LOVE LANGUAGES! Good Influences Episode 28

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  • Love Languages! You known them, right? Quality time, physical touch, gift giving, words of affirmation, acts of service. Let us know what YOUR Love Language is in the comments! Remember to SUBSCRIBE!
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  • @MANNNNWHAT
    @MANNNNWHAT Рік тому +251

    Carly is the only one who actually understands this test 😂 it’s about a relationship not YOUR relationship with the perosn your with

    • @aaaarly
      @aaaarly Рік тому +31

      Yeah that was weird that it was so hard for them to get that

    • @lalangbelalang
      @lalangbelalang Рік тому +13

      Yesss! They keep choosing the other option (b) just because in their current relationship, they already have option (a). That's not how this test work lol.

    • @pinkgalaxy5925
      @pinkgalaxy5925 Рік тому

      Ryujin 😢t

  • @danichesney1876
    @danichesney1876 Рік тому +185

    I LOVE Carlys assettive demeanor lately!!

    • @Littlepeach94
      @Littlepeach94 Рік тому +37

      Right? She's finally not letting Erin walk all over her and be rude to her, it's so nice to see!

    • @rororoisin
      @rororoisin Рік тому +11

      @@Littlepeach94 I think she's just trying to help her out with her confidence!

    • @Kjmilly12
      @Kjmilly12 Рік тому +1

      No fr.

  • @Gentle__Mental
    @Gentle__Mental Рік тому +181

    Oooo I love the different colors for the squares in the thumbnail. Very appealing!😍 can’t wait to listen! Perfect timing

  • @lucasbrunoz
    @lucasbrunoz Рік тому +71

    I need a compilation of every time Carly laughs, its my serotonin boost I'm not kidding

  • @ashleysaavedra8445
    @ashleysaavedra8445 Рік тому +122

    I love your assertiveness in this episode Carly!

    • @Meeeeeeeeee37
      @Meeeeeeeeee37 Рік тому +1

      I love everyone recognizing Carly as being assertive. We love our mental health queen Carly!

  • @erin-clareboulet3211
    @erin-clareboulet3211 Рік тому +22

    LOLing at Matt saying hes a “minimalist” over & over while owning an entire fake town that goes up one season out of the year 😂 no hate its just funny

  • @ariesbaby2330
    @ariesbaby2330 Рік тому +32

    It’s funny how they ALL overthink every question😂 90% overanalyzing and breaking down questions

  • @Michelle-mh1fz
    @Michelle-mh1fz Рік тому +9

    erin FULLY MISSING THE POINT LOL

  • @connerconnerconner
    @connerconnerconner Рік тому +44

    Matt always thinks he shouldn’t have said something or that he sounds a particular way and it’s heartbreaking because I know a part of that feeling comes from his treatment on Unfiltered. I love the support he gets here because I feel like Matt is so much like me, I appreciate and love everything he has to say or think. Not everything you say needs to matter, you can speak to speak. Love you Matt ❤️

  • @ellenb577
    @ellenb577 Рік тому +50

    I can always relate so hard when Matt is overthinking anything, like I’ll start to go so in depth about it in my head that I change my mind or start thinking about how annoying I sound 😂 I could listen to him talk forever because SAME 😂 also love his self-awareness and apologetic nature is so endearing, even if it is unnecessary at times. Don’t worry Matt, we love ya 😂❤️ I know you wanna hear that too now after this episode 🤣

  • @jamillel2536
    @jamillel2536 Рік тому +20

    I love Matt he is a perfect podcast personality. I’ve been watching him for years and he is always so interesting and charming!

  • @Ashley-bj3sl
    @Ashley-bj3sl Рік тому +33

    I get what Matt was saying about Harry Styles. He will always have that popstar label attached to him and a lot of people will always view him as less cool, more contrived, and less artistic than someone like Matty Healy. Same reason why Taylor Swift will unfortunately always be viewed as more of a product and less of a songwriter than someone like Phoebe Bridgers.

  • @ashleyhouston2010
    @ashleyhouston2010 Рік тому +44

    honestly, for me my hatred of physical touch comes from being independent and single for so long. like I don’t mind some, but if it’s overdone I’m like 🙅🏼‍♀️ enough haha

    • @o12.7am
      @o12.7am Рік тому +3

      exactly this !!

  • @Mamabear21
    @Mamabear21 Рік тому +58

    Matt has been unhinged lately 😂

    • @ttaylor8830
      @ttaylor8830 Рік тому +8

      Lmao it’s the nicotine withdrawal, mans has been hostile asf

  • @montseveraud1504
    @montseveraud1504 Рік тому +14

    My love language has always been gifts and my boyfriend is like Matt saying to stop wasting money. I’m like “but how will I show you my love then????”

  • @user-ny4pn2wx9i
    @user-ny4pn2wx9i Рік тому +16

    I’m not sure it makes sense for those in couples to factor in what their partner already does for them. In the instance with erin saying tj already watches shows with her or whatever so she values the other thing more, consistently answering like that would skew the results to say your love language is just something you don’t get as much. I feel like that wouldn’t be the case, especially considering Erin and tj, who seems to have a great relationship and a great balance of feeling and expressing love to eachother!

  • @megan_1
    @megan_1 Рік тому +6

    lmao Matt had me cracking up when he was having a meltdown about the gift giving 😂

  • @MeganBurr
    @MeganBurr Рік тому +64

    I totally understand where Mike is coming from on PDA, I’m not very touchy at all and I’m socially anxious so it’s just not for me either

    • @AZ-vj9fw
      @AZ-vj9fw Рік тому +6

      Same. I've been married 12 years and I just don't like being touched.

  • @babywcboo
    @babywcboo Рік тому +7

    The fact that Matt is so opinionated about gifts makes me think that is his love language. That’s why he cares so much. I am exactly like that!

  • @redderlondon
    @redderlondon Рік тому +7

    i looove carly's laughs 😭😭

  • @alischreiner08
    @alischreiner08 Рік тому +10

    i get what Mike is saying about the touch thing! i’m the SAME WAY!!

  • @Dink_13
    @Dink_13 Рік тому +11

    Matt looks stoned 😂 love this convo

  • @Al-br3fh
    @Al-br3fh Рік тому +15

    I feel the same way that mike does about the PDA

  • @kskd33
    @kskd33 Рік тому +19

    a topic about life lessons or growth so far would be cool

  • @Blueberryl0v3r
    @Blueberryl0v3r Рік тому +9

    I love Carly and Matt in this episode!! :)

  • @kelseyrempel6919
    @kelseyrempel6919 Рік тому +10

    hahahahahahaha Carly "I have red hair"

  • @quadmft
    @quadmft Рік тому +4

    one of my favorite podcasts!

  • @melissamunoz3283
    @melissamunoz3283 Рік тому +6

    Carly I love you, you’re a queen

  • @erinlee8618
    @erinlee8618 Рік тому +29

    Mike was the last person on this podcast I ever thought I would relate with us actually the one I relate to the most and on a number of subjects y’all have talked about!
    PDA is for your benefit at home behind closed doors! I don’t need someone rubbing on me holding my hand every sec with in public to know I’m loved lol
    Sometimes I get freaked out when people are crying around me bc I get awkward thinking I should hug them🤣

  • @rileighp213
    @rileighp213 9 місяців тому

    hearing matt say “we’ll be married one day” knowing he and patricia got married the other day warms my heart😭❤️

  • @slumbersome2477
    @slumbersome2477 Рік тому +4

    my fav podcast

  • @avabrenneman4011
    @avabrenneman4011 Рік тому +8

    BEST DAY OF THE WEEK

  • @jasonhunter2819
    @jasonhunter2819 Рік тому +15

    You guys are looooopy on this one lol

  • @emochoso
    @emochoso Рік тому +2

    I love the silly and funny from the beginning of this episode! Tbh kept going back bc how funny it is 🤣💕💕

  • @Robin-ladybug
    @Robin-ladybug Рік тому

    My favorite podcast!!!

  • @xtinakeren5575
    @xtinakeren5575 Рік тому

    Loved this episode!

  • @Kase1313
    @Kase1313 Рік тому

    Wow I needed this

  • @marcyanne8910
    @marcyanne8910 Рік тому +2

    The questions are too broad too. Like little gifts can mean someone thought about you while they were out and big gifts can mean they were planning it for a while. Giving someone something they need vs a want are different as well. Like a friend spending time and money on a big gift means the same to me as someone I don't see often picking something up that reminded them of me waiting for the next time we see eachother. My mom telling me she's proud of me means more than my partner who I would more often. Someone I know very well telling others how great I am means a lot more than someone I don't see often. The quiz needs to me more specific

  • @anushakaliprasad1181
    @anushakaliprasad1181 Рік тому

    Love their dynamic 😂

  • @johnstrange6799
    @johnstrange6799 Рік тому

    Thanks

  • @terrynwilliamson5356
    @terrynwilliamson5356 Рік тому +3

    I relate to Mike sooo much lol

  • @annalylia655
    @annalylia655 Рік тому

    i was distracted by mike’s the mars volta hoodie the whole time. sick af 🔥🔥🔥

  • @sierraquave
    @sierraquave Рік тому +1

    Random af but I would love to see you guys do a try not to eat 😂 maybe make it crazy food from favorite childhood shows

  • @LizLopezXO
    @LizLopezXO Рік тому +37

    I wish Erin would be more open to listening to others POV. For example, when Carly was explaining how to actually pick an answer for this. She’s so dismissive.

    • @Meeeeeeeeee37
      @Meeeeeeeeee37 Рік тому +1

      Don’t hold your breath!

    • @sydneytrevino7961
      @sydneytrevino7961 Рік тому +2

      PREACH

    • @oh_its.fatima7024
      @oh_its.fatima7024 Рік тому +2

      yah and how she was about mike with the physical touch thing like its not that big of a deal people are different i felt for mike like he had to talk through that all 😢❤but yah ik thy are friends so no hate✨

  • @sourflower3727
    @sourflower3727 Рік тому +4

    I don't like the way the questions are either or because a lot of times I'm like.. BOTH.. lol I wish it was like a range.. like 1-5 for each individual one.

  • @darlingdueck3676
    @darlingdueck3676 Рік тому

    I am veryyyyy much an acts of service gal in the way I like to receive or be shown love. As for giving, I do tend to be big on gift giving which is something I rate very low in the way I like to receive love.

  • @mirandaleigh9260
    @mirandaleigh9260 Рік тому +1

    MATTT I am the same way with other people buying me gifts. I am quite a particular person and prefer to pick what I want and what someone will potentially be spending money on.

  • @annieceresia2148
    @annieceresia2148 Рік тому

    slay Matt with the Italian film reference

  • @Ovalleale12
    @Ovalleale12 Рік тому +5

    Catch me being early every time 👏🏼

  • @desthepsychonaut
    @desthepsychonaut Рік тому +1

    Lesssgooo🎉❤

  • @kimkogneeto
    @kimkogneeto Рік тому

    What is the website 😩 I was trynna do it with the video

  • @jigglybits2092
    @jigglybits2092 Рік тому +2

    im never buying matt a gift or letting him in my home bc he will judge the gift/my interior deisgn (or lack thereof) lmfao

  • @summerhyden1879
    @summerhyden1879 Рік тому +7

    i agree with Matt. I have never trusted a dishwasher in my life. Theres no way that box can get our dishes clean, id rather hand wash them

  • @AZ-vj9fw
    @AZ-vj9fw Рік тому

    I love the Simon Says background colors. Trying to figure out which boy picked it lol

  • @samrinasiddiqui1015
    @samrinasiddiqui1015 Рік тому

    Matt is soo cute and funny 😂

  • @mobojen
    @mobojen Рік тому +12

    i love this podcast, i recommend it to so many people! i will single handedly spread the word to over throw joe rogan

  • @SabrinaAngelica
    @SabrinaAngelica Рік тому

    love languages are different for what u want to receive and how u show love

  • @---rx6em
    @---rx6em 10 місяців тому

    57:29 has me deceased lol

  • @jessicafoster5262
    @jessicafoster5262 Рік тому

    Matt is the star of this episode

  • @lesliezuniga-diaz9541
    @lesliezuniga-diaz9541 Рік тому

    ❤️

  • @maybebb
    @maybebb Рік тому

    Is that Jerry Seinfeld and Larry David? If so where can I find it, I want it please!

  • @ElizabethLeeA
    @ElizabethLeeA Рік тому +1

    I got ZERO PERCENT physical touch lmaooo

  • @pixxie102
    @pixxie102 Рік тому +2

    Me going back and forth with the kissing Vs special project question....
    While my husband listens to this podcast with me knowing full well he is not a consumer of UA-cam content HOWEVER knows all you guys your past and present relationships and still pretends to care when watching the roast of Zane ....

  • @vaniaaaB
    @vaniaaaB Рік тому +3

    R Kelly used to kiss his fans too, and look how that turned out... it's a power play, creepy af

  • @marygracecorrao3054
    @marygracecorrao3054 Рік тому +12

    matt overthinks so much it take the fun out of it 😂

  • @tarasteele278
    @tarasteele278 Рік тому +2

    I thought Matt's shirt said Anne Hathaway Elementray at first.

  • @tonydouglas334
    @tonydouglas334 Рік тому +1

    Def need time stamps

  • @coopd97
    @coopd97 Рік тому +1

    I definitely identify with Matt when it comes to love languages.

  • @ashleysaavedra8445
    @ashleysaavedra8445 Рік тому +4

    Leave Matt alone lol

  • @icee2329
    @icee2329 Рік тому +1

    Anybody have the link to the quiz?

    • @kimkogneeto
      @kimkogneeto Рік тому

      Seriously 😭 did you find it?

  • @TaranBKAUR
    @TaranBKAUR Рік тому +1

    i agree with MIKE!! OMG whats wrong with the rest

  • @secret99826
    @secret99826 Рік тому +1

    i just can’t agree w mike on the pda that’s so extreme 😭it’s just kinda of stupid to think it’s for the world when two people love each other lol

  • @yikessduude
    @yikessduude Рік тому +4

    Erin saying they recorded this august 3rd had me dying😂

  • @nasyoutubechannel3245
    @nasyoutubechannel3245 Рік тому

    Hi

  • @kaylavngo
    @kaylavngo Рік тому

    u guys should’ve spelled out LOVE with ur hands for the thumbnail!!!

  • @adamlambert5737
    @adamlambert5737 Рік тому +5

    I feel like Mike kept getting the cold shoulder in this episode :/

    • @Bluevelvetism
      @Bluevelvetism Рік тому +6

      Not necessarily. I feel like because they’re in long term relationships, they have a totally different mindset when it comes to love than mike so that’s why they all mostly agree and mike doesn’t agree with them

    • @hihii3902
      @hihii3902 Рік тому +1

      I kind of see what you mean, sometimes he makes jokes and no one says anything in response that I feel like they’d acknowledge if he said it a different day. I wonder if he was kinda on edge that day? He said he was trying to stay calm at one point. (Tbh I thought this said Matt not Mike so actually I take it all back)

  • @elliedelvecchio3067
    @elliedelvecchio3067 Рік тому

    carly we have the same birthday and i feel like we should have a conversation about it…

  • @marcyanne8910
    @marcyanne8910 Рік тому +5

    There should should be a love language tests for different relationships. Like what people want from their friend is not the same as what they want from their partner. What you want from your friend may be consistent but what you want from your partner may change over time. The questions generalized "someone you love" but asks if your in a relationship. It's confusing

  • @Slimshadybbyy
    @Slimshadybbyy Рік тому +10

    Matty Healy is so absolutely cringy

  • @MANNNNWHAT
    @MANNNNWHAT Рік тому +2

    The questions just are the exact same almost just worded different, nah ??

    • @MANNNNWHAT
      @MANNNNWHAT Рік тому

      LIKE LITERALLY JUST PHRASED DIFFERENT

  • @kendrashae3614
    @kendrashae3614 Рік тому +1

    I don’t think people are appreciated enough so I over say it to people lol maybe I’m projecting

  • @tit2852
    @tit2852 Рік тому +4

    I wish mike would confess his love for carly

  • @ajmajmajm11
    @ajmajmajm11 Рік тому +4

    kinda disagree about the taylor not being the one liking tik toks, a lot of the time she leaves comments and theyre definitely her. she’s been known to engage with fans in a personal way - she used to do it on tumblr a lot

  • @hebasiddiqui2862
    @hebasiddiqui2862 Рік тому +1

    Why does Erin so rude with Matt

  • @briandaitzel
    @briandaitzel Рік тому

    Is this really from august cause I’m dead

  • @sarahli0609
    @sarahli0609 Рік тому +5

    and that is why mike is single 😂

  • @alexaramirez3072
    @alexaramirez3072 Рік тому +2

    Matt has no idea what he says… he just talks to talk

    • @alexaramirez3072
      @alexaramirez3072 Рік тому +2

      By the way, this comment was in context to Harry Styles being jealous of Matty.

    • @montseveraud1504
      @montseveraud1504 Рік тому +3

      I get his point tho, but also I think Matty is jealous of Harry🤪

  • @charliedawn27
    @charliedawn27 Рік тому +11

    Nobody is following Kyle rittenhouse to “keep up” with what he says cmon what

    • @shankeduu
      @shankeduu Рік тому

      Rite and trump as a joke ?😭 what carly

    • @ryanbickel3656
      @ryanbickel3656 Рік тому

      Rittenhouse and trump are nowhere near the same

  • @VenLouie
    @VenLouie Рік тому

    so what if couples are affectionate in public? something is wrong with him he needs to mind his own business maybe

  • @tammylee7377
    @tammylee7377 Рік тому +3

    Damn No Wonder Mike is single 🫣 Being like that he's gonna be forever single!! Relax a little bro🥴

  • @sol.p2206
    @sol.p2206 Рік тому +1

    Love Kyle Rittenhouse ❤

    • @caram227
      @caram227 Рік тому +13

      So you have very low standards?

    • @jazminerodriguez9112
      @jazminerodriguez9112 Рік тому

      what a loser lol

    • @charliedawn27
      @charliedawn27 Рік тому +9

      It’s one thing to think he is innocent but it’s another to “love” him. Seek help, you brick

    • @sol.p2206
      @sol.p2206 Рік тому +3

      @@charliedawn27 oh my gosh.. it’s an expression! I guess we all have to think and express ourselves in the same way or else we’re looked down upon. Not very inclusive of you lol

    • @caram227
      @caram227 Рік тому

      @@sol.p2206 we don’t have to express ourselves in the same way… but if you express something stupid expect to be called out for it. Like they said, seek help.

  • @Dsbeat7000
    @Dsbeat7000 Рік тому

    THANK U

  • @michelleparedes4629
    @michelleparedes4629 Рік тому

    The first podcast I listen to on Tuesdays and the most excited to tap on 🫶🏼

  • @allisonv4270
    @allisonv4270 Рік тому +1

    I think Taylors team might help her with making certain content on her page but otherwise with interactions they use the @TaylorNation and Taylor really uses her account because of how much she actually stalks the fans for who she wants to invite to secret sessions and meet and greets you can tell from people’s experiences that she really was the one looking at their social media when she talks to them in person