Speaking for all men - I'll do whatever the hell I want thanks. My income should not be a deciding factor, it's my own business what I earn and what I choose to do with it. p.s. are you ok? You're behaving weirdly.
"should" is very entitled. you can do what you want, but a woman can also do what she wants. if you're unwilling to do what it takes to get what you want, then that is on you.
Most men won’t have dating issues if this actually worked. The problem lies in women nowadays and their unwillingness to commitment. Men of course do have issues that they need to fix but you’re never going to truly solve this problem if you aren’t even willing to call out the real issue.
@@Theperfectdb At the end of the day there are plenty of men ticking all the boxes you describe in the video, and still not getting any succes. The things you list here would've worked a long time ago, but we're now way past that. Nowadays this is not slightly enough.
This is not a list for the good of man, she just gives her opinion on what she wants on a slave...i.meant man, people should do what they want to do, play video games, go out or workout whatever you want.
I know this comes from a place of trying to help men, but honestly chasing money and women will not make you any happier or fulfilled either, even if you succeed. You can wear chains of iron or you can wear chains of gold, but you're still a slave. The material world can't fulfill you, so if you think getting higher income, or a wife or children or anything else will make you happy, sorry to tell you that rich people with families can also be depressed. What people lack isn't about the material, it's about the spiritual. People have lost sight of the bigger picture of this universe and of our inner divinity. Money, friends, children, you lose it all when you die. You lose everything of this world when you die so don't chase the temporary things in life. Aspire instead to know yourself and learn humility and selflessness. Learn how to love even in the midst of a cruel and evil world. That's all you get to take with you when this ride is over.
*🚨This video is gaslighting - for the sake of your sanity, don't believe anything she says.🚨* *Genuinely horrible men are loved by many - if a man is loved by no one - that probably means he is a wonderful person.* *Please don't fall for the gaslighting.*
A male loneliness pandemic actually exists, at least in the Western hemisphere. It really doesn't have anything to do with a lack of motivation, poor health or inadequate personal development on part of the man. Given how some women think of themselves, men just don't want the destabilization women bring. Hence, the men stay single. Men might not like being alone, but they're better off. ☕
I agree with getting your life together, however, as a man, you don’t want to get your life together, then look for a woman. women are not the purpose of your life they can leave at any time rather what I would want younger men to do is find a hobby that you can share. For example, Imagine you save enough money, you’re comfortable, you own a JetSki you like to go jet skiing on the weekends. you have a dog you go to the dog park now you look for a woman that fits into that lifestyle. It is much harder to be a good man than it is to be considered a good woman. Good Men need to have standards and boundaries. If she is giving you problems, walk away from her as a good man it’s very easy to find another girl that can give you problems. I promise you, she’s not that special.
1st of all how dare you 2nd of all don't call me out like that 3rd of all, I'm depressed, but only because my life has been an ever revolving door of shit after shit, lifes good for a while then just hits the fan, example: I have been unemployed for the last 8 months because no one wants to hire, despite all these places talking about how desperate they are for workers. If I don't find a job soon, I'm gonna be homeless. and 4th of all, if someone doesn't like me as I am, they don't need to like me at all.
Solutions are hard because you have to be consistent. When i am down, i have to eat ice cream. I eat ice cream every night after work and even now i have to fight that urge and drink water.
I do think there's merit to the view that girls ought to modify their behavior enough to go after "boring" men. What's often making us boring are things that ought to be seen as status markers, like a stable career and a house. That said, hoe_math also has a point in saying men should try to cultivate the things that make us "interesting" as well. As far as presenting myself as rather boring and basic, because for the most part I am, what do you think of the strategy of admitting I'm boring and then presenting one of the interesting things about myself as though it fell under that heading? "Yup, I'm pretty boring, I take standard vacations like going to hike 50 miles across a mostly wilderness island where I ran out of water twice." Yes, that was a real vacation, and I want to go back.
As far as skills, i like to learn languages and can learn any language if i put my brain to it. But again, it requires consistency, it is often tough for me to dedicate time. I appreciate your advise!
Honestly rubbed me the wrong way at first but most of this is valid, I do think we mistreat ourselves by eating like shit, watching porn, and taking the easy way. There’s a reason that every guy you see with a hot girl is either very fit and has a good appearance. Why would an above average girl ever want to be with a below average guy? You wouldn’t want to settle for someone worse then you why do you expect them do to that for you?
And we wonder why just about every religion saw women as being unable to function on their own without acting like clowns...I don't even know how to feel anymore I just wanted equality with a woman I never wanted to follow all those scriptures about women from bibles and sh!t but now I am starting to understand why all that stuff about them was written.
@@howards59 a weird competition amongst women, yet completely obvious and unnecessary for us men... (only the natural has beauty, sosososorry to bring it to everyone)
@@particleconfig.8935 WELL SAID!!!!! If a woman I was extremely attracted to got lip fillers or any other "work" I would be repulsed and would look for someone who hadn't damaged her body and made it look fake. Getting lip fillers is also an indication of low self-esteem (or at least self-image issues). If a person allows the imagined judgements of other people to cause them to get their lips injected like balloons because they somehow imagine that they are "not enough", that indicates an actual psychological ego problem of some degree.
Lol, because she opened her legs to a man she barely knew, and now she can't find a good man willing to pick up where her baby daddy left off? Get real!
Mostly solid advice but you have to do it for yourself not because you are obliged to give it away to someone else who will only accept you as well put together guy and will only take from you.
here, here gents - do it for yourselves - and remember you did it for yourselves once you already will unfuck your life. Girls will come - and go - your body and your life will stay with you. :)
Does anyone else get the impression that she's reading this from a prompter with a gun to her head?
You what mate
@@william6587 it just doesn't sound spontaneous, at all.
@@KenDevo *You're saying someone is forcing her to gaslight nice innocent men?*
@@Percival-kl9yy Not saying that's happening, just saying that's how the delivery comes across. She reads as if she's held hostage. 😅
@@Percival-kl9yy the sarcasm...
That’s why you’re a single mom right
Lol
Pls don't say this
Shaming men so we can do more for women... A oldie but a goldie. 😂
@@avinashjadhav2436 🥺
@@avinashjadhav2436 whuu(ttt)
Speaking for all men - I'll do whatever the hell I want thanks. My income should not be a deciding factor, it's my own business what I earn and what I choose to do with it.
p.s. are you ok? You're behaving weirdly.
"should" is very entitled. you can do what you want, but a woman can also do what she wants. if you're unwilling to do what it takes to get what you want, then that is on you.
@@onlytaylor8257 I am entitled to common human decency, which includes not being judged by my income.
Things are never this simple.
except when they are. we all know what to do. Human nature is .. human.
Most men won’t have dating issues if this actually worked. The problem lies in women nowadays and their unwillingness to commitment.
Men of course do have issues that they need to fix but you’re never going to truly solve this problem if you aren’t even willing to call out the real issue.
The real issue is with society as a whole.
@@Theperfectdb At the end of the day there are plenty of men ticking all the boxes you describe in the video, and still not getting any succes. The things you list here would've worked a long time ago, but we're now way past that. Nowadays this is not slightly enough.
This is not a list for the good of man, she just gives her opinion on what she wants on a slave...i.meant man, people should do what they want to do, play video games, go out or workout whatever you want.
I know this comes from a place of trying to help men, but honestly chasing money and women will not make you any happier or fulfilled either, even if you succeed. You can wear chains of iron or you can wear chains of gold, but you're still a slave.
The material world can't fulfill you, so if you think getting higher income, or a wife or children or anything else will make you happy, sorry to tell you that rich people with families can also be depressed. What people lack isn't about the material, it's about the spiritual. People have lost sight of the bigger picture of this universe and of our inner divinity. Money, friends, children, you lose it all when you die. You lose everything of this world when you die so don't chase the temporary things in life. Aspire instead to know yourself and learn humility and selflessness. Learn how to love even in the midst of a cruel and evil world. That's all you get to take with you when this ride is over.
Meanwhile all it takes for a woman to NOT be a 'loser' is to look pretty and issue demands of what they want in a guy.
I’m sorry you’re not a woman.
Career and personal self-sufficiency is the bottom line.
*🚨This video is gaslighting - for the sake of your sanity, don't believe anything she says.🚨*
*Genuinely horrible men are loved by many - if a man is loved by no one - that probably means he is a wonderful person.*
*Please don't fall for the gaslighting.*
A male loneliness pandemic actually exists, at least in the Western hemisphere. It really doesn't have anything to do with a lack of motivation, poor health or inadequate personal development on part of the man. Given how some women think of themselves, men just don't want the destabilization women bring. Hence, the men stay single.
Men might not like being alone, but they're better off.
☕
You're never alone if you like being with you.
A depressed Pookie
Excellent content.Thankyou for sharing.
Christ your easily pleased
@@MarkStevens8899 weird,but ok.
I agree with getting your life together, however, as a man, you don’t want to get your life together, then look for a woman. women are not the purpose of your life they can leave at any time rather what I would want younger men to do is find a hobby that you can share.
For example, Imagine you save enough money, you’re comfortable, you own a JetSki you like to go jet skiing on the weekends. you have a dog you go to the dog park now you look for a woman that fits into that lifestyle.
It is much harder to be a good man than it is to be considered a good woman. Good Men need to have standards and boundaries. If she is giving you problems, walk away from her as a good man it’s very easy to find another girl that can give you problems. I promise you, she’s not that special.
6:01 yeah and where are the women getting the money from...most likely the guy she is leaching off
What happend to her lips? And facial expressions?
1st of all how dare you
2nd of all don't call me out like that
3rd of all, I'm depressed, but only because my life has been an ever revolving door of shit after shit, lifes good for a while then just hits the fan, example: I have been unemployed for the last 8 months because no one wants to hire, despite all these places talking about how desperate they are for workers. If I don't find a job soon, I'm gonna be homeless.
and 4th of all, if someone doesn't like me as I am, they don't need to like me at all.
I’m sorry you’re unemployed.
What would you say to someone who is borderline Asperger's and ADHD?
Probably not much.
Very brave message. You are the problem! We are also the solution, though
Solutions are hard because you have to be consistent. When i am down, i have to eat ice cream. I eat ice cream every night after work and even now i have to fight that urge and drink water.
I do think there's merit to the view that girls ought to modify their behavior enough to go after "boring" men. What's often making us boring are things that ought to be seen as status markers, like a stable career and a house. That said, hoe_math also has a point in saying men should try to cultivate the things that make us "interesting" as well. As far as presenting myself as rather boring and basic, because for the most part I am, what do you think of the strategy of admitting I'm boring and then presenting one of the interesting things about myself as though it fell under that heading? "Yup, I'm pretty boring, I take standard vacations like going to hike 50 miles across a mostly wilderness island where I ran out of water twice." Yes, that was a real vacation, and I want to go back.
As far as skills, i like to learn languages and can learn any language if i put my brain to it. But again, it requires consistency, it is often tough for me to dedicate time. I appreciate your advise!
Honestly rubbed me the wrong way at first but most of this is valid, I do think we mistreat ourselves by eating like shit, watching porn, and taking the easy way. There’s a reason that every guy you see with a hot girl is either very fit and has a good appearance. Why would an above average girl ever want to be with a below average guy? You wouldn’t want to settle for someone worse then you why do you expect them do to that for you?
I agree💯!!! 🙂
And we wonder why just about every religion saw women as being unable to function on their own without acting like clowns...I don't even know how to feel anymore I just wanted equality with a woman I never wanted to follow all those scriptures about women from bibles and sh!t but now I am starting to understand why all that stuff about them was written.
can you talk more about how men can fake ?
Yes , I will make a video about it soon.🙂
I watched right up until 4:04 - Good thing she mentioned it 😅😅
Not sure why this was in my recommended
Everything she said was valid.
1:47 What if I'm gay?
What happened with the lip
LIP FILLERS
@@howards59 a weird competition amongst women, yet completely obvious and unnecessary for us men... (only the natural has beauty, sosososorry to bring it to everyone)
@@particleconfig.8935 WELL SAID!!!!! If a woman I was extremely attracted to got lip fillers or any other "work" I would be repulsed and would look for someone who hadn't damaged her body and made it look fake.
Getting lip fillers is also an indication of low self-esteem (or at least self-image issues). If a person allows the imagined judgements of other people to cause them to get their lips injected like balloons because they somehow imagine that they are "not enough", that indicates an actual psychological ego problem of some degree.
Wasp sting?
A lot of this is good advise…i really do oughta eat and drink better. I’ll be honest. I am not obese, bu5 i do worry i have too much sugar…
She is honest.. i respect her
Lol, because she opened her legs to a man she barely knew, and now she can't find a good man willing to pick up where her baby daddy left off? Get real!
Lucky to watch this on 1st August 2024...
Mostly solid advice but you have to do it for yourself not because you are obliged to give it away to someone else who will only accept you as well put together guy and will only take from you.
here, here gents - do it for yourselves - and remember you did it for yourselves once you already will unfuck your life. Girls will come - and go - your body and your life will stay with you. :)
facts
wow very true stuff here
the start is so hot
ha ha
the truth hurts!
😒🙂