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  • @ThePinkMic
    @ThePinkMic 9 місяців тому +916

    The daughter calling everyone by their first name…..first sign she wasn’t taught respect or established boundaries

    • @divacbrookins9084
      @divacbrookins9084 9 місяців тому +13

      That Part @HopeShante😊

    • @TheTia3456
      @TheTia3456 9 місяців тому +36

      I was justttt thinking that and saw your comment. I’d never call my aunt by first name… or mom.

    • @ummzaynab7702
      @ummzaynab7702 9 місяців тому +33

      Right? Cause my mama would have knocked me straight up side my head and I'm 40. The way I was raised, was to be 5 minutes is on time. On time is late. And late... there better be a phone call, text with a reason.

    • @NubianP6
      @NubianP6 8 місяців тому +25

      @@ummzaynab7702yep, I’m older than you, and I STILL refer to my uncles and my one aunt by their titles first. 😯

    • @betterthanemril988
      @betterthanemril988 8 місяців тому +23

      Very disrespectful I ain’t know my parents first name until I was 10 years old 😂

  • @mdanielsrr
    @mdanielsrr 9 місяців тому +1193

    The daughter is a reflection of her mother.

    • @AC-ss5oy
      @AC-ss5oy 9 місяців тому +57

      "they have boots and material things but are rude and backhanded with each other" ---sounds about typical considering....

    • @karyndutton8154
      @karyndutton8154 8 місяців тому +7

      Big Facts

    • @jamesreed7133
      @jamesreed7133 8 місяців тому

      Spoiled Brat that just saw an opportunity to be on TV and look "cute" for the camera they didn't want Iyanla's Help... I wouldn't have gave this Family the time of day if the run their business into the ground let them

    • @Depplova81
      @Depplova81 8 місяців тому +5

      More often than not. Definitely not always

    • @mzparalegal2010
      @mzparalegal2010 7 місяців тому +2

      ​@@AC-ss5oytypical of what, exactly?

  • @priscillak88
    @priscillak88 9 місяців тому +1074

    They didn’t want Iyanla’s help when they realized she knew their game and that the mother-daughter victims were really the bullies and the problem.

    • @toneys4458
      @toneys4458 9 місяців тому +81

      😅The stinky, gross "rotted meat" being covered up with nice 'fragrance spray' is how so many people act in public everyday - Great Analogy Iyanla👍💯🤣🤣🤣

    • @sanskretro
      @sanskretro 9 місяців тому

      ​@@toneys4458🔥

    • @NubianP6
      @NubianP6 8 місяців тому +53

      They were too busy trying to be and act “cute”.

    • @tamekaseymore9809
      @tamekaseymore9809 8 місяців тому +31

      She saw right through them.

    • @kianneabercrombie603
      @kianneabercrombie603 8 місяців тому +15

      They all wanted to be on Television..i think the middle sister was the realest 1 to an extent but she also low key celebrated maybe an outlet for alil fame lol... this case & episode gave me a complete head~ache🥴🙄😂😂, lil miss Rachel messed the whole plan up that i believe they all came up with together with her bratty a** attitude!

  • @jamesfountainjr.6661
    @jamesfountainjr.6661 9 місяців тому +1809

    Please whoever is in charge of this channel, continuing posting more of iyanla fix my life full episodes, we miss her show and we want ALL the episodes ❤

  • @acplaze9022
    @acplaze9022 9 місяців тому +1303

    Raquel’s constant smiling and laughing irked my soul. I feel like she just wanted to be on TV.

    • @eatwithego9131
      @eatwithego9131 8 місяців тому +118

      That’s exactly what she wanted. To be on tv. I would’ve cut the cameras and never aired this episode

    • @watchwithme7703
      @watchwithme7703 8 місяців тому +18

      same

    • @Phoenix-el2xh
      @Phoenix-el2xh 8 місяців тому +62

      That's it!!! Clout chasing, shallow.

    • @nwanzeemmanuella5302
      @nwanzeemmanuella5302 8 місяців тому +45

      I had the same feeling. So disrespectful & rude at the same time...

    • @Depplova81
      @Depplova81 8 місяців тому +13

      That's exactly what that is.

  • @jazmina1343
    @jazmina1343 9 місяців тому +610

    The young girl lied by omission and was embarrassed when called out for the foolishness. Iyanna got her all the way together. 😂

    • @toneys4458
      @toneys4458 9 місяців тому +5

      😂

    • @bludiva27
      @bludiva27 8 місяців тому +44

      No she flat out lied. Multiple times. To Iyanla's face.

    • @Rhenadhis
      @Rhenadhis 7 місяців тому +24

      It was NOT by omission, it was a flat out lie in Iyanla's face

    • @harlem4653
      @harlem4653 7 місяців тому

      She didn't "lie by omission" she LIED with her ugly self

    • @alanne1.17.77
      @alanne1.17.77 7 місяців тому +14

      That was not a lie by omission. That was a flat tf out lie. Period.

  • @kevincarpenter2525
    @kevincarpenter2525 9 місяців тому +500

    "This is what it look like when we put more emphasis on our external than our internal". This right here. 💯

    • @toneys4458
      @toneys4458 9 місяців тому +9

      👍💯

    • @Denise-ke3jn
      @Denise-ke3jn 9 місяців тому +6

      🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯

    • @1QYITSTORM
      @1QYITSTORM 5 місяців тому +2

      Oooo yes! Disgusting in the words of Iyanla Ms V.

    • @cb4664
      @cb4664 4 місяці тому +2

      Facts on facts on facts 👍🏾

    • @jkweili
      @jkweili 4 місяці тому +1

      Yeeeeeeeessssss!!!!

  • @phylliswade5175
    @phylliswade5175 9 місяців тому +726

    The way Raquel talked to Iyana is the same way she talk to her mother . Listen to how she disrespected her mother when they were by themselves

    • @zuritribe4844
      @zuritribe4844 9 місяців тому +36

      THAT ISH WAS CRAZY TOO SEE! I ALMOST WANTED TO COME THROUGH MY COMPUTER FOR IYANLA! LIKE YO RESPECT THE ELDERS YOU DONT GOTTA LIKE THEM

    • @ReadyNowStayReady
      @ReadyNowStayReady 9 місяців тому +29

      And, then she wants to act all different and pull her daughter to the side with her, hold up sista…hold up sista
      .. whatever 🙄

    • @karenmcgee1869
      @karenmcgee1869 9 місяців тому +10

      So true and very unfortunate!

    • @Denise-ke3jn
      @Denise-ke3jn 9 місяців тому +1

      They think all the material things make them look good. But when your spirit is ugly, no one cares about the things that surround you, their little security blankets for lack of whatever their insecurities are. I wouldn't waste my time nor energy on foolery.
      She needs the hair and a touch of makeup wouldn't hurt, but she has far bigger self issues.

    • @breannajones2131
      @breannajones2131 9 місяців тому +15

      RIGHT the daughter is the problem 😅

  • @BRIDGETUHMYEAH
    @BRIDGETUHMYEAH 8 місяців тому +141

    It was uncomfortable to watch people disrespect Ms. Iyanla’s time and her ministry like this so casually. Like, do you know it’s a privilege to have her sitting in your home trying to offer guidance to you??

  • @nicoleprice354
    @nicoleprice354 9 місяців тому +509

    She initially invited her for the reason Iyanla said....to be on TV

    • @Denise-ke3jn
      @Denise-ke3jn 9 місяців тому +26

      Then showed herself to be silly Nellie. Acting like a 12 year old.

    • @PeaceLoveAndJoy
      @PeaceLoveAndJoy 8 місяців тому +24

      100%. She wanted to show off her fake hair and fake eyelashes for the tv. She's rude and fake.

    • @annettescroggins3905
      @annettescroggins3905 5 місяців тому +4

      Agree. She is shallow and spoiled. Life is to short

  • @monharris28
    @monharris28 5 місяців тому +95

    The young girl never been checked like that and got in her feelings. The ego will make you a fool every time.

  • @ummzaynab7702
    @ummzaynab7702 9 місяців тому +385

    Did she just tell her mama not to play with her? Cause the way my mama would have snatched my soul. Right then. 😮

    • @mjallen1308
      @mjallen1308 8 місяців тому +26

      20:31 the fact that her mom is calling her “sister” like she’s some kind of equal when it seems to me that she doesn’t even do any work or hasn’t done any work in her mom/aunties’ business is telling to me. The daughter is the main problem.

    • @liveyourlife495
      @liveyourlife495 8 місяців тому

      Girl, soulless.

    • @ShesFromVenus
      @ShesFromVenus 7 місяців тому +35

      With the finger in the face?! She would’ve been picking herself up off the ground. Period. 👏🏽

    • @alanne1.17.77
      @alanne1.17.77 7 місяців тому

      Chile listen. I flinched cause I was sure she was finna get slapped .....

    • @zzizahacallar
      @zzizahacallar 5 місяців тому +5

      Yeah the fact the daughter kept putting her finger in her mom's face.....😮 Lord. Not today Satan

  • @briannthompson7049
    @briannthompson7049 7 місяців тому +131

    "as long as you're comfortable, you're not growing" THAT'S A WORD.

  • @troberson5501
    @troberson5501 7 місяців тому +228

    Raquel is upset because Iyanla exposed who she really is - selfish, bratty, and disrespectful!

  • @AlexanderTheGraype
    @AlexanderTheGraype 9 місяців тому +598

    Miss Anna out here looking like Chaka Khan. The whole family putting Iyanla through the fire, to the limit, to the wall 🎶 😂

    • @wangarireginah
      @wangarireginah 9 місяців тому +12

      😂

    • @virgo7956
      @virgo7956 9 місяців тому +12

      😂😂😂😂😂😂
      Damn😂😂😂😂

    • @MsAmique
      @MsAmique 9 місяців тому +10

      Lol 😆

    • @janaeraquelmiller
      @janaeraquelmiller 9 місяців тому +10

      😩😂😂

    • @Honestly_Sisi
      @Honestly_Sisi 9 місяців тому +28

      I thought the same thing! Looking just like Chaka! All the sisters are beautiful. 😍

  • @Tayjahbaby8371
    @Tayjahbaby8371 9 місяців тому +138

    Omg the way Raquel talked to her mother floored me. I love that Iyanla wouldn't let her get away with lying.

  • @ayannacollins7405
    @ayannacollins7405 9 місяців тому +431

    LMAO ... When Iyanla got her coat and they asked where are you going . " I can stay home and be treated bad, and I think I need a coffee drink"...Lol

    • @toneys4458
      @toneys4458 9 місяців тому +23

      Yes Ms Iyanla is a Queen, I don't blame her, her time shouldn't be wasted! 💯👍🤦🤣🤷☕

    • @toneys4458
      @toneys4458 9 місяців тому +5

      I agree @ayannacollins💯👍🤣

    • @toneys4458
      @toneys4458 9 місяців тому +5

      @ayannacollins you right!

    • @Sandramundy
      @Sandramundy 9 місяців тому +21

      That cracked me up so much. 😂😂😂😂😂How dare she not bring a coffee ‘drink’ for the Queen. The disrespect was palpable. 😢

    • @Goodakeraretha
      @Goodakeraretha 8 місяців тому +5

      Right where her ☕️ 😅at ?

  • @karenmcgee1869
    @karenmcgee1869 9 місяців тому +90

    Crystal was the only 1 willing to get help and correct their family issues. I'm excited that Crystal learned to tell the truth to her family. My heart went out to her.

    • @yesterdayitrained
      @yesterdayitrained 4 місяці тому +4

      Totally agree. She’s sweet and real and not all about the status. She suffering the most too.

    • @karenmcgee1869
      @karenmcgee1869 4 місяці тому +1

      @@yesterdayitrained yes!

    • @tedra6455
      @tedra6455 2 місяці тому +1

      The others need to be true to themselves.

    • @karenmcgee1869
      @karenmcgee1869 2 місяці тому

      @@tedra6455 I definitely agree!

  • @penelopeb1370
    @penelopeb1370 9 місяців тому +415

    The mother is preparing to buy that girl a business is not a good idea. I can imagine how awful her behavior is now.

    • @toneys4458
      @toneys4458 9 місяців тому +9

      Yes! 🤦😭🤣

    • @Nevaeh1
      @Nevaeh1 9 місяців тому +10

      this was probably ten years ago so hopefully she's grown

    • @bakerbwoy123
      @bakerbwoy123 7 місяців тому +17

      I can imagine clients sat waiting in the chair for 90 minutes and her strolling in saying she had to get coffee

    • @zzizahacallar
      @zzizahacallar 5 місяців тому +10

      She'd run it to the ground.

    • @souluvlai
      @souluvlai 4 місяці тому +2

      Exactly! At the point of this taping the beautiful young woman needs help but she was unaware of what help she needed… but Iyanla is so right the funk was FUNKY…. And Chile…. When the going gets tough… honey…

  • @inethacousin3387
    @inethacousin3387 9 місяців тому +153

    Whew I love Iyanla. Even before the show I was reading her books, but her walking out talking about "I might need a coffee drink" took me out! 🤣

    • @toneys4458
      @toneys4458 9 місяців тому +3

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @UjoWadjet
      @UjoWadjet 4 місяці тому

      😅😅😅😅😅

  • @personal3766
    @personal3766 8 місяців тому +480

    Money but no class. Even the older women sat there sipping their coffee, without offering their guest anything! Where are their basic values?

    • @brigittebailey5501
      @brigittebailey5501 6 місяців тому +27

      All of this!!!!! No class at all!!!!!

    • @tsongamadetheowdenburg3085
      @tsongamadetheowdenburg3085 5 місяців тому +12

      Yap! That was something!!!

    • @SPtheGREAT
      @SPtheGREAT 5 місяців тому +8

      That's A BIT DISRESPECTFUL!!!

    • @raycurry4168
      @raycurry4168 5 місяців тому

      @@c.calliecoleman1531 Just GHETTO to the core...ALL of them.

    • @TheAshMcG
      @TheAshMcG 4 місяці тому +6

      No manners....the lot of them.

  • @greysonlb4224
    @greysonlb4224 9 місяців тому +236

    Shout out to Crystal for being the least problematic sister. The daughter is a gaslighter and self-important because her mommy buys all her problems away. Let that girl know struggle.

    • @sufundasamuels2313
      @sufundasamuels2313 5 місяців тому +7

      Exactly!

    • @AmbulatoryFungus
      @AmbulatoryFungus 3 місяці тому +1

      Supergaslighter. Literally admit she lied and then say, "I didn't lie"

    • @greysonlb4224
      @greysonlb4224 3 місяці тому +1

      @@AmbulatoryFungus She gaslit herself 🤣

    • @desiprioleau
      @desiprioleau 3 місяці тому +1

      The sad part is that she will struggle unnecessarily bc the rest of the world isn’t gonna tolerate that crap from her

    • @kimberlygarland8661
      @kimberlygarland8661 3 місяці тому +1

      Exactly

  • @shelbimdennis
    @shelbimdennis 9 місяців тому +135

    I love the way Ms. Iyanla sets strong boundaries and commands respect. It’s really helpful to me

    • @dcg590
      @dcg590 8 місяців тому

      Men do the same thing. Which is why a lot of woman are single, they will not submit and be under any leadership or discipline. They decide a man who commands and demands respect is ‘controlling’. They’d rather be alone and trash a man than have a partnership and get along with a man. Until they’re old and wonder where all the good men are and need retirement support. Then they expect their kids to fund their retirement which is a terrible thing to do to your kids. Your kids dont owe you anything

  • @luvnhappiness
    @luvnhappiness 9 місяців тому +324

    8 minutes in and I know this crew is not going to "do the work".

    • @zuritribe4844
      @zuritribe4844 9 місяців тому +7

      SADLY NBS!!! I COULD TELL FROM THEIR ATTITUDE ASAP!!!

    • @ruksyo7904
      @ruksyo7904 9 місяців тому +20

      Very true , they just wanted to show their bags and shoes and cars..🙄🙄🙄

    • @sufundasamuels2313
      @sufundasamuels2313 5 місяців тому +1

      I thought the same thing! Guess what? They didn't "do the work!"

  • @AtheneHolder
    @AtheneHolder 8 місяців тому +55

    Racquel smiling and her mother's reaction to Iyanla telling her her daughter is a reflection of her tells me everything I need to know
    get famous on your own time homie

  • @Mpirefilms
    @Mpirefilms 9 місяців тому +145

    The phrase 'Coffee Drink' was said so many times in a half hour.

    • @robbycharmed
      @robbycharmed 8 місяців тому +5

      LMAO right!! it's funny but bothering me at the same time.

    • @zzizahacallar
      @zzizahacallar 5 місяців тому +6

      The te fact she wasn't offered anything. Didn't make Ms. Vanzant feel welcome. It wasn't about the coffee

    • @mothicbeauty
      @mothicbeauty 3 місяці тому

      She got a chuckle out of me with that one

  • @faithshaya3713
    @faithshaya3713 7 місяців тому +45

    We need more elders like Mrs Iyanla.

  • @nobyjayo3804
    @nobyjayo3804 9 місяців тому +148

    They didn't want help. They just wanted to be on television smh.

    • @jenniferray509
      @jenniferray509 7 місяців тому +5

      Exactly all of them wanted fame not just the daughter.

  • @MalikRashod
    @MalikRashod 9 місяців тому +136

    They came for tv. Point, blank, period.

    • @ruksyo7904
      @ruksyo7904 9 місяців тому +18

      To show cars, shoes and ‘status’..🙄🙄

  • @alexish8183
    @alexish8183 7 місяців тому +180

    Watching Rachel, she does not seem emotionally stable. The smiling, the eyes darting back and forth, the erratic head movements.. she is not okay. She wrote Iyanla because she knows if her mom/aunts can’t get along the family business fails and so does her money train.

  • @Sandramundy
    @Sandramundy 9 місяців тому +89

    Designer clothes and no Fruits of the Spirit; is on display here. I don’t think people realize how Beautiful Kindness and Grace looks on them! ❤ I am sorry that The Queen was disrespected.

    • @elizabethantoine9652
      @elizabethantoine9652 8 місяців тому +7

      Designer clothes!?? Lol I’m weak!! Red boots and a red shirt !!! Bammmmmaaaaaa

    • @cb4664
      @cb4664 4 місяці тому

      Burlington Coat factory? 😂😂😂

  • @KapQueen
    @KapQueen 9 місяців тому +550

    What an immature 24 yr old

    • @AC-ss5oy
      @AC-ss5oy 9 місяців тому

      baldheaded scallywags that just wanted to be on TV

    • @latoyaogilvie7646
      @latoyaogilvie7646 9 місяців тому +50

      Her behavior has been enabled that’s why .

    • @ruksyo7904
      @ruksyo7904 9 місяців тому +37

      The mother is no better…🙄🙄

    • @aussiemouth747
      @aussiemouth747 8 місяців тому +20

      They are all immature. Yelling and screaming. I'm tired just watching it!

    • @faithshaya3713
      @faithshaya3713 7 місяців тому +7

      I feel like her mother allows her to be like that.

  • @ElaynaAlexander-z5r
    @ElaynaAlexander-z5r 9 місяців тому +283

    Let Iyanla come to fix my life, not only will i be on time, i'll be early

    • @AC-ss5oy
      @AC-ss5oy 9 місяців тому

      baldheaded scallywags that just wanted to be on TV

    • @corinnehenry2903
      @corinnehenry2903 9 місяців тому +3

      😂😂😂😂❤

    • @robynjones53
      @robynjones53 9 місяців тому +5

      Facts!!!!

    • @toneys4458
      @toneys4458 9 місяців тому +2

      💯

    • @Sandramundy
      @Sandramundy 9 місяців тому +17

      Don’t forget her Coffee drink 😅😅😅

  • @jenniferwilliams6494
    @jenniferwilliams6494 9 місяців тому +64

    Ms. Iyanla called it as soon as she stepped on the scene y'all!!

    • @zzizahacallar
      @zzizahacallar 5 місяців тому +2

      She saw the external this family is portraying. They don't care to get better; they like it this way. Plus they wanted to on tv

  • @fee9971
    @fee9971 9 місяців тому +165

    My soul cringes every time they don’t call her Ms Iyanla 😫 I would never!!!!!

    • @theejaydoubleyew
      @theejaydoubleyew 9 місяців тому +13

      Same. Especially the younger ones.

    • @Erikay80
      @Erikay80 9 місяців тому +9

      Same here! I’m saying “it’s Miss Iyanla and Aunt Annie”……every time she addresses them the wrong way

    • @auntiemeemaw3885
      @auntiemeemaw3885 9 місяців тому +5

      Exactly

    • @ruksyo7904
      @ruksyo7904 9 місяців тому +2

      It just goes to show…

    • @toneys4458
      @toneys4458 9 місяців тому +1

      💯👍

  • @lakicia30
    @lakicia30 8 місяців тому +50

    One of my favorite Iyanla moments. "I"m not going upstairs" 😂 She was tired of them folks 😂

  • @daisylavender5275
    @daisylavender5275 9 місяців тому +94

    She has alot of enablers. 😮

  • @The_authentic_queen_
    @The_authentic_queen_ 9 місяців тому +151

    Imagine her running a business. I wouldn't want business from her for free.

    • @ElvinaLSmith
      @ElvinaLSmith 8 місяців тому +15

      Right. She's 2 hours late for an appointment and come in with food and Starbucks. Her whole meal would be on the floor.

    • @landeno
      @landeno 6 місяців тому +7

      She’s not ready.

    • @sufundasamuels2313
      @sufundasamuels2313 5 місяців тому +10

      I know that's right and if anything, that so=called grown little girl will have her mother in massive debt due to not knowing how to talk to people.

    • @cb4664
      @cb4664 4 місяці тому

      A hot azz mess

    • @tedra6455
      @tedra6455 2 місяці тому

      That girl can't run herself let along a business. She has no work ethics if her mother is paying her rent and buying her car.

  • @jackychela4638
    @jackychela4638 9 місяців тому +196

    Raquel is disrespectful period! They wanted to do television

    • @tedra6455
      @tedra6455 2 місяці тому

      She really wanted to do TV.

  • @lisalove4183
    @lisalove4183 9 місяців тому +339

    Raquel is so disrespectful and you don't disrespect your elders.

    • @theejaydoubleyew
      @theejaydoubleyew 9 місяців тому +13

      Your logic is illogical, toxic a* and why generational trauma is a thing. Elders don't get to be disrespectful just because they're older. And -- holding someone who responds inappropriately, more accountable than the person s/he/they are responding to, is weird, sick and disgusting.

    • @MsAmique
      @MsAmique 9 місяців тому

      @theejaydoubleyew you’re showing how poorly you were raised. I certainly hope you’re not a parent.

    • @robertcurry4832
      @robertcurry4832 9 місяців тому +23

      @@theejaydoubleyewyou must be 18 💀

    • @dollskull86
      @dollskull86 9 місяців тому +22

      ​@theejaydoubleyew Girl whet???? You sound like a 12 year old rebellious teen and so did she

    • @ruksyo7904
      @ruksyo7904 9 місяців тому +8

      @@theejaydoubleyewuse proper words dear, what does weird mean in this context?🙄🙄

  • @Teenywing
    @Teenywing 9 місяців тому +57

    I’m going to start shouting “PUMP THE BRAKES!” From now on. It’s funny every single time.

  • @nyladj4510
    @nyladj4510 7 місяців тому +55

    I need them to make some, “Where are they now” episodes because I’d love to see what they chose to do later and what tools they picked up if any to heal their family. That was very interesting and hard to watch

    • @zzizahacallar
      @zzizahacallar 5 місяців тому +4

      I'd love to watch that

    • @desiprioleau
      @desiprioleau 3 місяці тому +2

      Honestly 70% probably end up back at square one, but that’s not Iyanla’s fault

    • @kimberlygarland8661
      @kimberlygarland8661 3 місяці тому +1

      Good idea

  • @lashantiwilliams719
    @lashantiwilliams719 9 місяців тому +177

    Would someone please tell the young lady, this is not Love and Hip Hop. I dont believe she had the right intention when she wrote the show.

    • @toneys4458
      @toneys4458 9 місяців тому +5

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @sufundasamuels2313
      @sufundasamuels2313 5 місяців тому +12

      No, she didn't have the right intentions and she showed it here. Somebody please tell Raquel that her behavior is very irksome and not cute at all! I don't understand how these women can run a healthcare agency with this much conflict....to be honest, the first thing I thought about in the first few minutes of their introduction are they running a business or a scam? They should've had on scrubs, instead of high heels and boots.

    • @cb4664
      @cb4664 4 місяці тому +3

      And that’s why it blew up in her face.

    • @BreeziDeezi
      @BreeziDeezi 4 місяці тому

      She seem delayed

  • @MrAsiaMynor
    @MrAsiaMynor 9 місяців тому +189

    Just Left The Salon? With THAT Leave Out And THOSE Edges?! TUH!!!

  • @leonie85
    @leonie85 8 місяців тому +62

    When Iyanla does that little cackle laugh of hers 🤣

  • @jadeorien
    @jadeorien 9 місяців тому +161

    Crystal was the only one that was being cooperative. I am 25 years old and I dont act like that but when no one holds you accountable for your actions you grow up believing that you never do anything wrong. Hopefully, Raquel grew up and became better for herself.

    • @anolacharellsmith315
      @anolacharellsmith315 9 місяців тому +1

      True story

    • @yesterdayitrained
      @yesterdayitrained 4 місяці тому +1

      Crystal’s a real one. The only one.

    • @tedra6455
      @tedra6455 2 місяці тому +1

      Crystal has dignity and respect. She's real. All the other ladies were fake.

  • @sytycdvigirl
    @sytycdvigirl 7 місяців тому +40

    They took the time away from others who could have really used the help.

  • @kitchentalkwithtina2062
    @kitchentalkwithtina2062 9 місяців тому +371

    Her mother has enabled Raquel behavior!!!! That brat is terrible!!!

    • @prizvinyam8356
      @prizvinyam8356 7 місяців тому +5

      You’re right.

    • @annettescroggins3905
      @annettescroggins3905 5 місяців тому +5

      Agree. Good luck in the real world

    • @hsmathis
      @hsmathis 3 місяці тому

      Raquel is a product of her environment

    • @tedra6455
      @tedra6455 2 місяці тому

      She to old to act that way. But she was raised so that what happens.

  • @lovelytea5764
    @lovelytea5764 9 місяців тому +49

    As she saying sorry I apologize she’s cheesing and smiling from ear to ear that in and of itself is very disrespectful

  • @JG-si7cc
    @JG-si7cc 9 місяців тому +586

    “A COFFEE DRINK”

    • @andreaaugustus4377
      @andreaaugustus4377 9 місяців тому +30

      LMFAOOOOO

    • @erikaarnold4780
      @erikaarnold4780 9 місяців тому +14

      I swear🤣

    • @timass9090
      @timass9090 9 місяців тому +33

      😂😂 she was not playing about it

    • @zuritribe4844
      @zuritribe4844 9 місяців тому

      😁😁 I APOLOGIZE..... STOP THE STUPIDITY LIL GIRL

    • @toneys4458
      @toneys4458 9 місяців тому +5

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @sureiamboo
    @sureiamboo 9 місяців тому +51

    There is always a scapegoat in the family, I believe that the younger sister hurts the most here !!!

  • @chelleychelleee630
    @chelleychelleee630 7 місяців тому +33

    They didn't wanna heal they just wanted to be on television

  • @fbasha9270
    @fbasha9270 9 місяців тому +267

    Its sad how our black community is conditioned to attack each other, gossip and argue but not addressing the real issues. Lots of our own family is this toxic

    • @niecyj.1782
      @niecyj.1782 9 місяців тому +5

      yup!

    • @lakicia30
      @lakicia30 8 місяців тому

      that's not the black community. that's the human community

    • @heyitsmyTeeTa
      @heyitsmyTeeTa 8 місяців тому +17

      Exactly!!! When i started my healing journey the hardest part was realizing i had to cut off and not worry about half of my family.

    • @ramonahamm6292
      @ramonahamm6292 8 місяців тому +13

      This is not unique to our community

    • @queenroyaltyrules55
      @queenroyaltyrules55 8 місяців тому

      Your comment is extremely ignorant. This disfunction isn't unique to black families .

  • @CanadianBisdak
    @CanadianBisdak 8 місяців тому +31

    She’s roasted right away. Good job Iyanla, put her in her place

  • @theejaydoubleyew
    @theejaydoubleyew 9 місяців тому +123

    I feel bad for Crystal; she's the strongest, has the most sense and carries the heavy ssa loads dumped on her by her Goof Troop ssa sisters and moronic niece.

    • @toneys4458
      @toneys4458 9 місяців тому +3

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @cb4664
      @cb4664 4 місяці тому +3

      Simple sentence: if you have an issue with -- call --. I don’t want to be put in the middle. Have a good day.

  • @sharraht1292
    @sharraht1292 7 місяців тому +25

    While I am so sorry that they wasted her time, Iyanla is the Auntie that our families need-she calls out the foolishness and will not accept excuses!

  • @angeniquehopkins5246
    @angeniquehopkins5246 9 місяців тому +31

    They are not aware of how much it was a blessing tht they were enen chosen! Millions of people would give anything for this opportunity! They should be ashamed how they wasted these people time, and every time they see this episod, they send out an apology email!💯

  • @dlinkster
    @dlinkster 5 місяців тому +48

    I think I’m going to get me a coffee drink after watching this episode. 😂🤣🤣

  • @Iesha_j
    @Iesha_j 9 місяців тому +101

    Getting my morning started watching as I work. Let me go get me “A COFFEE DRINK” for a little boost 😂

    • @Sandramundy
      @Sandramundy 9 місяців тому +5

      Get me one too 😅😅😅😅😅😅

    • @renee9296
      @renee9296 6 місяців тому +3

      At my desk right now like dis: 👀

    • @sphinxkitty4951
      @sphinxkitty4951 3 місяці тому

      Lmao

  • @emilyannsarah
    @emilyannsarah 7 місяців тому +35

    If i was blessed with Iyanla coming to my home and to my family, best believe i would be there, not on time but EARLY, with bells on.

    • @annettescroggins3905
      @annettescroggins3905 5 місяців тому +1

      Agree...she doesn't play and will put you on blast !😅

    • @tedra6455
      @tedra6455 2 місяці тому

      What did she get done to her hair? I didn't see anything worth being there late.

    • @tedra6455
      @tedra6455 2 місяці тому

      So true. I agree.

  • @highwaygoals777
    @highwaygoals777 8 місяців тому +10

    This was hard to watch. But again, Iyanla proves with things like this that she did not come to play television and that's why we love her. Thank you Iyanla 🙏

  • @Newone77759
    @Newone77759 9 місяців тому +77

    I got 3 daughters there is no way lord that I would except that type of behavior in front of me and more importantly in front of a older woman

  • @shelliesweetsATL
    @shelliesweetsATL 9 місяців тому +77

    People feeling like they are attractive or rich enough to be disrespectful is why the world sucks now. This sick, vain world is over. And baby girl.. smh

    • @ruksyo7904
      @ruksyo7904 9 місяців тому +3

      Baby….

    • @sherei9530
      @sherei9530 8 місяців тому +6

      Raquel said they were wealthy but them cars dont match that neighborhood. They may need some investment advice.

    • @SheSells_StLouis
      @SheSells_StLouis 8 місяців тому

      Exactly!

    • @vickyserr
      @vickyserr 5 місяців тому

      Raquel is damn disrespectful . Irritating and stupid

    • @mshill2406
      @mshill2406 5 місяців тому

      Totally agree

  • @Ohmygodness34
    @Ohmygodness34 8 місяців тому +27

    It’s so funny how they be ready leave the minute she challenges and tell the truth about them

    • @tyraharris2090
      @tyraharris2090 5 місяців тому +3

      because they had no intention of being honest and taking her advice

  • @zsarmaniwright
    @zsarmaniwright 8 місяців тому +93

    The way Raquel was pointing in her moms face and pushed her moms HAND DOWN like that on the porch!!?? 20:50
    WHAT!?
    Me and my mom have got into heated arguments but baby-😂😂😂I would’ve got laid OUT on national television

    • @TanyaHarris-d8w
      @TanyaHarris-d8w 6 місяців тому +4

      Facts 💯

    • @saashaj7649
      @saashaj7649 5 місяців тому +9

      Listen! The way my mama would have turned into one of those Mortal Kombat characters and boxed me until "Finish Him" came up on the screen! Oh no.... ohhhh no. Smh

    • @cb4664
      @cb4664 4 місяці тому +1

      …in a casket! 😂

    • @ghettoghost305
      @ghettoghost305 4 місяці тому

      Agreed………..but this just shows that all Black ppl do NOT grow up with the same values and morals; therefore, we all don’t treat our parents the same unfortunately.

    • @sphinxkitty4951
      @sphinxkitty4951 3 місяці тому

      I’m trying to tell you! There would’ve been a cut seen to my casket being carried out 😂😂

  • @terieaw.2892
    @terieaw.2892 9 місяців тому +41

    Wow this young lady needs to grow up

  • @beautyisyourbestfriend
    @beautyisyourbestfriend 7 місяців тому +27

    She think owning her own salon will be easy. If she only knows. She’s definitely not ready.

  • @jsahduhs
    @jsahduhs 9 місяців тому +163

    These are some beautiful women but I’m embarrassed at how they allow that child to disrespect them and iyanla

    • @elizabethantoine9652
      @elizabethantoine9652 8 місяців тому +5

      Beauty is in the eye of the beholder- waste🤷‍♀️

    • @sherei9530
      @sherei9530 8 місяців тому

      ​@@elizabethantoine9652I went back at scanned to see who @jsahduhs was referring to

    • @tonitwitty9529
      @tonitwitty9529 7 місяців тому

      Evidently they are beautiful to the original commenter that's why they said it so ur comment was irrelevant. I also agree that they are beautiful.​@@elizabethantoine9652

    • @vickyserr
      @vickyserr 5 місяців тому +2

      @@elizabethantoine9652true boa. Coz I ain’t seeing what others are. If they take off the wigs, eyelashes etc, perhaps I can see the real beauty

    • @raycurry4168
      @raycurry4168 5 місяців тому

      Beautiful???? Lol...Who??????

  • @MeenaMeeee
    @MeenaMeeee 8 місяців тому +23

    The way she was waving her finger in her mom’s face? I would never.

    • @tedra6455
      @tedra6455 2 місяці тому

      That girl is out of control.She need Jesus to guide her in life.

  • @MsPANTHER47
    @MsPANTHER47 9 місяців тому +77

    "I'll just lean up on the Porsche."

    • @Rebecca-hc5ju
      @Rebecca-hc5ju 8 місяців тому +2

      😂🤣😅🤭🤭🤭🤭💀

  • @honeybee2532
    @honeybee2532 9 місяців тому +35

    Thought she could walk in late and jump in but she was called out. Her lie didnt go down either then she was concerned about how she would look on tv and did that attitude thing to hide her embarassment

  • @bippityboppityboo2u
    @bippityboppityboo2u 9 місяців тому +70

    Daughter is a disgusting acting monster...probably saw her mother behave that way and now she does...that scene with her and her mom outside..yuck..

    • @ItsAllLove4Real
      @ItsAllLove4Real 9 місяців тому +7

      I was about to actually go in on your comment, and I would've been dead wrong!🙌🏾 14:45 Did you SEE the Mother's attitude and lil neck twitch when Iyanla asked her that question, ugghhh!! Oh no....Just absolutely not, I wanted to crawl through my phone grab BOTH of 'em, the disrespect vexed my flesh.

    • @bippityboppityboo2u
      @bippityboppityboo2u 9 місяців тому +3

      @@ItsAllLove4Real right!! Needs to be called out and not tolerated!! It was sad to watch

  • @Kali2Htwn
    @Kali2Htwn 9 місяців тому +55

    The daughter and mother duo are one in the same.

    • @juanitawilliams8250
      @juanitawilliams8250 4 місяці тому

      A man need to run for the hills away from her and her dtr
      Ezekiel 16:44
      [44]Behold, every one that useth proverbs shall use this proverb against thee, saying, As is the mother, so is her daughter.

    • @kenny3269
      @kenny3269 4 місяці тому

      @@juanitawilliams8250facts!

    • @tedra6455
      @tedra6455 2 місяці тому

      True, except the daughter is twice as bad.

  • @Dwizzle2023
    @Dwizzle2023 7 місяців тому +10

    Now we understand why Ms. Iyanla left. This episode made me understand why she felt disrespected smh.

  • @Bernadette.Burnie
    @Bernadette.Burnie 9 місяців тому +188

    Raquel wanted to play to the camera

  • @suzethngutonua6908
    @suzethngutonua6908 9 місяців тому +46

    This girl just wanted to be on TV . She even got her hair done, and the way she be smiling. No mahn

  • @harlem4653
    @harlem4653 7 місяців тому +12

    "Shes telling us all off in an intelligent way " NO! Iyanla is telling you the obvious TRUTH about YOURSELVES!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @mauraramsay415
    @mauraramsay415 8 місяців тому +17

    This little girl coming in grinning and taking for granted time taken to help her family. She didn’t care to show up on time, sad. Disrespectful

  • @nyshairving7383
    @nyshairving7383 7 місяців тому +13

    Crystal is the only one with empathy that mother and daughter is something else

  • @sherei9530
    @sherei9530 8 місяців тому +20

    "I could have stayed home". Imagine getting Iyanlas attention and not doing the work

  • @LeshaFBaby
    @LeshaFBaby 9 місяців тому +40

    Raquel needs to humble herself. You called Iyanla for help. Her and her mom are the problems. Who about to work under her in a shop. Then tried to cry girl bye😂😂 they spent half the time on her nonsense

  • @mpilokhumalo5046
    @mpilokhumalo5046 8 місяців тому +18

    This girl reminds me of Amy on Amy's Bakery Company on Gordon Ramsay's Kitchen Nightmares. She wanted to be on TV and wanted Iyanla to say everything is good.

  • @NormaBracey-u4d
    @NormaBracey-u4d 8 місяців тому +47

    This is sad. Privileged ignorance. Letting a 24 year old have a tantrum and run the family. She said that she knows who she is. She does not know who she is, not even that she is a spoiled brat which is not attractive at all, on anyone.

    • @tedra6455
      @tedra6455 2 місяці тому

      As she like to say she bless. She can't even be true to herself. Let alone know who she is. I'll be praying for her.

  • @katlegomhlauli8423
    @katlegomhlauli8423 5 місяців тому +8

    Clean clear and complete… I started using this concept and I feel so much lighter I don’t carry resentment for not fully being clear about my feelings

  • @Bklynpimpstress
    @Bklynpimpstress 8 місяців тому +30

    Lol the way ppl act when they are held accountable for their actions is wild

  • @sabrinax4575
    @sabrinax4575 4 місяці тому +7

    Man they fumbled a once in a lifetime opportunity meeting with Iyanla AND having the hard conversations that could have an impact on their future generations because they could not control themselves. 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @virginiapurvis3917
    @virginiapurvis3917 9 місяців тому +51

    This is sad that they wasted her time

  • @ElaynaAlexander-z5r
    @ElaynaAlexander-z5r 9 місяців тому +78

    Wait didnt laurie say don't call her sweetie and then referred to Anna as sweetie when she asked for her to get iyanla... the irony

    • @AC-ss5oy
      @AC-ss5oy 9 місяців тому

      baldheaded scallywags that just wanted to be on TV

    • @MsAmique
      @MsAmique 9 місяців тому +10

      I caught that too. They’re a very strange tribe.

    • @dollskull86
      @dollskull86 9 місяців тому +2

      Right!!!

    • @rethabilenxumalo9742
      @rethabilenxumalo9742 8 місяців тому

      😂😂😂exactly

    • @cb4664
      @cb4664 4 місяці тому

      You caught that too! The SHADE….😂

  • @butterflyroho6470
    @butterflyroho6470 9 місяців тому +12

    I don’t know why so many of these families/couples/individuals wasted iyanla’s time. It was frustrating and annoying. And now I get upset all over again re-watching these episodes. There were so many people wanting the help and willing to engage in the process.

  • @Teenie-mg8xn
    @Teenie-mg8xn 9 місяців тому +52

    I thought mama was about to put daughter in her place..daughter put her finger in mama face and told her don't play with her and mama backed down SMH

    • @daisylavender5275
      @daisylavender5275 9 місяців тому +2

      I thought that was her ant lol

    • @CherryColaBarbie
      @CherryColaBarbie 9 місяців тому +6

      Right!! When she threw her finger up in her mother's face, my mouth flew wide open!!! Like WOW!!! Such shameful family behaviors.

    • @chynamama8336
      @chynamama8336 9 місяців тому +8

      Thought I was the only one who saw that. All that proves, is the mama wants to be her friend, not her mother.

    • @cb4664
      @cb4664 4 місяці тому

      Shole did

    • @tedra6455
      @tedra6455 2 місяці тому

      I think mama scared to say no to her daughter.

  • @Willahbean
    @Willahbean 8 місяців тому +23

    Ain’t no way my child about to disrespect Ms. Iyanla like that. We see who needs fixing.

    • @tedra6455
      @tedra6455 2 місяці тому

      I think the girl was really wanted to reach out for help for herself. She was the worse one. The others didn't seem to want help.

  • @annettescroggins3905
    @annettescroggins3905 5 місяців тому +5

    I appreciate Iyanla's honesty and wisdom, and she's direct. You always no where you stand 😅.

  • @dollskull86
    @dollskull86 9 місяців тому +28

    ALL of them wanted to be on TV!!! I would've left immediately!!

    • @tedra6455
      @tedra6455 2 місяці тому

      I don't think Crystal did. She really wanted some help. But I agree with Iyanzla they all need medical therapy. They didn't recognize that and they in the health business. If only for money it seems like.

  • @Dvorah__X
    @Dvorah__X 9 місяців тому +55

    Chile, they were there for them cameras!!🙄

    • @tedra6455
      @tedra6455 2 місяці тому +1

      Well their outcome was all embarrassing to everyone.

  • @BuddaFly18
    @BuddaFly18 5 місяців тому +25

    I’m 10 minutes in and will go out on a limb and say that that demon child is the problem.

    • @stop08it
      @stop08it 4 місяці тому

      She’s not the source of the problem though, her mom enabled her

    • @BuddaFly18
      @BuddaFly18 4 місяці тому

      @@stop08it this is true, but she’s a significant contributor.

    • @tedra6455
      @tedra6455 2 місяці тому

      Yes in deed she is unfortunately. But let her tell she straight.

  • @lucindarscott8202
    @lucindarscott8202 9 місяців тому +17

    girl why you wasting Mrs.Iyanla and our time.. We ain't got time to be playing.. Ladies! we got more important things to do in this world.. HELLO than to look at some heels and hair.. WE TRYING TO FIX PEOPLE LIFE OUT HERE

  • @veronmae7990
    @veronmae7990 8 місяців тому +8

    I would not be going on recommending anyone to that hair saloon until that sick girl is healed of her prideful,puffed upself😮...my sister keep up the good work of fixing lives❤

  • @ElaynaAlexander-z5r
    @ElaynaAlexander-z5r 9 місяців тому +46

    What, did she really talk to her mother that way and then say call grandma.....stop it

    • @tedra6455
      @tedra6455 2 місяці тому

      She probably got grandma wrapped around her finger.

  • @NokthulaMadondo
    @NokthulaMadondo 9 місяців тому +68

    The Braxtons take two😂

    • @nursedani5704
      @nursedani5704 6 місяців тому +1

      If this is the Braxtons, Raquel is giving Tamar.

    • @cb4664
      @cb4664 4 місяці тому

      They probably were trying to get a reality show 😂

    • @tedra6455
      @tedra6455 2 місяці тому

      Yeah, so true.