6 Signs It's Not Anxiety, It's Secondary Trauma

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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  Рік тому +246

    Two videos in one night!

  • @beraurcovic
    @beraurcovic Рік тому +207

    As if working in the medical isn't hard enough, you gotta keep your mentality up as well?! God bless anyone going in that direction, you're part of the people maintaining humanity together.

    • @RainaWilkins
      @RainaWilkins Рік тому +5

      Well I was thinking of doing something like this, I have my own problems and I think that helps me understand what other people are going through and I care ALOT about people and it just seems like a thing I want to do.😊 so that you for blessing me.

    • @Lizard_Ri
      @Lizard_Ri Рік тому +2

      I had a lot of depression, and because of how horrible it is i thought about becoming psychologist, to help others get out of it

    • @RainaWilkins
      @RainaWilkins Рік тому +1

      @@Lizard_Ri ya same, I am still going through depression though.

    • @Lizard_Ri
      @Lizard_Ri Рік тому

      @@RainaWilkins oof, i hope you'll get better soon, this thing is horrible

    • @RainaWilkins
      @RainaWilkins Рік тому

      @@Lizard_Ri thanks ☺

  • @indigo_sirgaming
    @indigo_sirgaming Рік тому +242

    1. Discourage Others
    2. Nightmares
    3.Bystander Guilt
    4.Become Resentful
    5. Become Overprotective
    6.Become Cynical

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому +21

      Thanks for summarizing the key points!

    • @indigo_sirgaming
      @indigo_sirgaming Рік тому +12

      @@Psych2go CRAP I FORGOT TO ADD TIMESTAMPS 😭😭

    • @PhotonBeast
      @PhotonBeast Рік тому +5

      ​@@indigo_sirgamingWe still love you

    • @duckyamn
      @duckyamn Рік тому

      Forgor moment

  • @psych2gomandarin
    @psych2gomandarin Рік тому +184

    0:00 intro
    0:52 1. Discourage Others
    1:25 2. Nightmares
    2:06 3.Bystander Guilt
    2:51 4.Become Resentful
    3:33 5. Overprotective
    4:14 6.Become Cynical
    4:39 outro

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому +18

      Thank you for the time stamps!

    • @psych2gomandarin
      @psych2gomandarin Рік тому +2

      @@Psych2go no problem😊

    • @Glauco.gloster2007
      @Glauco.gloster2007 Рік тому +2

      1:06 i am Spongebob

    • @sava898
      @sava898 Рік тому

      Thanks!

    • @brittanynorrod203
      @brittanynorrod203 Рік тому +1

      I feel triggered by some of these things that you mentioned because I have overprotective parents when I was growing up. They wouldn't want me to go anywhere by myself. They would always want me to stay by their side? Because if you wander off without telling anyone where you're going, that would make the parents worry about their children

  • @queerskiesahead847
    @queerskiesahead847 Рік тому +30

    I relate to it all sadly. I grew up with my mothers mental illness and later became a therapist. I was so excited to get my job at first, but soon resented it. I stayed in a very unhealthy work environment for 4 years because I felt I couldn't leave my clients. I ended up having a complete breakdown and was in inpaitient treatment as well as daily outpatient for months. I only left the job because I became completely unable to function. I never even got to say goodbye to any of my clients because of the circumstances and 7 years later it still bothers me because I can imagine the trauma I caused them by abruptly leaving. I put my degree into a freeze status and don't plan on ever going back to the field which is somewhat sad, but also speaks to my choosing my sanity.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому +7

      That sounds very tough.. How are you doing now? Are you now in a job that makes you happier?

    • @queerskiesahead847
      @queerskiesahead847 Рік тому +7

      @@Psych2go well, in 2019 my father got very ill and almost died so I basically moved back in with my parents and take care of their medical needs...so I'm definitely still kind of stuck in other people's and my own trauma. But I will say as stressful as caretaking is, I'm glad I can be here with my family and that my dad survived this long. So you win some, you loose some.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому +7

      Thanks for sharing your story with us. Your situation doesn't sound easy but it also sounds like you're a very resilient person. I sincerely hope that your family is doing better and that you'll be able to navigate through your struggles. :)

    • @jujuoof174
      @jujuoof174 Рік тому

      Hey, it's not your fault. Don't feel guilty! You did the best you could, and only protected your mental health. You did the right thing.

  • @LadyKhiaani
    @LadyKhiaani Рік тому +26

    I love these, the amount of new things I learn about myself is amazing. Kinda sucks to add to the list of why my brain doesn't work right but that list is the first step to understanding and growth

  • @khushid3528
    @khushid3528 Рік тому +52

    I cried on the first symptom only. I need some uplifting comments. I know I have a great crowd here which will help me out. Thank you in advance. Those who are feeling the same, feel free to read the comments ❤️ Power to everyone reading.

    • @bald_frisk1
      @bald_frisk1 Рік тому +2

      ❤️

    • @RainaWilkins
      @RainaWilkins Рік тому +5

      God loves you and he will always care for you.👍❤❤

    • @joelcruz5326
      @joelcruz5326 Рік тому +11

      Hey precious and special hooman. I know life is almost never easy. But you're doing such a great work at trying your best

    • @RainaWilkins
      @RainaWilkins Рік тому +2

      @@joelcruz5326 now that is the nicest thing I ever heard.👍😊

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому +16

      Whatever you're going through, I sincerely hope that you're finding ways to genuinely take care of yourself. Thank you for having the courage to ask for uplifting comments.

  • @JoelDJohnson1986
    @JoelDJohnson1986 Рік тому +6

    I have what I call too much of a helper's trauma. What I mean is that, if I try to help someone do a task like teaching them to operate a phone, I have to remember every detail in my mind, or else I forget, and that makes me guilty on the inside, since I'm sometimes forgetful. I'm a very helper type of person, since I got it from my mother, and I'm learning how to say no to abusive and demanding vitriol.

  • @AppleBukker
    @AppleBukker Рік тому +14

    As a paramedic, I find 5 out of 6 of these incredibly relatable.

    • @jujuoof174
      @jujuoof174 Рік тому +1

      I wish you the best of lucks, thank you for all your work, and wish you the best!

  • @aarnilapsi9336
    @aarnilapsi9336 Рік тому +25

    I recently read an literary studies article by Tonje Vold on the blogs documenting the Breivik massacre. It was mentioned that 911 was one of the first cases in which bystanders could experience the trauma as well.
    Those reading the Breivik massacre's victims blogs were deeply affected by the stories. They encouraged the survivors to write, which also shaped the event's narrative and memory. A supportive community was born out of compassion between the people experiencing the trauma first-hand and those who witnessed it second-hand. The support born was similar to what happens in crises like earthquakes and the Corona virus. The effects on the psyche are so severe.
    So, for those who experienced trauma through witnessing it, you're valuable and needed. :)

  • @AmandaMBooks
    @AmandaMBooks Рік тому +31

    I'm not sure if this is normal but I feel like my body literally won't let me listen to others' stories of traumatizing injuries, it causes intense physical discomfort- I've even passed out once. Its weird cuz its not like I've never been hurt, I definitely have, but its hearing others' physical pain that gets me.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому +10

      Based on what you're saying, would you consider yourself an "empath"?

    • @AmandaMBooks
      @AmandaMBooks Рік тому +3

      @@Psych2go definitely!

  • @shaykagamine
    @shaykagamine Рік тому +1

    This video gave me tears. i dont even know why. every time when i hear about traumatic storys, no matter who is this i always feel guily and bad that i couldnt do anything to help them. and every time when i have these thoughts i end up crying a lot.

  • @mojo_joju
    @mojo_joju Рік тому +3

    I relate to this so hard.
    I'm 28 and I've been working security for 6 years. Seeing and doing things that regular people should never see has taken a severe toll on my mental health, and sometimes I'd prefer to isolate myself in my room rather than deal with the horrors of the real world.

  • @jimmyinnit
    @jimmyinnit Рік тому +1

    I experience all of these except for nightmares.. my brother was always the one getting abused in his household, and although I've never experienced anything, I always felt I was developing some of my own form of trauma and was right. I'm so glad you made this video, I finally know what's going on with me.

  • @dead_shot_slayer
    @dead_shot_slayer Рік тому +3

    Well this was a very informative video. I tend to try and help where I can with other people and their problems etc. I let friends and other people complain to me ( I do try to help and advise in return) and always hear plenty of things on what happens. This makes more sense on why I'm a bit more jumpy or stressed out really. I never thought of secondary trauma even being a thing. That bystander guilt is probably the one I feel the most, overprotectiveness is another one.

  • @deannal.newton9772
    @deannal.newton9772 Рік тому +5

    As a highly sensitive person, I get secondary trauma the moment I see something upseting to me like scary movies or anything with a lot of violence on tv and movies. I know I can't just look away from it but I would freak out and cry if I see something that upsets me and that I can't do anything about it.

    • @aynilaa
      @aynilaa Рік тому +2

      I'm also a HSP and experience this.

  • @RyanNerdyGamer
    @RyanNerdyGamer Рік тому +6

    This makes sense, given what my family has been through over the years, and the above-average precocity and natural tendency of my kid self to absorb every bit of information and peripheral stimulus.
    It isn’t the business of any child to experience and/or understand the “adult world” in _any_ capacity, yet it feels like I’ve had involuntarily forced exposure from the start.
    No-one truly understands how it is to be “the smartest kid in school” before reaching double-digits without having lived it firsthand, and I can say with absolute certainty that everyone deserves to live the naïveté of their childhood years.
    No-one should ever miss out on getting to be a kid, no matter how “mature for [their] age” they may be. Don’t pile every expectation and preparation on them all at once!
    As with everything else in this life, allow it to happen in due time…

  • @MrSoup-zs4rd
    @MrSoup-zs4rd Рік тому +8

    It's important to remember that setting boundaries to having others vent, especially if you are a sensitive or empathic person, is not a bad thing. I've found that after years of taking on other people's problems, thoughts like "thank God that's not on my plate" or "not my issue to solve" can be extremely liberating. Just know when and who to switch it off for.

  • @natersby
    @natersby Рік тому +3

    I would definitely include adviceline workers in that job list, as depending on the sector you'll hear about peoples worst moments in life, then it's right on to the next call. I've definitely seen a lot of compassion fatigue in colleagues.

  • @skeletor_118
    @skeletor_118 Рік тому +2

    Man I've seen bystander guilt and overprotectiveness in myself...
    For the latter, I'm glad my friends called me out on it and made me aware. It wasn't with a child, but rather my girlfriend when she came to visit. She'd told me of a lot of things that happened in her past, and I am a naturally protective person. And, being that it was her first time coming to visit me, I wanted the trip to go as well as possible - but I became overprotective, which did the opposite of what I was intending. Luckily, I have good friends who told me I was being an asshole about it and who are willing to help me not do it again.

  • @Pxltzi
    @Pxltzi Рік тому +11

    Your videos help so much

  • @puspamadak
    @puspamadak Рік тому +2

    Being very sad on seeing or hearing others getting hurt, is a problem I have been facing too much since my childhood. I love to hear stories and watching movies, but this problem sometime scare me away from an entire movie or story if it seems that it has got several sad moments.

  • @NatalieAliciaNorment
    @NatalieAliciaNorment Рік тому +2

    For me, it's all of the above. And I believe this video was enough to inspire me to go back to my two urban fantasy horror serials. Thank you so much

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for your comment! How did the video inspire you to go back to urban fantasy urban serials?

    • @NatalieAliciaNorment
      @NatalieAliciaNorment Рік тому

      @@Psych2go One of the subjects in the video about working inspired me to revive my urban fantasy story about cosmic-born female humans who fight monsters who also have everyday jobs as both secondary sources of incomes and as a front for secret meetings.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому +1

      Nice! This sounds like a good comic book material! You should consider drawing it and publishing it :)

    • @NatalieAliciaNorment
      @NatalieAliciaNorment Рік тому

      @@Psych2go Thanks. Unfortunately I suck at drawing so I would need to hire someone to do it, but I can't afford to hire anyone.

  • @adrianortiz8751
    @adrianortiz8751 Рік тому +1

    I saw or see all the symptoms; managed to subside the first two, going to therapy for everything that can't be done alone. 😊

  • @GetoEdits33
    @GetoEdits33 Рік тому +7

    yay!😊i just finished the last vid you posted!

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому

      Yay! What did you think?

  • @Nerdalert109
    @Nerdalert109 Рік тому +1

    I already know I have secondary trauma. It’s a part of my childhood trauma and has effected me a lot. My mom says it’s nothing and people have went through worse and my newer traumatic events through my eyes are seen as nothing…. I am only 15 in seven days… no one I repeat no one should have to go through somthing and be told it’s nothing.

  • @huachengintoxicated
    @huachengintoxicated 8 місяців тому

    Thank you for this informative video. Before this video i had no idea about the secondary trauma. I used to wonder why am I not the way i used to be. Just realised its the secondary trauma after listening to many traumatic events.

  • @dabunny2409
    @dabunny2409 Рік тому +1

    @psych2go this is true. I will tell you all that im schystzo autistic mix and ive have dealing with this secondary trauma and personal trauma most of my short life. Im 21 and im exhausted being alive.
    Im tired, i barely function properly and im a huge addict trying to figure out how can someone like me survive in todays society.
    I try to move foward from it, try to avoid it and try running from all the pain.
    You guys need to make a video on an example of someone like me who struggles just to move on and move foward.

  • @alexanderdelarosa7310
    @alexanderdelarosa7310 Рік тому +3

    Can you make a video explaining why I get anxiety/panic attacks whenever I hear OTHER PEOPLE arguing? I really do not understand why I react like this and would like to learn more! :)

    • @aynilaa
      @aynilaa Рік тому +1

      Agree! I can't stand people fighting either, not even in movies. My parents have been fighting since I was a child and as nothing gets resolved, it just keeps going. But the more aware I am of that, the more I learn to tolerate loud, upset people and I get less anxious.

  • @spacewolfcub
    @spacewolfcub Рік тому

    1:53 Joker related flashbacks. Specifically Bruce seeing that written on the glass. I feel like it really drove home the point to me that trauma doesn’t have to happen to you directly to leave a mark.

  • @Conasaurus_Rex
    @Conasaurus_Rex Рік тому +9

    I feel like I have this AND anxiety 😅

  • @rijd2304
    @rijd2304 Рік тому +1

    What has really helped me was being consistent with mindfulness practices daily. The book "30 Days to Reduce Anxiety" by Harper Daniels has some really good ones.

  • @lerneanlion
    @lerneanlion Рік тому +3

    What is the different between becoming cynical and accepting harsh reality that this world is cruel and awful anyway? Can anyone please tell me about this?

  • @just_zero22
    @just_zero22 Рік тому +2

    Funny thing, I actually remember I had the exact same nightmare you mentioned 😅

  • @Skzzzstayyy
    @Skzzzstayyy Рік тому +5

    Thank you

  • @craigmerkey8518
    @craigmerkey8518 Рік тому

    I learned a lot in this video ! Thank you!!

  • @nealwailing3870
    @nealwailing3870 Рік тому

    What a voice!

  • @ItsRachel15-1
    @ItsRachel15-1 Рік тому +1

    I have something close to this..
    To put it shortly, i was groomed since i was around 8, and it stopped not that many moths ago. I never have flasbacks of THOSE events but i'll often have weird dreams of me and those i actually care about dying, me dying, or them dying and me living on. All the dreams are way to real, often making me close up, and feel physically exhousted, cause the action and the terrors are so real to me i always feel like something could qctually happen. I always try to go to the store with my mom to the point i sometimes just feel like i might pass out, even though my voice and additude is hyper, wich, conbined with the dreams, causes some very.. weird? Odd? Odd, things to happen. Such as this morning, i was simply walking with my mom, when suddenly my chest just felt like it was being pulled down to the ground, and my, at first, very hyper behaviour turned into what one could describe as on the edge of sleepwalking, yet able to respond well, and still be aware of the surroundings. A few minutes later, i was back to normal, almost forgetting it even happened, untill i came back home, ans realised if i was any less talkative to my mom, i would've probably woken up in the hospital.
    My mom and i are VERY close and she's made sure i'm getting proper help and care, letring me sleep out as long as i cna in the weekends, ans rarely asking me for anything, wich is annoying, but i know she knows overwoeking for me is the same as productive people being ''lazy'' (aka doing basic tasks like walking in the mall for more then 1 hour (wich btw i did yesterday and i'm still tired) or talking to multiple people at a time for a sertain amount of time). It's somwthing i'll adress to a therapist i'm gonna see somewhere next week.

  • @HelloThereImLynn
    @HelloThereImLynn Рік тому +4

    Hey! Love the vid but are u able to post a vid of why people bite and fidget their nails and hands my mom says it's anxiety but I'm not sure

  • @jujuoof174
    @jujuoof174 Рік тому

    Great info!

  • @msaparajita849
    @msaparajita849 Рік тому +7

    I'm curious. Do empathetic people suffer from secondary trauma more often? This seems to be quite intuitive...

    • @aynilaa
      @aynilaa Рік тому

      I think you have to be empathic to experience it. Otherwise, you just don't care and move on with your life.

  • @tutku1560
    @tutku1560 Рік тому +1

    Yeah, seeing my beloved country's free fall and seeing how minority is people who accually love their country, do same for me. (Not from USA, Russia etc.)

  • @MaepleSyrupEdits54321
    @MaepleSyrupEdits54321 Рік тому +8

    10th love your vids SO MUCH keep it up!!❤

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому

      Thank you so much! Was today's video relatable for you?

  • @FlawedbyDesign777
    @FlawedbyDesign777 Рік тому +1

    new psychological concepts AAAAAHHH

  • @kenrickbautista6141
    @kenrickbautista6141 Рік тому +4

    I guess I have some personal trauma, but I still have anxiety. And the one I have now is not pretty. 😳

  • @alisaid_28
    @alisaid_28 Рік тому +3

    😊😊😊

  • @lucykent144
    @lucykent144 Рік тому +1

    Now I feel guilty about talking about trauma in therapy 😃

  • @Kimmy0721
    @Kimmy0721 9 місяців тому +1

    I think my mom has secondary trauma about 9/11 because she can't stand that day

  • @solihaOtherLife
    @solihaOtherLife Рік тому +4

    😢

  • @xCCflierx
    @xCCflierx Рік тому

    Switching to your secondary trauma is faster than reloading

  • @ItsNicckster
    @ItsNicckster Рік тому

    it’s sad youtube is shadow-banning this channel. i’m subscribed and the new videos aren’t showing up on my feed

  • @anophoria
    @anophoria Рік тому +1

    My therapist told me i might have secondary trauma, because I'm still stuck and looped into the stages of grief of some girl who got shot 7 years ago. she was a singer and I had never even met her, yet my brain tried to make sense of the senseless by looking at crime scene photos and listening to witness statements (I was 13 or 14 when this happened). I had nightmares, really weird ones and I cant help but blame myself and feel survivers guilt, even though my brain knows somewhere that theres nothing i could've done, I cant seem to process that shes just gone.
    Though its not like I'm thinking about this every day, it hits me every few weeks or months and then it lasts for a few weeks. Its really weird. Compared to someone of my family passing away, this was something else. And whenever I try to talk about it, people just say I'm sick. Maybe I am but thats no reason to insult me tho?

  • @awohalimouse4547
    @awohalimouse4547 Рік тому +5

    Hi

  • @terryp.luvsjenifer.winklem1314

    So true

  • @RajkamalKashyap-q6i
    @RajkamalKashyap-q6i Рік тому

    Please make a brief video on Schizoid Personality Disorder

  • @thatonedrainedplatter5421
    @thatonedrainedplatter5421 Рік тому

    I’ve never considered this was a thing.

  • @HunterSTommygun
    @HunterSTommygun Рік тому

    I haven’t found a video about this yet and don’t know where to go. I don’t feel anything. I don’t feel anything about me or have an opinion on me. I don’t feel anything with other people. I see someone crying but it’s just that. Someone falls and gets hurt and it’s just that. Someone says I love and I won’t say it back because I don’t know if I do because once again. I don’t feel anything towards anything or anyone

  • @banana_mason2008
    @banana_mason2008 Рік тому +2

    Could u pls do a video about atelophobia? I think I might have it and I want to learn more

  • @katrinawoody6268
    @katrinawoody6268 Рік тому

    Almost every other word of this video was way over my grade level. I had to stop watching a video because I just couldn't understand it and I'm 50 years old

  • @mulch895
    @mulch895 Рік тому

    Huh... this explains a lot for me

  • @RainaWilkins
    @RainaWilkins Рік тому +1

    I have watched alot of your videos and I think I want to be a psychologist.

  • @Absolhunter251
    @Absolhunter251 Рік тому

    This is me now... I didn't know, until this video came out.
    Is there a way to get help without a therapist?
    ...
    But thank you for this video, the timing was perfect.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому

      You're welcome 😊 Glad the video helped! Have you considered other forms of support?

  • @helsiosquadron
    @helsiosquadron Рік тому +1

    nah its just sympathy

  • @notdatkiddie5456
    @notdatkiddie5456 Рік тому +3

    First!
    Actually: Third!

  • @0li_0live
    @0li_0live Рік тому

    While I fell sad and emotions while i hear music and storys and have (day) dreams of fearful experiences in everyday life, i will get overwelmed with sadness randomly or get alot if axiety over everyday deadlines even if there not to serious. For these resons i think i could have both or something else but i dont know alot of stuff so idk.

  • @bassycounter
    @bassycounter Рік тому

    Yo that guy at the end is RIPPED.

  • @Cadenanimation
    @Cadenanimation Рік тому +1

    What do you do when you want to get a girlfriend but you're nervous

  • @deangeloseshie1849
    @deangeloseshie1849 Рік тому +3

    Second

  • @Melancholian
    @Melancholian Рік тому

    Can you make a vidoe about schizotypal personality disorder?

  • @Imjust_normal
    @Imjust_normal Рік тому

    Oh gosh. I didn't know I had secondary trauma.

  • @reagancarlisle6618
    @reagancarlisle6618 Рік тому

    I think I finally know why I had to break up with my girlfriend

  • @1malcolm
    @1malcolm Рік тому

    Maybe that person is very much intuitive

  • @The_Celestial_Goddess_Of_Stars

    This video is for people with suicidal friends

  • @adamkoscielniak4857
    @adamkoscielniak4857 Рік тому

    Can you make a video wher you say sings that you'r chiled have problems?

  • @fhg6958
    @fhg6958 Рік тому

    What should I do for heal this trauma?

  • @CCCarrie
    @CCCarrie Рік тому

    Hello please read if you have the time to See how I have my life:
    1.Here is the thing my parents always threaten me about seeding me of to my home country were I will been beaten if I did not do well.
    2.They tell me that am not good enough I am not the best at some subjects and when we get our results they say I am the worst one in my hole school / highschool I say to them that they do not know everything and everyone but then they say Am I proud that I got so bad:(
    3.They compare me to others and then when I say my friend is this then they say I should not compare myself like wth 🤦🏼‍♀️
    4. They will say they will Sean’s me away my home Country we’re if I am not good I WILL be beaten.
    5. They do so much toxic things to me and this is not even all of it please pray 🙏 for me ❤

  • @2LaneTraveler
    @2LaneTraveler Рік тому

    Once again, information that would be helpful to me if anyone actually cared about mental health in this country. You can't see a therapist unless you have tons of ready cash (assuming they are even available where you live), but the doc is happy to prescribe these groovy pills to help you feel better. Yeah. Better living through chemistry. AKA "Just shut up and get back to work."

  • @EmisAwayToo
    @EmisAwayToo Рік тому

    Remember when you used to make your films with a video camera?

  • @madokakaname4775
    @madokakaname4775 8 місяців тому

    Does anyone have any advice on how to deal with secondary trauma? Traditional CBT and counselling have done nothing for me. Even though I live a comfortable life, I cannot help the feeling of something 'dark' always weighing me down, or the feeling of 'How can I live a normal life when this world is so messed up'?

    • @bearclaus2676
      @bearclaus2676 Місяць тому

      The best advice i can give is be kind to yourself.
      I have been affected as well. It's not been easy, and it has messed up my entire outlook of the world. You're not alone.

  • @someanworld
    @someanworld Рік тому

    what does yoga do for the body

  • @saramadian1096
    @saramadian1096 Рік тому

    I don't have a therapist because I'm to give THEM secondary trauma

  • @rrrking2120
    @rrrking2120 Рік тому +1

    Can anyone give me tips I jokingly say my freind to say something like my gf that I don't like her I try tell her it was a joke but she was so emotional I can't tell I taught telling her tommorow and after like 30 or 40 minute she propose a guy I want to tell her that I'm joking but I feel like she would be angry and disappointed for now I'm not talking to her I thunk after 1 2 weeks can someone tell me what should I do for now?

  • @ayAmWho
    @ayAmWho Рік тому

    Would you mind making a video on how to know if you're just an option when it comes to love #Psy2go please please please 🥺

  • @Nisa25399
    @Nisa25399 Рік тому +1

    Most of my stress come from secondary trauma.

  • @shykittywithramen
    @shykittywithramen Рік тому +1

    Hello!!

  • @wolfeprocter
    @wolfeprocter Рік тому

    I guess watching certain videos on youtube and reading certain web articles has made me cynical about the crap humanity is capable of. Does that count as second hand trauma?

  • @Factoogle
    @Factoogle Рік тому

    nice

  • @ZebbieBarbra-wu6xu
    @ZebbieBarbra-wu6xu Рік тому

    Hello!

  • @Kiki_bun180
    @Kiki_bun180 Рік тому

    I definitely have secerdairy trumu

  • @DouchMonkey431
    @DouchMonkey431 Рік тому +3

    I eat rocks

  • @radioactive.rabbit
    @radioactive.rabbit Рік тому

    Why are there still no timestamps bruh

  • @muppetfan77show26
    @muppetfan77show26 Рік тому

    Interesting🤔

  • @cameronestepa1695
    @cameronestepa1695 Рік тому

    So it's like a collateral effect

  • @Naturenerd1000
    @Naturenerd1000 Рік тому

    Lol The news must give people secondary trauma all the time.

  • @thatfriendlystranger_777
    @thatfriendlystranger_777 Рік тому

    I didn't know any such thing as secondary trauma, but after seeing all the symptoms I found out I do have it. I could literally feel every single thing in my bones...❤️‍🩹🥀

  • @davidg1829
    @davidg1829 Рік тому

    🌷

  • @anuvishnoi113
    @anuvishnoi113 Рік тому

    Relatable

  • @Tavamatazz
    @Tavamatazz Рік тому

    It's not anxiety, it's delissio

  • @DasHeino2010
    @DasHeino2010 Рік тому

    4:40 next plushie pls! ^^

  • @AJ-vq7im
    @AJ-vq7im Рік тому +1

    Oh shit is it bad if I go through all of these?

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  Рік тому +1

      Well, not necessarily bad but maybe it could be good to speak to a mental health professional. Would you ever consider doing that?

    • @AJ-vq7im
      @AJ-vq7im Рік тому

      @@Psych2go been trying to but im broke and there is a lack of therapists in my area