying black women are least wanted around the world is actually sad. Because if you have the right mindset, it does not matter who is the most and least wanted. The world is huge. All that matters is meeting the right people. Eventually, everybody is not wanted by someone. And eventually, there will always be someone who finds you attractive. There's no need to surround yourself with people who don't want/accept you, when you can choose to keep the right ones in your life. Even if it's harder for some, thats no excuse. Never pity yourself or other people for who they are. There's no need to let stereotypes make up your identity
People should love their own race, theres nothing bad about another person being racist towards you. One can scream their lungs out, fact of the matter racism will always be a factor. And nothing will ever change that, so pity for oneself is really stupid.
@@talalh7247theirs a generalized negative stigma that they are cheaters, have family’s stateside, abusers, etc. I was in the military and after work, I just took college classes and played PlayStation. Kept to myself lol.
You are a beautiful woman and you have probably heard that you are beautiful from many Koreans. The idea of marrying for love is a modern idea, even in the West. The rising divorce rate in the modern world suggests that even we don't know what love is. For people in the past, marriage was a cultural ritual, not the fruit of a passionate love affair. The only country I know of that has successfully embraced multiculturalism is the U.S. The cultural barrier may be bigger than you think. How can the world love and unite? We still have a long way to go.
The US isn't the only country embracing multiculturalism. Canada sure did too, and many European countries are forced into it. Is it a success? I'm not so sure about that. People cope out of necessity, because the govt. does what it wants and it is what it is. Mixed race and cross cultural relationships can work, but different culture, even if the same race will more often clash, or have more problems. I think this is just realistic.
@@saintejeannedarc9460 Thanks. You are right and I agree with you. I wrote the comment the US seems to be the one that functions the best from my perspective.
As an african who use to live in asia, I will tell you that no matter what you do its really hard to change how people percieve you by default. But I will say that most people are really really nice but that may just be because I was in a protected environment since I am a minor. But long story short, God's time is the best time.
I feel like im speaking to my mirror, your perspective on relationships and love in general is just like mines. I needed to see this video to remind myself that singleness doesn't have to be lonely, enjoy your own company and enjoy what great things life has to offer🙏🏽❤️
It doesn't have to be lonely indeed, just find something that excites you and do it. I enjoy getting to know myself, spending time alone and etc. I think realizing that I didn't want to be in a relationship for the sake of it, made it easier for me to be single. I want to be intentional when entering a relationship with someone.
Agreed I lived in china for the past 3 years, back home now and I can safely say the dating Market is muddy when you're abroad. Some people tend to get into relationships due to loneliness induced attraction. It's admirable that you are staying single and are sticking to your standards!
I know when I came out of a state where people made fun of me for being “tan”. And Lord knows how many times I’ve heard “go back your country, Mexican, spi*k, ( insert derogatory term)”. Meanwhile I was born in America 🇺🇸 my parents are Cuban/Colombian. 🙄 so when I heard people call me pretty it sounded foreign, lies, etc. I didn’t believe it until years later of learning to love me.believe me it was not an easy road and it took years of being away from that environment . Like you, I never wanted to treat anyone like those ignorant people treated me. I vowed to be That change and look at each person as an individual and never at their skin. With all that I hope you keep loving you and realize you are beautiful! Here’s to another annoying comment of how pretty you are inside out and hope you see it too. I do firmly believe once you are out of there and move to a city where diversity is embraced, you will find your person and love yourself even more. 💕
Yeah. Most I can say is don't take it personally. The dating scene in a lot of Asian countries is rather troublesome in general, and treating it as a strictly race problem that only Black Women face would be really entitled and all around foolish. Also loved how you touched upon the over-romanticisation of Asian people at large. Especially amongst Black people I notice tend to frequently over-romantacize Asians big time. sometimes to the point of objectifying them and degrading their humanity. It really is something that needs to be called out more, constructively and respectfully of course.
1st time seeing this channel... it was recommended. I'm not sure why when i was looking for news to watch but I actually enjoyed it. It was insightful and the eloquence and wisdom in her voice was comforting. Each time I told myself I would stop watching this ...with every other word she spoke, I ended up watching this till the end.
I have a bit of a problem with your comment about black women being at the bottom of the totem pole of the dating pool. I know that traditionally that is accurate, but I see that things are changing in modern day society. Also, I think it is important to speak for yourself because I am a proud black woman who has never felt inferior towards any woman of any race ever. For me, I would never trade places any other woman of any other race in this world, and I see my ethnicity as an advantage and am grateful for the cards I've been dealt. No disrespect, but I have watched a couple of your videos and you sound like a professional victim. Life is what you make it and I choose to embrace my beautiful life while making the most of it every day.
calling her a professional victim isn't fair. she was simply reflecting on the pattern she saw, while dating abroad. That pattern being, black women being the least chosen on average. This is still majorly true despite the changing times. She never said that she *felt* inferior to other women. I don't agree with her comment on black women being the least desired in Africa though, that statistically doesn't make any sense as African men mostly marry African women lol.
I wish you the best. I hope you get everything that your heart desires. You'll find your person at the right time 🫶🏽. By the way, you are so well-spoken. I enjoyed watching your video, very therapeutic. Thank you for sharing :)
I love this video, and it’s very refreshing to hear this side of things. It’s why I don’t watch kdramas, because I know me and know I will be a delulu girl as well. I have to disagree with you around the 3:40 mark. I believe you are referencing the ok Cupid study? If you’re not, my apologies, but if you are I have to say that study wasn’t done properly. I remember watching or reading an analysis on how it was shoddy thus the results are misleading. If I find the analysis I will edit my comment and add it.
Never feel bad about being single...I mean it's okay to crave a relationship every now and then, but you are better of being single than in unhealthy relationship.
I literally saw you for the first time in another video and thought my goodness she is gorgeous.I wrote it in the comment by the way. Let me tell you God had a special guy for you, don’t give up hope
Listen. I love kdrama male actors ,I love how intentional , romantic , caring and how he is ready to move mountains for his woman but they are ACTORS who are acting fantasy series/ movie most of this actors are in their 40’s or 30’s and aren’t even in any relationship in real life, if they are soo prefect why are many of them single in real life , a Korean man is like every other man in the world in fact they are harder to date/ marry for black women or some foreigners due to their culture, feelings, preference and ideology... ladies fall in love with kdrama men thinking all Korean men are like the ones on TV😅,if I ever happen to go to Korean I want to experience their culture,eat their food🤤 and visit their attractive places with my amazing Nigeria boyfriend that I love with the whole of my heart😙... I personally feel the real life Korean men could be weirdos , many of them have had plastic surgery done and some act like creeps , majority of them are bullies no thank you, I will just continue admiring them on Tv😊
Marriages have a very hard time when the parents are against it. I heard of a mixed couple where the man was a white expat in China and the girl was Chinese. Her parents flipped out, because he was white. She did dig in an stick w/ him and her parents accepted it in time. That's rare though I think.
Maybe she thinks it upgrading 😂 African women seem to feel flattered when they get Asian boygriends or husbands. That is why some are narrying older men in rural China
Saying that black women are the least wanted by black/african men is a blatent lie, most people date and marry within their own race. Anybody moving to Korea and expecting Asian men to take them seriously as a partner is delusional, they have cultural practices that exclude non Korean women when it comes to marriage.
Exactly. Not just Koreans but several other Asians too. I am Asian and its unfortunate many especially Africans see this as Racism. But the fact is we just prefer to not have complications .
@@YouhavetoBelieve3347 I don't think so. Only to have fun w/ as an exotic sideline. I am the blue eyed white girl w/ the flowy blond hair. When I was younger, I did date a few black guys in Canada. I don't think even one ever took me seriously. They mostly want to settle w/ their own when they are ready. I knew of one that married a white girl, but he cheated on her constantly.
Im open minded and I'm not interested in boring common relationships. People who date people like them looks so boring to me. I guess thats why Asians seem kind of boring to me. Not to be mean but as Black people, at least we have the most diversity. Thats why we are the most beautiful .
I was in the military and never date for anything serious cuz I didn’t want to worry about a partner while in traveling. Now that I’m a civilian I refuse to date military 😂
as someone just discovering your channel, i'm curious about why you moved to korea in the first place. and why you moved on to china. also, as someone who has been traveling a lot, which countries do you find to be most racists? maybe you should move to a country where you can work as a model😉.
And I think black people are really attractive. I know how good they are at dancing, and they are passionate, and they have loyalty. (I agree it’s not 100%) I really want to make a black friend
It proves that undervaluing black people is an unfair world . I want the government to meet the education part they need first before making a frame for them. In particular, the U.S. government should really help improve the quality of life for black people first. That'll reduce the sense of alienation
Where the heck are you people getting all the conspiracy theories stats. As a black woman i have never had a problem dating. Although ive been married to my amazing husband for 22 years an
You have a healthy and positive attitude and that makes a huge difference, so men would be naturally drawn to you. Plus you look quite pretty and vibrant too. It likely would have been harder if you went to a monoculture, foreign country though.
But what I don’t understand is you are so educated about how not to do a military man. But you have zero knowledge of why not to date a Korean man. Meanwhile, there in like 1 million videos online of girls that went to Korea warning you, so that’s sus.
Stop lying! Black guys date black women, when you guys get to other peoples countries you sideline us with the hope of getting a Korean boyfriend. Some of you guys even watch their shows on netflix, when other people don't watch your black shows talking about how more attractive they are. You not a victim in the dating pool hey, you wanted diversity but other men showed you they dont like you. So date your own race, love your race and embrace it.
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I had a korean guy friend (ex best friend) I ended up deleting him as I got tired of how he treated foreign women. He would be dating a different foreign women every month and the break up would end up pretty bad each time. He mainly targeted women who were into k pop etc. Sadly some korean guys are like this, they usually go for the typical foreign girls who are obsessed with BTS and love kdrama and sadly lots of the girls fall for the korean guys who just see them as easy targets. Be safe girls. Korean guys arent the same as in love k dramas .
And some of these men have the nerve to complain about being "fetishized" when it is the other way round as well. They capitalize on this k-pop frenzy....
I have a question!Do you think you are really on the bottom of finding a man? I saw good guys marrying lots of good African women. But what I see with you is, you are a smart, intellectual,open and stimulating beautiful woman. You do and should not settle for less.I see you more dating a well intended, open intellectual man. They are more difficult to find. But they exist. Do not see yourself at the bottom. See yourself as the Queen you are and you will find a good person.❤
Put yourself first! You will eventually find someone who matches you and your aspirations. If you dont, that's okay too.
Indeed, if I don't then it's okay!
I'm someone who suffers from severe anxiety and romantic relationships make me anxious so I don't even bother with them. The person who called you desperate is a loser and people just be saying anything on the internet and it's so upsetting. I alwys like hearing your perspective on things and although I'm not interested in dating and relationships, this was very interesting and informative.
Thank you so much for watching, I have anxiety too and suffering through it hahaha but then again, I like putting myself in uncomfortable situations to see how I will cope.
@@Nolusindiso_Hleko That doesn't sound like an anxiety problem, but just the normal anxiety that can crop up. If you like pushing your comfort zone to grow, that's not bad anxiety. But I'm glad for you that you don't have to suffer that. You seem like a very strong person.
@@Nolusindiso_Hleko I love this mindset ❤
I'm proud of you, Sis. Keep intentionally striving forward. Blessings unto you!
Thanks so much 😊
Saying black women are least wanted around the world is actually sad. Because if you have the right mindset, it does not matter who is the most and least wanted. The world is huge. All that matters is meeting the right people. Eventually, everybody is not wanted by someone. And eventually, there will always be someone who finds you attractive. There's no need to surround yourself with people who don't want/accept you, when you can choose to keep the right ones in your life. Even if it's harder for some, thats no excuse. Never pity yourself or other people for who they are. There's no need to let stereotypes make up your identity
People should love their own race, theres nothing bad about another person being racist towards you. One can scream their lungs out, fact of the matter racism will always be a factor. And nothing will ever change that, so pity for oneself is really stupid.
@@evolution2030
You can't love your race without hating and being racist to other races ?
@@evolution2030yes there is something bad about people being racist towards you.
@@Brewsterman and you think you or any law for that matter will change people from being racist?
Guess what?
Not gonna happen.
Military men's dating habits are terrifying; in most cases.
That is why I stayed away 👏
Why?
@@talalh7247theirs a generalized negative stigma that they are cheaters, have family’s stateside, abusers, etc. I was in the military and after work, I just took college classes and played PlayStation. Kept to myself lol.
You are a beautiful woman and you have probably heard that you are beautiful from many Koreans. The idea of marrying for love is a modern idea, even in the West. The rising divorce rate in the modern world suggests that even we don't know what love is. For people in the past, marriage was a cultural ritual, not the fruit of a passionate love affair. The only country I know of that has successfully embraced multiculturalism is the U.S. The cultural barrier may be bigger than you think. How can the world love and unite? We still have a long way to go.
The US isn't the only country embracing multiculturalism. Canada sure did too, and many European countries are forced into it. Is it a success? I'm not so sure about that. People cope out of necessity, because the govt. does what it wants and it is what it is. Mixed race and cross cultural relationships can work, but different culture, even if the same race will more often clash, or have more problems. I think this is just realistic.
@@saintejeannedarc9460 Thanks. You are right and I agree with you. I wrote the comment the US seems to be the one that functions the best from my perspective.
As an african who use to live in asia, I will tell you that no matter what you do its really hard to change how people percieve you by default. But I will say that most people are really really nice but that may just be because I was in a protected environment since I am a minor. But long story short, God's time is the best time.
I feel like im speaking to my mirror, your perspective on relationships and love in general is just like mines. I needed to see this video to remind myself that singleness doesn't have to be lonely, enjoy your own company and enjoy what great things life has to offer🙏🏽❤️
It doesn't have to be lonely indeed, just find something that excites you and do it. I enjoy getting to know myself, spending time alone and etc. I think realizing that I didn't want to be in a relationship for the sake of it, made it easier for me to be single. I want to be intentional when entering a relationship with someone.
Yes, you do sounds smart! You are so wise! So happy you finally uploaded!
Still waiting for you to reveal yourself there by instagram lol
I live my Korean fantasy by watching k dramas but won't move there
I'm obsessed with k dramas and I wish to move there even if it's just for 2 years... 😬
@@maloasevilakazi3853 have you found a man
@@maloasevilakazi3853 k drama is trash why would you watch that lol
@@CountChocula-on9ix nah Kdramas are so good. Much better than most western shows these days.
@@maloasevilakazi3853drama is drama 🎭
한국여자들도 한국남자랑 연애하는걸 기피하거나 결혼을 기피하고 있어요
Agreed I lived in china for the past 3 years, back home now and I can safely say the dating Market is muddy when you're abroad. Some people tend to get into relationships due to loneliness induced attraction. It's admirable that you are staying single and are sticking to your standards!
This was such a deep video. Very well detailed. Thank you Nolu❤
Thank you for watching 😊
I know when I came out of a state where people made fun of me for being “tan”. And Lord knows how many times I’ve heard “go back your country, Mexican, spi*k, ( insert derogatory term)”. Meanwhile I was born in America 🇺🇸 my parents are Cuban/Colombian. 🙄 so when I heard people call me pretty it sounded foreign, lies, etc. I didn’t believe it until years later of learning to love me.believe me it was not an easy road and it took years of being away from that environment . Like you, I never wanted to treat anyone like those ignorant people treated me. I vowed to be That change and look at each person as an individual and never at their skin. With all that I hope you keep loving you and realize you are beautiful! Here’s to another annoying comment of how pretty you are inside out and hope you see it too. I do firmly believe once you are out of there and move to a city where diversity is embraced, you will find your person and love yourself even more. 💕
Absolutely enjoyed this 🌻 thank you for your transparency
Thank you for watching and for your endless support in all platforms ❤️
Yeah. Most I can say is don't take it personally. The dating scene in a lot of Asian countries is rather troublesome in general, and treating it as a strictly race problem that only Black Women face would be really entitled and all around foolish.
Also loved how you touched upon the over-romanticisation of Asian people at large. Especially amongst Black people I notice tend to frequently over-romantacize Asians big time. sometimes to the point of objectifying them and degrading their humanity. It really is something that needs to be called out more, constructively and respectfully of course.
Very educational, you are very well-spoken woman and beautiful soul. Keep doing what you need and want, you got this. Keep your dreams up 💪
and you are so extreme beautiful. natural face and skinny. more prettier than korean woman. you really are! believe into yourself be more confident!
Girl you glowing fr fr❤😍🥹🤭
Thank you 😊
Learning Korean I think is super important though.
Your storytelling is impeccable. Video editing sublime!
1st time seeing this channel... it was recommended. I'm not sure why when i was looking for news to watch but I actually enjoyed it. It was insightful and the eloquence and wisdom in her voice was comforting. Each time I told myself I would stop watching this ...with every other word she spoke, I ended up watching this till the end.
I have a bit of a problem with your comment about black women being at the bottom of the totem pole of the dating pool. I know that traditionally that is accurate, but I see that things are changing in modern day society. Also, I think it is important to speak for yourself because I am a proud black woman who has never felt inferior towards any woman of any race ever. For me, I would never trade places any other woman of any other race in this world, and I see my ethnicity as an advantage and am grateful for the cards I've been dealt. No disrespect, but I have watched a couple of your videos and you sound like a professional victim. Life is what you make it and I choose to embrace my beautiful life while making the most of it every day.
calling her a professional victim isn't fair. she was simply reflecting on the pattern she saw, while dating abroad. That pattern being, black women being the least chosen on average. This is still majorly true despite the changing times. She never said that she *felt* inferior to other women. I don't agree with her comment on black women being the least desired in Africa though, that statistically doesn't make any sense as African men mostly marry African women lol.
I wish you the best. I hope you get everything that your heart desires. You'll find your person at the right time 🫶🏽. By the way, you are so well-spoken. I enjoyed watching your video, very therapeutic. Thank you for sharing :)
I'm seeing myself so much through your eyes and way of thinking. I'm happy I found your channel. Please, do more of these!
I love this video, and it’s very refreshing to hear this side of things. It’s why I don’t watch kdramas, because I know me and know I will be a delulu girl as well. I have to disagree with you around the 3:40 mark. I believe you are referencing the ok Cupid study? If you’re not, my apologies, but if you are I have to say that study wasn’t done properly. I remember watching or reading an analysis on how it was shoddy thus the results are misleading. If I find the analysis I will edit my comment and add it.
After watching this video,i don't feel bad for being single anymore,btw you look so gorgeous sisi Nolu😍😍
Never feel bad about being single...I mean it's okay to crave a relationship every now and then, but you are better of being single than in unhealthy relationship.
I literally saw you for the first time in another video and thought my goodness she is gorgeous.I wrote it in the comment by the way. Let me tell you God had a special guy for you, don’t give up hope
You’re such a beautiful soul Nolu!!! 🥺
you are so pretty!
Listen. I love kdrama male actors ,I love how intentional , romantic , caring and how he is ready to move mountains for his woman but they are ACTORS who are acting fantasy series/ movie most of this actors are in their 40’s or 30’s and aren’t even in any relationship in real life, if they are soo prefect why are many of them single in real life , a Korean man is like every other man in the world in fact they are harder to date/ marry for black women or some foreigners due to their culture, feelings, preference and ideology... ladies fall in love with kdrama men thinking all Korean men are like the ones on TV😅,if I ever happen to go to Korean I want to experience their culture,eat their food🤤 and visit their attractive places with my amazing Nigeria boyfriend that I love with the whole of my heart😙... I personally feel the real life Korean men could be weirdos , many of them have had plastic surgery done and some act like creeps , majority of them are bullies no thank you, I will just continue admiring them on Tv😊
Perhaps ,many of them r single bcause ,like many women they haven't found the right woman 4 them.🤷♀
Girl tstop letting the media tell you that you are at the bottom of the dating pool am a beautiful black woman don't vibrate at that low frequency
Intelligent lady ❤
You articulated this so well. Where are you originally from?
South Africa 🇿🇦♥️
Thank you hahaha , 🇿🇦
this comment section sucks girl i'm so sorry, i'm glad there are at least some sweet ppl tho 😂
Very relatable 😊
Girlll, i really like your content
if they love you enough, they will convince their parents to like you. Or go against them
Marriages have a very hard time when the parents are against it. I heard of a mixed couple where the man was a white expat in China and the girl was Chinese. Her parents flipped out, because he was white. She did dig in an stick w/ him and her parents accepted it in time. That's rare though I think.
I opted to stay single the moment I landed…😂😂😂
YOU DID YOURSELF A FAVOR 👏 it's messy there, not enough good people... like the rest of the world.
What black woman in her right mind dreams of going to Korea and getting involved with a Korean man?!!!!!!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
The desperate ones that look like the lady in the video 🫢
Maybe she thinks it upgrading 😂
African women seem to feel flattered when they get Asian boygriends or husbands. That is why some are narrying older men in rural China
You are gorgeous hun ❤
Thank you and I am guessing you probably watched my "Ugly in Korea" video hahaha
Lord I put my future relationship into your hands for in you my stereotype doesn’t matter lord I trust in Jesus name I pray 🙏
Siyakuva kaloku ❤your new subbie from Ny your fellow xhosa fan u zaw fumana someone u still got time keep fishing dating can be fun 🎉❤
Your problem is:you are Clever & independent.......
I am going through the same thing in the usa 🇺🇸
Whatever you do, go where you're appreciated. Please experience Germany, Belgium, and/or the Netherlands, or come to the USA.
Hi Nolu, how does one get to teach English in this countries? Like what is needed?
Saying that black women are the least wanted by black/african men is a blatent lie, most people date and marry within their own race. Anybody moving to Korea and expecting Asian men to take them seriously as a partner is delusional, they have cultural practices that exclude non Korean women when it comes to marriage.
Exactly. Not just Koreans but several other Asians too. I am Asian and its unfortunate many especially Africans see this as Racism. But the fact is we just prefer to not have complications .
U kno for a fact an African dude is choosing a blue eyed, flowy blond hair white girl any day over a black chick if they’re given the chance lmao
@@YouhavetoBelieve3347 I don't think so. Only to have fun w/ as an exotic sideline. I am the blue eyed white girl w/ the flowy blond hair. When I was younger, I did date a few black guys in Canada. I don't think even one ever took me seriously. They mostly want to settle w/ their own when they are ready. I knew of one that married a white girl, but he cheated on her constantly.
@@YouhavetoBelieve3347nah bro love my black women... The darker the better
Why are the standards for black men in the same country not the same as a black woman when dating?
Im open minded and I'm not interested in boring common relationships. People who date people like them looks so boring to me. I guess thats why Asians seem kind of boring to me. Not to be mean but as Black people, at least we have the most diversity. Thats why we are the most beautiful .
Most beautiful? To you maybe. Its all relative. The reality is she is right abt dating preferences of men of other races. They prefer Asian or white
@@Sunshine-zi4nq That’s only because of media showing that as the standard. It’s almost like brainwashing.
Your stories are interesting*
Thank you 😊
I was in the military and never date for anything serious cuz I didn’t want to worry about a partner while in traveling. Now that I’m a civilian I refuse to date military 😂
as someone just discovering your channel, i'm curious about why you moved to korea in the first place. and why you moved on to china. also, as someone who has been traveling a lot, which countries do you find to be most racists? maybe you should move to a country where you can work as a model😉.
Thank you for sharing. I feel like I’m having a mental breakdown and this is really helping me.
And I think black people are really attractive. I know how good they are at dancing, and they are passionate, and they have loyalty. (I agree it’s not 100%) I really want to make a black friend
It proves that undervaluing black people is an unfair world . I want the government to meet the education part they need first before making a frame for them. In particular, the U.S. government should really help improve the quality of life for black people first. That'll reduce the sense of alienation
How about they help themselves? It's this mentality that keeps them back. Asians and other minorities don't look to the govt for help.
@@Sunshine-zi4nq what race are you?
@@xxursolovelyxxX Asian
@@Sunshine-zi4nq mm i see
Where the heck are you people getting all the conspiracy theories stats. As a black woman i have never had a problem dating. Although ive been married to my amazing husband for 22 years an
You have a healthy and positive attitude and that makes a huge difference, so men would be naturally drawn to you. Plus you look quite pretty and vibrant too. It likely would have been harder if you went to a monoculture, foreign country though.
Btw what do you do for skin care? I have the same complexion but struggle with acne and textured skin
We America’s definitely call Wendy Williams toxic lol
This sounds juicy 😊😊
hahaha it isn't!
So true ...is worse when you are from Nigeria
Why not date a South African man?
It's actually your energy that's the problem.
❤❤❤❤❤
We have a hard time too
But what I don’t understand is you are so educated about how not to do a military man. But you have zero knowledge of why not to date a Korean man. Meanwhile, there in like 1 million videos online of girls that went to Korea warning you, so that’s sus.
i mean you knew this was gonna happen sooo
Stop lying! Black guys date black women, when you guys get to other peoples countries you sideline us with the hope of getting a Korean boyfriend. Some of you guys even watch their shows on netflix, when other people don't watch your black shows talking about how more attractive they are. You not a victim in the dating pool hey, you wanted diversity but other men showed you they dont like you. So date your own race, love your race and embrace it.
K drama is quite different from the reality. Now korea is having deep fakes emergency.😢
Never seen a single K-drama 🥲
Какая красивая девушка. Что за глупости про пищевую цепь?
Stick to your own kind.
Your lips hypnotize me
Dude...
😂😂
Maybe you're looking at them too much 👀 😂
@@Nolusindiso_Hleko Yes, maybe because they awaken some instincts in me 😏😂
Real African lips
Imagine being a Korean wife and having to cook cat rats and dog for dinner lol
그런거로 요리하지는 않지만 한국 여자들도 한국 남자를 싫어한다
Even if I go to heaven,there will be bad people so no need to dream high🥲
You are beautiful
Come date a Canadian!