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Haha but i think INFJ is all of the above
As an iNFJ I found it interesting what you said about the N being better at analyzing problems, because it's true! I have noticed that intuitives have a special ability to see "outside the box" and see things in more depth, as the phrase "you see, but you do not observe" says, I think it applies perfectly to intuitives, sensors tend to be more "closed mind" and "practical" in general.
So what you’re saying is to keep all aggression passive? 😉
(ISFJ here)
@@aaronstollingsNo, what she's saying is, let your aggression out in the real world, write notes saying 'people don't love me' and then put them all around the house.
I did that as a kid and you can obviously see it makes a cool memory to think about later
- infp
@@VanessaLima-im9fs Absolutely agree. -INTJ
Imagine if this was someones first time here and they don't realize this is a character.
Exactly what I was thinking. The worst part is that it is likely. Somebody new to MBTI finding out they're INFJ are likely to have not come across Kristen but are also likely to be recommended INFJ stuff. Watch those INFJ stuff and eventually this will be recommended, especially over other Kristen content which tend to be for all types.
Actually I am new and had no idea! 😂
I need to make the "this video is satirical" label bigger next time 😅
HMM... I SMELL INFERIOR NE
@@dearkristinI knew it was satire from knowing you but in all seriousness I didn’t notice there was a label that this was satire. Some of us intuitives don’t register “little “ details unless we’re smacked in the face with it!! -INFP 😂 (And just had to edit out a completely random accidental time stamp I didn’t realize I put in there until the next day.)
"sometimes she just needs to come back down to reality"
Said the INFJ
good catch
Exactly what i was thinking
lmao yes and no. Were pretty much in our heads but very realistic about the world around us (that does not inckude our crushes)
@@halimaalidrissi568I agree with you so much - it doesn’t include our crushes one bit! He could’ve gone off to Mars having signed papers that he’s never coming back to Earth and I’d still believe we’ll meet one day.
@@Seca95because you will 😩
Can't wait for the ISTP version where they say nothing and rank everyone in 1 minute
It would just be the completed tier list on screen for 10 seconds because you should be smart enough to pause it to read it yourself. 😂
Nah gotta get more creative than that
Might be like "Hey, straight to the point, I'm ranking these guys. Here's the result. Pause the video to see. No, I will not elaborate on why (this beloved type) is ranked the lowest." :P
@@icandoeddiethingmaybe they kept talking
I wouldn’t waste time ranking based on self awareness. The tiers would be based on usefulness.
The passive aggressiveness and subtle superiority complex is superb 😂
True 😂
I love that i hate her character 😂
"subtle" ;D
It's not a 'complex' when we truly are a more advanced form of human :p
@@rainbowratto1834Always make it just not subtle enough so they'll notice ;P.
“My extroverted feeling preference in my cognitive functions means that I do appear as quite a compassionate, kind, and positive person, but I am actually deeply judgmental”
As an INFJ, this is a hilarious, honest comment.
I mean, it's true 😅❤
So very, very, very true. And don't judge me for it!
Quietly judging others and then judging myself for judging others is the story of my life. (INFJ)
@@1029blue I hear that!
The fact that the infj originally had 20 tiers when there’s only 16 personalities, you never fail to make me smile Kristin
I belly laughed at ENFPs having “a disadvantage in life.” -ENFP
This satire is absolute gold
As an ENFP, I don't quite understand why we would have a disadvantage in life. Chaos is fun amidst the unpredictability of the world! Unless she meant that the world is too rigid and structured for us to live freely
@@evarootbeer22 both things you said are a bit true actually^^ I think that part was more about how the stereotypical INFJ absolutely CANNOT handle living in chaos and uncertainty, so it was more of a projection. Of course ENFPs can handle and love chaos cause they be built for chaos :p -INFJ
@@SecondFloor2311 Yeah, I think it's partially projection and partially thinking that an ENFP would never be able to go through life accomplishing anything, because they are so chaotic (not saying that's true, just explaining why she labeled it as a "disadvantage").
@@SecondFloor2311 Ah, that makes sense! Projection at its finest. Thank you for the compliment (or fact) :'D
@@1029blue Ooooh, that makes sense too! Because we are so chaotic, free and our ideas are all over the place, we may seem like we can't survive and deal with the reality of the world (such as adulting, responsibilities, serious orders and stuff) since we prioritize fun a little bit too much haha. A disadvantage indeed, but a mature and healthy ENFP can easily be successful in living life, even if it means doing random things that make them happy since that is what matters in the long run for them (or for me).
The awkward silence before INFJ just ✨appears✨ at the top 🤣
"The INTP are searching... for answers... to something..."
- That pretty much sums up my life right there 🤣👌
Have you found the answers yet? I'm still walking in baren wasteland of meaninglessness
This is why I lean towards thinking I’m an INTP
@@entropy8634 nope, I figure one only has to learn to enjoy the search 😅
I dunno, sometimes I am also looking for questions.
@@KarlJeager gotta ask good questions to get good answers 👌
I'm guessing either the ENTP or the ESTP found this and uploaded it without the INFJ's permission bc they thought it would be funny... well played.
I'd guess it would be the ENTP because she confessed to having a crush on an ENTP, who also has a crush on her, and he wanted it to be revealed to all. LOL!
- Signed an INFJ who has a crush on an ENTP who she knows would do that. LOL!
LOL yeah sounds about right
@@Lanino. Estp istj is. Its always the shadow function who is a golden pair. Entp for example golden pair is intj
@@justme8841 wrong. the shadow is the arch-nemesis pair. have you ever seen an estp interacting with an istj irl? or an entp with an intj? not that beautiful, is it?
main axis' inverted e/i and middle axis inverted fully is what makes the golden pairing. i.e. entp and infj, enfp and intj, etc.
@@Lanii thought it was intp and infj 😭
Kristin chose violence today. 😮😂
Yeah, that's how I died laughing haha -intj😂😂😂💀
Blood will flow
😅
Bahahah as an INFJ, I'm concerned that I found this relatable. I am secretly so judgmental, definitely trying to work on it. Except that I would've put INFJ in the "over-analysing" column because I know that I over-analyse.
I would definitely put us in "suppressing wounds" 🤣
Same :)
To both.
As an INFJ, I was cracking up all throughout this video. 🤣 I think it portrays the INFJ attitude more accurately than most of us INFJs would like to admit 😅😂🤣
It can't be true
Stop pretending.
Just posted the same thing 😅
we're pretty private about most of these things, since we're in constant conflict with ourselves and always trying to find out how to reconcile them within ourselves or what the optimal times to use each of these traits might be, when to not use them, etc. Quite embarrassing to have it all put out there. But ESFP's love to out us like this, since they want everything to be on the table at all times, because... why shouldn't it be ?!? This is why I don't have social media anymore (ESFP mom replies in the comments cost me entire friend groups, even if I've grown past the stage she mentions ).🤪
I agree! It's hilarious
As the ENFP daughter of an INFJ who's regularly confusing me with her simultaneous sweetness and also deeply frustrating with her judginess... this was so validating to watch.
maaan this is why im scared to have kids. lmao we cant help but judge but we do the work to validate the reason why were judging you for later... makes sense?
@@halimaalidrissi568 aww makes sense! I always see INFJs as my mirror. I can't help but blindly accept everything, but I do now see how that's ultimately kind of naive and I know I need a little bit more judgement. I think as long as you have some awareness around it I wouldn't worry about it too much 🤗 my mom's great overall even if I am sometimes rolling my eyes 😆
@@hannahpeterangelo7551 i would say that ENFPs are the more outgoing/more impulsive version of INFJs for sure. We connect on another level & share the same general values. Im happy to hear youre appreciative of your mum,..kind of gives me hope 🤗
awww we legitimately love ENFPs though, you guys have so many things we can learn from!! maybe tell your mom kindly that although she might not mean it, sometimes she can come off as judgmental. i'm sure she'll take it into consideration even if she's in denial at first. i hope you don't feel too bad about it!
@@ShravanaKakati haha we could start a club 🥳
I love how the infj took 5 weeks to make the tiers more concise becuase they see nuance in everything 😂 love it!
That's by far the most accurate part of this.
@@renab.7390haha agreed. Highly called out.
And then didn't even use one of the tiers!
Further narrowing... it's a thing. Eventually all things become one thing.
@@bobdole347
After just asking for a week to narrow the scope of a presentation, that one hit hard.
PLEASE make this a series!
Oh, yea can't wait for ESFP tier-ranking 😆.
Brilliant 💡 idea
I want to see INTJ. We also jugde people in silience. But maybe it should be about something else than emotions?
@@arturkrol2907 Kristin has just shared her ideas for this on Patreon and I think it's going to be abso-flingin-flangin hilarious! 😂
@@edwright4892 Knowing her - that for sure :)
who else started singing "i'm suppresing wounds 🎵" the moment she started explaining the tiers' names?
My mind kept on singing that through the entire video 😵💫
Me, I did!
ESFJ here, and she almost got me there twice😂😂🤣😜
Kristen, could we have a skit of the mature version of each type interacting with their immature counterparts? I've been hoping for it for a while. I think it would be fairly hilarious to see "Becky" critiquing herself.
(Full disclosure, I'm an INTJ who's really hoping for an accurate depiction of competent personal interaction as contrasted with the closed-off, jaded version that's so often depicted. Also, yes, this is the second time asking about this.)
I'll second this. It'd be fun to see an INTJ who's figured out that social skills are beneficial to one's quality of life, an ENFP who's matured beyond the complete haphazard goofball, an ISTP who . . . exists on screen for more than two sentences. xD
FJs that aren't manipulative or doormats
Yes please!
That could be fun!
Agreed! The younger and older versions meeting each other is a great concept. I'm an older INFJ. I see a bit of teenaged me in the skits, but now that I'm in my 40s I am so different as a person.
This is definitely one of my favorite videos that you’ve done thus far. I do realize that “as an INFJ,” I’m getting absolutely roasted by it, but it’s just too funny. I hope you do more with the other types!!
Hehe I just got roasted too, I'm sorry for both of us but it was super funny fr :)
No one burns INFJ’s quite like ESFPs 😅
I really wanted to hear an ESFP acting as an INFJ rant about her thoughts about ESFPs! 😂
20 tiers for 16 objects: Very Te Polr.
Also the projecting about projecting was quite funny.
My sister is an INFJ and when I point out how she was so close to many of her mates, i was shocked when she told me she view them as acquaintance only liiiike for me i thought they were all besties
-intj
LOL I can't believe you're saying that!! I said the exact same thing to my INFJ friend (I'm INFP). We were talking about a classmate. She said: "I didn't ask for the class notes to her (to the classmate) because I don't trust her that much, we're not friends". I answered: "I don't understand, I thought you were friends. I don't understand who you consider a friend...". She laughed hard. And yes, it's difficult to understand the criteria they have for friendships... Like, if I talk to someone is because we're already friends.
As an INFJ, I will put it this way. The criteria is basically who we divulge are more personal thoughts about. What we really think about the world while at the same time also being proactive in who we want to talk to. We are introverts, so we will not be sure of who to trust right off the bat and, frankly, it’s tiring to work around other people’s needs.
We are very guarded inwardly, but outwardly we are open enough to listen to what others need. In its best form, it’s comforting. In its worst, it’s manipulative. But that second case is only the worst case. Which I would hope never comes to past, but people are unique, so who knows?
@@joanaborrellsanchez9225if they divulged this information to you means they definitely consider you as their friend 😂
YES! I am the same way. I tell people that they are my acquaintances, not friends because we don’t hang out nor do they know much about me, etc.
I am like that too. Hahahaha. Lol I love how it surprises people. You could know us for decades and we'll still call you acquaintances.
INFJ Becky initially addresses a supposedly imaginary audience about a tier list that she thinks nobody would ever see but "would just end up on her hard drive", and about her very promising book that was never written, albeit already a bestseller in her dreams...
I wonder if she found out somehow that ESFP Kristin leaked her private vlog.. and how she'd feel about this :O :P
I guess it's unpackable how Becky doesn't elaborate on why she put INFJ and ESFP on their assigned tiers ;)
It’s payback for the characters kidnapping her
I do NOT spend my time hating humanity. I spend my time trying to figure out how to make human civilization work over the next three centuries while factoring in our collective stupidity and lack of foresight and pattern recognition.
- INTJ
Finally a decent comment in the comment section... - INTJ
With those kind of questions the most challenging aspect I find is how do you create any system that has to be managed by people without the people needed to manage it warping it for their own advantage? people making seemingly dumb decisions because they give them personal profit seems to be the one universal constant of governance.
@@KarlJeager the question for me there is how do you insure that the people are ultimately attuned enough and in charge enough to displace bad actors and systems when necessary. Given the state of things, I'd say that is the core problem society ultimately can't quite get around. Change will happen, people will be selfish, lessons of history will be forgotten, but people adapt. However, the decay of institutuons, and failure of goverments in particular to really think long term seem a constant of our species. It's a tough nut to crack at least.
INTJs could only go so far with their physical and mental limitations. Leave it to God/the Creator. He will take care of everything and will eventually make all things new in His time when humanity is ripe for a harvest. I don't know if any of you believe in a supreme mastermind Who has ZERO sin/imperfection/character flaw/weakness that also created the entire universe, but I believe in such a being exists. Observing the seemingly endless reaches of outer space down to the most microscopic level of our material realm, there has to be more than what we percieve with our senses and thoughts. I suggest try studying the Holy Bible. It's not only a source of providing practical and moral guidelines on how to have fulfilling lives despite hardships or injustices surrounding us, it's very much a chronology of the fallen human condition as it foretells future revolutionary events that have yet to unfold. A future where the saints and humble redeemed are granted eternal life and joy, while the wicked and proud unrepentant are resigned to perish in the lake of fire. Like how God is completely independent from time and space, He is able to see everything from start to finish, and these special developments illustrated through prophecies. The current world order is coming to an end, but is going to usher in a brand new world without evil and corruption, a place where perfect love and justice prevails.
"They are searching... for answers... to something". The most accurate description of INTP.
😂 this is too good! Sometimes we need an external satirical perspective into our all too self-opinionated inner worlds of patterns, intuitions and profundities to keep us grounded!
- INFJ here
God this portrayal was PERFECT, you nailed it!! the amount of thoughts, the venting the infj does, all this stuff she wants to do, the bias towards entps ( i find them attractive and am aware that this is probably not normal attraction), finding isfps confusing as fuck( tho i think they're putting in the work), liking intps and enfps, the detailed thoughts, the "i am very very kind but also roast the hell out of people", the superiority, honestly even the hair reminded me of myself. plus the general vibes, dude. great job.
Blast. As soon as Kristin said "suppressing wounds," the 🎵"I'm suppressing wounds"🎶 song and the dancing 🍀leprechaun🍀 popped into my head. Gonna be stuck in there for hours now. Thanks, Kristin... 🙄
I'm amazed we INTPs ranked as high as "doing the work." 🥳
Gotta tell the INFJ, though... ISTPs aren't suppressing wounds. They honestly just don't care enough about the things they can't affect to be bothered. They're in the here-and-now-real-world on a level I can only envy from a distance.
samee I remembered it too during that moment lol
we love INTPs. they are very earnest.
Eh plenty of istps are suppressing wounds but they just don’t acknowledge it
INTPs being awkwardly considerate is the cutest thing ever.
"Thinks they're self-aware but is really just overthinking everything." I knew I was in that category as an INFP lol I literally just escaped from my last overthinking spiral and was watching this video to comfort myself 😂😂😂😞
LOL
Yeah, I wasn't offended to be placed there either. Kinda wanted to see the secret INFJ tips to escape the overthinking too 😂
INFJs have this weird simultaneous superiority/inferiority complex. We want to be the best versions of ourselves and have incredibly high standards for ourselves and believe that we are fully capable of being truly amazing human beings, but when the reality hits and we fail to meet those standards, we think we have failed and feel bad about ourselves. So we are trapped within the idealizations of our minds and we rarely can purely just focus on the present moment without thinking of how things should be. I don't know how judgmental INFJs are in general towards others but I don't recognize that in myself. It can just seem to others as if I was judgmental of them because I keep talking about my idealizations
Is there a lore developing? First the INTJ realising the characters are in a puppet-mastered fake realm and the ENTJ trying to suppress this fact as seen in the ghost and kidnapping skits, then the beginning of the civil war between the INTP and ENTP, and now an INFJ doing a deep dive about the others, thinking they won’t ever see it, but it has, in fact, been released to the world by the ESFP?
Maybe a ‘16 personalities in a reality TV show’ like big brother could be a next skit? 😃
The TV show is called "MBTI inside" in Korea. 1 year+ it exists ^^
@@Elodie_N_INTJ_Analyzesi love mbti inside😩
"I've been trying to practice being more concise." Yes I've actually said this. Repeatedly. Mostly to myself but sometimes outloud. -- INFJ surrounded by sensors, and married to an ISTJ
Feeling your pain gives me headache
Highly highly relate
I literally felt that line
LOL
So much no on the INTJ. We're Ni/Fi. When we're not out doing stuff with/for other people or plotting for advancement (Te), we're essentially locked in our heads with our own feelings. Whatever wounds we have are really, really, really not subconscious. We're extremely aware of them. That's usually why we don't like other people or seek much contact with them.
We know our own emotions. We just don't know what to do with *other* people's emotions, even if we do understand them.
True lol I think lots of Fe users can't comprehend us Ni-Fi users being totally aware of our own emotions.
@@EresirThe1st True in many cases, I think. But coming from an INFJ, it's weird.
They're, like, our buddies who usually actually understand that we've been sentenced to solitary confinement in our own heads because they're the other Ni doms, so they're up there, all alone, too. We just have different coping strategies to the eternal inner monologue.
When she said, "It's going to be a quite while before the INTJ realizes they actually need to go to therapy," my honest reaction was, "No, I don't need to."
as an INFJ, oh my god. THIS IS SO REAL, I had such a fun time watching this video. AND THE END WAS EVERYTHING I EXPECTED LMAOO
Kristin as an SJ I think it’s my obligation to remind you that you still have the shoulder angels to do!
You know you've all subscribed for unfinished things
Not to mention "MBTI goggles" lol
@@dearkristincmon please at least finish through the eyes of you’re so close!
As an xNxP I actually agree with this xSxJ comment
and teas... 'cause obviously everyone wants know what tea they are, right?
Literally every type would put ENTJ in suppressing wounds. Even ENTJs, if they can be bothered to care about therapy.
Also I'd love for this to become a series. ESTJs ranking personality types by their usefulness in a capitalistic hellscape--I mean, their employability? ENTPs by their debate skills?
Called it! When she said on IG that she was going to be roasting one of the personalities it HAD to be INFJ. Great work!
As an ISFP I would just like to point out that every Se dominant type was placed in tier 5 while every Ne type was placed tier 3 or higher. I think Becky is biased and I don't appreciate that.
Fantastic work once again Kristin!!
As an INTP (male) married to an ESFJ (female) I can honestly say that I was searching for answers but not emotions because I was unaware that I had any until the ESFJ introduced me to this thing called "happiness" which I had previously called the serotonin dopamine loop. Yes, the ESFJ found my emotions that I had left behind and neglected and I noticed that my dopamine and serotonin levels are significantly higher just with her being around me. I do have to admit wrong in that I was procrastinating the exploration of possible emotions but it was necessary because I was building my own Dobsonian telescope with a 250 mm f/6.4 and ... sorry, off topic. So I would urge you to move the ESFJ at least two notches up and the INTP at least two notches down. Thank you.
That's the swetest comment I've read in a while. I can relate, xSFPs have had a similar effect on me.
- INTJ
This is so sweet!
ESFJ! The INTP's opposite and best mate if your purpose is max growth!
INFJ-Kristin "but is sort of channeled more into..."
Me, an INFP: projects, vision, goals... objectives?
INFJ-Kristin: "hating humanity."
I also think that way! 😂🤣
As a sweltering, human hating INTJ in boxers and a Tshirt shitting at the computer, it was like the toothpick fell out of my mouth. My smug gaze turned to a look of shameful introspection, I dissociated, and lost like a minute of time so then i had to rewind but im over it now. edit i meant sitting obviously wtf whats good with yall
I had an INTJ friend back in college and 90% of our conversations ended up being about our Ni visions of how humanity will slowly wither and die and why we deserve it lol. He challenged any sprinkle of optimism I had to offer. Sorry but Kristin understood the assignment on that one.
-enfj
HAHAHAHAHAH
That's seriously legit
@@whitneyd6827 The physics teacher next door to me was an ENFJ, It was a spider man pointing at spider man moment (I learned year laters that ENFJs have Ni parent). I have never met anyone who cared so much or worked so hard, doesnt he know that a star that burns twice as bright..but he liked doing it like what the F
"As an INFJ, "
LOL 😂
The INFJ ranking themselves in "Nothing left to learn" 😂... They absolutely would never 😂😅 They are their worst critics 😅😂
Depends on the INFJ I'd say.
I haven't found that exactly. The INFJ's I've known are able to criticize themselves to some extent, but they also have a strong belief in their own abilities and, for want of better words, moral superiority. They believe their own philosophy is the correct one and although they are completely open to listening to others, they are very unlikely to be tolerant of other views. Outwardly maybe, but not inwardly.
This gives a whole new perspective to the concept of "16 personalities through the eyes of the INFJ" 😅😂
What are our minds but suppressed tier lists
I always think its funny how INFJs and ENFJs skirmish with each other despite being so similar. ENFJs could learn a lot from INFJs and vice versa. It always sucks when they start dueling over who knows "best".
My twin is an ENFJ. We aren't in competition. I wish she had more goals beyond basing all her decisions on how her husband might react and not let her kids walk over her. She surprises me with her insights and brilliance and does listen and absorb my suggestions more then most. She calls me judgmental and suspicious and that isn't wrong...overall I like ENFJs and they are one of the easiest types to click with right away. They might get the doorslams if you find out later how manipulative and fake some are.
My best friend is an ENFJ, and we understand each other so well we basically had a whirlwind friendship when we first met. And at the same time, we have complimentary traits. I am reserved, she jumps right into social situations. I really understand peoples motivations, and warn her about them, she has an easy time asking for help and networking. I am great at strategizing on how to approach people to get what I want in the most efficient way, she is very ambitious and hardworking. While I take a long time to finish or even start projects, her motivation is often other people's expectations.
I think in our 20 years as friends we have really made each other grow without constantly crossing boundaries and I appreciate that so much.
I’ll help you out. ENFP is ALWAYS suppressing wounds. Our sadness just comes out as jokes when we’re with people. Although we are probably doing the work on our own….no on second thought we probably need our own category.
Fr us ENFP's we really deal with these wounds daily. All we can do is look on the bright side of things. Hell yeah we need our own category.
Honestly, putting FPs at the suppressing wounds part was quite insane, but I could definitely see the rest of it as a great (obviously extreme) way to represent my type. Also, putting the INFJ on top was fun, but I think our sterotype would know they only think they're self-aware, when really they're over-analyzing everything.
I know i can be soft, compassionate and kind, but my thoughts are also spoken aloud quite frequently. I just use Fe to make them more digestible for human beings to listen to and comprehend. My Ti fixation doesn't let me lie so i've learned to manipulate my words so that my thoughts can come through, while also not leaving the other person feeling uncomfortable and unsusceptible to listening to me.
Words are spells, if you use them right, you have your desired outcome. You can tell the truth with goodness in mind.
And yeah, i flufing hate black and white type of thinking. A fixed mind has nothing to learn.
As an INFJ I found this really funny. Even the tier list placements, I would have done the exact same list. Except I would have put the INFJ in *"Thinks they're self-aware but really they're over-analysing everything"* , or *"Doing the work"* cause I'm actually really not that smug and if I were, that would totally be on purpose to annoy someone who deserved it. Even the weakness for ENTP is correct (even though I know they should go in *"Suppressing wounds"* ...)
As an ISFP, I actually love opening up to INFJs because they usually are quite trustworthy and compassionate. However, I'm just not sure I'd be comfortable opening up to THIS particular INFJ... Something is off about her... If she doesn't think ISFPs like talking about their personal feelings (come on, it's a huge part of our dominant function!!), then she simply doesn't know us!!!! Fi-doms are all about the feelings! But we hate passive aggression, and she seems to exude it, sadly... I don't surpress wounds, I just hide them from judgemental people. My real-life INFJ friends are the best!
And fun side note, I've noticed the INFJs I know tend to get along particularly well with ISTP, ISFP, INFP, and ISTJ. Obviously that's just my personal observations, but I thought it might be interesting for some people to hear!
And to clarify, I do realize this is comedy and it's all meant in fun! 😄
Hopefully, nobody would open up to THAT INFJ. 😂As with every type, there are healthy an unhealthy versions. One of my favourite fictional depictions of a healthy INFJ would be Edward Norton's role in Red Dragon.
And i think healthy INFJs value nothing more than having their friends confide in them
idk this infj seems a bit harsh compared to me and other infjs, when someone doesn't want to open up i leave them alone since I also dont open up to others easily, (also what's it like being ISFP :) )
idk this infj seems a bit harsh compared to me and other infjs, when someone doesn't want to open up i leave them alone since I also dont open up to others easily, (also what's it like being ISFP :) )
You’ve perfectly captured INFJ’s passive aggressive condescension, lack of self awareness, hypocrisy, overestimation of their Ti and Te blindness all in 10 minutes 🤣!
😢
@@holacasita1979 you hurt?
Why do you think that you have the tools to accurately assess your intuitive superiors?
@@nelit708 as always
@@dallassukerkin6878 the same reason you asked that stupid question. Thanks for proving my point tho
This felt like watching myself make this kind of video. It was fun going between thinking “yeah you’re so right” and then remembering its just a character that you’re mocking lol. (tbf the infjs need more content like this bc some of us have such a big ego about the depth and nuAnCe.) ty kristen :)
You’re probably the only INFJ I’ve seen who was ACTUALLY self aware enough to realise how arrogant they can be about these things
-ENTJ
@@jacobdevilliers9485 I think if they genuinely engage with these ideas instead of using mbti as some weird class structure they would be way better off
@@jacobdevilliers9485 I think all the "INFJs" (or most of them) who are that arrogant are either mistyped and/or immature ones who are projecting and trying to feel better about themselves.
Maybe I'm wrong about this.
But this is the impression I've got from so many.
I'm also tired of the "special snowflake" complex do many people have and that is obvious in so many communities...
Everyone, has talents and flaws. We shouldn't have to feel the need to put others down when they have multiple things they do better than us and we could learn from one another.
Growth only happens if you're not afraid to face and accept you darker side.
So yeah. This attitude is immature but at least we can work on overcoming it. :)
as an INTJ here who HAS been through extensive therapy (due to depression - though NOT depressed any more - thank god), i disagree with your analysis of us. we ABSOLUTELY ARE DEEPLY AWARE **BOTH** of ourselves AND others. maybe on a stereotypical (on the internet) level, YES, i ABSOLUTELY DO AGREE with you here - and i myself ABSOLUTELY AM ABSOLUTELY DISGUSTED with the stereotypical way my fellow INTJs portray themselves online as well as how we are perceived.
however, in reality, we in general ABSOLUTELY ARE >>>>>>>>> INFINITELY
🎶 “I’m suppressing wounds, I’m suppressing wounds…” 🎶
I'm an INTJ but in this one I'm actually just a big fan of the ISFP's capacity to confuse the INFJ's Fe with their deeply unbothered Fi-Se approach to life.
Also: interesting how most of the "suppressing wounds" personalities have Se as either the main or secondary function.
ENFP Here. I have to to thank you in the name of all ENFPs for showing the world that INFJs see us as the fun loving, naive and loyal dogs that we are!
My INFJ gf would approve, if she would have the time, but she’s in a self healing reflective work out at the moment.
Yes thank you INFJ's we appreciate you
It seems you portray INFJs very accurately here, it made me almost angry. I have some trouble sometimes with the INFJ's in my life. Their passive-agressiveness and manipulative tendencies that they try to mask is hurting my heart a lot and makes me avoid them or want to shut them out of my life. Or I try to "joke" back at them when I'm actually hurt. Now I am thinking that I will practice radical honesty and simply tell them how they make me feel, that should work, I guess. Greetings from an oversensitive INTP (or INFP or whatever, I don't believe so much in categories).
INFJ who's best friends with an INTP here. We have worked on our communication styles. And it works very well. I would advice honesty but told respectfully (or even gently depending on your INFJ sensitivity).
I'm sorry about the passive-aggressiveness, truly, it's like an automatisme that is hard to "unlearn".
I don't know what to say about their manipulative tendency, without context. So maybe be careful about yourself?
Sorry about that. Please never joke about it. Tell them directly that you don’t appreciate the passive aggressive tone, and tell them how you want to be treated.
Passive aggressiveness usually indicates the suppression and frustration of an INFJ. We are like wounded animals that hiss and bite to cover up their weakness. We have a difficult time expressing our frustration straightforwardly, so it comes out as passive aggressive remarks. I can infer that you are close to these INFJs because they have already showed you this ugly side of themselves. So gather your strength and, lovingly, stop this erratic behavior.
You may help the situation by guiding their thinking. Ask them if they are upset about something, or frustrated with you, and whether you can do anything to fix it. This will be enough to ignite the conscience of an INFJ. Take a step back and allow them time to think and answer. INFJs can be difficult but they are smart. They will appreciate you setting boundaries, standing up for yourself and expressing your feelings directly. If this proceeds, do not accept it.
The Iliad, Mona Lisa and 'INFJ tier-ranking the 16 personalities' are the things I would show to the aliens when they visit us and ask me what are the greatest masterpieces created by humans.
INFJ here. I think you do an excellent job portraying us. The only thing is I never think of people as "suppressing wounds," and you tend to bring that up a lot. I actually think many of the types are not wounded because they are not sensitive.
Hmm... I was looking for the INFJ who couldn't relate to this video. TBH, I didn't finish it, and I think yours is a great point! I never label people as wounded. Maybe the only INFJs Kristen has met are the narcissistic ones?
This is a good point. I'm often surprised and taken aback by this lack of sensitivity!
And it makes me, as a sensitive, feel inferior
My ISTP friend actually LITERALLY just told me today, that she ran away from someone that was talking to her and when the other person caught up (because the ISTP got lost obviously) there was a very embarrassing moment 😂 so this depiction of an ISTP is not even wrong xD
We need the "ENFJ's, Look in the mirror video" published, or I cannot die peacefully 😭
Darn it, I was really looking forward to reading volume 23.
Thanks for the laughs. This is a brilliant idea for a new series! 👍
Unpacked is fun-packed - so true! 😂 Who knew Becky could be laugh out loud hilarious?! Can't wait to see the categorizations employed by other characters in what will hopefully be a whole new series! 🤞
As an INFJ that was hilarious! We honestly have good intentions but, as my INFP daughter has pointed out, we do come across as judgy sometimes😬
Yes we do, but I think it's more of an external judginess than a internal one. That is, we come off judgy when internally, we're still open to a lot of possibilities (open-ended, internal Ni versus judgy, external Fe).
:grins: I was very shocked when, decades ago, a girlfriend slapped me with the wet-fish of "You're very kind-hearted but *so* judgemental!". Quite brought me up short ... but it helped me perfect my self-awareness :angel:
Add on top of it that I’m an enneagram 1, I’m definitely judgy. Working on it though 😅
ISFJ here. I have no words 😂 “They have a lot of work to do…” 😂😂😂
This is freaking genius! Well done! I love that it's the INFJ character for 10 minutes ranking the types on something that would matter to INFJ's.
This is outstanding. I roll eyes at the thousands of videos about "spiritual" and "empath" or whatever fluffy butterfly nurturing caring understanding non-judgemental (double eye-roll here) nature of INFJs and it's relieving to see Kristin calling INFJs on their bullshit this directly. Don't get me wrong, my best conversations in life have been with INFJs, Dostoyevsky is my favorite writer etc., but you just gotta love ESFPs with their big mouths bringing some unfiltered truth about them (and everyone else - I certainly benefited a lot in life by being called out on my BS by ESFPs). Excellent work. Love from an INTJ.
Are you annoyed with INFJ
Just asking for self improvement
-infj
Ok, lay it on me. Which INFJ hurt you? With love🫶, empathy✨️, and spiritual understanding✨️ - another INFJ
I mean.
I don't think are being empathetic, caring and spiritual and judgmental are inherently incompatible traits. In a twisted way they go "well" together. And most/many people are extremely judgmental anyway. Not about the same things.
The question would be: are you aware of this side of you? Are you willing to put in the work to grow out of it?
So yeah, everyone needs an opportunity to grow. And sometimes it's a slap in the face or an extremely accurate satirical video. :)
I agree. It's a good portrayal of an immature infj lol. One's who overcome these traits are great thought.
Not sure if I really get this one. Seems more like the cliche of what an immature INFJ is supposed to be rather than a good satire
1- I can't interact too much with you: ESFJ
2- You hurt me and I can't understand you but sometimes you intrigue me and I end up admiring mature you: ESTJ
3- Sometimes is really easy to interact with you, sometimes I love you, sometimes I can't deal with you: ISFJ | ESFP | ISTJ | INFJ
4- I love you a lot, I grow with you: ISFP | ENFJ | ISTP | ENTJ
5- SOOO comfy interaction, you have my heart: INTJ | ESTP | INFP | INTP | ENFP
6- My muse: ENTP
No way an INFJ would let that last s in subconscious run onto another line XD
As an INTP, what I love about your channel is how creative your video ideas are.
Love this! 😂❤
I'm totally down for another new series that's never going to be finished 🥳
Woohoo! 🥳
Well for the last personalities through the eyes of serie we are missing the ESFP, but really that's just this whole channel ;).
Also please let this be a new series!
Can’t wait for this series to boom! 🎉🎉😂😂😂
just as long as there's ENFJ version im good 😆
The istp video would be super easy, two tiers:
-pretty cool
-no
I love how soft her voice gets as the INFJ character. I'm an INFJ and people have often commented on my soft voice and struggled to hear me.
Just FYI, this video is savage and just AMAZING but please y’all don’t actually believe we think we have ‘nothing to learn’ 😂 we may like to think so but a more healthy INFJ will surely know that, besides some inherent insight/wisdom because of our particular perspective, we definitely have lots to learn when it comes to just living on Earth and doing the humaning. All types have their strengths and weaknesses^^
P.s. also why do I feel like I’m ALL the tiers at different times and in different aspects of life…. or is that just me overanalysing? :)
im 5 minutes in and surely INFJs wont be the only one in ....
Great video!
You did a really good job of portraying an INFJ, i want to see Brad's perspective next.
Im glad you didnt keep your video on the hdd. I am intj and I know a sweet infj. Infjs are sensitive and kind in my experience and one of my favorites. You are also not extroverts so i can stand more time in your presence.
Man, that would have been a perfect opportunity to insert the "I'm suppressing wounds" jingle! (INTJ)
An INTJ can't possibly do a tier list of any kind because they would put all the personalities at the bottom... including INTJs.
You should say what's your personality type before spitting on INTJs. (I am INTJ and I don't agree with your comment).
@@lachezarvalentinov8751 He's probably an INTJ as well :/
I think he’s joking. Calm down, kids! Kind regards from old auntie Simone
Nah we put xNxPs at the top, xNxJs in the middle, and sensors at the bottom
@@EresirThe1st Friendly reminder to focus on cognitive functions, not the dichotomies.
Oh man I can't even. There is so much brilliance and acting skill in this one, and the fact you named her Becky and alluded to some existing storylines!
Please let every Type do their own video! That would be amazing!!!❤😂
You cant find an INFJ being more brutually honest than this 😂😂😂
Be honest, who else knew she was going to give herself the win 🏆
I knew the second she unveiled that tier! 😂
ME!!
I saw that coming for a long time, yes 😂 But her description of my own type, INFP, was sooooooo ironically spot-on as well 😅
That was savage. Poor INFJ you literally got roasted.
Can you explain please
How
Yeah, Kristin was always excellent at roasting INFJ, but this one is charred and caramelized. So good.
@@itznav_sin Her portrayal of INFJ is a critic of them.
True 😂
I love this concept of having one personality type talk to us about their world. It’s awesome
Jajaja amé la negación de Becky de su propio problema al final de su clasificación jajajaja
Please continue this as a series for the other 16 personalities!
half way through and omg, i HOPE we will get the rest of them weirdos to do their own tier lists ! this is so funny
Even the detail that the video is heavily edited such that your body keeps jumping around due to what was cut out just to make the video perfect and so the message is concise and still cohesive (otherwise it just stays on your hard drive like you said)! 👌👏
KRISTIN 😭😭 this is sooooo freaking good I love you for this, you have captured the struggle in every sentence, with just how contradictory we can be 😭😭
Also the first part on how we appear easy going so a UA-cam channel is the way to release thoughts/anger so true
For me it’s UA-cam comments, cause everywhere else there’s a community that knows me and perceives me and unfortunately I cannot actually say what I think because of it.
Only thing I hate about this character is how freaking condescending they are! But then I wonder if that’s me repressing ??
All good. I deliberately overdid it ;)
Maybe you are. Maybe it was Kristin exaggerating for comedic purposes and to show an not so mature version of the type. Or maybe it was both.
It's weird to love to feel so seen and roasted at the same time XD
@@dearkristin@elisa4620
I did not see the replies but I thought about it and analyzed it (as per character) and I think this is for the better XD because for a long time I thought INFJs had been a somewhat overrated type or like over explained in the sense of “how good” they are, I feel like this could bring some nuance on us.
Personally some stereotypes I hate is when they say we are good at reading people. (Edit: specifically other INFJs saying they know what they’re talking about) Like yes but also, could be that because we’re always playing a guessing game of what’s gonna happen next, we cannot help but “look further” on someone. But if we’re honest a lot of times we miss small details or we are too focused on a “vision” that we don’t see what should have been obvious.
In other words, we can be wrong 😂😅 I think more INFJs need to admit that. Maybe this arrogant stereotype can shed some light into INFJs.
Also other videos with INFJ boot camps as much as I love them and their advice they often use the words “always” and “never” which it is very bold to use on any human. Saying “INFJs will always…or never” is just kinda silly to me.
~end rant
Makes me one happy Swedish meatball to hear what you mentioned about ENFPs.
Well well, you are most definitely.. probably not so wrong about all of this. Lovely how you hit some core things with the types. Always fun to see!
I know this is satire, but I (INTP) found this INFJ's judgment to be quite fair and charitable, because I am, indeed, quite the emotional dumb-dumb and I could probably learn a thing or two from a more emotionally aware INFJ. I figured I'd be put in "regular human" a the very least, so pleasently surprised. Great video as always, Kristin.
So on point, even though I'm ashamed to admit it, you imitate me, an INFJ really well 😅 ESTJs usually work on things but not on themselves though so: suppressing wounds in a bad way to me ahaha
INFJ here and I would definitely rank the types on their levels of emotional awareness.^^ Haha, this is hilarious. And also a good reminder to be kind and humble!
I love how the INFJ is ranking the 'self-awareness' of the types; rather than outright saying that she is ranking the types. Also, ENFPs are the absolute best🥰
One of your best😂 laughed all the way through! I love that the scale goes from red at the top to green at the bottom, am I right in thinking that's a subtle dig at the idea that the infj loves to focus on those who 'need her help'?
Ok, ouch.
I (INFJ) used to be the quiet, "sweet" one when I was younger, but with the years and confidence I've lost my filter. Now, out of six housemates, I'm supposedly the one my sweet ESFP friend is the most scared of. I'm not mean, but I totally will ask you to please wash your dirty dishes or that tell you that your loud music is a disturbance. Oh, and, when repeatedly pressed for my opinion about a friend's crush (that we had already discussed to oblivion): "He thinks you're nice and enjoys talking to you, but no, he doesn't like you the way you like him."
Really cool concept. The constant cutting and Se-wannabe-zoom-ins are a nice touch.
I really liked your body language for INFJ