Nofap - A relapse does not mean all progress is lost

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  • Relapsing on nofap does not mean that all progress is lost. Even when you relapsing, you can still make progress in your nofap journey.

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  • @sliccbacc
    @sliccbacc 2 роки тому +344

    The guiltiness after relapsing is not worth it

  • @paravirallinen
    @paravirallinen 3 роки тому +1352

    Haven't relapsed for 55days, and my mind is crystal clear.

    • @guruucybertricks8163
      @guruucybertricks8163 3 роки тому +16

      Best 39 days😳😳😳

    • @harrypotr4179
      @harrypotr4179 3 роки тому +14

      @@ZenovaAurelius I need help in this case. how can I stop . I relapsed after 15 days. not happy now. can we be connect in this good deed. I need a helper who can stop me in this condition.

    • @kko9329
      @kko9329 3 роки тому +5

      @@harrypotr4179 I got you!

    • @harrypotr4179
      @harrypotr4179 3 роки тому +1

      @@ZenovaAurelius ol

    • @fullspeedaheadbarcelona6502
      @fullspeedaheadbarcelona6502 3 роки тому +5

      Yes! Nofap is real. Keep it going!

  • @vinih1dtdydyc357
    @vinih1dtdydyc357 3 роки тому +1010

    Man, I got at day 54, my best yet, I started like 9 months ago. I just relapsed, and I was devastated, till I watch this. Thank you SO MUCH. We all can, and will change, good luck guys.

    • @brianosterman456
      @brianosterman456 3 роки тому +52

      I started in earnest a handful of months ago. 7 days at first was tough. Then 14 was easy. I just did 32 and relapsed last night. While disappointed slightly that I did, I do not feel nearly as destroyed as I used to.
      Still feel largely calm and relaxed, not much anxiety like I used to have.

    • @noahrodriguez1895
      @noahrodriguez1895 2 роки тому

      I have a compulsive masturbation addiction which inevitably lead to watching pornography. Even when I was done masturbating I would watch it when I was bored just to enjoy it. Every night I would come home and Masturbate it was not a choice anymore. I just had to do it every night after work. That's all I would think about. Now I am getting better I no longer do it every night. However I have been relapsing after every 15 days on average. I know I have a lot of progress to make. But this behavioral addiction is definetly getting better. I no longer watch pornography which is good. However, being controlled by a behavior is still not good. I pray and hope I will get better as these streaks get longer and longer inevitably kicking this habit out of existence. Relapse is truly part of recovery. The brain is wired to want to relapse and it's going to take lots of time to rewire it. God bless you all. Just cause you relapsed do not be ashamed. Get up and continue building longer streaks until one point you will notice you've done x amount of days and will be suprised. Just as habits took time to form it will take time to unform.

    • @jtames9040
      @jtames9040 2 роки тому +8

      I wish you the best! What helped me a lot is orthodox christianity. We need to keep up the good spirit, we Always need have God in our hearts, God is everything, the truth in life which is in the Orthodox christianity religion btw. it is the original and true form of christianity that Jesus taught us when he came to earth, and you can feel God’s grace and help through the holy mysteries after baptism , repentance-confession and holy communion in the orthodox christian church, something that completely changes your life and turns you into a happier person with a meaningful life and also saves you by strengthening your bond with God. I suggest Become an orthodox christian at an orthodox christian church near you, get baptised and receive the holy spirit and live a spiritual life (repentance- confession to the priest and holy communion). This is all God wants from us and through these sacraments we will be saved 💯

    • @Lazymath007_
      @Lazymath007_ 2 роки тому +5

      Is a relapse really as bad? As far as I know, you dont lose testosterone from a relapse, i still have have a good body and toned muscles expect ofcourse for that short period of time right after fapping. Also if you have noticed your body immediately refills sperms after a short while so you're ready to fap again. Therefore according to my logic a relapse doesn't make you lose benefits, it simply pauses the benefits of Nofap for that particular day of relapse. If you're on day 39 and you nut all day, you don't experience any testosterone results on day 39 so your counter goes back to day 38. I don't know maybe I am just dumb, can someone help me with this?

    • @Lazymath007_
      @Lazymath007_ 2 роки тому +1

      @JustAPlant I mean I am ready to bounce back. But my main concern is to know how much benefits you really lose from a relapse

  • @TheParadiseParadox
    @TheParadiseParadox Рік тому +256

    Always remember, there is a big difference between a lapse and a relapse. One lapse doesn't make a relapse. A relapse is falling back into your old habits. If you have a lapse, it can be just that. Most of the gains are maintained, especially in terms of self-control. Keep going.

    • @rashaadpatmon4007
      @rashaadpatmon4007 Рік тому +2

      What if I bust one time and retain for 10 is do I lose all my benefits

    • @TheParadiseParadox
      @TheParadiseParadox Рік тому +1

      @@rashaadpatmon4007 10 days, 10 months or 10 years?
      Any time you practise self control, there are some effects that last. Any time you return to old habits, there are some benefits you will lose
      It also depends on the person. Some people notice a big difference very early
      Maybe you should join the subreddits... Semenretention, pureretention. Have a read through the threads and think about what you've read

    • @rashaadpatmon4007
      @rashaadpatmon4007 Рік тому +6

      @@TheParadiseParadox 10 days I retain for like two weeks two times and I do hundred push ups a day

    • @Kt-tp4en
      @Kt-tp4en 8 місяців тому +2

      💯💯🦾

    • @iambversamusic
      @iambversamusic Місяць тому +1

      Agreed!

  • @harshx1691
    @harshx1691 3 роки тому +511

    I got to day 118, and relapsed. Was feeling down. Thank you for this. I'm starting strong over again

    • @bitron985
      @bitron985 2 роки тому +7

      How its going now?

    • @harshx297
      @harshx297 2 роки тому +49

      @@bitron985 Well, it's going up and down... I've learnt that it's much easier if you don't think about it at all and focus all your energy into something productive.

    • @doomslayer8431
      @doomslayer8431 2 роки тому +4

      11 days for me

    • @onickislive5927
      @onickislive5927 2 роки тому +15

      Replased on my 15th day it actually hurts 😔

    • @onickislive5927
      @onickislive5927 2 роки тому +1

      Any motivation for me?

  • @g.vairavandinesh2415
    @g.vairavandinesh2415 3 роки тому +281

    I relapsed after 12 days, but I didn't felt any guilt feel like before. I'm starting now 💪💪

    • @m1ghty_angel530
      @m1ghty_angel530 2 роки тому +2

      How's it going :P

    • @topflight9182
      @topflight9182 2 роки тому +41

      @@m1ghty_angel530 bro beating tf out his shi LMFAOOOOOOOOOOO

    • @licioussamuels
      @licioussamuels 2 роки тому +1

      @@topflight9182 Lol 😂😂

    • @manzoor2378
      @manzoor2378 2 роки тому +1

      Man I lost in couple of min ago

    • @HarmzConscious
      @HarmzConscious 2 роки тому +2

      Relapsing can actually be a crazy blessing and not a day for you to be annoyed at yourself, and the reason for this is because on your new day 1 you can start something new with your new streak, e.g. new streak to stop eating meat. Anyway I just made a detailed vid on all this and went in deep stay blessed ❤️🙏

  • @matthewmayfield8095
    @matthewmayfield8095 2 роки тому +315

    I relapsed yesterday.. pretty bad. 3 times in a day. It was like everything gave me the urge. I’m grateful for it actually. The guilt made it hard to sleep, which made me miss my alarm, no 4am workout, no journaling, no meditation, etc, late for work which threw off my whole morning. I caught myself in this low frequency and could only smile and look up with gratitude because atleast now I know the path and I see it clearly which I didn’t before yesterday. Day 1, LETS GO!!

    • @adrianarevalo9926
      @adrianarevalo9926 2 роки тому +9

      I relapsed today bro…. 3 times to be exact after almost 50 days, I feel like crap about it like maybe if it was just once I wouldn’t feel as bad but 3 times! Finding the motivation to keep going is hard, like all my progress has been lost

    • @matthewmayfield8095
      @matthewmayfield8095 2 роки тому +5

      Wow! 50 days is impressive. Congratulations on that feat my friend. You just need a few days of momentum and you’ll be back in it. I know the feeling and I think we all know exactly what you’re feeling. It’s such a low frequency I found out about “conscious connection” and it has helped me. Every morning I reassure myself that I won’t drink or fap no matter what. Just know you’re experiencing what everyone who’s relapsed experiences but 50 days will come again before you know it and you can resort back to how this feeling was by writing it down, making a video of yourself right now talking about how disgusting you feel. It’s worked for me. Good luck brother. Let us know how it goes 🙏

    • @adrianarevalo9926
      @adrianarevalo9926 2 роки тому +2

      @@matthewmayfield8095 thanks bro I appreciate it!! I really felt like I had to get it off my chest. I need to start writing things down more and like you said have that mental conscious connection to control my mind more and get in touch with myself cause after the relapse I felt so disassociated. Thanks for the tips!

    • @timgrinxx7068
      @timgrinxx7068 2 роки тому +10

      @@adrianarevalo9926 I relapsed today after a 5 month streak. This video has me looking at it in a different perspective. I wish It didn't happen but I can't change the past. I'm actually proud of myself for making it this far. I've never gone this far without releasing. Time to get back to the grind with a brand new perspective. 💪

    • @adrianarevalo9926
      @adrianarevalo9926 2 роки тому +3

      @@timgrinxx7068 for sure man!!! 5 months that’s insane I can’t wait to get there! And after that relapse I picked myself up real quick and kept pushing on. This biggest struggle with my nofap journey so far isn’t just the temptation but the flatline! Especially with everything I’m doing in life trying to become a real estate agent it’s hard to think with the 24/7 brain fog and all the other withdrawal effects, but I’m still pushing! But kudos to you bro keep it up we all gon make it!

  • @fredwarren8190
    @fredwarren8190 2 роки тому +109

    Once you relapse, understand that it is your mind set that determines how you feel! When you relapse you don’t lose the benefits that you acquired. AS A MAN THINKETH SO IS HE! Remember no human is perfect! When we fail, we learn, it’s the only way to move forward! STOP GOING SO HARD ON YOURSELF! It’s a mindset! after you relapse think of the positive results that you have gained I guarantee that your energy level will remain high! It’s all in the mind. If you only relapse once that’s fine. You only get tired if you have sex multiple times in a day / week! Releasing just once every month will not deplete you from the knowledge, wisdom, and understanding you have gained. You energy becomes stagnant when you have sex back to back more that time in a day/ week. Your body loses its vitamins, nutrients, zinc, ect when you constantly release, that is why most men feel so tired. One way to combat that is to jump in some cold water, read, workout to gain the lost energy back, and remain focused.

    • @TEOMITTAS
      @TEOMITTAS 2 роки тому +7

      Bro I can’t thank you enough for this 🥹

    • @darren6147-e8c
      @darren6147-e8c Рік тому +6

      Great advice bro
      I'm on day 28 and relapsed
      Screw it Man LoL
      I'ma jus Carry on as per usual simple

    • @Karl_95
      @Karl_95 Рік тому +1

      I appreciate this.thank you.

    • @ChasTheCoolCat
      @ChasTheCoolCat Рік тому

      Thank you my brother in Christ, we might have lost this small battle but we haven't lost the WAR!!!

    • @iambversamusic
      @iambversamusic 23 дні тому

      AMEN! I felt that I kept all my progress but none much. I feel like its easier to get back up and keep going whereas in past you just fall and fall and feel bad about self ⬆️

  • @averagejoe2043
    @averagejoe2043 Рік тому +74

    Just relapsed after 3-4 months of staying clean. It's a process that takes time and I'm grateful that I have come this far in my self discipline. As Thomas Wayne told his son Bruce: "Why do we fall? So that we can learn to pick ourselves up."

    • @zapataboy9377
      @zapataboy9377 Рік тому +4

      I thought about that too while watching this video

    • @JB-zv5cf
      @JB-zv5cf Місяць тому +1

      Same here, around 120 Days and i relapsed ... it FEELS like all for nothing in your mind but physically it did pretty much nothing

  • @Sirfredo_
    @Sirfredo_ Рік тому +139

    Made it 18 days, not a lot to many but meant everything to me hitting that new milestone. Thankfully I didn’t feel mentally physically drained . I Will reboot tomorrow & start over 💪🏽

    • @rashaadpatmon4007
      @rashaadpatmon4007 Рік тому +10

      Let's go how far you made it

    • @rishiadittya6626
      @rishiadittya6626 9 місяців тому

      Made uit till 20 days it was tough for me

    • @Money0120
      @Money0120 6 місяців тому

      That's literally how far I went at 18 days. Afterwards I didn't feel drained either.

    • @carloclearwater7253
      @carloclearwater7253 Місяць тому

      @@rishiadittya6626same here. And just slipped up after 8 days😔

  • @LowBishoop
    @LowBishoop Рік тому +30

    I was on my day 9 and i relapsed, i felt guilty, stupid and sad, almost depressed, but i seen this video and the other people's experiences and motivation came back. We will relapse sooner or later but we gonna win my brothers. 💪💪

    • @jayparshuram1464
      @jayparshuram1464 8 місяців тому

      Same here bro relapsed at 8 day

    • @greencam8572
      @greencam8572 8 місяців тому

      ​@jayparshuram1464 just relapsed man day 8 I've been on 5 days streaks but this time made it to 8 but my problem was I was so fking angry I needed to release it with some sort of hard exercise like boxing
      Feel crap but not as much as past few weeks as i learned a lesson there

    • @rustine07rr3
      @rustine07rr3 7 місяців тому

      I recently relapsed, fighting urges as it all breaks, i lost fighting, but previous days i overcame urges, it's progress for me, i relapsed today, but that gave me a lesson, i used to be addicted to watching p*rn like fapping 10 times in a single day, but this new year 2024, last time i fapped is jan 1, and did nofap for 8 days straight, it's jan 10 rn, and i lost, at 12:47 am, but now i'm motivated to try working out and running and keep growing without fapping, 8 days for me is a very great achievement, my only limit is 2 days with nofap, 8 days is a slightly better improvement for me. That motivated me to resist urges, i also deleted tiktok because every trigger comes from that app. It's a start, but i'm starting to glow up more and more.

    • @manukharvi294
      @manukharvi294 3 місяці тому +1

      Bro what does mean relapse?????

    • @Godwinsouls
      @Godwinsouls 19 днів тому

      Got to day 20, my best is 23, feeling sad and unhappy, put i will start tomorrow again, praying for all of us 🙏

  • @thereisnoiintheteam8475
    @thereisnoiintheteam8475 2 роки тому +45

    After 8 months of hard mode streak, i relapsed for a stupid reason, and I have been on NoFAP since more than 6 years....This made me so depressed and full of shame and guilt and anger....but i must say that this video made me more optimisic by allowing me to see things in a positive way: true! My relapses are.much much better ..! GOD bless all the NoFAP fighters ..I love you and I understand how addiction is bad.. We should do something about all these websites that are destroying yoing children and adolescents and ruining their lives

  • @lawliet.01
    @lawliet.01 2 роки тому +159

    6 months and just broke my streak, but I'm going to be even more focused. I know myself very well now . Wish the same for you all ❤️

    • @vegezada2117
      @vegezada2117 2 роки тому +3

      Same bro how is it going?

    • @Mkathet1m
      @Mkathet1m 2 роки тому +8

      Just... relapsed after 100 days felt very bad 😞😔

    • @kiyoshi9825
      @kiyoshi9825 2 роки тому +6

      @@Mkathet1msame... I also relapsed today after 111 days....it just sucks

    • @doomslayer8431
      @doomslayer8431 2 роки тому +1

      I got 11 days but it felt like an eternity

    • @doomslayer8431
      @doomslayer8431 2 роки тому

      Wait L, you’re still alive?

  • @suhaibkhan9401
    @suhaibkhan9401 2 роки тому +27

    149 days and relapse 😭😭😭 that regret 😭😭😭 thoes good old days 😭😭😭 but am gonna comeback stronger 🔥 for everyone out there mindset is everything and this is what I learned in my 149 days streak so keep going.

    • @CrystalPlayer739
      @CrystalPlayer739 6 місяців тому +2

      Hello ,I broke a 218 days myself ,how are you now?

    • @moments1590
      @moments1590 5 місяців тому

      i broke a 1 week streak what do i do i cant make it to a month@@CrystalPlayer739

    • @AyushVerma71919
      @AyushVerma71919 3 місяці тому +1

      ​@@CrystalPlayer739bro please help me 😭🙏 I'm accidentally broke my no fap streak after 1year long streak can i have to restart my nofap journey again im feeling guilty today 😭

    • @sanemi360
      @sanemi360 2 місяці тому +1

      I​@@CrystalPlayer739i broke.
      224 .. and i masterbated 2 days straight but iam not counting these days and just starting over..
      Fck this shit.....

  • @mundea
    @mundea 3 роки тому +52

    A day when Rob uploads is always a good day

  • @seanm996
    @seanm996 2 роки тому +187

    I've been trying NoFap for 6 years, still relapse occasionally, but also made improvements in most areas of life. It's often challenging to appreciate the overall progress when we slip up and focus on the negative. But the way you explain things here is really helpful to have perspective and keep going!

  • @rafsanabedinrifan8967
    @rafsanabedinrifan8967 Рік тому +27

    Relapsed just on day 7,felt so low but glad I had some insight from you.Thank you

  • @pratikwaghmare9032
    @pratikwaghmare9032 2 роки тому +20

    Man I relapsed after about 600+ days, and it felt terrible, but after your wise perspectives I am good to go!!
    I have deep faith in God, may be He will bring something great out of this too!!

    • @siddheshsrinivasan8818
      @siddheshsrinivasan8818 6 місяців тому

      stay hard king

    • @monkmode9853
      @monkmode9853 2 місяці тому

      Day 600 wow..
      You still feel guilt?

    • @pratikwaghmare9032
      @pratikwaghmare9032 2 місяці тому

      @@monkmode9853 I relapsed for almost 90 days bro (2-3 days and drop),then I made peace with it and told myself it's okay and kept working on my business fap or no fap. I kept praying and now I am back 130 days strong approx( not counting).
      My lesson: No fap is better but keep on grinding otherwise too. Then we slowly rise above it.

  • @KRYPTOKINGGAMING
    @KRYPTOKINGGAMING Рік тому +63

    I am an alcoholic, and I am on the wrong video.

    • @M5Ak
      @M5Ak 5 місяців тому +12

      Maybe not

    • @GG-gw9oo
      @GG-gw9oo 4 місяці тому +5

      Nah bro

  • @amg3601
    @amg3601 2 роки тому +12

    Thanks bro ❤️
    After 140 days i relapsed too many times
    But now i will make it
    Love from India ❤️

  • @survivalviktor5593
    @survivalviktor5593 2 роки тому +8

    Im on day 27, urges are strong, but im stronger! God bless You and your families!

  • @guillermocanjura3294
    @guillermocanjura3294 3 роки тому +47

    You're absolutely right. i been doing nofap for about a month now. of course I relapsed, but I can feel that all the negative things of being addicted to porn are gradually disappearing. thank you for the motivation, keep the good work in this channel, you're helping a lot of us.

  • @PaulNecula
    @PaulNecula 4 місяці тому +9

    I have lost my first and only nofap streak after 2 months.
    I can honestly say that there is no shame, yes i feel bad about losing the streak but I managed to go 2 months knowing before I was doing it everyday and I am proud of myself.

    • @dddudespark
      @dddudespark 3 місяці тому

      Bluddy can't even do 90 days 💀

    • @PaulNecula
      @PaulNecula 3 місяці тому

      @@dddudespark 💀

    • @dddudespark
      @dddudespark 3 місяці тому

      @@PaulNecula 💀

    • @dddudespark
      @dddudespark 3 місяці тому +1

      That's why I'm here to motivate! ;)

  • @NewRealityPill
    @NewRealityPill 5 місяців тому +1

    I will not use this video as an OK for relapsing, but rather as a motivation knowing that the benefits of NOT relapsing are SO GREAT, because progress is not lost EVEN WHEN RELAPSING!
    Peace unto you my brother in spirit!

  • @josedejesuszaragoza3246
    @josedejesuszaragoza3246 2 роки тому +43

    I was on a 70 day streak and just relapsed yesterday. I was putting my self down but thx to your vide I feel better. Next streak will be 140 days or more

  • @lucaszavaluentie4855
    @lucaszavaluentie4855 2 роки тому +10

    My best was 4 days and I relapsed today. This video got in my recommended just in time. Thank you.

  • @flori4n268
    @flori4n268 3 роки тому +48

    I’m only at the beginning of my journey, and for me the best feeling ,is that I am aware of what was wrong with me all this years. You are really good, and your videos actually makes sense.

  • @TjohnBL
    @TjohnBL 11 місяців тому +3

    I relapsed today. But this time, i learned a lot about the situation that led to my relapse and now i can accurately update my strategy to counter and win against the trigger. But i am happy that i even reached this long when i couldn't even reach up to 3 days before.
    Within the 34 days, i have been surrendering my trigers and urges and with some miracle, i didn't experience so much urges unlike before. But on the 34th day after seeing a very enticing image from facebook, my mind was just wild and i didn't know how to counter that yet. But now i know.
    This is not the end, nor a huge failure. This is just a battle. Retreat, re-strategize, and fight for longer! We can do this kings!

  • @keelee969
    @keelee969 2 роки тому +14

    Shit i started in August 4 2021 and relapsed January 10 2022 i was so scared but thanks to you i know all my process isn’t gone :)

  • @lofibeats1512
    @lofibeats1512 4 місяці тому +1

    Relapsed today after around three weeks, however it's my first time trying this journey and i felt defeated by my urge until i saw this video that helped me realize that relapsing is sometimes part of the process. As the saying goes, you can't escape from place you never been. I have been to place of defeat, now i learned from my mistake and I'm even more motivated to keep going. Thank you for this video, it was really helpful. Best regards. :)

  • @spooderaumg1188
    @spooderaumg1188 Рік тому +15

    I was on 8 day streak and I did it I felt like I was lost this video is so good made me realize that I’ll be stronger and I’ll have a bigger streak this time I’m going for a month without wish me luck guys

  • @user-ot9gh8fj7g
    @user-ot9gh8fj7g Місяць тому +2

    RELAPSED TWO TIMES TODAY!Such a shame!PLS FORGIVE ME EVERYONE ...This time I won't quit...

  • @jeffery3613
    @jeffery3613 Рік тому +14

    i got to day 60 but relapsed, i was feeling like shit till i saw this video and made me realise that its not over yet and i can still get up (good luck to whoever will be reading this)

    • @paravkahol7948
      @paravkahol7948 Рік тому +3

      I too relapsed after 60 days today. Comment section made me feel better, i hope you break 60 day record power to you 💪

    • @zaineadorin872
      @zaineadorin872 Рік тому +2

      I relapsed in day 30

  • @rushgaming7320
    @rushgaming7320 3 роки тому +11

    Relapsed after 116 days feeling too bad .this video' motivated me thanks brother

    • @andrejromic99
      @andrejromic99 3 роки тому +4

      Bro i only accomplished 30 days and felt horrible. Dont put such pressure on yourself. You are at a godlike point where i dont know if i can even reach as many days.

  • @Z-A-C
    @Z-A-C 2 роки тому +49

    I relapsed on day 18… whoopsie. Minor setback, but I don’t feel drained at all. I still feel great

    • @user-yr1py
      @user-yr1py 2 роки тому +2

      Me too but at day 21 I relapsed today

    • @glossyg1102
      @glossyg1102 2 роки тому +5

      @@user-yr1py me but 22 days 🤣 shii is not easy at all but those 3 weeks were amazing

    • @user-yr1py
      @user-yr1py 2 роки тому +5

      @@glossyg1102 haha it’s not easy man as a matter a fact this is my 19 day on semen retention and hey man what I’ve noticed is that the longer you hold the more you get closer to your achievements in life you feel the luxury coming

    • @HarmzConscious
      @HarmzConscious 2 роки тому +3

      Relapsing can actually be a crazy blessing and not a day for you to be annoyed at yourself, and the reason for this is because on your new day 1 you can start something new with your new streak, e.g. new streak to stop eating meat. Anyway I just made a detailed vid on all this and went in deep stay blessed ❤️🙏

    • @Z-A-C
      @Z-A-C 2 роки тому +5

      @@HarmzConscious back here again after making it 2 weeks on a new streak. I relapsed after getting passed 14 days. I’m not gonna remove my day count.
      But I am going to keep track of how many times I relapse. Let’s say I get to 30 days but I only relapsed once within those 30 days. That’s still 29 days of retaining and that’s a lot of progress. This will help me keep moving forward whilst also trying my best to stick to retaining. Resetting day count really demotivates me from doing it all over again so not resetting the day count helps a ton.

  • @renubaro-4778
    @renubaro-4778 Рік тому +12

    Relapsed after 133 days in March
    .. After that having a hard time continuing 😭.. From today I will start again 💪 stay strong fellas we all can do it..

    • @Himricks
      @Himricks Рік тому

      Stay strong buddy , you got this buddy ❤️

    • @raymondlealjr.2348
      @raymondlealjr.2348 Рік тому

      Same here was on 135 i felt so horrible afterwards i jus wanted to stay in bed but im back now barley day 9 but its time to let that crap go fr this time.

    • @koreanpopcorn18
      @koreanpopcorn18 Рік тому

      I failed 160 days in… just happened today. But tbh I don’t mind starting over again

    • @The4ortunateOne
      @The4ortunateOne Рік тому +1

      Its alright man i relapsed to recently but we come back stronger 💪

    • @kmgn31psvm
      @kmgn31psvm Рік тому +3

      strong spiritual journey for 4 years, relapsed 2023 need to catch again and i can understand you

  • @vektor7780
    @vektor7780 Рік тому +6

    I failed today on the 46th day. I think I already got rid of the addiction because I go to the gym regularly, work hard towards my goals and not give myself time to think about this. Thanks for the help.

  • @SithGod
    @SithGod 2 роки тому +6

    For the last time. NoFap doesn’t mean Semen Retention. It’s no porn and no masturbation . Okay. Why is this so hard for everybody to understand?

  • @justgivemeonesec
    @justgivemeonesec Рік тому +17

    started august 7th, relapsed today after having a bad day. definitely one of the harder days ive had in a while. to put it simply, i was in a bad mental state and the urges got the best of me. i don’t feel as bad as i was expecting. i kinda just accepted the mistake i did and im gonna keep moving on w my life and make sure i learn from this.

    • @teodortodorov1662
      @teodortodorov1662 Рік тому

      I started 10th September and relapsed today! I tried as hard as I could to not lose all of my semen and I think I lost like 1/3 of my seeds, so I gonna say I lost like 45 days of progress, but I will start tomorrow stronger than ever. I will take a lesson by my mistake.

    • @rashaadpatmon4007
      @rashaadpatmon4007 Рік тому +1

      Don't give up I relapsed in coming back keep edging your gonna relapse but let's stay focus on going on monk mode for the next 3 months no distractions

    • @beingahealthiermakesaperso9726
      @beingahealthiermakesaperso9726 6 місяців тому

      ​@@rashaadpatmon4007ok edging also tends to relapse?

    • @rashaadpatmon4007
      @rashaadpatmon4007 6 місяців тому

      @@beingahealthiermakesaperso9726 yes of course your tempted to do it again if your not edging you won’t do it again I’m day 5 I been losing years of energy never build it up it’s time to be more disciplined this year

  • @Ancientknowledge
    @Ancientknowledge 2 роки тому +7

    Relapsed at day 98 thanks for the encouragement! Been battling this addiction my entire life and I keep getting farther and father away from porn.

  • @johnstonyt4140
    @johnstonyt4140 Рік тому +4

    Day 9 might see like nothing but if you compare it to me last year I have made massive progress. Keep on going Kings, we will succede.

  • @user-lj1yz1sf8p
    @user-lj1yz1sf8p 5 місяців тому +1

    Man i got in day 30 and relapse again but i watched your video, i realized that relapsing is not bad, it is part of our journey, keep going.

  • @Ronnied74
    @Ronnied74 2 роки тому +24

    I relapsed after day 22 of nofap and I felt defeated but after watching your video I feel like I'm ready to go forward again and attempt another 30 day challenge of nofap.
    Thank you for your video.
    U inspired me to continue the fight and win this war.

  • @tejasnaik3144
    @tejasnaik3144 Місяць тому

    I relapsed after 5 months and
    Make me little sad that’s why I came to watch this video and it is helping me again to start my SR journey again Thanks for the video brother ❤

  • @amincherif3838
    @amincherif3838 10 місяців тому +2

    Watched this Video after hitting a 30 day streak and relapsing. I was devastated because I felt like I lost everything.. Feeling much better now. So thank you 🙏
    Learning to forgive yourself is definitely the hardest part about this journey.

  • @Pjoki
    @Pjoki 2 роки тому +29

    Just relapsed after my first try, 28 days. Thank you Rob for this video helped a lot :)

    • @mynameismegaman8654
      @mynameismegaman8654 2 роки тому +1

      I relapsed after 21 days 😒

    • @nicolasgraduel4520
      @nicolasgraduel4520 2 роки тому +2

      I just relapsed after 27 days 🥲

    • @Pjoki
      @Pjoki 2 роки тому

      @@nicolasgraduel4520 Don't feel sad bro that's great! Watch this video it will change how you look at NoFap streaks. ua-cam.com/video/7RF9m5fksbg-/v-deo.html

    • @Quickz221
      @Quickz221 2 роки тому +2

      It took a while to get to day 28 at first I couldn't even go past day 4 now I feel like I can go forever my energy and momentum is unbelievable even after 3 relapses after day 28 and day 13 again you just keep going and going no matter how many times you Relapse never count you're days until you Relapse but I really think we all need a women who will appreciate our Relapses at the end otherwise I just feel like it's a waste
      Age 28 I feel like I'm a happy as when I was in my teens

    • @Oucho29
      @Oucho29 2 роки тому +2

      I relapsed in day 27😿😿
      But i will overcome my porn addiction

  • @mundea
    @mundea 3 роки тому +26

    I am on day 6 of retention, going strong

    • @thamaraimanalan5004
      @thamaraimanalan5004 3 роки тому +4

      Best wishes to cross 250 days

    • @reydentapales81
      @reydentapales81 3 роки тому

      Can I ask what is retention sir?is it different in nofap?sorry first to hear retention,how it works?

    • @Rustinpeace25
      @Rustinpeace25 2 роки тому

      @@reydentapales81 the act of not ejaculating

    • @HarmzConscious
      @HarmzConscious 2 роки тому

      Relapsing can actually be a crazy blessing and not a day for you to be annoyed at yourself, and the reason for this is because on your new day 1 you can start something new with your new streak, e.g. new streak to stop eating meat. Anyway I just made a detailed vid on all this and went in deep stay blessed ❤️🙏

  • @m.h6858
    @m.h6858 9 місяців тому +1

    I'm not sure how I got here, nor what addiction he has, but I just relapsed from my celibacy journey, and this video has helped me to feel better about, so for that, I thank you!😢🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @heartlesshuncho5160
    @heartlesshuncho5160 Рік тому +7

    When I was in college, I would easily relapse about 6 to 10 times a week. I was definitely at my worst at this point. That was 2016-2018. And now currently, I only relapse about 4 times a month sometimes just once or twice. This definitely takes time to get rid of. I've been addicted since the 7th grade. It's slowly fading away but that guilt still hits me hard sometimes. But it makes me happy to see that I've made huge progress over the years.

  • @spl8267
    @spl8267 2 місяці тому +2

    Haven't relapsed ever since June 2nd. Might just be my biggest streak yet, and I plan on keeping it that way, thats for sure.

  • @frankjoseph6071
    @frankjoseph6071 2 роки тому +6

    been doing this for 8 years. it hasn't been a perfect journey, but he is right. i relapse about once a month verses every few days in the early years

  • @Youlookgoodfr
    @Youlookgoodfr 7 днів тому +1

    From this day i won't relapse.. I promise.. I will come back after i complete my 100days no fp!🤝

  • @amlaanbhattacharjee8001
    @amlaanbhattacharjee8001 3 роки тому +6

    Very true. It is the process that makes us happy. Let's grow together brother. Inspired

  • @auups5047
    @auups5047 3 роки тому +18

    You explain it so calmly and clearly man. I always love your videos. I actually have been relapsing quite often now cause my relationship got so bad all of a sudden for no fucking reason and I'm taking help of p and I know it's bad cause I've been on the streaks for well over 3 months without a single relapse but after that relapses have been bombarding in the journey. I'm still hopeful and by this year ends, I'm going to make it. Let's grow stronger together.

  • @bunhlsabunbunletssaveanima7953

    I haven't fapped for 13 days, and then i relapsed. I felt down and mad at myself, but this video made me stay strong.

    • @djswirley
      @djswirley Рік тому

      Yeah man I am pissed off with my self bro , I was on week 4 but I had a wet dream the other week on week 2 and then last night I had a wet dream and when I woke up I relapsed I was just pissed I release all the semen whilst sleeping , but honestly man I am going again , that was my longest streak , it just sucks that I am back on day 0 , it really does make you feel good the no fap , I am so pissed :(

    • @bunhlsabunbunletssaveanima7953
      @bunhlsabunbunletssaveanima7953 Рік тому +1

      @@djswirley On what day you were before day 0 of Nofap

    • @bunhlsabunbunletssaveanima7953
      @bunhlsabunbunletssaveanima7953 Рік тому +1

      @@djswirley Also, do you have intrusive thoughts? I mean OCD

    • @djswirley
      @djswirley Рік тому

      @@bunhlsabunbunletssaveanima7953 I was on day 28 :( now I am on day 1 :( and yeah it definitely fucks with my brain when I no fap, I can’t relapse any more man it fucks with me so much , and I am also getting hair loss aswell and no fap really helps with the hair so I will continue this journey forever

    • @bunhlsabunbunletssaveanima7953
      @bunhlsabunbunletssaveanima7953 Рік тому

      @@djswirley If you were on day 28, that doesn't mean you go back to day 0. Count yourself on day 14

  • @diegoassam2005
    @diegoassam2005 3 роки тому +18

    You always make me feel happy motivated and calm ! So I want to thank you very much for these videos cause they help me change my life 😎✌🏻

  • @self-improvement..
    @self-improvement.. Рік тому +2

    I relapsed tonight, ended punching myself in the face a few times for it. thank you tho, it's part of the process of becoming better. 🤝

  • @lmaooaml5804
    @lmaooaml5804 2 роки тому +5

    1 year and 3 month clean , I'm a beast in gym now 💪

  • @carltonsoo829
    @carltonsoo829 3 місяці тому

    Oh God thank you for making this video! I was like 70 days in and was having a really bad week at work and just caved in. I felt horrible today and wanted to beat myself up! Thank you so much once again for making this video. Picked myself back up and to the nofap journey here we go! 🙏🙏🙏🔥🔥🔥.

  • @anodiwanyabadza2255
    @anodiwanyabadza2255 Рік тому +3

    I just relapsed after 10 days and felt like shit until I saw this. I see it like a season for a team you win but when you lose you pick yourself up and comeback stronger 💯💯

    • @soraxd1455
      @soraxd1455 Рік тому

      Same I relapse today Day 11 suck

  • @petarbaglic9721
    @petarbaglic9721 Рік тому +1

    thank you for this,i relapsed today after 16months,,going stroooong again tomorow,wish you best luck God bless ya all!!

  • @vvs4120
    @vvs4120 Рік тому +5

    In the end it's not always about the days you count, it's about how we become a better person afterwards.

  • @steadfastmusic7660
    @steadfastmusic7660 2 роки тому +4

    It's my 66th day and meanwhile I had to encounter the relapse posed to step in the threshold of my nofap but I have been fortunate to have people like u who help us heal with it 🙌❤️

  • @Dinesh-ub7yi
    @Dinesh-ub7yi 2 роки тому +4

    this came in clutch 😤🔥

  • @A22Wien
    @A22Wien Рік тому +2

    I relapsed today, after 5 months of this spirtual journey I am disapointed in myself but I understand that through trial and error, eventually I will build a foundation to keep my mind afloat and survive this addiction. I wish everyone this journey luck and hope that your minds are strong and clear. Remember: Rome wasn't built in a day.

  • @BreakingKenjamin
    @BreakingKenjamin Рік тому +3

    All I can say is that after a few relapses I have at least reduce my addiction. I use to fap every morning which got me late to work, school, or whatever. Now it's not really in my way, I got some things done and such and it feels good doing physical and productive things. I still have a long way to go!

  • @classicbucket9077
    @classicbucket9077 Рік тому +1

    Dude thank you, ive been strugging with how to view relapsing and you really changed my way of seeing things, your an inspiration to anyone trying to stop this disease.

  • @arunbabu450
    @arunbabu450 3 роки тому +15

    Thanks for the motivation trying to keep going after my relapse yesterday

  • @rajneeshgupta330
    @rajneeshgupta330 Рік тому +2

    I got to day 301 then relapsed, Feeling fucked up And dipressed, I just badly broked my streak about x8 continuously from 5 days Don't know what is going on, My mind is not even urging but still from the subconscious it's all happening..... Now started again Now this time I will Be a Top G,,,,, 🙏🏻

  • @Withinreasonandlogic
    @Withinreasonandlogic 2 роки тому +6

    I did after a month and 1 week, i feel as if i have a hangover. I feel slowed and numb. Its a negative feeling. But im determined as well. Thanks brother

  • @anhochi4429
    @anhochi4429 Рік тому +1

    thank you so much for your videos, I have just relapse and i feel so much disappointed, I will try again, moving toward our goal make us happy.

  • @neetaspirant8811
    @neetaspirant8811 3 роки тому +7

    Thank U So Much Sir...!
    You are providing light in my dark journey....🙏

  • @dadpower838
    @dadpower838 2 місяці тому

    So for me I relapse @92 days. I learned a lot from that experience. Like my triggers that had led me up to that point. First I would say I don't believe edging is good for me. I understand it can be good but it made it too tempting to release. And being tired and laying around after a long day wasn't good either. Idle time is the devil's greatest weapon.Also I didn't take the suggestion about going to the gym to help transmute the energy that I had all pent up. I thought my art work was enough, but I believe you do need some kind of physical activity to help you out. So for the first time in my life I walked through my fear about the gym and I'm going 3 times a week. All together this incident brought me closer to understanding my body's needs. And I am grateful for that. It just made me want to go deeper. 🧘🏼‍♂️😌💪🏼🤙🏼

  • @Roquea.207
    @Roquea.207 2 роки тому +3

    Just relapsed an hour ago feel guilty and undisciplined but the temptation was so strong that couldn’t even sleep this night ,just 8 days and I’ve been so clear in the mind and with such energy that this past July 4 almost get me a beautiful young good quality future girlfriend through a social group
    Now I’ve lost that energy and I can sense it ,I’m starting over again

  • @rahom.v
    @rahom.v Рік тому +2

    Thank you master,
    i just relapsed after 2 month streak and feel regret and pain (why i do it!!)
    but this video help me alot.
    i will never stop chasing my goals✨🌞

    • @rebeccacruz4153
      @rebeccacruz4153 Рік тому +1

      Same bro it's frustrating 😅

    • @rahom.v
      @rahom.v Рік тому

      @@rebeccacruz4153 I recently signed up for the gym, and I will do the best for my life to develop and strive to reach the maximum limits.
      i hope you do the same sis🗿✨

    • @rahom.v
      @rahom.v Рік тому

      @@rebeccacruz4153 I recently signed up for the gym, and I will do the best for my life to develop and strive to reach the maximum limits.
      i hope you do the same sis🗿✨

  • @arthurmorgan9436
    @arthurmorgan9436 2 роки тому +7

    Thanks Rob, I just relapsed, at first I felt really and I mean REALLY bad.
    Now that I've seen your video, i am proud and reliefed.

  • @sadaesthetic7598
    @sadaesthetic7598 2 роки тому +1

    Sadly I relapse today after 2 months and 11 days, i instantly search something to put me on my feet again thanks man,
    Good luck guys keep up

  • @joesamaha7287
    @joesamaha7287 Рік тому +15

    I started no fap last week and...today I relapsed...I was so proud of myself because I usually did 2-3 times a day and I wasn't able to hold the urges more than one day, and this time I was able to hold it for 7 days and lost it all

    • @trillion8208
      @trillion8208 Рік тому +2

      I was the same bro, 2/3 times a day everyday. You’ve got to remember it’s an extreme addiction that we’re facing. We’re going to relapse.

  • @thecatgod2867
    @thecatgod2867 8 місяців тому

    I find it so extremly cool how people do streaks for half a year to a year man that's insane! You guys are fucking resilient! I cant go a week without relapsing at least once because obviously i'm addicted and yet i notice small but good changes to my cognitive and social behavior, can't imagine how clear i would be if i had your guys willpower! Much love

  • @al-mashhoorbharwafrom3755
    @al-mashhoorbharwafrom3755 2 роки тому +3

    It Was My 8th Day And I Relapsed 😞 But Brother Ur Video Is Helping Me Alot And I Will Come Again With More Power💪 Because Noting is Impossible❤️🔥

    • @HarmzConscious
      @HarmzConscious 2 роки тому +1

      Relapsing can actually be a crazy blessing and not a day for you to be annoyed at yourself, and the reason for this is because on your new day 1 you can start something new with your new streak, e.g. new streak to stop eating meat. Anyway I just made a detailed vid on all this and went in deep stay blessed ❤️🙏

  • @gm-gamingmusic5127
    @gm-gamingmusic5127 2 місяці тому +2

    lost my 200day streak soldiers i will come back even stronger

  • @hemchandrasawant6761
    @hemchandrasawant6761 3 роки тому +16

    See this is what happens when you relapse; you start calling 'process' to 'progress' 😬

  • @bunhlsabunbunletssaveanima7953

    Here is help to people with relapse. I will make it shorter so it will be better. R = relapse don't forget
    R on day 7 = count yourself on day 2
    R on day 8 = count yourself on day 3
    R on day 9 = count yourself on day 4
    Gonna make it shorter C = count
    R on day 10 = C yourself on day 5
    R on day 11 = C yourself on day 6
    R on day 12-14 = C yourself on day 7-8
    R on day 15 = C yourself on day 9
    R on day 16 = C yourself on day 10
    R on day 17 = C yourself on day 11. And it goes more and more and more. Stay strong boys and guys! I am currently on day 5 because i relapsed on day 10. My target is to reach 30 days and then 60 and finally 90. WE WILL MAKE IT!

  • @brickhandle1577
    @brickhandle1577 2 роки тому +10

    My best this year was 33 days then I just relapsed on a 19 day streak. Not beating myself up just gonna keep going and do my best

    • @HarmzConscious
      @HarmzConscious 2 роки тому

      Relapsing can actually be a crazy blessing and not a day for you to be annoyed at yourself, and the reason for this is because on your new day 1 you can start something new with your new streak, e.g. new streak to stop eating meat. Anyway I just made a detailed vid on all this and went in deep stay blessed ❤️🙏

    • @daniyaaal1411
      @daniyaaal1411 2 роки тому +1

      My Best streak was 3 weeks. i just relapsed now but i will not give up. Keep going brozzers

  • @worldmapyt4321
    @worldmapyt4321 4 місяці тому +2

    When I have started I have failed in a few days but now I relapsed after 36 days.

  • @markmason7934
    @markmason7934 2 роки тому +10

    I just relapsed I feel like an idiot I should've closed the tabs when I had the damn chance

    • @c3s203
      @c3s203 2 роки тому +2

      Same here .. im relapse today

  • @MOART
    @MOART Рік тому +1

    This man have a great mentality just like his great jawline 🔥🐺

  • @nadeemsheikh5943
    @nadeemsheikh5943 3 роки тому +4

    Thanks Rob, It is really helped take some pressure off. On my day 15 and I am going for 90 days.

    • @HarmzConscious
      @HarmzConscious 2 роки тому

      Relapsing can actually be a crazy blessing and not a day for you to be annoyed at yourself, and the reason for this is because on your new day 1 you can start something new with your new streak, e.g. new streak to stop eating meat. Anyway I just made a detailed vid on all this and went in deep stay blessed ❤️🙏

  • @TFlynow
    @TFlynow 4 місяці тому

    I was 2 months in and just let go today. I felt bad about it but also learned that it’s not worth temporary enjoyment over long term benefits. Come on we can do it 🙏🏾 start again

  • @Ferjay45
    @Ferjay45 2 роки тому +7

    Every time I last 5 days plus I don’t feel as bad, I only feel guilty when I do it again in the same day

  • @pratikkhale5670
    @pratikkhale5670 2 роки тому +3

    We do relapsed 2-3 Times In a month while on No Fab..But The Progress and Motivation That I have Is X10 Better Than Relapsed Every single Day..That's the Process Keep Going if u relapsed Then Out of 100% , 30% Energy Remains in You...

    • @reiss166
      @reiss166 2 роки тому +1

      thank you bro

  • @mirza4gaming403
    @mirza4gaming403 2 роки тому +10

    I promised myself but still relapsed after 50 days 😞 feeling quite guilty. I'm starting again and will be proud of myself again!

    • @sadaesthetic7598
      @sadaesthetic7598 2 роки тому +2

      You go champ, ovoid anything sexaul in social media or staring at women u lest longer brother

  • @vhypnotic7825
    @vhypnotic7825 Рік тому

    My most highest out of all was 62 days, 2 months. Nofap is actually real people! Somehow I’ve relapsed but I’ll keep going, and so do you

  • @TheUnbotheredTexan
    @TheUnbotheredTexan 2 роки тому +20

    Just relapsed on day 11th, feels so bad. I FEEL like I chose fap more than my goal, because I had a chance to choose to watch a nofap relapse proof video like I did on other days but I just stay awayed from it 😫
    But thank God, and your channel. It feels like I'm still counting my nofap journey it's just one day doesn't mean it's the whole progress.

    • @TheUnbotheredTexan
      @TheUnbotheredTexan 2 роки тому

      I couldn't believe, 4 months ago I made it back on day 11. These months, I can't even escape 4 days. Just yesternight I relapsed after 7 days.

    • @markhilditch3467
      @markhilditch3467 Рік тому

      @@TheUnbotheredTexan Keep trying!

  • @PankajKajal-kl1eg
    @PankajKajal-kl1eg Місяць тому +1

    I relapses after 18th day.... I am making this longer now.. Will Work on it.... Again... I am going to start this challenge again thank you..

  • @chiragsoni8630
    @chiragsoni8630 3 роки тому +26

    Relapsed after a 146 day streak, starting again from tomorrow.

    • @UR_cristianoR7-f6o
      @UR_cristianoR7-f6o 3 роки тому +5

      Oh my God i thought when u reach these days u can't relapse

    • @soultheconfusing9563
      @soultheconfusing9563 3 роки тому +1

      If I may can I ask what caused it? People always say nofap gets easier if u stick to it if that’s the case how come people like u relapse after such a long streak?

    • @chiragsoni8630
      @chiragsoni8630 3 роки тому +4

      @@soultheconfusing9563 I skipped my workout for a whole week followed by a lot of urges to relapse. I kept on convincing myself to continue and watch a movie to distract myself but then for some reason I wasn't able to that's it I was frustrated and it was over.

    • @chiragsoni8630
      @chiragsoni8630 3 роки тому +8

      @@UR_cristianoR7-f6o Yeah even I thought that I am out of this. But see, after staying clean for nearly five months and then relapsing was a huge wake up call for me. I realised that these urges in the form of thoughts and certain images in mind is nothing but an energy, too powerful to be controlled instead we should learn to transform this energy to productive uses like exercising, meditation, reading a book or anything. Personally, for me exercise made it a lot easier to achieve such a long streak and once I took a break from workout , I was back to the old roots resulting in me relapsing. Please learn from my mistake, keep exercising and you will be out of this in no time. Good luck to all.

    • @UR_cristianoR7-f6o
      @UR_cristianoR7-f6o 3 роки тому +1

      @@chiragsoni8630 thanks alot bro ..so it's all about getting busy ...five month run i have never seen it in my life bro you're great...i always relapse on the third week
      My addiction is in 9years very hard to break

  • @gezzx1058
    @gezzx1058 Рік тому +2

    It's been nearly 80 days 😔, I relapsed today, I'm super pissed but this video is helping a lot

  • @buddy470
    @buddy470 5 місяців тому +6

    i am in 264+ days and still going before this i relapsed 3 times

  • @johnkarl3427
    @johnkarl3427 Рік тому

    There are levels to addiction. I've been relapsing quite a bit lately, but I have remained accountable and always reached out to trusted people after an incident. That's a far cry from the liar I used to be.

  • @cephasgunn1993
    @cephasgunn1993 2 роки тому +7

    Thank you brother, only a week but still needed this now. really appreciate this video bud, but damn that week was great. so really its very motivational.