25 Genuine Signs Of An INFJ Personality Type
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- Опубліковано 7 чер 2024
- Who is an INFJ?
Out of the 16 personality types in the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator, INFJ is the rarest type of personality with only 2% of the entire global population.
Are you an INFJ? This video will help you learn more about the INFJ personality and find out if you belong to this rare personality type.
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0:00 Introduction
2:43 1st sign
3:03 2nd sign
3:27 3rd sign
3:45 4th sign
4:05 5th sign
4:30 6th sign
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5:21 8th sign
5:39 9th sign
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6:18 11th sign
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6:54 13th sign
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8:42 18th sign
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10:18 22nd sign
10:40 23rd sign
11:07 24th sign
11:35 25th sign
12:11 Conclusion
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Are you an INFJ? Can you relate to all of these signs?
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Yes I am an INFJ .yes I can relate all these signs.
I don't know what I am
I did tests but when I read what they are about I just feel like I don't fit in. I thought I might be an INFJ but I just don't know.
The first time I took a personality test is freaked me out because becouse I was looking at a piece of paper describing all of my weird personality quirks in a way I've never been able to articulate even to myself.
I have taken this test and I am INFJ. Would like to meet some other INFJ
no
INFJ are like that one friend who gives relationship advice and is still single.
stop attacking me
@@ashleyyy640 dude, I just attacked myself XD
That's me. Lol
My friend is dating now and I am here giving advice like a pro with 0 experience. This comment killed me🤣🤣🤣
Just gotta, you know.
That feeling of belonging nowhere, yet being able to fit in anywhere...oh and being a target for narcs lol.
i almost cried cuz this is so relateable
I have dated narsassists in the past, so sick of them
@@phillop6076 Have never dated anyone, Im extremely picky and not too good looking. Lol
cries
Same here.I feel like I finally found my soulmate🤣
I love being an INFJ but sometimes it’s rough fitting in with “society”. All we ever want to do is help others but when it comes time for us to get help people abandon us. We give so much but are rarely understood so the part where it says we’re lonely really resonates with me. I don’t have hardly any “true” friends because I could see through people’s facade very easily so I tend to stay away from fake people with ulterior motives. I am a very loving person who has so much to offer and I’m lucky my family and husband values me for my uniqueness. Much love fellow INFJers ❤
I feel your pain. I’m the same. Much love to you as well.
I gave up drinking years ago, but when I drank I was an expert at
small talk. It's hard to make small talk when sober. How can people stand it? Don't they realize how phony they sound, and how funny??
I think part of being abandoned when we need help is because people see us as natural helpers with a strong intuition and empathy radar. People don't see that sometimes we need support as well. It doesn't have to be anything groundbreaking. Because of our inherent empathy we appreciate any support.
we don't ever ask for much, but when we do ...after we've given so much already, to be suddenly abandoned...fuk it hurts and feels like betrayal. But we know we are strong and will help ourselves out of our situation. I feel I have gathered many scars on my heart but strangely I wear them as badges of honour.
Same. Society is not worth it. Imho.
Took the MBTI 9 years ago and learned I was an INFJ, took it again recently, still the same. All I can say is, life is really tough for an INFJ. We really are built different. Perhaps the others don't realize, but I tend to think INFJ are taken for granted.
I agree about INFJ’s being taken for granted. We’re kind of emotional geniuses!
but the emotional genius of ourselves tend to cause more weight and sometimes i break down by the end of each month
I'm in the middle of I & E NFJ, just learning about all this is wild! Going to the last comment, I'm learning to try to have more of a tunnel vision to life but at the end, I've sponged all the energy around and I still need sometime to recover. All the while preparing for it over again. 🫠 finding these comments are refreshing 😊
100% taken for granted.
I've just started changing my own ways, I'm starting to not give people second chances (and then third and forth and so on) WHEN THEY DON'T EVEN ASK FOR IT! 😓
I feel so stupid that I've done this all my life, and considered it mercy and help (which in fact it is, but the problem is that people do not value it. So if you keep doing this, they'll never respect you or value what you give. They'll just USE you. 😖
I am finally starting to change on this. And I am grateful to God for opening my eyes and making me finally understand my mistake (although I am sorry it took me so long).
jesus was INFJ
I also feel INFJs have some of the worst depressions, from experience
Yes literally I do! A breakup in my past that came out of nowhere for me nearly made me suicidal because I was so deeply in love and I was so broken hearted. I’m also bipolar depressive and suffering other mental health issues and a very sensitive empath but it took months to get over and I dropped like 20 pounds and I’m only 4’11. My Mom was very worried about me. But I’m a survivor I had 2 little boys to raise and I wasn’t leaving them I had to be a Mom first for them!! They were more important than ME so that’s what pulled me out of my crying. And when he wanted me back after 6 months... F*** OFF!!
@@michellejames9969 Damn you got over the breakup in months? It's literally been 4 years and I still can't get over my ex. I'm just so proud of your progress! It's only recently I've started to become healthier (mentally) and more confident about myself but I really hope I get to the level you're at right now! :)
I feel it comes from childhood....being treated badly also through life...jealous or envious people....the pain created is a part of you....just have to not go to the darkside....
Agree
Feel u bro
im so quiet UNTIL you bring up something I enjoy, then I dont stfu
😂Swearrr
That is 100% true
It’s just called anti social
@@theguywhobirds5898 I prefer selectively social
So long as you have some fun some of the time when conversing, that's all that is important. *brings you a cookie*
2:46 they have a mysterious aura
3:06 their sixth sense guides them
3:29 they are powered by compassion and empathy
3:47 they always look for deeper meaning in everything
4:06 they make others feel safe and comfortable
4:32 they are value-driven
4:53 they are complicated people and hard to read
5:23 they have a strong need to be alone
5:40 curiosity drives their intellect
6:00 they prefer meaningful close bonds over casual connections
6:20 they know how to stand their ground
6:37 their charisma makes them super attractive
6:55 they are motivated by ideas, not money
7:19 they wear their heart on their sleeves
7:39 passion dominates their world
8:04 they are creative
8:22 they can be the best counselors
8:43 they have a rich inner world
9:08 they often feel they don’t belong in this world
9:33 helping others is an instinct
9:58 they work best when alone
10:19 they are grounded
10:43 they look at the bigger picture
11:08 they have a great understanding of language
11:36 they despise conflict
Thank you!
I think you have just summed me up, and I’m okay with everything. We are definitely all different people that’s for sure.
Your bullets of characteristics of INFJ are dead on as I'm one as well.
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences. 🤗
Ooh it's mee....😊😊
Yes, I recognize myself in these descriptions👍
INFJ superpower. Detachment from the world while simultaneously being fascinated to watch the world pass you by and wanting to see what others do around you.
No im not an INFJ, im just watching this to know more about my girl
Aww sweet💞
You've got a loyal one,don't let her go❤
@@okbye9039 Thanksss, I will
@@ferb6357 cuute..and what type are u ? M curious 😂
@@ferb6357 nicee ❤️
Ah, good on you! Hope you two are happy together
Being INFJ ... I think also we find it very difficult to find partners
You can find a partner but it will take some bending and unconditional love. What I find most difficult is my partner's extraversion. I sometimes need to take part and I'm not a fan. Until I go out and then I have fun 😅 mostly because I connect so easily with others and I'm quite popular and likeble. Why can't I feel that way about them? Oh well . FML
Me too, maybe bc i have trust issues
yeah.
It's been 9 years since my last relationship. I'm 23 now. So that was back in high school. My first and last. Don't know when's the next one gonna be. I find the dating game and courtship exhausting. I've been told I'm attractive and women have shown interest in me(not a flex), but I just can't commit or something. Like there's this high bar of standard that a woman must meet before I even consider going out with her. Think of it as clinging to my 'ideal' partner. Thing is, no one will ever be an ideal partner for everyone. And that sabotages my dating prospects. Besides, I do this INFJ thing where I fit good anywhere, yet don't feel like I belong anywhere. There's this constant contradiction of wanting to be alone, yet not wanting to be lonely. I wonder if anyone feels like this?
@@nellig_anne I see, that is relatable. Sometimes, there's also this feeling of me being invasive because I see through most people. I seem to accurately judge someone's character based on demeanors and expressions. Even on dating apps, someone's profile picture is enough to give me a general outline on what that person is and how she thinks. "This lady is shallow. This one is a narc. This one is insecure." And so on. And when I meet people, it feels like I'm invading their personal space by knowing too much about them. Seeing through someone's facade/fakeness also doesn't help. It just makes me aware that most people are faking interactions just to get by.
As an INFJ, I always believed that experiencing a painful and heartbreaking ending to a deep relationship would make one more cautious about jumping into a new relationship, even if it's just a casual one. Being a traumatized INFJ can lead you to choose not to have any best friends.
Exactly this!!! You said it beautifully.
I'm pretty sure this is me. Have no close friends and although I feel lonely I am way too terrified of getting close to someone and I've gotten somewhat used to feeling lonely. I love my family and I would love to find someone I can completely trust that isn't already family, but sometimes I feel like I'm so alone and out-of-touch with the world around me that it's actually impossible. I think my entire childhood was just a long, drawn-out, socially traumatic experience and that's why I'm like this.
True
I can relate
You have spoken my mind!!
This comment section feels like home. So much of positive affirmations and calmness. It’s just extremely peaceful. I feel nice being here, being an INFJ. ✨
When I sense someone is sad, I dont solve their problems directly but I give them space and I let them vent out when they want. I get misunderstood and people think I don't care.
I bombard them with well meaning advice and relate their problems back to my own experiences, not to be self absorbed but to show that I care and am trying to understand how they'd be feeling.
I really just don't care and won't pretend like do.
@@nahjacutler That would depend on the person though? Eg. A complete stranger and a fairly low key problem isn't worth much effort. But does it depend on the problem and person for you? If you just don't care in general then you're possibly not an INFJ XD. INFJs are empaths, which is both a blessing and curse because we care, but we care too deeply and it can be very mentally draining on a day to day basis.
deadass same here
@@harrycain5912 thats what I do. But some people expect me to step up and do things I dont feel like doing to their enemies, otherwise, Im not on their side at all.
Being an INFJ for me is like having a Masters in psychology.
Damm same😭😭 believe me lol i made my personality my career..
Some of my therapists actually recommended that I became a psychologist lol
OMG YES
U ain't lying
Lol 👌
Learning that I am an INFJ was huge for me. It explained so much. This video is amazing but it kind of makes INFJs sound like heroes of mankind. If you are one of the other personality types watching this video, know that all 16 types have equal capability to be good people. They just all see the world differently. Being an INFJ can be a blessing and a curse, but so can just being human. No personality type is inherently better or worse. Being honest with what you are is important for psychological growth.
Agree!
Yes, please take the ego out of it, some of the comments on these videos 😅still nothing special. These videos If anything are just enlightening, I’ve felt this way my whole life, now I know how to better care for myself and set boundaries.
As an INFJ, I would love to be another personality type. I think I’d have been so much happier, and that MATTERS.
Exactly this!
I once worked with a large team of individuals. There was one woman who I always felt connected to. At meetings, if something was said that didn't sound right, she and I would always catch each other's eye as if saying, "oh no, here we go again." It wasn't sexual, just a connection on a different level, a different plane. We all ended up going to a team building weekend. That's the first time I took a Myers Briggs test or even heard of it. After we were tested a man from MB read the results. Ends up, we were both INFJs. Everyone else on the team was mostly Extroverted and Thinking types. The man told the group that they were very fortunate to have not one but two INFJs in the group. That it was a very rare type. He said the rest of the group were mostly concerned with things but that the two of us were the heart and soul of the group because we cared more about how the choices the team made effected people. He recommended that the team always check in with either one or better yet, both of us. Of course, the team didn't take his advice, and we both eventually left the team.
How sweet of that man! Ironic though that the team ignored his recommendations.
Sup fellow INFJ's
Hi cxxx
Hi
lez make discord group?
Hey
Hi
Being an INFJ and emotional empath can be a curse and gift. I would attract “emotionally broken” people who have broken relationship with their parents and family. I would sense their struggles from a distance and have the urge to ask how they’re feeling and sometimes befriend them. After a while of being friends with them, they often share their problems to me (thru text, call, and in-person). However, I absorb their emotions like a sponge to the point I end up feeling overwhelmed. Also, it’s difficult for me to share my problems with them because I don’t want to burden them more, so I would shut myself from everyone for days to recharge myself by painting, writing, playing music, etc. Sometimes, I wish someone would understand me as much as I understand others, which is a huge struggle for me.
OMG I CAN RELATE SO MUCH, i get overwhelmed so easily by emotions but i feel like it's my duty helping others and i feel good when i do it! sometimes i forget to put myself first, causing me to disappear for a few days, but you can't take care of other people if you aren't taking care of yourself!
Omg ur literally me !! Would like to give u an advice tho . It's good to be so kind and helpful but sometimes u have to take care protect ur energy . 🤎 An a fellow empath and infj I went through the same things where past friends or classmates or broken people would try to reach to be for their healing after they vented they left and I was left with myself absorbing all the emotions feeling depressed and then I would end up shutting myself n distancing . So wanna say not everyone is your responsibility you cannot pour with an empty cup. Protect ur energy be selective where to invest . 🤎🤎✨
Also becomes problematic when it's opposite gender - i know I need to be careful with who I extend my empathy to, but I want to help. When I do sometimes it's misunderstood as romantic interest even when it was completely platonic or the other person ends up catching feelings for me when I can't reciprocate.
You just explained my life 😂
Like you want someone to hold you and actually listen to what you NEED and what you WANT, instead of like being the older sister or brother to rely on. It's really hard also if um you're also an INFJ with a not really "idealistic" family. I feel as though for my "ideal" family, I would want them to show me affection, of course not always, but a feeling like I know I can count on them when I need it. Some families don't really I feel like can show a lot of affection obviously, but it's kinda hard to go against them when THEY'RE YOUR FAMILY, and you don't know whether or not they kind actually love you for you or for your achievements. 😅 I kinda also don't really I guess have the "best of friends" I feel for me, but for me I can kinda just tell that they um have A LOT of expectations of me to be with them. I'm not sure if people will ACTUALLY read this or not because I'm just kinda rambling on in the comments because I don't really have anything else to console, but it's just REALLY making me happy to know I'm not alone, even if I know I'm not alone, it's kinda hard for me to tell people. 😅✋ And I also don't really know what to do with myself in my situation.?
I love INFJs so much, they are like (hidden) treasures, like delicately scented flowers, like gardens in the moonlight...
From an ENFP's perspective.
I definitely am an INFJ. I took the MBTI test 4 times and the results is always INFJ-T. And I now understand why. I can relate in almost all of these things. I feel nervous when it comes to meeting new people, but I'm also very talkative when it comes to my small circle of friends. I always observe someone's behaviour and I can sense whether I can be friends with them or not, I also don't want to force myself into fitting in with people who I think doesn't have the same ideas/understanding as me but I'm always open with any discussion and I always make people feel heard and happy (I thought I'm just being too nice and I sometimes hate it bc some ppl might think I'm being plastic or smth). But yeah, I'm shy and sometimes thought I'm dumb bc I don't know what to say when it comes to socializing but I feel so smart inside my head. I have a lot of ideas and things that I'm always thinking and curious about. My escape of reality is writing, whenever I feel sad, happy, angry etc. I always write them bc I feel like talking isn't enough to express how I feel. I also solitude myself in need to recharge my energy before I can go back and socialize again. I love being alone. There was a time I thought I'm weird because I feel like the way I act is totally different from others, I thought of trying to change myself, trying to be more extroverted and expressive. But you know what, I don't care anymore lmao. I'm just gonna be myself because in this way I can actually find genuine friendships.
mapeople who believe they are infj are often auto diagnosed andt hey are mostly covert narcicssist personnalitiesye you are also a covert narcicssist personnalities
@@JAK0449 what does covert narcissist has to do with what I said?
This comment has explained my whole life so perfectly.
this sounds more like infp to me. it definitely is introverted and feeling oriented, but the factors you chose to highlight fail to focus on orientation, assertiveness and empathy (some of the most important pillars for INFJs). when you're an INFJ, you can immediately tell if someone has been misstiped as an INFJ or is a real INFJ. i recommend you search up and try the sakirnova test; it's far more exhaustive and accurate in its results.
"Avoid talking unless it's necessary".
Has to be soooooooo desperate to do so...
yes! i hate it when people talk just to talk.
@@doubleu1446 This is the most me thing i've ever heard. My people 😭
💯
This!!!!
"Due to their warm, optimistic and positive nature"
*Laughs in dark*
Other personalities take the red pill, or blue pill, or even the black pill, INFJs take the cyanide pill.
Didn't tell all did they????? Like please dont get them angry....you wont like them when there angry....😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡
@@rondarawson6236 lmao .. ure dead to me
@@kentutmasin9626 not a super power just a rare ability to see things in a different way, most importantly how people function internally, cognitive pathways. Being dyslexic INFJ I understand how language affects a person beyond the words. Both Ghandi and Hitler were INFJ and extremely great motivation speakers. I can't explain how but I understand why.
😂
I literally thought something was wrong with me until I found out I was an infj. It truly felt like everyone else could communicate with others with such ease, it made me feel like an alien or something and just drove me further into living in my head and away from people. I couldn’t understand how I had friends when I struggled so much with conversations. My friends always say it’s the fact I’m so easy to be around (which is the greatest compliment I’ve ever received). I fully related to all the points made in this video and it helped remind me that I’m not alone I’m an infj.
Yeah same and it's not like I didn't try to do what they do so easily it's just I can't because I catch things quicker than most.
Yeah, I agree. I remember before I found out i was an infj, I thought something was wrong with me. I connect with all these points in the video too, although I don't know about the aura thing as I've never been told anything about that.
As an INFJ, it’s hard for me to connect with people or form romantic relationships. I don’t have a lot of friends, but I have a few very good ones. I actually prefer to be alone and thrive when I’m single. Most people don’t understand it when I tell them I don’t want to be a relationship. This explains a lot. Thank you so much for this video.
I'm single and good as well. My friend is trying to get me a "date" but I told her I am good. I am writing this at 3am at the rooftop looking at the moon. Totally INFJ. I look up the sky and I get lost in another mental realm of feeling like I belong out there beyond.
It sure is ironic how we can read people so well, but no one can read us.
My boss called me unique and an enigma and I found it to be an incredible compliment
@@naomimills7215 It’s funny, you grow up in school and people tease/bully each other for being different. Like it’s a bad thing. The reality is that being unique is a good thing. Those are the people who often end up being most successful 😉
@@antons7210 for sure. As an adult I can identify the jealousy looking back at how I was treated by people but at the same time it made me who I am. Lol so I don't complain about it.
It makes me feel lonely, I just wanna be understood 😔
@@kierrahunter5049 Yeah, I know. I grew up with parents and a sister who have opposite personality traits. I love them, but they have never fully understood me. Surround an INFJ with only opposite personality traits and they have the potential to be the loneliest person on the planet. Luckily for us, we have the internet. So we know that we’re not alone
Being able to read people can be really scary, too. As an INFJ-T, I sometimes even feel bad for really knowing that the person I talk to is fake and that would immediately make me lose interest in them. And that's also very true about avoiding talks unless it's really necessary. Man, I lose my voice all the time because I can spend days without talking to anyone.
Haha i know exactly what u mean... even if i wanted to like them i couldnt...
@@donn1473 Literally one of the most annoying things being an INFJ, right? Lol
I sometimes avoid eye Contact because I can read ppl well....its almost as if I'm invading their personal space
@@Jujj180 A blessing and a curse, really.
@@nateskii right
I am 75 and I'm just now learning why I am different and always want to be alone. I spend more time in my head than interacting with others. I have been accused of being a pushover due to my desire to avoid conflict, yet when my values or a loved one is attacked. I can be a bear. i believe I am an INFJ and that explains everything. By the way, I am married to a narcissist.
I truly appreciate you for making this video on INFJs
Thanks a lot for your support! Appreciate it ☺🧡
Lol 😂
Agreed
I’m an INFJ and I was actually originally going to school to be a psychiatrist because I love helping others with their problems but, I realized that I am such an empath that this would be such a depressing career for me. I would feel all of the hurt my patients would feel and it just wouldn’t be right for my mental health. Also for the people asking, I’m a biology major now studying to get into dental school to become an orthodontist!
Omg. Same here.
You need to be careful
Just be a counselor.. it won't be as deep as an psychiatrist
i also wanted to be a psychiatrist but indeed i was afraid that i would take on other peoples feelings and that it would mess up my energy
My thoughts exactly!
Being an INFJ is difficult, sometimes, even, we are too much for ourselves.
Agreeee
Yep
Yeah my family wants me to go to Ivy leaguer and make a lot of money and stuff. But i really don’t think I want to be like a boss of a company or anything like that
OMG so true
Oh my god .... when I need to escape myself is when I know I need to hoble back into society... mind blown
I am an ENTJ dating an INFJ. We are so different yet somehow find common ground. He knows how to take care of me and handle my craziness so well. I'm so attracted to how calm he is and his plans for the future keep me grounded and focused. As a commander I enjoy planning and accomplishing goals so we are alike in that way. Studying up on him so I can understand him more. Disturbed by conflict. Noted ✍
thats really sweet of you 🥺 as an INFJ, and maybe i can speak on behalf of INFJs, we do appreciate when someone makes the effort to understand us bcuz we rarely meet people who do 🥺
aww that's so sweet of you. im so happy for my fellow infj. he'd be so so so happy if he knew that you are putting such efforts. keep em up. much love.
I've been married to an INFJ for 37 years. He is still baffled by my need for alone time. I call it "going into my cave" I am still overwhelmed by his need to socialize in large groups. It exhausts me. I have very close life long friendships and it takes a LOT for me to want to add more. Best wishes to you and your friend's future.
Being an INFJ this is so calming and I'm so happy to find people just like me who get stuff that I feel in the comments. It's like having people around you who feel like family more than your own family does. Thankyou for making this video because genuinely this is such a great representation of us❤
You’re talking about a healthy Infj. I only just began setting boundaries.
Sideline Fe....
It took a long time for me to realize the difference between helping and enabling. Once I conquered that, boundary setting became easier.
That's true. We haven't all mastered every aspect covered in this video, but definitely have a strong potential to. Boundaries are important, you'll solidify them soon enough!
@@PatriciaSmith-rp2kh what's this? Can u please help me learn more on this.
@@harsha8881 Enabling is living someones else's life for them. Not allowing them to fall and take the consequences for their actions and choices. They have to grow up. I speak from decades of doing this. I thought I was helping. I finally realized that family is the worst abuser of an empath. As an empath, you care so deeply for others. Like the old saying; You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make them drink. Boundaries are for your own mental health. No is not a bad word. It's a word you must learn to use. Sometimes, you have to step back or step away from toxic people. They will drain you, just like a leech. Protect yourself from their vampirish and manipulative ways.
"They only see good in people. Being like this makes them the favorite target for narcissists." I can totally relate to this💔
Thank you!
I dont know if its that we only see the good or or always hope they will change.?
@@gwenengillsdottir1511 and that's the sign of developed infj. Underdeveloped infjs also have intuitions but it will not be helpful if not utilized in proper way.
@@gwenengillsdottir1511 i had to learn how to set up boundaries the hard way sadly.. through being taken advantage of and being emotionally abused/manipulated. I have too much hope for people, and see their good qualities more than their bad ones, which entices me to want to help them achieve the best version of themselves possible. Being taken advantage of has caused me to become very reserved and private, and somewhat cold even... which hurts because I have a deep passion for helping people, but I am afraid of being used and being left heart broken. I am more firm in my stances on things now, but I'm still learning to set up boundaries right away with certain people... its a learning process I suppose.
DITTO
I've never felt so seen and understood before watching this video. I just recently found out I was INFJ and now all the questions of how and why I wasn't the same as everyone else and felt such an outsider my entire life. Now I know and it's bittersweet but also feels like a puzzle has clicked into place and I'm grateful for that.
I’m an INFJ and proud. No matter the struggles and disappointments I still keep a positive attitude and press on.
I know being an infj is advantageous because I can read other people well. But damn... not even my mom understands me for who I really am. That's how complicated of a person I am.
My Mom never could understand my depth of compassion or my character. She called me stubborn and emotionally immature. Never could understand that I was picking up so much emotional energy from others. It's difficult to deal with.
I get that, even my best friends have a hard time understanding me sometimes. My family has never understood me but that was more of an advantage for me since I grew up with narcissists that that were always trying to manipulate me into doing what they wanted.
Same. There will probably never be anyone who truly understands me.
Y'all it feels so good to know that some people out there can relate with me. Thank you. Let's be lonely together 😂
I’ll be honest with you guys, the people that know me the best are my friends online 🤣
Does anyone get the feeling that you can say sooooo much to an arguement but you almost always keep it to yoursef?
Me
When I literally did all of that in some comments because I just wanted to spill the beans because of how much anxiety and just HOW MUCH I WANTED TO SAY SOMETHING AFTER KNOWING FOR A LONG TIME I'M AN INFJ AND I'M JUST LBSFlKNJD. :|
Because it's not worth letting someone steal your peace...and you can't fix stupidity
@OneOFThese NotLikeTheOther haahaa same
Yesss all the time
I’m an artist, therapist, and Reiki practitioner. I love my alone time so much! Knowledge and reading and research is my drug lol. I like to journal. I’m psychic and found out I’m a starseed as well. I love deep connections and conversations so don’t have too many friends. Being an INFJ may feel lonely at times but I wouldn’t have it any other way. I’m happy to know there are others like me around the world 🌎 love 💕 you all.
Just recently, at 57, finding out I’m an INFJ. Make me feel like life would have been much easier knowing this information at a younger age. But also happy to know now. Very interesting.
Question: isn’t it the most frustrating thing, as an infj, when you can’t read someone or when you misread them? This is why I have trust issues
Fr when you try to interpret a person to hard they tend to be different
For me, actually no. I know my intuition is usually right but I know they aren't perfect. I simply let people earn my trust
The most frustrating thing is when youre not able to stay away from narcissists. They always have this way of making me feel like an idiot. Their favorite question is "Why?" and then I cant explain myself at all because what I know is based on my instinctand feelings, not logic. All I can do is to not show emotion to them at all.
@@thousandyardgavri2785 Yeah I’ve been there. Never again. I don’t even try making new friends these days. I’m good with the friends I have
Trust is always earned. Narcissists will always seek you out. They are energy vampires and manipulators. Always, always listen to that 🕷 "spidey" sense that nags at you. Its never wrong. I can't tell you how many times I didn't and paid the price.
ACTUALLY its when an infj is trying to read an infj. Its sometimes impossible. Like usually I can understand people in 2 weeks, but those are the hardest ever
The most difficult thing of being Infj is hard to understand, even by myself
As an Infj, I feel i understand myself completely. I know this because whenever somebody tries to “box me in” so to speak into a certain category. I detest strongly lol. I feel we’re simply free souls exploring life 🔎 “you can’t box me in” the Infj’s/Infp’s catch phrase.
Yes im agree
@@venelprince6889 Spot on! Age stereotypes especially tick me off. I apparently have no right to my intellect or opinions, because I'm "only sixteen."
@@ashleyredsheep Yes, age stereotypes do suck, as some kids are old souls. The only rules we follow are the ones that makes sense to us, you know the ones our hearts agree with. Everything else is rubbish lol.
I get that.. I never fully get myself. I do fully trust my gut. I only am starting to love me
I'm am INFJ and yes we do feel like we are alone all the time, we do have a hard time making connections with others but when we do we have an overwhelming sense on pride and protection of the people we do make connections with. I've always felt even as a young child I don't belong and that I don't think like others. Which took a Hugh mental toll on me as a child and teen. I felt like there was something wrong with me but I never stopped being me. Even all the horrible experiences I've had in life have only made my resolve the stronger.
Im always told i’m calm even when I don’t feel calm. And always sense peoples feelings and wish I didn’t let it affect me so much.
I’m mostly alone. Emotional. Playful.
Love those topics too...
Everything resonates funnily enough.
Btw I’m an INFJ 😅
Hello ya’ll ❤️
Same here. It can be difficult at times.
I'm always told that too..."you're so calm, so grounded, so sane." Omg if they only knew. Haha! Oh well...WE know. 🤫
OMG IM SO INFJ
- Basically every internet people when they heard that it's the rarest personality
And they are very cringe tbh..
You can say you are....but take the test....only 2 percent are....I took it ten times because I thought I would get ten different answeres....even my son gave me the test....INFJ😮
@@rondarawson6236 relax it's just a joke I'm cool with the real infj's
@@rondarawson6236 I just saw a comment on the other video
actually i took the test two times and my mbti personality type was infj and at that time i was not aware of the fact that it is very rare so i always thought that i was like everyone else but with everyone i was the one left out now i know why
As an INFJ, I am very selective of the people I let in my circle, and yes, prefer meaningful bonds than just connections. And I highly value my personal space and time.
I am an INFJ as well. I've had to cut out a lot of negative people out of my life. I only hang out with a select few, but I have forged meaningful bonds with those few that I felt safe enough to let in my circle.
Me tooo
omg I feel u I always want my bonds to be serious and important rather than short time and I like having alone time to recharge
Same
Just found this channel and it’s a keeper. I can definitely relate to these signs. It’s difficult as a man to have this personality type. Feeling other’s emotions and always trying to see both sides of everything can be draining. Watching these videos have helped me learn more about myself and why it’s so hard to feel like I fit in this world. A lot of people take advantage of guys like me and learning to set boundaries is a difficult endeavor. Being misunderstood for wanting to help or listen to others in pain makes me extremely sad so I keep to myself which is a lonely way to live.
INFJ male... you're even lonelier ...😢
I hope by now you found some kind of happiness🥲
Neat. I’ve taken several personality tests over the years and consistently score infj.
I can relate to almost everything in this video. I find myself drawn to the suffering, I can get entangled in others’ feelings if I’m not careful. I’m going to school for psychology, have very deep values and see right and wrong in black and white. I can read emotions pretty well and I can spot a lie or a mask fairly easy. I might not be able to guess motive, but I can tell when hidden motives are there. And also, I find myself over explaining very often to not be misunderstood, which is very common. Last, I could care less about money, it’s souls that matter to me. Thanks for the video.
Being an INFJ can be difficult. Especially when encountering narcissistic and emotional manipulators. Once INFJ's have come into their power, those users are powerless. INFJ's are not pushovers. They don't like conflict, but will fight for what is right. They won't give in or give up. INFJ's can be fearless and unmoveable. People open up to them without any fear of judgment. Being an INFJ myself, has been a very interesting experience. Emotional balance and healthy boundaries are key.
@Alina Santana I never heard this before. I know Martin Luther King, Mother Teresa and Nelson Mandela were INFJ's. Hitler? I do not believe this.
@Alina Santana yeah I don't think Hitler was an INFJ, it doesn't make sense with how INFJs are motivated. He sought power and manipulated people, and he was responsible for the death and suffering of a mass number of people. Doesn't sound like the advocate for people that INFJ is described as.
Hitler was not an INFJ. He isn’t like me at all
Tháts Ríght... Wé Áre!
people often question my leadership abilities because i'm not aggressive; they always say "get mad;' i handle things my way and what needs to get done gets done and quite effectively, i should add
Took me forever to understand this. I thought I was extroverted forever. INFJ's are chameleons because of emotional intelligence.
Same here.
exactly!
I hear we are the most extroverted introverts because of that
That was my first nick name as a kid. And then they became 4 letter words.
@@easypeezy8345 it is a genuine attempt to just keep the peace, but people always view it as too inconsistent I think..?
My college made us take the myers briggs to figure out what career path we should go into, I got INFJ and was the only one in the class of 30 to get it so my professor didn't have time to explain mine well. Very interesting and accurate.
Being an INFJ for me has been interesting- the seeing peoples true colors and always protecting people that need help rings really true, as well as needing alone time and feeling conflict for a lot longer and having it bother me severely... I will say what I need but that doesn't mean I'm not anxious when I say it.
The career choices given by these psychologists are hopeless
I took the test and ended up in this INFJ category. I understand myself better now. Good to know that someone out there knows about us. 😊
Let's make FB group of us INFJ people and never interact with one another and be awkward 🤘
Don't look for group link in comments, i Haven't created any, i have lot of meaningful work to do in my life. :-/
lmao
Im in😂🖐️
Ahaha I'm in
Actually, people would talk because they know the others WILL understand them. Being INFJ and knowing someone like you is very rare.
Yes please
Before I knew about being an INFJ I felt very weak and totally misunderstood. I thought I was powerless, I felt like a doormat. Knowing about this 35yrs later has completely turned my life around, it's now been 3yrs since I learned of being an INFJ and I feel so strong, like nothing Ive ever felt. My confidence is right where it shouldve been all along. Understanding myself has helped me so much in achieving my goals and I fear no one anymore because it now all makes sense. I make sense to me now :)
Just be careful. I have similar confidence/attitude and others find it very intimidating. They could try to sabotage you out of jealousy.
This is my experience too- it’s great isn’t it 😊
@@janesilver2746 pretty brutal!! Now that I understand the situation better, I do flip my perception of the situation to even more confidence.
What I don't like about it, is I have tried to genuinely connect with others who do not know respect for themselves. If you treat them with respect it feels wrong to them (doesn't align with their view). They will lash out at you for this.
@@koelreed8165 yes!
I found out the same thing you did but instead of being confident like you I feel like I did something very bad and I have no idea why..
It feels like I killed somebody or something like that..
Being an INFJ is that one main ever interesting lifestyles you can ever go through! Shout out to all individuals who remember their past life experiences,God is with us 🙏 🙌
Super accurate information. Excellent job, @TheMindsJournal !
Many want to be INFJ just because it's the rarest personality type, so it gives a sense of "being special" however, it's truly not easy to be one. It sounds cool but doesn't always feel that way at all. If you know you know... Sending strength to everyone including INFJs, not an easy world to live in with this personality type, heart and soul.
Take care of yourselves 💟
“Like to be alone” “ do everything better when they’re alone” omg i agree on spiritual levels
I'm INFJ-M(usical). 2 more things about us. We can literally walk away (from someone or something) and never look back, WAY more easy than other personality types. Also, 75% of INFJ are female, making us male INFJ's even rarer. The part of the video where he explains how hard it is for us to get across how we see everything differently, really got me. That was one thing I didn't know that was attached to this personality type. I really thought it was just me. So many times I have left a conversation feeling so defeated. like I was speaking another language to someone that I thought "knew me". Bless you, all!
I'm ISFP (tho only 51% observant and 49% intuitive so almost INFP), but anyway I can also relate that it's hard for me to get across and sometimes even a good friend of mine misunderstands/misinterprets what I'm trying to say and after that I feel shit that it wasn't clear what I meant. I didn't count but like 20-23 signs fit my personality well or almost perfectly even tho I'm not INFJ. (or at least according to those few tests I've taken so seems these aren't really super specific for INFJ alone. I guess if you have 3 out of the 4 "traits" you're still pretty similar.. 🤔🤷♂)
Yes the reason INFJ is considered the rarest is because it is the rarest for men. There are very few men who are INFJ. It is about the 3rd rarest for women.
@@65EKS65 S/N is less of a matter, actually Cognitive Functions are the real stuff, check' 'em out!
Agreed.
Also, NARCISSITIC PERSONALITY DISORDER' IS THE ROOT OF ALL EVIL!
AND SO IS 'CODEPENDENCY' (SELFISHLY AND STUPIDLY COMPLICIT)!
DO RESEARCH, AND SPREAD THE WORD!
@@Human_01 Using the evil "label" is reductive and counter productive when understanding human behaviour. The narcissist is born of nature and manipulation in the name of survival is exactly that, a product of nature. Narcissism and codependancy can often be the product of mistreatment, so the root is not so easy to discern.
Many codependants have offered up their horrific experiences on Quora, terrified of being alone as they had been as children, they stayed in abusive relationships. If a narcissist is evil, than what is a human born without the capacity to love? Where might that root be?
You should do your research if you care about the human condition. Fetishsising human behaviour has certainly caused much harm in the world. Narcissists are dangerous, many codependants can be remedied by therapy. I don't think either are the "root of all evil".
MEANINGFUL video to me to help understand myself better. Clear presentation. Thanks so much!
Every single trait.. On top of that I am an intuitive empath.
And highly sensitive.
I absolutely love being alone, so I can write, read, do art, listen to music, or films.
I am often misunderstood, but I feel that's part of my mystique, a simple yet rich inner life is very valuable to me.
Thankyou for this video, I already knew I was an INFJ but this was well articulated, I enjoyed it.
❤️
I think we INFJ's struggle with our identities because we can readily absorb and adapt to our surroundings...in that we always seek a way to comfort ourselves irrespective of the circumstances around us.
Chameleans they call us...
@@j.davila4523 Aren't we? Yet, for survival not to intentionally deceive.
@@peace6107 yes, by nature we don't wanna go into an argument...but we do if it's for the greater good...or if it goes against OUR OWN values.
@@j.davila4523 Exactly so! You are very correct and for the same reason we are often content with getting the short end of the stick until we find that we are beginning to fall to bits ourselves.
True, i adapt to anyone around me in order to fit and please them so I’m always questioning myself and who I am.
The most extrovert introvert. 😄
I say this to people all the time and they don't get it!
Ikr, but it depends on who I am with, and what's the topic of discussion.
@@PonchuTfm hey same. thats why i have a hard time understanding myself. am i shy or extrovert or anti social or introvert:(
INFJ too & I always say that too, that I’m a extrovert introvert. 😂
same, i always thought of myself as an extroverted introvert lmao
I feel understood for the first time in my life! I tick every box. Thanks for this!
I thought I was some kind of weirdo and sometimes felt outcast. I knew it then I was an INFJ. I don't like huge crowds, and I am happy at home even before the lock-down. Sure I love going out, exploring but I can be very withdrawn and I love contemplating and introspection.
i actually love being stuck at home 😅
Lockdown is a blessing for us lol
I feel you, I remember in school I’d always sit with myself far from the crowd, where it was nice and quiet. I always wondered if there was something wrong with me, but it’s most likely because I’m quiet and selective with who I spend my time with.
I enjoy going on adventures with just myself, taking walks everywhere, sitting at parks in the grass, going to coffee shops. Just the simple things, you know?
OMG, I just found this personality type and I am in tears. I've never met so many people who think like me like here in the comments! I've been misunderstood SO MUCH and I thought it was me. I never really belonged although I always have connections to groups, but I'm never really part of them. So most of the times I have to be enough for myself. And all this time I thought it was my fault or something. No, it's just my personality type and there are people like me, I never thought ...
Yes, there are others like you. As hard as that was for me to believe once too.
Welcome 😁
hey i have felt the same for all my life. I am so surprised having all these traits in myself. there are people who feel same like me
Wow. Thanks for saying this. You’ve put into words how I’ve felt for a long time. Connected to groups, but never feeling really part of them.
I extremely relate to that too, I love my close friends so much, but sometimes I feel like they never really understand me. I don't blame them tho, because I always realized that I'm mysterious to them. I can be really quiet to the point I will never answer them in the group chat. But fortunately they will always ask about me and try to involved me in every situation (even when I didn't really want to involved).
Okay yes this explains my whole life
I am 39 and discovering that I have INFJ personnality is almost life changing. I feel less lost and it explain so many things.
This video made me almost cry. I feel I have been misunderstood by many, and feel like the video knew me better than any person has.
once an INFJ, there's no turning back. People thought we are changing, but we just find a way to be the better version of ourselves.
Narcissists really come to us... And we learned how to deal with them.
We are hart warming, but don't ever think that we let people step on our values, cause we can get really furious and cut these people out of our lives.
Honestly life would be much simpler if we can show our anger to these people and say/do anything. Doorslamming is my thing and people think Im a coward for this.
@@thousandyardgavri2785 last week I said to a guy "you complain that the girls you talked ghosted you... I am gonna be different and tell you why."
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That guy was soooo needy, and I was listening to him and I gave some advices, but once he said horrible things about woman then I had to cut him off.
I said that I am not gonna assume a weight that it's not mine to carry and I defended my girls.
Was a doorslam, but a little different.
@@mikaelaalmeida3498 hit up my dms lmfaooo. I feel like us infj always be giving people advice or sticking around people we know might be bad for us cause we can be lonely creatures. I wonder if I ever meet another infj and how would it feel?
@@mikaelaalmeida3498 I actually can speak my mind. It just depends on whether the other person will listen which I know if they will or won't. I dont speak at all to narcissists because I already know they won't accept my words and Ill end up feeling like an idiot. And I don't feel like showing emotion to them too. Lol. I dunno being an infj is a challenge indeed.
@@mikaelaalmeida3498 If I ever speak my mind to a narcissist, then all contact should be over.
Very interesting! I am definitely a INFJ! Everything makes sense, thank you !
crazy video. i’ve never felt so understood
My life would be much more simple if people were more intuitive and not rely solely on what they see and hear.
I end up looking like an idiot because I can't explain what I know.
Now I just don't care anymore, if I feel something I'll warm you, if you ask how I know, I won't bother trying to explain, I just say I don't know, if you like take my advice whatever happens when you refuse to listen to me is on your head, but when they come back to complain I rub in their faces before I instantly come up with a solution, they wonder how I come up with solution so fast, the thing is I've already played every possible scenario and outcome and formed multiple plan B's for said outcomes far before the outcome plays out, now those close to me, in my life rarely argue when I give them advice, they just take it, albeit sometimes begrudgingly, they just do it, because they know I'm most likely right. I cut off people who refuse to listen to me and end up making terrible mistakes multiple times.
It's not about us people are just so dumb!!
@@byull7323 not everyone can be on the same level in regards to our intuition. Don't doubt people as an individual just because they appear to be unable to understand, we all have our strengths and weaknesses.
I have learned that articulation is a common problem. Still trying to figure out a way around this
@@shezza3454 Said like a true INFJ.
"they gravitate around people who need to be rescued" damn makes so much sense
Wow! I'm a 68 year old INFJ amd most of what you are saying here is still bang on for me...thanks for the reminder.
I have given the MBTI personality test and found that I am an INFJ . I could really relate all these traits with myself. Thank you for the video.
"Thinking about conflict can affect their physical and mental health"
I’m a true INFJ, honey I’m home
I'm thinking about a conflict that happened earlier today. I'm also thinking about a conflict that happened 3 weeks ago. My job is a constant source of conflicts! AAAAAH! Can't we live in peace?
@@CaveyMoth IKR?!! Gosh we INFJS need peace of mind
@@kiarapeachy20 I only just tonight learned about the 16 personalities and that I am an INFJ. My life will never be the same!
As an INFJ, for me, I try not to overthink of conflicts with only my emotions. I try to rationalize things to prevent myself from feeling overwhelmed. It’s already a burden for me to carry others’ emotions and mine together, so I try to reduce it as much as possible. I deeply think of a conflicts in a way of connecting the puzzles together and make it into a bigger picture. Sometimes I overthink stuff about the load of work to the point I procrastinate, but if I think through it, it’s not as bad as I thought it would be.
Me in a nutshell
1) Have a mysterious Aura
2) Their 6th sense guides them
3) Are empowered by compassion and empathy
4) Always look for deeper meaning
5) Make others feel safe and comfortable
6) Are value driven
7) Are complicated and hard to read
8) Have a strong need to be alone
9) Curiosity drives their intellect
10) Prefer meaningful close bonds over casual connection
11) Know how to stand their ground
12) Charisma makes them super attractive
13) Motivated by ideas, not money
14) Wear heart on their sleeve
15) Passion dominates their world
16) Are creative
17) Can be the best counselors
18) Have a rich inner world
19) Often feel they don't belong in this world
20) Helping others is an instinct
21) Work best when alone
22) Are grounded
23) See the bigger picture
24) Have a great understanding of language
25) Despise conflict
#19 😢💔
thank you for the list~
Thanks for the list.(I've checked all 25).
@@kriskristinadass3196 You're not alone in feeling like you don't belong in this world. We should all buy an island and create our own unique world (even if just for a getaway)!
@@jenniferalexandra8961 😍🤩🥳🗺🏕
Such a blessing! So many thoughts of what to say is flooding my brain with how accurate this video has awakened my spirit within! Thank you so much! 🙏
Everything you described well and I can completely relate. Thank you.
I am an INFJ. True to almost 100%. Being rare isn’t always good though.
Agreed, it can feel isolating
@@RozzaaBee Agreed
When you get the *OHHHHH I SOO GET ITTT!!! BUT LIKE WHY IS IT SO ACCURATE??!!?*
"They feel like they don't belong to this world"
So true 🥺 we have values and ideas that are rarely agreed with or understood, which often make us feel lonely or alone, but we don't mind being alone so be it :p
Also better than to be with narcs whom we attract at least a few in our life 🙄
they may not speak even a single word in a day
@@kadbodcoklat8286 i sometimes go days without talking to anyone and then I am so happy and relaxed and want to tell every idea I had and talk like Niagra Falls in flood season.
People think I talk because I am lonely or self centered but NOOO!
I HAVE GREAT IDEAS. LISTEN! I figured something out and want to tell you. Something makes sense that didn't before.
My friends used to tell I was born in the wrong century 😂
Not surprising given the cstate of the world today
And it makes us feel as if there is something wrong with us. But we are perfectly normal and good just as we are🌼😁🤘
Damn. I felt understood. It's not easy to read a person's whole personality and identify them like this. It's amazing.
Thank you. I've watched a lot of videos about INFJ personality, but only that video helped me. Now I can say that I am an INFJ! :)
Hello fellow INFJs!!! I'm here as an INFP trying to learn more about you, I just wanted to say I love you so much, you're amazing, you deserve love and I hope you can find someone to be yourself with because you deserve it!! My bff is an INFJ and she was the best thing that happened in my life, and it was her who approached me actually, it took some time for me too, but now I don't know what my life would be without her💖🥺
As an INFJ who is surrounded by INFPs I would like to say that we love you too INFP c: 💜
I think male infp and female infj is the best comp. I'm INFP or ENFJ but I have 23/25 here. Are you related too?
Thank you 😊🙌💕✨😊😊🙌💞💕😊🙌💕✨ I think I will restore my self confidence again ♥♥♥ cause people think us as awful & upnormal I really hate 😭♥
Hi, sweetheart! Thank you. 💖
- an INFJ
Im someone who is like infp and infj lol switch between j and p
Infj, know people consider them as friends, but really confused when ask who is your friend..
Omg ye it's as if you know everything about me!!!!
That's very accurate, I'm not sure I have any "real" friends.
this is so accurate. How tf---
I always say, " i have many friends but not close friends to consider bff"
@@JT-gm4fk I have only one..
i have never found a video where each thing listed describes or resonates with me such as this one, this gives so much insight into who i am
This video really helps me understand my self. I really need this.
The fact that I always feel left out is exactly why I love to be alone now
Yes and its blessing and a curse. Infj. This is spot on!!
I'm proudly an INFJ
So true.
agree, look charming and weird in the same way of manu eyes...but i dont care🤣
Exactly
I am so thankful for this. It’s always a blessing when I realize it is what I am doing and accept that I am, I am. And will be able to love myself and be thankful for my heart and soul I accept that.
What an awesome video. Graphics, etc. Thank you 😍
Yes, finally I got myself...!!! 25 in 25. Thanks for sharing this topic.
Im definitely an infj and it hurts so bad because i pick up everyone’s emotions so easily and it hurts when i see someone struggling
I get that too...
Same
Same ...
Probably ur infj_t I'm more. Assertive side and I feel I'm more. In. Control over my emotions I. Said that cus my. Gf is same as u exactly what she describes to me although I do understand and I feel exactly like her but I feel I'm more under control most of the time
"Learning is their drug of choice","despise conflict","good at language" Just Golden 👍👍 and simply very true
Yes! Even as a child I would so much rather watch a documentary about... anything than be forced to watch "Dallas". What is the point of anything at all if it never leads to new questions, fresh perspectives, more insight... Knowledge.
One of the best Videos i have watched about this topic so far.
Thank you for the video, that is one of the best I saw in UA-cam so far describing INFJs and I saw many. Great job!!!
People that don't know me always mistake my kindness for a weakness and think that I'm going to let them walk all over me but they're sadly mistaken
Omg. Im 31 and I feel that I can finally understand myself. There's nothing wrong with me!!!!! I'm crying right now cause living like this, without understanding why I was like this without being able to explain it was too painful. I feel welcome, understanded and respected here, thank you so much!!!!!!
It feels good, doesn't it?
30 here and me too! I feel like this is my family on other INFJs. Still touched now but this vid was so emotional I think we all teared up. We are not alone!! Lol
Weep no more, my child. Now, let's go get them ... we've got the greatest work to do on this planet!
33 years old! End finally find this video! I'm really struggling with who I'm... struggling to get a girlfriend for long term... just being not understand by other
Yes we all go through something like this when we finally understand ourselves. It’s like coming home to yourself. In my case it happened later in my life I wish it had been sooner
Dude this video is so on point. It just proved it even more for me. I’m 100% sure I’m an infj now
You need to mention the INFJ door slam. Knowing about that helped me a great deal. People suggest noticing things earlier, but I do notice things, I just hope disloyalty, untruthfulness, or unkindness are one-offs caused by stress or some incident. But when I see it as a pattern, the door slams. I understand that some behavior is connected to a lack of reflection and insight but, if it is just part of someone, I wish them well and leave.