As if working in the medical isn't hard enough, you gotta keep your mentality up as well?! God bless anyone going in that direction, you're part of the people maintaining humanity together.
Well I was thinking of doing something like this, I have my own problems and I think that helps me understand what other people are going through and I care ALOT about people and it just seems like a thing I want to do.😊 so that you for blessing me.
I feel triggered by some of these things that you mentioned because I have overprotective parents when I was growing up. They wouldn't want me to go anywhere by myself. They would always want me to stay by their side? Because if you wander off without telling anyone where you're going, that would make the parents worry about their children
I relate to it all sadly. I grew up with my mothers mental illness and later became a therapist. I was so excited to get my job at first, but soon resented it. I stayed in a very unhealthy work environment for 4 years because I felt I couldn't leave my clients. I ended up having a complete breakdown and was in inpaitient treatment as well as daily outpatient for months. I only left the job because I became completely unable to function. I never even got to say goodbye to any of my clients because of the circumstances and 7 years later it still bothers me because I can imagine the trauma I caused them by abruptly leaving. I put my degree into a freeze status and don't plan on ever going back to the field which is somewhat sad, but also speaks to my choosing my sanity.
@@Psych2go well, in 2019 my father got very ill and almost died so I basically moved back in with my parents and take care of their medical needs...so I'm definitely still kind of stuck in other people's and my own trauma. But I will say as stressful as caretaking is, I'm glad I can be here with my family and that my dad survived this long. So you win some, you loose some.
Thanks for sharing your story with us. Your situation doesn't sound easy but it also sounds like you're a very resilient person. I sincerely hope that your family is doing better and that you'll be able to navigate through your struggles. :)
I love these, the amount of new things I learn about myself is amazing. Kinda sucks to add to the list of why my brain doesn't work right but that list is the first step to understanding and growth
I cried on the first symptom only. I need some uplifting comments. I know I have a great crowd here which will help me out. Thank you in advance. Those who are feeling the same, feel free to read the comments ❤️ Power to everyone reading.
Whatever you're going through, I sincerely hope that you're finding ways to genuinely take care of yourself. Thank you for having the courage to ask for uplifting comments.
I have what I call too much of a helper's trauma. What I mean is that, if I try to help someone do a task like teaching them to operate a phone, I have to remember every detail in my mind, or else I forget, and that makes me guilty on the inside, since I'm sometimes forgetful. I'm a very helper type of person, since I got it from my mother, and I'm learning how to say no to abusive and demanding vitriol.
I recently read an literary studies article by Tonje Vold on the blogs documenting the Breivik massacre. It was mentioned that 911 was one of the first cases in which bystanders could experience the trauma as well. Those reading the Breivik massacre's victims blogs were deeply affected by the stories. They encouraged the survivors to write, which also shaped the event's narrative and memory. A supportive community was born out of compassion between the people experiencing the trauma first-hand and those who witnessed it second-hand. The support born was similar to what happens in crises like earthquakes and the Corona virus. The effects on the psyche are so severe. So, for those who experienced trauma through witnessing it, you're valuable and needed. :)
I'm not sure if this is normal but I feel like my body literally won't let me listen to others' stories of traumatizing injuries, it causes intense physical discomfort- I've even passed out once. Its weird cuz its not like I've never been hurt, I definitely have, but its hearing others' physical pain that gets me.
This video gave me tears. i dont even know why. every time when i hear about traumatic storys, no matter who is this i always feel guily and bad that i couldnt do anything to help them. and every time when i have these thoughts i end up crying a lot.
I relate to this so hard. I'm 28 and I've been working security for 6 years. Seeing and doing things that regular people should never see has taken a severe toll on my mental health, and sometimes I'd prefer to isolate myself in my room rather than deal with the horrors of the real world.
I experience all of these except for nightmares.. my brother was always the one getting abused in his household, and although I've never experienced anything, I always felt I was developing some of my own form of trauma and was right. I'm so glad you made this video, I finally know what's going on with me.
Well this was a very informative video. I tend to try and help where I can with other people and their problems etc. I let friends and other people complain to me ( I do try to help and advise in return) and always hear plenty of things on what happens. This makes more sense on why I'm a bit more jumpy or stressed out really. I never thought of secondary trauma even being a thing. That bystander guilt is probably the one I feel the most, overprotectiveness is another one.
As a highly sensitive person, I get secondary trauma the moment I see something upseting to me like scary movies or anything with a lot of violence on tv and movies. I know I can't just look away from it but I would freak out and cry if I see something that upsets me and that I can't do anything about it.
This makes sense, given what my family has been through over the years, and the above-average precocity and natural tendency of my kid self to absorb every bit of information and peripheral stimulus. It isn’t the business of any child to experience and/or understand the “adult world” in _any_ capacity, yet it feels like I’ve had involuntarily forced exposure from the start. No-one truly understands how it is to be “the smartest kid in school” before reaching double-digits without having lived it firsthand, and I can say with absolute certainty that everyone deserves to live the naïveté of their childhood years. No-one should ever miss out on getting to be a kid, no matter how “mature for [their] age” they may be. Don’t pile every expectation and preparation on them all at once! As with everything else in this life, allow it to happen in due time…
It's important to remember that setting boundaries to having others vent, especially if you are a sensitive or empathic person, is not a bad thing. I've found that after years of taking on other people's problems, thoughts like "thank God that's not on my plate" or "not my issue to solve" can be extremely liberating. Just know when and who to switch it off for.
I would definitely include adviceline workers in that job list, as depending on the sector you'll hear about peoples worst moments in life, then it's right on to the next call. I've definitely seen a lot of compassion fatigue in colleagues.
Man I've seen bystander guilt and overprotectiveness in myself... For the latter, I'm glad my friends called me out on it and made me aware. It wasn't with a child, but rather my girlfriend when she came to visit. She'd told me of a lot of things that happened in her past, and I am a naturally protective person. And, being that it was her first time coming to visit me, I wanted the trip to go as well as possible - but I became overprotective, which did the opposite of what I was intending. Luckily, I have good friends who told me I was being an asshole about it and who are willing to help me not do it again.
Being very sad on seeing or hearing others getting hurt, is a problem I have been facing too much since my childhood. I love to hear stories and watching movies, but this problem sometime scare me away from an entire movie or story if it seems that it has got several sad moments.
@@Psych2go One of the subjects in the video about working inspired me to revive my urban fantasy story about cosmic-born female humans who fight monsters who also have everyday jobs as both secondary sources of incomes and as a front for secret meetings.
I already know I have secondary trauma. It’s a part of my childhood trauma and has effected me a lot. My mom says it’s nothing and people have went through worse and my newer traumatic events through my eyes are seen as nothing…. I am only 15 in seven days… no one I repeat no one should have to go through somthing and be told it’s nothing.
Thank you for this informative video. Before this video i had no idea about the secondary trauma. I used to wonder why am I not the way i used to be. Just realised its the secondary trauma after listening to many traumatic events.
@psych2go this is true. I will tell you all that im schystzo autistic mix and ive have dealing with this secondary trauma and personal trauma most of my short life. Im 21 and im exhausted being alive. Im tired, i barely function properly and im a huge addict trying to figure out how can someone like me survive in todays society. I try to move foward from it, try to avoid it and try running from all the pain. You guys need to make a video on an example of someone like me who struggles just to move on and move foward.
Can you make a video explaining why I get anxiety/panic attacks whenever I hear OTHER PEOPLE arguing? I really do not understand why I react like this and would like to learn more! :)
Agree! I can't stand people fighting either, not even in movies. My parents have been fighting since I was a child and as nothing gets resolved, it just keeps going. But the more aware I am of that, the more I learn to tolerate loud, upset people and I get less anxious.
1:53 Joker related flashbacks. Specifically Bruce seeing that written on the glass. I feel like it really drove home the point to me that trauma doesn’t have to happen to you directly to leave a mark.
What has really helped me was being consistent with mindfulness practices daily. The book "30 Days to Reduce Anxiety" by Harper Daniels has some really good ones.
What is the different between becoming cynical and accepting harsh reality that this world is cruel and awful anyway? Can anyone please tell me about this?
I have something close to this.. To put it shortly, i was groomed since i was around 8, and it stopped not that many moths ago. I never have flasbacks of THOSE events but i'll often have weird dreams of me and those i actually care about dying, me dying, or them dying and me living on. All the dreams are way to real, often making me close up, and feel physically exhousted, cause the action and the terrors are so real to me i always feel like something could qctually happen. I always try to go to the store with my mom to the point i sometimes just feel like i might pass out, even though my voice and additude is hyper, wich, conbined with the dreams, causes some very.. weird? Odd? Odd, things to happen. Such as this morning, i was simply walking with my mom, when suddenly my chest just felt like it was being pulled down to the ground, and my, at first, very hyper behaviour turned into what one could describe as on the edge of sleepwalking, yet able to respond well, and still be aware of the surroundings. A few minutes later, i was back to normal, almost forgetting it even happened, untill i came back home, ans realised if i was any less talkative to my mom, i would've probably woken up in the hospital. My mom and i are VERY close and she's made sure i'm getting proper help and care, letring me sleep out as long as i cna in the weekends, ans rarely asking me for anything, wich is annoying, but i know she knows overwoeking for me is the same as productive people being ''lazy'' (aka doing basic tasks like walking in the mall for more then 1 hour (wich btw i did yesterday and i'm still tired) or talking to multiple people at a time for a sertain amount of time). It's somwthing i'll adress to a therapist i'm gonna see somewhere next week.
Yeah, seeing my beloved country's free fall and seeing how minority is people who accually love their country, do same for me. (Not from USA, Russia etc.)
My therapist told me i might have secondary trauma, because I'm still stuck and looped into the stages of grief of some girl who got shot 7 years ago. she was a singer and I had never even met her, yet my brain tried to make sense of the senseless by looking at crime scene photos and listening to witness statements (I was 13 or 14 when this happened). I had nightmares, really weird ones and I cant help but blame myself and feel survivers guilt, even though my brain knows somewhere that theres nothing i could've done, I cant seem to process that shes just gone. Though its not like I'm thinking about this every day, it hits me every few weeks or months and then it lasts for a few weeks. Its really weird. Compared to someone of my family passing away, this was something else. And whenever I try to talk about it, people just say I'm sick. Maybe I am but thats no reason to insult me tho?
I haven’t found a video about this yet and don’t know where to go. I don’t feel anything. I don’t feel anything about me or have an opinion on me. I don’t feel anything with other people. I see someone crying but it’s just that. Someone falls and gets hurt and it’s just that. Someone says I love and I won’t say it back because I don’t know if I do because once again. I don’t feel anything towards anything or anyone
Almost every other word of this video was way over my grade level. I had to stop watching a video because I just couldn't understand it and I'm 50 years old
This is me now... I didn't know, until this video came out. Is there a way to get help without a therapist? ... But thank you for this video, the timing was perfect.
While I fell sad and emotions while i hear music and storys and have (day) dreams of fearful experiences in everyday life, i will get overwelmed with sadness randomly or get alot if axiety over everyday deadlines even if there not to serious. For these resons i think i could have both or something else but i dont know alot of stuff so idk.
Hello please read if you have the time to See how I have my life: 1.Here is the thing my parents always threaten me about seeding me of to my home country were I will been beaten if I did not do well. 2.They tell me that am not good enough I am not the best at some subjects and when we get our results they say I am the worst one in my hole school / highschool I say to them that they do not know everything and everyone but then they say Am I proud that I got so bad:( 3.They compare me to others and then when I say my friend is this then they say I should not compare myself like wth 🤦🏼♀️ 4. They will say they will Sean’s me away my home Country we’re if I am not good I WILL be beaten. 5. They do so much toxic things to me and this is not even all of it please pray 🙏 for me ❤
Once again, information that would be helpful to me if anyone actually cared about mental health in this country. You can't see a therapist unless you have tons of ready cash (assuming they are even available where you live), but the doc is happy to prescribe these groovy pills to help you feel better. Yeah. Better living through chemistry. AKA "Just shut up and get back to work."
Does anyone have any advice on how to deal with secondary trauma? Traditional CBT and counselling have done nothing for me. Even though I live a comfortable life, I cannot help the feeling of something 'dark' always weighing me down, or the feeling of 'How can I live a normal life when this world is so messed up'?
The best advice i can give is be kind to yourself. I have been affected as well. It's not been easy, and it has messed up my entire outlook of the world. You're not alone.
Can anyone give me tips I jokingly say my freind to say something like my gf that I don't like her I try tell her it was a joke but she was so emotional I can't tell I taught telling her tommorow and after like 30 or 40 minute she propose a guy I want to tell her that I'm joking but I feel like she would be angry and disappointed for now I'm not talking to her I thunk after 1 2 weeks can someone tell me what should I do for now?
I guess watching certain videos on youtube and reading certain web articles has made me cynical about the crap humanity is capable of. Does that count as second hand trauma?
I didn't know any such thing as secondary trauma, but after seeing all the symptoms I found out I do have it. I could literally feel every single thing in my bones...❤️🩹🥀
Two videos in one night!
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Try not to overwork yourself!
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Nicee dude, I love your videos!
As if working in the medical isn't hard enough, you gotta keep your mentality up as well?! God bless anyone going in that direction, you're part of the people maintaining humanity together.
Well I was thinking of doing something like this, I have my own problems and I think that helps me understand what other people are going through and I care ALOT about people and it just seems like a thing I want to do.😊 so that you for blessing me.
I had a lot of depression, and because of how horrible it is i thought about becoming psychologist, to help others get out of it
@@Lizard_Ri ya same, I am still going through depression though.
@@RainaWilkins oof, i hope you'll get better soon, this thing is horrible
@@Lizard_Ri thanks ☺
1. Discourage Others
2. Nightmares
3.Bystander Guilt
4.Become Resentful
5. Become Overprotective
6.Become Cynical
Thanks for summarizing the key points!
@@Psych2go CRAP I FORGOT TO ADD TIMESTAMPS 😭😭
@@indigo_sirgamingWe still love you
Forgor moment
0:00 intro
0:52 1. Discourage Others
1:25 2. Nightmares
2:06 3.Bystander Guilt
2:51 4.Become Resentful
3:33 5. Overprotective
4:14 6.Become Cynical
4:39 outro
Thank you for the time stamps!
@@Psych2go no problem😊
1:06 i am Spongebob
Thanks!
I feel triggered by some of these things that you mentioned because I have overprotective parents when I was growing up. They wouldn't want me to go anywhere by myself. They would always want me to stay by their side? Because if you wander off without telling anyone where you're going, that would make the parents worry about their children
I relate to it all sadly. I grew up with my mothers mental illness and later became a therapist. I was so excited to get my job at first, but soon resented it. I stayed in a very unhealthy work environment for 4 years because I felt I couldn't leave my clients. I ended up having a complete breakdown and was in inpaitient treatment as well as daily outpatient for months. I only left the job because I became completely unable to function. I never even got to say goodbye to any of my clients because of the circumstances and 7 years later it still bothers me because I can imagine the trauma I caused them by abruptly leaving. I put my degree into a freeze status and don't plan on ever going back to the field which is somewhat sad, but also speaks to my choosing my sanity.
That sounds very tough.. How are you doing now? Are you now in a job that makes you happier?
@@Psych2go well, in 2019 my father got very ill and almost died so I basically moved back in with my parents and take care of their medical needs...so I'm definitely still kind of stuck in other people's and my own trauma. But I will say as stressful as caretaking is, I'm glad I can be here with my family and that my dad survived this long. So you win some, you loose some.
Thanks for sharing your story with us. Your situation doesn't sound easy but it also sounds like you're a very resilient person. I sincerely hope that your family is doing better and that you'll be able to navigate through your struggles. :)
Hey, it's not your fault. Don't feel guilty! You did the best you could, and only protected your mental health. You did the right thing.
I love these, the amount of new things I learn about myself is amazing. Kinda sucks to add to the list of why my brain doesn't work right but that list is the first step to understanding and growth
I cried on the first symptom only. I need some uplifting comments. I know I have a great crowd here which will help me out. Thank you in advance. Those who are feeling the same, feel free to read the comments ❤️ Power to everyone reading.
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God loves you and he will always care for you.👍❤❤
Hey precious and special hooman. I know life is almost never easy. But you're doing such a great work at trying your best
@@joelcruz5326 now that is the nicest thing I ever heard.👍😊
Whatever you're going through, I sincerely hope that you're finding ways to genuinely take care of yourself. Thank you for having the courage to ask for uplifting comments.
I have what I call too much of a helper's trauma. What I mean is that, if I try to help someone do a task like teaching them to operate a phone, I have to remember every detail in my mind, or else I forget, and that makes me guilty on the inside, since I'm sometimes forgetful. I'm a very helper type of person, since I got it from my mother, and I'm learning how to say no to abusive and demanding vitriol.
As a paramedic, I find 5 out of 6 of these incredibly relatable.
I wish you the best of lucks, thank you for all your work, and wish you the best!
I recently read an literary studies article by Tonje Vold on the blogs documenting the Breivik massacre. It was mentioned that 911 was one of the first cases in which bystanders could experience the trauma as well.
Those reading the Breivik massacre's victims blogs were deeply affected by the stories. They encouraged the survivors to write, which also shaped the event's narrative and memory. A supportive community was born out of compassion between the people experiencing the trauma first-hand and those who witnessed it second-hand. The support born was similar to what happens in crises like earthquakes and the Corona virus. The effects on the psyche are so severe.
So, for those who experienced trauma through witnessing it, you're valuable and needed. :)
I'm not sure if this is normal but I feel like my body literally won't let me listen to others' stories of traumatizing injuries, it causes intense physical discomfort- I've even passed out once. Its weird cuz its not like I've never been hurt, I definitely have, but its hearing others' physical pain that gets me.
Based on what you're saying, would you consider yourself an "empath"?
@@Psych2go definitely!
This video gave me tears. i dont even know why. every time when i hear about traumatic storys, no matter who is this i always feel guily and bad that i couldnt do anything to help them. and every time when i have these thoughts i end up crying a lot.
I relate to this so hard.
I'm 28 and I've been working security for 6 years. Seeing and doing things that regular people should never see has taken a severe toll on my mental health, and sometimes I'd prefer to isolate myself in my room rather than deal with the horrors of the real world.
I experience all of these except for nightmares.. my brother was always the one getting abused in his household, and although I've never experienced anything, I always felt I was developing some of my own form of trauma and was right. I'm so glad you made this video, I finally know what's going on with me.
Well this was a very informative video. I tend to try and help where I can with other people and their problems etc. I let friends and other people complain to me ( I do try to help and advise in return) and always hear plenty of things on what happens. This makes more sense on why I'm a bit more jumpy or stressed out really. I never thought of secondary trauma even being a thing. That bystander guilt is probably the one I feel the most, overprotectiveness is another one.
As a highly sensitive person, I get secondary trauma the moment I see something upseting to me like scary movies or anything with a lot of violence on tv and movies. I know I can't just look away from it but I would freak out and cry if I see something that upsets me and that I can't do anything about it.
I'm also a HSP and experience this.
This makes sense, given what my family has been through over the years, and the above-average precocity and natural tendency of my kid self to absorb every bit of information and peripheral stimulus.
It isn’t the business of any child to experience and/or understand the “adult world” in _any_ capacity, yet it feels like I’ve had involuntarily forced exposure from the start.
No-one truly understands how it is to be “the smartest kid in school” before reaching double-digits without having lived it firsthand, and I can say with absolute certainty that everyone deserves to live the naïveté of their childhood years.
No-one should ever miss out on getting to be a kid, no matter how “mature for [their] age” they may be. Don’t pile every expectation and preparation on them all at once!
As with everything else in this life, allow it to happen in due time…
It's important to remember that setting boundaries to having others vent, especially if you are a sensitive or empathic person, is not a bad thing. I've found that after years of taking on other people's problems, thoughts like "thank God that's not on my plate" or "not my issue to solve" can be extremely liberating. Just know when and who to switch it off for.
I would definitely include adviceline workers in that job list, as depending on the sector you'll hear about peoples worst moments in life, then it's right on to the next call. I've definitely seen a lot of compassion fatigue in colleagues.
Man I've seen bystander guilt and overprotectiveness in myself...
For the latter, I'm glad my friends called me out on it and made me aware. It wasn't with a child, but rather my girlfriend when she came to visit. She'd told me of a lot of things that happened in her past, and I am a naturally protective person. And, being that it was her first time coming to visit me, I wanted the trip to go as well as possible - but I became overprotective, which did the opposite of what I was intending. Luckily, I have good friends who told me I was being an asshole about it and who are willing to help me not do it again.
Your videos help so much
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Being very sad on seeing or hearing others getting hurt, is a problem I have been facing too much since my childhood. I love to hear stories and watching movies, but this problem sometime scare me away from an entire movie or story if it seems that it has got several sad moments.
For me, it's all of the above. And I believe this video was enough to inspire me to go back to my two urban fantasy horror serials. Thank you so much
Thank you for your comment! How did the video inspire you to go back to urban fantasy urban serials?
@@Psych2go One of the subjects in the video about working inspired me to revive my urban fantasy story about cosmic-born female humans who fight monsters who also have everyday jobs as both secondary sources of incomes and as a front for secret meetings.
Nice! This sounds like a good comic book material! You should consider drawing it and publishing it :)
@@Psych2go Thanks. Unfortunately I suck at drawing so I would need to hire someone to do it, but I can't afford to hire anyone.
I saw or see all the symptoms; managed to subside the first two, going to therapy for everything that can't be done alone. 😊
yay!😊i just finished the last vid you posted!
Yay! What did you think?
I already know I have secondary trauma. It’s a part of my childhood trauma and has effected me a lot. My mom says it’s nothing and people have went through worse and my newer traumatic events through my eyes are seen as nothing…. I am only 15 in seven days… no one I repeat no one should have to go through somthing and be told it’s nothing.
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Thank you for this informative video. Before this video i had no idea about the secondary trauma. I used to wonder why am I not the way i used to be. Just realised its the secondary trauma after listening to many traumatic events.
@psych2go this is true. I will tell you all that im schystzo autistic mix and ive have dealing with this secondary trauma and personal trauma most of my short life. Im 21 and im exhausted being alive.
Im tired, i barely function properly and im a huge addict trying to figure out how can someone like me survive in todays society.
I try to move foward from it, try to avoid it and try running from all the pain.
You guys need to make a video on an example of someone like me who struggles just to move on and move foward.
Can you make a video explaining why I get anxiety/panic attacks whenever I hear OTHER PEOPLE arguing? I really do not understand why I react like this and would like to learn more! :)
Agree! I can't stand people fighting either, not even in movies. My parents have been fighting since I was a child and as nothing gets resolved, it just keeps going. But the more aware I am of that, the more I learn to tolerate loud, upset people and I get less anxious.
1:53 Joker related flashbacks. Specifically Bruce seeing that written on the glass. I feel like it really drove home the point to me that trauma doesn’t have to happen to you directly to leave a mark.
I feel like I have this AND anxiety 😅
Sameee.
What has really helped me was being consistent with mindfulness practices daily. The book "30 Days to Reduce Anxiety" by Harper Daniels has some really good ones.
What is the different between becoming cynical and accepting harsh reality that this world is cruel and awful anyway? Can anyone please tell me about this?
Funny thing, I actually remember I had the exact same nightmare you mentioned 😅
Thank you
I learned a lot in this video ! Thank you!!
What a voice!
I have something close to this..
To put it shortly, i was groomed since i was around 8, and it stopped not that many moths ago. I never have flasbacks of THOSE events but i'll often have weird dreams of me and those i actually care about dying, me dying, or them dying and me living on. All the dreams are way to real, often making me close up, and feel physically exhousted, cause the action and the terrors are so real to me i always feel like something could qctually happen. I always try to go to the store with my mom to the point i sometimes just feel like i might pass out, even though my voice and additude is hyper, wich, conbined with the dreams, causes some very.. weird? Odd? Odd, things to happen. Such as this morning, i was simply walking with my mom, when suddenly my chest just felt like it was being pulled down to the ground, and my, at first, very hyper behaviour turned into what one could describe as on the edge of sleepwalking, yet able to respond well, and still be aware of the surroundings. A few minutes later, i was back to normal, almost forgetting it even happened, untill i came back home, ans realised if i was any less talkative to my mom, i would've probably woken up in the hospital.
My mom and i are VERY close and she's made sure i'm getting proper help and care, letring me sleep out as long as i cna in the weekends, ans rarely asking me for anything, wich is annoying, but i know she knows overwoeking for me is the same as productive people being ''lazy'' (aka doing basic tasks like walking in the mall for more then 1 hour (wich btw i did yesterday and i'm still tired) or talking to multiple people at a time for a sertain amount of time). It's somwthing i'll adress to a therapist i'm gonna see somewhere next week.
Hey! Love the vid but are u able to post a vid of why people bite and fidget their nails and hands my mom says it's anxiety but I'm not sure
Great info!
I'm curious. Do empathetic people suffer from secondary trauma more often? This seems to be quite intuitive...
I think you have to be empathic to experience it. Otherwise, you just don't care and move on with your life.
Yeah, seeing my beloved country's free fall and seeing how minority is people who accually love their country, do same for me. (Not from USA, Russia etc.)
10th love your vids SO MUCH keep it up!!❤
Thank you so much! Was today's video relatable for you?
new psychological concepts AAAAAHHH
I guess I have some personal trauma, but I still have anxiety. And the one I have now is not pretty. 😳
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Now I feel guilty about talking about trauma in therapy 😃
Me too.
I think my mom has secondary trauma about 9/11 because she can't stand that day
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Are you okay? 😢
@@Psych2go wish I was
Thanks for asking
Switching to your secondary trauma is faster than reloading
it’s sad youtube is shadow-banning this channel. i’m subscribed and the new videos aren’t showing up on my feed
My therapist told me i might have secondary trauma, because I'm still stuck and looped into the stages of grief of some girl who got shot 7 years ago. she was a singer and I had never even met her, yet my brain tried to make sense of the senseless by looking at crime scene photos and listening to witness statements (I was 13 or 14 when this happened). I had nightmares, really weird ones and I cant help but blame myself and feel survivers guilt, even though my brain knows somewhere that theres nothing i could've done, I cant seem to process that shes just gone.
Though its not like I'm thinking about this every day, it hits me every few weeks or months and then it lasts for a few weeks. Its really weird. Compared to someone of my family passing away, this was something else. And whenever I try to talk about it, people just say I'm sick. Maybe I am but thats no reason to insult me tho?
Hi
So true
Please make a brief video on Schizoid Personality Disorder
I’ve never considered this was a thing.
I haven’t found a video about this yet and don’t know where to go. I don’t feel anything. I don’t feel anything about me or have an opinion on me. I don’t feel anything with other people. I see someone crying but it’s just that. Someone falls and gets hurt and it’s just that. Someone says I love and I won’t say it back because I don’t know if I do because once again. I don’t feel anything towards anything or anyone
Could u pls do a video about atelophobia? I think I might have it and I want to learn more
Almost every other word of this video was way over my grade level. I had to stop watching a video because I just couldn't understand it and I'm 50 years old
Huh... this explains a lot for me
I have watched alot of your videos and I think I want to be a psychologist.
This is me now... I didn't know, until this video came out.
Is there a way to get help without a therapist?
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But thank you for this video, the timing was perfect.
You're welcome 😊 Glad the video helped! Have you considered other forms of support?
nah its just sympathy
First!
Actually: Third!
While I fell sad and emotions while i hear music and storys and have (day) dreams of fearful experiences in everyday life, i will get overwelmed with sadness randomly or get alot if axiety over everyday deadlines even if there not to serious. For these resons i think i could have both or something else but i dont know alot of stuff so idk.
Yo that guy at the end is RIPPED.
What do you do when you want to get a girlfriend but you're nervous
Second
Can you make a vidoe about schizotypal personality disorder?
Oh gosh. I didn't know I had secondary trauma.
I think I finally know why I had to break up with my girlfriend
Maybe that person is very much intuitive
This video is for people with suicidal friends
Can you make a video wher you say sings that you'r chiled have problems?
What should I do for heal this trauma?
Hello please read if you have the time to See how I have my life:
1.Here is the thing my parents always threaten me about seeding me of to my home country were I will been beaten if I did not do well.
2.They tell me that am not good enough I am not the best at some subjects and when we get our results they say I am the worst one in my hole school / highschool I say to them that they do not know everything and everyone but then they say Am I proud that I got so bad:(
3.They compare me to others and then when I say my friend is this then they say I should not compare myself like wth 🤦🏼♀️
4. They will say they will Sean’s me away my home Country we’re if I am not good I WILL be beaten.
5. They do so much toxic things to me and this is not even all of it please pray 🙏 for me ❤
Once again, information that would be helpful to me if anyone actually cared about mental health in this country. You can't see a therapist unless you have tons of ready cash (assuming they are even available where you live), but the doc is happy to prescribe these groovy pills to help you feel better. Yeah. Better living through chemistry. AKA "Just shut up and get back to work."
Remember when you used to make your films with a video camera?
Does anyone have any advice on how to deal with secondary trauma? Traditional CBT and counselling have done nothing for me. Even though I live a comfortable life, I cannot help the feeling of something 'dark' always weighing me down, or the feeling of 'How can I live a normal life when this world is so messed up'?
The best advice i can give is be kind to yourself.
I have been affected as well. It's not been easy, and it has messed up my entire outlook of the world. You're not alone.
what does yoga do for the body
I don't have a therapist because I'm to give THEM secondary trauma
Can anyone give me tips I jokingly say my freind to say something like my gf that I don't like her I try tell her it was a joke but she was so emotional I can't tell I taught telling her tommorow and after like 30 or 40 minute she propose a guy I want to tell her that I'm joking but I feel like she would be angry and disappointed for now I'm not talking to her I thunk after 1 2 weeks can someone tell me what should I do for now?
Would you mind making a video on how to know if you're just an option when it comes to love #Psy2go please please please 🥺
Most of my stress come from secondary trauma.
Hello!!
Hello
I guess watching certain videos on youtube and reading certain web articles has made me cynical about the crap humanity is capable of. Does that count as second hand trauma?
nice
Hello!
I definitely have secerdairy trumu
I eat rocks
Why are there still no timestamps bruh
Interesting🤔
So it's like a collateral effect
Lol The news must give people secondary trauma all the time.
I didn't know any such thing as secondary trauma, but after seeing all the symptoms I found out I do have it. I could literally feel every single thing in my bones...❤️🩹🥀
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Relatable
It's not anxiety, it's delissio
4:40 next plushie pls! ^^
Oh shit is it bad if I go through all of these?
Well, not necessarily bad but maybe it could be good to speak to a mental health professional. Would you ever consider doing that?
@@Psych2go been trying to but im broke and there is a lack of therapists in my area