This poor man did not deserve this kind of brutality. He would literally be safer in Black Dolphin Prison than he would be with the woman who did this to him.
@@fullcircleessentials yes I noticed this even as a little girl in the 80s and it’s just getting worse. I remember seeing a poster saying girls can do anything and I remember thinking but what about the boys why don’t they get a poster. As a woman I 💯 support what Roma says and it’s about time as this isn’t equality. We need to support our men
My ex would attack me in my sleep. I'm a trained MMA fighter and would rationalize it like "at least it wasn't a dude" and It took years to tell my family. That all changed after she would accuse me of DV and I went to jail for it. Lost my job and came back to try to make things work for our son. The last straw was when she pulled a gun on me in front of our son. I wasn't on the lease so jail again. It's been 4 years since I've seen my son. I called the non emergency line for the cops to investigate and they basically laughed at me. The lawyer I saw said it doesn't look good for joint custody because of my DV arrests. Now I assume every woman is lying when they say they've been abused or even worse. I'm just numb to it all. I hope he pulls through.
How did things go after that? Sorry this happened to you, only thing I consider good about this story is a remainder to always keep receipts via discreet recordings when she starts acting up, so that she can't cause so much bull$h*t, but sadly even with innocence easily proven, people you'd call friends and loyal family will still show who they are and how they think of you with these kind of things, which is another reason to have receipts so the flying monkeys can't screw with you moving on. Good luck for your son, and I hope you're able to prove to him you're not whatever image of you his mother ingrains into his head.
Trust me, even without the DV arrests you had no chance. I have a completely clean criminal record, and my sons mom was still able to lie and manipulate and take advantage of the system in every possible way to not only destroy my life but also erase me from my sons life. All to pursue a guy she wasn't even with for a year. I'm sorry for what you're going through, truly I am. I know how dark this situation gets, try to remember you aren't alone and there is another side to all of it for a patient man.
@@noktumwhatever753 It's so crazy how commonplace this has become. I have 4 coworkers that are going through similar circumstances. Hell, my mom did it to my Dad and now nobody even visits my mom. Everyone visits my dad. The thing that sucks is it took over a decade for my siblings and I to actually realize what was going on. Our "justice system" is messed up. I'm sorry you're going through it too. This is the epidemic that nobody is talking about. So many kids are being raised without their fathers and it's not the fault of the Father. In most cases that I've witnessed it's a spiteful ex that hates the father more than she loves the child. Courts will go along with it because there's a financial incentive to.
It feels like you're genuinely the only one that calls this out. Genuinely hope your life goes well and you never get hurt, you're a treasure to the community.
@@wolfboy20 And Cassie received 30 Million Dollars from Diddy can we move on now ? She's a Woman she won got a huge payout set for life. How much did this guy get for being tortured ? How many millions did he get ? Do Men ever get anything ??
@@africaisking7817 She received that money with not too many questions asked for a reason and that video resurfacing after so long is the reason. If that video didn't come out then yeah ppl would've definitely moved on but its in rotation until something else comes along. & like i previously said, ppl can do both and call out the fuck shit on each situation. Now for this guy, he definitely deserves millions of dollars for what was done to him because that shit is NOT OK! The main issue is the double standard when it comes to men who experience domestic violence like this in America. They usually get made fun of(by some men and women alike), they won't be taken seriously and even of the women does get arrested, it's highly likely that she'll only get a slap on the wrist unless she jas priors and even then its still a maybe that she'll be punished accordingly. Tbh they need to give the same amount of jail time for shit like this.
Oh my god! 😨 This is unacceptable! And the worst part is that people will stand beside the woman who beat this poor man up. W for the man for not holding any hate for others for this.
That kind of attitude has gone on since the days of Rome, if a man beat his wife he was totally austrosicized from society, and if he was beaten by his wife he was mocked for it. The only way to "win" is to not play the game unfortunately
A former friend was whooping up on her man and after the 3rd punch to the ear I stepped over to her and told her if she hit him 1 more time I was going to do what she was doing to him to her. No one has the right to put hands on anyone especially if they claim to have love for that person
absolutely. As soon, as a woman gets stupid with me, or pushes my buttons to stress me out purposefully...I just walk away. they're done. I'm a Ghost...never utter a word to them again.
Honestly, if this man was less tolerant, the first few punches wouldn't have landed, and she'd have a few bones broken, but then she'd attempt to claim domestic violence, which, usually, is passed instead of his self-defense case.
Yeah it's a terrible sight that's for sure. Poor bloke hopefully he gets justice. I've seen a few of these images over the years they seem to be on the increase.
I agree. Abuse is abuse, period. Regardless of where it's coming from, it's wrong.. My best regards to this young man, way to stay strong brother, keep your head up..🍻😎
This happened to a good friend. His ex would get rage drunk and beat the shit out of him. He's 6'2" and she's like 5'1". The cops got called during one of these events and they arrested HIM for DV. I told him he had to video the next encounter or she could get full custody as they were getting a divorce. Sure enough, he filmed the next attack, cops showed up again. He showed them the video and they arrested her on the spot.
Fake. They would try ANYTHING to not arrest a woman cause most (not all) try to claim sexism, and if that really happens, the cop could lose his job over it cause instead of dealing with it, they would rather not lose any reputation.
God bless this dude for coming forward. I was regularly physically abused by my ex wife. Didn't dare touch a hair on her "perfect" little head...would have gone to jail. Had to tell dudes at work I was in a "Fight Club" to avoid the embarrassment. Even had my boss take me aside and let me know that my "outside interests" were becoming a distraction to others and they had to stop. Finally opened up to HR at work and got the help I needed to get out of that abusive relationship. Don't suffer in silence. There is help. I pray any man reading this gets it.
I subscribed to his tik tok. No one deserves to be hurt. Men are important. Love is not abuse. My mom stayed with someone who hurt us. Abuse isn't normal
I have to say and I'm not even joking... Chloe ❤️🔥 you are the only one I know who can express things EXACTLY the way they are without running from the vulnerability of the situation... you address things directly and don't try to mask the vulnerable side of things just because it might be uncomfortable.... you are an AMAZING woman 👑🔥💪💋🌹💋💞🌹💖
This aint all the marks this man has endured, the mental ones cut deep too. This man has my respect for what its worth, stay strong all the bros out there
Thank you for calling this out Chloe. I've dealt with my own abuse issues and it truly seems like most women think it's okay to beat on men when things don't go their way.
So many women attack me online for calling out abuse from women. I also call out abuse from men but it's rare that men attack me online for calling it out and that speaks volumes.
Dude, that poor guy. I know this is a small example but I ran for student body president for my highschool and lost by only 26 votes. I come to find later a lot of freshman voters voted my opponent because she was a woman and I'm a man. I asked her why she was running before the election and all she said is that she wanted to give a speech at graduation. I wanted to unite my school
I can relate I've went through it too. The justice system fails us horribly. My ex would kick me in the ribs , hold a knife to my throat if I'd refuse to have s3x with her. The only reason I was able to get away from her was my sister had to get involved. I hope he makes a speedy recovery stay strong brother.
What's even worse is that some women will jump to the conclusion that he did something to cause her to attack him. "He probably cheated." "He probably didn't listen to her." "He probably..." And notice how they use the word *probably* . They acknowledge that it's only a possibility, and yet they still see him as in the wrong. Why? Because he's a man, they refuse to accept that men can be victims too, and they'll do anything they can to stay with that point. Even if it means acknowledging that what they're accusing him of is baseless and has no real evidence to support it.
This is why always keep receipts when they start acting up so she doesn't have the power to destroy you, or at least destroy your bonds with family/friends and your ability to move on, especially when these flying monkeys that defend these sociopathic 304s be trying to f*ck with your image with say a new girl your dating/getting married to even when your proven innocent.
Because most women are creatures and they only care about themselves and what benefits them! It's disgusting but welcome to a fatherless Society where it's only going to get worse
You need to remember something. Men used to be the ones in charge. But then women rose up and got their rights after a while, which is all in good spirits, older generations of women go. But now they want it to be like the old times, the man doing everything for the woman, but they don't wanna admit it cause they like to claim the entire 'Oh, well women are independent if they wanna be' card.
I will always stand on we are as bad as each other, at 54 ive seen enough to prove this to me. Ive seen men absolutely destroy a woman, and ive seen a woman take off her heals and ram them in a guys face. And its getting worse on both sides, we are so violent its crazy.
I hope he recorded the whole incident not just the part he shared. That would help his case IMMENSELY. Feel for ya, man. Been there, done with that shit.
I had an ex, that was 1/4th my size (i'm 6'2") and she took my keys so I couldn't leave. I went into our bedroom and shut the door on her so I could be left alone, but she started banging on the door with such force, I laid myself against it to keep her from getting in, but she didn't even stop there. She then broke the door off the frame once she realized I was barricading myself in from her cause I didn't want to talk to her. Thankfully my roommates called the cops, but my dumb ass didn't want to ruin her life by having them take her away, so I said it was a misunderstanding, but I wouldn't hesitate to reach back to them if it happened again. Had the landlord evict her the next day. This girl was stronger then 10 men in her fit of rage, and still have ptsd to this day about it, almost 10 years later. It definitely happens to men.
I do think people turn a blind eye to man being abused. What happened to that man truly hurt me 😞 The sad thing is us men wont get nearly the amount of support. Thank you Rama for speaking up for what's right. Yes i don't condone abuse in any form or to anyone.
This is disgusting! Disgusting! I was abused by both my mother and father ive seen women knock the shit out of men and cry when they barely touch them back. Its sad that we as a species do these kinds of things to each other and i wish to god this man had some female friends whod teach her a lesson because one of these days shes going to press up on the wrong man and he could end her life very easily if he so wished. I get the feeling she knew this man wouldnt lay a finger on her and thats why she did what she did but still.
I agree with the wrong man part, some dudes are really bad too, they ain't gonna take this, the most is some could as least defend themselves or avoid her blows, but if she's in contact with the bad boys, it could be game over, BTW I'm so sorry to hear about your childhood, it's a sad & pity that this had to happen, wish you a hopeful recovery or at least a happy & safe future
As someone who's made and acted out fake wounds proffessionally, let me dispell any doubt that this is fake. There are things visible on his face that are nearly impossible to fake propperly
that's something that people lack and talk about it's not just women being abused but it can happen to men too and it's not mentioned or talked about and there are times where we don't question of what's happening to our male friends or even male cousin's that were close too. more people need to talk about this
I have 2 sons, 2 brothers and a dad, an abusive ex who broke my arm and i also work in a nursing home. From my experience, abuse is abuse. It doesnt matter the age or sex, abuse of any kinds is not acceptable. When i occasionally see elderly gentlemen come into my nursing home because they were abused, its truly heart breaking. Abuse of any kind, is not acceptable and no one deserves it. We are all human beings but unfortunately some humans are just toxic monsters.
My heart stuttered when I saw the guy's injuries, my word... Society needs to start seeing actions first. Actions define us, not things like gender. In every group of people, there will be the good and the bad. So don't focus on the whole group.
That's what happens when a man doesn't believe in hitting women and refuses to defend himself. The violent women take advantage of that. I went through that myself, and it only stopped after I finally decided to defend myself. Of course I was the bad guy and, but it did stop. What a coincidence.
If a girl is beating up on and you love tap them once they will instantly start to play victim and run to there momma bc you know damn well they don’t have a father or brothers if they are doing that shit💯👏🏼 I’m sure this dude had every chance to stop it but was just to scared to get locked up from false accusations
More like he was worried that defending himself would mean finding himself in a jail cell. Which is not the way it should be. She certainly should be in a cell not him.
@@billthewhovian Yeah but if men don't start defending themselves, then nothing will ever really change. The double standards will not be uncovered and people will not start standing up for the men who are unfairly treated in court.
I have had to threaten two of my sons exes for slapping him because he said something that they didn't like. I told both of those girls that I raised my son not to raise his hand to a woman. I then proceed to tell them that just because he's not supposed to hit a girl doesn't mean that I can't knock them out myself. To my knowledge neither one ever put a hand on my son again.
My step-Dad’s first wife used to hit him, throw things at him, and threaten to murder the kids if he ever left her. No one cared. And he felt trapped. That was decades ago. He eventually called her bluff, left her, met and married to my Mom, has a great relationship with his kids, grand kids, and his sons don’t really talk to their mother much.
Most women will ask what he did or say he deserves it. I went through it for 20 years with my ex. One day I woke up and told her she needed to leave. She left our kids and took the dogs. Yep she took the dogs instead of the kids which was fine with me. Because I raised my kids to be different than their mother
I guarantee without even checking out the comments on his video there's a bunch of people ignoring the fact that he looks like he's been in & lost a fight with a professional boxer & stupidly asking him what he did to provoke her.
surprisingly not, I've been reading through the comments and they're all pretty one-sided. Abuse is wrong no matter what is the one-sided the statement I'm getting from roughly 75% of the comments
I've been emotionally, verbally, & physically abused by women since I was like 5 or 6 years old even honestly. I never found the love of my life 'til 26yrs old, & that can even still change very dramatically, but I dont think it will. I've had women spit on me, talk trash to me, spread the most evil rimors you can think of for NO GOOD REASON AT ALL, I've LOVED EVERY WOMAN THAT I WANTED TO BE WITH, but everyone before this gal was a "Hussy," so forget all of them, my eyes are ONLY SET FOR THE WOMEN I TRULY LOVE, & THAT'S ALL THAT MATTERS PERIOD!!! She may be a lil' rough or rather rough at times, BUT FOR A GOOD REASON, & I STAND BY HER SIDE 25/8, FOREVER & ALWAYS!!! SHE HASN'T DONE ANYTHING YET AFTER ALMOST 2yrs TO RUIN ME OR DESTROY ME, I DON'T THINK SHE EVER WILL, WE'RE MEANT FOR ONE ANOTHER. THAT'S WHAT I TRULY BELIEVE AT LEAST, IN THE END.
It happened to me several times. I’ve been single for over 14 years as a result, it caused me PTSD, and made me miss out on a lot that I wanted in my life, most notably, kids.
I love reciprocity, even if my reciprocity is to make sure it permanently, and I cannot stress that word enough, doesn't come back afterwards... And I'm leaving it at that. Consider this hypothetical situation, taking into consideration what I just said: If a woman ever does to me just a fraction of what that man in the clip suffered... And I'll leave it at that. ... Reciprocity. Gotta love it.
Women think they can abuse men with impunity just because we're bigger and stronger than them. They think they've done something grand when 99% of the time men just don't fight back because then they would go to jail even if she threw the 1st or 15 punches.
That guy was raised to never hit a woman for any reason. That is straight up bullshit, she should have the same assault charges and jail time as any man would get. No guy would even get away with defending himself in that case. Sucks to be a man, with no good women around.
Nobody should have to deal with DV. At least women are believed and receive sympathy usually. The men often get made fun of or it's minimized because he's a man. And if he tries to stop her he'll go to jail even if she was the aggressor. It's disgusting 😢
The tragic and most devastating part of it is that the woman will not get jail time when it’s literally assault but if it were a woman the man would be in jail by the end of hour
A peaceful Aussie, I was with a woman from Birmingham, England for two and a half years. The first lease ran out and i had to get clear, although we stayed together for another year to keep trying until i finally had a couple of my lady friends help me out. Cheers ladies.
Time for her to go to prison...
😂 yah right
She's gonna get the "go to your room young lady" treatment 😒
Haha! Women going to prison for abusing men. What a novel idea!
If they get charged and sentenced. It's at max 1/3-1/4 of the time then it gets under halved
This poor man did not deserve this kind of brutality. He would literally be safer in Black Dolphin Prison than he would be with the woman who did this to him.
These women are so toxic. I’m so sick of the double standard. Thanks for calling this out it needs to be said
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@@fullcircleessentials yes I noticed this even as a little girl in the 80s and it’s just getting worse. I remember seeing a poster saying girls can do anything and I remember thinking but what about the boys why don’t they get a poster.
As a woman I 💯 support what Roma says and it’s about time as this isn’t equality. We need to support our men
@@philosophie8744 💯💯💯💯💯
When a man gets hit by a woman, he's told to "be a man".
When a woman gets hit by a man, has anyone ever told her to "be a woman?"
Toxic on a whole new level. Some women are pure evil!
My ex would attack me in my sleep. I'm a trained MMA fighter and would rationalize it like "at least it wasn't a dude" and It took years to tell my family. That all changed after she would accuse me of DV and I went to jail for it. Lost my job and came back to try to make things work for our son. The last straw was when she pulled a gun on me in front of our son. I wasn't on the lease so jail again. It's been 4 years since I've seen my son. I called the non emergency line for the cops to investigate and they basically laughed at me. The lawyer I saw said it doesn't look good for joint custody because of my DV arrests. Now I assume every woman is lying when they say they've been abused or even worse. I'm just numb to it all. I hope he pulls through.
How did things go after that?
Sorry this happened to you, only thing I consider good about this story is a remainder to always keep receipts via discreet recordings when she starts acting up, so that she can't cause so much bull$h*t, but sadly even with innocence easily proven, people you'd call friends and loyal family will still show who they are and how they think of you with these kind of things, which is another reason to have receipts so the flying monkeys can't screw with you moving on.
Good luck for your son, and I hope you're able to prove to him you're not whatever image of you his mother ingrains into his head.
Trust me, even without the DV arrests you had no chance. I have a completely clean criminal record, and my sons mom was still able to lie and manipulate and take advantage of the system in every possible way to not only destroy my life but also erase me from my sons life. All to pursue a guy she wasn't even with for a year. I'm sorry for what you're going through, truly I am. I know how dark this situation gets, try to remember you aren't alone and there is another side to all of it for a patient man.
Omg. I pray things change for the better for you... And here I am griping about my issues that pale in comparison...
@@noktumwhatever753I'm also sorry this happened to you... As a woman, they're awful. Cunning and manipulative.
@@noktumwhatever753 It's so crazy how commonplace this has become. I have 4 coworkers that are going through similar circumstances. Hell, my mom did it to my Dad and now nobody even visits my mom. Everyone visits my dad. The thing that sucks is it took over a decade for my siblings and I to actually realize what was going on. Our "justice system" is messed up. I'm sorry you're going through it too. This is the epidemic that nobody is talking about. So many kids are being raised without their fathers and it's not the fault of the Father. In most cases that I've witnessed it's a spiteful ex that hates the father more than she loves the child. Courts will go along with it because there's a financial incentive to.
It feels like you're genuinely the only one that calls this out. Genuinely hope your life goes well and you never get hurt, you're a treasure to the community.
Facts
She is the only one everyone else is busy crying over Cassie 🙄.
@@africaisking7817 i mean ppl can do both especially since Cassie was seen on camera getting physically fucked up by Diddy 😐😐🤦🏿♂️
@@wolfboy20 And Cassie received 30 Million Dollars from Diddy can we move on now ? She's a Woman she won got a huge payout set for life. How much did this guy get for being tortured ? How many millions did he get ? Do Men ever get anything ??
@@africaisking7817 She received that money with not too many questions asked for a reason and that video resurfacing after so long is the reason. If that video didn't come out then yeah ppl would've definitely moved on but its in rotation until something else comes along. & like i previously said, ppl can do both and call out the fuck shit on each situation.
Now for this guy, he definitely deserves millions of dollars for what was done to him because that shit is NOT OK! The main issue is the double standard when it comes to men who experience domestic violence like this in America. They usually get made fun of(by some men and women alike), they won't be taken seriously and even of the women does get arrested, it's highly likely that she'll only get a slap on the wrist unless she jas priors and even then its still a maybe that she'll be punished accordingly. Tbh they need to give the same amount of jail time for shit like this.
Poor guy I feel so bad for him. My bro got beat by his girlfriend and all of my friend's sister beat the crap out of her.
Yeah. But I also think about all these falsely accused, emotionally abused, gaslighted, depravated from sleep etc.
Good!
Womp womp 😊
Now that's the way to handle it.
Press charges. No excuses.
You don't decide to press charges, the police do. So any normal sized man gets told, "You should have just left the situation."
Oh my god! 😨
This is unacceptable! And the worst part is that people will stand beside the woman who beat this poor man up. W for the man for not holding any hate for others for this.
That kind of attitude has gone on since the days of Rome, if a man beat his wife he was totally austrosicized from society, and if he was beaten by his wife he was mocked for it. The only way to "win" is to not play the game unfortunately
@@bakeronaburner7833 Really. Know what the rule of thumb is?
@@kimberlyakin8908 - It's a method of measurement originating from the 17th century. What did you think it was?
@@RictusHolloweye NO it's Not.The rule of thumb Means a Man can Not beat His wife and Kids with a stick NO Bigger than his thumb.
@@kimberlyakin8908 - That's a myth. Please feel free to fact check me on that.
A former friend was whooping up on her man and after the 3rd punch to the ear I stepped over to her and told her if she hit him 1 more time I was going to do what she was doing to him to her. No one has the right to put hands on anyone especially if they claim to have love for that person
What's even more sad, is that he has every right to defend himself within reasonable bounds, but he'd be the one going to jail, not her.
Agreed least you can do is protect yourself. And not let a man or woman tee off on your face.
absolutely. As soon, as a woman gets stupid with me, or pushes my buttons to stress me out purposefully...I just walk away. they're done. I'm a Ghost...never utter a word to them again.
Honestly, if this man was less tolerant, the first few punches wouldn't have landed, and she'd have a few bones broken, but then she'd attempt to claim domestic violence, which, usually, is passed instead of his self-defense case.
No not if he was just defending himself he wouldn't. Gotta be able to prove it though.
@@1v1mebro_101 That's true, but let's be honest. Most cases are usually ending with the man getting arrested, even if it comes out she lied.
They dont turn a blind eye to or just ignorant. They think it's hilarious. nothing but pure hatred
Agreed
No argument here. It's despicable, contemptible and unacceptable.
Yeah, you see a girl doing a prank? It's just them smashing a frying pan on the bf's back or destroying his game system.
The gasp I gasped when I saw his face. We need more support groups for men.
Sadly feminist will shut those groups for not being "inclusive" and blame sexism.
hahahaha no one give a shit about men, or our feelings. smh lol We learn this at young age. If ya know, ya know.
Yeah it's a terrible sight that's for sure. Poor bloke hopefully he gets justice. I've seen a few of these images over the years they seem to be on the increase.
Too many have CONTEMPT for men and go out of their way to spread more CONTEMPT, it's why we never help and never approach now.
I agree.
Abuse is abuse, period.
Regardless of where it's coming from, it's wrong..
My best regards to this young man, way to stay strong brother, keep your head up..🍻😎
I seriously hope he's okay. He needs ice, therapy, and a restraining order against his absuser.
This happened to a good friend. His ex would get rage drunk and beat the shit out of him. He's 6'2" and she's like 5'1". The cops got called during one of these events and they arrested HIM for DV. I told him he had to video the next encounter or she could get full custody as they were getting a divorce. Sure enough, he filmed the next attack, cops showed up again. He showed them the video and they arrested her on the spot.
They're making things hard for guys in the west
Fake. They would try ANYTHING to not arrest a woman cause most (not all) try to claim sexism, and if that really happens, the cop could lose his job over it cause instead of dealing with it, they would rather not lose any reputation.
Corrupt cops for sure that needs to be exposed
God bless this dude for coming forward. I was regularly physically abused by my ex wife. Didn't dare touch a hair on her "perfect" little head...would have gone to jail. Had to tell dudes at work I was in a "Fight Club" to avoid the embarrassment. Even had my boss take me aside and let me know that my "outside interests" were becoming a distraction to others and they had to stop. Finally opened up to HR at work and got the help I needed to get out of that abusive relationship. Don't suffer in silence. There is help. I pray any man reading this gets it.
yah, no...if you come at me with the intention to physically hurt me, i will defend myself and i dont care if you are a man or a woman
"Abuse knows no gender" - Roma's Greatest Quote of 2024.
Gets your hands up bro!!
Restrain her.
Don’t be brutalized, get out AND report it.
If she would have had any marks on her from him protecting himself he would have been labeled the abuser. He has a whole story time about it
If more people in the world had the same compassion as you we would live in a better place
WHAT THE FUCK????
The stigma of reporting female abusers is real. Any abuser is unacceptable whether they are male or female.
But one gets laughed at and told to man up while the other gets a sympathy blanket.
@@ryan_trice You worded it better than I did.
No thhhank you, hopefully more women will see this. “Abuse knows no gender”
Exactly. It's Power base not gender.
Yup. But the system takes abuse seriously depending on the gender.
@@ryan_trice truth
@@ryan_trice unfortunately so, it should be the same. Regardless of age, race, gender, religion, politics, money… etc.
I subscribed to his tik tok. No one deserves to be hurt. Men are important. Love is not abuse. My mom stayed with someone who hurt us. Abuse isn't normal
Fr stop focusing on the gender, start focusing on the action
I have to say and I'm not even joking... Chloe ❤️🔥 you are the only one I know who can express things EXACTLY the way they are without running from the vulnerability of the situation... you address things directly and don't try to mask the vulnerable side of things just because it might be uncomfortable.... you are an AMAZING woman 👑🔥💪💋🌹💋💞🌹💖
This aint all the marks this man has endured, the mental ones cut deep too. This man has my respect for what its worth, stay strong all the bros out there
Thank you for calling this out Chloe.
I've dealt with my own abuse issues and it truly seems like most women think it's okay to beat on men when things don't go their way.
That is horrific.
So many women attack me online for calling out abuse from women. I also call out abuse from men but it's rare that men attack me online for calling it out and that speaks volumes.
Thank you for standing up for us men ❤
This is so sad. Im sorry he went through that. I really hope that justice was served and she got what she deserved.
I would wager that the 52% is much higher because men are far less likely to report it.
That pesky bear at it again. 😊
Dude, that poor guy. I know this is a small example but I ran for student body president for my highschool and lost by only 26 votes. I come to find later a lot of freshman voters voted my opponent because she was a woman and I'm a man. I asked her why she was running before the election and all she said is that she wanted to give a speech at graduation. I wanted to unite my school
It's sad how a spoiled little brat can ruin everything
Thank you to everyone who speaks out about this kind of stuff.
As a man, I would gladly be alone in a forest with a bear. They are friend shaped!
I can relate I've went through it too. The justice system fails us horribly. My ex would kick me in the ribs , hold a knife to my throat if I'd refuse to have s3x with her. The only reason I was able to get away from her was my sister had to get involved. I hope he makes a speedy recovery stay strong brother.
What's even worse is that some women will jump to the conclusion that he did something to cause her to attack him. "He probably cheated." "He probably didn't listen to her." "He probably..." And notice how they use the word *probably* . They acknowledge that it's only a possibility, and yet they still see him as in the wrong. Why? Because he's a man, they refuse to accept that men can be victims too, and they'll do anything they can to stay with that point. Even if it means acknowledging that what they're accusing him of is baseless and has no real evidence to support it.
This is why always keep receipts when they start acting up so she doesn't have the power to destroy you, or at least destroy your bonds with family/friends and your ability to move on, especially when these flying monkeys that defend these sociopathic 304s be trying to f*ck with your image with say a new girl your dating/getting married to even when your proven innocent.
Because most women are creatures and they only care about themselves and what benefits them! It's disgusting but welcome to a fatherless Society where it's only going to get worse
You need to remember something. Men used to be the ones in charge. But then women rose up and got their rights after a while, which is all in good spirits, older generations of women go. But now they want it to be like the old times, the man doing everything for the woman, but they don't wanna admit it cause they like to claim the entire 'Oh, well women are independent if they wanna be' card.
Will that woman get 5yrs jail for assault like He would have gotten if he did that to Her? Women Deserve Equality.
I gave my heart to a video game character long ago, poor fella.
I will always stand on we are as bad as each other, at 54 ive seen enough to prove this to me. Ive seen men absolutely destroy a woman, and ive seen a woman take off her heals and ram them in a guys face. And its getting worse on both sides, we are so violent its crazy.
I hope he recorded the whole incident not just the part he shared. That would help his case IMMENSELY.
Feel for ya, man. Been there, done with that shit.
I had an ex, that was 1/4th my size (i'm 6'2") and she took my keys so I couldn't leave. I went into our bedroom and shut the door on her so I could be left alone, but she started banging on the door with such force, I laid myself against it to keep her from getting in, but she didn't even stop there. She then broke the door off the frame once she realized I was barricading myself in from her cause I didn't want to talk to her. Thankfully my roommates called the cops, but my dumb ass didn't want to ruin her life by having them take her away, so I said it was a misunderstanding, but I wouldn't hesitate to reach back to them if it happened again. Had the landlord evict her the next day. This girl was stronger then 10 men in her fit of rage, and still have ptsd to this day about it, almost 10 years later. It definitely happens to men.
I am glad vro had the courage to get out and publicly state this issue, many will mock and scorn men who are abused when they call the cops.
They want equality right. So equal rights and equal lefts !
I'd never choose a bear over a woman, but I'd definitely choose a "cougar" over an entitled, sexist. 😂😂😂
I do think people turn a blind eye to man being abused. What happened to that man truly hurt me 😞 The sad thing is us men wont get nearly the amount of support. Thank you Rama for speaking up for what's right. Yes i don't condone abuse in any form or to anyone.
That’s absolutely horrible 😢 my heart hurts for him. No one period deserves for someone else to lay hands on them.
This is disgusting! Disgusting! I was abused by both my mother and father ive seen women knock the shit out of men and cry when they barely touch them back. Its sad that we as a species do these kinds of things to each other and i wish to god this man had some female friends whod teach her a lesson because one of these days shes going to press up on the wrong man and he could end her life very easily if he so wished. I get the feeling she knew this man wouldnt lay a finger on her and thats why she did what she did but still.
I agree with the wrong man part, some dudes are really bad too, they ain't gonna take this, the most is some could as least defend themselves or avoid her blows, but if she's in contact with the bad boys, it could be game over, BTW I'm so sorry to hear about your childhood, it's a sad & pity that this had to happen, wish you a hopeful recovery or at least a happy & safe future
Equal rights, equal fights. Let's wrestle Roma and show them how to really do it. All valid points in the video.
Absolutely DISGUSTING double standards!!
As someone who's made and acted out fake wounds proffessionally, let me dispell any doubt that this is fake. There are things visible on his face that are nearly impossible to fake propperly
My heart goes out for him. ❤
Society always turns a blind eye lol
that's something that people lack and talk about it's not just women being abused but it can happen to men too and it's not mentioned or talked about and there are times where we don't question of what's happening to our male friends or even male cousin's that were close too.
more people need to talk about this
the abuse can stop bro
just leave no one man or woman deserves to be treated that way.
I have 2 sons, 2 brothers and a dad, an abusive ex who broke my arm and i also work in a nursing home. From my experience, abuse is abuse. It doesnt matter the age or sex, abuse of any kinds is not acceptable. When i occasionally see elderly gentlemen come into my nursing home because they were abused, its truly heart breaking. Abuse of any kind, is not acceptable and no one deserves it. We are all human beings but unfortunately some humans are just toxic monsters.
Lemme guess. Consequences to her - ZERO.
I hope he got away from his GF and filed a restraining order. DV don't discriminate.
My heart stuttered when I saw the guy's injuries, my word... Society needs to start seeing actions first. Actions define us, not things like gender. In every group of people, there will be the good and the bad. So don't focus on the whole group.
It’s how the law treats women, like defenseless children, and women like that card. They enjoy having advantages on the field of the courts.
That's what happens when a man doesn't believe in hitting women and refuses to defend himself. The violent women take advantage of that. I went through that myself, and it only stopped after I finally decided to defend myself. Of course I was the bad guy and, but it did stop. What a coincidence.
If a girl is beating up on and you love tap them once they will instantly start to play victim and run to there momma bc you know damn well they don’t have a father or brothers if they are doing that shit💯👏🏼 I’m sure this dude had every chance to stop it but was just to scared to get locked up from false accusations
Waiting for the "Oh He MuSt HaVe AsKeD fOr It" I really hope she goes to jail for LIFE!
I hate when abuse happens and when the guy gets pissed it's abusive but when a man is bruised up they just get laughed at...
Domestic violence is unacceptable, regardless of gender
Seeing this man's face just breaks my heart. This is beyond fucked up, it's outright insane.
I wish he would have defended himself. He probably didn't want to hurt her.
More like he was worried that defending himself would mean finding himself in a jail cell. Which is not the way it should be. She certainly should be in a cell not him.
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Yeah but if men don't start defending themselves, then nothing will ever really change. The double standards will not be uncovered and people will not start standing up for the men who are unfairly treated in court.
I have had to threaten two of my sons exes for slapping him because he said something that they didn't like. I told both of those girls that I raised my son not to raise his hand to a woman. I then proceed to tell them that just because he's not supposed to hit a girl doesn't mean that I can't knock them out myself. To my knowledge neither one ever put a hand on my son again.
THIS WOMAN DONE WENT OFF ON ALL THE REST OF YOU WOMEN😂😂😂😂 They are out there though...I hope I never find one like that
My step-Dad’s first wife used to hit him, throw things at him, and threaten to murder the kids if he ever left her. No one cared. And he felt trapped.
That was decades ago. He eventually called her bluff, left her, met and married to my Mom, has a great relationship with his kids, grand kids, and his sons don’t really talk to their mother much.
Most women will ask what he did or say he deserves it. I went through it for 20 years with my ex. One day I woke up and told her she needed to leave. She left our kids and took the dogs. Yep she took the dogs instead of the kids which was fine with me. Because I raised my kids to be different than their mother
Horrible. Abuse knows no gender! ✔️
I guarantee without even checking out the comments on his video there's a bunch of people ignoring the fact that he looks like he's been in & lost a fight with a professional boxer & stupidly asking him what he did to provoke her.
surprisingly not, I've been reading through the comments and they're all pretty one-sided. Abuse is wrong no matter what is the one-sided the statement I'm getting from roughly 75% of the comments
thank you for always being a good teacher roma
Hey Roma your videos make
Me feel better thank you your an amazing woman.
I've been emotionally, verbally, & physically abused by women since I was like 5 or 6 years old even honestly.
I never found the love of my life 'til 26yrs old, & that can even still change very dramatically, but I dont think it will.
I've had women spit on me, talk trash to me, spread the most evil rimors you can think of for NO GOOD REASON AT ALL, I've LOVED EVERY WOMAN THAT I WANTED TO BE WITH, but everyone before this gal was a "Hussy," so forget all of them, my eyes are ONLY SET FOR THE WOMEN I TRULY LOVE, & THAT'S ALL THAT MATTERS PERIOD!!!
She may be a lil' rough or rather rough at times, BUT FOR A GOOD REASON, & I STAND BY HER SIDE 25/8, FOREVER & ALWAYS!!!
SHE HASN'T DONE ANYTHING YET AFTER ALMOST 2yrs TO RUIN ME OR DESTROY ME, I DON'T THINK SHE EVER WILL, WE'RE MEANT FOR ONE ANOTHER.
THAT'S WHAT I TRULY BELIEVE AT LEAST, IN THE END.
It happened to me several times. I’ve been single for over 14 years as a result, it caused me PTSD, and made me miss out on a lot that I wanted in my life, most notably, kids.
No one has the right to do that. No one.
If we dont call this behavior out, its only going to get worse.
Gawd dang...and he didn't do anything at least to defend/protect himself? Dude needs to say goodbye
I'm glad you're saying it
This poor sweet man. I hope he heals from this and finds someone who treasures him ❤.
This dude got this way for a reason he abused her and force her to have sex with him along with other shit he did this poor man nothing
I love reciprocity, even if my reciprocity is to make sure it permanently, and I cannot stress that word enough, doesn't come back afterwards... And I'm leaving it at that.
Consider this hypothetical situation, taking into consideration what I just said: If a woman ever does to me just a fraction of what that man in the clip suffered... And I'll leave it at that.
... Reciprocity. Gotta love it.
He obviously stood there and took it. So sad but what would make him tough is to leave her and never turn back
Thing is, if he swung back hed be the one going to jail.
I'd be like get ready to scrap. Equal rights mean equal lefts. 😊
Thank you Roma.
Use your experience as a tool, not a weapon... good words to live by Chloe.
Their gfs will ask, what did he do to her?
Women think they can abuse men with impunity just because we're bigger and stronger than them. They think they've done something grand when 99% of the time men just don't fight back because then they would go to jail even if she threw the 1st or 15 punches.
That guy was raised to never hit a woman for any reason. That is straight up bullshit, she should have the same assault charges and jail time as any man would get.
No guy would even get away with defending himself in that case.
Sucks to be a man, with no good women around.
Yes. You're smarter than most.
Nobody should have to deal with DV. At least women are believed and receive sympathy usually. The men often get made fun of or it's minimized because he's a man. And if he tries to stop her he'll go to jail even if she was the aggressor. It's disgusting 😢
I’ll be honest. I’ve been wanting to meet an abusive woman, but I’m not even good enough for them
The tragic and most devastating part of it is that the woman will not get jail time when it’s literally assault but if it were a woman the man would be in jail by the end of hour
Truth!
Ive been here a few times its so difficult for a guy to let himself admit thats not good for anybody especially themselves
A peaceful Aussie, I was with a woman from Birmingham, England for two and a half years. The first lease ran out and i had to get clear, although we stayed together for another year to keep trying until i finally had a couple of my lady friends help me out. Cheers ladies.
My last 2 relationships. And they are extremely good at twisting it and playing victim and getting away with it