Ik it’s horrible. And it’s happened to me quite a few times. Like I can’t get a good grip or one of my fingers can’t fully wrap around their hand and is more on their palm which is awkward as hell and I hate it because I want to give a nice firm manly handshake.
Tomorrow I am hopefully going to shake the hand of the man who raised the girl who I love. No it is not her Dad, but it is her Paps. This man has molded the one who I love into the beautiful women I know today. I have so much to say to this man, and this video helped me in my time of need. I don't want to pussy out and skip the chance to tell this man how much I admire and respect him. I respect this video because I want to give this man the best handshake in the world. He deserves it :)
***** There was a time when a handshake was considered to be a contract. Then the lawyers got involved and ruined everything!!. That's the shame of it all. I was raised in the 50's and 60's, when a handshake was not only a greeting but a sign of respect. The newer generations follow what Tim Stiffler-Dean refers to in his post. The loss of respect for people has become too common-place and is one of the sure signs of social collapse in this country.
Randy Menard Amen to that! I was raised in the 80's and my father taught me how to do a proper handshake when I was a small boy. Not all, but most guys I meet in their 20's can't shake hands properly, or shake hands like a woman. If I ever have a son, men everywhere can rest assured that he'll learn a proper handshake. I also make a point to shake hands with my junior high school students and correct them when they get it wrong. Doing my part, albeit a small part, to being back tradition and respect.
In my personal experience, I have always shaken women's hands with just my fingers. Back it up with a pleasant, confident salutation. Usually when I see a woman extend her hand with a bent wrist and a slightly downturned palm that means fingers only. Most men extend their hands with a straight wrist and a somewhat upturned palm. A few women I've met will go palm-to-palm, but that is overwhelmingly used between men as far as I've observed.
As a female, I definitely prefer to shake hands in a business setting. It establishes a rapport as equals and places me within the discussion. It seems strange to be part of a group being introduced, and have handshakes going on around me but none extended to myself. Thoughts?
My handshake brings all the boys to the yard, And they're like It's better than yours, Damn right it's better than yours, I can teach you, But I have to charge
@@KlynerKaiOffical Me neither, and with the way things are going we won't be shaking people's hands for much longer. Whether it be because everybody hates each other or because everybody is afraid of germs.
The laptop in the background scared me. I am not used to these new contraptions nowadays. It's something straight out of those dime store science-fiction comics the kids get infatuated in.
+Brinck Spend several years building strongman levels of grip strength and if they don't let go crush their hand into pulp while yelling rape as loud as you can. 60% of the time it works 100% of the time.
Hmm, it says don’t offer a handshake if someone is in a conversation with someone else. But their conversation could last a long time and what if you need to leave and say goodbye?
why do i think the narrator man is just watching him in a dark room with multiply camera watching his every move whareing no pants when hes watching him
Question from a lady: how to shake hands with men and not come across as aggressive or strange? Women rarely extend hands to shake when greeting another women, but it's about 50/50 when meeting men. In a business place of mixed genders and hierarchies, what sort of handshakes are appropriate?
I say it should be completely gender-neutral. Personally as a man, I would much rather have a woman give a firm handshake than a soft finger-layover thingy or whatever that's called.
+Jacob Woolley Here in Spain we only shake hand with men, with a woman, you must give two kisses in her cheeks. That's important if you travel to Spain.
here in argentina to the man is a hand shake and to the wonem a kiss. some man use kiss to salute another man, but that is common just in the great citys or when the persons have to much afect.
Always hold your drink in your left hand at a party - then your right hand is always dry and warm and ready for a manly handshake.
Egbert Wadman great idea, let’s just do that then
Also, keep you hand on top of other while handshaking, thats the most important sign of being a dominant male.
@@hanma1705 a dominant handshake can signal a lack of respect towards the other person, especially to an older man
Or vise versa if you're left handed.
You never shake left handed
I miss these types of AoM videos. I wish they still made them like this.
"You don't get the job."
"But why?"
"Because you hear voices and talk to them."
"Oh right."
FIRMLY GRASP IT!!
lol!
Poor Squidward
Is narrator man a real person he sounds so perfect
From the Archives.
It reminded me of the old Disney movies...lovely executed!
@Art of Manliness what about like my grand dad grabbing from the mid fore arm
Super Archives
There is nothing worse than someone grabbing your hand and closing it before you get your grip. It forces you to give a pansy handshake.
Exactly. It's like they're out to get you for no reason.
Facts
Ik it’s horrible. And it’s happened to me quite a few times. Like I can’t get a good grip or one of my fingers can’t fully wrap around their hand and is more on their palm which is awkward as hell and I hate it because I want to give a nice firm manly handshake.
That's why you always spread fingers before transitioning into a handshake. Impossible to stop.
I cannot express how much I *hate* a deadfish grip. I don't know why it infuriates me, but it does.
Some people are just too shy.
@@anibalhyrulesantihero7021 Some people dont seem to even try and then seem surprised when you try to shake their limp hand properly.
@@bludgerabled It really saddens me when people do a deadfish grip. 🙁
Same thing with bad body language and quick head movements, I just think "C'mon, man, you can do better than this."
I agree. It really is awful.
DP: Bill was fired because he only knew how to handshake... nothing more.
0:42, Thank you for providing me a new insult to call others...Lol
Emasculate mass of inanity
Lol
Emasculated mass of inanity.
Tomorrow I am hopefully going to shake the hand of the man who raised the girl who I love. No it is not her Dad, but it is her Paps. This man has molded the one who I love into the beautiful women I know today. I have so much to say to this man, and this video helped me in my time of need. I don't want to pussy out and skip the chance to tell this man how much I admire and respect him. I respect this video because I want to give this man the best handshake in the world. He deserves it :)
LMAO, How did it go?
weird
I don't find it weird.
@@andrewhales9771 calling people weird with that pfp
6 years later, are y'all married?
New video. Please share!
***** There was a time when a handshake was considered to be a contract. Then the lawyers got involved and ruined everything!!. That's the shame of it all.
I was raised in the 50's and 60's, when a handshake was not only a greeting but a sign of respect. The newer generations follow what Tim Stiffler-Dean refers to in his post.
The loss of respect for people has become too common-place and is one of the sure signs of social collapse in this country.
Randy Menard
Amen to that! I was raised in the 80's and my father taught me how to do a proper handshake when I was a small boy. Not all, but most guys I meet in their 20's can't shake hands properly, or shake hands like a woman. If I ever have a son, men everywhere can rest assured that he'll learn a proper handshake. I also make a point to shake hands with my junior high school students and correct them when they get it wrong. Doing my part, albeit a small part, to being back tradition and respect.
In the Book, The Art of Manliness it says not to shake ladies hands. It says to let them extend first.
"thank you, narrator man!"
Love the old-school educational video theme!
I love AoM instructionals!!!
I never knew a video on how to shake hands could be so entertaining!
I love these
2:29 sure will, thanks for the advice
I can feel the bones rattling in your arm, nice to meet you Rattlebones!
I love the music they use for these.
Miss these instructional videos
I give them the Vulcan nerve pinch.
I love the music, like, a lot!
Awesome video! Good on ya mate... Please keep the series going.
I so look forward to these vids the style is great
Bill Always Learns.
Bill Is Experienced.
I Like Bill.
Bonus tip- warm up ur hand, it will make u seem more inviting
learning the art of handshak in the age of pandamic 2020
Imagine still being back in 2020.
I love these vids
This needs a post 2020 update 😂
Thank you Brett!
Only true 2010's kids remember handshakes.
"GO GET `EM ,TIGER!"
This was a great video.
In my personal experience, I have always shaken women's hands with just my fingers. Back it up with a pleasant, confident salutation. Usually when I see a woman extend her hand with a bent wrist and a slightly downturned palm that means fingers only. Most men extend their hands with a straight wrist and a somewhat upturned palm. A few women I've met will go palm-to-palm, but that is overwhelmingly used between men as far as I've observed.
welcome to 2024, equality baby!
As a female, I definitely prefer to shake hands in a business setting. It establishes a rapport as equals and places me within the discussion. It seems strange to be part of a group being introduced, and have handshakes going on around me but none extended to myself. Thoughts?
Great Video
Good to know. Thanks for the tip.
a great video!
Love it!
great video
I really like this kind videos.
Can you do a video on 'how to behave manly on a party or (preferably) reception' ?
An emasculated mass of inanity... this channel is great :D
Where can I find music like this? I'm doing a similar 50's instructional video for a drama class.
Should i practice now
My handshake brings all the boys to the yard,
And they're like
It's better than yours,
Damn right it's better than yours,
I can teach you,
But I have to charge
+E SC My sides haha
Gau
There's something different bout these almost a decade old comments
They be bussin fr fr
@@aresetramadiraizel8810 hi I'm still alive
@@Eysc Hope you're in good health and in a better place than when you wrote the original comment mate
These are great. Thanks for being a man
awesome
Bill got rizz 🥶
go get em tiger
Who's watching this during the COVID 19 soft lockdown?
Yes, I don’t know how I got here!
@@KlynerKaiOffical Me neither, and with the way things are going we won't be shaking people's hands for much longer.
Whether it be because everybody hates each other or because everybody is afraid of germs.
Christian Leitel Agreed, the worlds being all weird now.
@@KlynerKaiOffical Stay safe brother 🙏.
7 years later, this may not be the best advice
Why ?
@@bhbh820 covid, I think is what I meant when I wrote it
Thanks Narrator Man :)
Awesome video, though you probably should have mentioned something about gloved handshakes.
I love how these videos are in black in white, and the idea that they could of been watched by grandpa in his days.
This is 2013. The rules for men have changed since 1950. Try to get up to date.
Is it the same with women?
WHAT SONG IS THIS? SOMEONE PLEASE?
May *_The LORD,God_* protect you and your family in The Name Of *Jesus*
I’m a girl but I’m totally using all of these tips! 😂
Ay might as well, girls need to know how to do it too.
The laptop in the background scared me. I am not used to these new contraptions nowadays. It's something straight out of those dime store science-fiction comics the kids get infatuated in.
Best video's on UA-cam.
Whoever disagrees is a little emasculated mass of inanity.
What about dap?
Old school rule is you let her extend her hand first. Also, remove your glove unless you are both workmen wearing gloves.
Who narrated it? DC Douglas?
namaste
"Go get'em, tiger!"
That's helpful but like lol that sweaty handprint
"Directed by Jordan Crowder"
Any relation to Steven Crowder?
his brother
When shaking a woman's hand, would you loosen your grip slightly or the same grip to both genders
+Gary Lehl I usually change my grip based on gender, but also body type, age, et cetera.
Harder with women so they think your super tough and have sex with u
I’ve found that women tend to squeeze harder, so I meet them wherever they’re at. If they squeeze 100% I squeeze 100%.
@@gregsalyer8168 they have to compensate unfortunately comes off as silly
You shouldn’t shake a woman’s hand.
Also add absolutely no shaking hands in the locker room or just out of the restroom.
Is Jordan Crowder related to Steven Crowder?
Also, dead-lift. Without straps if you can.
What to do when the other person doesn't release your hand? That always gets so awkward.
Say "let go of my hans freak"
+Brinck Spend several years building strongman levels of grip strength and if they don't let go crush their hand into pulp while yelling rape as loud as you can. 60% of the time it works 100% of the time.
lol@@YoungGzBlitz
I loved the video, but I cannot possibly be the only person who noticed the laptop in the background of a black and white video :P
Im 15 and i have my first job interview, wanted to make a good impression
God damn I did all this and I was still left hanging. Nice to know it wan't all my fault.
Hmm, it says don’t offer a handshake if someone is in a conversation with someone else. But their conversation could last a long time and what if you need to leave and say goodbye?
Interrupt, apologise for interrupting, tell them that you're leaving now and wanted to say goodbye
This guy loves Teddy!!! Me too!!!
Girl on the Calender - Clive Richardson
Say, is that Jimmy Stewart on the right?
I do the death grip
why do i think the narrator man is just watching him in a dark room with multiply camera watching his every move whareing no pants when hes watching him
Firmly grasp it in your hand.. Firmly grasp it... FIRLMY GRASP IT!!!
I need this for wrestling 😭
Is that Jordan Crowder??
I swear to god I thought he said “I’m afraid I’m gonna shit my pants”
Keep goin right
Oh, and yes, grasp her hand fully, but use the amount of pressure you would use to hold full glass of iced tea.
It's not just you. It is awkward, I always feel like I have to do this dainty handshake which is just unnatural.
THEY FORGOT, "LOOK YOUR ACQUAINTANCE IN THE EYE!"
Most important part.....
nice.∈▓:-)
Firmly grasp it, Firmly Grasp it!, I SAID FIRMLY GRASP IT!!!
I hate when people shake my hand too long
Nice, this is such a lost art. A handshake as simple as it is, is something that a man needs to take pride in.
Question from a lady: how to shake hands with men and not come across as aggressive or strange? Women rarely extend hands to shake when greeting another women, but it's about 50/50 when meeting men. In a business place of mixed genders and hierarchies, what sort of handshakes are appropriate?
I say it should be completely gender-neutral. Personally as a man, I would much rather have a woman give a firm handshake than a soft finger-layover thingy or whatever that's called.
LOL hilarious!
You forgot the rule about shaking hands with a woman. Only do so if her hand is offered to you.
Jacob Woolley Yes, that's an important one.
+TheCrushmaster Why?
+Jacob Woolley Here in Spain we only shake hand with men, with a woman, you must give two kisses in her cheeks. That's important if you travel to Spain.
Jacob Woolley
I'm from Poland and here you kiss woman's hand instead of shaking it :)
here in argentina to the man is a hand shake and to the wonem a kiss. some man use kiss to salute another man, but that is common just in the great citys or when the persons have to much afect.